Soft cock but can still cum

[Aussieguyinsf]

Had this experience a couple of times where my cock is too soft to fuck but when the WL touches it I cum prematurely while still soft. Ruins the first go. Anyone else experience this?

[yowser]

Yes I have, theres 2 reasons behind this:
1. You havent cum for long time
2. You were a bit nervous/tired/not in the mood.

Theres a lot of science behind having an erection, if your mindset isn’t fully there you dont perform to peak. Just like what another punter said - sometimes when you start the car it doesnt start up, but if it starts up most of the time then you’re ok

[CharlieM]

Yes I have, theres 2 reasons behind this:
1. You havent cum for long time
2. You were a bit nervous/tired/not in the mood.

Theres a lot of science behind having an erection, if your mindset isn’t fully there you dont perform to peak. Just like what another punter said - sometimes when you start the car it doesnt start up, but if it starts up most of the time then you’re ok

Yes, it happens to me from time to time as well. And I agree with you on the 2 reasons. There was a time where couldn't get real hard with a WL/ML, and would come instantly, but when I had sex with the wife was solid hard.

[Johnisfun1969]

It happens to me sometimes with WL. I could not understand it either. I guess when I am not comfortable or excited it happens. Few times with the WL they go straight to jerking the penis straight away also it can happen. But when I am with a regular girl and there is slow build up from flirting to gentle touching leading to kissing I can have normal sex and don’t come prematurely. I am going to try Kamagra to see how it effects.

[rooter]

I have a problem with WLs cumming in their panties as soon as they see me.
And then they are too tired to fuck.
Damn! It's a curse!

[StiFFFy]

Had this experience a couple of times where my cock is too soft to fuck but when the WL touches it I cum prematurely while still soft. Ruins the first go. Anyone else experience this?You had an orgasm without an erection friend! Those are enjoyable in the right circumstances. I've experienced the same when deadlifting/squatting heavy and I haven't let loose the juice in about 3 weeks... Bit of a downer though, didn't bring spare daks for the workout lol
Yes I have, theres 2 reasons behind this:
1. You havent cum for long time
2. You were a bit nervous/tired/not in the mood.

Theres a lot of science behind having an erection, if your mindset isn’t fully there you dont perform to peak. Just like what another punter said - sometimes when you start the car it doesnt start up, but if it starts up most of the time then you’re okNice analogy!

[aussiegaigin]

I get the same problem, probably age related. I just can't get it up with some MLs, but they go through the motions and I cum in about the same time frame as if I was hard.

[Aussieguyinsf]

Thanks for the thoughtful commentary. Seriously thought I’d get flamed first reply.

[GoldfishMan]

I have had really bad quality erections before, but never been able to cum with a working girl in that state. Usually happens when I'm either really turned off by something about the girl, or when I'm drunk.

The only thing that happens is I start to realise I'm having "one of those days", then it becomes a vicious cycle, I dwell on it, the erection gets worse, then I just give up on the sex.

I have, however, been able to cum from wanking to porn in this state, also usually when I've had quite a few drinks. And yeah, in those times, I cum pretty quickly even when I'm trying to edge myself.

I reckon you can cum easily like that because of blood flow to that region of your body. Poor quality erection is a sign of less blood flow in that direction, which means less flow to your prostate, which is the "muscle" that helps you hold off from cumming. So, weakened prostate = less power to hold off cumming.

[Jesus666]

Had this experience a couple of times where my cock is too soft to fuck but when the WL touches it I cum prematurely while still soft. Ruins the first go. Anyone else experience this?

How old are you Mate. Do you take any heart or diabetes meds?

You are describing Erectile Dysfunction.

In your case hopefully not.

I have it but am 65 years old. Kamaga helps me.

[Meng]

I have had really bad quality erections before, but never been able to cum with a working girl in that state. Usually happens when I'm either really turned off by something about the girl, or when I'm drunk.

The only thing that happens is I start to realise I'm having "one of those days", then it becomes a vicious cycle, I dwell on it, the erection gets worse, then I just give up on the sex.

I have, however, been able to cum from wanking to porn in this state, also usually when I've had quite a few drinks. And yeah, in those times, I cum pretty quickly even when I'm trying to edge myself.

I reckon you can cum easily like that because of blood flow to that region of your body. Poor quality erection is a sign of less blood flow in that direction, which means less flow to your prostate, which is the "muscle" that helps you hold off from cumming. So, weakened prostate = less power to hold off cumming.
Amen that's happened to me several times. Erections are very much psychological. The more you think about it the worse it gets and you won't be able to get it up. It's a fucking vicious cycle.

[Double_Adapter]

How old are you Mate. Do you take any heart or diabetes meds?

You are describing Erectile Dysfunction.

In your case hopefully not.

I have it but am 65 years old. Kamaga helps me.


Spot on Mr Jesus666 !

Mr Goldfishman touched on something quite interesting when he talked about the quality of his erections. The Erection Hardness Scale (EHS) rates the hardness of an erection on a scale of 1 to 4. Here’s a link for the lads seeking further information. If in doubt suggest you get it checked out with your GP.

https://www.medicalnewstoday.com/articles/101961

[virgileco]

I wouldn't be too concerned, unless you have reason to suspect an underlying issue. It's happened to me when I've been jacking off, where my dick isn't fully hard but I've still come. It could be because I've conditioned my brain to get off as quickly as possible when I'm masturbating. Other times, I still only come when I'm hard.

[1inchguy]

My experience after I finished cum, I get soft right away and Condom slips off or get stuck in the pussy. .

[juscruisin58]

Are you tired, stressed, high blood pressure, sedentary, etc, all can lead to erectile difficulty.
Get enough sleep, exercise, eat well, etc will lead to easier and stronger erections and more control.

[dundersyd1]

I've not had the prematurely cum part.

But have had times when I can't get hard or stay hard. 9/10 it's cause of something mentally. For me it's when the girl is showing no enjoyment. I get inside my own head, then start to go soft and cause it's going softer the feeling isn't as good then I'm worried that I've gone soft. Lol it's a terrible circle.
Only with wl never in a massage. Massage is very stress and worry free cause it's 100% your own enjoyment

[stapman]

Wet Dreams anyone? Mostly when I haven't cummed for a while. While the mess isn't great to clean up I find that the feeling is great and I am always soft when it happens. Doesn't happen enough to me though. Lucky if it is once a year.

[StiFFFy]

Wet Dreams anyone? Mostly when I haven't cummed for a while. While the mess isn't great to clean up I find that the feeling is great and I am always soft when it happens. Doesn't happen enough to me though. Lucky if it is once a year.How's your pelvic floor strength? Due to sitting, pelvic floor muscles can get weak, which has knock on effects to erections and even orgasms.

Kegels and glute bridges will help with many of these issues.

As for wet dreams, they tend to get less frequent with age and how much you self service/punt. You want more, abstain as long as you can and they'll come (pun unintended)

[stapman]

How's your pelvic floor strength? Due to sitting, pelvic floor muscles can get weak, which has knock on effects to erections and even orgasms.

Kegels and glute bridges will help with many of these issues.

As for wet dreams, they tend to get less frequent with age and how much you self service/punt. You want more, abstain as long as you can and they'll come (pun unintended)

Yep, age catches you up with all these things though I don't have any issues outside of the odd wet dream which for someone approaching 50 I think is pretty good. Certainly not as fit as I once was though and have just started an exercise regime which I am determined to commit to.

[juscruisin58]

I must say, don't worry yourself to much about it, as long as it is not ongoing.

[Meng]

I must say, don't worry yourself to much about it, as long as it is not ongoing.
Yea I mean it feels a bit embarrassing when you're seeing a WL but I forget about it after a while and punt again.

[cryptex]

Looks like I'm not alone with these kind of symptoms. But yes, for me if it's with a new girl I will have the same problem. After a few session with the same girl and as my body gets familiar with hers, I will regain my mojo.

If you can get hard with masturbation, then it's mostly likely psychological.

[BlakeAmid]

Does anyone have the problem with when you’re hard but as soon as the WL pickles your balls you loose erection?

[Mickeydrippen]

I stick to MLS then it doesn’t matter what state my old fella is in.

[StiFFFy]

Looks like I'm not alone with these kind of symptoms. But yes, for me if it's with a new girl I will have the same problem. After a few session with the same girl and as my body gets familiar with hers, I will regain my mojo.

If you can get hard with masturbation, then it's mostly likely psychological.Performance anxiety with new sexual partners, while not openly talked about, is well accepted (at least in medical community). Pretty normal
Does anyone have the problem with when you’re hard but as soon as the WL pickles your balls you loose erection?Pickles your balls? As in put them in a jar and add vinegar or am I missing something?

[CharlieM]

I read somewhere a while back that if you can get an erection regardless of if its from watching porn, from a ML, WL, your partner or morning wood, then its not a physical problem but a mental problem. If its a physical problem, you cannot get a hard on in any scenario. I'm also pretty sure if its a physical problem, you will struggle to get an erection even with the help of a blue pill.
For us partnered punters performance issues may also be brought on from feelings of guilt.

[Kiwi Punter]

Performance anxiety with new sexual partners, while not openly talked about, is well accepted (at least in medical community).

Yep, this has happened to me a few times. It’s purely psychological and almost always an indication that this relationship is not going to work out (like some kind of weird warning sign).

[GoldfishMan]

I read somewhere a while back that if you can get an erection regardless of if its from watching porn, from a ML, WL, your partner or morning wood, then its not a physical problem but a mental problem. If its a physical problem, you cannot get a hard on in any scenario. I'm also pretty sure if its a physical problem, you will struggle to get an erection even with the help of a blue pill.
For us partnered punters performance issues may also be brought on from feelings of guilt.
ED is defined as not being able to get and maintain an erection long enough to reach orgasm, and it can happen due to physical or psychological problems. The ED meds are actually meant for people with physical problems, not those with psychological ones.

During diagnosis of ED, the doctor will ask you if you can jerk off to porn and successfully cum. If you answer yes you can cum, they will classify you as having psychological ED and might not even prescribe any meds to you. That's what happened to me when I tried to get a script for spedra through Pilot.

[cryptex]

ED is defined as not being able to get and maintain an erection long enough to reach orgasm, and it can happen due to physical or psychological problems. The ED meds are actually meant for people with physical problems, not those with psychological ones.

During diagnosis of ED, the doctor will ask you if you can jerk off to porn and successfully cum. If you answer yes you can cum, they will classify you as having psychological ED and might not even prescribe any meds to you. That's what happened to me when I tried to get a script for spedra through Pilot.

I think taking ED meds itself somewhat gives you the confidence and therefore feed back into relieving the psychological ones.

[mysteryman56]

Have the same experience when the environment is not clean or don't feel comfy to be naked

[solidsnake]

Pickles your balls? As in put them in a jar and add vinegar or am I missing something?

If that was going down a soft cock would be the least of your problems. I think he meant “tickled”

[Johnisfun1969]

The other thing I find is the WL or Ml when the decide to end the session they start to jerk you off. Although you may have a decent errection but during the session it could go down. This does not work for me. I may not get turned on again by looking at the naked body. I sometimes need some gentle soft caressing, maybe the girl whispering on my ear or even nibbling the earlobes. Breathing or whispering into the ear. But it’s hard to explain or teach these girls in shops. I know when this happens by session is going from bad to worse. It’s time to clean up and leave. I probably won’t repeat the same girl again.

[GoldfishMan]

The other thing I find is the WL or Ml when the decide to end the session they start to jerk you off. Although you may have a decent errection but during the session it could go down. This does not work for me. I may not get turned on again by looking at the naked body. I sometimes need some gentle soft caressing, maybe the girl whispering on my ear or even nibbling the earlobes. Breathing or whispering into the ear. But it’s hard to explain or teach these girls in shops. I know when this happens by session is going from bad to worse. It’s time to clean up and leave. I probably won’t repeat the same girl again.
I hear you bro. I also think, the ability to recover a session when this happens is what separates a great courtesan from a mediocre one. They’ll know when it starts to happen, for sure. Some continue without doing anything special, some even make it worse by doing the wrong thing, but a select few know exactly the right buttons to push to help me over the line.

[Sanji2016]

I have a problem with WLs cumming in their panties as soon as they see me.
And then they are too tired to fuck.
Damn! It's a curse!

lmao, this is too funny

[Aussieguyinsf]

I knew this thread wouldn’t end well.

[cuteguy]

I have a problem with WLs cumming in their panties as soon as they see me.
And then they are too tired to fuck.
Damn! It's a curse!

Ok Brad Pitt! Lol