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myspareid
10-12-2021, 10:36 AM
I've been punting for a few years, only ever in Sydney and always done CFS. No past history of any STIs/STDs.

However had a session with a non-asian girl at Chatswood 60 earlier this week, and towards the end while going hard in missionary the condom probably broke at some point. I finished, pulled out and both realised what had happened. She didn't appear worried at all - just asked for more $ to buy the morning after pill. Mamasan assured me the girls there get regular checks (sure, whatever!)

Do I simply now wait for 2 weeks before getting an STI check? (and another in 3 months). I am not in a sexual relationship with anyone else!

I rang the sexual health clinic and they said since there are no symptoms just go to a GP. I am OK with going to a GP in 2 weeks.

What would you do if you were in my position?

thefatness
10-12-2021, 10:50 AM
Unfortunate situation. What’s done is done. Just hope that she does get the morning after pill and isn’t pregnant and get yourself tested. Once everything is hopefully all clear, then move on.

rooter
10-12-2021, 12:36 PM
Chill out bro.
You have to have sex with a person who has a STI to actually catch a STI and the chances that this girl had a STI are probably small, but not impossible.
Also the chances that you get a girl pregnant with one shot are also slim. It has to be the right time of the month etc. It's highly unlikely but not impossible.
Relax. Go to a nice restaurant and have a nice meal.

JohnJones
10-12-2021, 01:13 PM
Very interesting topic. Probably once every 1-2 years I'll have mishaps of condom slipping off in between changing positions, none of the girls demanded extra payment for morning after pills and definitely never had STI. Normally WLs will check during position change by 'directing' your member into her but sometimes they don't and you feel like your member is engulfed in a warmer, wetter and more sensitive sensation. Usually it's hard to pull out to check if condom is still on and not broken because it feels so damn good but my experience is just in case it felt too good inside her, pull out when you're about to cum. If the condom is still in the right shape covering your member you can choose to put it back inside or if she allows you to cum on her belly. Otherwise if it's a broken condom/slip off you can safely cum anywhere not inside her.

Like the condom manufacturers say, condom only provides 90% protection against pregnancy & STI. By pleasuring yourself using a willing human female there will always be that 10% risk so no one can blame each other for unintended mishaps.

Riff888
10-12-2021, 02:08 PM
Leave the country, find a monastery in the mountains, shave your head and take a vow of silence.

Peace be with you.

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Leppon
10-12-2021, 02:24 PM
Get ready to be a dad. (joking)

paulgallen
10-12-2021, 02:50 PM
Why you need to pay for pills? Not your fault the condom broke

Carissawhore
10-12-2021, 03:02 PM
Will send you a card on father's day

Climax598
10-12-2021, 03:15 PM
Watch out for parenting allowance

Mannykh
10-12-2021, 03:19 PM
That actually happened to me twice actually.. Im happy that not only my condom breaks. But you stay safe and get checked before its too late.

Sibon
10-12-2021, 06:27 PM
Leave the country, find a monastery in the mountains, shave your head and take a vow of silence.

Peace be with you.

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How many old monks in the monastery could recount the story of how their condoms broke and they had to resign to a life of celibacy and chanting and meditation.

Pray remember that rubber in only paper thin and your pounding is several horse power strong. And there is a long line waiting to become monk

syd_azn_guy
10-12-2021, 07:11 PM
You just got scammed

yowser
10-12-2021, 09:01 PM
Chill out bro.
You have to have sex with a person who has a STI to actually catch a STI and the chances that this girl had a STI are probably small, but not impossible.
Also the chances that you get a girl pregnant with one shot are also slim. It has to be the right time of the month etc. It's highly unlikely but not impossible.
Relax. Go to a nice restaurant and have a nice meal.

What rooter said it true. You have been playing it safe all the time and by accident one time it broke, the chances of you getting anything is very low. If you still feel anxious go see a GP now rather than later and the GP's talk will make you feel better.

Littlewonder
10-12-2021, 10:27 PM
Dont worry about it mate its happened to me a few times and its not usually a problem if you see the normal shop girls they are mostly clean and would be as concerned as you.

most of the girls are clean

cuteguy
10-12-2021, 11:18 PM
Dont worry about it mate its happened to me a few times and its not usually a problem if you see the normal shop girls they are mostly clean and would be as concerned as you.

most of the girls are clean

Never assume anything. Girls will hopefully try their best to avoid contracting STIs because it can affect their ability to work. Many punters don't get checked especially if they engage in BBFS, BBBJ or Daty. Just remember you need one guy in one day to have an STI from engaging in unprotected sex to pass it onto a unsuspecting girl who can then pass it onto other customers.

Double_Adapter
11-12-2021, 08:44 AM
It seems everyone is more concerned about the symptoms and the potential aftermath rather than addressing the root cause of the problem.

In order to address the problem we need to be asking the OP the following questions around condom etiquette:
- Who supplied the condom, you or the WL?
- What is the name or brand of the condom?
- Who put the condom onto your dick, you or the WL?
- How was the condom inserted ie rolled upwards from the tip of your dick or was the rubber stretched outwards at the opening and then inserted and rolled onto your dick?
- Sometimes chicks will insert the rubber the wrong way (ie inside out) and after several attempts will try and insert it the correct way - did this occur?
- Did the WL have long finger nails when tampering with the condom?
- How was the condom packet opened ie using fingertips, finger nails, or teeth?
- Did anyone check the expiry date on the rubber?
- Did the WL give you CBJ and was it toothy?
- Was the rubber ripped or torn?
- Where exactly did the rubber break ie at the base, middle or tip?
- Do you have the rubber with you for further scrutiny?

A fantastic post Mr Myspareid, it’s a stark reminder for the lads to be mindful about the importance of condom etiquette.

cumquat
11-12-2021, 10:38 AM
It seems everyone is more concerned about the symptoms and the potential aftermath rather than addressing the root cause of the problem.

In order to address the problem we need to be asking the OP the following questions around condom etiquette:
- Who supplied the condom, you or the WL?
- What is the name or brand of the condom?
- Who put the condom onto your dick, you or the WL?
- How was the condom inserted ie rolled upwards from the tip of your dick or was the rubber stretched outwards at the opening and then inserted and rolled onto your dick?
- Sometimes chicks will insert the rubber the wrong way (ie inside out) and after several attempts will try and insert it the correct way - did this occur?
- Did the WL have long finger nails when tampering with the condom?
- How was the condom packet opened ie using fingertips, finger nails, or teeth?
- Did anyone check the expiry date on the rubber?
- Did the WL give you CBJ and was it toothy?
- Was the rubber ripped or torn?
- Where exactly did the rubber break ie at the base, middle or tip?
- Do you have the rubber with you for further scrutiny?

A fantastic post Mr Myspareid, it’s a stark reminder for the lads to be mindful about the importance of condom etiquette.

The root cause…. ������ is low post count.. vain attempts to achieve status , which amounts to a whole lot of SFA .. no, it’s not an STI ACRONYM

Though I’ll commend you in turning the question, now I’m waiting for some lumberjack to suggest he was ‘stealthed’

syd_azn_guy
11-12-2021, 11:37 AM
Following up on the root cause,
1. Do you have video evidence or memory recall on how the condom was opened? 2.How was it position and rolled out?
3.Which part of the condom was touched and was there any sign of nails touching it?
4.how many seconds was the Condom exposed to the atmosphere?
5.What was the room temperature?
6.How many pulsing hip movements were made?
7. What movement did the female demonstrate upon penetration?

This will be a good start to answer these questions. Following that, you can organise a post implementation review for further discussion

cuteguy
11-12-2021, 12:14 PM
Following up on the root cause,
1. Do you have video evidence or memory recall on how the condom was opened? 2.How was it position and rolled out?
3.Which part of the condom was touched and was there any sign of nails touching it?
4.how many seconds was the Condom exposed to the atmosphere?
5.What was the room temperature?
6.How many pulsing hip movements were made?
7. What movement did the female demonstrate upon penetration?

This will be a good start to answer these questions. Following that, you can organise a post implementation review for further discussion

Who are you going to call? It might be up CSI's alley to do the investigation. Seriously guys. The condom broke. Ok. We all know they're not going to protect you 100% of the time. Monitor for any symptoms within the next few days and best abstain from any sex right now. Get yourself checked as suggested by the sex clinic. Hopefully you'll be fine.

aussiegaigin
11-12-2021, 01:05 PM
If you're gonna worry about condoms breaking, maybe use two?? LOL

bummer
11-12-2021, 01:48 PM
I've been punting for a few years, only ever in Sydney and always done CFS. No past history of any STIs/STDs.

However had a session with a non-asian girl at Chatswood 60 earlier this week, and towards the end while going hard in missionary the condom probably broke at some point. I finished, pulled out and both realised what had happened. She didn't appear worried at all - just asked for more $ to buy the morning after pill. Mamasan assured me the girls there get regular checks (sure, whatever!)

Do I simply now wait for 2 weeks before getting an STI check? (and another in 3 months). I am not in a sexual relationship with anyone else!

I rang the sexual health clinic and they said since there are no symptoms just go to a GP. I am OK with going to a GP in 2 weeks.

What would you do if you were in my position?

I actually find this quite unbelievable...
I wonder whether the girl played you ?
She probably nicked the condom when putting it on so that she could hit you for extras, bbfs, and what ever she could hit you up for.

I had this years ago in bexley, they tried to hit me up for heaps, and I refused to pay any extra. I actually invited them to call the police down which of course they went off the handle and got me out of the place.
Before 1st lockdown I had the same happen at a place on canterbury rd at campsie, the mamasan wanted me to pay extra, but I simply said that she provided faulty equipment, I would call safework down on them.
think about it, a brothel having safework check them out including all the condoms etc haha

Kiryu0
11-12-2021, 02:24 PM
Like the condom broke and you finished inside her and nothing felt off by both of you until you took it out? Does BBFS not feel different when it happens so you could stop and change condom?

cuteguy
11-12-2021, 03:01 PM
If you're gonna worry about condoms breaking, maybe use two?? LOL

The advice is don't use two at the same time. Get an extra strong one rather then a very thin one. Just carry a spare or two with you at all times. That way you know they can't give you a defective or hole punched rubber.

JJBlows
12-12-2021, 02:59 AM
Like the condom broke and you finished inside her and nothing felt off by both of you until you took it out? Does BBFS not feel different when it happens so you could stop and change condom?

I've been caught out a few times with that before, was really in the mood, sensitive and was having really good sex but it just broke and the both of us had no idea it happened. It must of just giving out at the end as we only used one the entire time and it got more passionate at the end trying to make each other climax

JJBlows
12-12-2021, 03:07 AM
The root cause…. ������ is low post count.. vain attempts to achieve status , which amounts to a whole lot of SFA .. no, it’s not an STI ACRONYM

Though I’ll commend you in turning the question, now I’m waiting for some lumberjack to suggest he was ‘stealthed’

I can understand guys stealthing but for a WL to do it random customers is her playing russian roulette.

hornedbeast
12-12-2021, 07:16 AM
Speak to your GP and a counselling service if needed. Consider more heavy duty sheaths in future

Sharphorse
16-12-2021, 08:07 PM
Very similar thing happened to me. Won’t mention the shop or girl for obvious reasons. But I saw an 18 year old girl on her first day. Neither of us realised the sheath broke and I accidentally cream pied her 😬 It does happen

cuteguy
17-12-2021, 01:03 AM
Very similar thing happened to me. Won’t mention the shop or girl for obvious reasons. But I saw an 18 year old girl on her first day. Neither of us realised the sheath broke and I accidentally cream pied her 😬 It does happen

Let me guess...she wasn't on the pill? You'd be surprised how many girls from overseas aren't on the pill in this industry.

Sharphorse
17-12-2021, 02:13 PM
Let me guess...she wasn't on the pill? You'd be surprised how many girls from overseas aren't on the pill in this industry.

She had an IUD in her arm or whatever it’s called so pregnancy wasn’t the concern, only STIs. And obviously I’m not going to mention the shop or girl as I said and don’t wanna give away too much detail but she wasn’t from overseas

JohnJones
18-12-2021, 09:39 PM
The advice is don't use two at the same time. Get an extra strong one rather then a very thin one. Just carry a spare or two with you at all times. That way you know they can't give you a defective or hole punched rubber.

I have never tried Okamoto condoms but hearing that it's super thin I never bothered buying one.

During my session with J Anna at 42 she asked me if I had tried Okamoto brand rubber. I asked her if it can break easily and her reply was that it's very likely, especially if your girth is quite thick and you bang like a hardcore pornstar.

I don't have a super long dick but my girth is a little thicker than average so I always ask WLs to wrap me in large size Four Season rubbers. That size fits me well and very unlikely to break even with rough sex, but if it does break it may be because the WL had used a needle or pin to break it in the package the first place.

local
19-12-2021, 02:36 AM
but if it does break it may be because the WL had used a needle or pin to break it in the package the first place.

Wow, thats the same a stealthing.
I've heard of guys doing that, hoping the girl doesn't check things if they are putting it on.

GoldfishMan
19-12-2021, 10:10 AM
I have never tried Okamoto condoms but hearing that it's super thin I never bothered buying one.

During my session with J Anna at 42 she asked me if I had tried Okamoto brand rubber. I asked her if it can break easily and her reply was that it's very likely, especially if your girth is quite thick and you bang like a hardcore pornstar.

I don't have a super long dick but my girth is a little thicker than average so I always ask WLs to wrap me in large size Four Season rubbers. That size fits me well and very unlikely to break even with rough sex, but if it does break it may be because the WL had used a needle or pin to break it in the package the first place.
Yes, the Jap ultra thin condoms do break easily. Especially if there's not enough lubrication. I broke one before, popped it like a balloon.

Another problem with it is it's made of plastic so it's a lot less stretchy. The regular size ones are so tight at the base it felt painful to even cum because the "pipe" is constricted. I always go for the large size because of this.

Littlewonder
19-12-2021, 09:35 PM
Condom breaks occur occasionally very really these days I have had a few a few years ago now but never had a problem so just move on

Lazor Zap
19-12-2021, 10:43 PM
ive been punting since 1987 here and in Thailand its happened to me many times and luckily ive never caught anything.

bummer
23-12-2021, 06:53 PM
I had a break today, knew straightway and stopped. The girl took a look and took off the condom them put me back in.
I think we both enjoyed it better without.

cuteguy
24-12-2021, 12:54 PM
ive been punting since 1987 here and in Thailand its happened to me many times and luckily ive never caught anything.

Lucky man. Let's hope your luck doesn't run out for you.