prostate play or massage question advice

[cplurt2]

So my favourite wl was giving me a bj while her covered finger or fingers were rubbing the back end causing an interesting experience. I know we're supposed to wait out the pain part and a rush follows but I kept feeling like I had to piss and cum at the same time. I told her I gotta pee and she rubbed faster telling me to go ahead but it just wasn't happening ie that rush I got one other time. Is there a best way to experience this be it a mindset or a position with a wl or female? Thanks

[Straponlover]

Hi mate,

There should never be any pain part when it involves anal play. If there is pain you need to stop. That means your not warmed up and relaxed. Just know not every working girl knows what to do when doing any sort of anal play. You should read up on it or listen to some podcasts about it so you know what to expect that way you can enjoy it.