Regulars leaving....

[bung72]

What usually happens?
What has happened to you?

I suppose it really boils down to thse....

Do they give you a heads up before? 'I'm leaving next month/week'
Tell you during that last session?
Or do they just vanish.... you phone to book and they are gone.....

[GoldfishMan]

They just vanish like Kaiser Soze, bro.

[11Bravo]

They just vanish like Kaiser Soze, bro.EXCELLENT reference, LOL !!!

Just happened with a LONG time regular. Tried to message her, the account had been closed. Bit of a stomach punch as she was stunning.

BUT, as I always tell them when I leave, "For ME, I hope I see you next time. For YOU, I hope I don't..."

Then you move on.

[bung72]

I figured that would be the case generally…. the girl I see at the moment is planning to move to Queensland in March…. I’m hoping she works until then….

[11Bravo]

I figured that would be the case generally…. the girl I see at the moment is planning to move to Queensland in March…. I’m hoping she works until then….Myself, I keep in contact. You never know, she might be back, you might be there... Post covid was not a problem as, even with 3 years, kept in contact. It's over when the chat app account is closed. For me, that's "business closed".

[John_Diaz]

What usually happens?
What has happened to you?

I suppose it really boils down to thse....

Do they give you a heads up before? 'I'm leaving next month/week'
Tell you during that last session?
Or do they just vanish.... you phone to book and they are gone.....

Happened to me once when I was living in south america. I have a regular colombian escort and one day she just disappear up until now sometimes I look at the escort page if she returned but no luck. =(

[Ghost2hauntU]

My last told me she was tired and needed a break after 3 years on the job.

Another retired. One hooked up with a sugar daddy and another got hitched.

It’s not like they’re gonna be in the industry for ever right?

[ditchtheboss]

The good ones will tell you and schedule a last, good bye, session with you. One frequent I had told me and we had a month's long worth of farewell sessions. She was great and we had a good thing going but for her sake I am glad she left. Part of me is always happy for them when they reach their goals and just leave this wreched and wonderful industry.

[bung72]

The good ones will tell you and schedule a last, good bye, session with you. One frequent I had told me and we had a month's long worth of farewell sessions. She was great and we had a good thing going but for her sake I am glad she left. Part of me is always happy for them when they reach their goals and just leave this wreched and wonderful industry.

I mean it could be good for business couldn't it, giving notice.... :)

[Sibon]

They all vanished for fear of seeing another cock of a stranger yet again.

Even the sight of a banana made them queasy.

[Hidden Python]

You will find a lot of girls who worked in the industry while on student visas, will disappear back to their own country without a trace once they have completed their degrees.
They tell their parents they did causal work in the hospitality industry, while they where here, to keep good face,
Their greatest fear is disgracing the family image back home, as a lot of family business depend on having a good reputation. Especially in smaller cities where everyone knows each other’s business privately and publicly.
So don’t take it personally if you get the cold shoulder, just enjoy the time you get to spend with her today.

[aussiegaigin]

I had one a few years ago. Turned up for my semi-regular ML session; the boss was in complete denial that the girl had worked there.

But not so bad; he offered me a new girl at a discount; her "first day in the industry" - she was so naive, I got FS for no extra fee.

[Sibon]

What usually happens?
What has happened to you?

I suppose it really boils down to thse....

Do they give you a heads up before? 'I'm leaving next month/week'
Tell you during that last session?
Or do they just vanish.... you phone to book and they are gone.....

It is for her good as well as the good of your well-being that she does this only for a short time.

[danaussieguy]

Maybe they saved a lot during the rainy season, now they have a new life

[asiafever]

What usually happens?
What has happened to you?

I suppose it really boils down to thse....

Do they give you a heads up before? 'I'm leaving next month/week'
Tell you during that last session?
Or do they just vanish.... you phone to book and they are gone.....

All of the above. Scheduled a last session with a girl once, she was a lovely girl heading back home.
Had one tell me during the session that this would be our last, and ahe gave me a little cake (which I assumed was given to her by another regular for her last day.).
Had girls just vanish.
Had one girl refuse tips in our what would turn out to be our last session. She didn't mention it, but she said "No, no need today, it's a gift for you." Then when I tried to book her the next week the phone was disconnected and she was gone.

Nothing is permanent in this game, you enjoy the moments you have with them, then they are gone, like the moments will eventually be gone, lost in time, like tears in the rain.

[11Bravo]

.Nothing is permanent in this game, you enjoy the moments you have with them, then they are gone, like the moments will eventually be gone, lost in time, like tears in the rain.
Well said, nothing permanent... well, except for herpes...

[ditchtheboss]

Well said, nothing permanent... well, except for herpes...

Both answers so true and beautiful. Punters poetry moves me

[ditchtheboss]

After seeing a few come and go and dating them and reading all the comments, I think it is best they just disappear. That sounds a bit callous about the ones we are frequents and have a rapport with but on refiection I think it is best they just move on as quickly as possible. No need for farewells or sharing cakes. Do you take your dentist out when you finish treatment or if the dentist moves to another town, no. Nobody cares. She doesn’t care and we shouldn’t care either. Pay fuck and leave. Arigato sayonara

[Sibon]

What usually happens?
What has happened to you?

I suppose it really boils down to thse....

Do they give you a heads up before? 'I'm leaving next month/week'
Tell you during that last session?
Or do they just vanish.... you phone to book and they are gone.....

This is the reason that you should have married your regular if you want her to be with you for good.

[Sibon]

All of the above. Scheduled a last session with a girl once, she was a lovely girl heading back home.
Had one tell me during the session that this would be our last, and ahe gave me a little cake (which I assumed was given to her by another regular for her last day.).
Had girls just vanish.
Had one girl refuse tips in our what would turn out to be our last session. She didn't mention it, but she said "No, no need today, it's a gift for you." Then when I tried to book her the next week the phone was disconnected and she was gone.

Nothing is permanent in this game, you enjoy the moments you have with them, then they are gone, like the moments will eventually be gone, lost in time, like tears in the rain.

This is the reason that you should have married your regular if you want her to be with you for good.

[abovetherim]

She doesn’t care and we shouldn’t care either. Pay fuck and leave. Arigato sayonara

Not easy when you develop some feelings towards your regulars but you’re 100% right. I gotta prepare mentally to see a couple of my favourites head back home soon. Ah well. Time to look for new one soon.

[abovetherim]

Well said, nothing permanent... well, except for herpes...

Herpes will disappear too, in time, with you. We’re nothing but stardust.

[ditchtheboss]

Not easy when you develop some feelings towards your regulars but you’re 100% right. I gotta prepare mentally to see a couple of my favourites head back home soon. Ah well. Time to look for new one soon.

Been there mate, that’s why are say what I say

[gedinsyd]

I don't have any real regulars yet, but I was disappointed to see one girl who I had only seen once disappear from the roster, as my sesh with her was amazing and I was keen on revisiting...I agree with what has been said about it being best just to enjoy the moment because we do not know what lies ahead.

[Ghost2hauntU]

Well said, nothing permanent... well, except for herpes...

Too far.
But you all know what they say about the ones that were good - they return.

[tawer5ag]

Had a few regulars/favourites and experienced it in various ways:

1. She told the shop and customers that she was leaving. So the shop posted "last week/day" on the roster.
You can imagine all her regulars wanting to book her during her last days.

2. A few just vanished from the shop.
Some girls, i have their contact info and i ask if theyre still working and what shop.
Some girls, in my early punting days, i didnt ask/get their number or they didnt want to give it to me. And i just hope to see them again in the shop roster.

3. Some girls pop in the rosters every now and then. The annoying part is when they move shops, change names, change pictures. Cause youre never gonna know its them unless you get some kind of info.


Girls do come and go, but do they really not come back?
I can imagine some would pop in every now and then, if they need quick cash.
Or some would just contact their top customers, so they dont have to go to the shop.

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[Sibon]

Herpes will disappear too, in time, with you. We’re nothing but stardust.

This is fucking poetic if you ask me.

MLs like moths sometimes will disappear into the darkness of the night.

Do not follow their shadows.

As you may meet death in the face.

[Footballpunter]

Not easy when you develop some feelings towards your regulars but you’re 100% right. I gotta prepare mentally to see a couple of my favourites head back home soon. Ah well. Time to look for new one soon.

The one that you have feelings for, might actually be better that they just disappear. It’s hard to move on when things linger.

[Abracadabra]

Regulars moving on can leave a hole in your punting cycle. I had 2 depart recently and my punting dropped off. I was doing the "regular newby regular..." cycle.

Important to apply the pay fuck leave maxim, but regulars can get under your guard sometimes and the connection can become unhealthy imo..

[abovetherim]

The one that you have feelings for, might actually be better that they just disappear. It’s hard to move on when things linger.

Yeah she msg me that she will be leaving and gave me the date. Was surprised and felt kinda sad, I knew she would leave one day but seems to have brought that plan forward. I think she expects me to visit her more often. We kinda connected on a few things but I know she only sees $ sign when she sees me. I’m thinking of cutting her off early and mentally move on from her.

[ditchtheboss]

Yeah she msg me that she will be leaving and gave me the date. Was surprised and felt kinda sad, I knew she would leave one day but seems to have brought that plan forward. I think she expects me to visit her more often. We kinda connected on a few things but I know she only sees $ sign when she sees me. I’m thinking of cutting her off early and mentally move on from her.

Just don’t even bother mate, she wants a last rush of money, you will just feel it more. In my opinion it is not worth it

[abovetherim]

Just don’t even bother mate, she wants a last rush of money, you will just feel it more. In my opinion it is not worth it

One final session with her maybe? A farewell Fs (without telling her) then just disappear? Probably won’t help. I know the smart thing to do is just to cut it off.

[verbatim2]

My greatest anguish for a regular leaving suddenly was unquestionably Yoko from Tokyo Cats.

I have posted previously about the brutal treatment she endured from the female 'madam' whose name I can't remember (Wilson seemed to treat her well). She was beaten severely. I saw photos of the aftermath. It was awful.

She was an incredibly resilient person with an infectious positive outlook. I continued to see her in many different places after she left Tokyo Cats. She generally used the name Hanna.

I think it was 2014 when she disappeared suddenly. She had overstayed her Visa, and I expect the Department of Immigration eventually caught up with her.

While I regarded her as a real friend and she meant a lot to me, I accept she owed me nothing, including any explanation about her sudden disappearance. On the contrary, I owed her.

I would give my right one for any news about what happened to her. I hope she was just deported. She was very vulnerable, and I have feared that something nastier might sit behind her disappearance. I sincerely hope that wasn't the case.

If anyone knows what happened; particularly if you have news that she is going well; I would appreciate hearing about it.

As a rule though, if a regular disappears without warning, remember that is their prerogative. They owe you absolutely nothing.

[bung72]

As a rule though, if a regular disappears without warning, remember that is their prerogative. They owe you absolutely nothing.

Of course. The same way we can just stop showing up as well without explanation..... If you have formed feelings, I guess that wouldn't make it smart less though.....

[ditchtheboss]

One final session with her maybe? A farewell Fs (without telling her) then just disappear? Probably won’t help. I know the smart thing to do is just to cut it off.

Cut it off mate, just my opinion. Even if you don’t tell her you will know and that can’t be good. The word now is sayonara. When I did that once I started punting in new shops and trying different girls and I got over her pretty quickly

[Ghost2hauntU]

Regulars moving on can leave a hole in your punting cycle. I had 2 depart recently and my punting dropped off. I was doing the "regular newby regular..." cycle.

Important to apply the pay fuck leave maxim, but regulars can get under your guard sometimes and the connection can become unhealthy imo..

Yep same. Since June this year when my last regular WL left the shop. Since then I’ve been trying old haunts and new alike, hit and miss and even returning back home to jerk off without making a selection. This time last year, I still had 3 regulars. Now I can’t even find a WL worth seeing a second time.

[Footballpunter]

One final session with her maybe? A farewell Fs (without telling her) then just disappear? Probably won’t help. I know the smart thing to do is just to cut it off.

yea bro, it's hard, but cut it off. Don't let things linger, especially your feelings.

Fresh experience, I knowingly let things linger. Rebellious against logic, had more than just a final session and I paid the price mentally for it. Try to avoid that.