How to get rid of Nerves?

[Sammy101]

Hi, long time lurker, first time member.

A few years back my close cousin splurged on my birthday gift for my 20th and got me down to one of the Asian brothels in Sydney CBD. It was my first time stepping into this. Because the money was taken already, I went along with it and was looking forward to it by the time we got there. As some of you might recall, the first time can either pave the way to enjoyment or really deter you from this profession. Mine was the latter. The lady looked way older than what I was told. It was rushed, dry, distracting, and would not take my member more than an inch after penetration I am not big, girthy etc. She had complained it was painful and I respected that decision. We tried different methods /positions but it was consistent pain. Finished with a handjob.

Safe to say I had a few words with my cousin after that. I felt sick to my stomach the entire evening. I've had my fair share of sexual experiences with girls after that moment, i.e. dating, hookups, clubs etc., but recently I just don't have the time or effort to put into dinners, dating, outings etc.

So I'm looking to dip my toe back into the industry. Problem is, I get quite a strong internal consciousness butterfly effect when I think of entering a shop. I know its all based off my first experience and the mentality of that time.

After a bit of reading and research on this wonderful forum, I would like to ask you wonderful punters, you experienced people, what can I do to help myself relax and really enjoy the experience?

Please, don't hesitate to provide any useful information / advice.

The solution could be to go back to dating but I want a pure no strings attached relation, and I understand creating a relation with working ladies is great if your a regular. Its something which has piqued my interest without having to fuss about with booking dinner, picking up, discussing our life's goals and if we're going to have kids or buy a house or go overseas etc.

Anyway sorry for the rant.
Live in Sydney, if that helps.

Thanks.

[AHLUNGOR]

Hi Sammy,

Welcome to the forum. I think many things that could go wrong or happened in a FS brothel may be excusable except one thing - DRY !

That’s a criminal sin and professional fault if the WL didn’t lube her pussy to ensure a smooth penetration!!

That aside, I think there are quite a few well established shops in the city area where their WLs are usually quite young ( say less than 30’s) so you shouldn’t be having a nightmare reliving your session …… lol

Ginza, Sakura and Kyoto are very similar in services and pricing, go check out their roster and take your pick, many of their girls have been reviewed and that should help if you have time to research.

Good luck and don’t forget to share


Cheers

[warwick1]

Hi, long time lurker, first time member.

A few years back my close cousin splurged on my birthday gift for my 20th and got me down to one of the Asian brothels in Sydney CBD. It was my first time stepping into this. Because the money was taken already, I went along with it and was looking forward to it by the time we got there. As some of you might recall, the first time can either pave the way to enjoyment or really deter you from this profession. Mine was the latter. The lady looked way older than what I was told. It was rushed, dry, distracting, and would not take my member more than an inch after penetration I am not big, girthy etc. She had complained it was painful and I respected that decision. We tried different methods /positions but it was consistent pain. Finished with a handjob.

Safe to say I had a few words with my cousin after that. I felt sick to my stomach the entire evening. I've had my fair share of sexual experiences with girls after that moment, i.e. dating, hookups, clubs etc., but recently I just don't have the time or effort to put into dinners, dating, outings etc.

So I'm looking to dip my toe back into the industry. Problem is, I get quite a strong internal consciousness butterfly effect when I think of entering a shop. I know its all based off my first experience and the mentality of that time.

After a bit of reading and research on this wonderful forum, I would like to ask you wonderful punters, you experienced people, what can I do to help myself relax and really enjoy the experience?

Please, don't hesitate to provide any useful information / advice.

The solution could be to go back to dating but I want a pure no strings attached relation, and I understand creating a relation with working ladies is great if your a regular. Its something which has piqued my interest without having to fuss about with booking dinner, picking up, discussing our life's goals and if we're going to have kids or buy a house or go overseas etc.

Anyway sorry for the rant.
Live in Sydney, if that helps.

Thanks.

Articulate and well written post, seems a lot of "first timers" are popping up like mushrooms, probably from the same inbred community...........

[eagerpunter]

Hi, long time lurker, first time member.

A few years back my close cousin splurged on my birthday gift for my 20th and got me down to one of the Asian brothels in Sydney CBD. It was my first time stepping into this. Because the money was taken already, I went along with it and was looking forward to it by the time we got there. As some of you might recall, the first time can either pave the way to enjoyment or really deter you from this profession. Mine was the latter. The lady looked way older than what I was told. It was rushed, dry, distracting, and would not take my member more than an inch after penetration I am not big, girthy etc. She had complained it was painful and I respected that decision. We tried different methods /positions but it was consistent pain. Finished with a handjob.

Safe to say I had a few words with my cousin after that. I felt sick to my stomach the entire evening. I've had my fair share of sexual experiences with girls after that moment, i.e. dating, hookups, clubs etc., but recently I just don't have the time or effort to put into dinners, dating, outings etc.

So I'm looking to dip my toe back into the industry. Problem is, I get quite a strong internal consciousness butterfly effect when I think of entering a shop. I know its all based off my first experience and the mentality of that time.

After a bit of reading and research on this wonderful forum, I would like to ask you wonderful punters, you experienced people, what can I do to help myself relax and really enjoy the experience?

Please, don't hesitate to provide any useful information / advice.

The solution could be to go back to dating but I want a pure no strings attached relation, and I understand creating a relation with working ladies is great if your a regular. Its something which has piqued my interest without having to fuss about with booking dinner, picking up, discussing our life's goals and if we're going to have kids or buy a house or go overseas etc.

Anyway sorry for the rant.
Live in Sydney, if that helps.

Thanks.

Maybe you could start off by going to a massage parlour first, kind of half way through the door, it's much more relaxing and chilled out.

Then once you are more relaxed and comfortable, go for the extras (FS) and before you know it, you're balls deep in an ocean of opportunity.

[jamesbond007]

Maybe you could start off by going to a massage parlour first, kind of half way through the door, it's much more relaxing and chilled out.

Then once you are more relaxed and comfortable, go for the extras (FS) and before you know it, you're balls deep in an ocean of opportunity.

"Balls deep in an ocean of opportunity", I don't think I've heard a more beautiful phrase

[Rogeryou]

It’s a transaction pure and simple and it’s all about you and pleasing yourself. Don’t be an Italian and try and make her cum, she isn’t your girl friend!

Nothing to be nervous about they are there to take your cash via emptying your cock.

If you’re not confident type of guy start with rub and tugs. You will get shit punts and plenty of good ones too.

[rooter]

Three deep breaths bro.
In out. In out. In out.
Then relax and enjoy.

[Sammy101]

Hi Sammy,

Welcome to the forum. I think many things that could go wrong or happened in a FS brothel may be excusable except one thing - DRY !

That’s a criminal sin and professional fault if the WL didn’t lube her pussy to ensure a smooth penetration!!

That aside, I think there are quite a few well established shops in the city area where their WLs are usually quite young ( say less than 30’s) so you shouldn’t be having a nightmare reliving your session …… lol

Ginza, Sakura and Kyoto are very similar in services and pricing, go check out their roster and take your pick, many of their girls have been reviewed and that should help if you have time to research.

Good luck and don’t forget to share


Cheers

Thanks Ahlungor! It was dry, I admit. First time, everything was awkward and fast paced. It can only go onwards and upwards from here, hopefully! :slobber:

[Sammy101]

Articulate and well written post, seems a lot of "first timers" are popping up like mushrooms, probably from the same inbred community...........

Thanks for the constructive feedback, warwick1.

[Sammy101]

Maybe you could start off by going to a massage parlour first, kind of half way through the door, it's much more relaxing and chilled out.

Then once you are more relaxed and comfortable, go for the extras (FS) and before you know it, you're balls deep in an ocean of opportunity.

Never thought of starting off small, thanks for the idea!

[Sammy101]

Thanks for the advice and understanding. I'll put them in practice this week soon.

[ppgor]

Hi Sammy,

Welcome to the forum. I think many things that could go wrong or happened in a FS brothel may be excusable except one thing - DRY !

That’s a criminal sin and professional fault if the WL didn’t lube her pussy to ensure a smooth penetration!!

That aside, I think there are quite a few well established shops in the city area where their WLs are usually quite young ( say less than 30’s) so you shouldn’t be having a nightmare reliving your session …… lol

Ginza, Sakura and Kyoto are very similar in services and pricing, go check out their roster and take your pick, many of their girls have been reviewed and that should help if you have time to research.

Good luck and don’t forget to share


Cheers

Couldn't agree more to above, just lay back relax and let the pussy treat you well.
slightly off topic me and a mate visited sakura and kyoto few weeks ago and the WL seems worn out (thats at 2pm) we didn't end up picking any and went to ginza instead.

[thelastdance]

Easy fix if you like is to just take a kamagra or blue pill.

[Bunty4]

Maybe you could start off by going to a massage parlour first, kind of half way through the door, it's much more relaxing and chilled out.

Then once you are more relaxed and comfortable, go for the extras (FS) and before you know it, you're balls deep in an ocean of opportunity.

That is one of the best approach to get rid of butterflies… start with MPs and rest will follow.

[booty_duty]

After a bit of reading and research on this wonderful forum, I would like to ask you wonderful punters, you experienced people, what can I do to help myself relax and really enjoy the experience?


I think the best thing to do is keep in mind that it's a service you've paid for and you're there to get your rocks off.

You're not on a date and hoping that she likes you enough or hoping that you perform well enough to get a second date with her.

If it's a dud punt, then don't sweat it, you're not going to see her again, so just move on and try again.

Like the gym, get your reps in and break through the mental barrier, only then will you see the results you seek.

If all else fails, just like the gym, you could also seek performance enhancing substances to aid your performance.

[Tarquin]

Try a chemical solution

[poida]

A few have mentioned a key point, you are just paying for a service. Dont over think it. Ya not there to make friends, start a relationship or be the lady's knight in shining armour. Have fun and then leave. No attachments, simple as that.

[ditchtheboss]

Mate, don't go after a relation, as you say, with a regular WL. You are nothing to her put an ATM machine and you will end up fucked up and penniless. I used to get nervous when I started punting, consistent punting got rid of the nerves. What you experienced the first time is normal, unfortunately you first punt was a dud, your second may be the best one ever.

I saw a girl last week who complained as well and we found our way around it. I have seen others who rode me to oblivion. Keep going and the nerves will go.

[asiafever]

As many have said, a RnT may be the best first port of call. To that end, I would suggest making sure you go to a good shop with attentive management. There are plenty around, communicate beforehand, find out who's working, who might suit your preferences, don't go in with too many preconceived ideas, a little research in terms of what standard rates for extras are (or go to a shop where that's all part of the price) and then just roll with it. There are good shops all over this big stinking city of ours, so it's just a matter of deciding which one works for you. When booking tell them you were recommended by Ahlungor and you'll get gold star treatment.

You might also consider trying one of the private set ups like Koreans in Rhodes or Chanels in Ashfield, perhaps that may take the edge off a little more being in an apartment rather than a shop..

[OLD SNAKE]

At home do breathing exercises to calm your mind, say to yourself i am going to this place and i am walking in through the front door and i don't care who is looking at me, or what they think, i am going in, repeat this as many times possible to build up courage than go
also repeat this once you arrive at the place of choice,
The most important part of punting is keeping this a secret from everyone, so don't use a work computer or phone for research, and don't punt near work or home,

Choosing a regular like you mention is great, because it builds up courage and confidence, i would find a private on escortsandbabes.com.au most charge $250 an hour, but they are based in an private apartment building with private off road parking
so you can always say i am visiting a friend or relative if you bump into someone you know,
Choosing a girl from this site is like dating on tinder you say yes or no until you find someone you like, you want her to have a good understanding of english and be able to communicate with you, so you can have a good general conversation with her,
this is important because if you treat her nicely she become more like a girlfriend when it comes to sex, and she won't get angry if you don't blow in the first 10 minutes, like the girls who work in a brothels,

[Frederic]

It’s hard to “change your thoughts” or “ or worry” because of the internal shame and anxiety.

I agree with those who have recommended an ED supplement like cialis or kamagra.

How old os the OP? I may have missed that.

[Sydboy65]

Do you masturbate a lot? That can sometimes mean you are not fully "on" when you enter a shop.

You want the battery to be charged up.

[Beergut]

Just walk in backwards...

[Beergut]

They may see you again

[luckyluke]

my advice is to go more often so you will get used to the scene etc.

[johnstrike]

now and then i still get butterflies before seeing the ladies. Once in the room the feeling quickly disappeared. lol

[Double_Adapter]

Nerves is generally the byproduct of fear...what are you fearing?
- a dud punt?
- waste of money?
- won't be able to perform?
- lack of staying power?
- premature ejaculation?
- not well hung?
- WL won't like you?
- catch an STD/STI?

[ppgor]

Nerves is generally the byproduct of fear...what are you fearing?
- a dud punt?
- waste of money?
- won't be able to perform?
- lack of staying power?
- premature ejaculation?
- not well hung?
- WL won't like you?
- catch an STD/STI?

:shout: All of the above

[dt333]

To overcome fear you must become fear - Batman.

[Double_Adapter]

To overcome fear you must become fear - Batman.

The girls will label you as being creepy and disturbing. Batman gives a dark vibe, you gotta find a middle ground like superhero 'wallet wizard' - the MLs will be drooling over the wallet

[dt333]

The girls will label you as being creepy and disturbing. Batman gives a dark vibe, you gotta find a middle ground like superhero 'wallet wizard' - the MLs will be drooling over the wallet

You've missed the point, to conquer fear you must face up to the fear and embrace the fear. His nervousness from punting is due to inexperience, the more he's exposed to punting his nervousness will dissipate over time.

[1inchguy]

You've missed the point, to conquer fear you must face up to the fear and embrace the fear. His nervousness from punting is due to inexperience, the more he's exposed to punting his nervousness will dissipate over time.

Courage is the power of the mind to overcome fear - MLK.

Been punting for awhile but I still get abit of anixety and nervousness leading up to the punt. Parking. Entering. But once I'm in the room I'm all go and then when I leave all good.
Maybe it's the rush of blood.