How do you reduce nervousness on your first punt?

[danaussieguy]

Plenty of dudes like to imagine they’re the most confident Don Juans around—even though they’re actually pretty damn anxious when the clothes are about to come off.
Let's keep this thread rolling by providing newbies with vital information.

So what do you do when having sex with someone new gives you a major case of anxiety?

[Footballpunter]

For context, are you talking about a guy's very first time? Or just the first time with any sex partner?

[Hidden Python]

The first thing to do is build up your self confidence, and the best way to do than is to improve your self image.
Diet and exercise so get in the best in shape as possible, also yoga is important as it teaches you how to stretch and improve your breathing techniques, and this stops you cumming to quickly.
Grooming and personal hygiene so get a haircut, trim everything else so its neat and tidy shower regularly and use deodorants and cologne
Clothing is important as first impressions is the first perception the girl makes of you. So dress clean, neat and tidy,
Now a good way to get over your fear of talking to women is to go clothes shopping and ask the retail girl for some help, this will help with confidence.
When it comes to newbies punting I recommend you start of with a massage, and ask the girl for a NHJ or NBJ, you don’t have to do anything but lie their and enjoy it, than repeat this until you feel like its just normal routine and are comfortable with it.
Than its time to progress to full service
I recommend you go to a decent brothel with a decent line up of girls, you can check their rosters on their websites and choose a day where the girl you like is working,
Now once you have chose the girl and all business transactions are settle you want to start off slowly, and don’t forget to do your yoga breathing to keep yourself calm
Hold hands, some light kissing, even help each other get undress together, than step into the shower and help each other wash and dry off together, than go to the bed and continue with some light kissing, than the girl will step up into her routine and will go for a hj BJ, don’t let her do too much otherwise you will blow quickly
Just remember to be gentle and take your time and breath, she is woman of course and you want to enjoy your time with her, once your passion has kick in don’t forget to raise your tempo and rhythm while fucking to get you both over the line,
Always be polite and kind to the girls as they are in the same situation as you are having sex with a stranger for money

[bung72]

100mg viagra, 1hr before touchdown. Stay hydrated.....

[ditchtheboss]

The first thing to do is build up your self confidence, and the best way to do than is to improve your self image.
Diet and exercise so get in the best in shape as possible, also yoga is important as it teaches you how to stretch and improve your breathing techniques, and this stops you cumming to quickly.
Grooming and personal hygiene so get a haircut, trim everything else so its neat and tidy shower regularly and use deodorants and cologne
Clothing is important as first impressions is the first perception the girl makes of you. So dress clean, neat and tidy,
Now a good way to get over your fear of talking to women is to go clothes shopping and ask the retail girl for some help, this will help with confidence.
When it comes to newbies punting I recommend you start of with a massage, and ask the girl for a NHJ or NBJ, you don’t have to do anything but lie their and enjoy it, than repeat this until you feel like its just normal routine and are comfortable with it.
Than its time to progress to full service
I recommend you go to a decent brothel with a decent line up of girls, you can check their rosters on their websites and choose a day where the girl you like is working,
Now once you have chose the girl and all business transactions are settle you want to start off slowly, and don’t forget to do your yoga breathing to keep yourself calm
Hold hands, some light kissing, even help each other get undress together, than step into the shower and help each other wash and dry off together, than go to the bed and continue with some light kissing, than the girl will step up into her routine and will go for a hj BJ, don’t let her do too much otherwise you will blow quickly
Just remember to be gentle and take your time and breath, she is woman of course and you want to enjoy your time with her, once your passion has kick in don’t forget to raise your tempo and rhythm while fucking to get you both over the line,
Always be polite and kind to the girls as they are in the same situation as you are having sex with a stranger for money

What a fantastic and thoughtful response, I was going to say just go through with it as it gets better over time but I still get nervous every time. Your response is better.

Your anxiety will go down with time but do everything that mr python recommended and it will help you

[Shoryureppa]

Adjust your lifestyle & allow your confidence to manifest.

You're too much in your head. This isn't a math exam. Enjoy the experience, don't think about the destination. Enjoy the journey of sex.

Don't compare yourself to others, live your own life. Relax.

[bung72]

What a fantastic and thoughtful response, I was going to say just go through with it as it gets better over time but I still get nervous every time. Your response is better.

Your anxiety will go down with time but do everything that mr python recommended and it will help you

Yes, HP trumped my one-liner! :)
I am always nervous as anything, still, even if I've been to the shop 10 times and seen the girl a few times.... I have IBS the day of the punt, going to the toot at least 5 times, my BP is through the roof, heart rate up - on the way to my first punt my fitness watch started congratulating me as I was 'fat burning'! I think my HR was about 130..... That girl was very new - only a few shifts in, and was a little nervous too - we had a laugh about the watch.... find something to have a chuckle about with the girl....

[Ghost2hauntU]

I usually have a few beers and a couple of fags. But this is no different to any other night.

But I’ll pop 100mg of Sildenafil or similar an hour before.

[gedinsyd]

Can't really add much to what has already been said but familiarity with the shop surroundings helps too...today I was tempted to go to Rydalmere - specifically 22 Rydalmere - and I even drove there but chickened out because I felt too exposed on the street, even though it is unlikely I would bang into anyone I know in the area, but it does make me feel more nervous. I then went for my familiar haunt, 41 Epping, and my nerves settled pretty quickly...

[Sexybee]

100mg viagra, 1hr before touchdown. Stay hydrated.....
Still want to try , but how do it feels after sexing with viagra?

[Sexybee]

Plenty of dudes like to imagine they’re the most confident Don Juans around—even though they’re actually pretty damn anxious when the clothes are about to come off.
Let's keep this thread rolling by providing newbies with vital information.

So what do you do when having sex with someone new gives you a major case of anxiety?
I have been punting many years but still nervous about watching and waiting, which makes me also excited

[bung72]

Still want to try , but how do it feels after sexing with viagra?

After or during?? Feels the same to me - it really shores up your erection, makes it very reliable and quick. I could easily get a bit soft while doing DATY - not sure why, I love it, but viagra stops that.... 100mg is a fairly high dose - makes me a bit nauseous sometimes, but worth it.... :)

[kpopcity]

I actually wish i was nervous when i go punt. Back in the day as a newbie, there was a sense of nervousness and excitement.

Now its as exciting as picking up a whooper at hungry jacks

[MrPB]

Just take a couple of deep breaths, and remember that no matter the outcome, you're going to enjoy the experience either way.

[bung72]

I actually wish i was nervous when i go punt. Back in the day as a newbie, there was a sense of nervousness and excitement.

Now its as exciting as picking up a whooper at hungry jacks

That's no good.... my watch tells me I'm fat burning when driving to the shop my HR is up so much. I was worried at first that all that adrenaline was going to kill my boner, but the viagra triumphed!

[Sexybee]

After or during?? Feels the same to me - it really shores up your erection, makes it very reliable and quick. I could easily get a bit soft while doing DATY - not sure why, I love it, but viagra stops that.... 100mg is a fairly high dose - makes me a bit nauseous sometimes, but worth it.... :)
I a little bit worried about if viagra me more longer, maybe time is up and not shooting. Also worried if very tired after punting

[bananahammer]

Where are you guys feeling nervousness? I've only ever felt nervousness when I've been on my way to the shop, knowing that someone may see me walking in and know what I'm there for. I've never felt nervous once I'm inside the shop. But as I've punted more and more I've cared less and less of what someone might think if they see me walking in so I don't feel as nervous anymore. So to answer the OP I would say the solution is to punt more :)

[Refedust]

I still remember my first time. My heart was beating so crazy and i came out too quickly. overall its about just go in, the nervousness and excitement are all part of the experience.

[bung72]

I a little bit worried about if viagra me more longer, maybe time is up and not shooting. Also worried if very tired after punting

Try it out at home first mate.... see if you like it....

[danaussieguy]

For context, are you talking about a guy's very first time? Or just the first time with any sex partner?

Hi! It can be your first time with a new girl or first time "ever" with a girl

[danaussieguy]

The first thing to do is build up your self confidence, and the best way to do than is to improve your self image.
Diet and exercise so get in the best in shape as possible, also yoga is important as it teaches you how to stretch and improve your breathing techniques, and this stops you cumming to quickly.
Grooming and personal hygiene so get a haircut, trim everything else so its neat and tidy shower regularly and use deodorants and cologne
Clothing is important as first impressions is the first perception the girl makes of you. So dress clean, neat and tidy,
Now a good way to get over your fear of talking to women is to go clothes shopping and ask the retail girl for some help, this will help with confidence.
When it comes to newbies punting I recommend you start of with a massage, and ask the girl for a NHJ or NBJ, you don’t have to do anything but lie their and enjoy it, than repeat this until you feel like its just normal routine and are comfortable with it.
Than its time to progress to full service
I recommend you go to a decent brothel with a decent line up of girls, you can check their rosters on their websites and choose a day where the girl you like is working,
Now once you have chose the girl and all business transactions are settle you want to start off slowly, and don’t forget to do your yoga breathing to keep yourself calm
Hold hands, some light kissing, even help each other get undress together, than step into the shower and help each other wash and dry off together, than go to the bed and continue with some light kissing, than the girl will step up into her routine and will go for a hj BJ, don’t let her do too much otherwise you will blow quickly
Just remember to be gentle and take your time and breath, she is woman of course and you want to enjoy your time with her, once your passion has kick in don’t forget to raise your tempo and rhythm while fucking to get you both over the line,
Always be polite and kind to the girls as they are in the same situation as you are having sex with a stranger for money

Very well said sir!

[danaussieguy]

Adjust your lifestyle & allow your confidence to manifest.

You're too much in your head. This isn't a math exam. Enjoy the experience, don't think about the destination. Enjoy the journey of sex.

Don't compare yourself to others, live your own life. Relax.

I like that! don't compare your self with others

[danaussieguy]

I usually have a few beers and a couple of fags. But this is no different to any other night.

But I’ll pop 100mg of Sildenafil or similar an hour before.

hahaha good one mate!

[danaussieguy]

100mg viagra, 1hr before touchdown. Stay hydrated.....

Bone saw is readyyyy!

[danaussieguy]

Just take a couple of deep breaths, and remember that no matter the outcome, you're going to enjoy the experience either way.

Correct! true to that!

[danaussieguy]

I actually wish i was nervous when i go punt. Back in the day as a newbie, there was a sense of nervousness and excitement.

Now its as exciting as picking up a whooper at hungry jacks

It gets to a point that it become normal!

[11Bravo]

Plenty of dudes like to imagine they’re the most confident Don Juans around—even though they’re actually pretty damn anxious when the clothes are about to come off.
Let's keep this thread rolling by providing newbies with vital information.

So what do you do when having sex with someone new gives you a major case of anxiety?Just ask the girl to make you a "popsicle" - have her stick her finger up your ass. Any other thoughts will disappear, or so I'm told.

But really, WTF? I guess I can see if you're a minor, you might be worried about getting caught. Or if she is... But it's a business, not f*cking prom night; you don't have to pin a corsage to her chest. What do you think might happen? She runs out of the room screaming, "Oh my God, Oh my God, he's {fill in the blank)". It's binary: she says yes or no, and you accept that. You pay, have some form of mutually agreed upon sex.

Don't worry, she's seen it all (well, if your head starts doing 360's around your body, she might leave the room rather quickly, screaming. But in that case, she is the LEAST of your worries...) And don't worry, she WILL tell everyone else about your little problem... Just walk by their waiting room and listen to all the chatter and giggles... what do YOU think they're busy talking and texting about? Some sizes/actions/non-actions just HAVE TO BE SHARED...

For certain, avoid the shops with crowds in front, holding torches and pitchforks... (check for a back entrance). Yes, I'm a bit shy about entry... but running, dodging, etc., just draws attention to yourself. Hate to tell you, but no one really cares about what you're doing unless YOU draw attention to yourself. (Actually, slip on a filthy overcoat, muss up your hair, and mumble nonsense to yourself and see how many eyes AVOID you (also works great getting into crowded stadiums, Moses and the Red Sea)). Just bag the coat, comb the hair in the shop's foyer. If it's crowded, just point up in the sky and yell "Oh my God", then run in when everyone else is looking up. Or buy a UPS or FedEx delivery uniform, slip that on, empty box, and Bob's your uncle. Or, for 999.99, you too can own an invisibility cloak for entry and exit. Trouble with that is, sometimes it stays on when you're looking for a girl, so you're ignored... (I understand the upgraded model has fixed the problem - beta testers wanted, and yes, there is a problem of high voltage electrocution, but then again, your anxiety is solved (in a flash)).

What you DO have to worry about is leaving... Just make sure you are well-grounded, because GOD will try to strike you down with a lightning bolt for your wickedness (Old Testament there). Random zig-zag pattern run is best; God's fair, he doesn't cheat by using his "all knowing" ability. And for certain, don't look back at the shop, else it's pillar of salt time (hard to explain to your family, boss, etc., and hope like hell it's not raining...) Or else, on leaving, just outside the door, on the sidewalk, say loudly, "OH my GOD, what kind of a shop is that?!?", then quote random scripture... Or yell, "That is not Jehovah's way", or use the ole black suit, white shirt buttoned up to the top, tie, saying, "I don't think they've accepted the Lord"...

Seriously, YOU are YOUR OWN worst enemy. Ask yourself, what are you anxious about? Being seen? Be discreet. Non-performance? She DOESN'T care. The chef wants you to enjoy your meal so you come back, but he doesn't care if you clean the plate. OK, if you puke all over the table, that IS a problem, but let's be honest, you're not coming back anyway.

[RO1312]

Just go with the flow. Many of us would still get the butterfly’s or anxiousness even after many many punts. It’s just a part of the experience. Enjoy it

Seeing a different girl every time would flare it up too. Yesterday I saw a girl that I’ve presbiously had a session with. She remembered me and felt like hanging out with an old friend again

[Double_Adapter]

For fucks sake, nervous about what? Entering a brothel, stripping down in front of a female, getting your anus and junk checked out by a female or male doctor, a HSC exam, hopping on a plane, driving test, going for a job interview, chatting up a group of hotties, public speaking, asking for a pay rise, confronting someone in a dark alleyway, doing a three-foursome, asking a woman out....life and everything associated with it is fucken overrated..only life experiences and old age can teach you that!

Society as a whole is fucked and with the current crop of millennials and alpha-beta gen's they desperately need the guidance. Men have been emancipated by societal norms and have lost their masculinity. There should be some fucken form of punting apprenticeship or punting traineeships available for the young crop.
I'd be suggesting the OP take up an apprenticeship with Rooter or Asiafever.

[Ghost2hauntU]

For fucks sake, nervous about what? Entering a brothel, stripping down in front of a female, getting your anus and junk checked out by a female or male doctor, a HSC exam, hopping on a plane, driving test, going for a job interview, chatting up a group of hotties, public speaking, asking for a pay rise, confronting someone in a dark alleyway, doing a three-foursome, asking a woman out....life and everything associated with it is fucken overrated..only life experiences and old age can teach you that!

Society as a whole is fucked and with the current crop of millennials and alpha-beta gen's they desperately need the guidance. Men have been emancipated by societal norms and have lost their masculinity. There should be some fucken form of punting apprenticeship or punting traineeships available for the young crop.
I'd be suggesting the OP take up an apprenticeship with Rooter or Asiafever.

Society as a whole has always been fucked in big cities.
Should visit Tokyo alone for a fortnight and see what it’s like there. Help the police catch men filming up the skirts of women on trains, and notorious cumshot-terrorists lurking behind trees in certain parks and alleyways waiting for their next victim to cum their load on.

[Double_Adapter]

Society as a whole has always been fucked in big cities.
Should visit Tokyo alone for a fortnight and see what it’s like there. Help the police catch men filming up the skirts of women on trains, and notorious cumshot-terrorists lurking behind trees in certain parks and alleyways waiting for their next victim to cum their load on.

I thought you were pulling my leg bro, but semen terrorism what the fuck is that about?

https://amp.scmp.com/week-asia/politics/article/3148447/whats-driving-japans-incel-violence-and-south-koreas-semen

[Ghost2hauntU]

I thought you were pulling my leg bro, but semen terrorism what the fuck is that about?

https://amp.scmp.com/week-asia/politics/article/3148447/whats-driving-japans-incel-violence-and-south-koreas-semen

Like I said. Spend a week or two in Tokyo with your eyes open and then you can come back and tell me.
I can’t say about Korea. Only been in Seoul for two days and the food was the worst I ever had.

Anyway, reducing nervousness during a punt. Being with the right WL helps but yeah, having a couple of beers an hour before helps too and won’t hurt your hardon. At least in my case but I pop my V.

[danaussieguy]

Just ask the girl to make you a "popsicle" - have her stick her finger up your ass. Any other thoughts will disappear, or so I'm told.

But really, WTF? I guess I can see if you're a minor, you might be worried about getting caught. Or if she is... But it's a business, not f*cking prom night; you don't have to pin a corsage to her chest. What do you think might happen? She runs out of the room screaming, "Oh my God, Oh my God, he's {fill in the blank)". It's binary: she says yes or no, and you accept that. You pay, have some form of mutually agreed upon sex.

Don't worry, she's seen it all (well, if your head starts doing 360's around your body, she might leave the room rather quickly, screaming. But in that case, she is the LEAST of your worries...) And don't worry, she WILL tell everyone else about your little problem... Just walk by their waiting room and listen to all the chatter and giggles... what do YOU think they're busy talking and texting about? Some sizes/actions/non-actions just HAVE TO BE SHARED...

For certain, avoid the shops with crowds in front, holding torches and pitchforks... (check for a back entrance). Yes, I'm a bit shy about entry... but running, dodging, etc., just draws attention to yourself. Hate to tell you, but no one really cares about what you're doing unless YOU draw attention to yourself. (Actually, slip on a filthy overcoat, muss up your hair, and mumble nonsense to yourself and see how many eyes AVOID you (also works great getting into crowded stadiums, Moses and the Red Sea)). Just bag the coat, comb the hair in the shop's foyer. If it's crowded, just point up in the sky and yell "Oh my God", then run in when everyone else is looking up. Or buy a UPS or FedEx delivery uniform, slip that on, empty box, and Bob's your uncle. Or, for 999.99, you too can own an invisibility cloak for entry and exit. Trouble with that is, sometimes it stays on when you're looking for a girl, so you're ignored... (I understand the upgraded model has fixed the problem - beta testers wanted, and yes, there is a problem of high voltage electrocution, but then again, your anxiety is solved (in a flash)).

What you DO have to worry about is leaving... Just make sure you are well-grounded, because GOD will try to strike you down with a lightning bolt for your wickedness (Old Testament there). Random zig-zag pattern run is best; God's fair, he doesn't cheat by using his "all knowing" ability. And for certain, don't look back at the shop, else it's pillar of salt time (hard to explain to your family, boss, etc., and hope like hell it's not raining...) Or else, on leaving, just outside the door, on the sidewalk, say loudly, "OH my GOD, what kind of a shop is that?!?", then quote random scripture... Or yell, "That is not Jehovah's way", or use the ole black suit, white shirt buttoned up to the top, tie, saying, "I don't think they've accepted the Lord"...

Seriously, YOU are YOUR OWN worst enemy. Ask yourself, what are you anxious about? Being seen? Be discreet. Non-performance? She DOESN'T care. The chef wants you to enjoy your meal so you come back, but he doesn't care if you clean the plate. OK, if you puke all over the table, that IS a problem, but let's be honest, you're not coming back anyway.

You said it all i love it! Very straightforward!

[Hidden Python]

For fucks sake, nervous about what? Entering a brothel, stripping down in front of a female, getting your anus and junk checked out by a female or male doctor, a HSC exam, hopping on a plane, driving test, going for a job interview, chatting up a group of hotties, public speaking, asking for a pay rise, confronting someone in a dark alleyway, doing a three-foursome, asking a woman out....life and everything associated with it is fucken overrated..only life experiences and old age can teach you that!

Society as a whole is fucked and with the current crop of millennials and alpha-beta gen's they desperately need the guidance. Men have been emancipated by societal norms and have lost their masculinity. There should be some fucken form of punting apprenticeship or punting traineeships available for the young crop.
I'd be suggesting the OP take up an apprenticeship with Rooter or Asiafever.

Mate you got to take it easy on the younger generation, its actually us GenX&Ys fault for spoiling them too much, their lives revolve around a screen and not around real life experiences, we are too busy with working long hours to pay the bills and to put a roof over their heads that we forget to spend quality time and teach them the things our fathers taught us,like how to fight dirty against bullies instead of the bullshit the school expects from them

[ditchtheboss]

Mate you got to take it easy on the younger generation, its actually us GenX&Ys fault for spoiling them too much, their lives revolve around a screen and not around real life experiences, we are too busy with working long hours to pay the bills and to put a roof over their heads that we forget to spend quality time and teach them the things our fathers taught us,like how to fight dirty against bullies instead of the bullshit the school expects from them

I may have read somewhere about a father and son at ginza together. Not with the same girl, each had his own. I don’t know what to think about that

[danaussieguy]

For fucks sake, nervous about what? Entering a brothel, stripping down in front of a female, getting your anus and junk checked out by a female or male doctor, a HSC exam, hopping on a plane, driving test, going for a job interview, chatting up a group of hotties, public speaking, asking for a pay rise, confronting someone in a dark alleyway, doing a three-foursome, asking a woman out....life and everything associated with it is fucken overrated..only life experiences and old age can teach you that!

Society as a whole is fucked and with the current crop of millennials and alpha-beta gen's they desperately need the guidance. Men have been emancipated by societal norms and have lost their masculinity. There should be some fucken form of punting apprenticeship or punting traineeships available for the young crop.
I'd be suggesting the OP take up an apprenticeship with Rooter or Asiafever.

Don't get me wrong old timer hehe I just posted it here so anyone who wants to contribute can. But hell yeah! what you said was true!

[Hidden Python]

I may have read somewhere about a father and son at ginza together. Not with the same girl, each had his own. I don’t know what to think about that

I think it was back in 2005 on a trip to Pattaya, i was in the hairdressers getting a haircut and there was an old British guy there with his 16 year old son, and he was talking the talk acting big, about getting his son the experience to be a man, and even allowing him to get his first tattoo, the girls where not to impressed, as they have heard all that BS before,
Once the owner found out i was from Sydney, she personally cut my hair and we talked about how she use to go to school here, and worked in the Thai massage place on upper Bathurst street,
I told her i know the place, and she became my GF for 2 weeks after she finished work for the day, all it cost me was dinner and drinks and someone to talk too about Sydney,

[Double_Adapter]

Mate you got to take it easy on the younger generation, its actually us GenX&Ys fault for spoiling them too much, their lives revolve around a screen and not around real life experiences, we are too busy with working long hours to pay the bills and to put a roof over their heads that we forget to spend quality time and teach them the things our fathers taught us,like how to fight dirty against bullies instead of the bullshit the school expects from them

Here's a tip for you HP

If you wanna know the real age of a WL/ML check how she scrolls and navigates her phone.
If she only uses an index finger she's a baby boomer, a Gen-X and an early Gen-Y
If she uses both her left and right thumbs to scroll and type text them she's definitely a Gen-Z or an alpha gener.

You can thank me later bro...

[Hidden Python]

Here's a tip for you HP

If you wanna know the real age of a WL/ML check how she scrolls and navigates her phone.
If she only uses an index finger she's a baby boomer, a Gen-X and an early Gen-Y
If she uses both her left and right thumbs to scroll and type text them she's definitely a Gen-Z or an alpha gener.

You can thank me later bro...

Never had a problem tell an Asian woman’s age, I’ve got a built in Asian radar with over 30 years experience behind it.

[Ghost2hauntU]

Here's a tip for you HP

If you wanna know the real age of a WL/ML check how she scrolls and navigates her phone.
If she only uses an index finger she's a baby boomer, a Gen-X and an early Gen-Y
If she uses both her left and right thumbs to scroll and type text them she's definitely a Gen-Z or an alpha gener.

You can thank me later bro...

Lol thanks. Except I have a uno problemo-
I no comprende any of that fucken terminology!

My rule is that whatever you think is the WLs are, ad 10 years if you’re sober. And 20 minimum if you’re wasted.

[Double_Adapter]

Lol thanks. Except I have a uno problemo-
I no comprende any of that fucken terminology!

My rule is that whatever you think is the WLs are, ad 10 years if you’re sober. And 20 minimum if you’re wasted.

You are right with the +10 years, and this applies to most Asian girls.
If they look after themselves, eat right, exercise, laser out skin blemishes, use botox and expensive anti-wrinkle creams like La Mer, La Prairie et al then you can add 15-20 years to the presumed age.
I'm smashing raw a 50+ Korean sugar mama that looks and feels like a 30yr old (a good thing she owns her own cosmetics and beauty treatment biz)

[earl9122]

Reducing nervousness on your first punt is a bit like preparing for a rollercoaster ride. Take a cue from the adrenaline junkies – practice deep breathing to calm those pre-ride jitters. Visualize success, just like envisioning conquering the loop-the-loop, and imagine yourself with the comedic confidence of a stand-up comedian; after all, laughter can be a great icebreaker! But while you're enjoying the ride, always remember that safety, consent, and respect should be your top priorities, just like the safety measures on a rollercoaster. So, have a good laugh, enjoy the adventure, and make sure you're in a safe and legal situation!" 😄

[11Bravo]

Lol thanks. Except I have a uno problemo-
I no comprende any of that fucken terminology!

My rule is that whatever you think is the WLs are, ad 10 years if you’re sober. And 20 minimum if you’re wasted.

Myself, I go by "looks like"; the actual age is immaterial. Skill sets are also applied to the go/no-go equation.

[bung72]

Reduce nervousness.... who knows!
I'm about to leave home for my >20th punt, my watch says my ECG is inconclusive due to high heart rate! 133bpm.... its nuts!

[ditchtheboss]

Reduce nervousness.... who knows!
I'm about to leave home for my >20th punt, my watch says my ECG is inconclusive due to high heart rate! 133bpm.... its nuts!

AR PLEASE. Have fun

[Abracadabra]

Heightened anticipation yes, which pushes the heart rate up, but never nervous...... too many times, i guess.
Focus on relaxing, enjoying the physical connection and letting the session flow.

[bung72]

Once inside a shop I’m definitely relaxed… it’s the buildup that stirs me up…. Don’t get me wrong, I love it!

[Shoryureppa]

"My soul has been spoiled by the world, my imagination is unquiet, my heart insatiate. To me everything is of little moment. I have become as easily accustomed to grief as to joy, and my life grows emptier day by day."

[earl9122]

Once inside a shop I’m definitely relaxed… it’s the buildup that stirs me up…. Don’t get me wrong, I love it!

That's a fantastic perspective! Keeping things relaxed, enjoying the physical connection, and going with the flow can indeed lead to a more enjoyable and stress-free experience. It's all about being in the moment and savoring the connection, much like sipping a fine wine or indulging in a delicious meal. Here's to stress-free enjoyment and memorable moments!

[yaminkim]

Have a wank beforehand mate

[bung72]

Have a wank beforehand mate

I like to be fresh with a loaded chamber punting.....

[imyouraussieguy]

Pray to the God of cocks to grant you the stiffness and hardness like no other

[TheBigChungus]

I was pretty nervous leading up to my first punt in a shop a few days back, super nervous so got there early and decided to just sus out the location, the outside of the establishment and walked around for 10 min or so.

Before 10 min of the actual booking it was now or never so I just went in, and after that I was calm af, the build up for me was such a nerve racking aspect.

Privates on the other hand is super simple, just think as if you’re going there to meet your mate. Anybody you meet at the apartment or outside they don’t really know where you’re going, who you’re meeting unlike shops.


Meditating 5 min before helps as well!

[RO1312]

Something that helped me was this-

You know why you are there
She knows why you are there

Keep it simple. No need to wind yourself up

[CFH]

don't take it seriously. sex is supposed to be fun, right?

[Double_Adapter]

Something that helped me was this-

You know why you are there
She knows why you are there


And the wife doesn't know where you are

[RO1312]

And the wife doesn't know where you are

Haha, it’s not an issue for me but I feel for the bro’s

[huskywesley51]

Plenty of dudes like to imagine they’re the most confident Don Juans around—even though they’re actually pretty damn anxious when the clothes are about to come off.
Let's keep this thread rolling by providing newbies with vital information.

So what do you do when having sex with someone new gives you a major case of anxiety?



First, it's important to remember that anxiety is completely normal! Everyone feels some degree of nervousness when engaging in activities outside their comfort zone, such as having sex with someone new. That said, it doesn’t have to stop you from enjoying the experience.