As regulars, do you let the WL/ML know if you won't be able to visit them anymore?

[bleekpit]

i'm not really someone that has any regulars, but curious if you guys just stop visiting out of the blue or if you actually let the girls know whatever the reason may be. I imagine some girls may wonder or even get upset especially ones that have been very long term.

I know that when i leave a city, i usually tell people i built rapport with that i am leaving. how does the punting world work? do the girls even care? do the punters?

[Sibon]

i'm not really someone that has any regulars, but curious if you guys just stop visiting out of the blue or if you actually let the girls know whatever the reason may be. I imagine some girls may wonder or even get upset especially ones that have been very long term.

I know that when i leave a city, i usually tell people i built rapport with that i am leaving. how does the punting world work? do the girls even care? do the punters?

I don't think my regular cares much about me stop seeing her. I'm just one of the few four or five dozens of punters who see her a week.

To think that she'll miss me is making myself an unnecessarily important customer.

No WL could survive on seeing one punter even you see her everyday.

[rubit moore]

Maybe you could offer them a termination letter and give them a period of notice based on the amount of time you’ve been seeing them so they can make other arrangements based on your forthcoming absence.

[JSteel96]

I would never stop with my regular why would I do that out of the blue when I got a good thing going? I am sure if I did tell her that she would be very pissed and upset. I won't stop seeing her anyways.

[Hidden Python]

It really depends of the dynamics of your punting relationship, if you are just a customer with no outside contact, just thank her for looking after you after each visit, this will make her feel better about herself after herself violation for money
If you have her number and have meet outside the shop before, than yes let her know you are leaving, sometime the lost of a simple friendship can have a deeper impact on a persons self wealth than you think.

[11Bravo]

Being a visitor, I always tell regulars that I'm going home, wish them good luck, and that when I return, I hope to see them again. Of course, I also have their contact info (WeChat, Line), and while at home, ping them every quarter or so, just to say hi. Refreshes her memory, and works great in case she's changed shops. It's business, but the smart ones know that a regular is money in the bank. Covid, lapse of 3 years, NO problem...

[DanThePuntingMan]

I have a few regular girls i see, and i have only done it to one girl, she was an amazing viet girl but after a few years her service level dropped massively and she was always after more and more tips. Only saw her maybe once every 2-4weeks as i rotate seeing my regulars.

Just means i get to see my others regulars a bit more often and its great because there service is top notch IMO and they don't come across as money hungry girls.

[Double_Adapter]

Maybe you could offer them a termination letter and give them a period of notice based on the amount of time you’ve been seeing them so they can make other arrangements based on your forthcoming absence.

If I was a WL/ML I'd be pissed off!! I'd expect a severance payout, a letter of indemnity, an oversized farewall card followed by farewell drinks at the pub.

[JJBlows]

Nah i dont tell them at all. If I know I won't be able to see her for a while I won't even tell her if shes my good regular, I get a kick out of disappearing for a while and when I finally come back, book her and she walks into the room expecting someone else and sees its you, its cute when she's gets angry about it but trys to hide it but the sex that follows has been awesome. I enjoy the shocked look they give when they realise it's you and then just stand at the door staring at you with those hungry eyes before she pulls herself together and walks over to the bed. Ive had one girl walk in and then realise its me and then throw the towels she was carrying at me angrly saying "where the fuck have you been, huh?" And wrestle me, the sex with her was the best I've ever had.

[rubit moore]

If I was a WL/ML I'd be pissed off!! I'd expect a severance payout, a letter of indemnity, an oversized farewall card followed by farewell drinks at the pub.

Haha! Double Adapter knows the deal! ��

[Timeis629]

I guess there is a tinge of sadness in all this when we develop a general affection for a certain ML knowing that you have limited funds to enjoy her company and that she is fucking and/or masturbating so many other guys. We cannot afford ownership as their income probably exceed $150k (if that they’re good) but love is strange that’s why they make movies about these things. I don’t know guys but punters are spoilt for choice - and sometimes the bird in the hand is better than the other two in the bush. After several years of punting I came across by accident my dream lady. And when I finish punting it will be either because I don’t have the funds, ill health, she drops out of the business and/or dumps me - or I die. In the interim I will pursue the ongoing dream and forget the reality.

[LBW1959]

It's important to remember that you're engaging in a commercial relationship. You may enjoy each others company but in the end it's all about the money.
No harm in continuing the dream, but don't lose sight of reality!

[GoldfishMan]

I just stop out of the blue, no explanation given.

Can't imagine any circumstance where I would want to tell a regular "hey, I'm not gonna come and see you again, bla bla bla". The only thing that comes to mind is I'm no longer satisfied with her, and that's never a good thing to bring out into the open with a girl.

Besides, nothing is permanent until it is. I might suddenly want to see her again, who knows?

[RLC]

I don’t tell them as it is usually not planned to never return, it just happens that way due to circumstances. Only time I plan not to return is if services have got that bad over time that she is clearly just milking the money thinking but by that time the writing is already on the wall.

[Footballpunter]

Perhaps the real question should be, what good does it do if you tell her you are not coming back?

[BDU]

Pointless unless you are in a relationship with her.
I am sure she will msg you to come in (I really miss you....) if she is having a slow day

[Candy1234]

Done it in the past only because I found a real GF. She congratulated me then we boomed. Lol the kicker was I returned the week after but this time only for a massage and a HJ, but before the session I can hear her talking to another girl outside the room something about me saying “last time” then laugh. Haha got cut by my own words so I fully stopped seeing her for real.

A lot of them have many regulars, I remember she used to tell me about all her customers for the day that she have to cancel x amount of customers cos can’t handle that many dicks. So don’t think it matters to them if you break up or not, just another number in their phone… a lot of guys don’t mind eating the same sandwich everyday but for me now I only see the girl once, twice max.

[gco0307]

Only once where I had a little bundle of energy regular who was a serious pocket rocket and a person where I had had awesome fun across a few years.

Saw her one day and let her know that I was moving away for work and thanked her for the fun times we had over the visits and occasionally just socially (beach, coffee type of things) but did not tell her until after one of our fun times.

She was good value and to be fair, she did sms me a couple of times when she was touring but never got close enough for us to catch up again before she retired

[Vincent888]

A punter is one of hundreds they see a year.

One dropping off the radar is nothing.

[frisson]

A punter is one of hundreds they see a year.

One dropping off the radar is nothing.

Every day on here, someone kids themselves they are a woman's only punter

[Vincent888]

Every day on here, someone kids themselves they are a woman's only punter

Do they? I thought they’d fool themselves into believing they were the “only punter” that meant something to a WL?

[jedibear]

Every day on here, someone kids themselves they are a woman's only punter[emoji1787][emoji1787][emoji1787] what about punters that feel up a pussy thinking he made it wet...yet its just lube from the previous punt...

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[Vincent888]

[emoji1787][emoji1787][emoji1787] what about punters that feel up a pussy thinking he made it wet...yet its just lube from the previous punt...

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There’s a brand of lube called “foreplay”. It’s very popular amongst some punters.

[l337dude]

[emoji1787][emoji1787][emoji1787] what about punters that feel up a pussy thinking he made it wet...yet its just lube from the previous punt...

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Indeed, that's why I don't even bother these days...as soon as they see my cock they will lube up, some of them will squeeze a whole pump in their vagina.

And to answer the OP's question, no I wouldn't tell a regular that I'll stop visiting them, why bother? I'll just disappear quietly into the shadows and let someone else take my place, I hope you didn't expect to get an reaction from them, we don't really mean much to them besides incoming cash...

[JohnJones]

And to answer the OP's question, no I wouldn't tell a regular that I'll stop visiting them, why bother? I'll just disappear quietly into the shadows and let someone else take my place, I hope you didn't expect to get an reaction from them, we don't really mean much to them besides incoming cash...

The more this gets propagated, the more likely this will become true. Be careful with your words no matter who you are, it will come back to haunt you.

If you want to encourage good clients to stay you have to treat them with respect. And if you want to have something more than client-escort relationship and make it official, don't make the testing phase too intense. Not everyone is as patient as a high Lama, many are struck by past childhood traumas that they will walk away as soon as they're treated like how they got treated by their parents in the past.

Nobody likes a game that is super difficult to play and costs both arm and both legs.

[JohnJones]

Do they? I thought they’d fool themselves into believing they were the “only punter” that meant something to a WL?

Those who wish they were the "special punter" to their regulars are those who probably saw something inside that person and wanted to show her how special she is to him.

If they were only interested in sex they wouldn't even bother having a regular - just rotate girls every now and then. I think the problem is that many girls just don't appreciate their regular customers and think that they can manipulate the hell out of them.

I know what my choices are, but I reckon not many guys can follow my example, nor many girls in the industry can follow my advice on how to treat a man properly if they want to quit the industry and start settling down.

Like in one of my life story told recently, I dodged a bullet coming from a Thai girl who was after me for 10 years. I could've "saved" her from getting pregnant and living a life of hell but she took me for granted. She got what she signed herself up for - the karma for taking someone for granted.

Lesson to learn here is to not take anything or anyone for granted. Do not listen to friend's advice on over-testing your potential partner, grab him/her immediately as the opportunity will never come around twice.

With my crush, she's different. 3 years and the opportunity came around twice, I didn't hesitate on my second chance with her. I just hope she also feels the same.

[Ghost2hauntU]

i'm not really someone that has any regulars, but curious if you guys just stop visiting out of the blue or if you actually let the girls know whatever the reason may be. I imagine some girls may wonder or even get upset especially ones that have been very long term.

I know that when i leave a city, i usually tell people i built rapport with that i am leaving. how does the punting world work? do the girls even care? do the punters?

Nope. While I like to have a regular as a backup and/or when IÂ’m lazy to punt, as soon as the service or connection is not up to previous standard, I donÂ’t see them. ThereÂ’s just no point. Do you tell your greengrocer or shopkeeper that till no longer go to their store?

[Vincent888]

Nothing stays the same forever.

WL’s have seen numerous punters disappear. We only think about it from our side.

Unless they’ve chosen to connect with you then your departure means nothing.

[Vincent888]

Of course I do. It’s only right to not leave them hanging.

[JohnJones]

Of course I do. It’s only right to not leave them hanging.

You're begging to be noticed, to be heard, to be begged to stay even when you reach 2K posts.

Edit out the F word in your previous post and I'll beg. I have no tolerance for vulgarities.

[scyspm]

Would say it's entirely dependant on your rapport with them.

At the end of the day though, if you feel like you should then go ahead, no harm in it. Just don't go in expecting her to care and you're set.

Anecdotally I'd have told my only regular if I was going disappear but it just so happens I ended up seeing her on her last day in the business. We now occassionally chat and catch up, so you never know how they may view you, they're human too after all.

[Vincent888]

Rapport?

How many guys have stayed with a ML or WL and lived happily ever after?

Tell me one, anybody?

[bistro]

I did...
When i got engaged, i told her one day i wont be seeing her after i got married...
The last month before i got married, i increase my visit in seeing her to like 3 times per week, its almost like saying my heart wants to get married, but my brother wants to keep seeing you hahahaha...

Im just now a frequent visitor on this site.

[charmingninjaman]

I've left FWB's without saying a word - so there's no way I can be bothered doing it with an ML or WL :cool2:

[11Bravo]

I've left FWB's without saying a word - so there's no way I can be bothered doing it with an ML or WL :cool2:
Your loss. A WG I knew, when I visited her country, made contact, she showed me around, very convenient as I couldn't speak or read the language. I set the itinerary, she handled logistics. Never paid tourist prices either.

[Sibon]

As regulars, do you let the WL/ML know if you won't be able to visit them anymore?

Leave softly like the quiet of the night.