Feeling obligated to see wl/ml?

[tawer5ag]

So does anyone feel obligated to see an ml/wl?
Maybe its their regular, a nti girl which girls a genuine gfe session, maybe its cause their servicesfit what you want, you have thei contact info, etc.

I currently feel like i have these few ml/wls where i enjoy their services and they fit my preference in a lot of ways, looks, service, etc.

I feel obligated to see them as i want to enjoy their sessions.
But mainly due to me being worried that their service might change after not seeing them after at least a few weeks.

Looking for arvice from punters regarding this.


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[storry_teller]

Is your sign Libra? Should not overthink but make it simple. Good tip, even just $5 extra, and respecting can create good sessions. Once you leave the door, all finishes.

[tawer5ag]

Is your sign Libra? Should not overthink but make it simple. Good tip, even just $5 extra, and respecting can create good sessions. Once you leave the door, all finishes.

No, not libra. [emoji28]

Always respected girls and tipped as well.

The specific girl, i really didnt tip her. I just paid what she asked for.
Now, i think i prolly shouldve. Just like what i did to other ladies.

You said, once i leave the session it finishes?
Then is it safe to assume that even after not seeing the girl for a few weeks, that services should still be similar to the previous session?



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[aussiegaigin]

Why should you feel "obligated" to see them? You are just one of maybe dozens of regular clients. I doubt they would even miss you if you don't come back.

Ignore the warm welcomes you got on previous visits, I've had plenty of "nice to see you again" from girls I've never seen before.

[storry_teller]

No, not libra. [emoji28]

Always respected girls and tipped as well.

The specific girl, i really didnt tip her. I just paid what she asked for.
Now, i think i prolly shouldve. Just like what i did to other ladies.

You said, once i leave the session it finishes?
Then is it safe to assume that even after not seeing the girl for a few weeks, that services should still be similar to the previous session?



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Basically they try to keep it as constant service, but sometimes it would be different rely on their moods so even though it’s not you, they still might give you a crap session if they’re not in good mood.

[asiafever]

No, not libra. [emoji28]

Always respected girls and tipped as well.

The specific girl, i really didnt tip her. I just paid what she asked for.
Now, i think i prolly shouldve. Just like what i did to other ladies.

You said, once i leave the session it finishes?
Then is it safe to assume that even after not seeing the girl for a few weeks, that services should still be similar to the previous session?



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Absence makes the heart grow fonder...

I think what Storry is saying is the girls don't really think a whole heap about us once we leave after a session, unless business is slow and our regular revenue stream becomes more noticeably absent.
I've found that when I return to see a girl after an absence service is either the same or maybe an improvement.

As a terminal overthinker I can sympathise but let me assure you, if you're going around other shops she's not going to worry or care a heap.

I'll finish with a couple of stories. I had a regular fs girl, our sessions were very good. One day I was in another part of town and walked in to a shop on a whim, and she was the 2nd girl introduced to me. She was trialling working in the shop for a day. She grabbed my hand, led me to the room and gave me an unbelievable session that left me barely able to move. It was awesome.
I had a regular ml who I saw maybe 3 sessions a month. I went missing for 3 or 4 months, came back and our sessions picked up a level or two. Why? I'd like to believe my charm and general sexiness were irresistible to the girls, but that's far from the reality. Both girls realised I was probably trying out other shops and girls and so thought they'd better step things up a level to keep me coming back. I would be a naive fool to believe I was the only one receiving the level of service these girls were giving.

And yes as with aussiegaigin I've had girls waemy greet me and tell me it's nice to see me again when I've never seen them, and have also had "nice to meet you" when I've seen a girl a couple of times...

[alc]

No, not libra. [emoji28]

Always respected girls and tipped as well.

The specific girl, i really didnt tip her. I just paid what she asked for.
Now, i think i prolly shouldve. Just like what i did to other ladies.

You said, once i leave the session it finishes?
Then is it safe to assume that even after not seeing the girl for a few weeks, that services should still be similar to the previous session?



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I'm going to guess that you're thinking about one of the Marrickville girls. If so, I'd say being over regular would actually diminish your service as she's more likely to want to just sit and chat after doing her thing as you're a regular.

[Riff888]

I'm going to guess that you're thinking about one of the Marrickville girls. If so, I'd say being over regular would actually diminish your service as she's more likely to want to just sit and chat after doing her thing as you're a regular.Some dudes book for 8 hours for mostly talking. I don't understand why.

I rather see the girl outside the shop and hangout, have BBQ or go for a long drive.

If a guy feels obligated to see a girl, something's not right, your not happy to see her anymore and it's time to move on.

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[Rackster]

Some dudes book for 8 hours for mostly talking. I don't understand why.

I rather see the girl outside the shop and hangout, have BBQ or go for a long drive.

If a guy feels obligated to see a girl, something's not right, your not happy to see her anymore and it's time to move on.

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Completely agree, if I make the booking longer, its not to talk more. One of the wins of a punt is that you can walk away when you like

[rooter]

Once you start having feelings of being "obligated" you are on the slippery slope to punting hell, like the sad cases who constantly come on this forum with their tales of heartache and woe.
Snap out of it!.

[Danny801]

Absence makes the heart grow fonder...
I think what Storry is saying is the girls don't really think a whole heap about us once we leave after a session, unless business is slow and our regular revenue stream becomes more noticeably absent.
I've found that when I return to see a girl after an absence service is either the same or maybe an improvement.

As a terminal overthinker I can sympathise but let me assure you, if you're going around other shops she's not going to worry or care a heap.

I'll finish with a couple of stories. I had a regular fs girl, our sessions were very good. One day I was in another part of town and walked in to a shop on a whim, and she was the 2nd girl introduced to me. She was trialling working in the shop for a day. She grabbed my hand, led me to the room and gave me an unbelievable session that left me barely able to move. It was awesome.
I had a regular ml who I saw maybe 3 sessions a month. I went missing for 3 or 4 months, came back and our sessions picked up a level or two. Why? I'd like to believe my charm and general sexiness were irresistible to the girls, but that's far from the reality. Both girls realised I was probably trying out other shops and girls and so thought they'd better step things up a level to keep me coming back. I would be a naive fool to believe I was the only one receiving the level of service these girls were giving.

And yes as with aussiegaigin I've had girls waemy greet me and tell me it's nice to see me again when I've never seen them, and have also had "nice to meet you" when I've seen a girl a couple of times...

Like it AsiaFever,
Playing hard to get lol. Yes Ive had loads of ‘im sure ive seen you before…” when its my first visit.
Girls might have and provide different levels of service but even with the best service one would be foolish to think you are the only one, else that is a slippery slope.

[tawer5ag]

Firstly, thanks for all the replies.

Its a bit hard to quote all of you guys, so ill just address most of it here.

Regarding overthinking, yeah im a notorious overthinker.
It definitely helps to get a fresh insight from other people and thats why i thought of asking guidance from the forum.

I also didnt think of it in the way it was described, as the girls point of view. That they would like to keep your patronage.

I was thinking too much that the girl was popular and got some services/extras that random punters would normally get from her.


And as for it being the n5m girl, actually not. The only worry i have with my favourite at n5m, is that if she decides to stop working suddenly.

Its actually a few nti mls. [emoji28]


And for longer bookings ending up with lots of talking spcially with regulars.
Atm, i dont find it that bad? I quite enjoy some aspects of it.
Maybe itll change in the near future. Dunno.


And for the service im getting. Im not thick enough to think im the only one getting that service from her. I just think im one of the few, or a bit more haha, that gets those. Compared to other random punters

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[asiafever]

Like it AsiaFever,
Playing hard to get lol. Yes Ive had loads of ‘im sure ive seen you before…” when its my first visit.
Girls might have and provide different levels of service but even with the best service one would be foolish to think you are the only one, else that is a slippery slope.

In my more naive days I used to think it was only me, that I was somehow special despite having a face like a bulldog chewing on a wasp, it was only later I started to figure out the game.
I always question myself when I get the "nice to see you again", like has dementia set in early, did I see this girl and just forget about her etc, but then when I catch them trying to decipher my tats I know they've never seen me because that's how moat girls remember me.

[rooter]

We are just a wallet with a dick to the girls. Or maybe a just a dick with a wallet.
Either way, that's just the way it is, and the way it should be.
The sooner you drop your ego and/or your romantic fairytales and accept that, the sooner you enjoy your punting without all the stress and drama and nonsense.
As I always say for that hour that you are with a girl open up your heart and your mind and your balls and enjoy the wonderful experience and fantasy, and then walk out into the bright sunshine or the crisp night air and get back to reality.
Enjoy!

[asiafever]

Firstly, thanks for all the replies.

Its a bit hard to quote all of you guys, so ill just address most of it here.

Regarding overthinking, yeah im a notorious overthinker.
It definitely helps to get a fresh insight from other people and thats why i thought of asking guidance from the forum.

I also didnt think of it in the way it was described, as the girls point of view. That they would like to keep your patronage.

I was thinking too much that the girl was popular and got some services/extras that random punters would normally get from her.


And as for it being the n5m girl, actually not. The only worry i have with my favourite at n5m, is that if she decides to stop working suddenly.

Its actually a few nti mls. [emoji28]


And for longer bookings ending up with lots of talking spcially with regulars.
Atm, i dont find it that bad? I quite enjoy some aspects of it.
Maybe itll change in the near future. Dunno.


And for the service im getting. Im not thick enough to think im the only one getting that service from her. I just think im one of the few, or a bit more haha, that gets those. Compared to other random punters

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Overthinking isn't always a bad thing, but yeah it can be a hindrance in this game. If you've ever watched The Good Place, the character Chidi does seem to be largely based on me...

I'm not against having a good chat and it can enhance a session, but yeah in a 90min fs session after introductions I would only expect the chat while I'm catching my breathe after rd 1 and/or 2... or 3 if she's that good...

[asiafever]

We are just a wallet with a dick to the girls. Or maybe a just a dick with a wallet.
Either way, that's just the way it is, and the way it should be.
The sooner you drop your ego and/or your romantic fairytales and accept that, the sooner you enjoy your punting without all the stress and drama and nonsense.
As I always say for that hour that you are with a girl open up your heart and your mind and your balls and enjoy the wonderful experience and fantasy, and then walk out into the bright sunshine or the crisp night air and get back to reality.
Enjoy!

Good advice. Makes punting life much easier when follow that strategy.

[tawer5ag]

Yeah very great advice from you guys.

I used to be what you guys are telling me i should be.
Just punt, enjoy it, maybe think back tonit after the session and think about what you can do for next sessions.
Was doing like 1-2 sessions of 1 hr per week.
What i think helped maintain this a bit was that the girls were fairly straight forward and you can see in their demeanor that theyre jaded and just want to get the session over with and get theur pay.

Became worse when i found a good gfe wl. Wanted to see her a bit more than my usual ml punts before.
Qhat helped in preventing me from doing so is that its a fair bit of travel to go to the brothel. Plus the price is like double what i pay for compared to mls.

But now its like my worst stage, at least from my experience.
Since its an ml with great engagement and gfe. I find myself enjoying the actual company. Great talks during the session. Just enjoying playing with her more than she plays with me.
Im like doing 2-3 hr sessions 1-2 times a week.
[emoji28]


Im definitely more into staying away a bit from seeing my favourites, with the advice from you guys.

Ill prolly start slow and just make sure to visit once a week.
Then maybe cut down a bit more later.

Normally i wouldnt mind going a lot to ahops, but its tot he point where im kind of wasting a bit too much in the hobby. [emoji28]

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[dotcumdotinyou]

Maybe you need to take a month off.

[GoldfishMan]

Reading threads like this, or any of the many others about falling in love with ML/WL always makes me think of the great disparity in Emotional Quotient that exists between punters and WLs/MLs. The girls have been intimate with dozens of men, it's part of their job. Punters on the other hand, you've got your few hours a week frolicking with one girl or the other, and that's stretching it... Most of us punt even less. We got nothing on them in terms of the emotional resilience that can only come from fucking around with different partners.

It's a real phenomenon this... It explains how so many punters can "fall in love"' with working ladies.

[tawer5ag]

Wow! Not repeating punts? Why? Even if the girl/service is great?

Im actually happy i be ame a regular of the shop.

They try to accomodate my booking requests and other stuff. Which prolly would just get a mean look and cold shoulder, otherwise.

I also feel like i wanna try most of the girls in a good shop at least once before even considering trying new shops.
Even the highly reviewed shops in this forum.
Mainly cause of the hassle of traveling a fair bit.


Though may be a bit harsh, falling in love.
I guess its good to hear that as well.
When you pointed it out, it definitely looks like im on the slippery slope of falling in love with an ml/wl.



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[Riff888]

Wow! Not repeating punts? Why? Even if the girl/service is great?

Im actually happy i be ame a regular of the shop.

They try to accomodate my booking requests and other stuff. Which prolly would just get a mean look and cold shoulder, otherwise.

I also feel like i wanna try most of the girls in a good shop at least once before even considering trying new shops.
Even the highly reviewed shops in this forum.
Mainly cause of the hassle of traveling a fair bit.


Though may be a bit harsh, falling in love.
I guess its good to hear that as well.
When you pointed it out, it definitely looks like im on the slippery slope of falling in love with an ml/wl.



Sent from my ASUS_I001DC using TapatalkIt's happening again, you should get advice from Basil22 [emoji1787]

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[asiafever]

Wow! Not repeating punts? Why? Even if the girl/service is great?

Im actually happy i be ame a regular of the shop.

They try to accomodate my booking requests and other stuff. Which prolly would just get a mean look and cold shoulder, otherwise.

I also feel like i wanna try most of the girls in a good shop at least once before even considering trying new shops.
Even the highly reviewed shops in this forum.
Mainly cause of the hassle of traveling a fair bit.


Though may be a bit harsh, falling in love.
I guess its good to hear that as well.
When you pointed it out, it definitely looks like im on the slippery slope of falling in love with an ml/wl.



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[GoldfishMan]

Wow! Not repeating punts? Why? Even if the girl/service is great?

Im actually happy i be ame a regular of the shop.

They try to accomodate my booking requests and other stuff. Which prolly would just get a mean look and cold shoulder, otherwise.

I also feel like i wanna try most of the girls in a good shop at least once before even considering trying new shops.
Even the highly reviewed shops in this forum.
Mainly cause of the hassle of traveling a fair bit.


Though may be a bit harsh, falling in love.
I guess its good to hear that as well.
When you pointed it out, it definitely looks like im on the slippery slope of falling in love with an ml/wl.



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Falling in love is good, but not in a brothel and not with a WL bro. She's the WL, you're the John. The game is over before it has even started.

[tawer5ag]

First one was with a wl. Her sessions was great gfe.
Felt wanting to get more of the intimate sexual experience.
But luckily the novelty wore off a bit.

But now its nti mls [emoji28]. Tbf not really sure if nti, but theyre young and saying theyre nti.
Great gfe with not w lot of extras, but accomodating to my other requests. Which other girls werent.

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[storry_teller]

Good advice. Makes punting life much easier when follow that strategy.
Make it simple for the girls also as they don’t want to have drama either.

[asiafever]

Make it simple for the girls also as they don’t want to have drama either.

Yeah correct.

The way it was once explained to me, think of it like any other face to face service industry, retail, cafe, hairdresser, the staff put on their work face, friendly etc and because that is our only interaction with them we dont see them provide the same service to every single customer they deal with. Because this is an intimate service it is easy for us to mistake this for something more than it is. To that end I have some good friends who work in retail and they are constantly, like every day, getting guys who mistake basic human decency for some kind of sexual interest, to the point one will now only work in women's shops because she got sick of dealing with it.

[rooter]

Yeah correct.

The way it was once explained to me, think of it like any other face to face service industry, retail, cafe, hairdresser, the staff put on their work face, friendly etc and because that is our only interaction with them we dont see them provide the same service to every single customer they deal with. Because this is an intimate service it is easy for us to mistake this for something more than it is. To that end I have some good friends who work in retail and they are constantly, like every day, getting guys who mistake basic human decency for some kind of sexual interest, to the point one will now only work in women's shops because she got sick of dealing with it.

Exactly.
This scene from Adaptation sums it up perfectly
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oGfDFlFCqiw

[tawer5ag]

Then i guess its partly the girls fault if they tell you that they give you services that they dont allow most customers?
And its also partly the punters fault for believing it?

That feels more believable than if they say theyre giving that service only to you though.



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[Riff888]

Then i guess its partly the girls fault if they tell you that they give you services that they dont allow most customers?
And its also partly the punters fault for believing it?

That feels more believable than if they say theyre giving that service only to you though.



Sent from my ASUS_I001DC using TapatalkThat only works if they want to see you outside the shop and give you freebies.

If they only want to see you inside the shop, sorry bro, you're being played.

They say the same thing to all their customers.

Try having a normal relationship with a non WL.

Or take Rooters advice, if you tend to get feels then have a 3 visit rule but only the super punters can do this.

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[asiafever]

That only works if they want to see you outside the shop and give you freebies.

If they only want to see you inside the shop, sorry bro, you're being played.

They say the same thing to all their customers.

Try having a normal relationship with a non WL.

Or take Rooters advice, if you tend to get feels then have a 3 visit rule but only the super punters can do this.

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Exactly.

Think of "I only give this service to special customers" as the same as "I made sure you got extra fries with your order" or "I'll do a special price on those jeans just for you."

When you implement the 3 visit rule you find yourself using those visits wisely as you don't want to blow all 3 in a fortnight and never see the girl again, but you also explore more and maybe realise the service you got wasn't so special after all. Since I implemented the rule nearly 3 years ago I can name maybe 4 girls I have seen the full 3 times. Only 1 I broke the rule for, and she was extra special BUT it was perfectly clear it was a shop only arrangement AND I never for a second doubted I wasn't the only one getting such impeccable service from such a sensational girl.

[storry_teller]

Then i guess its partly the girls fault if they tell you that they give you services that they dont allow most customers?
And its also partly the punters fault for believing it?

That feels more believable than if they say theyre giving that service only to you though.



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How come it’s their fault when it’s a intimate service and their job is to make you feel great, powerful and special? Or they have to tell you in your face that you’re such an ordinary person and that’s their normal service? Or just because sometimes they feel a bit pushy to do but not be able to admit that? Will you complain about their honesty?

[asiafever]

How come it’s their fault when it’s a intimate service and their job is to make you feel great, powerful and special? Or they have to tell you in your face that you’re such an ordinary person and that’s their normal service? Or just because sometimes they feel a bit pushy to do but not be able to admit that? Will you complain about their honesty?

Correct, girls can't win with that logic, don't be cold, but don't be nice, don't make a customer feel like the service is mechanical, but don't make them feel special... Give the exact same service across the board so guys have no reason to pick you over other girls so you can earn more money. In 5 minutes every punter would be complaining about vanilla service and no variety.

[Riff888]

How come it’s their fault when it’s a intimate service and their job is to make you feel great, powerful and special? Or they have to tell you in your face that you’re such an ordinary person and that’s their normal service? Or just because sometimes they feel a bit pushy to do but not be able to admit that? Will you complain about their honesty?Good point.

Isn't blaming the girl classic stalker/predator behaviour?

Like "oh she was asking for it" or "it's her fault I hit her".

Blaming the girls will never stack up in court.

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[person551]

If you get attached to women easily.... play carefully!

Thankfully i am not big in the getting attached department and have seen a few regulars for years, even outside of the shop and never felt attached or that i need to see them. Although if i do see them at a shop i will always go with them, as i don't want to lose my 'good service'.

[GoldfishMan]

Then i guess its partly the girls fault if they tell you that they give you services that they dont allow most customers?
And its also partly the punters fault for believing it?

That feels more believable than if they say theyre giving that service only to you though.



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All I can say bro, is you need to get more punting under your belt. Then you will see that beautiful sexy girls come and go, get old / out of shape and become not so beautiful or sexy. Or try to get a GF and experience a long term relationship with a girl.
You need more experience bro.

[rooter]

Punting is a Disneyland for men.
It is not reality.
You pay your entrance fee and enjoy the thrill of the rides, take a few selfies with Mickey Mouse and Donald Duck, eat lots of ice cream and candy ... and then you go back to reality.
Enjoy!

[tawer5ag]

Definitely needed what the punters here have highlighted many times.

In the end, we are paying for their service and during that session, we can enjoy the girls company and services.

But after that, no matter how much we thought that there was a connection or how amazing the session was, it still ends when your session ends.

Its the fantasy/service that we are paying for, which girls try and provide.

Some girls do it better than others, and punters can sometimes forget that its just a service.

I recently realized i loved learning a bit more about the girl and having nice conversations during the session.
But due to the nature of the service, i only just realized that girls would lie about stuff, rather than just saying they dont want to talk about things.
As it could very well diminish their chances of having that punter come back.
It was naive of me to think that honesty can be an easy two way street.


Punting was waaaay easier and chill when i barely talked with girls and just stuck with getting the extras and services. Haha.

I still like to believe that there are girls who are a bit more frank/honest that will tell you when theyre not comfortable talking. But meeting that lady would probably be very very very rare.


Again thank you to all the punters who replied.
I would love to just come back to this thread every now and then to help me realize it again.

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[JJBlows]

The only time I've felt obligated to see a WL is when she goes above and beyond in providing a service inside and outside of the shop as I respect her and don't want to offend her or upset her and loose that service (wl told me they do have fights with each other if they take another girls good customer) apart from that they are just another punt so if a girl doesn't really cater for you then you shouldn't have to feel the urge to see her as if you are doing her favour and your her special customer.

IMHO if you feel like you have to keep seeing her then maybe you are you are getting feelings for her and your looking for an excuse to see her.

Take a break and punt with other girls

[tawer5ag]

Was definitely falling for her service and thinking there was a good connection from our conversations.
Forgetting that its just that, a service.
Which they do their best to tailor to each of their customers.

I do enioy her service as it is catered to what i like.
But definitely with the help of fellow punters, i now know better to naively believe everything they say.

Would definitely be more wary, take a step back, and remind myself that its a service im paying for.

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[4647]

Definitely needed what the punters here have highlighted many times.

In the end, we are paying for their service and during that session, we can enjoy the girls company and services.

But after that, no matter how much we thought that there was a connection or how amazing the session was, it still ends when your session ends.

Its the fantasy/service that we are paying for, which girls try and provide.

Some girls do it better than others, and punters can sometimes forget that its just a service.

I recently realized i loved learning a bit more about the girl and having nice conversations during the session.
But due to the nature of the service, i only just realized that girls would lie about stuff, rather than just saying they dont want to talk about things.
As it could very well diminish their chances of having that punter come back.
It was naive of me to think that honesty can be an easy two way street.


Punting was waaaay easier and chill when i barely talked with girls and just stuck with getting the extras and services. Haha.

I still like to believe that there are girls who are a bit more frank/honest that will tell you when theyre not comfortable talking. But meeting that lady would probably be very very very rare.


Again thank you to all the punters who replied.
I would love to just come back to this thread every now and then to help me realize it again.

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[JJBlows]

Was definitely falling for her service and thinking there was a good connection from our conversations.
Forgetting that its just that, a service.
Which they do their best to tailor to each of their customers.

I do enioy her service as it is catered to what i like.
But definitely with the help of fellow punters, i now know better to naively believe everything they say.

Would definitely be more wary, take a step back, and remind myself that its a service im paying for.

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It's all good, most punters have good control over themselves but I know a couple here have had to snap out of it because we all know it's never going to work and not worth it, We are humans at the end of the day.

It's best to remember if there is cash involved then keep it that way.

[Wok]

I have to admit, I’ve fallen for the ol’ “aww, please don’t go” after the buzzer has gone off haha

[northsidelegend]

So does anyone feel obligated to see an ml/wl?
Maybe its their regular, a nti girl which girls a genuine gfe session, maybe its cause their servicesfit what you want, you have thei contact info, etc.

I currently feel like i have these few ml/wls where i enjoy their services and they fit my preference in a lot of ways, looks, service, etc.

I feel obligated to see them as i want to enjoy their sessions.
But mainly due to me being worried that their service might change after not seeing them after at least a few weeks.

Looking for arvice from punters regarding this.


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Bruz, don't sweat it! these girls put up with so many douchebags! trust me, man, girls regularly complain to me about one koont or another lol. so if you are a nice guy, wear it on your sleeve, but don't go too far as it may scare the birds and ruin the vibes.
you are a free man and just tell them you have been busy - they love that shit!
(posting at 2am cause my sleep cycle is rooted)

[Jamit]

Exactly.
This scene from Adaptation sums it up perfectly
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oGfDFlFCqiw

I never thought of this before. Gets hard as you get older. When you are young you may well be getting hit on but as you get older it's all just being polite. Don't confuse the two.

As for punting a couple of decades ago there was one Chinese lady that seemed to be falling in love with me (she was older and desperately wanted a baby). Maybe a few times more recently I let my fantasy get the better of me and thought it was happening again with much younger women. Of course just an act, or maybe they want a sugar daddy thing or lots of repeat business. I take my hat off to their business acumen, resilience and professionalism

[bung72]

I have to ask... what does nti stand for??

[ssfc]

I have to ask... what does nti stand for??
New to industry

[bung72]

New to industry

Makes sense! thanks....

[northsidelegend]

A punt is not a great start to any relationship. Speaking from experience here.
Add different culture and language barrier and you are setting yourself up for failure.
Just pick up FOB chicks in the city.
There is literally 10s of thousands and some of them are WLs so you can come at it this way ;)

[GoldfishMan]

A punt is not a great start to any relationship. Speaking from experience here.
Add different culture and language barrier and you are setting yourself up for failure.
Just pick up FOB chicks in the city.
There is literally 10s of thousands and some of them are WLs so you can come at it this way ;)
That's exactly it, bro. I see so many nice girls walking our streets everyday. Why would you set yourself up for failure by starting a relationship through punting when there are so many choices out there?