Has anyone had a relationship or fwb with any working ladies?

[eeryher]

Would love to hear if this is the case, and if so how did you manage to do that, do they still charge and when did you last see them?

[MilfMonger]

I popped back in from retirement just to answer this question. And to tell you it’s very very possible, not that uncommon, but always always regrettable in the long term.

Yes. More than once I have moved from ‘customer’ to ‘customer who is often told he can just pay for the room and not the fuck’ to ‘friend outside shop: no sex’ to ‘unconditional and on-call FWB no money no gifts asked or expected’. The most common was ‘just pay the money she must the boss for the room’ .

In the beginning I thought each upgrade was like Christmas when I was 5. I could have kept some of them rolling seemingly forever without needing to return to a shop and pay full whack again. But each time it just ended up seeming wrong or it was a long-play scam.

It just made no sense that a WL would really want to fuck me for fun on her day off or at 3 AM AM after fucking 10 of you jokers at work that day. Each one of these fucked me for free for one of these very wrong reasons:

1. because she believed it was the necessary price of my friendship or some non-sexual social or emotional part of our connection that she valued. Which it would not have been.

2. Because she maybe studied marketing before joining the workforce and sensibly offers ‘free’ benefits from BBBJ to free fucks to good customers the same way Qantas has a Frequent Flyer program with multiple service levels and then the invitation only Chairman’s Lounge which is apparently impossible to get into but still exists.

3. Because she’s insane. Like the lady who went to work in a different shop one night - on her day off - and asked me over to play…but had paid for the room for me for the whole shift and kept me there all night. When I realised all the next day I transferred the money she had spent for the room to her account by payid. As well as $100 for each time we actually fucked that night. And then said goodbye and blocked her - for her own good rather than mine I think.

These are ladies still working and who I know have many Aus99 members as customers. If we were behind a paywall I’d name at least the the ones under reason 2 above to warn more gullible or more innocent punters. Those under reason 1 and 3 might be like a magnet to some cunning punters sensing a goldmine of opportunity so best not say more than I have. This is why I don’t write AR’s ������

EDIT: the best warning I can give is that you are most likely to get a type 2 free fuck if you like GFE and punt within walking distance of Redfern station.

[cometoIndia]

Imagine dating/marrying girl who has been railed by 500+ old/fat/ugly men.
Please have some self respect.

[1inchguy]

Imagine dating/marrying girl who has been railed by 500+ old/fat/ugly men.
Please have some self respect.

Not unless they're into it.
Some dudes get off knowing their wife's fucking fat ugly bastards. It's a thing.

[Vader]

Imagine dating/marrying girl who has been railed by 500+ old/fat/ugly men.
Please have some self respect.

You would have no idea what any girl has done in the past

[ColesBag]

Work sex & personal sex are two very different things for a W/L.

[krnboy]

Don't do it. I managed to have a so called FWB many years ago. Things just went downhill from there, thinking we are in a relationship while she's getting smashed by other dudes at the shop.

Stay away. Keep it separate from your personal life if you can

[Abracadabra]

Don't do it. I managed to have a so called FWB many years ago. Things just went downhill from there, thinking we are in a relationship while she's getting smashed by other dudes at the shop.

Stay away. Keep it separate from your personal life if you can

Sage advice......

[Riff888]

Oh it's been a minute since this question has come up again.

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[aussiegaigin]

Oh it's been a minute since this question has come up again.

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Only takes that long for posts to get lost under a carpet of shop promo's.

Just put "relationship" in the search box and see what what comes up.

[ditchtheboss]

Just don’t even think about it. It is not right for you or for her. I have done it twice and almost got into a third one but I know the heartache for me and her and walked away not to hurt her. These girls do have a heart and no matter the reason they meet with you outside the shop, authentic reason or just to keep a good client, they end up with some sort of screwed up feelings towards you.

It is a world of pain for you and for her. Walk away immediately and don’t be stupid like I was to repeat the mistake 2 more times.

It’s been said before that pussy is the most expensive article on earth and I add to it that in this instance it will damaged you and her emotionally and psychologically.

Run Forest run

[AJJ]

Another to say DON'T do it!!!!
I was in a relationship with ML I met in a shop.... I just could not stop thinking every living second about what she was doing and who she was doing it with....
Totally consumed me and just fucked up work and personal life...
To make matters worse she never felt like any intimacy with me because she was so tired and also admitted she didn't like sex anymore and was sick of looking at dick...
I really thought I could change her away from the shop but her work was her life and took me a long time to realise but I was only a small part of her world....
She was a lovely sweet girl who had some real problems back in her homeland hence the ML job here in Australia.
I would never ever recommend a relationship with a working girl and even to this day I feel a little scarred, especially when I read a review on here that was written at the time we were together.
Now I just live by the 3F rule that a lot of brothers on here swear by.

Find them
Fuck them
Forget Them

[James_jones]

I managed to have a so called FWB many years ago. Things just went downhill from there, thinking we are in a relationship while she's getting smashed by other dudes at the shop.


Why would you think you are in a relationship if you are doing fwb thing.

[ABG4LYF]

None of your advices matters. Once your dick does the thinking, thats the end of the story.

[Mark Cassin]

can you share the name of the marketing graduate, important to me


I popped back in from retirement just to answer this question. And to tell you it’s very very possible, not that uncommon, but always always regrettable in the long term.

Yes. More than once I have moved from ‘customer’ to ‘customer who is often told he can just pay for the room and not the fuck’ to ‘friend outside shop: no sex’ to ‘unconditional and on-call FWB no money no gifts asked or expected’. The most common was ‘just pay the money she must the boss for the room’ .

In the beginning I thought each upgrade was like Christmas when I was 5. I could have kept some of them rolling seemingly forever without needing to return to a shop and pay full whack again. But each time it just ended up seeming wrong or it was a long-play scam.

It just made no sense that a WL would really want to fuck me for fun on her day off or at 3 AM AM after fucking 10 of you jokers at work that day. Each one of these fucked me for free for one of these very wrong reasons:

1. because she believed it was the necessary price of my friendship or some non-sexual social or emotional part of our connection that she valued. Which it would not have been.

2. Because she maybe studied marketing before joining the workforce and sensibly offers ‘free’ benefits from BBBJ to free fucks to good customers the same way Qantas has a Frequent Flyer program with multiple service levels and then the invitation only Chairman’s Lounge which is apparently impossible to get into but still exists.

3. Because she’s insane. Like the lady who went to work in a different shop one night - on her day off - and asked me over to play…but had paid for the room for me for the whole shift and kept me there all night. When I realised all the next day I transferred the money she had spent for the room to her account by payid. As well as $100 for each time we actually fucked that night. And then said goodbye and blocked her - for her own good rather than mine I think.

These are ladies still working and who I know have many Aus99 members as customers. If we were behind a paywall I’d name at least the the ones under reason 2 above to warn more gullible or more innocent punters. Those under reason 1 and 3 might be like a magnet to some cunning punters sensing a goldmine of opportunity so best not say more than I have. This is why I don’t write AR’s ������

EDIT: the best warning I can give is that you are most likely to get a type 2 free fuck if you like GFE and punt within walking distance of Redfern station.

[ditchtheboss]

Correct, it was the same for me. The little head is the boss of the big one.

[Sibon]

Would love to hear if this is the case, and if so how did you manage to do that, do they still charge and when did you last see them?

One of the benefits you could have being a BF to a WL is you only have the pay for the shop price and get free roots beyond that.

Because of the limited venue for meeting his BF/client a WL told me her BF who was a former client still visits her in the shop but he only has to pay for the $70 shop price and the rest is FREE. :)

I guess because of this reason many punters like to have a "GF" in every shop. :)

[Sibon]

the best warning I can give is that you are most likely to get a type 2 free fuck if you like GFE and punt within walking distance of Redfern station.

I know which shop you mean I have to go there more often to try my "luck". :)

[Dettol]

Ah shit…. here we go again.

In the next few pages, you all are about to see pretentious posts talking about the “heartache” and “heartbreak” of having relationships with WL’s & ML’s outside the shops.

For most of us normal people, FWB means exactly that. No feelings and expectations involved. If fucking them for free made you feel bad, then give them some tokens or gifts.

[krnboy]

Why would you think you are in a relationship if you are doing fwb thing.

Not me, she did. For me it was simply more sex.

[DawnX]

Not me, she did. For me it was simply more sex.

Yup that’s the right attitude, you should only be there for the sex. If there’s feeling involved you need to sort it out or just abandon the ship

[GoldfishMan]

Not me, she did. For me it was simply more sex.
Don't think it was "just more sex" for you when you were thinking about her "being smashed by other dudes". Those were your own words, mate.

Face it, you couldn't desensitize yourself from the relationship, it wasn't a real FWB thing you had. So why lead other punters to think that you actually did?

[DawnX]

I feel you bro. My ex senior coworker once told me that don’t try to change a girl’s mind. If you can’t convince her to sort it out in a convo, it is best to move on. I’m glad you figured it out and do the right thing for yourself and your mental health.

[Fred Flintstone]

Im just waiting for the poofter to come back on line saying he’s falling in love with papasan at a brothel and needs our advice

[Joe1956]

FFS give this a rest
Very tedious

[MilfMonger]

can you share the name of the marketing graduate at 647, important to me

Who said anything about 647? I can walk to half a dozen shops from Redfern Station?

Have you got a special thing going with one of the 647 ladies? Why else would it be important to you what she’s doing for me? I wouldn’t want to provide information to get any lady into strife with her bloke. Especially in return for the free fucks she’s gifting me. That’d be a shit thing to do.


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[17012430]

Back when I had first got into punting this did happen. Her name was Abby and she worked at Rydalmere around 2010 or so. We would go to McDonald's, get ice creams or mcflurry's (she paid every time) and snuggle up in my backseat. She taught me some basic Chinese and I learnt a lot of other things from her, as she was about 10 years or so older than I was. After three months she just disappeared, phone disconnected and Roger (if anyone remembers) told me she had gone back to HK as her visa had run out.

During that time I would also be a customer, I'd go to Brodie St once a week or so to see her and book a couple of hours.

Looking back on this I think she valued having some type of contact with a man that wasn't completely sexual, and she must have been really lonely being in this country, sharing a house with strangers/other WL's. Every time I picked her up from her place I'd get out of the car and she'd run into my arms.

These are good memories, but there is that part of me that wishes she'd stayed in contact (perhaps she cut it off for my own good, who knows?) or at least said goodbye.

[Mark Cassin]

apologies for the offence


QUOTE=MilfMonger;2543371]Who said anything about 647? I can walk to half a dozen shops from Redfern Station?

Have you got a special thing going with one of the 647 ladies? Why else would it be important to you what she’s doing for me? I wouldn’t want to provide information to get any lady into strife with her bloke. Especially in return for the free fucks she’s gifting me. That’d be a shit thing to do.


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[MilfMonger]

Back when I had first got into punting this did happen. Her name was Abby and she worked at Rydalmere around 2010 or so. We would go to McDonald's, get ice creams or mcflurry's (she paid every time) and snuggle up in my backseat. She taught me some basic Chinese and I learnt a lot of other things from her, as she was about 10 years or so older than I was. After three months she just disappeared, phone disconnected and Roger (if anyone remembers) told me she had gone back to HK as her visa had run out.

During that time I would also be a customer, I'd go to Brodie St once a week or so to see her and book a couple of hours.

Looking back on this I think she valued having some type of contact with a man that wasn't completely sexual, and she must have been really lonely being in this country, sharing a house with strangers/other WL's. Every time I picked her up from her place I'd get out of the car and she'd run into my arms.

These are good memories, but there is that part of me that wishes she'd stayed in contact (perhaps she cut it off for my own good, who knows?) or at least said goodbye.

I think you could well be right. In each and every case I’ve experienced the free sex only became a thing after i found myself making visit or extending them to just hang out a bit. One lady worked in a slow shop on the slowest days and in 24 hrs sometimes only had an hour or two of time with customers. She texted me a lot just chatting and when i noticed she seemed to texting me all night i’d ring the shop make an anonymous booking for 2 hours and go surprise her with something she liked. It was a banana paddlepops for a while. And that it’d be it. Until on one of these occasions she said stay another 2 hours and she’d pay the room. Which I didn’t allow her to do but was happy to pay myself.

The biggest challenge I faced in these kinds of relationships is that the ladies are paranoid about anybody finding out. i’ve seen it happen that another girl in the shop starts maliciously putting it about to customers that the girl has a ‘proper boyfriend’ / ‘fiance’ . It seems that many previously regular and loyal customers go cold on ladies when think she actually has a man man she loves or is an otherwise committed relationship .


Which in my case was never the case or what I or any of the girls wanted.

[Sibon]

A ML told me she has a string of BFs. All of them were her customers.

It looked like she was collecting them as trophies.

She said at one time she had several BFs at the same time.

[Shinraman]

These ladies are human and have emotional needs like everyone else, and they want it outside of their regular business transaction.
Companionship is a big thing, I think it’s been mention on a few threads before, these ladies don’t have family or many friends (outside of the girls they work with in the shops). A lot of the times they want someone to chat to and talk about things that aren’t related to sex.
Just don’t have any expectations or preconceived ideas of free sex and massages 24/7 because that is not what they are going to give you (why when they get their fill plus money). Most are looking for things outside of that

[JohnJones]

I had been offered to be a male sexual escort once. Not because of my looks but because of my deep voice. The agency didn't specify how much I'd be paid per customer so it didn't pique my interest to try.

When I think back to "what if" I had taken up the job I started imagining what most of the MLs and WLs we see go through each time they're at work - they need to make both our dicks and ego satisfied to ensure they get more customers from positive ARs.

Working as a male escort, unless the customer specifically ask you to cum for her (hopefully you don't get 10 customers wanting you to cum in the same day), your job would be to satisfy her ego and make her cum. I haven't experienced being a male escort but then again I have dated and fucked women with almost impossible desires to fulfill. Kinda similar to femdom, they want you to beg for their pussies and you can't cum before they reach multiple orgasms.

An ML/WL looking for a boyfriend may treat you like a male escort. Both my WL & ML ex treated me exactly this way. One time my WL ex made me book her for the hour, wore only panties and a oversized T-shirt, sat on the bed and didn't let me near her. She let my hopes up, making me think that if I was obedient she would finally undress and we would have sex in the final 15 minutes. When the sex never happened at all, I walked out the door and broke up with her. She begged me to get back with her and I told her that I would only go back to her if she agrees to have sex with me without paying for the hour. She didn't comply or even gave me a reply so I pissed her off with a dick pic. She blocked me on all channels soon after.

It's a bit of a long reply but I hope you see the reason why I stopped dating MLs and WLs.

[jk_268]

These ladies are human and have emotional needs like everyone else, and they want it outside of their regular business transaction.
Companionship is a big thing, I think it’s been mention on a few threads before, these ladies don’t have family or many friends (outside of the girls they work with in the shops). A lot of the times they want someone to chat to and talk about things that aren’t related to sex.
Just don’t have any expectations or preconceived ideas of free sex and massages 24/7 because that is not what they are going to give you (why when they get their fill plus money). Most are looking for things outside of that
This.

Have seen two girls that worked a short time as ML (under 3 months in industry) and companionship was the common overarching theme. Both lived in share accommodation and had only a small number friends in Sydney, so just needed someone they can talk to and spend time with. Yes there was sex involved, but it was only a small part of the picture.
Of course, this kind of situation only ever works if you're both single, have common interests or common background, and if you both go into it enjoying the time together but at the same time not expecting it to last forever