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Ghost2hauntU
14-07-2023, 02:19 AM
Recently there have been a few nights I went out and visited a number of shops only to leave as the quality of women or their attitude just didn’t tick my punting rules. I ended up back at home in the early hours of the morning jerking off. Then I looked at the pile of money on the table and it hit me how much I have saved by not punting on impostors.

Anyone else has had days or nights like these where you just cut your losses and head back home?

Im at the strange where I am honestly contemplating at quitting this shit and going back to online dating.

abovetherim
14-07-2023, 02:47 AM
I don’t think I have the discipline to decline a WL once I take the trouble to get to a shop then go through the process of choosing a girl. I tend to settle for the least undesirable one or ask for the most service oriented girl to satisfy my need for the night. Having said that I have come back home when there were issues with booking which can be a really bummer. I’ve also waited more than an hour due to double booking which was infuriating but stuck around because I wasn’t going back with blue balls that night lol. But yeah sometimes just rubbing one out at home and realising with post nut clarity the money saved is a good sense check.

Hidden Python
14-07-2023, 03:46 AM
Punting should be for fun not a habit, and you should find an awesome regular shop where you know its going to be a 100% success rate,
In terms of jerking off at least go buy yourself some toys, so you leave Mr Palmer alone yes its Mr not Mrs because you are a man not a woman
In terms of online dating, some times you feel its too much work but you might find your true love, you just need to get your act together as women want the complete package

FreyaFan
14-07-2023, 11:09 AM
Once I have decided to punt, there is no question of jerking off. I have left a shop when there is no good option on offer, but I just go looking for another shop, have never decided to instead go home and have a wank.

JSteel96
14-07-2023, 11:24 AM
Recently there have been a few nights I went out and visited a number of shops only to leave as the quality of women or their attitude just didn’t tick my punting rules. I ended up back at home in the early hours of the morning jerking off. Then I looked at the pile of money on the table and it hit me how much I have saved by not punting on impostors.

Anyone else has had days or nights like these where you just cut your losses and head back home?

I'm at the strange where I am honestly contemplating at quitting this shit and going back to online dating.

This is where having a regular mistress for sex that has chemistry with you and knows how to please you pays off. You know what to expect every time. Rather than random shop visits only to get dissapionted. I won't do random without looking at the girls pics online first so at least I have an idea what I get for my money.

Sibon
14-07-2023, 12:04 PM
Recently there have been a few nights I went out and visited a number of shops only to leave as the quality of women or their attitude just didn’t tick my punting rules. I ended up back at home in the early hours of the morning jerking off. Then I looked at the pile of money on the table and it hit me how much I have saved by not punting on impostors.

Anyone else has had days or nights like these where you just cut your losses and head back home?

Im at the strange where I am honestly contemplating at quitting this shit and going back to online dating.

You need to have the patience and lots of $ to look for the right WL for you.

Sadly I have to go back to my regular whenever I venture out to find new girls who are sub standard and a waste of time and condoms.

Sibon
14-07-2023, 12:13 PM
Once I have decided to punt, there is no question of jerking off. I have left a shop when there is no good option on offer, but I just go looking for another shop, have never decided to instead go home and have a wank.

Once I left a shop because of no good option I sat on the bench beside a bus stop smoking. Out of the blue a girl with immense beauty and breath-taking shape descended on me. She told me her name was Venus.

I asked her how much would it cost me. She said, "Nothing. It costs you nothing and you can do whatever you like with me."

I took her home and woke up in the morning to find out she was a sex doll.

Morale of the story: "Go straight home."

FreyaFan
14-07-2023, 01:26 PM
Once I left a shop because of no good option I sat on the bench beside a bus stop smoking. Out of the blue a girl with immense beauty and breath-taking shape descended on me. She told me her name was Venus.

I asked her how much would it cost me. She said, "Nothing. It costs you nothing and you can do whatever you like with me."

I took her home and woke up in the morning to find out she was a sex doll.

Morale of the story: "Go straight home."

LOL Venus sounds very accommodating, did you keep her around?

l337dude
14-07-2023, 09:31 PM
Good luck quitting :P

Sounds like you just had a bad streak and been unlucky, it happens, don't worry the pile of cash on the table will disappear soon...:shout:

Sibon
15-07-2023, 03:57 AM
Good luck quitting :P

Sounds like you just had a bad streak and been unlucky, it happens, don't worry the pile of cash on the table will disappear soon...:shout:

The new notes are made of recycled and self-generative papers.

The notes if left unused over 6 months will turn into dust.

There is an urgency among the punters to spend their pineapples ASAP.

Sibon
15-07-2023, 04:00 AM
LOL Venus sounds very accommodating, did you keep her around?

She deflated next morning and turned into a pile of silicone and plastic and artificial hair.

frank.huang.ak
15-07-2023, 06:41 AM
Recently there have been a few nights I went out and visited a number of shops only to leave as the quality of women or their attitude just didn’t tick my punting rules. I ended up back at home in the early hours of the morning jerking off. Then I looked at the pile of money on the table and it hit me how much I have saved by not punting on impostors.

Anyone else has had days or nights like these where you just cut your losses and head back home?

Im at the strange where I am honestly contemplating at quitting this shit and going back to online dating.

I had this, but rarely. Most of time, I have second shop as a backup. However when options ran out, I will save the money for next time.

Candy1234
15-07-2023, 12:23 PM
Lately I’ve done a few walks out since money is tight. Don’t know, I actually felt good about it, somehow the urge disappeared. Recently done one cos the lineup wasn’t my cuppa, I was even consider staying for a massage only, no extras but the boss lady wouldn’t have it, told me to pay more so she can pay the girl. Forget that crap, I would rather go to the mall and have a proper massage for the price she was asking.

wolfman88
15-07-2023, 12:39 PM
Recently there have been a few nights I went out and visited a number of shops only to leave as the quality of women or their attitude just didn’t tick my punting rules. I ended up back at home in the early hours of the morning jerking off. Then I looked at the pile of money on the table and it hit me how much I have saved by not punting on impostors.

Anyone else has had days or nights like these where you just cut your losses and head back home?

Im at the strange where I am honestly contemplating at quitting this shit and going back to online dating.

i've been there... moreso with just looking on E&B then realised its like 2 in the morning so i either knock one out the old fashioned way or just go to sleep then treat myself with a nice breakfast the next morning

however, you do make it sound like a problem when you say "quitting this shit". how often do you go?

CharlieM
15-07-2023, 12:41 PM
Not me! When I've decided I'm going, that's it. Blue pill has been taken, I'm excited, horny and I will fuck the cleaning lady at the shop if that's the only option left.

wolfman88
15-07-2023, 01:00 PM
Not me! When I've decided I'm going, that's it. Blue pill has been taken, I'm excited, horny and I will fuck the cleaning lady at the shop if that's the only option left.

got any recommendations on cleaning ladys? lol

Ghost2hauntU
15-07-2023, 01:09 PM
i've been there... moreso with just looking on E&B then realised its like 2 in the morning so i either knock one out the old fashioned way or just go to sleep then treat myself with a nice breakfast the next morning

however, you do make it sound like a problem when you say "quitting this shit". how often do you go?

I used to average between 2-3 punts per month for many years in Sydney.
But this year I’ve been mainly seeing my last 2 regulars before they left the industry. Past 2 months I only punted once and this month I’m still @ zero.

Punting used to be lots of fun in Sydney but somehow it’s turning more and more sour. Shops advertising tiered service but lot of the girls refusing to be tried in Standard service first. Bad attitude from the staff. This all puts a punter off and is the “shit” I’m referring to. We used to be treated like kings walking into places. Wtf has happened since Covid?

CharlieM
15-07-2023, 01:14 PM
[QUOTE=wolfman88;2732197]got any recommendations on cleaning ladys? lol[/QUOTE

The last time my options were limited. Choice of 3 WLs. Chose least good looking of the 3 as had already done the other 2 multiple times. And yeas she could've passed for the cleaning lady. But fuck did she go off like a cracker once in the room. Looks can be deceiving. Haha

wolfman88
15-07-2023, 01:29 PM
what about this - you call a private, she says she will be ready in the next 1.5hrs (obvious she is about to star an hour session with someone) - forget about the timing - that is hypothetical. but knowing she is about to finish up with another punter and you are potentially going in straight after a dude has cooked her on medium/low for an hour before you get there ... you calling another private?

wolfman88
15-07-2023, 01:31 PM
I used to average between 2-3 punts per month for many years in Sydney.
But this year I’ve been mainly seeing my last 2 regulars before they left the industry. Past 2 months I only punted once and this month I’m still @ zero.

Punting used to be lots of fun in Sydney but somehow it’s turning more and more sour. Shops advertising tiered service but lot of the girls refusing to be tried in Standard service first. Bad attitude from the staff. This all puts a punter off and is the “shit” I’m referring to. We used to be treated like kings walking into places. Wtf has happened since Covid?

I've found WL's in general. Regardless private or in a shop. Quality has gone downhill post the spicy flu season. ML's however, there is more luck in this space. Or maybe I like the chase ... Who know's

l337dude
16-07-2023, 11:20 AM
I just wanna add something here, sometimes looks can be deceiving (as you'al know), if your goal is purely service and a good root to release, you may be pleasantly surprised once the session starts, if your "quality" of a WL is heavily based on looks/attitude etc then yea shits going downhill a bit lately..

The reason I say this is because I had a fucking awesome session last night, one of the best in months for sure, it was with a slightly milfy Jap WL with below average looks, when I first saw her I was a bit disappointed and was almost ready to walk, but since options were limited I thought "fuck this, I'm too horny to muck around, it's time to get it over with" so I stayed, she was even a bit standoffish at the start but once she warmed up holy shit it was intense, long story short I fucked the shit out of her, she was screaming hysterically in Japanese which I didn't understand a word, at the time I thought she was enjoying it so I got even more excited and pounded her brains out...almost literally, I was hard as rock the entire session, I could literally feel blood rushing to my head and penis and feel the pulse with every stroke, it was only when the session was over I realised I actually got a bit carried away and caused her a bit of discomfort, but anyway the point of the story, that right there is the definition of a good punt (for me), we both enjoyed it...or at least I hope she did, and the orgasm was out of this world.

So yea...don't judge a book by its cover, I know...easier said than done :P
For me I'm always service-oriented, as long as the looks "pass the inspection" I'm willing to give it a shot when I'm horny as fuck, sure glad I didn't go home and have a wank lol...the high you get from such a good fuck session it's insane.

Johnisfun1969
16-07-2023, 11:32 AM
I am with you mate. I rather go home and help myself rather than a dud punt and my wallet is so much lighter. That’s the reason why I have slowed die and don’t visit shops anymore. I used to believe privates are better as I preferred the privacy. But these places with bait and switch is so disappointing. Worse there were couple of Chinese mifs and one has such a bad breath that let alone kissing I could not get it up to fuck her.

So I think we are all different and I believe in holding on to my hard earned money than throwing it away. Anyhow watching porn has been not only good for the bank account but saved myself lot of time travelling, finding parking and gettting disappointed.

JamilAz
16-07-2023, 12:15 PM
If I got over punting at shops I'd go back to getting a sugar baby but that can be more of a headache and costly than punting. The other option I'd go is back on the prowl hitting up bars and nightlife looking for a casual fling FWB.

JamilAz
16-07-2023, 12:17 PM
I do agree that jerking saves you a lot of money too sometimes you need that break to give your bank account a breather haha.

l337dude
16-07-2023, 12:44 PM
I see the reasons for jerking off and honestly I know where it's coming from, a lot of times its probably justified too, and you will definitely be better off financially since it's free, but the issue with porn/masturbation for me personally is that it's a form of addiction in itself, and I know it will be highly addictive for me once I go down that path again, when I was young I used to jerk off a lot to porn and it took me some time to recover and get away from that habbit, because it was SOO easy to get into, and most importantly it's free. Like I said the pro of jerking off is that you will save a lot of money, but mentally I don't think I can get over the fact that I'm back to being the guy at jerks off to porn at home instead of fucking beautiful girls...especially now that I'm older, time is the essence, I want to look back with good memories of fucking beautiful women...as many as possible.

If jerking off to porn is not an addiction for you and you can get off it easily then you are probably safe and save some cash at the same time...but for me it never did anything good for me mentally besides the quick release, and it's too easy to get into to become a habit, even after a "so-so" punt I feel energised and satisfied, none of that "down" feeling associated with jerking off.

TonyZen
17-07-2023, 12:29 AM
I'd rather abstain from both shops and rubbing one out and give the wife a good romp. Can't beat that service.

Come to think of it, the less time spent on this forum the lower the urge to punt. 😂

Ghost2hauntU
17-07-2023, 12:51 AM
I see the reasons for jerking off and honestly I know where it's coming from, a lot of times its probably justified too, and you will definitely be better off financially since it's free, but the issue with porn/masturbation for me personally is that it's a form of addiction in itself, and I know it will be highly addictive for me once I go down that path again, when I was young I used to jerk off a lot to porn and it took me some time to recover and get away from that habbit, because it was SOO easy to get into, and most importantly it's free. Like I said the pro of jerking off is that you will save a lot of money, but mentally I don't think I can get over the fact that I'm back to being the guy at jerks off to porn at home instead of fucking beautiful girls...especially now that I'm older, time is the essence, I want to look back with good memories of fucking beautiful women...as many as possible.

If jerking off to porn is not an addiction for you and you can get off it easily then you are probably safe and save some cash at the same time...but for me it never did anything good for me mentally besides the quick release, and it's too easy to get into to become a habit, even after a "so-so" punt I feel energised and satisfied, none of that "down" feeling associated with jerking off.

This is the main reason I punt, cos the feeing fucking and cumming with a woman feels so much better than jerking off as we all know.. In my situation tho, the punt has to be at least half decent where I feel I’ve gotten value for my hard earned money. I’m finding this year that more and more WLs are reluctant to offer standard service and demand diamond and platinum to be paid more. This is a major turn off. Maybe it’s just me but I think the industry in Sydney is turning to shit and it’s time to punt overseas in countries like Vietnam where 20-25 year old bargirls go at the rate of USD $100/night.

l337dude
17-07-2023, 11:29 AM
This is the main reason I punt, cos the feeing fucking and cumming with a woman feels so much better than jerking off as we all know.. In my situation tho, the punt has to be at least half decent where I feel I’ve gotten value for my hard earned money. I’m finding this year that more and more WLs are reluctant to offer standard service and demand diamond and platinum to be paid more. This is a major turn off. Maybe it’s just me but I think the industry in Sydney is turning to shit and it’s time to punt overseas in countries like Vietnam where 20-25 year old bargirls go at the rate of USD $100/night.

Yea I hear ya, shits definitely been going down hill, limited options...increased cost, and the quality in generally kinda sucks compared to the old days, I'm definitely going overseas to punt when I no longer have family commitments here in Sydney...ah well it is what it is, gonna have to settle for what we have for the time being.

woods23
17-07-2023, 01:00 PM
I once went to about 8 to 9 fs shops in the cbd looking for a quickie.....not one girl suited my taste in looks that night. No way I'm going home with blue balls. Luckily, i finally settled with good enough looking girl. otherwise, i be still driving till sun rises! I'm more in to looks than service kind of guys.

l337dude
17-07-2023, 02:29 PM
I once went to about 8 to 9 fs shops in the cbd looking for a quickie

Now that's some commitment and persistence lol, I generally settle after 3 or 4 shops at the most, at that stage I needed to release so bad I'll take a gamble and take anything that's "passable", or I could spend the whole night searching...

Johnisfun1969
17-07-2023, 02:34 PM
This is the main reason I punt, cos the feeing fucking and cumming with a woman feels so much better than jerking off as we all know.. In my situation tho, the punt has to be at least half decent where I feel I’ve gotten value for my hard earned money. I’m finding this year that more and more WLs are reluctant to offer standard service and demand diamond and platinum to be paid more. This is a major turn off. Maybe it’s just me but I think the industry in Sydney is turning to shit and it’s time to punt overseas in countries like Vietnam where 20-25 year old bargirls go at the rate of USD $100/night.

You are right brother. If you can manage the language barriers and these days it la easy as girls pull out their translator app. My first visit out of the 6 nights I was in Ho Chi Minh City I had sex 5 times. Met 6 girls and one who seemed young I was a gentleman but got to see her again in the next trip and she was amazing. If you are a nice person bring few gifts and don’t act sleepy it’s easier to meet girls from dating apps. I am no hunk or in my prime. Just dress well and polite.

woods23
17-07-2023, 09:38 PM
Now that's some commitment and persistence lol, I generally settle after 3 or 4 shops at the most, at that stage I needed to release so bad I'll take a gamble and take anything that's "passable", or I could spend the whole night searching...

I also went to 4 other Caucasian fs shop too :) all big size pork chops. I was on a mission haha..

asian slayer
17-07-2023, 10:40 PM
If i could punt all the time i would but i aint bill gates

Gillbros
18-07-2023, 08:54 PM
Well to me its a bit like mowing the lawns.
I'd rather just pay someone to do it.
True many a punt I would.of swapped for wacking off but this is only obvious after the fact.
And I don't think you are ever going to look back and remember that time you jerked off in the shower. But the memorable punts are great reminiscing.and bring a smile to my face.