How do you pay(shops/private)?

[Nabz]

Hey, just wondering how everyone pays for their outgoings lol. I've always done only cash because i think it's the most discrete.

Just wondering, what does it show up as in the bank when you use card at shops/private?

[zoozilla]

I have to be careful being a married man. I ask the shops to bill my company. My boss will then reduce my pay accordingly to my "expenditure".

When my wife asks about the shortfalls in my wage I just tell her my pay has suffered a reduction because of worsening business conditions.

[JJBlows]

I have to be careful being a married man. I ask the shops to bill my company. My boss will then reduce my pay accordingly to my "expenditure".

When my wife asks about the shortfalls in my wage I just tell her my pay has suffered a reduction because of worsening business conditions.

Does the boss know what he is paying for? Surely he can google the transaction name and found out?

[Climax598]

Does the boss know what he is paying for? Surely he can google the transaction name and found out?
😜😎 his boss must be punting with him and share info hope the boss is a guy

[warwick1]

I have to be careful being a married man. I ask the shops to bill my company. My boss will then reduce my pay accordingly to my "expenditure".

When my wife asks about the shortfalls in my wage I just tell her my pay has suffered a reduction because of worsening business conditions.

If your story is true which I doubt like most of your posts, I feel sorry for your poor wife having to put up with a dope like you....cheers

[rooter]

I reckon it's best to use cash.
Most privates and some really small R&T shops might be cash only anyway. The tip to the ML will certainly be cash only.
But almost all the shops do eftpos.
Don't worry your statement won't say Madame Wang's Bawdy Bordello, it will be something discrete like XYZ Pty Ltd

[Nabz]

I reckon it's best to use cash.
Most privates and some really small R&T shops might be cash only anyway. The tip to the ML will certainly be cash only.
But almost all the shops do eftpos.
Don't worry your statement won't say Madame Wang's Bawdy Bordello, it will be something discrete like XYZ Pty Ltd

Yeh that's what I was worried about with the bank statement. Good to know that it shows up as something else. I recently found out that if you subscribe to only fans it will show up as OF or Onlyfans... Which is a no go lol.

Has anyone ever used a virtual credit card?

[GoldfishMan]

Yeh that's what I was worried about with the bank statement. Good to know that it shows up as something else. I recently found out that if you subscribe to only fans it will show up as OF or Onlyfans... Which is a no go lol.

Has anyone ever used a virtual credit card?
Does your partner demand to see your statements or you're just afraid of her intercepting your paper statements?
If the latter, why don't you just change your bank or credit card statement type to email only? All the providers give you that option now. You will not receive any paper statements moving forward.

[aussiegaigin]

You don't even need to get statements emailed. You just open your accounts online and you can see all recent transactions. They are archived for up to 7 years with a bit more searching.

[warwick1]

If you are single pay with whatever you like, married/partner whatever you call them pay cash, end of story...

[Johnisfun1969]

I pay most of the times with cash. It is the safest both from being scammed as well as no record. It can get tricky as the cash withdrawal shows in the bank statement. What I started doing is putting some money aside for punting each time withdrew cash.

[JJBlows]

I reckon it's best to use cash.
Most privates and some really small R&T shops might be cash only anyway. The tip to the ML will certainly be cash only.
But almost all the shops do eftpos.
Don't worry your statement won't say Madame Wang's Bawdy Bordello, it will be something discrete like XYZ Pty Ltd

I paid card once and it had a discreet name but when I googled it, it when straight to the shop I paid at so it's not full proof if your trying to hide it

[JJBlows]

Does your partner demand to see your statements or you're just afraid of her intercepting your paper statements?
If the latter, why don't you just change your bank or credit card statement type to email only? All the providers give you that option now. You will not receive any paper statements moving forward.

Some couples merge accounts so she can see it with out demanding to see his

[JJBlows]

If your story is true which I doubt like most of your posts, I feel sorry for your poor wife having to put up with a dope like you....cheers

If he is a married man then paying for an hours sesh isn't as bad as going out of his way to cheat on her with another woman where it involves emotions and can lead to him jumping ship so to speak. IMHO cheating on your partner is alot worse. Sometimes married couples sex lives take a back-seat and men want sex compared to women so all he is doing is getting his fix with a ML/WL and still goes home to his wife.

[warwick1]

If he is a married man then paying for an hours sesh isn't as bad as going out of his way to cheat on her with another woman where it involves emotions and can lead to him jumping ship so to speak. IMHO cheating on your partner is alot worse. Sometimes married couples sex lives take a back-seat and men want sex compared to women so all he is doing is getting his fix with a ML/WL and still goes home to his wife.

Wow how lucky is she...he is still a dope

[JJBlows]

Wow how lucky is she...he is still a dope

This is a forum about hookers where guys pay for sex so there in no need to judge

[Nabz]

Does your partner demand to see your statements or you're just afraid of her intercepting your paper statements?
If the latter, why don't you just change your bank or credit card statement type to email only? All the providers give you that option now. You will not receive any paper statements moving forward.

Some couples merge accounts so she can see it with out demanding to see his

This. Joint acc so both can see transactions, including cash withdrawals.


I paid card once and it had a discreet name but when I googled it, it when straight to the shop I paid at so it's not full proof if your trying to hide it

Oh wow... That's no good. That's why I'm exploring the use of a virtual credit card.

How does beemit appear on transactions? Can it be traced? A lot of privates ask for deposit these days...

[CountryPunter]

Know a guy (my brother actually) called into a brothel years ago with a few mates late at night. He was pretty under the weather but still fancied a bit of fun.

Handed his credit card to the mamasan who then showed him to a room and told him a girl would be along shortly. Sometime later girl wakes him up and tells him his time is up. Mamasan handed back his card on the way out.

Later checked his ac and they had taken the fee. To this day he doesn't think he fucked anyone. Just paid for an hrs sleep.

[ivies555]

CASH 💰 only …. Cash is king

[Climax598]

Know a guy (my brother actually) called into a brothel years ago with a few mates late at night. He was pretty under the weather but still fancied a bit of fun.

Handed his credit card to the mamasan who then showed him to a room and told him a girl would be along shortly. Sometime later girl wakes him up and tells him his time is up. Mamasan handed back his card on the way out.

Later checked his ac and they had taken the fee. To this day he doesn't think he fucked anyone. Just paid for an hrs sleep.
Funny is to be remembered.Hope the 1 hr sleep is not too expensive.

[rooter]

I find that barter is a good option.
You bring in some fresh veggies from the garden, some firewood, some fresh eggs, a piglet, a live chicken, an original painting, a bow and arrow, a kangaroo skin.
You do a bit of negotiating and it works well.
Once I exchanged a plough for a ho. That was a pretty good deal.

[GoldfishMan]

This. Joint acc so both can see transactions, including cash withdrawals.



Oh wow... That's no good. That's why I'm exploring the use of a virtual credit card.

How does beemit appear on transactions? Can it be traced? A lot of privates ask for deposit these days...
Sorry to hear that bro. Joint accounts is like Superman's kryptonite to a punter. Forget about punting is my advice, too much trouble to even think about it.

About the virtual credit card. You're still gonna have to pay for it and that money's going to come out of your joint account. How are you going to explain that?

[GoldfishMan]

I find that barter is a good option.
I bring in some fresh veggies from the garden, some firewood, some fresh eggs, a piglet, a live chicken, an original painting.
You do a bit of negotiating and it works well.
Once I exchanged a plough for a hoe. That was a pretty good deal.

ROFLMAO, you cracked me up bro!! Seriously had me in stitches there!!

[Nabz]

Know a guy (my brother actually) called into a brothel years ago with a few mates late at night. He was pretty under the weather but still fancied a bit of fun.

Handed his credit card to the mamasan who then showed him to a room and told him a girl would be along shortly. Sometime later girl wakes him up and tells him his time is up. Mamasan handed back his card on the way out.

Later checked his ac and they had taken the fee. To this day he doesn't think he fucked anyone. Just paid for an hrs sleep.

Interesting story. You sure he wasn't drunk and ended up at some random hotel? 😂

[aussiegaigin]

I find that barter is a good option.
You bring in some fresh veggies from the garden, some firewood, some fresh eggs, a piglet, a live chicken, an original painting, a bow and arrow, a kangaroo skin.
You do a bit of negotiating and it works well.
Once I exchanged a plough for a ho. That was a pretty good deal.
A piglet and a live chicken could get you a wife in some cultures

[Climax598]

I find that barter is a good option.
You bring in some fresh veggies from the garden, some firewood, some fresh eggs, a piglet, a live chicken, an original painting, a bow and arrow, a kangaroo skin.
You do a bit of negotiating and it works well.
Once I exchanged a plough for a ho. That was a pretty good deal.
Just imagine 10 punter bring similar things the wl/ml have to exchange with someone. That's was why money was invented by the Chinese.

[AHLUNGOR]

The only time I ever used credit card for sex was more than 20 years ago. I was in Christchurch NZ for business.

Back then I was a bit of a gambling addict. Lost all my cash at the casino, withdrawn maximum cash advance from my Visa and MasterCard. Pretty fucked up night on the roulette table. Back to the hotel room and badly needed a fuck to get over the awful feelings.

Took out the yellow page adult session and rang up an agency. Ask for an escort and checked that I could paid with American Express card, she said yes but had to process the charge first, it went through and was told the girl will be there in 30 min.

She came, I fucked and had a good sleep afterwards........ lol, can’t really remember much about the girl and the punt, it was pretty ordinary to say the least, but a fuck was a fuck.

Was actually worried about how the charge would appear on my statement, it actually shown up as something Pty Ltd so there was no issue there .

That was an one off and only ever used cash since.

[Nabz]

About the virtual credit card. You're still gonna have to pay for it and that money's going to come out of your joint account. How are you going to explain that?

Well, if I link a virtual CC to my main card and use the virtual CC to pay, the transaction will appear on the virtual one I assume... Which can be deleted anytime. I also assume that something will be shown on the main card that money went out to the virtual card? But I don't know how that will appear on the main card transaction in this case.

@cash, how do you deal with deposits... Or you don't do privates? 🤔

[aussiegaigin]

@cash, how do you deal with deposits... Or you don't do privates? 🤔
You don't give a private your CC details, do you?

[warwick1]

ROFLMAO, you cracked me up bro!! Seriously had me in stitches there!!

I once swapped services for a pair of binoculars...true story, further into the lock down I'll bore you shitless with it..........

[Nabz]

You don't give a private your CC details, do you?

Ofc not. But just wondering how to tackle deposits anonymously. Not sure how beemit or other apps work.

[GoldfishMan]

Ofc not. But just wondering how to tackle deposits anonymously. Not sure how beemit or other apps work.
When you say "deposit", do you mean transferring cash to the WL as payment? As in a bank transfer?

[CountryPunter]

Ofc not. But just wondering how to tackle deposits anonymously. Not sure how beemit or other apps work.

Mate, sounds to me like you need to stick to cash. Well and good to investigate other alternatives but there is no trail with cash. Anything else and one slip up and you're in the shit.

[alc]

Ofc not. But just wondering how to tackle deposits anonymously. Not sure how beemit or other apps work.

Beemit is anonymous so long as your handle has no connection. You'd be surprised (or maybe you wouldn't) with what it gets used for. It turns up on your statement as beemit charge or refund, which is also nice.

The only issue with beemit is that girls don't seem to use it.

[rooter]

Maybe Afterpay? Fuck now, pay later.

[happyspider]

CASH 💰 only …. Cash is king
Totally agree with this bros!!! Why leave any trace….

[Nabz]

When you say "deposit", do you mean transferring cash to the WL as payment? As in a bank transfer?

A lot of privates require you to pay a small deposit in advance and from what I've noticed a lot of them usually take beemit. No deposit = no booking. Which is a bit shitty if you're planning to pay cash in full. But they're probably fed up with cancellations and time wasters so yeh...


Beemit is anonymous so long as your handle has no connection. You'd be surprised (or maybe you wouldn't) with what it gets used for. It turns up on your statement as beemit charge or refund, which is also nice.

The only issue with beemit is that girls don't seem to use it.

A lot of girls on SB seem to use beemit. So it shows up on bank transaction as simply beemit? Does it show anymore details such as to what acc its transferred to?

[the_boss_king]

always pay cash. although you can ask staff about there company name.
some shops set up different names to protect clients

[alc]

A lot of privates require you to pay a small deposit in advance and from what I've noticed a lot of them usually take beemit. No deposit = no booking. Which is a bit shitty if you're planning to pay cash in full. But they're probably fed up with cancellations and time wasters so yeh...



A lot of girls on SB seem to use beemit. So it shows up on bank transaction as simply beemit? Does it show anymore details such as to what acc its transferred to?

On the bank statement it's just beemit purchase or refund. The record is on the beemit app. That will show the other person's handle, the amount and whatever you put down as the reason.

[DayMan69]

1. Cash
2. Cash
3. Cash

Most shops have a generic sounding name that will appear on the CC statement, but a suspicious partner with smarts will easily track that through ASIC, or registered business address. And also, do you want a regular payment of $180 to Dicklik pty ltd or whatever every Saturday showing up on your statement? No. No you don't.

[HoorayForBoobies]

Cash is easiest, for both the shop and privacy.

Get into a habit of keeping a slush fund of cash available.

Whether regular smaller withdrawals over multiple times or when you receive cash from anywhere, keep it aside.

[cumquat]

Cash is easiest, for both the shop and privacy.

Get into a habit of keeping a slush fund of cash available.

Whether regular smaller withdrawals over multiple times or when you receive cash from anywhere, keep it aside.

Sound advice

I do milk runs and walk dogs for the extra cash

[Nabz]

I appreciate your advice and 100% agree about cash.

However, it's a bit slow to withdraw bit by bit and also may be suspicious to take a big lump sum at once.

Also, I understand that shops will take cash. How about privates who require you to pay an early deposit before the booking? How do you do this anonymously. That's why I'm asking about beemit and the use of a virtual CC, etc...

[HoorayForBoobies]

I appreciate your advice and 100% agree about cash.

However, it's a bit slow to withdraw bit by bit and also may be suspicious to take a big lump sum at once.

Also, I understand that shops will take cash. How about privates who require you to pay an early deposit before the booking? How do you do this anonymously. That's why I'm asking about beemit and the use of a virtual CC, etc...

If you go to maccas for a coffee, add some extra as a cash withdrawal / Take some cash out for work lunch etc

I have separate bank account to my partner, so not a huge worry for me as I also keep a fixed amount available in my account.

As someone else has said though, Beem It doesn’t show details on account statements.

[dotcumdotinyou]

Why would you pay a deposit to a private?????

Specially one you've never seen before.

[GoldfishMan]

Why would you pay a deposit to a private?????

Specially one you've never seen before.

I notice this is a trend starting to take hold recently. Private girls requiring an initial deposit of X $$ to their account in order to confirm bookings. It may be a reaction to another trend which is cheapo customers ripping private WLs off by doing a runner after the session.
Some girls are also too naive and may leave the cash payment on a table somewhere while they go for a shower etc.

[Nabz]

If you go to maccas for a coffee, add some extra as a cash withdrawal / Take some cash out for work lunch etc

I have separate bank account to my partner, so not a huge worry for me as I also keep a fixed amount available in my account.

As someone else has said though, Beem It doesn’t show details on account statements.

Something to consider lol. It's been so long since I've used and dealt with cash. It's always been CC and debit cards..


I notice this is a trend starting to take hold recently. Private girls requiring an initial deposit of X $$ to their account in order to confirm bookings. It may be a reaction to another trend which is cheapo customers ripping private WLs off by doing a runner after the session.
Some girls are also too naive and may leave the cash payment on a table somewhere while they go for a shower etc.

Precisely. That, and they're probably fed up with time wasters who book and then cancel so they need to confirm it by taking the deposit and state "no refund." Sucks for cash players but yeh... Lol

[Littlewonder]

I always pay cash my wife told me years ago now that her girl friends husband got caught out when his accountant told his girl friend about his use of his credit card. The accountant and his girlfriend happened to be friends with the guys wife.

pay cash its safer.

[Carissawhore]

Always cash, unless you are single and nobody looks into your bank account.

[dotcumdotinyou]

What happens if you pay your deposit, get to her place on time then get a text saying she's running 20 minutes late?

This happened to me recently, but I wasn't stupid enough to pay a deposit so I left.

[Nabz]

What happens if you pay your deposit, get to her place on time then get a text saying she's running 20 minutes late?

This happened to me recently, but I wasn't stupid enough to pay a deposit so I left.

Sad to hear bro.

I haven't done private in a while now but all of my ones were positive experiences and that was when most of them were happy without a deposit and straight cash it was.

Now it feels like most, if not all, require deposit which is meh...

[HoorayForBoobies]

It seems a lot of the higher end ($600+/hr) are requesting part or full payment before confirming a booking.

[Nabz]

It seems a lot of the higher end ($600+/hr) are requesting part or full payment before confirming a booking.

Seems like it. And not like you're gona rock up to the place, hand her 50$ cash as a deposit and come back the next day or a week later for the actual session 😂

Its like, I want to book private but don't want any online traces. Guess I'm sticking to cash only places.

[aussiegaigin]

It seems a lot of the higher end ($600+/hr) are requesting part or full payment before confirming a booking.

A lot of restaurants use the same conditions. But they are not likely to be a no-show for the booking or other scams.

[alc]

Seems like it. And not like you're gona rock up to the place, hand her 50$ cash as a deposit and come back the next day or a week later for the actual session ��

Its like, I want to book private but don't want any online traces. Guess I'm sticking to cash only places.

You can always do a cash deposit at an ATM. No online traces and it's immediate.

[Nabz]

You can always do a cash deposit at an ATM. No online traces and it's immediate.

Wait how does that work? Do you just type what account you want to transfer into and insert the cash? You don't have to insert your card right?

[limbi8888]

i only pay cash, don't want anyone knowing what i'm up to

[stones]

Wait how does that work? Do you just type what account you want to transfer into and insert the cash? You don't have to insert your card right?

You do have to insert your card but it doesn't show up on your statements.
Just need to follow the prompts, It's usually only at the ATM's at the banks that accept deposits, I've done this a few times