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Hidden Python
09-09-2023, 11:32 PM
With all the talk about the rise in the cost of living and especially the cost of punting,
If we compare the costs of dating a non working woman to a Working lady,
which one do you thing would be cheaper and less of an headache to achieve the ultimate goal of having incredible sex,

I leave this open so everyone can express their experiences and opinions.

GoldfishMan
09-09-2023, 11:56 PM
If the ultimate goal is for incredible sex, nothing beats dating. The defining difference for me is the passion and lack of boundaries with a real GF/wife. Choose the right girl and the fireworks will fly, and depending on how much younger she is than you are, the fireworks might persist for a long time yet.

JJBlows
10-09-2023, 12:47 AM
One brings financial pain and the other brings really emotional highs and lows.

A WL you can always move on from if she a shit root and you can find another who you are really sexually Compatible with either a PSE of GFE experience

A partner can bring great emotional connections and great sex or it could bring one or the other and not both and sometimes you can be stuck with it depending on your circumstances.

Both have their pros and cons, just depend on what suites you at the moment.

dotcumdotinyou
10-09-2023, 07:45 AM
I feel there's a bigger cost in time, effort and money (possibly) without reward in dating. And then if you do get lucky there's the often too short "honeymoon" period where everything including the sex is amazing, then as all good things do it turns to shit and your stuck there without escape.

For me I've done the marriage/kids/divorce thing, and I'm not prepared to put in the time/effort/money so an hour with a milf every now and then suits me fine. And I can put all my time/effort/money into looking after my kids.

bung72
10-09-2023, 08:59 AM
If you calculate the costs involved as $/fuck, I think a WL will work out far cheaper!

ditchtheboss
10-09-2023, 09:14 AM
The worst combination is dating a WL. The costs are exponentially higher, all aspects, financial and non financial

Kopiu09
10-09-2023, 10:43 AM
agree with bung72. it is way cheaper. and we can have lots of options too. new girls every time is possible. if your purpose is only having sex, punting is the best way.

anth2426
10-09-2023, 01:08 PM
I use to have a long term sugar babe arrangement and that was more like dating but far more expensive.
Seeing w/l’s is far cheaper than dating in my opinion and can be far more exciting with the right girl/s.

Axeman123
10-09-2023, 01:35 PM
If the ultimate goal is for incredible sex, nothing beats dating. The defining difference for me is the passion and lack of boundaries with a real GF/wife. Choose the right girl and the fireworks will fly, and depending on how much younger she is than you are, the fireworks might persist for a long time yet. Yep! But also the spontaneity. What about when you're chosen one uses her imagination n feminity to get U in.

l337dude
10-09-2023, 02:17 PM
Dating always works out to be more expensive than punting, besides the obvious monetary investment such as money spent on dinner dates, gifts and other crap etc, there is the intangible cost involved such as time, emotional energy spent, relationship investment etc, if you are lucky and hit the jackpot, great, otherwise it can absolutely drain you, especially if you repeatedly go on bad dates which ends up in failure or maybe something worse...

GoldfishMan
10-09-2023, 02:18 PM
Yep! But also the spontaneity. What about when you're chosen one uses her imagination n feminity to get U in.

More than 10 years ago, I pulled my hairdresser and went away on an overseas holiday with her for 4 nights. She was 12 years younger , all legs and ass, exactly how I like my girls.

I tell ya, that trip was all about sex. Almost all our time was spent in the hotel room. Just hot passionate BB sex every hour, it was incredible!

NightShift
10-09-2023, 02:39 PM
If you calculate the costs involved as $/fuck, I think a WL will work out far cheaper!

I agree.

Tom cruise once said “the cheapest woman tends to be the one you pay for” (in the first jack reacher movie, the tv show is better btw)

Axeman123
10-09-2023, 03:30 PM
More than 10 years ago, I pulled my hairdresser and went away on an overseas holiday with her for 4 nights. She was 12 years younger , all legs and ass, exactly how I like my girls.

I tell ya, that trip was all about sex. Almost all our time was spent in the hotel room. Just hot passionate BB sex every hour, it was incredible! The best bit is knowing that she generally just wanted it. For no other reason than desire.

CharlieM
10-09-2023, 05:00 PM
In the couple years I was separated with my wife i did the online dating thing. Had some of the best experiences in my life. After so many married years forgot what it felt like to really click and have great sex. One woman I was dating for a few months made me cum 6 times in one night. I was 54 at the time. Have had some top fucks with WLs since then but nothing compares to that mutual longing for each other.

GoldfishMan
10-09-2023, 07:09 PM
The best bit is knowing that she generally just wanted it. For no other reason than desire.

Exactly, bro. Mutual desire, burning hot passion. Impossible to beat even with the most skilled courtesan.

bung72
10-09-2023, 10:37 PM
but nothing compares to that mutual longing for each other.

Yup. I've had that with several women/girls over the years.... awesome stuff while it lasts!

I'll steal from the 'Devils Advocate' script...

What do you want?
How about bliss, for starters? Instant bliss. Bliss on tap
Bliss any way you want it....
That walk into a strange girl's bedroom.....

This 'pastime' has given me that feeling more than others.... walking into the room with that new girl (or the known awesome one), wondering what to expect.....

Maddog69
11-09-2023, 12:05 AM
WL, easy, quick no head fucks. Don’t get me wrong if you find a good one then that’s awesome, but there’s too many that are more headaches than not in my experiences so WL wham bam move onto the next!

Footballpunter
11-09-2023, 03:21 AM
With all the talk about the rise in the cost of living and especially the cost of punting,
If we compare the costs of dating a non working woman to a Working lady,
which one do you thing would be cheaper and less of an headache to achieve the ultimate goal of having incredible sex,

I leave this open so everyone can express their experiences and opinions.

If we are purely talking about cost, then WLs are cheaper. Even in this inflated economy, $250-400 a pop is not too bad.

Dating is a bit different. It requires a lot of investment up front plus more planning. But I do enjoy the hunt and the process of asking a girl out.

Don't know if this is a good analogy, but going to a WL is like eating fast food where you know how much it will cost and it's almost a guilty pleasure/comfort food. Dating is like fine dining where it takes longer and more expensive, but you are there to for the experience.

Alextheman871
11-09-2023, 11:53 AM
With all the talk about the rise in the cost of living and especially the cost of punting,
If we compare the costs of dating a non working woman to a Working lady,
which one do you thing would be cheaper and less of an headache to achieve the ultimate goal of having incredible sex,

I leave this open so everyone can express their experiences and opinions.

Punting means giving money in exchange for services and it usually doesn't involve any emotions. Dating on the other hand is getting to know someone, sharing feelings and potentially building a romantic relationship.
If you have the money and doesn't want to tie up with anyone just yet, go punting. the only problem is when you want to be with someone, fate sometimes play a tragedy, you cant find someone to date.

Footballpunter
11-09-2023, 11:59 AM
Punting means giving money in exchange for services and it usually doesn't involve any emotions. Dating on the other hand is getting to know someone, sharing feelings and potentially building a romantic relationship.
If you have the money and doesn't want to tie up with anyone just yet, go punting. the only problem is when you want to be with someone, fate sometimes play a tragedy, you cant find someone to date.

I think you can always find someone to date. You really just have to put some work into it (sometimes a lot of work) and go for it. That's why punting is the easy way out.

Alextheman871
11-09-2023, 12:16 PM
I think you can always find someone to date. You really just have to put some work into it (sometimes a lot of work) and go for it. That's why punting is the easy way out.

true brother! well said! It will only boils down to what you want for life? what you want to invest on your time and money!

Sibon
11-09-2023, 05:58 PM
.......Comparing Dating to Punting

"Dating is like eating salmon in Sushi.
Punting is like eating pussy in Sushi."

- Miyagi Sensei