Sugarbabies: How many are able to host vs. need hotel rooms

[andrewv]

I'm starting this new thread as the other sugarbabe ones are too long already.

I am keen to find out from your experience, how many sugarbabes are able to host at their homes vs. needing hotels vs. you yourself can host (meaning you don't have wife/partner).

In my case, I am finding that 1 in 10 offer to host. In those cases I am happy to offer them 600 instead of my usual 500, as this saves on hotel costs and kind of meet them in the middle (daystay in the CBD usually work out around 150).

[Somebeardyfella]

The other post is 10 replies, how is that too long? Sick of this sugarbabe shit, find your own forum

[Joe1956]

The other post is 10 replies, how is that too long? Sick of this sugarbabe shit, find your own forum
Been a member for 5 minutes and on the attack!
Hahahahaha impressive

[thelastdance]

Tried asking a few things on SBs but not much here. Have found more elsewhere Reddit and other review forums more into it

[andrewv]

The other post is 10 replies, how is that too long? Sick of this sugarbabe shit, find your own forum

Hey @Somebeardyfella. Guess what. You don’t have to click on the thread. Also, I didn’t realise that you own this forum to suggest I should find my own. Maybe you call it “sugarbabe shit” because you can’t afford it and you’re just a 30-minute handjob booking guy. Bye now.

[Riff888]

I would say 90% don't host and the girls that can sometimes don't say they can just in case the guy is a psycho.

I had my own place so not a problem.

That Filo girl in Manly Vale didn't want to meet me at my place so I booked a room at Park Regis Cremorne. She wanted me to book a much more expensive place in Manly, glad I didn't.

I believe the girls that host are more likely career SBs that pay their rent with a few arrangements going at the same time.

[Somebeardyfella]

Hey @Somebeardyfella. Guess what. You don’t have to click on the thread. Also, I didn’t realise that you own this forum to suggest I should find my own. Maybe you call it “sugarbabe shit” because you can’t afford it and you’re just a 30-minute handjob booking guy. Bye now.

😂😂😂 Enjoy fella

[ditchtheboss]

I had an sB over the past few months who hosted me. She even wanted me to sleep over but I didn’t. Meeting another one tomorrow who will host me. I have a third one going at the moment but I book a room with her as she lives with her family

[OLD SNAKE]

i am very interested in finding out more about sugar babies, especially the cost efficacy compared to an escort or a regular girlfriend, and what is the arrangement for sex and dating eg dinner movies, and how many times a week can you meet up, and what will be the cost,
currently i have a GF, we go to dinner twice a week and it costs me around $300, i had to give up punting to divert funds to dating, but do have to pretend i am paying attention and be a bit of a simp to get some action

[andrewv]

One woman on seeking dot com early last year seemed keen to meet after we agreed on 500 plus me arranging hotel room. However, I was busy with someone else and was buying time.

She messaged me and wanted to know if I wanted to see her on a specific week day morning. I said something like "leave it with me so I can find if I can get a hotel room"... she replied "You don't need to because I will be staying overnight in the city at a hotel and you can come and spend time with me in the morning before I check out."

When she said that, I thought to myself, "bugger, she is spending the night with another sugardaddy who paid for the hotel room, and she will wait in the morning till he's gone to work before she get another guy (liken me) to come in and earn another 500".... I know some of you reading this might say "but maybe she was clubbing the night before and staying with a girlfriend or alone at the hotel"... I didn't think so at the time because of the way she seemed wanting to fix a particular time for the morning... anyway.

As much as I know the whole scheme is based on non-exclusivity, it did still feel like exploitation (or good business) on her part so I declined the offer and never met her. Yet, when I go to RnT places, I have zero problems with knowing there was several guys ahead of me that day and more to follow me. Go figure!!!

[andrewv]

i am very interested in finding out more about sugar babies, especially the cost efficacy compared to an escort or a regular girlfriend, and what is the arrangement for sex and dating eg dinner movies, and how many times a week can you meet up, and what will be the cost,
currently i have a GF, we go to dinner twice a week and it costs me around $300, i had to give up punting to divert funds to dating, but do have to pretend i am paying attention and be a bit of a simp to get some action

If you are not married and not living with a partner/GF, then you have a lot of freedom to pick girls on Tinder who will have sex with you for no payment. Just make sure you use a photo of yourself that is not in circulation and maybe not recent so any GF you date cannot track you down.

For many of us here, we have wives and partners, so we cannot go dating (lack of time and risk of being seen in public)... so we go for so-called sugarbabies. The only exception if you are not living with a woman is if you are an older gentleman and you want to bang much younger girls than you (say age gap 20 years) in which case the young ones on Tinder will not be interested so you have to use sugar ($$$) to get them.

On seeking dot com, some girls will write how they are not looking for PPM (payment per meeting) and want a regular allowance (you pay them a fixed monthly or weekly amount regardless of how often you meet). In reality this is bullshit as very few sugar arrangements are exclusive and very few men are wealthy and can afford to cover the girls rent and clothing and food, etc.
In any case, you always start by saying how initially it is better for both sides to have an amount paid each time you meet, till you are confident it will be a happy arrangement.

From the girls I met over the last 5 or 6 years, it is clear they know all the tricks of having multiple sugardaddies and expect to be met every 10 days or so (3 or 4 times a month) because they will want the 500 (current usual amount) as often as possible. I know some punters here are able to get girls to accept less, say 400. Keep in mind that hotel rooms are around $125 to $180 if you use the dayuse website to book rooms... so this is an added cost.

Some girls will try to extract more $$$.... I have had one crying on the phone because her VISA maxed out and she wanted some cash within a few hours to pay her monthly minimum fee. Another one sent me a website with a dress to see if I would buy it for her so she can "attend a friend's wedding next week"....

Another point, you must always be thinking "this is a financial arrangement, and nothing more" ... because I introduced a client (married man) to seeking dot com and he started meeting girls and got himself emotionally involved with one of them. Sad story and stupid thing to do.

As a closing comment, I can tell you that ML and WL at massage and brothel shops are always far superior to giving enjoyment and making sure you (customer) are getting value. They never play games like sugarbabes try to, and also sugarbabes on average are lousy in bed compared to the professionals, if you get my drift.

Give it a go.....

[ditchtheboss]

The way we feel about them is an interesting point. Like you said, in the brothel we are just the next guy but with the sugar babies, I have created a connection with some of them. But I haven’t fallen for them.

I had a SB for s few months this year. She was sexy af and sex was amazing. She was very slutty and I had no issues knowing she was fucking other guys.

However I am seeing now another one and I don’t like knowing she sees other guys which she obviously does.

Met another one about a week ago. Took her to dinner to meet her, didn’t pay her just paid for the food. She looked so young that I asked to check her Id. She asked me for advice on her profile so she could attract as many guys as possible she told me. Sweet girl but barely legal is not for me.

Sugarbabes are fun and at the beginning you never know what you will get which for me is nice. In the brothel the girls can have a different routine but we sort of know what we will get

[ditchtheboss]

Similar experience to mine although I have only been seeing SBs for about 6 months or so.

I have found however that sex with them is far better than the brothel.

I wrote in another threat about a slutty one I had for a few months, sex was amazing DT continuously and she always wanted me to insert a butt plug in her ass before fucking her. Wouldn’t let me fuck her ass because I am apparently too thick but that was sexy af. I obviously ate her ass for a long time before inserting the plug and that made her dripping wet. Sex with her was far better than the brothel. Better than K Jessie to be honest. Shame she just disappeared. I know where she lives but I wouldn’t go there.

Another one I just started seeing kept on talking during the prelims about how hard I was. She was hot af and my fella was responding accordingly. She then went down on me and worshipped my cock and kept on edging me for like 30 minutes. Best thing ever. She got so wet doing it that the bed was wet.

She told me after that what gets her really horny and wet is seeing how hard I get for her and she loves to cock worship as she gets really horny doing it.

Very rare to get these experiences in the brothel.

Perhaps I have just been lucky but I never had bad sex with a SB.

About the money they are really good at trying to extract more but I usually pretend I will cancel for another reason or will leave it and every time they stopped. The horny slutty one I mentioned used to ask me to pay for gym, send her food home and other things. I never did.

I am seeing one today for the first time who is hosting me and she kept on changing the times. I got a feeling she was trying to organise a few guys so I texted her politely and said that it wouldn’t work and it was all too hard and said good bye to her. She immediately came back to me saying that she can cancel her friends and she prefers to see me at whatever time I arrive at her place. Damn she wasn’t lying, she was just seeing her friends.

Give SBs a go and enjoy

[neoisthejuan]

Which site did you find the most success?

[ditchtheboss]

In my case seeking

[curiousgeorge1023]

I'm starting this new thread as the other sugarbabe ones are too long already.

I am keen to find out from your experience, how many sugarbabes are able to host at their homes vs. needing hotels vs. you yourself can host (meaning you don't have wife/partner).

In my case, I am finding that 1 in 10 offer to host. In those cases I am happy to offer them 600 instead of my usual 500, as this saves on hotel costs and kind of meet them in the middle (daystay in the CBD usually work out around 150).

Mate dont do that. Host or not dont go over $500 ppm, you are diluting the market doing that. I can assure you, you can find $500ppm SB's that host, The key is be PATIENT and FIRM about what you offer as an arrangement. Offering them $600 " to cover " hosting is not the way to go.

[andrewv]

Mate dont do that. Host or not dont go over $500 ppm, you are diluting the market doing that. I can assure you, you can find $500ppm SB's that host, The key is be PATIENT and FIRM about what you offer as an arrangement. Offering them $600 " to cover " hosting is not the way to go.

Good point, @curiousgeorge1023. I tend to agree about being patient and waiting for the right girl at 500. Please do share profile names via DM if you wish to. Thanks again.