Where to have an affair in the cbd?

[Cayman]

Before the lockdowns I would go over to my mistress house but now it's almost impossible because our SOs are home all of the time.

Does anyone have an suggestions for where we could spend a couple of hours during the day? We both work in the cbd so a hotel of some kind would make sense, but I'm wary of the QR code checkins, credit card bonds, etc, anything that leaves a paper trail! But not a love hotel or anything that feels dodgy either :/

And I'd be interested to hear how others with ongoing affairs have managed to keep it going with all of these lockdowns!

[yunglean]

Maybe you could contact an escort agency and see if you could rent a room for an hour?

[Ease]

Well - most of the people on this forum are renting our WLs by the hour so don’t really need to sort this one out :0p.

Having said that definitely understand the dilemma. Going cashless means everything is viewable on our bank statements and working from home means any time out is very much noticed !

Punting for me is definitely getting tough to hide from my spouse. But thats not an answer to your question!
From time to time I have found a WL who was keen to meet outside of their work and spent a night with them in town (Sydney). Usually just booked a nice hotel did dinner and fucked line rabbits.

[Labia Vortex]

Day use is offered by a number of hotels
Just google hotel day use or half day rates

[aussiegaigin]

Maybe you could contact an escort agency and see if you could rent a room for an hour?

Escort agencies are just that, an "office" that hooks you up with their girls. I doubt they would have rooms available unless it is with one of their own girls.

The only "love hotel" in Sydney has long gone, and it was pretty disgusting anyway. There used to be a couple of brothels around Surry Hills that offered spare rooms for short term rent, don't know if this is still available.

The Day Use app is a good bet if you can hide your activities. Would your girl use her credit card and you reimburse her with cash?

[Cayman]

Escort agencies are just that, an "office" that hooks you up with their girls. I doubt they would have rooms available unless it is with one of their own girls.

The only "love hotel" in Sydney has long gone, and it was pretty disgusting anyway. There used to be a couple of brothels around Surry Hills that offered spare rooms for short term rent, don't know if this is still available.

The Day Use app is a good bet if you can hide your activities. Would your girl use her credit card and you reimburse her with cash?

Day Use is looking like a winner... In your experience would these hotels take cash instead of credit card? Something like this where you can just book ahead and settle everything in cash at the hotel would be ideal.

[punter-pie]

Most hotels are no cash now

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[GoldfishMan]

Yeah, that love hotel was good enough when it started, then slowly turned into shit, lol! There was actually an escort agency operating based in there that specialised in J girls.

Some brothels rent out rooms, eg. 42g, but OP said he didn’t want anything dodgy. Going to a brothel with your mistress in tow even if it were only to use their rooms would probably freak her out!

The way I see it, your biggest problem is the credit card. If you can solve that, the world is your oyster. You can try to get a credit card that has no paper trail, ie. everything sent you by email.
Or if you don’t want even statements in your email, you can get a prepaid card and load it up enough so you can book hotel rooms with it. It’s as good as cash, zero SO-traceability, and more accessible than cash in this day and age.

[Double_Adapter]

Back in the day a Holden Sandman panel van would be sufficient….women are very fussy nowadays.

[punter-pie]

Yeah, that love hotel was good enough when it started, then slowly turned into shit, lol! There was actually an escort agency operating based in there that specialised in J girls.

Some brothels rent out rooms, eg. 42g, but OP said he didn’t want anything dodgy. Going to a brothel with your mistress in tow even if it were only to use their rooms would probably freak her out!

The way I see it, your biggest problem is the credit card. If you can solve that, the world is your oyster. You can try to get a credit card that has no paper trail, ie. everything sent you by email.
Or if you don’t want even statements in your email, you can get a prepaid card and load it up enough so you can book hotel rooms with it. It’s as good as cash, zero SO-traceability, and more accessible than cash in this day and age.Prepaid cards are no good, Hotels want a security deposit too

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[Cayman]

Yeah, that love hotel was good enough when it started, then slowly turned into shit, lol! There was actually an escort agency operating based in there that specialised in J girls.

Some brothels rent out rooms, eg. 42g, but OP said he didn’t want anything dodgy. Going to a brothel with your mistress in tow even if it were only to use their rooms would probably freak her out!

The way I see it, your biggest problem is the credit card. If you can solve that, the world is your oyster. You can try to get a credit card that has no paper trail, ie. everything sent you by email.
Or if you don’t want even statements in your email, you can get a prepaid card and load it up enough so you can book hotel rooms with it. It’s as good as cash, zero SO-traceability, and more accessible than cash in this day and age.

I've managed to book a few decent hotels in the city in the past by just calling them up, asking if they had rooms available and then showing up with cash in hand at the front desk. Sometimes they will take a swipe of a credit card for security but don't actually charge it so I just use the work card for this and pray I don't break the bed! I've also found a few who will hold onto more cash as a security deposit and return it to you at the end, this is best as there is no paper trail anywhere!

[Jaygee]

Get a different credit card with a lower limit, and get paperfree staements. Find a good place to stash the card

[Sibon]

Once I used to park the car somewhere quiet and had it out in the car. But eventually the affair was too big a risk and price to pay for a near "perfect and happy" marriage. Hence I took up punting. No obligation, no string and no tie. And best of all no parking problem.

[GoldfishMan]

Prepaid cards are no good, Hotels want a security deposit too

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That’s why I said load it up. Put enough in there to cover the deposit.
Heck even if you don’t do that, just use your regular credit card for the deposit, but you can use the prepaid to pay for the room. I’m assuming you won’t go trashing the place up. The deposit will just come and go, it won’t show up in your credit card statements… no trace at all.

[alc]

Most pubs that call themselves a hotel actually do have accommodation. Not sure if there are any in the CBD but pretty sure you'd find some as close as Newtown. In some cases they're actually pretty good - much better than accommodation you'd find out in the country at any rate.

OP how much of a time window do you have for your escapade?

[Vader]

Some brothels will rent you a room

[GoldfishMan]

Some brothels will rent you a room

Would you take your non-WL mistress to a brothel and risk freaking her out having punters perv at her?

[aussiegaigin]

After you arrive at your hotel, the front desk receptionist will need a credit card to put on hold before handing over the room key. A credit card hold is an insurance policy for the hotel. Specifically, the hold covers incidentals such as damage to the room, room service and dips into the minibar.

How much do hotels hold on credit card?
Most hotels hold $50 - $200 per night on your credit card for incidentals, on top of the room price. A credit card hold should be removed within 24 hours after you check out. A credit card hold won't affect your credit utilization.

Car rental companies hold on to your card details and you can find mysterious charges appearing on your account days/weeks after you've given the car back. Hotels can theoretically do the same thing.

[blitz]

I've used Dayuse at least half a dozen times now. Each time I've paid cash and 3 or 4 of the hotels have allowed me to leave a cash security deposit at check-in. Never had an issue and no paper trail.

[speranza]

I use dayuse.com. Plenty accept cash but do require a CC swipe (which disappears from your account) plus you need to show ID. works fine.

[Vader]

Would you take your non-WL mistress to a brothel and risk freaking her out having punters perv at her?

Wouldn't worry me in the slightest. Also a lot of women are very curious about brothels and prostitution even though a lot would never do it. Don't you like men perving on your women and wishing they were you? Also most women are quite adventurous but want men to take the lead. Unfortunately a lot of men won't, then the women gets bored, the man thinks she doesn't like sex and the big wheel starts turning. Then she has an affair and does stuff she never does with her partner as she bored with him and he does the same as he is bored with her.

[ML_Lover]

Wouldn't worry me in the slightest. Also a lot of women are very curious about brothels and prostitution even though a lot would never do it..

I walked past ginza with my FWB last week and told her she could earn $2000 a day and she practically dragged me in there. Only the knowledge she would have to give 10 guys/day bbbj put her off - she was fine with the sex bit.

I have a secret nab account for punting. Seems to work well…

[Minathy8724]

As other punters mentioned, I highly recommend Dayuse. Before Dayuse, I would book an overnight hotel/motel stay, but sometimes the girl cannot stay overnight and the big hassle comes when you have to checkout before a certain time the next day otherwise they will charge additional fees.
Alternative suggestions and I will list the cons:
1. Hire a karaoke room. Can get noisy and impacts performance.
2. Go to the cinemas. People awareness and limited positions.

Must admit, you are game to be involved with a mistress/affair in this day and age with #METOO movement, prevalence of camera phones and missus with spies everywhere. In fact, there is a thread about a mistress suing her man when he dumped her.
Good luck if you can cover your tracks.

[aussiegaigin]

If you book an overnight stay, most hotels won't guarantee to let you into the room until around 2 pm.

With Day Use you can get in from 9 or 10 am

[beta101]

Must grade a office buildings have fancy end of trip facilities. Do it there. Be a legend.