Dating WL or ML

[Rayhp]

Hi,
I recently started dating a WL after meeting in the shop. Has anyone else done this before? And how did you feel about it?

[Niceguy11]

Hi,
I recently started dating a WL after meeting in the shop. Has anyone else done this before? And how did you feel about it?

All I can say is end it right now. All it will bring is mental anguish and nothing but stress. It hasn't happened to me as I have always only had friendships with WL's, mainly regulars and I have heard all their stories from dating customers.

I don't speak to my regular anymore and sort of glad the friendship has ended because all it bought was stress and exhaustion. Stop the relationship before it gets serious because sooner or later, shit will hit the fan, you'll be heartbroken and most likely back to square one.

You are better off meeting a girl outside the shop. Trust me.

[kingwally]

All I can say is end it right now. All it will bring is mental anguish and nothing but stress. It hasn't happened to me as I have always only had friendships with WL's, mainly regulars and I have heard all their stories from dating customers.

I don't speak to my regular anymore and sort of glad the friendship has ended because all it bought was stress and exhaustion. Stop the relationship before it gets serious because sooner or later, shit will hit the fan, you'll be heartbroken and most likely back to square one.

You are better off meeting a girl outside the shop. Trust me.

Wise words indeed ! BY all means fuck them in the shop or even outside but never get in a relationship with them....you will go fucking mental with anxiety.

[GoldfishMan]

Oh brother another one of these threads.

[quackm2002]

Jesus - not again. Niceguy, you must have an orgasm as soon as you see this topic as you’re always one of the first onto it

[Rayhp]

Wise words indeed ! BY all means fuck them in the shop or even outside but never get in a relationship with them....you will go fucking mental with anxiety.

I’m happy just to fuck her. She never ask for any money. She is the one pushing for the relationship. Time to back away.

[blitz]

Well done Rayhp for starting the 151st thread on the exact same topic. Someone lock this thread before niceguy writes another essay on the do's and don'ts of dating a WL.
Or am I confusing niceguy with cuteguy? Either way this thread can fuck off.

[GoldfishMan]

Jesus - not again. Niceguy, you must have an orgasm as soon as you see this topic as you’re always one of the first onto it
Too right! How many of these f-ed up threads do we need? Honestly I've had such a bad experience only as a friend of a WL, not even dating, that I really can't imagine why anyone would consider dating them?
They have such a tendency to lie about everything. I mean, they have to lie about their work... think about it. That's half their lives that needs to be hidden behind lies. That kind of shit will instill in them the habit of lying. Every time they are faced with a problem in life, they will reach for the only tool they know how to use to fix problems... Lie.
Like with a normal friend, you be kind to them, you get a great thank you and warmth and appreciation. With WL, all you will get is someone who thinks there's more they can get out of you. It's really a bizarro world they live in.

[alc]

Hi,
I recently started dating a WL after meeting in the shop. Has anyone else done this before? And how did you feel about it?

Just a single piece of advice. Stay away from this site. You really don't want to see an AR of someone making your lovely lady gag.

[Niceguy11]

Well done Rayhp for starting the 151st thread on the exact same topic. Someone lock this thread before niceguy writes another essay on the do's and don'ts of dating a WL.
Or am I confusing niceguy with cuteguy? Either way this thread can fuck off.

Yes I agree, this thread has been overkilled but at the end of the day, people can post what ever the fuck they want. Yes, I know its the million time someone has started a thread about this topic.

[asiafever]

https://youtu.be/79i2YKaDjJ4

Skip to about 2.10 in the clip. Sums it up pretty well.

[D.Li]

Unfortunately . . . We're not alone and that's why we're here and yes, and sadly there's 2 options . . .

Option 1: Walk away, saves you pain and torture to your insecurity and heartbreak. Find a non-WL GF who love you for who you are . . .

Option 2: You need a really strong will power to date a WL, and f you ever want to try it's really a low chance gamble on whether they like you more or you like her more. If she ain't the ONE, she's just ain't the one bro. In many fact, they feel you and we're just that amazing at sex ;) The only rule is, you can't love them more for what they do for a living.

Scenario 1: If they're working as a WL during the relationship, oh man you've failed . . . walk away right now . . . sorry boys, but hang on . . . it's not all over . . . if her plan is to make money, here's the deal and the strategy . . . convince her you'll wait until she makes the money and if she does quit as a WL for you (in most cases she'll do a massage job + extras ;) ) . . . and you might have just made it, however if she's on a working visa and you're not ready to commit, I'd suggest it's not worth it cos you'll be back to [1].

Scenario 2: Don't visit her her shop during the relationship, sounds easy, but fk . . . it's not, you feel insecure and just want to pay to see her everyday, but it's quite annoying for her and ruins her trust with you pretty quick. Checking on her and sometimes stalking isn't the best plan at all, I'd suggest end the relationship now and fk her at the shop.

Scenario 3: Oh man, this topic is getting hard . . . You're not her only BF . . . she's got 3, 4, 5 Wait, hang on, what? Yes, you're not her only regular lols . . . fk another text message, who is it? Not sure how you can possibly ignore the text messages from her regulars. If you can, god bless you~ Don't look at her phone during the relationship, it will sink your ship made from vibranium . . . at first, you wont notice it much, but all the time constant text messages, constant calls . . . the fault isn't the regulars nor hers, it's only business. To her, you're a replaceable asset, nothing to her other than a bloke giving up his rent money to see her on dates, not like non-WL who watches you wallet and help you save. The world a WL lives is painful for herself and everyone around her, she needs to lie to her family and close friends, not something she'd ever be proud of, and you will only remind her of her past...and vice versa to you.

Think it summarises the answer, I'd pick Option 1, but at the end it's your life and it's your call :) Happy Punting~

[warwick1]

You lost me after Option 1.........ZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZ

[aussiegaigin]

Yes I agree, this thread has been overkilled but at the end of the day, people can post what ever the fuck they want. Yes, I know its the million time someone has started a thread about this topic.

There have been lots of posts about it, but they quickly get buried at the bottom of the index; how far back do we expect new members to go looking for specific topics to see if they have been broached before?

Best advice I can give the OP is to pay this girl her fee each time you fuck her. That way you will both understand that it is a strictly business arrangement. I socialise with a ML on this basis, and it works quite well.

[annintofu]

Not sure what sort of dating OP is talking about, but if it's with a view to get married, then for older punters (over 35), it's easy, take a good hard look at yourself in the mirror, and a good hard look at your balance sheet, and ask yourself will I make a good partner of that 25yo girl? reality usually sinks in and drives out any wishful thinking.

If it's just casual dating to have some fun (i.e you are not falling in love, but falling in lust), then why not? (if the girl feels the same way)

Speaking of serious dating to get married, I can't help wondering if guys who love punting actually know what they are getting into when marrying a girl (any girl, not necessary a WL) he's madly in love with :
family chores, constant arguments, difficulties at work and dealing with relationship with family members, and god forbidden, kids.
Heavy burdens like these can quickly kill off any spark you had with the girl. I'd say marriage is a risky endeavor that most people are ill-qualified to undertake, unless they are prepared to get a seriously lower quality of life.

Looking all around me, I can easily spot angry wife / sulky husband / pointless life everywhere that lead to the only solution possible : divorce.

[yug]

Hi,
I recently started dating a WL after meeting in the shop. Has anyone else done this before?


Nobody has done that. Only you.



And how did you feel about it?


You feel like you are on a cusp of orgasm every minute of the day.
So I heard.




She never ask for any money.


Oh yeah. That makes it better.
Obviously, she is a saint.
You should conclude from that she has no human flaws and that she loves you. 100%.




She is the one pushing for the relationship. Time to back away.


No shit!
It seems you can reach an epiphany on your own.

[surething91]

after meeting in the shop.
Come on man, don't be naive!

The only maybe would be: you are around the same age than her, you met her outside the shop, she doesn't need you to get the citizenship.

Otherwise sorry to say but the chances you should run are 99,99%!

[f6tornado]

Good luck. You'll need lots of it.

[Mrnice1234]

Maybe open relationship will make it work?

[Sharphorse]

I’ve only been punting for a year. I’d never ask a WL out on a real date, feels way too inappropriate but twice in that time I’ve had WL’s give me their number with the intention of pursuing me outside of the shop. Because I’m new, relatively young and probably naive I went along with it both times because I thought fuck it, why not? Will at least be an adventure. The first time we went on a couple of dates but Covid hit and she went back to her country of origin and haven’t heard from her since.

The second time the lady actually quit the shop the day after she gave me her number. We also went on a few dates but after a few weeks it got too real and she ended it. Noticed some threads of guys asking where this particular WL is now, apparently just doing massage and HJs now. I’d find it hard if the lady was still working FS personally, would be tough genuinely liking someone in that profession. I’d probably just try and trust my gut 🤷*♂️

[B J Hunter]

Really Rayhp you want to be the dating guy in this conversation I had with girl one day...
Me: so where did you meet your boyfriend?
ML: he was a customer he’s ok with what I do but we have a rule where he can’t see me in the shop anymore.
Without me asking This was then unexpectedly followed by a BBBJ, deepthroating, CIM and swallow.
ML: I love the taste of your cum, I want you to fuck me next time
Me: ahh thanks, and thanks to your boyfriend for letting you continue your great service to the community.
ML: laughs

[Meng]

I've actually been told a few WL I saw in the shops are married to a ex customer who allows them to keep working.

It then hit me why they didn't do things like DFK which I love. It's a very personal thing and I'm sure their partners who know they are still working don't want to read how she's sticking her tongue down another person's mouth.

[Archer]

Hi,
I recently started dating a WL after meeting in the shop. Has anyone else done this before? And how did you feel about it?

Share her name & shop details. I bet there are lots of people here would be happy to write an AR about her. Then you can decide how you feel about it!

[punter185]

Too right! How many of these f-ed up threads do we need? Honestly I've had such a bad experience only as a friend of a WL, not even dating, that I really can't imagine why anyone would consider dating them?
They have such a tendency to lie about everything. I mean, they have to lie about their work... think about it. That's half their lives that needs to be hidden behind lies. That kind of shit will instill in them the habit of lying. Every time they are faced with a problem in life, they will reach for the only tool they know how to use to fix problems... Lie.
Like with a normal friend, you be kind to them, you get a great thank you and warmth and appreciation. With WL, all you will get is someone who thinks there's more they can get out of you. It's really a bizarro world they live in.

I understand about the WL trying to take you for a ride and thinks the arrangement outside the shop could work but to say they hiding behind dishonesty is abit living in glass house. Punters are liars aswell and hiding behind it. Just saying!!

[Sharphorse]

I've actually been told a few WL I saw in the shops are married to a ex customer who allows them to keep working.

It then hit me why they didn't do things like DFK which I love. It's a very personal thing and I'm sure their partners who know they are still working don't want to read how she's sticking her tongue down another person's mouth.

That would make so much sense with a lady I’ve seen a couple of times in the last few weeks. She’s older like 40 but still in great shape and could honestly still pass as late 20s early 30s. Only does a standard service but you can tell she’s very experienced and seems really into it but obviously doesn’t do anything like DFK or BBBJ. Wouldn’t surprise me if she’s married and these are the conditions her and her partner lay out for her to work especially since it’s at a shop that would encourage diamond service for the $$$

[yug]

I've actually been told a few WL I saw in the shops are married to a ex customer who allows them to keep working.

It then hit me why they didn't do things like DFK which I love. It's a very personal thing and I'm sure their partners who know they are still working don't want to read how she's sticking her tongue down another person's mouth.

That would make sense.
But surprisingly, some of the married WLs are the filthiest in bed.
They tend to provide all kinda services even PSE like choking.

Married woman are probably ok with DFK and stuffs.
The WLs who are newly in a relationship or just fallen for someone are the worst.
That's when they go back to being a Puritan and don't allow things like DFK.
Then they go through 2-3 years of marriage and all the love is out the window; that's when the reality hits and they come back to earth.

[D.Li]

I’ve only been punting for a year. I’d never ask a WL out on a real date, feels way too inappropriate but twice in that time I’ve had WL’s give me their number with the intention of pursuing me outside of the shop. Because I’m new, relatively young and probably naive I went along with it both times because I thought fuck it, why not? Will at least be an adventure. The first time we went on a couple of dates but Covid hit and she went back to her country of origin and haven’t heard from her since.

The second time the lady actually quit the shop the day after she gave me her number. We also went on a few dates but after a few weeks it got too real and she ended it. Noticed some threads of guys asking where this particular WL is now, apparently just doing massage and HJs now. I’d find it hard if the lady was still working FS personally, would be tough genuinely liking someone in that profession. I’d probably just try and trust my gut 🤷*♂️

Wow, sounds like the ladies there have the hots for you lol~ Never had the chance where the girl offers me her number... Bow to you sir

[Sharphorse]

Wow, sounds like the ladies there have the hots for you lol~ Never had the chance where the girl offers me her number... Bow to you sir

Wasn’t as glamorous as it sounded. I was paranoid most of the time of what her intentions were and she ended it after a few weeks anyway. At least I got a few free FS when she could of just kept me as customer, lol

[D.Li]

Wasn’t as glamorous as it sounded. I was paranoid most of the time of what her intentions were and she ended it after a few weeks anyway. At least I got a few free FS when she could of just kept me as customer, lol

Sorry to hear it didn't work out bro, I think it pretty much sums up whether or not to date WLs or MLs... still bet it was an interesting experience, I agree it's no glamour and can be heartbreaking for some. Glad you've moved on, happy for ya!

[Basil22]

My experience is that if they actually like you, they will make you work for it. If they want something from you other than love, then they will hunt for it.

Recently I allowed myself to get close to a WL from one of the most popular shops (let’s call her Kim). Saw her 5 or 6 times towards the end of last year and became kinda close, we definitely clicked more than I ever have with a WL (was an ML guy until circa 2019). We spent some time together outside which I had swore I wouldn’t do again after my first foray into dating working girls. Every rational fibre in me knew it was the wrong thing to do but as always my emotions overrode my practical side. Anyway, as I said in the beginning, my experience is that Asian girls (at least the three I’ve had relationships with or simply gotten close to - from Hong Kong, Thailand and Korea) won’t show their true feelings easily at all. So I’d get pretty suss if a WL/ML straight up offered their digits. That’s just my experience.

Anyhoo, the fling with Kim, if you can even call it that, is over now I guess, as I’ve been blocked on all modes of communication as of around 2 weeks ago. That’s a story for another day, but I thought I’d give a bit of insight into how WL’s think.

I’ve been pretty cut up but also super confused at what was drawing me in so intensely. Part of it was that I was just so perplexed at the way this girl thinks, and how difficult it was to understand each other (intellectually). And no one really to talk to about it. So I went to try that old adage “get under to get over” and ended up seeing a WL from another popular shop. She was the same nationality as Kim, and, blocked by my thoughts about her, I couldn’t even get the slightest erection. Spent the session talking to her about what had been going on, and it turned out that she was involved in a kind of similar situation as I had been (except she didn’t meet the guy in the shop)

Anyway we exchanged numbers because it was genuinely cathartic talking to her, and we both felt as if we might be able to help each other understand how the other side thought. To help in our respective situations.

In the end we never met up; she turned dark and emotional pretty quickly on the texts... and I had the feeling I had caused her to explore emotions that she might have been suppressing, so I didn’t feel like our conversations were helping her as they were me. Hence it was a short interaction between us, as I didn’t want to push her for more answers or attention. But she said some things that really resonated and made me wonder about how true they are for other WLs. I hope she doesn’t mind me typing them out here. But she’s completely anonymous so I think it’s ok.

These are just some excerpts from our conversation, the parts I think are most relevant to this subject:

“Just start dating n looking for other girls with less emotional baggage. Especially working girls, we are the most hardest coz we are most damaged n broken. Hurt people hurt people. You will get hurt. If it’s meant to be it will be.”

“Good luck. If you aren’t strong you won’t make it. I don’t know anyone around that did make it. So this tells all. “
“I don’t know bout her. But me, to become the way I am now, I gave up so many things n had to sacrifice my all to become the person I had to be. Just in the name of Love. And now, who the hell he think he is. I have been through so much to be where I am and I won’t allow him to break down my walls that I built so hard.”

But then later:
“Good luck. I see big hope in ur love. Believe in this coz I see light at the end of the tunnel in ur love. Don’t give up 😀”

Then later:
“How deep is ur love? If you are not ready to swim in deep waters and can’t keep with her, consider this very carefully. Cause if can’t swim along with her, she will drown you.”

Yes I know, very helpful 😀🙄🤣

Lastly:
“The ones I felt the strongest feelings of love, both of them I did not meet in the shop. They were never my customer to start with even they knew that I was working girl”


Anyway I don’t have anything to say to wrap this up, I’ve already thought about it too much over the past few weeks. It’s 2:30 am (fuck me dead) and I’ve got a massive day tomorrow. I hope it helps someone in some way and wasn’t a complete waste of time!

[GoldfishMan]

I understand about the WL trying to take you for a ride and thinks the arrangement outside the shop could work but to say they hiding behind dishonesty is abit living in glass house. Punters are liars aswell and hiding behind it. Just saying!!

Lol, yeah, everybody lies. Go ahead and start something with one of them and see how you go.

[hexenducation]

Dating a ML or WL is not for the faint of heart.

If you care for the girl (dare I say fall in love) then it is not a matter of if, but when, you will get hurt.

It's tough to keep perspective when your girl is seeing other men intimately - every brother will try to sweet talk her, get extras or see her outside of the shop - just like you.

it's also easy to forget that girls can meet a customer and think he's the best ever sex wise - - just as you think she is for you. Jealous yet?


One last word of advice: hell hath no fury like a working girl scorned. You may know what jealously means, you may have experienced it, but believe me you've experienced nothing until your working love interest has an irrational (or justified) jealously over you.


Hi,
I recently started dating a WL after meeting in the shop. Has anyone else done this before? And how did you feel about it?

[Starved]

Too right! How many of these f-ed up threads do we need? Honestly I've had such a bad experience only as a friend of a WL, not even dating, that I really can't imagine why anyone would consider dating them?
They have such a tendency to lie about everything. I mean, they have to lie about their work... think about it. That's half their lives that needs to be hidden behind lies. That kind of shit will instill in them the habit of lying. Every time they are faced with a problem in life, they will reach for the only tool they know how to use to fix problems... Lie.
Like with a normal friend, you be kind to them, you get a great thank you and warmth and appreciation. With WL, all you will get is someone who thinks there's more they can get out of you. It's really a bizarro world they live in.

WL &ML would probably think the same thing about punters as far as lies and cheating but we can’t make any money out of it ! But apparently some guys do in Japan .

[Rackster]

Its hard, really hard, and how hard it is depends if she works in a shop or is a private.

No matter any other point, in the case of shop girls, you know they are either sitting in a darkened room waiting for the knock on the door to see who or whatever has $50 to spare that buys them the right to their body and their attention. In a normal relationship, when you are not with your partner, you think about what they are currently doing, shopping, eating as your go-to thought, shop WL your go-to is very different, as is when their shifts run overtime, or they have a late finish and an early booking that they need to rush to.
With privates, you know when they are booked and with a structure its easier to plan your head and life..

Simple conversations make a double think if you want to know,,, 'have a great day, how is your day so far? how was work? anything interesting happen today? etc
Either way, its hard road, and it will change your entire view of punting with a better understanding of the environment, and the girls and their motives. Unless there is some exit strategy, or some light to look ahead to, its never going to get easier, (unless you like emotional abuse )

[LookingForTheOne]

I vote “Go For It”. I have had about 5 or 6 dating sessions. I am current seeing one now outside of the shop only for the past 2 years. She also has a partner that does not know about her working life. My rules to my myself are simple. 1, Acknowledge Working Girls will always lie. 2. Once i start seeing the WL outside the shop there is no talk about exchange of money 3. Have no expectations.

[Scanlan]

People always ask as which do you like more WL or GF ?
I always says its like the difference between making love and masturbation.
With a GF you have a relationship and with a WL you just have to get one
little moment correct.

[mansahar]

I was a regular with one WL who worked at a $150/hr shop. She, her friend (both TW) and occasionally some younger MLC plus 1 Japanese worked there. This was back in 2016-2017. I don't visit this shop anymore because they went way downhill these days.

That WL had everything - model looks, does DTBBBJ and gives me a very sensual, intimate experience each time. Of course I would visit her regularly when she was giving me experiences no other would.

The problem is, I was married.

When she asked me if I had a girlfriend I was very hesitant to answer. I countered her question by asking, "Why? Do you want to be my girlfriend?" playfully. And she said, "If you want to..."

I left the question unanswered even on the next visit. After that she disappeared from the roster, reception said she's finished her first year of working holiday and had to move interstate to continue into second year.

I felt like it was too easy. We had never talked deeply before, I knew nothing about her except for how good she gave me head and how she looked fucking hot bent down for doggy style. And I didn't want to ruin my marriage over a WL either. If she was a rich heiress like Paris Hilton I wouldn't mind ruining my marriage LOL.

It's like what Basil22 said, if they really liked you they will make you work for it. If they don't, they'll hunt it down.

And it's obvious from my story that she was looking for a way to keep staying in Sydney. Because life as a WL is hard to let go - no other jobs make money the same like this. And she had to ask me when she's at the very end of her first year. She probably did ask other punters as well and they left her unanswered.

I'd probably let people draw their own conclusions on whether to date ML/WL or not but all I have to say is, depending on what type of women you're after you should follow it through. I made the mistake of abandoning my dream lady to marry a monster from hell, and I was lucky to divorce her without going through family court.

Depending on your taste on ethnicity, body type, personality and cultural background when it comes to women - try to seek someone that fits all criteria rather than settle for any hole. You will not regret marrying someone who fits your dream girl criteria, even if it takes you 20 years to find her.

[mansahar]

Also, I was at a massage place few days earlier and while I was sitting in the waiting room I heard a Thai ML talking to who I reckon was her Aussie boyfriend over the phone. She was calling him "darling", telling him that she's busy on certain days and will be able to see him on other days etc. Her voice sounded very hesitant as if she didn't want him to know she's an ML.

It's sad that she had to hide her job from her boyfriend. She probably liked the guy, and as a bonus is trying to stay on in Australia through him but one problem that I always see in similar situations is that the truth will always reveal itself. The guy will eventually find out, it's only a matter of when it'll happen. That's why if you're looking for an honest, lasting relationship you should start with being honest yourself.

[mansahar]

I vote “Go For It”. I have had about 5 or 6 dating sessions. I am current seeing one now outside of the shop only for the past 2 years. She also has a partner that does not know about her working life. My rules to my myself are simple. 1, Acknowledge Working Girls will always lie. 2. Once i start seeing the WL outside the shop there is no talk about exchange of money 3. Have no expectations.

Wow. Why don't ask her to get her partner to join you in a menage-a-trois? Just kidding. If you've been seeing her outside of shop for 2 years while she is also in a relationship with another, is the sex really great that you kept seeing her for that long? Or is it something else as well?

I visited shops while I was married just because my ex-wife wasn't my dream girl. Whenever we fought I'd feel that she's inadequate enough that I'd wanted to feel how is it like to be treated right by my dream girl. My ex-wife had no sex appeal and I had to force myself to enjoy the sex. The only time I could get off properly with her was when all lights were turned off and I was feeling her body warmth. But when I visit shops I'd choose the best looking girl so that I can feel what is it like having sex with someone that has the looks and sex appeal.

[aussiegaigin]

Also, I was at a massage place few days earlier and while I was sitting in the waiting room I heard a Thai ML talking to who I reckon was her Aussie boyfriend over the phone. She was calling him "darling", telling him that she's busy on certain days and will be able to see him on other days etc. Her voice sounded very hesitant as if she didn't want him to know she's an ML.

It's sad that she had to hide her job from her boyfriend. She probably liked the guy, and as a bonus is trying to stay on in Australia through him but one problem that I always see in similar situations is that the truth will always reveal itself. The guy will eventually find out, it's only a matter of when it'll happen. That's why if you're looking for an honest, lasting relationship you should start with being honest yourself.

Most Asian ML/WLs will call their customers "darling", even if they know your name.

Why would she be telling her bf on the phone what days she is working or not. Wouldn't he already know that, even if he didn't know what her actual job was?

To me, sounds more like she was priming up a new customer.

[Louisa18ChardRoad]

Don’t. This isn’t the movie “Pretty Woman” for Christ sakes.

I’ve had a few want to date me in the real world. Never going to happen. It’s far too weird for me and as I see this as my “work” and you know what they say - don’t mix business with pleasure that you can get burnt by.

[Raybo]

Don’t. This isn’t the movie “Pretty Woman” for Christ sakes.

I’ve had a few want to date me in the real world. Never going to happen. It’s far too weird for me and as I see this as my “work” and you know what they say - don’t mix business with pleasure that you can get burnt by.

I dunno, I think some guys think they have some sort of special connection or think they are quite the charmer and play the dating angle to try and get freebies! Dont think it has much to do with love.

[annintofu]

I dunno, I think some guys think they have some sort of special connection or think they are quite the charmer and play the dating angle to try and get freebies! Dont think it has much to do with love.

very true.
for RNT, no matter how pretty the ML is, after 5 sessions, i get bored with the same routine.

Going out with her provides a fresh experience that keeps me wanting to come back see her again.

However, if you and the ML don't really "click", going out can make things worse, e.g revealing the gap between you or a darker side of you or the ML that detracts from the mutual attraction.

[the_boss_king]

done it more times then I care to share. my advice, have fun with it. but, be prepared for an expiry date.
as drake would say "here for a good time, not a long time"

[Rackster]

Just a single piece of advice. Stay away from this site. You really don't want to see an AR of someone making your lovely lady gag.

Apart from 'dont', thats the best advice ever!! You wont be able to help yourself when she;s working and youre alone at home, or the penny drops why she had a sore neck last Sat...
I'll add.. dont look at her profile on the roster, and dont visit her in the shop where you'll share her bed with all the other clients, and count the days till the sex dries up at home cos shes tired from being hammered all week.

[Carissawhore]

Why would anyone with right mind date WL or ML, it is clear path to depression. If you need a companion to talk to and spend your Joy's and sorrows just wait for few more years until AI sex robots are perfect for commercial use.

[hexenducation]

Well, I beg to differ. If you have a net worth in the millions with a ready supply of cash and no need to hold down a day job, it can be a wonderful experience. Sadly, most of us do not fit that criteria...


Don’t. This isn’t the movie “Pretty Woman” for Christ sakes.

I’ve had a few want to date me in the real world. Never going to happen. It’s far too weird for me and as I see this as my “work” and you know what they say - don’t mix business with pleasure that you can get burnt by.

[Sharphorse]

Just a single piece of advice. Stay away from this site. You really don't want to see an AR of someone making your lovely lady gag.

A WL I dated outside a shop was spoken about on this forum. Is pretty interesting to read 😬 She quit the shop two days after she gave me her number, now just does massages and happy endings but we decided to just be friends, not a monogamous relationship, she’s cool but it’s too difficult haha

[Ease]

Yeah I’ve “dated” several working girls over the years
It’s a fkn awesome experience but basically all ended after a few months, I think because they’ve gold dug another BF. Well worth the adventure but try to be realistic about long term ideas
Best of luck 🤞!

[Dettol]

A WL I dated outside a shop was spoken about on this forum. Is pretty interesting to read 😬 She quit the shop two days after she gave me her number, now just does massages and happy endings but we decided to just be friends, not a monogamous relationship, she’s cool but it’s too difficult haha

“We decided” ? LOL !

[Dettol]

Yeah I’ve “dated” several working girls over the years
It’s a fkn awesome experience but basically all ended after a few months, I think because they’ve gold dug another BF. Well worth the adventure but try to be realistic about long term ideas
Best of luck 🤞!

The trick is not to bring up or entertain any ideas of “relationship”. You have to be ready to detach whenever any discussion of relationship comes up even in the slightest.

That way her relationship status doesn’t matter to you. Most of the times these girls are just bored and have guys on speed dials anyway. They’re not really looking for anything serious, even if they think they do.

[bigfatkilo]

This is pretty good from hex.. true and made me laugh.. 'hell hath no Fury's... So true.


Dating a ML or WL is not for the faint of heart.

If you care for the girl (dare I say fall in love) then it is not a matter of if, but when, you will get hurt.

It's tough to keep perspective when your girl is seeing other men intimately - every brother will try to sweet talk her, get extras or see her outside of the shop - just like you.

it's also easy to forget that girls can meet a customer and think he's the best ever sex wise - - just as you think she is for you. Jealous yet?


One last word of advice: hell hath no fury like a working girl scorned. You may know what jealously means, you may have experienced it, but believe me you've experienced nothing until your working love interest has an irrational (or justified) jealously over you.

[Asianlust]

I got a few WL in mind that I want an all night freebie with

So what are the steps boys?

Do I show up at shop 3 days in a row. Then wechat a week later saying: think of you alot. Observe posible responses:
1 Im at shop so and so days or maybe
2 Im available
3 Where you been
I just cant visualize the girl going for it.

Do I express fantasy of all nighter with them in hotel or my place and wait for bread crumbs?

Do I decrease the period between visits over a month fr 1 week, to 3 days, to everyday and back off totally?

Do I ask if they ever do private visits. Get wechat and just talk shit with them when not rostered and wait for 'I'm lonely texts'

Do I go through shit first offering favours like handyman work or an uber service?

I think I'll tell them I want to date but there will allways be others fr other shops unless its there friends.

If successful what are my chances of getting doubles out of these girls???

[liminal]

I got a few WL in mind that I want an all night freebie with

So what are the steps boys?

Do I show up at shop 3 days in a row. Then wechat a week later saying: think of you alot. Observe posible responses:
1 Im at shop so and so days or maybe
2 Im available
3 Where you been
I just cant visualize the girl going for it.

Do I express fantasy of all nighter with them in hotel or my place and wait for bread crumbs?

Do I decrease the period between visits over a month fr 1 week, to 3 days, to everyday and back off totally?

Do I ask if they ever do private visits. Get wechat and just talk shit with them when not rostered and wait for 'I'm lonely texts'

Do I go through shit first offering favours like handyman work or an uber service?

I think I'll tell them I want to date but there will allways be others fr other shops unless its there friends.

If successful what are my chances of getting doubles out of these girls???


nicely observed .. sounds like a script that didn’t quite make it to season 4 of friends

[tpol]

No freebie. Just bring heaps of cash

[warwick1]

nicely observed .. sounds like a script that didn’t quite make it to season 4 of friends

Never watched season 4, or 3 in fact never watched the show, I was and still am a Seinfeld fan, the show about "nothing"which kinda sums up this whole thread...........

[Basil22]

Never watched season 4, or 3 in fact never watched the show, I was and still am a Seinfeld fan, the show about "nothing"which kinda sums up this whole thread...........

I always thought you were a grumpy prick with nothing good to say, but this comment was great. And any Seinfeld fan is in my good books! Not that you would care anyway 😂😂

[warwick1]

I always thought you were a grumpy prick with nothing good to say, but this comment was great. And any Seinfeld fan is in my good books! Not that you would care anyway ����

You are spot on:grimace:

[GoldfishMan]

Lol Seinfeld fan here too. My fave episode gotta be the one with that Jimmy character that refers to himself by name. "Jimmy's going into shock!", hilarious!

[apokalypse]

u can date them and consider them as one night stands...if date for sex only then it creates anxiety. serious relationship then it's a no

[Labia Vortex]

Dated a couple 40 yrs ago
Emotionally scattered....the job plays with their heads....badly

[D.Li]

Agree, it's cool to hang out with them as friends... any more not recommended

[Rackster]

Hang out, sure - do it all the time, some really good friends and company, but it clear its not a lookout for freebies, thats their job, but if happens it does, and the hanging out makes the bookings more fun, - but FFS... dont try and do date them. falling in love is the worst thing that could happen - ever.. either its one sided and it sucks to be you (just like any other situation in RL) - or you both fall in love and its fucked. When she working, youre wondering how many cocks are in her mouth today, or thrashing her, how many load on or in or swallowed, how old or fat or filthy the clients are, if theyre assholes or belting her around... if that extra $20 for gold is worth it for the BB....
Being ok shes tired and doesnt want to bang cos shes done it all week.. and every $100 you see her with is a another guys cock shes had in her.. and the same when she buys you stuff.. and thats not counting the long nights alone while shes getting filled out like an application.....

If you have to. make sure your eyes are open

[Archer]

I always enjoy hanging out with them outside work, it definitely makes the booking more exciting. Happy to massage their necks after a whole shift of BJ and listen to them complaining how sore they are down below. It's very entertaining listening to their work experience but I don't think I will be comfortable dating them while they're still working.

[Rogeryou]

I dated an escort for about two years it was a great experience. It kind of turned me on that she fucked other guys for cash. Stunning natural redhead she was worked at the 5 ways Rockdale. I always blew a big load in her just before she went to work 😁

[Rogeryou]

Also currently seeing a stunning very early 20s Jap from Jap massage Rosebery one of the tightest magnificent boxes I have ever had but I am tipping her.
My advise man is enjoy the pussy and only approach it in that way.

[Labia Vortex]

Also currently seeing a stunning very early 20s Jap from Jap massage Rosebery one of the tightest magnificent boxes I have ever had but I am tipping her.
My advise man is enjoy the pussy and only approach it in that way.
Is she still working there...?

[Rogeryou]

Is she still working there...?

Left a few years ago has a legit job now, she is such a nice girl I kept telling her this wasn’t for her and she did get out to her credit. I am still lucky enough to hammer her on a regular basis. I suspect she has a boy friend

[Sanprett]

Also dated 2 WL for a few months. One was just purely trying to gold dig. The current one travelled interstate to work for private agencies. Never said the break up line but communication slowly ceased. It’s best to just pay the $150 or $260 for the fuck and leave it at that.
Had a lot of fun but the jealousy and grief I went through is definitely not worth it

[liminal]

Left a few years ago has a legit job now, she is such a nice girl I kept telling her this wasn’t for her and she did get out to her credit. I am still lucky enough to hammer her on a regular basis. I suspect she has a boy friend

You’re a lucky fella.... So despite urging her to get out, cause she was too good for that
Life , you’re saying she’s working private , because you’re still tipping her?

You guys must get along like a house on fire

[Rogeryou]

You’re a lucky fella.... So despite urging her to get out, cause she was too good for that
Life , you’re saying she’s working private , because you’re still tipping her?

You guys must get along like a house on fire

We got along and had a lot in common, we go out do things. First time we hooked up outside of there was just natural and fun but I know life’s tough and I am happy to drop her some cash. She was way too nice and innocent for you lot Hahahah

[Labia Vortex]

We got along and had a lot in common, we go out do things. First time we hooked up outside of there was just natural and fun but I know life’s tough and I am happy to drop her some cash. She was way too nice and innocent for you lot Hahahah
I went down that " rescue" road in 1978 with a Chilean girl
Too old to rescue anyone now....

[Koolpunt]

Bad decision unless you emotionally detatch and still continue hooking up with other girls.

[Rogeryou]

I went down that " rescue" road in 1978 with a Chilean girl
Too old to rescue anyone now....

It just wasn’t for her, I just thought she needed to hear it. I told her this will stay with you forever, the easy way out is never worth it. Shortly later she left

[liminal]

It just wasn’t for her, I just thought she needed to hear it. I told her this will stay with you forever, the easy way out is never worth it. Shortly later she left

Gosh ...........

[Dettol]

Getting life advice from a random who goes to get jerked off by women.

Such is the life of an ML.

[the_boss_king]

1//1000 of these relationships work.

[hexenducation]

Everyone is too good to sell their body for money out of need rather want... I know, a lot to unpack there, but still...


Dated a couple 40 yrs ago
Emotionally scattered....the job plays with their heads....badly

[hexenducation]

...and lets not get started on randoms in bars giving advice on why I should 'invest' in Bitcoin... life is full of random advice... but yes, I feel sorry for the WL/MLs polite enough to listen to the shit some punters drivel on about in the room... <shy face>


Getting life advice from a random who goes to get jerked off by women.

Such is the life of an ML.

[takasitau]

Been there done that, it's emotionally draining. If you can control your emotion I say go for it.
I still keep in touch with WL that I dated, we go out every now and then to have fun but as a friend, not romantically.

[Sanprett]

Been there done that, it's emotionally draining. If you can control your emotion I say go for it.
I still keep in touch with WL that I dated, we go out every now and then to have fun but as a friend, not romantically.


At least you are still friends, most WL will just block, delete and ghost after the relationship

[bigfatkilo]

If you like being a snowflake, go ahead, date a WL.
It'll bring out the worst in yiu- jealousy, obsession, trust issues, attacking

My advice, don't do it. it will fuck literally, with your head and long after she's gone- it will still fuck with your head.

So unless you can a) compartmentalize really well, b) really don't care about the WL at all, c) are psychopath and have no emotions or empathy (an advantage in this situation), then don't do it.

Keep WL for punting and Gf's as gf's.

[D.Li]

1//1000 of these relationships work.

Speak of experience haha

[GoldfishMan]

The only way it can work was if the bloke was rich enough to literally buy her out of the industry. That means the ability to make her stop working or at least change to a lower paying "normal" job, and still be able to give her that "dolce vita"... The good life. I think all WLs that want to find a BF ought to be looking out for this criterion, not just the Johns trying to get on with them.
Call me materialistic all you want, any other way is just a recipe for disaster.

[Basil22]

In the end, it will fuck literally, with your head and long after she's gone- it will still fuck with your head.

So unless you can a) compartmentalize really well, b) really don't care about the WL at all, c) are psychopath and have no emotions or empathy (an advantage in this situation), then don't do it.
.

This is so fucking true - for WLs especially. I do think one can have a relationship with MLs (with SOME, still a small percentage and still gonna be a headfuck) but WLs are a different breed.

The double standards are intense, and the only way one can be in a relationship with a WL with any longevity is by subverting his emotional (and physical) needs for hers.

The hardest part, in my opinion, is being simultaneously floored by their cruelty and total lack of care, while also knowing that they can’t really be blamed (aka expected to care about our emotional needs/problems). At least that’s what I find hardest to stomach. Sometimes anger is good for closure, but in my heart of hearts I know it’s ridic to expect anything from them. So you just end up feeling like a total twat. And there’s especially something about being ghosted by someone you’ve been fucking on the reg (as opposed to tinder dates that never eventuate) that makes you feel like a castrated twat!

[Meng]

WLs are probably better off dating someone who doesn't know what they use to do as a profession. In fact I'm sure most WL who retire will marry someone normal but definitely don't know they use to be a WL. It's both a peace of mind for the guy and the WL.

The guy for not knowing how many dudes she's fucked and sucked and the girl for knowing she's not marrying a punter (they might expect that you're still punting).

[AHLUNGOR]

Over the years, I have seen numerous MLs who had boyfriends or husbands who knew about their works and carry on with the relationship. So there is no set rules for all, but how many of them are still together today ? Who knows !

Mind you, I know some of them did have a visa arrangement in place, so there you go, enjoy it while it last .

[Sanprett]

Anyone reading this will know dating a WL is a bad idea. It’s got to do with your own self control. Especially when you meet a 10 out of 10 WL you want to date them, get into a relationship and maybe even marry them.
Imagine there a bottle on the table that has a label saying poison, if you still choose to drink it and get poisoned then it’s yourself to blame.

[AHLUNGOR]

Anyone reading this will know dating a WL is a bad idea. It’s got to do with your own self control. Especially when you meet a 10 out of 10 WL you want to date them, get into a relationship and maybe even marry them.
Imagine there a bottle on the table that has a label saying poison, if you still choose to drink it and get poisoned then it’s yourself to blame.

Mate, I don’t think it’s fair to label a working lady as a bottle of poison, they are afterall a human being just like you and me. Prostitution is the oldest profession in world history, mainly because sex is a basic human needs and got to be satisfied otherwise sexual crimes and violences would be uncontrollable.

You don’t have to date them or marry them that’s your choice but hey, you can’t stop human relationship and human feelings !

Just let it be ok .

[Sanprett]

Your right, WL are human too, they can have normal relationships. At the end of the day WL will see it as just a job.

[Raybo]

WLs are probably better off dating someone who doesn't know what they use to do as a profession. In fact I'm sure most WL who retire will marry someone normal but definitely don't know they use to be a WL. It's both a peace of mind for the guy and the WL.

The guy for not knowing how many dudes she's fucked and sucked and the girl for knowing she's not marrying a punter (they might expect that you're still punting).

Can't remember her name but there is a working girl in Sydney I think who would write articles for the newspapers. I will try and find the article but she actually said she would prefer to have a relationship with a punter because there would be a level of understanding and empathy for her work. I guess you would have to be an ex-punter though lol.

[liminal]

based on speed reading most of the Bettina Arndt CIM .. posted; I would not date the majority of guys posting here, let alone myself. #shallow, miserly, aggressive, lowEq and poor grammar skills.

Though enjoy the constant rehash

Maybe it’s time I reiterated my sad sorry anguished tale

[AHLUNGOR]

Can't remember her name but there is a working girl in Sydney I think who would write articles for the newspapers. I will try and find the article but she actually said she would prefer to have a relationship with a punter because there would be a level of understanding and empathy for her work. I guess you would have to be an ex-punter though lol.

Samantha X Angels ?

[D.Li]

Might start a new thread on this, how about 'Dating an ex-ML or ex-WL' maybe that's a more hopeful one lol...it's so fking depressing this thread

[GoldfishMan]

It ought to be depressing. Why inject any excitement into the topic and get a lonely punter's hopes up?
Just being sympathetic to an active is enough to burn you, let alone dating one. Example, private girl Mimi, goes by Natalie babe on scarlet blue. I "donated" $4.5k to this girl based on sad stories.
What do I get in return? 2 fucks and after I blew up at her for continuously asking me for money, a permanent block on my messages. WLs, especially active ones, are just in that "zone" where they everything that can be monetized will be monetized. Just play with them, don't keep them.

[D.Li]

It ought to be depressing. Why inject any excitement into the topic and get a lonely punter's hopes up?
Just being sympathetic to an active is enough to burn you, let alone dating one. Example, private girl Mimi, goes by Natalie babe on scarlet blue. I "donated" $4.5k to this girl based on sad stories.
What do I get in return? 2 fucks and after I blew up at her for continuously asking me for money, a permanent block on my messages. WLs, especially active ones, are just in that "zone" where they everything that can be monetized will be monetized. Just play with them, don't keep them.

Man, sorry to hear...remember we here to play not invest...

[Vader]

based on speed reading most of the Bettina Arndt CIM .. posted; I would not date the majority of guys posting here, let alone myself. #shallow, miserly, aggressive, lowEq and poor grammar skills.

Though enjoy the constant rehash

Maybe it’s time I reiterated my sad sorry anguished tale

That's why they have to pay for sex. They can't pull a women

[Sanprett]

Might start a new thread on this, how about 'Dating an ex-ML or ex-WL' maybe that's a more hopeful one lol...it's so fking depressing this thread

How about start a thread “how did WL dump you?”

[Sanprett]

. I "donated" $4.5k to this girl based on sad stories.
What do I get in return? 2 fucks.
I feel you bro, you must love her

[Basil22]

I always wanted to start a thread/vote on how many dudes first found this forum when they were searching for/obsessing over an ML or WL they were into.. you know.. ‘Thai girl Patty massage town hall’..only to stumble across this world of debauchery and intrigue. Or am I the only one? Maybe we could also say the name of our lucky girls. I’m pretty sure for me it was Ada (Thai ML who has been mentioned quite a bit in the private massage section of late).

God damn I’m glad I didn’t know about the forum when I was with the ML from Bondi like 5 years ago. No idea why it never appeared because I definitely spent a lot of time searching the shit out of Señora Google for any info I could find 😂🤦🏼*♂️🤦🏼*♂️😅

[GoldfishMan]

I feel you bro, you must love her
Not love bro. It was pure sympathy. Trying to alleviate the suffering of another. Karma and all that shit. I never imagined someone doing this kind of work would go that low to scam someone else's goodwill. I thought they earn good money, that this kind of tricks were reserved for low life street urchins. I still can't believe how she can come up with lies like that just to get money.

[Sanprett]

Yes, some of them scam. I was out having dinner with a WL friend. During dinner her bf rang her then she pretended to be pissed off at her bf for something silly and threaten him to buy her a iPhone if she won’t see him next time lol. The week after I saw this WL again and she had a new iPhone

[PoohBear]

Hi,
I recently started dating a WL after meeting in the shop. Has anyone else done this before? And how did you feel about it?

Tried dating a few different WLs during my early years of punting but they all ended terribly.

After dating for a few months, one girl borrowed a small amount of money and disappeared. The next WL I dated also went for a few months before she had to go back to visit her family overseas and then disappeared. Then another I was seeing for a few decided to go on holidays one day with one of her “clients” and never came back.

My advice would be to think very carefully about it before you get involved with a WL outside of the usual business transaction. What might be real for you might just be another fish on the hook for the WL.

Good luck bro - hope it all works out for you.

[Meng]

That's why they have to pay for sex. They can't pull a women

I think you misspelt "they" for "we".

[quackm2002]

I can’t imagine the torture niceguy is going through with his self imposed ban on contributing to this topic. I think we should ask him to rescind his ban so he can impart his awesome knowledge on some of the members here who are clearly in need of it

[Niceguy11]

I can’t imagine the torture niceguy is going through with his self imposed ban on contributing to this topic. I think we should ask him to rescind his ban so he can impart his awesome knowledge on some of the members here who are clearly in need of it

hahahhahaha here I am bro ! I was being a smart ass before about calling you a keyboard warrior. In all honesty, I was just messing around.

I'll keep it short and sweet. Any sort of friendship or relationship with a WL / ML is like driving around in circles at a roundabout. You'll keep on going around and around until either you crash or get dizzy. Its the same with WL / ML'S. Forget it, move on and find a real girlfriend in the real world.

Simply not worth the time and effort. And if your doing it to get a free fuck, its not worth it.

[D.Li]

Mate, I don’t think it’s fair to label a working lady as a bottle of poison, they are afterall a human being just like you and me. Prostitution is the oldest profession in world history, mainly because sex is a basic human needs and got to be satisfied otherwise sexual crimes and violences would be uncontrollable.

You don’t have to date them or marry them that’s your choice but hey, you can’t stop human relationship and human feelings !

Just let it be ok .

Hi AHLUNGOR, you're maybe right, but from my pain they're toxic, these WL ruins relationships, abuse them and lie cheat and steal...no sympathy for them as they have no sympathy for us... fk them at the shop and nothing more...friendship with them never last anyways unfortunately...

[D.Li]

How about start a thread “how did WL dump you?”

Not a bad one lol

[alc]

hahahhahaha here I am bro ! I was being a smart ass before about calling you a keyboard warrior. In all honesty, I was just messing around.

I'll keep it short and sweet. Any sort of friendship or relationship with a WL / ML is like driving around in circles at a roundabout. You'll keep on going around and around until either you crash or get dizzy. Its the same with WL / ML'S. Forget it, move on and find a real girlfriend in the real world.

Simply not worth the time and effort. And if your doing it to get a free fuck, its not worth it.

I'm actually quite curious. Have you ever detailed your own experience with dating a WL here? I'm fascinated by what happened to you for you to feel this way?

NB: Not knocking the conclusion you came to, just genuinely curious about what got you there.

[quackm2002]

No worries - I was being a bit of a smartarse anyway so probably deserved that.

It is a little unfair to label all working girls as a bottle of poison. There are some very normal girls among them. The danger are the predators out there looking to exploit guys out of their money as much as they can like the one goldfishman experienced.



hahahhahaha here I am bro ! I was being a smart ass before about calling you a keyboard warrior. In all honesty, I was just messing around.

I'll keep it short and sweet. Any sort of friendship or relationship with a WL / ML is like driving around in circles at a roundabout. You'll keep on going around and around until either you crash or get dizzy. Its the same with WL / ML'S. Forget it, move on and find a real girlfriend in the real world.

Simply not worth the time and effort. And if your doing it to get a free fuck, its not worth it.

[Basil22]

I think you misspelt "they" for "we".

Boom. Yes! Was trying to think of something witty and cutting to reply coz Vader’s comment really pissed me off lol. This was perfect

[HardCore]

Here's a true story to get you thinking.

I'd been a regular customer of a ML for a number of years, starting around 6 years ago. I used to see her roughly every fortnight and we always had a good rapport and used to have the very rare FS experience, although only when she was "on". Around 4 years ago the ML gets herself a boyfriend and the rare FS ends, after around 18 months she gets married to the boyfriend and despite seeing her for the next 6 months after she got married, her whole service level drops away to the point that I decide to not see her any more as it's a waste of money because the service becomes completely mechanical. At some stage she told me that the husband used to be her customer and she did not need a PR or anything like that, they just went out and the relationship grew to eventually being husband and wife.

Her husband was fine for her work to continue post them being married, although from her actions and the falling service I think at the time she felt uneasy continuing in the job.

About six months back now I decide on some ML Lotto and drop into a shop I'd never been to before. I'm taken to a room and the Mamasan calls out to the ML, in she comes and it's the ML I'd stopped seeing around 2 years earlier. We're both surprised to be face to face and the Mamasan asks if this girl is OK and I say yes with a slight hesitation.

The conversation is easy and natural after the Mamasan departs the room and I ask are you still married, she says yes, and I think hmm this will likely be a failed punt. Still the conversation is good and it's nice to see her again. During the conversation she removes her dress and she is cuddling and lightly kissing me, she kisses down my chest as I'm sitting on the edge of the table until she arrives at my cock, an awesome BBBJ ensues, something she had not done in the past other than the odd lick or suck on the side, but she is into it and I'm thinking this is different for her. After around 10 minutes she asks me to lay back on the table and she climbs on for 69. She always loved her pussy to be eaten and I'm thinking I might need to see her again!!

She cums and then her pussy gets sensitive and she wants me to stop so she turns around and is lying next to me and playing with my hard cock whilst we are talking. I ask about the BBBJ and she says that she doesn’t offer BBBJ but she does now do CBJ, why the BBBJ and she says that she knew me and just wanted to do it. Who am I to question so I smile and say thanks. I ask what’s changed and she says her husband limits her working days and she needs money for herself so she stated doing CBJ to earn more and not let hubby know. We start kissing and move to full on DFK, it’s all hot and heavy and I recognise the old signals that she is "on". I ask can we fuck, without a pause she says yes if I have a dom. Well of course I do, I tell her it's in my shirt pocket hanging on the door, remember I was playing lotto and not expecting seeing her, strangely if I knew I was going to see her I would not have taken a dom with me. She jumps up, raids my shirt, grabs the dom and rolls it on. She climbs back on the table and impales her tight and tiny pussy on me. She is going off like a frog in a sock. Her pussy is flooding and she is hammering herself on me, telling me she is cumming, jamming her tongue down my throat, it's was full on and awesome. We change up positions for the next 15 minutes or so and she says I want you to cum.

Moving back to 69, as her pussy was sore now and I tell her I'll sooth it with my tongue. More BBBJ and I'm enjoying this no end and I announce I'm going to cum. She keeps at it and I cum a load into her mouth and she swallows the lot. I was stunned and it would be one of the best punts of all time for me.

In the afterglow I ask her what has changed, we fucked a few times over a number of years in the past and never had a CBJ let alone a BBBJ from her in all that time. She says that when she needs extra cash for things for herself she now provides extra services she never did in the past. It’s just sex and if her husband made more money then she wouldn’t need to do extras, but and here it is…. even if she didn’t need the money she now likes fucking some of her customers for the enjoyment of it. So she can make as much money as she wants and enjoy some sex on the side but tell her husband that she only provides NHJ. Then she says, I need a boyfriend so I can go out and have some fun as well. I enquire, what about your husband, she giggles and says she would tell him she is with friends, she has plenty of friends in the industry who will cover for her.

So for those thinking about getting into a relationship with a ML you need to realise that you have no way to know what she is doing in that room and that will screw with your head, one day that will cause issues and it will likely all blow up, there is almost nothing surer. This particular ML didn’t fuck customers or even provide CBJ until after she was married, her husband was a customer and experienced her sexy yet regular NHJ services being offered and he therefore thinks nothing has changed, he is wrong. For her, sex is at work is now happening more than ever, for pleasure and cash and hubby is none the wiser.

It’s a strange world lads, be careful with what you wish for.

[tpol]

Thanks for that. There would be trust issues on both sides i reckon

[Dettol]

Thanks for that. There would be trust issues on both sides i reckon
Thanks, but I will reserve my judgment until Niceguy11 gives his guidance on this matter.

[AHLUNGOR]

Thanks for sharing HardCore. That would be your first review too, nice job 👍

Cheers

[warwick1]

It's a good story............

[Climax598]

What do you think the ML wife is still working in the industry and the $$$$ is the evils. The husband might still be a punter and visiting other shops.

[CountryPunter]

The husband might be a member of this forum.
Be an interesting read for him.

[alc]

Here's a true story to get you thinking.

I'd been a regular customer of a ML for a number of years, starting around 6 years ago. I used to see her roughly every fortnight and we always had a good rapport and used to have the very rare FS experience, although only when she was "on". Around 4 years ago the ML gets herself a boyfriend and the rare FS ends, after around 18 months she gets married to the boyfriend and despite seeing her for the next 6 months after she got married, her whole service level drops away to the point that I decide to not see her any more as it's a waste of money because the service becomes completely mechanical. At some stage she told me that the husband used to be her customer and she did not need a PR or anything like that, they just went out and the relationship grew to eventually being husband and wife.

Her husband was fine for her work to continue post them being married, although from her actions and the falling service I think at the time she felt uneasy continuing in the job.

About six months back now I decide on some ML Lotto and drop into a shop I'd never been to before. I'm taken to a room and the Mamasan calls out to the ML, in she comes and it's the ML I'd stopped seeing around 2 years earlier. We're both surprised to be face to face and the Mamasan asks if this girl is OK and I say yes with a slight hesitation.

The conversation is easy and natural after the Mamasan departs the room and I ask are you still married, she says yes, and I think hmm this will likely be a failed punt. Still the conversation is good and it's nice to see her again. During the conversation she removes her dress and she is cuddling and lightly kissing me, she kisses down my chest as I'm sitting on the edge of the table until she arrives at my cock, an awesome BBBJ ensues, something she had not done in the past other than the odd lick or suck on the side, but she is into it and I'm thinking this is different for her. After around 10 minutes she asks me to lay back on the table and she climbs on for 69. She always loved her pussy to be eaten and I'm thinking I might need to see her again!!

She cums and then her pussy gets sensitive and she wants me to stop so she turns around and is lying next to me and playing with my hard cock whilst we are talking. I ask about the BBBJ and she says that she doesn’t offer BBBJ but she does now do CBJ, why the BBBJ and she says that she knew me and just wanted to do it. Who am I to question so I smile and say thanks. I ask what’s changed and she says her husband limits her working days and she needs money for herself so she stated doing CBJ to earn more and not let hubby know. We start kissing and move to full on DFK, it’s all hot and heavy and I recognise the old signals that she is "on". I ask can we fuck, without a pause she says yes if I have a dom. Well of course I do, I tell her it's in my shirt pocket hanging on the door, remember I was playing lotto and not expecting seeing her, strangely if I knew I was going to see her I would not have taken a dom with me. She jumps up, raids my shirt, grabs the dom and rolls it on. She climbs back on the table and impales her tight and tiny pussy on me. She is going off like a frog in a sock. Her pussy is flooding and she is hammering herself on me, telling me she is cumming, jamming her tongue down my throat, it's was full on and awesome. We change up positions for the next 15 minutes or so and she says I want you to cum.

Moving back to 69, as her pussy was sore now and I tell her I'll sooth it with my tongue. More BBBJ and I'm enjoying this no end and I announce I'm going to cum. She keeps at it and I cum a load into her mouth and she swallows the lot. I was stunned and it would be one of the best punts of all time for me.

In the afterglow I ask her what has changed, we fucked a few times over a number of years in the past and never had a CBJ let alone a BBBJ from her in all that time. She says that when she needs extra cash for things for herself she now provides extra services she never did in the past. It’s just sex and if her husband made more money then she wouldn’t need to do extras, but and here it is…. even if she didn’t need the money she now likes fucking some of her customers for the enjoyment of it. So she can make as much money as she wants and enjoy some sex on the side but tell her husband that she only provides NHJ. Then she says, I need a boyfriend so I can go out and have some fun as well. I enquire, what about your husband, she giggles and says she would tell him she is with friends, she has plenty of friends in the industry who will cover for her.

So for those thinking about getting into a relationship with a ML you need to realise that you have no way to know what she is doing in that room and that will screw with your head, one day that will cause issues and it will likely all blow up, there is almost nothing surer. This particular ML didn’t fuck customers or even provide CBJ until after she was married, her husband was a customer and experienced her sexy yet regular NHJ services being offered and he therefore thinks nothing has changed, he is wrong. For her, sex is at work is now happening more than ever, for pleasure and cash and hubby is none the wiser.

It’s a strange world lads, be careful with what you wish for.

This has some distinct north-west and south-east vibes to it

[Azzkikr]

Here's a true story to get you thinking.

I'd been a regular customer of a ML for a number of years, starting around 6 years ago. I used to see her roughly every fortnight and we always had a good rapport and used to have the very rare FS experience, although only when she was "on". Around 4 years ago the ML gets herself a boyfriend and the rare FS ends, after around 18 months she gets married to the boyfriend and despite seeing her for the next 6 months after she got married, her whole service level drops away to the point that I decide to not see her any more as it's a waste of money because the service becomes completely mechanical. At some stage she told me that the husband used to be her customer and she did not need a PR or anything like that, they just went out and the relationship grew to eventually being husband and wife.

Her husband was fine for her work to continue post them being married, although from her actions and the falling service I think at the time she felt uneasy continuing in the job.

About six months back now I decide on some ML Lotto and drop into a shop I'd never been to before. I'm taken to a room and the Mamasan calls out to the ML, in she comes and it's the ML I'd stopped seeing around 2 years earlier. We're both surprised to be face to face and the Mamasan asks if this girl is OK and I say yes with a slight hesitation.

The conversation is easy and natural after the Mamasan departs the room and I ask are you still married, she says yes, and I think hmm this will likely be a failed punt. Still the conversation is good and it's nice to see her again. During the conversation she removes her dress and she is cuddling and lightly kissing me, she kisses down my chest as I'm sitting on the edge of the table until she arrives at my cock, an awesome BBBJ ensues, something she had not done in the past other than the odd lick or suck on the side, but she is into it and I'm thinking this is different for her. After around 10 minutes she asks me to lay back on the table and she climbs on for 69. She always loved her pussy to be eaten and I'm thinking I might need to see her again!!

She cums and then her pussy gets sensitive and she wants me to stop so she turns around and is lying next to me and playing with my hard cock whilst we are talking. I ask about the BBBJ and she says that she doesn’t offer BBBJ but she does now do CBJ, why the BBBJ and she says that she knew me and just wanted to do it. Who am I to question so I smile and say thanks. I ask what’s changed and she says her husband limits her working days and she needs money for herself so she stated doing CBJ to earn more and not let hubby know. We start kissing and move to full on DFK, it’s all hot and heavy and I recognise the old signals that she is "on". I ask can we fuck, without a pause she says yes if I have a dom. Well of course I do, I tell her it's in my shirt pocket hanging on the door, remember I was playing lotto and not expecting seeing her, strangely if I knew I was going to see her I would not have taken a dom with me. She jumps up, raids my shirt, grabs the dom and rolls it on. She climbs back on the table and impales her tight and tiny pussy on me. She is going off like a frog in a sock. Her pussy is flooding and she is hammering herself on me, telling me she is cumming, jamming her tongue down my throat, it's was full on and awesome. We change up positions for the next 15 minutes or so and she says I want you to cum.

Moving back to 69, as her pussy was sore now and I tell her I'll sooth it with my tongue. More BBBJ and I'm enjoying this no end and I announce I'm going to cum. She keeps at it and I cum a load into her mouth and she swallows the lot. I was stunned and it would be one of the best punts of all time for me.

In the afterglow I ask her what has changed, we fucked a few times over a number of years in the past and never had a CBJ let alone a BBBJ from her in all that time. She says that when she needs extra cash for things for herself she now provides extra services she never did in the past. It’s just sex and if her husband made more money then she wouldn’t need to do extras, but and here it is…. even if she didn’t need the money she now likes fucking some of her customers for the enjoyment of it. So she can make as much money as she wants and enjoy some sex on the side but tell her husband that she only provides NHJ. Then she says, I need a boyfriend so I can go out and have some fun as well. I enquire, what about your husband, she giggles and says she would tell him she is with friends, she has plenty of friends in the industry who will cover for her.

So for those thinking about getting into a relationship with a ML you need to realise that you have no way to know what she is doing in that room and that will screw with your head, one day that will cause issues and it will likely all blow up, there is almost nothing surer. This particular ML didn’t fuck customers or even provide CBJ until after she was married, her husband was a customer and experienced her sexy yet regular NHJ services being offered and he therefore thinks nothing has changed, he is wrong. For her, sex is at work is now happening more than ever, for pleasure and cash and hubby is none the wiser.

It’s a strange world lads, be careful with what you wish for.

What nationality is this ML?

[Carissawhore]

Hardcore's review is spot on how WL's or ML's takes relationship in their life. I have seen few WL's in the past, they are married but their husband does not know that they work in sex industry. They are doing it for money to buy either luxury products or to send some money back home. Sex workers go clean for time being during the initial relationship phase and then they jumo back into industry most of the time.

[avnyyy]

Here's a true story to get you thinking.

I'd been a regular customer of a ML for a number of years, starting around 6 years ago. I used to see her roughly every fortnight and we always had a good rapport and used to have the very rare FS experience, although only when she was "on". Around 4 years ago the ML gets herself a boyfriend and the rare FS ends, after around 18 months she gets married to the boyfriend and despite seeing her for the next 6 months after she got married, her whole service level drops away to the point that I decide to not see her any more as it's a waste of money because the service becomes completely mechanical. At some stage she told me that the husband used to be her customer and she did not need a PR or anything like that, they just went out and the relationship grew to eventually being husband and wife.

Her husband was fine for her work to continue post them being married, although from her actions and the falling service I think at the time she felt uneasy continuing in the job.

About six months back now I decide on some ML Lotto and drop into a shop I'd never been to before. I'm taken to a room and the Mamasan calls out to the ML, in she comes and it's the ML I'd stopped seeing around 2 years earlier. We're both surprised to be face to face and the Mamasan asks if this girl is OK and I say yes with a slight hesitation.

The conversation is easy and natural after the Mamasan departs the room and I ask are you still married, she says yes, and I think hmm this will likely be a failed punt. Still the conversation is good and it's nice to see her again. During the conversation she removes her dress and she is cuddling and lightly kissing me, she kisses down my chest as I'm sitting on the edge of the table until she arrives at my cock, an awesome BBBJ ensues, something she had not done in the past other than the odd lick or suck on the side, but she is into it and I'm thinking this is different for her. After around 10 minutes she asks me to lay back on the table and she climbs on for 69. She always loved her pussy to be eaten and I'm thinking I might need to see her again!!

She cums and then her pussy gets sensitive and she wants me to stop so she turns around and is lying next to me and playing with my hard cock whilst we are talking. I ask about the BBBJ and she says that she doesn’t offer BBBJ but she does now do CBJ, why the BBBJ and she says that she knew me and just wanted to do it. Who am I to question so I smile and say thanks. I ask what’s changed and she says her husband limits her working days and she needs money for herself so she stated doing CBJ to earn more and not let hubby know. We start kissing and move to full on DFK, it’s all hot and heavy and I recognise the old signals that she is "on". I ask can we fuck, without a pause she says yes if I have a dom. Well of course I do, I tell her it's in my shirt pocket hanging on the door, remember I was playing lotto and not expecting seeing her, strangely if I knew I was going to see her I would not have taken a dom with me. She jumps up, raids my shirt, grabs the dom and rolls it on. She climbs back on the table and impales her tight and tiny pussy on me. She is going off like a frog in a sock. Her pussy is flooding and she is hammering herself on me, telling me she is cumming, jamming her tongue down my throat, it's was full on and awesome. We change up positions for the next 15 minutes or so and she says I want you to cum.

Moving back to 69, as her pussy was sore now and I tell her I'll sooth it with my tongue. More BBBJ and I'm enjoying this no end and I announce I'm going to cum. She keeps at it and I cum a load into her mouth and she swallows the lot. I was stunned and it would be one of the best punts of all time for me.

In the afterglow I ask her what has changed, we fucked a few times over a number of years in the past and never had a CBJ let alone a BBBJ from her in all that time. She says that when she needs extra cash for things for herself she now provides extra services she never did in the past. It’s just sex and if her husband made more money then she wouldn’t need to do extras, but and here it is…. even if she didn’t need the money she now likes fucking some of her customers for the enjoyment of it. So she can make as much money as she wants and enjoy some sex on the side but tell her husband that she only provides NHJ. Then she says, I need a boyfriend so I can go out and have some fun as well. I enquire, what about your husband, she giggles and says she would tell him she is with friends, she has plenty of friends in the industry who will cover for her.

So for those thinking about getting into a relationship with a ML you need to realise that you have no way to know what she is doing in that room and that will screw with your head, one day that will cause issues and it will likely all blow up, there is almost nothing surer. This particular ML didn’t fuck customers or even provide CBJ until after she was married, her husband was a customer and experienced her sexy yet regular NHJ services being offered and he therefore thinks nothing has changed, he is wrong. For her, sex is at work is now happening more than ever, for pleasure and cash and hubby is none the wiser.

It’s a strange world lads, be careful with what you wish for.

Interesting story hardcore. This is why I’ve always been against dating let alone marrying a ML... it’s good to have boundaries, because at the end of the day you’re paying for a service. Sometimes it’s hard to not get a little bit attached, but it’s good to have perspective on what it really is from a higher level.

Then again... to each their own


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[HardCore]

Yes I agree, it can be difficult to not get a little attached, all I am saying is buyer beware.

I've never entered into any relationship with a ML, I don't know if I could do it or not, and I'm not looking for it anyway. The perspective I was sharing was from the guy in the room with the ML who you is in this case married. Not saying for a second that all ML are the same, but this is the world they work in, don't judge them, it's a very difficult job and thankfully mostly the girls do it very well.

[HardCore]

What nationality is this ML?

Sorry, not sharing that information as it's not appropriate.

[Vader]

I think you misspelt "they" for "we".

So does everyone on this site punt, if so how do you know?

[Azzkikr]

Sorry, not sharing that information as it's not appropriate.

No worries. All good.

[asiafever]

This has some distinct north-west and south-east vibes to it

I was thinking similar.. wonder if we are on the same wavelength...

[Yougottabe]

Sorry, not sharing that information as it's not appropriate.
I tell you what’s not appropriate exposing this ML. How do you know the husband isn’t on this forum.

[Climax598]

Who care if the ML husband read this forum . He might find it sexy and having a hard erection might help him to fuck her better. She is not getting enough at home with him.

[goodbloke]

let me guess. Young mid 30s Thailand lady with an old dump. white man husband

[alc]

I was thinking similar.. wonder if we are on the same wavelength...

Sooo.... I wonder if she wants to be th very best, like no one ever was.

[HardCore]

I tell you what’s not appropriate exposing this ML. How do you know the husband isn’t on this forum.

Thanks for the tip Yougottabe but just what do you think has been exposed? You don't know who the girl is, and neither does anybody else. All you can do is guess and good luck to you. FYI, there are plenty of ML's that have husbands and the shops have not been disclosed and neither has the nationality, name, or age of the ML. I did not even say she is Asian so you may all be heading in the wrong direction but it seems to be fun to try to guess who, so why not relax a bit champ or are you the husband.... oops sorry bro if I been banging your wife.

[PervySage]

Why mid 30s..

Met a fair few MLs in 20s and yes were Thai but shouldn't generalize.... And they all had bfs or husbands..

Could be BS..


let me guess. Young mid 30s Thailand lady with an old dump. white man husband

[liminal]

Thanks for the tip Yougottabe but just what do you think has been exposed? You don't know who the girl is, and neither does anybody else. All you can do is guess and good luck to you. FYI, there are plenty of ML's that have husbands and the shops have not been disclosed and neither has the nationality, name, or age of the ML. I did not even say she is Asian so you may all be heading in the wrong direction but it seems to be fun to try to guess who, so why not relax a bit champ or are you the husband.... oops sorry bro if I been banging your wife.


Bravo .


... I’m Brian

[HardCore]

Yep it could be BS, but it's not.

Hi Brian!

[liminal]

Yep it could be BS, but it's not.

Hi Brian!

Not calling bullshit, Au contraire. Quite liked your finale in that post

was hoping there were more love lorn torn wannabe hubbies and ‘whitey knighties’ who’d chorus ..

https://youtu.be/4SYc_flMnMQ

[asiafever]

Bravo .


... I’m Brian

I'm Brian and so is my wife...

[asiafever]

Thanks for the tip Yougottabe but just what do you think has been exposed? You don't know who the girl is, and neither does anybody else. All you can do is guess and good luck to you. FYI, there are plenty of ML's that have husbands and the shops have not been disclosed and neither has the nationality, name, or age of the ML. I did not even say she is Asian so you may all be heading in the wrong direction but it seems to be fun to try to guess who, so why not relax a bit champ or are you the husband.... oops sorry bro if I been banging your wife.

You are right in that I think some punters would be shocked how many of the girls have husbands. Some legit. Some visa jobs. Some here. Some back home. Etc etc.
And yeah, nothing has been exposed. No name, nationality, or any other detail other than married and a rough timeline that could have been altered anyway.

[HardCore]

Yep it could be BS, but it's not.

Hi Brian!

First line was for PS and the second was for Liminal (aka Bryan). So for clarity, to PS yes mate it is a true story, to Brian, hi there :-)

[HardCore]

Not calling bullshit, Au contraire. Quite liked your finale in that post

was hoping there were more love lorn torn wannabe hubbies and ‘whitey knighties’ who’d chorus ..

https://youtu.be/4SYc_flMnMQ

Ahhh it's a classic movie. Haha.

[storry_teller]

Lots of them come to ugly endings, I have to say, due to lack of trust. ML/WL whoever is still a girl who has feeling. They still want a genuine, healthy and secured relationship that they think they’re deserved.
“Who’s this guy/girl?”
“Is he/she genuine?”
“Does she love me, or just want to use me as her personal ATM?”
“Does he love me, or I’m just his sex doll?”
The relationships are normally more sensitive than normal due to the job the girls have. It’s difficult, not just smiling, laughing and fun.
“Does he look down on me? Is my job the reason for him to be reluctant to have serious relationship with me?”
“Does he come to shop behind my back?” “Punter is always a punter?”

“Does she do extra extra to her customers?” “If she did that to me, she could do that to others?”
“Does she have intimate feelings for others?”
“Does she lie?”

“Is she happy with my performance on bed?” “Am I good?”

Then it becomes hard for daily conversations like “How’s your day?” “You had busy day?” Well, busy mean more customers. Good day for girlfriend but more jealous or concern for boyfriend.

Ml might think they’re not good enough for boyfriends due to their jobs, then lose their confidence to ask for their rights, like to know about boyfriend’s families, and some of them become mistresses without awareness. That’s ugly, isn’t it?

[cumquat]

Lots of them come to ugly endings, I have to say, due to lack of trust. ML/WL whoever is still a girl who has feeling. They still want a genuine, healthy and secured relationship that they think they’re deserved.
“Who’s this guy/girl?”
“Is he/she genuine?”
“Does she love me, or just want to use me as her personal ATM?”
“Does he love me, or I’m just his sex doll?”
The relationships are normally more sensitive than normal due to the job the girls have. It’s difficult, not just smiling, laughing and fun.
“Does he look down on me? Is my job the reason for him to be reluctant to have serious relationship with me?”
“Does he come to shop behind my back?” “Punter is always a punter?”

“Does she do extra extra to her customers?” “If she did that to me, she could do that to others?”
“Does she have intimate feelings for others?”
“Does she lie?”

“Is she happy with my performance on bed?” “Am I good?”

Then it becomes hard for daily conversations like “How’s your day?” “You had busy day?” Well, busy mean more customers. Good day for girlfriend but more jealous or concern for boyfriend.

Ml might think they’re not good enough for boyfriends due to their jobs, then lose their confidence to ask for their rights, like to know about boyfriend’s families, and some of them become mistresses without awareness. That’s ugly, isn’t it?

Nicely wrote out (relate to it all ) and last para in particular, I’m sure more than one of us here have created an outcome similar

where is @zoozilla

[asiafever]

Lots of them come to ugly endings, I have to say, due to lack of trust. ML/WL whoever is still a girl who has feeling. They still want a genuine, healthy and secured relationship that they think they’re deserved.
“Who’s this guy/girl?”
“Is he/she genuine?”
“Does she love me, or just want to use me as her personal ATM?”
“Does he love me, or I’m just his sex doll?”
The relationships are normally more sensitive than normal due to the job the girls have. It’s difficult, not just smiling, laughing and fun.
“Does he look down on me? Is my job the reason for him to be reluctant to have serious relationship with me?”
“Does he come to shop behind my back?” “Punter is always a punter?”

“Does she do extra extra to her customers?” “If she did that to me, she could do that to others?”
“Does she have intimate feelings for others?”
“Does she lie?”

“Is she happy with my performance on bed?” “Am I good?”

Then it becomes hard for daily conversations like “How’s your day?” “You had busy day?” Well, busy mean more customers. Good day for girlfriend but more jealous or concern for boyfriend.

Ml might think they’re not good enough for boyfriends due to their jobs, then lose their confidence to ask for their rights, like to know about boyfriend’s families, and some of them become mistresses without awareness. That’s ugly, isn’t it?

Yeah so very true, it's difficult for either side to fully trust the intentions/motives of each other. As I have said previously, it takes a special kind of person to have a successful relationship with a ml/wl, you'll keep hearing that the girl is only after money, that she has other customers on the side as well, when she is at work and you're texting and she goes silent for a few hours you know what is going on, and that if she is busy it is "good" for her and so on, and it eats away at your brain.

Meanwhile on the other side the girl would be getting the same advice and having the same thoughts "Customers are all the same." "You're just a trophy to them." "They'll never trust a sex worker fully." Etc and it all descends into this swirling vortex of suspicion.


Or so I've heard...

[Raffiz88]

Here's a true story to get you thinking.

I'd been a regular customer of a ML for a number of years, starting around 6 years ago. I used to see her roughly every fortnight and we always had a good rapport and used to have the very rare FS experience, although only when she was "on". Around 4 years ago the ML gets herself a boyfriend and the rare FS ends, after around 18 months she gets married to the boyfriend and despite seeing her for the next 6 months after she got married, her whole service level drops away to the point that I decide to not see her any more as it's a waste of money because the service becomes completely mechanical. At some stage she told me that the husband used to be her customer and she did not need a PR or anything like that, they just went out and the relationship grew to eventually being husband and wife.

Her husband was fine for her work to continue post them being married, although from her actions and the falling service I think at the time she felt uneasy continuing in the job.

About six months back now I decide on some ML Lotto and drop into a shop I'd never been to before. I'm taken to a room and the Mamasan calls out to the ML, in she comes and it's the ML I'd stopped seeing around 2 years earlier. We're both surprised to be face to face and the Mamasan asks if this girl is OK and I say yes with a slight hesitation.

The conversation is easy and natural after the Mamasan departs the room and I ask are you still married, she says yes, and I think hmm this will likely be a failed punt. Still the conversation is good and it's nice to see her again. During the conversation she removes her dress and she is cuddling and lightly kissing me, she kisses down my chest as I'm sitting on the edge of the table until she arrives at my cock, an awesome BBBJ ensues, something she had not done in the past other than the odd lick or suck on the side, but she is into it and I'm thinking this is different for her. After around 10 minutes she asks me to lay back on the table and she climbs on for 69. She always loved her pussy to be eaten and I'm thinking I might need to see her again!!

She cums and then her pussy gets sensitive and she wants me to stop so she turns around and is lying next to me and playing with my hard cock whilst we are talking. I ask about the BBBJ and she says that she doesn’t offer BBBJ but she does now do CBJ, why the BBBJ and she says that she knew me and just wanted to do it. Who am I to question so I smile and say thanks. I ask what’s changed and she says her husband limits her working days and she needs money for herself so she stated doing CBJ to earn more and not let hubby know. We start kissing and move to full on DFK, it’s all hot and heavy and I recognise the old signals that she is "on". I ask can we fuck, without a pause she says yes if I have a dom. Well of course I do, I tell her it's in my shirt pocket hanging on the door, remember I was playing lotto and not expecting seeing her, strangely if I knew I was going to see her I would not have taken a dom with me. She jumps up, raids my shirt, grabs the dom and rolls it on. She climbs back on the table and impales her tight and tiny pussy on me. She is going off like a frog in a sock. Her pussy is flooding and she is hammering herself on me, telling me she is cumming, jamming her tongue down my throat, it's was full on and awesome. We change up positions for the next 15 minutes or so and she says I want you to cum.

Moving back to 69, as her pussy was sore now and I tell her I'll sooth it with my tongue. More BBBJ and I'm enjoying this no end and I announce I'm going to cum. She keeps at it and I cum a load into her mouth and she swallows the lot. I was stunned and it would be one of the best punts of all time for me.

In the afterglow I ask her what has changed, we fucked a few times over a number of years in the past and never had a CBJ let alone a BBBJ from her in all that time. She says that when she needs extra cash for things for herself she now provides extra services she never did in the past. It’s just sex and if her husband made more money then she wouldn’t need to do extras, but and here it is…. even if she didn’t need the money she now likes fucking some of her customers for the enjoyment of it. So she can make as much money as she wants and enjoy some sex on the side but tell her husband that she only provides NHJ. Then she says, I need a boyfriend so I can go out and have some fun as well. I enquire, what about your husband, she giggles and says she would tell him she is with friends, she has plenty of friends in the industry who will cover for her.

So for those thinking about getting into a relationship with a ML you need to realise that you have no way to know what she is doing in that room and that will screw with your head, one day that will cause issues and it will likely all blow up, there is almost nothing surer. This particular ML didn’t fuck customers or even provide CBJ until after she was married, her husband was a customer and experienced her sexy yet regular NHJ services being offered and he therefore thinks nothing has changed, he is wrong. For her, sex is at work is now happening more than ever, for pleasure and cash and hubby is none the wiser.

It’s a strange world lads, be careful with what you wish for.

You are my hero 🤩 I wish I could experienced something like this (as a punter, not the husband. I feel for him). But my luck is shit when it comes to punting. Have been seeing a ML for almost 6 months now, never got anything more than topless HJ 😭. But atleast part 1 is legit good.

[HardCore]

Hey there Raffiz88, my suggestion is take a pause, well with lockdown you probably are anyway, but take a break from the regular and then return and see how it goes. Good luck brother.

[dry20]

I guess you might have the same ending like other naive guys.

[zoozilla]

.....But my luck is shit when it comes to punting. Have been seeing a ML for almost 6 months now, never got anything more than topless HJ ��.

Please spread your eggs. See different ones.

I'm like you I saw the same WL for past 3 months. She knew that she had the power over me.

Well not anymore. I'll going to take a risk to start to see different girls Post Restriction.

[Archer]

You are my hero 🤩 I wish I could experienced something like this (as a punter, not the husband. I feel for him). But my luck is shit when it comes to punting. Have been seeing a ML for almost 6 months now, never got anything more than topless HJ 😭. But atleast part 1 is legit good.

I reckon most ML will upgrade their menu after this lockdown, so definitely try it but don't hang around any longer!

[GoldfishMan]

Please spread your eggs. See different ones.

I'm like you I saw the same WL for past 3 months. She knew that she had the power over me.

Well not anymore. I'll going to take a risk to start to see different girls Post Restriction.
Finally you see the light. I'm not saying don't continue to see an ML. Do it only for what she offers, not what you hope she will eventually offer because that is just a downward spiral. You will hate yourself for chasing something that does not exist.

[Raffiz88]

Please spread your eggs. See different ones.

I'm like you I saw the same WL for past 3 months. She knew that she had the power over me.

Well not anymore. I'll going to take a risk to start to see different girls Post Restriction.

I already see different one. She is lost. I haven't seen her for few months now.

[zoozilla]

Finally you see the light. I'm not saying don't continue to see an ML. Do it only for what she offers, not what you hope she will eventually offer because that is just a downward spiral. You will hate yourself for chasing something that does not exist.

Thanks for your concern.

I saw only one ML because of consistency of service and party laziness to meet new girls. Definitely not to "fall in love". :)

I do know sticking with one girl has it's pros and cons.

[the_boss_king]

i feel like the more you see your regulars, the lazier there service starts getting.

im not looking for relationship. i just wanna have a good time.

[aussiegaigin]

I reckon most ML will upgrade their menu after this lockdown, so definitely try it but don't hang around any longer!

Can't say I noticed any difference in offerings from MLs after the last lock down.

[storry_teller]

I don’t think so. After last lockdown, lot of girls told me their customers in first few weeks were super generous. Easy tips so they didn’t need to upgrade. Some even didn’t bother to serve if guys try to bargain

I reckon most ML will upgrade their menu after this lockdown, so definitely try it but don't hang around any longer!

[GoldfishMan]

i feel like the more you see your regulars, the lazier there service starts getting.

im not looking for relationship. i just wanna have a good time.
Or it could be that you're just getting bored of them.

[Niisato]

Agree with Zoozilla about spreading your eggs. Reaps the extras that some intimacy with a semi regular girl brings, but keep the variety to keep in interesting.

[avnyyy]

i feel like the more you see your regulars, the lazier there service starts getting.

im not looking for relationship. i just wanna have a good time.

I think this is true only to some degree. With most regulars I’ve had , the sessions got better....

There have been one or two where they were lazier and boring so stopped seeing them lol


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[asiafever]

I've had regulars where the sessions certainly improved the more I saw them, and others that kind of reached a point and then laziness crept in. One girl used to like to role play. Towards the end her favourite game became "sexy librarian" which is where I wasn't allowed to talk while she read a book... (joke obviously, she read her phone...)

[DayMan69]

A regular works for me. It' been about 4 years now and the rapport and trust is excellent. I really enjoy it and i think she does too. FS in a massage shop works for me far better than the existential angst of a brothel. Call me weird. I think the key is genuine respect...and $100 tip vs $50. Ha! Once a week except period week which is when i see my other regular. And the occasional mid-weeker just for the thrill of something new. We msg back and forth and i give (and get) birthday and xmas gifts. It's really sweet.

And that's as close to dating as you should get with a ML or WL.

Anything else is madness. Think it through.

If she's no longer working in the industry, because *love*, muggins (you) is supporting her.
If she's still working, you're dick no 5/6/7 at the end of her day.
If she's here on a student visa, are you her partner...or PR ticket?
She's had multiple white knights fall for her; are you really the only boyfriend?
She's young, and wealthy, good looking men tell her she's beautiful every single day. Are you a rock star with a big dick and bigger wallet? Because if you ain't...there's a better prospect than you, every single day.
If you're twice her age...what will you actually talk about after week two?
If you're her age and thinking marriage, kids, family unit... well, maybe and good luck to you young fella. I love an optimist.

Otherwise pays your money, have your fun, hang out with your mates.

[storry_teller]

A regular works for me. It' been about 4 years now and the rapport and trust is excellent. I really enjoy it and i think she does too. FS in a massage shop works for me far better than the existential angst of a brothel. Call me weird. I think the key is genuine respect...and $100 tip vs $50. Ha! Once a week except period week which is when i see my other regular. And the occasional mid-weeker just for the thrill of something new. We msg back and forth and i give (and get) birthday and xmas gifts. It's really sweet.

And that's as close to dating as you should get with a ML or WL.

Anything else is madness. Think it through.

If she's no longer working in the industry, because *love*, muggins (you) is supporting her.
If she's still working, you're dick no 5/6/7 at the end of her day.
If she's here on a student visa, are you her partner...or PR ticket?
She's had multiple white knights fall for her; are you really the only boyfriend?
She's young, and wealthy, good looking men tell her she's beautiful every single day. Are you a rock star with a big dick and bigger wallet? Because if you ain't...there's a better prospect than you, every single day.
If you're twice her age...what will you actually talk about after week two?
If you're her age and thinking marriage, kids, family unit... well, maybe and good luck to you young fella. I love an optimist.

Otherwise pays your money, have your fun, hang out with your mates.
Yeah, it’s more complicated and difficult to prove a genuine feeling/relationship. All will be blurred by her works and bunch of guys around her. Will be hard to believe that she likes you not because of your money or seeing you as PR tickets, or even your dick size (actually we all think size is important but many girls say not really true). Some girls actually just look for “normal” things that make them feel comfortable/peaceful when they’re with you. Like most of them can afford dinners so actually they just need someone to enjoy times with. Not at the time guys need to be handsome with thick wallets, but an arm that the girls can rest on. What they need is sometimes a guy who makes them feel normal after work, or keep them away from nightmares

[cuteguy]

Or it could be that you're just getting bored of them.

The boredom eventually sinks in especially when you have done everything permitted by the girl. Sometimes girls will bring in new tricks or allow more sexual play but we all know there are many fish in the sea. In the end, it's time to try new fish.

[DayMan69]

The boredom eventually sinks in especially when you have done everything permitted by the girl. Sometimes girls will bring in new tricks or allow more sexual play but we all know there are many fish in the sea. In the end, it's time to try new fish.

There's something to be said, though, for a regular who knows your body, who's comfortable with you, and lets you explore just that little bit more.

I stray from my regulars often because i'm a hopeless slut, but i've discovered that, by and large, the grass isn't that much greener that often.

[DayMan69]

The boredom eventually sinks in especially when you have done everything permitted by the girl. Sometimes girls will bring in new tricks or allow more sexual play but we all know there are many fish in the sea. In the end, it's time to try new fish.

There's something to be said, though, for a regular who knows your body, who's comfortable with you, and lets you explore just that little bit more.

I stray from my regulars often because i'm a hopeless slut, but i've discovered that, by and large, the grass isn't that much greener that often.

[storry_teller]

It’s bad if you read ar of them. Not only feel jealous but also lose your confidence. Starting to compare to the ppl they see then think you’re not good enough. What you do is not special but actually you’re just a newbie while they’re experts and get experiences with experts. It kills the mood.

[Rackster]

Dont do it.
When she's at work all you will think about is if she's got a cock in her mouth, being spreadeagled, or getting covered in jizz

[Rooster18]

Dont do it.
When she's at work all you will think about is if she's got a cock in her mouth, being spreadeagled, or getting covered in jizz

So true.. I doubt anyone could handle this and or who's ego could let it be day in day out...

I could not honestly do it as a serious relationship...

[TheMaestro]

Just find a normal girl, no need to date WL.

[Climax598]

Dont do it.
When she's at work all you will think about is if she's got a cock in her mouth, being spreadeagled, or getting covered in jizz
Thinking of it is so sexy your girl is been played by many guys everyday while you are hard at work/home
and thinking how she is been fuck. Wait till you saw her reviews from guys play her 1 to 2 time and she Cim and suck till last drop with a smile. Wait till you text her and she haven't replied your text for few hours. Later say she was very busy with customer.
If you think is sexy go a head and but some boyfriend likes it.

[Appleofedengarden666]

Thinking of it is so sexy your girl is been played by many guys everyday while you are hard at work/home
and thinking how she is been fuck. Wait till you saw her reviews from guys play her 1 to 2 time and she Cim and suck till last drop with a smile. Wait till you text her and she haven't replied your text for few hours. Later say she was very busy with customer.
If you think is sexy go a head and but some boyfriend likes it.

IMHO, this kind of relationship is difficult to cope with, but no need to be cynical like this. It might be hard, but doesn't mean it's wrong, and they're wrong to love each other. I don't admire, but feel for wls. It's their works, a very hard work, and we don't know the stories behind why they choose it. And it doesn't mean wls don't deserve a happy and genuine relationship. They have their pain, and would love someone who can understand their choices, who can love their scars, their pain and still respect them. And the men who love them are really strong men, with good heart and generous to get through hard times with them. Hard but beautiful that wls can have their lovers to tell them that "I'm here for you".

[solidsnake]

And the men who love them are really strong men, with good heart and generous to get through hard times with them. Hard but beautiful that wls can have their lovers to tell them that "I'm here for you".

Respectfully disagree, the kind of man that lets his partner fuck clients all day shouldn’t be put up on a pedestal. If he can support her and take her out of the game, and respect her despite her past that’s different.

[Rackster]

So true.. I doubt anyone could handle this and or who's ego could let it be day in day out...

I could not honestly do it as a serious relationship...

Someone you dont love, sure, but as a serious relationship with someone you love? I completely agree. every night unable to sleep cos youre waiting for her to come home, knowing what she's doing to who can imagine the 4am punter rolling in drunk, off chops, raging to hammer out some frustration.. who then extends into the daylight.. Every 100 she pulls out is another cock that shes swallowed, and another guy that had her while you didnt...Too tired to fuck when she gets home, or on her days off cos shes done it all week (without you) .. Then rush her to work for a morning booking cos she slept in.... the list goes on .. and on...
Its shit for her too, but she has to.....

If its at all avoidable, run..
If its true love... well.. unless you can get her out.. its gonna be bumpy ride

[Kiryu0]

I think something sums up this relationship... only works for those who enjoy getting cucked!!

[rooter]

You've gotta be either a cad or a cuck :)