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Ghost2hauntU
31-08-2023, 01:04 PM
Thinking of mixing it up a bit again just to break the punting routine.
Signed up and it’s the usual pay the subscription first which is ok. Swipe left. Swipe right. Don’t really get it. What’s the fastest way to meet and recite poetry?

TheOtherI
31-08-2023, 01:10 PM
Thinking of mixing it up a bit again just to break the punting routine.
Signed up and it’s the usual pay the subscription first which is ok. Swipe left. Swipe right. Don’t really get it. What’s the fastest way to meet and recite poetry?

Tinder is a shit show, I find bumble or hinge to be a better experience.
Just give all 3 a crack.

gedinsyd
31-08-2023, 01:19 PM
Tried Tinder a while back but no luck. I also tried Adultfriendfinder ...so many fakes, but I ended up getting one free root out of it.

BobbiBrown
31-08-2023, 01:48 PM
Tinder and Bumble are great when you're traveling, or if you can pull it off, just pretend to be traveling even in your home city. There are lots of women on there looking for a serious relationship but very happy to hook up with a guy that they don't have to worry about seeing again. Just be honest on your profile that you're traveling and looking for a tour guide with the potential for fun if you get on well. Be polite, don't bring up sex too quickly, possibly don't bring it up at all and just go with the flow. But you can be sure that if they're interested in being a tour guide for a strange man blowing through town, they're most likely wanting to get laid.

Ghost2hauntU
31-08-2023, 03:45 PM
Tinder and Bumble are great when you're traveling, or if you can pull it off, just pretend to be traveling even in your home city. There are lots of women on there looking for a serious relationship but very happy to hook up with a guy that they don't have to worry about seeing again. Just be honest on your profile that you're traveling and looking for a tour guide with the potential for fun if you get on well. Be polite, don't bring up sex too quickly, possibly don't bring it up at all and just go with the flow. But you can be sure that if they're interested in being a tour guide for a strange man blowing through town, they're most likely wanting to get laid.

Thanks man that sounds like a good strategy.

JSteel96
31-08-2023, 04:24 PM
Forget tinder I stick with my Asian SB failing that straight to the brothels where the Asian girls are. Honestly I think finding a gal on websites for sex is super hard these days and there are so many fake ads to deal with. I'd rather go into a shop and pay and get service straight away rather than swipe left and right online

gedinsyd
31-08-2023, 04:43 PM
Forget tinder I stick with my Asian SB failing that straight to the brothels where the Asian girls are. Honestly I think finding a gal on websites for sex is super hard these days and there are so many fake ads to deal with. I'd rather go into a shop and pay and get service straight away rather than swipe left and right online

Yeah, the fakes are really exhausting to deal with - that really ruined the experience for me

Ghost2hauntU
31-08-2023, 07:19 PM
Forget tinder I stick with my Asian SB failing that straight to the brothels where the Asian girls are. Honestly I think finding a gal on websites for sex is super hard these days and there are so many fake ads to deal with. I'd rather go into a shop and pay and get service straight away rather than swipe left and right online

Yeah gotcha. I hate those fake ads and bots.

RLC
31-08-2023, 08:20 PM
The amount of time, effort and money for the quality you get vs just going to a MP or Brothel to me means Tinder and those types of sites are just not worth it.

JSteel96
31-08-2023, 09:59 PM
I think many idiot dudes put fake ads on websites pretending to be a girl to wastes guys times & its just such a waste of time searching unless you have a good AR review I would not bother. Like I said just stop in at a brothel, pick a girl do your business no stuffing around taking a girl on a date only to find there's zero chemistry. If you go on tinder and find a real girl you have to spend more money on drinks and you still might not get laid.

the_champ
31-08-2023, 10:06 PM
Didn't have much success when I was a single man, few dates that didn't really go anywhere. Would imagine it's even worse now

Rajaz
31-08-2023, 10:15 PM
Tinder never worked for me but I got lucky twice with Badoo whilst travelling to UK few years ago. Both were Asian. Like someone said above, they seemed to be more open when they knew I was just a traveller.

l337dude
31-08-2023, 10:36 PM
Never had much luck with it, just too much headache for me at the end of the day...punting is a sure thing for me, don't have to worry about none of that crap.

personaa
31-08-2023, 10:48 PM
Had some luck with Bumble but these days I don't have time and energy for it. I pay, get the job done and Leave. As someone mentioned before, you pay in the shops to Leave. No drama, no stories, no games, no headaches.

fireball
01-09-2023, 08:56 AM
Tinder was good at the stand before all the bots and scammers. You've got a higher chance meeting someone at the pub now.

Renegade86
01-09-2023, 09:52 AM
No luck with tinder or bumble. Apps are a lot effort and looks matter.
I think i would rather have a great time with a hot asian ML

wasabi10
14-09-2023, 01:34 PM
No luck with tinder or bumble. Apps are a lot effort and looks matter.
I think i would rather have a great time with a hot asian ML

I agree, it's a lot of effort... I've been on dates and it's cheaper to have a good time with a WL

ditchtheboss
14-09-2023, 11:01 PM
I once met a filo girl from tinder. I was after a proper relationship not FWB or a one nighter. She looked great. We chatted via text for a couple of weeks. We spoke on the phone and both agreed to meet. We had planned a few hours together so we knew what we were going to do. When I met her I immediately realised that her photos on tinder were from probably 10 years ago and let’s say she didn’t age gracefully. I could have immediately turned around and left but being the nice guy that I am I went through with the day and she was a nice girl but we were not compatible.she wanted to keep meeting but I did t go ahead. After that I deleted the app, too much trouble for too little or no return.

okachimachi
15-09-2023, 12:18 AM
never used these apps, too many bad stories

wasabi10
15-09-2023, 12:37 AM
Watch out for ones that bring up the subject of crypto currency and how she can show you how to make money. Yeah right��. Delete straight away!

my cousin got scammed all their savings.... they are very clever but they capitalise on peoples greed for a quick buck...

bryanthemachinegun
15-09-2023, 11:11 AM
Not yet tried any dating apps yet.

crazykyle1984
15-09-2023, 12:24 PM
Lot of bad memories in dating apps. fake identities, fraud, gold diggers. just a gateway to find and fuck people.

Shaktimaan
15-09-2023, 11:07 PM
Thinking of mixing it up a bit again just to break the punting routine.
Signed up and it’s the usual pay the subscription first which is ok. Swipe left. Swipe right. Don’t really get it. What’s the fastest way to meet and recite poetry?

I have seen many who start with like I'm a business development manager etc.

CursedCoomer
15-09-2023, 11:43 PM
Matched with a chick while overseas and rizzed her up. First date happened, we went to kbbq for dinner then karaoke. Had a lil fun in the karaoke room then we agreed we should meet again. Next day we booked a hotel room and spent the night together. The next day we kissed each other goodbye then never saw each other again.

RodgHerMoore
16-09-2023, 10:56 AM
I've met a total of 2 real people out of thousands of swipes and money in tinder. One did end up as a fuck buddy but it's still a waste of time and money compared to a punt... use this forum and stick to the good ARs is a way better use of time.

Took ages to meet anyone real on Tinder in Sydney.

If i knew about this forum back in the day i wouldn't have used Tinder to get my rocks off.

crazykyle1984
16-09-2023, 11:03 AM
Tinder and Bumble are great when you're traveling, or if you can pull it off, just pretend to be traveling even in your home city. There are lots of women on there looking for a serious relationship but very happy to hook up with a guy that they don't have to worry about seeing again. Just be honest on your profile that you're traveling and looking for a tour guide with the potential for fun if you get on well. Be polite, don't bring up sex too quickly, possibly don't bring it up at all and just go with the flow. But you can be sure that if they're interested in being a tour guide for a strange man blowing through town, they're most likely wanting to get laid.

I'll take this advice! thanks mate!

Refedust
16-09-2023, 12:49 PM
It's been a complete waste of time and space on my phone. I have rarely gotten any matches, and those I have matched with never messaged me. Granted, I swipe left on most profiles, so that's probably not helping.

Johnisfun1969
17-09-2023, 06:56 AM
I'll take this advice! thanks mate!

I am glad to read this thread. I signed up to tinder twice and both times had no luck. I thought it was maybe my age. I had couple of replies or brief chat but did not go further. I have met few nice girls through seeking. So not I am not doing too bad. Being an online app it’s still hard work. But I rather fuck someone that gives impression she has not taken 4-5 cocks n a day before dfk me also. Yes the ml and WL are better in terms of accessibility when you have the blue balls. The sb are flaky and could cancel a date at the last minute.

JohnJones
17-09-2023, 10:47 AM
Thinking of mixing it up a bit again just to break the punting routine.
Signed up and it’s the usual pay the subscription first which is ok. Swipe left. Swipe right. Don’t really get it. What’s the fastest way to meet and recite poetry?

There was an attempted robbery from a Tinder date down in Oatley - the bloke went to meet the girl he chatted up on Tinder, and a bunch of other kids armed with a shotgun and knife attempted to rob the bloke and take his car.

I would be very careful with meeting online strangers. It's better to date someone you met face to face - a cashier chick, restaurant waiter/kitchenhand chick, the Boba tea girl, the barista chick or the university student sitting at a park. These girls don't mind being chatted up as long as you're willing to visit these places often enough to get them to open up to you. I met a nice Vietnamese barista chick once in the Western suburbs where I used to work at, but it took months before she opened up and agreed on a date.

Ghost2hauntU
17-09-2023, 01:48 PM
There was an attempted robbery from a Tinder date down in Oatley - the bloke went to meet the girl he chatted up on Tinder, and a bunch of other kids armed with a shotgun and knife attempted to rob the bloke and take his car.

I would be very careful with meeting online strangers. It's better to date someone you met face to face - a cashier chick, restaurant waiter/kitchenhand chick, the Boba tea girl, the barista chick or the university student sitting at a park. These girls don't mind being chatted up as long as you're willing to visit these places often enough to get them to open up to you. I met a nice Vietnamese barista chick once in the Western suburbs where I used to work at, but it took months before she opened up and agreed on a date.

Should have told her you’re a Catholic and go to church Sundays.

Shoryureppa
17-09-2023, 03:27 PM
Hinge is better for dates

sukeong
18-09-2023, 03:26 AM
Yeah had plenty of dates with tinder before. But mostly for relationships none were looking just for a one night stand. There was this Viet chick who straight up offered sex for a pretty low amount. I can't remember what it was now but I know it was so low I was really tempted. She even sent nude pics of the whole body including face. I was so afraid it's a scam though so I didn't go ahead. She became real mad and started calling me all sorts. It was quite an experience.

danaussieguy
18-09-2023, 10:28 PM
No have-not got any luck with those social media dating apps

Refedust
19-09-2023, 10:10 PM
Hinge is better for dates

not really, i found hinge to be spammy with bots or fakes. CMB is much better imho

ditchtheboss
19-09-2023, 10:17 PM
not really, i found hinge to be spammy with bots or fakes. CMB is much better imho

What is cmb? Never heard of that

TripleJ
19-09-2023, 11:27 PM
coffee meets bagel

pornonporn
02-10-2023, 12:21 AM
No one matches me I don't know why
When someone did she wasn't interested in dating me and asked me if I knew of any job opportunities
I was like what the fuck
What am I suppose to say to my boss - there's a girl I met on tinder who wants a job

abovetherim
02-10-2023, 12:52 AM
Have you seen this? https://youtu.be/x3lypVnJ0HM?si=YQs8efS1pJaZHSdV
Mathematically a losing battle for most men on tinder

jasng90
02-10-2023, 03:39 PM
Had a girl that I’ve met through there that was obssessed with throatpies and she found it quite hot and didnt mind the taste. usually like lay on her back with her bed on edge of the bed. Good times.

didnt charge any thing, just like to play around and few drinks

Ghost2hauntU
02-10-2023, 06:00 PM
No one matches me I don't know why
When someone did she wasn't interested in dating me and asked me if I knew of any job opportunities
I was like what the fuck
What am I suppose to say to my boss - there's a girl I met on tinder who wants a job

I would have said yes and met her and gone from there…if you know what I mean hehe

GoldfishMan
02-10-2023, 06:00 PM
Have you seen this? https://youtu.be/x3lypVnJ0HM?si=YQs8efS1pJaZHSdV
Mathematically a losing battle for most men on tinder

This was an awesome analysis of the situation. Thanks for the link, bro!

Coastguy
02-10-2023, 06:51 PM
100% with tinder. Make it extremely clear what your looking for don’t beat around the bush. Swipe what you like, the algorithm will pick up your tastes.

Zenxxx
03-10-2023, 10:05 AM
No luck recently and have given up on it. Years back tonnes of matches now barely anything and most are fake profiles and scammers.

letsgo
03-10-2023, 01:49 PM
yeah had a lot of fun on tinder especially around covid lockdown times, lots of horny chicks on there.

also saw a few MLs on there but unfortunately didn't match with them

Ghost2hauntU
03-10-2023, 09:18 PM
yeah had a lot of fun on tinder especially around covid lockdown times, lots of horny chicks on there.

also saw a few MLs on there but unfortunately didn't match with them

Man that’s great. Any tips on what to put on your profile to score?

wachumba
09-10-2023, 02:56 PM
There are definitely some women available on dating apps https://www.facebook.com/watch/?v=689568552693513

Ghost2hauntU
09-10-2023, 03:33 PM
There are definitely some women available on dating apps https://www.facebook.com/watch/?v=689568552693513

NOOOOOOORRRRRR

Don’t do it brah.

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frisson
19-12-2023, 07:19 PM
This is a funny question

I bet the majority of punters here aren't getting much action from dating sites. That's a good reason they are punting

Of course if you put the work in you can get results
But it's so much more time and money efficient to punt if you aren't looking for a relationship

And that's why aus99 is a good forum

andrewv
19-12-2023, 09:18 PM
There is a statistic showing that 80% of the women on mobile dating apps are only interested in 20% of the men. So 80% of the men on these apps do not score much!!!
I have not been able to find a link to this stat so sorry I cannot post it.

ReginaldBubbles
19-12-2023, 09:46 PM
There is a statistic showing that 80% of the women on mobile dating apps are only interested in 20% of the men. So 80% of the men on these apps do not score much!!!
I have not been able to find a link to this stat so sorry I cannot post it.

If you are a good looking guy you can pretty much have sex with a different girl every night of the week. Or so I've heard.
If you're not good looking then you're better off punting.

NC3
19-12-2023, 10:19 PM
All these dating web sites have many fake profiles [ plus the profiles that has been created from escorts ] just for to make you to buy subscription. When you talk to a 'girl' / 'boy', most probably you talk to employee.
Two people I know use to have a casual role in one of these dating web sites, the offices were in North Sydney. So, he/she has around 50 profiles each or more to manage [ I don't know exactly ] and they were messaging to customers [ to subscribers ] etc.
But yes there is a percent also that are real profiles.

Double_Adapter
19-12-2023, 10:20 PM
There is a statistic showing that 80% of the women on mobile dating apps are only interested in 20% of the men. So 80% of the men on these apps do not score much!!!
I have not been able to find a link to this stat so sorry I cannot post it.


If you are a good looking guy you can pretty much have sex with a different girl every night of the week. Or so I've heard.
If you're not good looking then you're better off punting.

Those stats have been quoted on many occasions and very representative of the sexual market place. Worth noting is that looks and/or money will only get you so far. It's the other characteristics (which blokes don't focus on) that'll get them dripping wet and have them chasing you for validation and sex.....and dick pics won't cut it.

https://www.eviemagazine.com/post/women-more-selective-80-men-unattractive-on-dating-apps-recent-research

https://amp.smh.com.au/lifestyle/why-women-lose-the-dating-game-20120421-1xdn0.html

Double_Adapter
19-12-2023, 10:27 PM
Most women (not all) are delusional about their sexual market value and worth. Must be a millennial chick thing!

This chick is representative of the delusional population of women.

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=Pyzg3biuz1Q

Double_Adapter
19-12-2023, 10:31 PM
Dating apps are for pussy desperados!
Chicks use dating apps for self worth, ego and validation!

begov94
19-12-2023, 10:52 PM
Dating apps are for pussy desperados!
Chicks use dating apps for self worth, ego and validation!

I've heard of that. Some chicks will open up a Tinder profile just to get validation on the number of swipes and messages they get so that they can brag to their friends. Most of the time they replied to ZERO messages which is a letdown for blokes trying to find love online.

I've done up my profile before in the past and no matter what I do I got ZERO replies. Even trying out a 1-month subscription still got me nowhere. I quit online dating since then, because if people say these girls need to be chased most dating apps only allow one or two messages sent. Bumble is the worst - if the girl doesn't swipe right on you, fat chance of you sending her a message at all.

It's like the world is built to stop young people from starting relationships. Then governments start complaining about low birth rates.

begov94
19-12-2023, 11:02 PM
Most women (not all) are delusional about their sexual market value and worth. Must be a millennial chick thing!

This chick is representative of the delusional population of women.

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=Pyzg3biuz1Q

Sometimes these delusions are taught by their mothers or friends with "experience". The mother would've taught them not based on their experiences but on what they think they miss out on during their younger days, and want their daughters to live their lives according to their "visions" thinking that it's the best thing for them.

Times are changing. The way young people view relationships should also change to reflect that.

Sibon
19-12-2023, 11:11 PM
Tider is like a walk into the dark forest where you'll meet a black bear.

NC3
19-12-2023, 11:15 PM
I've heard of that. Some chicks will open up a Tinder profile just to get validation on the number of swipes and messages they get so that they can brag to their friends. Most of the time they replied to ZERO messages which is a letdown for blokes trying to find love online.

I've done up my profile before in the past and no matter what I do I got ZERO replies. Even trying out a 1-month subscription still got me nowhere. I quit online dating since then, because if people say these girls need to be chased most dating apps only allow one or two messages sent. Bumble is the worst - if the girl doesn't swipe right on you, fat chance of you sending her a message at all.

It's like the world is built to stop young people from starting relationships. Then governments start complaining about low birth rates.

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most probably you were talking to employee ...

begov94
19-12-2023, 11:22 PM
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most probably you were talking to employee ...

Employees pretending to be girls finding love?

NC3
19-12-2023, 11:34 PM
Employees pretending to be girls finding love?

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All these dating web sites have many fake profiles [ plus the profiles that has been created from escorts ] just for to make you to buy subscription. When you talk to a 'girl' / 'boy', most probably you talk to employee.
Two people I know use to have a casual role in one of these dating web sites, the offices were in North Sydney. So, he/she has around 50 profiles each or more to manage [ I don't know exactly ] and they were messaging to customers [ to subscribers ] etc.
But yes there is a percent also that are real profiles.

ReginaldBubbles
20-12-2023, 12:35 AM
Bumble is the worst - if the girl doesn't swipe right on you, fat chance of you sending her a message at all.

It's like the world is built to stop young people from starting relationships. Then governments start complaining about low birth rates.


That's the whole point of these apps dude! Choosing who can contact you!

Yeah it's the government's fault you can't get a root!

Maybe you actually aren't Vinnie. Unless this is just a different character...

Sibon
20-12-2023, 01:02 AM
Tinder is like fishing in an ocean with a lone fish.

begov94
20-12-2023, 01:14 AM
That's the whole point of these apps dude! Choosing who can contact you!

Yeah it's the government's fault you can't get a root!

Maybe you actually aren't Vinnie. Unless this is just a different character...

Let's say I play your game.

Don't date or fall in love with ML/WL: What happens if I say "OK, I'm not gonna fall in love with any ML/WL, especially the one who made me chase her and made me wait for her for a year"?

She's using you as a source of income before she left: What happens if I start naming and shaming the person?

She's not interested in you, she doesn't think you're special that's why she didn't give you a proper farewell: What happens if I totally give up on you, disappear from this forum and shut down all my known social media so that you can't find me at all?

It's not funny. You were happy that a breakthrough was about to happen - that an ML/WL can actually have a normal life and be loved. Don't take things for granted. You know what you need to do. This isn't the way to maintain long distance interest, it is a recipe for a good breakup. As you saw in another post, I was about to take you out on a proper date if you were to contact me ASAP. Don't play those kind of games.

begov94
20-12-2023, 01:54 AM
If you want to find out if I'd make a good husband to you, and a good father to our future kids, here's a tip:

I'm not a pushover. If I show that I am easily pushed over, that means I'm basically weak. If we have kids together, our kids will become undisciplined and grow up as monsters, and I won't be able to protect our family from bullies.

The same way you want me to accept you for your argumentative nature, you will have to accept my demand for respect. If we were to date and live together for a year before getting married, you'll have to get used to me getting pissed off at being disrespected the same way you expect me to calm you down whenever you get angry or argumentative. Many times I have shown my continuing interest in you by trying to calm you down either through the gentle way or the unconventional way. I even let you berate me for punting during your absence because I know it's my fault not trusting that you want me to wait for you.

It is my nature to make people understand my feelings rather than keep it bottled if I'm highly interested in them. It shows that I'm comfortable with communicating on a deeper level. It's my way of showing maturity.

I don't care whatever accounts you use to banter with me, please show some boundaries. The last couple of days I was happy knowing that the "over the limit" banters had come to a halt, although it was a little weird that you suddenly stopped bantering.

You know my feelings for you will never change, and I know your need to be argumentative to keep the relationship alive. You've been argumentative ever since I proposed the idea to marry you in April (before that you were like a soft-spoken angel), that's why I knew what you said about not having special feelings for me isn't true.

Let's break that "barrier" and be the first breakthrough couple in years. I'm pretty sure there were others before us just that they either did it in secret or it happened so long ago no one remembers about it anymore.

ReginaldBubbles
20-12-2023, 05:58 AM
Let's say I play your game.

Don't date or fall in love with ML/WL: What happens if I say "OK, I'm not gonna fall in love with any ML/WL, especially the one who made me chase her and made me wait for her for a year"?

She's using you as a source of income before she left: What happens if I start naming and shaming the person?

She's not interested in you, she doesn't think you're special that's why she didn't give you a proper farewell: What happens if I totally give up on you, disappear from this forum and shut down all my known social media so that you can't find me at all?

It's not funny. You were happy that a breakthrough was about to happen - that an ML/WL can actually have a normal life and be loved. Don't take things for granted. You know what you need to do. This isn't the way to maintain long distance interest, it is a recipe for a good breakup. As you saw in another post, I was about to take you out on a proper date if you were to contact me ASAP. Don't play those kind of games.

Woah I have no idea what this all has to do with talking about bumble!

But it sure does sound like you Vincent!

frisson
20-12-2023, 07:04 AM
Those stats have been quoted on many occasions and very representative of the sexual market place. Worth noting is that looks and/or money will only get you so far. It's the other characteristics (which blokes don't focus on) that'll get them dripping wet and have them chasing you for validation and sex.....and dick pics won't cut it.

https://www.eviemagazine.com/post/women-more-selective-80-men-unattractive-on-dating-apps-recent-research

https://amp.smh.com.au/lifestyle/why-women-lose-the-dating-game-20120421-1xdn0.html

Really interesting information here, thanks bro

I remember after high school meeting a female class mate at a nightclub. We were both around 18. She would barely talk to me, she was totally entranced by this tall athletic footballer who was obviously rude and careless. But it was her hormones talking, and to her, the guy seemed perfect.
There was no meaningful conversation or empathy, just hormones talking
Biology definitely plays a part in how young women are blinded by a guys physique and many are not able to judge for a quality companion at an early age. For the younger woman it's all about who is the best DNA for my offspring - doesn't matter if the guy has no career, he's 6'5" !
Unfortunately they learn as they get older that this logic is flawed, but by then there are no single men left

ReginaldBubbles
20-12-2023, 07:06 AM
Really interesting information here, thanks bro

I remember after high school meeting a female class mate at a nightclub. We were both around 18. She would barely talk to me, she was totally entranced by this tall athletic footballer who was obviously rude and careless. But it was her hormones talking, and to her, they guy seemed perfect. Biology definitely plays a part in how young women are blinded by a guys physique and many are not able to judge quality companions. For the younger woman it's all about who is the best DNA for my offspring
Unfortunately they learn as they get older that this logic is flawed, but by then there are no single men left

Luckily men aren't so shallow

frisson
20-12-2023, 07:07 AM
Luckily men aren't so shallow

I've met a lot of shallow young sportsmen

begov94
20-12-2023, 09:32 AM
Woah I have no idea what this all has to do with talking about bumble!

But it sure does sound like you Vincent!

Okay Reg, I know you miss Vincent even though you know I don't speak like him at all. I'm not sure if you're "grooming" me to be like him but I do find his "arrogance" to be appalling. If you like argumentative banter then keep it as respectful as possible.

Like NC3 said, these dating apps are filled with fake accounts run by the employees of the company itself to get you to buy subscriptions in order to write unlimited messages. Bumble is a terrible business idea only because the women has to swipe right on you in order for you to message them. If Bumble does the same thing and administer fake accounts it is not doing anything to help it's business model as many men would give up on the app and try other apps where they're likely to get an interaction.

begov94
20-12-2023, 09:56 AM
Really interesting information here, thanks bro

I remember after high school meeting a female class mate at a nightclub. We were both around 18. She would barely talk to me, she was totally entranced by this tall athletic footballer who was obviously rude and careless. But it was her hormones talking, and to her, the guy seemed perfect.
There was no meaningful conversation or empathy, just hormones talking
Biology definitely plays a part in how young women are blinded by a guys physique and many are not able to judge for a quality companion at an early age. For the younger woman it's all about who is the best DNA for my offspring - doesn't matter if the guy has no career, he's 6'5" !
Unfortunately they learn as they get older that this logic is flawed, but by then there are no single men left

In Southeast Asia I was looked at the same way by many local women. They've never seen a Eurasian person in their lives and think that genetically I'm perfect for cute little babies that they can show off. I'm only 5' 9" but most girls there are only 5' 5".
Here in Australia it depends - some white girls did show interest in me but they just weren't my type while others were sort of considering me second or third choice because obviously I'm about the same height as many of them. Then the Asian Australians would eyeball me from afar but they're too shy to even say hello back unless they're drunk, and I don't like going to nightclubs here because it's a bloody mess. This was all before I gone and do workouts.

What I find about some girls are that they like rude men. They think naturally rude men are alphas but I have to disagree. Rude men are like chihuahuas pretending to be a rottweiler. The best are those who are soft-spoken towards women yet no men dare to pick a fight with him because of his potential to inflict pain in the highest degree.

I don't mind argumentative women, it is the epitome of a woman showing her love and devotion to her man but for them to be rude in order to weed out polite men is stupid - they're losing out on potential good future husbands that are devoted on making them happy. Rude chihuahuas are like one of my ex-colleague - he will only be respected by bootlickers and not by his peers, and attracts women that will be his biggest life regrets. A soft-spoken dangerous men on the other hand is respected by his peers, hated by bootlickers and is attracted to women who will be good home makers aka women with the freedom to have a career and a family.

begov94
20-12-2023, 10:02 AM
I've met a lot of shallow young sportsmen

Many sportsmen are upgraded chihuahuas - they have the looks yet they're not confident of their own personalities, hence why they need to project themselves as an alpha.

Us Eurasian steppe dwellers live by a code - a man is built by living in harsh environments, therefore his value lies in his usefulness and resourcefulness. This is why wrestling is a popular sport amongst steppe peoples because winning is not a straightforward thing like most Olympic sports where there's too many rules to make the game "fair".

andrewv
20-12-2023, 10:38 AM
If it is any consolation, when I look back over the last 30-some years, the least attractive woman I fucked was the hottest in bed, and the most attractive woman (who was a fashion model in New York) was the coldest fish in bed. I am sure many of us here on this forum would agree with this analysis especially when it comes to punting with MILF middle-age WL and ML.
They simply try harder!!!

begov94
20-12-2023, 10:53 AM
If it is any consolation, when I look back over the last 30-some years, the least attractive woman I fucked was the hottest in bed, and the most attractive woman (who was a fashion model in New York) was the coldest fish in bed. I am sure many of us here on this forum would agree with this analysis especially when it comes to punting with MILF middle-age WL and ML.
They simply try harder!!!

The only time a younger, hotter woman puts a lot of effort in having hot sex in bed is when you have something they want, then the performance dwindles over time. Unfortunately one of my ex who is in her early 50s now but still look 30ish was also the same - as soon as she thinks that I'm infatuated with her the performance suddenly became subpar.

My regular is about a few years younger than me but we had really hot sex each time without fail. She never skips DT, she grinds me CG & reverse CG and makes me rub her clit while she's grinding my cock. No other WLs so far performs at her pace at a consistent basis. Also for her age she looks like a hot young gf/wife (and behaves like one as well lol). I think I'm going to enjoy baby making with her when she comes back, just wishing that she will text me ASAP and that we won't be delaying dating before getting married.

andrewv
20-12-2023, 11:11 AM
The only time a younger, hotter woman puts a lot of effort in having hot sex in bed is when you have something they want, then the performance dwindles over time. Unfortunately one of my ex who is in her early 50s now but still look 30ish was also the same - as soon as she thinks that I'm infatuated with her the performance suddenly became subpar.

My regular is about a few years younger than me but we had really hot sex each time without fail. She never skips DT, she grinds me CG & reverse CG and makes me rub her clit while she's grinding my cock. No other WLs so far performs at her pace at a consistent basis. Also for her age she looks like a hot young gf/wife (and behaves like one as well lol). I think I'm going to enjoy baby making with her when she comes back, just wishing that she will text me ASAP and that we won't be delaying dating before getting married.

Can I assume that your "regular" is an Asian woman? I didn't want to refer to races in my post but there is solid evidence from most people I know that Asian women generally tend to keep the fire going longer in the way they keep their men happy in bed. While Western (say, Aussie) women lose the urge to keep their men happy, especially once married and have had kids.

This is not a politically correct statement from me, but I can see it all around me to be the reality of the situation.

begov94
20-12-2023, 11:40 AM
Can I assume that your "regular" is an Asian woman? I didn't want to refer to races in my post but there is solid evidence from most people I know that Asian women generally tend to keep the fire going longer in the way they keep their men happy in bed. While Western (say, Aussie) women lose the urge to keep their men happy, especially once married and have had kids.

This is not a politically correct statement from me, but I can see it all around me to be the reality of the situation.

Oh yes she is Asian. Then again not all Asian women the same in performance level. There's one I had from 2 years ago, she was very well performing the first 3 months but slowly as she sees me being sucked in to her she slowly started making excuses and cut back on her performance, sometimes she'd offer to finish me off with a BJ instead if I can't cum within 5 mins of vaginal sex.

With my regular she only complained once - that was the time when I finished a bit early because she looked damn hot in doggy. She asked me next time can we do it a little longer. That's what kept me going for her besides her subtle hints to get me to chase her.

Yeah I've tried several white girls, they're not good performers in bed IMO. I can see how some marriages end up sexless with white girls after having kids.

JSteel96
20-12-2023, 01:52 PM
I find Asian gals much better in bed as well having been with many white WLs in the past I found some PTY white gals pretty dull in the bedroom, could not do a decent BJ etc. The Asian WLs seem to be more arousing. And from what I've seen are better at sucking cock.

ReginaldBubbles
20-12-2023, 04:05 PM
Okay Reg, I know you miss Vincent even though you know I don't speak like him at all. I'm not sure if you're "grooming" me to be like him but I do find his "arrogance" to be appalling. If you like argumentative banter then keep it as respectful as possible.

Like NC3 said, these dating apps are filled with fake accounts run by the employees of the company itself to get you to buy subscriptions in order to write unlimited messages. Bumble is a terrible business idea only because the women has to swipe right on you in order for you to message them. If Bumble does the same thing and administer fake accounts it is not doing anything to help it's business model as many men would give up on the app and try other apps where they're likely to get an interaction.

You were going on about falling in love with a wl and how you were gonna take me on a date! Nothing to do with dating apps.

And how can I miss Vincent if he's still here??

begov94
20-12-2023, 04:44 PM
You were going on about falling in love with a wl and how you were gonna take me on a date! Nothing to do with dating apps.

And how can I miss Vincent if he's still here??

I find this to be a last ditch effort to come up with ways to keep a conversation/argument going. And for someone persistent enough to keep on chasing "Vincent", it's as if Reg also has someone they don't want to let go easily. Mind sharing what attracts you to Vincent? Maybe his bragging of his mythical phallus is what draws you in.

I was going through some "dating advice" articles and I come to the conclusion that most of them are written in a way where if you follow the advice 100% and fail at the end, you'll be met with "Sorry but my advice worked for the other 9 people who followed through" or "Sorry, he/she just isn't the right one for you" followed by some BS explanations. And most of these articles would have an ebook or subscription they want you to buy/sign up for. It's easy to tell that the person giving those advices know nothing about attraction other than "it happened out of the blue, without any explanation".

Some advices on the internet in my opinion is a good way to start anything - a business, a career, relationship etc., but shouldn't be followed all the way through. It should be personalised based on different individual circumstances. If you followed steps 1-5 and find that you're comfortably acquainted with that person, it's time to stop reading and start asking the person you're acquainted with questions so that you can personalise your own game.

So Reg, if you are who I think you are (Asian, gives the best reverse CG + DT) then I would definitely take you out on a date. Just let me know when and I'll decide where.

begov94
20-12-2023, 06:21 PM
''The women I know in their early 30s are just delusional,'' he says. ''I sometimes seduce them and sleep with them just because I know how to play them so well. It's just too easy. They're tired of the cock carousel and they see a guy like me as the perfect beta to settle down with before their eggs dry out … when I get tired of them I just delete their numbers from my cell phone and stop taking their calls … It doesn't really hurt them that much: at this point they're used to pump & dump!''

Heheh... Now I know why my regular asked me so many questions and even told me her actual age after I popped the marriage question.

Tbh I never thought anything about what is mentioned in that article when it comes to her. I knew she wasn't 22 when I met her the first time 3 years ago, however in my eyes she was so beautiful I went head over heels for her but unfortunately I just couldn't book her at the right time. Every time I see her on roster I dread not being able to see her but I met both my exes and they took her off my mind for a while. Even my two exes weren't young - one in her early 50s now, the other also possibly slightly older than me judging from her knowledge about technology, worldly affairs and her unusual banter style.

On the other hand I just couldn't stand younger girls of a five-year gap or more. A fortune teller back home once told me that I'm a person who can't settle down with a partner who's more than five years younger or older than myself.

Also in regards to animal year compatibility some are mixed. In Chinese astrology we're supposed to be incompatible but in Tibetan/Bhutanese astrology we're perfectly compatible. I choose the Tibetan/Bhutanese readings only because I'm partly Himalayan with ancestry going back to those areas. Then again I understand no relationships are a walk in the park. https://www.dailybhutan.com/article/what-are-the-personalities-of-the-12-zodiac-signs

Again, I hope this clarifies my intention of waiting for my regular, putting up with her tests and wanting to put a ring on her finger. I don't mind if we end up marrying after dating less than a year, our time seeing each other as a regular is counted as well since it was filled with banter.

ReginaldBubbles
20-12-2023, 08:49 PM
I find this to be a last ditch effort to come up with ways to keep a conversation/argument going. And for someone persistent enough to keep on chasing "Vincent", it's as if Reg also has someone they don't want to let go easily. Mind sharing what attracts you to Vincent? Maybe his bragging of his mythical phallus is what draws you in.

I was going through some "dating advice" articles and I come to the conclusion that most of them are written in a way where if you follow the advice 100% and fail at the end, you'll be met with "Sorry but my advice worked for the other 9 people who followed through" or "Sorry, he/she just isn't the right one for you" followed by some BS explanations. And most of these articles would have an ebook or subscription they want you to buy/sign up for. It's easy to tell that the person giving those advices know nothing about attraction other than "it happened out of the blue, without any explanation".

Some advices on the internet in my opinion is a good way to start anything - a business, a career, relationship etc., but shouldn't be followed all the way through. It should be personalised based on different individual circumstances. If you followed steps 1-5 and find that you're comfortably acquainted with that person, it's time to stop reading and start asking the person you're acquainted with questions so that you can personalise your own game.

So Reg, if you are who I think you are (Asian, gives the best reverse CG + DT) then I would definitely take you out on a date. Just let me know when and I'll decide where.

TLDR and you really are getting quite deranged and talking nonsense that has nothing to do with anything I’ve said. Anyway, I was just pointing out that it’s obvious who you are is all.

begov94
20-12-2023, 10:05 PM
TLDR and you really are getting quite deranged and talking nonsense that has nothing to do with anything I’ve said. Anyway, I was just pointing out that it’s obvious who you are is all.

Classic gaslight while avoiding question time. Maybe you should run for LGA in the upcoming elections. You're welcomed.

ReginaldBubbles
20-12-2023, 10:09 PM
Classic gaslight while avoiding question time. Maybe you should run for LGA in the upcoming elections. You're welcomed.

What questions? Talk about gaslighting...

begov94
20-12-2023, 10:21 PM
What questions? Talk about gaslighting...


Mind sharing what attracts you to Vincent? Maybe his bragging of his mythical phallus is what draws you in.

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frisson
20-12-2023, 10:37 PM
I find Asian gals much better in bed as well having been with many white WLs in the past I found some PTY white gals pretty dull in the bedroom, could not do a decent BJ etc. The Asian WLs seem to be more arousing. And from what I've seen are better at sucking cock.
I haven't done a Caucasian punt, mainly prefer Asian

How do you rate Caucasian WL, similar to Caucasian dates regarding sex and attitude?

ReginaldBubbles
20-12-2023, 11:07 PM
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Ah I see, not really a question just more gaslighting based on a false premise. And an opportunity to mention your phallus again.

begov94
20-12-2023, 11:18 PM
Ah I see, not really a question just more gaslighting based on a false premise. And an opportunity to mention your phallus again.

I don't mind a hot Asian chick with hot reverse CG moves stalking me. It's like she's saying my phallus now belongs to her.

Should probably let me put a ring on it ASAP if she wants to own my phallus.

ReginaldBubbles
20-12-2023, 11:36 PM
I don't mind a hot Asian chick with hot reverse CG moves stalking me. It's like she's saying my phallus now belongs to her.

Should probably let me put a ring on it ASAP if she wants to own my phallus.

You're very presumptuous for someone in the throes of wl rejection. Great new character though. You really need your own web series.

begov94
20-12-2023, 11:49 PM
You're very presumptuous for someone in the throes of wl rejection. Great new character though. You really need your own web series.

Wow, it's like a script was written long before it was rehearsed. Copy, paste, send. Boom.

Have you chosen who to replace Jonathan Majors with? Screenwriting should've been your major.

ReginaldBubbles
20-12-2023, 11:59 PM
You know you're gonna keep running back to me like the little dicked simp that you are. Can hardly feel you in reverse cg btw

ScotPassingThrough
21-12-2023, 08:43 AM
Ah, I seem I’m not the only one who spotted begov is Vincent/JohnJones. The delusional, “you’re a WL playing pretending to be a man on a punting forum” shit is absolutely 100% JJ

begov94
21-12-2023, 08:57 AM
Ah, I seem I’m not the only one who spotted begov is Vincent/JohnJones. The delusional, “you’re a WL playing pretending to be a man on a punting forum” shit is absolutely 100% JJ

Well, well... If only female to male sex change IRL was possible...

I miss you too. Sorry I fell asleep really early last night, and this morning had to make my way up the central coast for work.

begov94
21-12-2023, 08:59 AM
You know you're gonna keep running back to me like the little dicked simp that you are. Can hardly feel you in reverse cg btw

I can feel you twitching every time you move. If it was BB I swear I might've popped really early.

ScotPassingThrough
21-12-2023, 09:22 AM
Well, well... If only female to male sex change IRL was possible...

I miss you too. Sorry I fell asleep really early last night, and this morning had to make my way up the central coast for work.

Have a nice… XMAS jj

And take your meds to mental fuck

begov94
21-12-2023, 09:49 AM
You wouldn't be talking to me if I was prescribed mental meds IRL lol.

You too, have a good Xmas, and a happy new year.

Quad
21-12-2023, 07:49 PM
You wouldn't be talking to me if I was prescribed mental meds IRL lol.

You too, have a good Xmas, and a happy new year.
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