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diligent
12-05-2023, 02:19 AM
Normally, when I visit a brothel to see a WL, I avoid masturbating for at least one day. This makes the tip penis more sensitive and enhances my pleasure during the session. However, the downside is that my orgasm is faster than usual, especially during a blowjob, which I can last only 3-5 minutes. It then takes me around 30 minutes to get aroused again, but if I clique with the WL, I can go for round two and reach orgasm again. If not, I might struggle to climax again and end up with blue balls. These days it is getting difficult to clique with WL.

In this case I don't find it worth booking a 45-minute or 1-hour session if I can only climax once or hopefully twice, so I decided to conduct two experiments to improve my experience.

Experiment 1 involved abstaining from masturbation for 4-5 days before the session. While it was difficult to resist temptation, I found that it build up my libido, and my sexual pleasure was off the charts during the session. I still climaxed quickly during round one, but I only needed 15-20 minutes to get hard again for round two instead of 30-45 minutes. This time, I was guaranteed to climax at round 2 regardless of my connection with the WL or not, and both orgasms were the best I've ever had.

While I loved Experiment 1, I recognize that not everyone has the discipline to avoid masturbation for several days. Hence, Experiment 2 involved masturbating 30-45 minutes before the session. Although it seems counterintuitive, it actually helped me last longer during the session. While I didn't experience the same level of excitement as Experiment 1, it was still enjoyable and I was able to pound the sex worker harder and longer without orgasming too quickly. However, I couldn't go for round two, no matter how hard I tried.

I'm curious if any of you have tried these experiments or have any thoughts on them.

Cookytim
12-05-2023, 02:32 AM
Yup..... been there myself, and tbh I've found that if you're gonna go the second shot, then best not ro rub one out.... BUT here's the clincher.
If you go in looking for 2 shots, then go in hard asap from when you start your session, and then you can relax and really get into it, especially if she gives a half decent massage or if wl then just get turned on again early as she pretends to know what shes doing🤷*♂️ and then the second shot will just turn up without pressure or expectance

tawer5ag
12-05-2023, 06:16 AM
I usually edge for at least the day i start planning on seeing a lady.

Then i take kamagara right before i leave for the session.
Im at my early 30s, so i shouldnt have a problem getting hard and finishing at least once.
But i still take it cause it just makes sure i can get/enjoy what im paying for.
The question about getting it up again, usually depends on the girl.
For mls, ive only had a few that were proactive in making me hard again after i cum once.
For brothels, i finish at least twice as girls would usually initiate and make sure to get at least a 2nd round. Mainly due to me always booking at least 1 hr.

For mls and 2nd pops, what prevents me from trying to ask for round 2, is that ive had a couple of girls who asked for another tip during the 1 hr session for 2nd pop.
The very rare ones though, ive came 3 times in 1 hr for no additional tips.

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bung72
12-05-2023, 08:00 AM
I wouldn't.... its a trade off between reducing that hair-trigger and reducing your hard-on full stop. Viagra 1-2hr before keeps things very reliable wood wise, and I think improves sensations too. I only ever book 30 minutes anyway, so don't aim for 2 shots, just one shot at 29 minutes! :)

GoldfishMan
12-05-2023, 08:23 AM
I wouldn't.... its a trade off between reducing that hair-trigger and reducing your hard-on full stop. Viagra 1-2hr before keeps things very reliable wood wise, and I think improves sensations too. I only ever book 30 minutes anyway, so don't aim for 2 shots, just one shot at 29 minutes! :)

Lol, that conjured up an image of a punter with a stopwatch, like one of those used by sports trainers, strapped to his wrist while fucking a WL! That'll be hilarious if real!

warwick1
12-05-2023, 08:42 AM
It actually reminds me of a saying from my past, "You must have 2 dicks because to you're too fucking stupid to playing with just 1"....

OLD SNAKE
12-05-2023, 02:30 PM
Try changing the type of condoms you use, use a thicker one for your first shot so its less sensitive,
than for your second shot use a thinner one for sensitivity, and get the girl to give you lots of fore play, especially to suck your nipples, as they will be sensitive after blowing your first load, than get her to give you a reach around and massage your balls while you are pumping her, reverse cowboy or doggy are good position for this,

l337dude
12-05-2023, 08:28 PM
I never jerk off before a punt, I find it counterproductive because my problem is "lasting too long" to the point WLs often complains, 8/10 times.

If you have PE or cum too easily then yes jerking off may help, it will help you last longer and desensitise you. I'm paying for a punt to enjoy the experience, abstaining from ejaculation maximises the pleasure for me.

GoldfishMan
12-05-2023, 08:57 PM
Why do it yourself when you're going to pay someone to do it for you anyway?

l337dude
12-05-2023, 09:13 PM
Exactly, why blow your load right before when you can have someone else blow it for you while maximising the intensity, it's almost like eating a big meal before going to a buffet lol...

If I punt I wanna maximise the pleasure/intensity of the orgasm, I don't care about lasting extra 5 minutes in the sack at the cost of reduced orgasm intensity.

Like I said if you have premature ejaculation then that's a different story...

rubit moore
12-05-2023, 10:03 PM
Why do it yourself when you're going to pay someone to do it for you anyway?

Exactly. When I have been thinking of heading out for a punt, maybe perusing E&B or whatever and end up knocking one out, i bale on the idea and feel good with myself on saving about $250. Haha.

colintheboyy
12-05-2023, 10:12 PM
Holding off on a few days makes me more keen for the whole thing. Otherwise it's like what rubit said, post-nut clarity strikes and I no longer feel like going.

GoldfishMan
12-05-2023, 11:35 PM
Exactly. When I have been thinking of heading out for a punt, maybe perusing E&B or whatever and end up knocking one out, i bale on the idea and feel good with myself on saving about $250. Haha.

I see... hence the forum handle I guess, lol!

punther
13-05-2023, 12:18 AM
For some reason jerking off makes me tired and angry, but sex invigorates me. Hence I never jerk before a session

amanda29loves
13-05-2023, 03:57 AM
yes, I prefer to finish long

bung72
13-05-2023, 09:07 AM
Holding off on a few days makes me more keen for the whole thing. Otherwise it's like what rubit said, post-nut clarity strikes and I no longer feel like going.

Yep, that would be me....

Jerminator
14-05-2023, 12:29 PM
Normally, when I visit a brothel to see a WL, I avoid masturbating for at least one day. This makes the tip penis more sensitive and enhances my pleasure during the session. However, the downside is that my orgasm is faster than usual, especially during a blowjob, which I can last only 3-5 minutes. It then takes me around 30 minutes to get aroused again, but if I clique with the WL, I can go for round two and reach orgasm again. If not, I might struggle to climax again and end up with blue balls. These days it is getting difficult to clique with WL.

In this case I don't find it worth booking a 45-minute or 1-hour session if I can only climax once or hopefully twice, so I decided to conduct two experiments to improve my experience.

Experiment 1 involved abstaining from masturbation for 4-5 days before the session. While it was difficult to resist temptation, I found that it build up my libido, and my sexual pleasure was off the charts during the session. I still climaxed quickly during round one, but I only needed 15-20 minutes to get hard again for round two instead of 30-45 minutes. This time, I was guaranteed to climax at round 2 regardless of my connection with the WL or not, and both orgasms were the best I've ever had.

While I loved Experiment 1, I recognize that not everyone has the discipline to avoid masturbation for several days. Hence, Experiment 2 involved masturbating 30-45 minutes before the session. Although it seems counterintuitive, it actually helped me last longer during the session. While I didn't experience the same level of excitement as Experiment 1, it was still enjoyable and I was able to pound the sex worker harder and longer without orgasming too quickly. However, I couldn't go for round two, no matter how hard I tried.

I'm curious if any of you have tried these experiments or have any thoughts on them.

best experience I had was probably not having jerk off for 10 days before a session with Anna at 42G :shout:

cuteguy
14-05-2023, 02:34 PM
best experience I had was probably not having jerk off for 10 days before a session with Anna at 42G :shout:

Can just imagine what built up over those 10 long days that Anna surely must have appreciated the huge load that went straight into her mouth. 🤣

diligent
15-05-2023, 12:14 AM
Can just imagine what built up over those 10 long days that Anna surely must have appreciated the huge load that went straight into her mouth. ��

I cant stand holding for 10 days XD

Frederic
15-05-2023, 03:32 AM
I’m only 30 so can still cum a lot. Doesn’t matter whether i jerk off before a session or not. But i expect some of the older guys here have a different experience? You should probably put how old you are and also the guys who reply should say the same as age and physical condition will make a difference.

coomerdoomer
15-05-2023, 07:09 AM
I wouldn't.... its a trade off between reducing that hair-trigger and reducing your hard-on full stop. Viagra 1-2hr before keeps things very reliable wood wise, and I think improves sensations too. I only ever book 30 minutes anyway, so don't aim for 2 shots, just one shot at 29 minutes! :)

This is gonna sound a bit weird but how do you get viagra? Do you just walk into the GP and ask for a script for one? I am on the younger side and I feel like it would be a bit weird to ask the doctor for some unless I make up some bullshit reason.

coomerdoomer
15-05-2023, 07:24 AM
Nah. Nutting fast is fine if I can go again quickly. Being unable to get hard or nut after a round or two feels bad and honestly probably more of an insult to the WL than if you were a quickshot.

tawer5ag
15-05-2023, 08:33 AM
People are saying if theyre jacking off or not.
But im curious, do people edge themselves?
I usually edge myself for a bit, before the day of the session.
Usually multiple days.


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GoldfishMan
15-05-2023, 09:15 AM
People are saying if theyre jacking off or not.
But im curious, do people edge themselves?
I usually edge myself for a bit, before the day of the session.
Usually multiple days.


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I sometimes do that, but it wouldn't be deliberate. It's more a side effect of the urge to punt bubbling up to the top. I would watch some porn, then realise that I wanted the real deal and next thing I know, I've gone booked myself a session.

Meng
15-05-2023, 10:12 AM
It's honestly a fine balance. Wank off too much and you'll get death grip syndrome where nothing is tighter than your hands. It means you might not be able to cum with a WL which is terrible for the WL lol. Might make you feel like a stud but the WL probably wants you to cum as quick as possible.

Then again if you go without cumming for too long your dick might get too sensitive and you basically blow within 5 minutes.

rubit moore
15-05-2023, 11:27 AM
It means you might not be able to cum with a WL which is terrible for the WL lol. Might make you feel like a stud but the WL probably wants you to cum as quick as possible.



Haha yea..."Wow you so stronggg!" turns into "Ok you cum now, I tired" turns into bareback. :smile:

Ghost2hauntU
15-05-2023, 12:22 PM
It's honestly a fine balance. Wank off too much and you'll get death grip syndrome where nothing is tighter than your hands. It means you might not be able to cum with a WL which is terrible for the WL lol. Might make you feel like a stud but the WL probably wants you to cum as quick as possible.

Then again if you go without cumming for too long your dick might get too sensitive and you basically blow within 5 minutes.

In my 20’s there wasn’t a day that I’d go w/o jerking off and cumming a minimum of 1x. If I didn’t I could not function at work or in general cos all I’d think of was pussy. There’s be nights usually on a Friday after work that I’d get home and jerk off and cum multiple times. Once I blew 5x in 3 hours and was till horny as all hell and had to rush off to the nearest whorehouse and pumped another load.

There’s no way I could do anything like this today.

Idkfa
15-05-2023, 01:28 PM
Maybe earlier in the day. Never just before. That’s just asking for a bad time

Meng
15-05-2023, 02:02 PM
Haha yea..."Wow you so stronggg!" turns into "Ok you cum now, I tired" turns into bareback. :smile:

Hahaha yea. Save that shit for your GF or wives not a WL. They want you to finish lol.

coomerdoomer
15-05-2023, 02:10 PM
In my 20’s there wasn’t a day that I’d go w/o jerking off and cumming a minimum of 1x. If I didn’t I could not function at work or in general cos all I’d think of was pussy. There’s be nights usually on a Friday after work that I’d get home and jerk off and cum multiple times. Once I blew 5x in 3 hours and was till horny as all hell and had to rush off to the nearest whorehouse and pumped another load.

There’s no way I could do anything like this today.

I am exactly like that and thought I was a freak until now. Well, I might still be a freak, but at least I won’t be alone in that.

rooter
15-05-2023, 10:25 PM
Never before a session.
Would you eat a big bowl of pasta before going to a restaurant?
I like to go in hungry!
But sometimes I do after a session.
I get home and I think about the girl and I am horny all over again and I have to rub out another one :)

Callfellow
16-05-2023, 11:17 AM
But sometimes I do after a session.
I get home and I think about the girl and I am horny all over again and I have to rub out another one :)

Same here, never before but sometimes after, could be several times after too if I had a particularly good session :)

Ghost2hauntU
25-05-2023, 04:52 PM
No but I sure jerk off like a complete maniac for hours on end the day following a good punt. Fuck it leaves me super horny.

bung72
25-05-2023, 06:45 PM
This is gonna sound a bit weird but how do you get viagra? Do you just walk into the GP and ask for a script for one? I am on the younger side and I feel like it would be a bit weird to ask the doctor for some unless I make up some bullshit reason.

Just ask your GP.... Male, middle aged GP probably your best bet - just tell them you are having some trouble getting wood at times, and heard that it would help. They have no reason to be stingey with it....

gco0307
25-05-2023, 07:04 PM
Nah but i also only really do RnT
For me, if I blow early, and it does happen from time to time, most times the girl sees that as a challenge to try to get me twice although other times it just leads to more massage
Either way, for me I win

james12
04-06-2023, 05:00 AM
No otherwise I'd never actually make the session.

CFH
04-06-2023, 08:41 AM
nup. save it all up especially for them.

Axeman123
04-06-2023, 09:49 AM
Yes I do. But not always. When I want to punt n know I shouldn't for whatever reason I toss hoping to kill that urge. Most times I still go , so that didn't work. whether I enjoy it or not is another thing.

rooter
04-06-2023, 10:05 AM
Can someone please remind why you would jerk off BEFORE going to a punt.
Maybe I am missing something here. Why the fuck would you do that?
I mean you are gonna get a real fuck in an hour or two. Why wank?
It's like eating a two bowls of instant noodles before going to an all you can eat seafood buffet!

Axeman123
04-06-2023, 10:14 AM
Can someone please remind why you would jerk off BEFORE going to a punt.
Maybe I am missing something here. Why the fuck would you do that?
I mean you are gonna get a real fuck in an hour or two. Why wank?
It's like eating a two bowls of instant noodles before going to an all you can eat seafood buffet! Because I know that I shouldn't punt so jerk off thinking that I will kill the urge.

GoldfishMan
04-06-2023, 10:23 AM
Because I know that I shouldn't punt so jerk off thinking that I will kill the urge.

All good bro. Everyone is different. Older folks have lower libido. You must be a younger bro. For you, the instant noodles ended up being just appetizers for your 3 course meal instead of preventing the buffet dinner.

rooter
04-06-2023, 10:42 AM
All good bro. Everyone is different. Older folks have lower libido. You must be a younger bro. For you, the instant noodles ended up being just appetizers for your 3 course meal instead of preventing the buffet dinner.

Hahaha! Rule one of the buffet.
Don't fill up on the breads and pastas and other cheap carbs they put at the start.
Skip them and make your way to the high end proteins; lobster, crab, oysters, roast beef, roast pork, prawns etc ... and always save room for the yummy desserts :)

GoldfishMan
04-06-2023, 10:52 AM
Hahaha! Rule one of the buffet.
Don't fill up on the breads and pastas and other cheap carbs they put at the start.
Skip them and make your way to the high end proteins; lobster, crab, oysters, roast beef, roast pork, prawns etc ... and always save room for the yummy desserts :)

Haha, I'm a peasant, I love cheap carbs and never had any particular fondness for expensive seafood, especially those that are cooked in a bland way like they are at the buffets.

That's why I never go for buffets these days.

rooter
04-06-2023, 11:04 AM
Haha, I'm a peasant, I love cheap carbs and never had any particular fondness for expensive seafood, especially those that are cooked in a bland way like they are at the buffets.

That's why I never go for buffets these days.

Hahaha! Oysters used to be common working mans food scoffed down with a beer or two.
Lobster was considered to be the vermin of the sea.
It was like the equivalent of eating rats today.
Not even poor people would eat it. They used it for fertiliser. They used to feed it to prisoners.
In fact prisoners in New England rioted in the 1800s because they refused to eat lobster :)

Axeman123
04-06-2023, 11:14 AM
All good bro. Everyone is different. Older folks have lower libido. You must be a younger bro. For you, the instant noodles ended up being just appetizers for your 3 course meal instead of preventing the buffet dinner. Oh no. I'm not younger. My mum let me stay home from school n let me watch the two Yanks poonce about on the moon for the first time . Remember that ? My libido isn't what it was but "hey" I've still got my imagination. That's where it gets interesting.

GoldfishMan
04-06-2023, 11:26 AM
Hahaha! Oysters used to be common working mans food scoffed down with a beer or two.
Lobster was considered to be the vermin of the sea.
It was like the equivalent of eating rats today.
Not even poor people would eat it. They used it for fertiliser. They used to feed it to prisoners.
In fact prisoners in New England rioted in the 1800s because they refused to eat lobster :)
Same goes for mantis prawns. They used to use them as chicken feed, now they're more expensive than tiger prawns.

I actually like lobsters though. A lot easier to eat than crab. I'll only eat crab if there was a hottie cracking them open and feeding the meat to me.

warwick1
04-06-2023, 11:51 AM
I used to do a bit of SCUBA (now that's a decent acronym) in my youth and off the rocks at Long Reef in the Northern Beaches we used to get a lot of good size Abalone, all fished out now, and the prices now are unbelievable, have made a lot of people rich in the last few years selling to the Japs...........A bit off topic but who cares

rooter
04-06-2023, 12:06 PM
I used to do a bit of SCUBA (now that's a decent acronym) in my youth and off the rocks at Long Reef in the Northern Beaches we used to get a lot of good size Abalone, all fished out now, and the prices now are unbelievable, have made a lot of people rich in the last few years selling to the Japs...........A bit off topic but who cares

Hahaha! Never apologise for going off topic on this Forum bro, we expect nothing less :)
I have to laugh to when I see offal on the menu of posh restaurants.
I was weaned on that shit. It was cheap as fuck!
Lambs fry, ox liver, kidneys, tripe, but my fave is chicken livers fried with onions. Yummy :)
And tasted even better with mum and dad smoking ciggies at the kitchen table :)

warwick1
04-06-2023, 12:14 PM
Lambs fry and bacon on toast for brekky, yummo!

Axeman123
04-06-2023, 12:15 PM
I used to do a bit of SCUBA (now that's a decent acronym) in my youth and off the rocks at Long Reef in the Northern Beaches we used to get a lot of good size Abalone, all fished out now, and the prices now are unbelievable, have made a lot of people rich in the last few years selling to the Japs...........A bit off topic but who cares If off topic is ok your little piece reminds me of something. Years ago I used to race dirt bikes. Any body that did was poor because of that. But one practice day down in Nowra a young bloke turned up with the newest n best of everything. Got talking to him n he mentioned about his boat. I'm thinking typical rich kid. He used to go out n catch tuna n sell direct to Japanese restaurants. Tuna r big fuckn' fish =big dollars. All illegal of course.

l337dude
04-06-2023, 12:19 PM
Oysters = amazing aphrodisiac, best thing you can eat for your libido, oh the good'ol days when buffets were actually good...

warwick1
04-06-2023, 12:29 PM
If off topic is ok your little piece reminds me of something. Years ago I used to race dirt bikes. Any body that did was poor because of that. But one practice day down in Nowra a young bloke turned up with the newest n best of everything. Got talking to him n he mentioned about his boat. I'm thinking typical rich kid. He used to go out n catch tuna n sell direct to Japanese restaurants. Tuna r big fuckn' fish =big dollars. All illegal of course.

I did alot of fishing offshore in those days as well and when the Jewies were running in summer we often sold them to local restaurants through the "backdoor", we called them "wet dollars"....Also illegal!

Frederic
04-06-2023, 03:19 PM
I guess if you are 20 and young dumb and full of cum? Or is it because you ejaculate prematurely?

Daffy
04-06-2023, 03:54 PM
I used to do a bit of SCUBA (now that's a decent acronym) in my youth and off the rocks at Long Reef in the Northern Beaches we used to get a lot of good size Abalone, all fished out now, and the prices now are unbelievable, have made a lot of people rich in the last few years selling to the Japs...........A bit off topic but who cares

I’ve only ever dived overseas but would love to hear any suggestions for good spots around Sydney.

Amelia from 108 Mirage also mentioned she is a qualified dive instructor and was looking for some dive spots to visit too.

sokiom093
04-06-2023, 10:01 PM
I'll usually edge but don't cum before a session.

Ghost2hauntU
05-06-2023, 02:54 AM
Even edging will somewhat de-sensitise me so I prefer not to edge or jerk off or see any porn a few days before I punt.
I’ll also time my punts with nights when I’m feeing most energetic (I punt late nights). Cos I usually get out what effort I put in.

So if I’m tired after work I’ll avoid a punt and wait another day. Sometimes this is the most difficult cos I’m corny as fuck and can’t sleep, don’t want to jerk off and don’t really want to go out and fuck cos I know I won’t be at my best.

Buddy of mine who works at Mazda says his work makes him tired daily that he has no energy to fuck and just gets a massage and suck off. But I find no such satisfaction unless I fuck hard servicing the WL.

l337dude
05-06-2023, 11:42 AM
No touching my penis for at least 2 days before a punt (no jerking off, no edging), the reason is simple, maximum sensitivity and performance -> better orgasm, I'm not in my 20s anymore where I could jerk off 3 times a day, everyday, and had no impact on libido/performance...

HarrysReasons
07-06-2023, 05:20 PM
Nope.... I'll cum twice in 45mins... first fuck quick and sensitised, second fuck slow and desensitised.

Hemingford Gray
07-06-2023, 10:08 PM
Totally agree, this man speaks the truth.

Johnisfun1969
08-06-2023, 10:15 AM
I usually edge for at least the day i start planning on seeing a lady.

Then i take kamagara right before i leave for the session.
Im at my early 30s, so i shouldnt have a problem getting hard and finishing at least once.
But i still take it cause it just makes sure i can get/enjoy what im paying for.
The question about getting it up again, usually depends on the girl.
For mls, ive only had a few that were proactive in making me hard again after i cum once.
For brothels, i finish at least twice as girls would usually initiate and make sure to get at least a 2nd round. Mainly due to me always booking at least 1 hr.

For mls and 2nd pops, what prevents me from trying to ask for round 2, is that ive had a couple of girls who asked for another tip during the 1 hr session for 2nd pop.
The very rare ones though, ive came 3 times in 1 hr for no additional tips.

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Mate could not understand why do you take Kamagra the night before. The recommendation as I undertand for the pill is to take this at least 2 hours prior to the sex before you have anything to eat. This allows enough time to be absorbed. I only take a 1/4 tablet and the effects can last upto 6 hours. If you are young you dont need to take anymore than 1/4 tablet or 1/2 if you planning to have sex longer. I use super K as it helps with both and takes the pressure off me trying to hold back as I dont want to come too early with the first shot.

Before I experimented with the pills I would book 1 hour with WL. Have the first shot then relax, massage or chat and have the second round. Lately, I feel if you come earlier than it may be worthwhile only booking 1/2hr session. You can always come back for second session of 1/2hr after a break or change the girl for the second round.

GoldfishMan
08-06-2023, 11:05 AM
Mate could not understand why do you take Kamagra the night before.


When was the last time you got your eyes checked, bro?

Themysterypi
24-06-2023, 02:11 PM
No way, first time I like to CIM so it fills the girl mouth. It was a great feeling and much of the reason for going.

pysterio
24-06-2023, 03:59 PM
I just joined the gym but curious if others who exercise regularly find it easier to pop twice ?