Affairs

[BlueBirdDuke]

Without searching first on the forum (noob mistake!), I recently signed up for Ashley Madison and saw some really enticing profiles on there.
Later would I find out from the bros here that it is better to avoid this site as it seems they are just a cash grab rather than a legit service (correct me if I am wrong).

So for the married/committed gents in the forum, has anyone had any good experience with having an affair (with non-WL's/ML's)?

Just curious on how you guys maintain the delicate balance...

[rooter]

They are all WLs or gold diggers. It's a con!

[Eff2fifty]

Without searching first on the forum (noob mistake!), I recently signed up for Ashley Madison and saw some really enticing profiles on there.
Later would I find out from the bros here that it is better to avoid this site as it seems they are just a cash grab rather than a legit service (correct me if I am wrong).

So for the married/committed gents in the forum, has anyone had any good experience with having an affair (with non-WL's/ML's)?

Just curious on how you guys maintain the delicate balance...

Gday Bro BlueBirdDuke, I am a veteran of the dating/naughty sites, plenty of fun can be had, i have found...its just through weight of numbers, that you can find any success...need to be playing a dozen or so at once to get any action. As they are doing the same....Persistance will pay off eventually. There are others...Fling Finder, Be Naughty, Click and Flirt, Oasis, Plenty Of Fish......... It can be quite an eye opener. And you can meet all sorts....Lots of ticks off the old bucket list.....haha.

[BlueBirdDuke]

Gday Bro BlueBirdDuke, I am a veteran of the dating/naughty sites, plenty of fun can be had, i have found...its just through weight of numbers, that you can find any success...need to be playing a dozen or so at once to get any action. As they are doing the same....Persistance will pay off eventually. There are others...Fling Finder, Be Naughty, Click and Flirt, Oasis, Plenty Of Fish......... It can be quite an eye opener. And you can meet all sorts....Lots of ticks off the old bucket list.....haha.

Thanks bro, it's good to hear that it's not entirely a con after all.
I'd love to see your bucket list! LOL.
Then again, why spoil the surprise? I shall go and find out for myself!

- duke

[punt4life]

Eff2fifty, the only problem I have is paying to join membership. No problems with money but how do I pay without using my personal credit card and getting busted by the missus when she looks at the statement. I've browsed the websites you recommended and very curios. That being said, even fuck buddies get complicated so I still enjoy the good short term fun of punting without worrying about the consequences.

Agreed with BlueBirdDuke, would like to hear mor about your old bucket list LOL

[Eff2fifty]

Eff2fifty, the only problem I have is paying to join membership. No problems with money but how do I pay without using my personal credit card and getting busted by the missus when she looks at the statement. I've browsed the websites you recommended and very curios. That being said, even fuck buddies get complicated so I still enjoy the good short term fun of punting without worrying about the consequences.

Agreed with BlueBirdDuke, would like to hear mor about your old bucket list LOL

Haha, cant help with the Credit card and the missus....but the old bucket list, well let me just say that i dont go to the grey areas....lol....i like to sample all, any colour or creed, any size, from the petite to the ridiculous....every age, from the young(much harder, but do-able) to the very old....even disabilities....my take on it is 'they all need loving'....complications???, not really any problems there, as long as you are up front with what you are after, you may be surprised, a lot of them are after the same thing. Good luck....

[AHLUNGOR]

I don't know about affairs, it's a grey and dangerous area especially for married men.

Much simple and straight forward pay as you go will be a better option and nobody will get hurt or have to take any risk.

But all you single and horny brothers, enjoy and be careful out there,.

Just my two cents

Cheers

:smile:

[sapril]

Get a prepaid credit card from big w. I buyed one a long time ago, no id to buy.


Eff2fifty, the only problem I have is paying to join membership. No problems with money but how do I pay without using my personal credit card and getting busted by the missus when she looks at the statement. I've browsed the websites you recommended and very curios. That being said, even fuck buddies get complicated so I still enjoy the good short term fun of punting without worrying about the consequences.

Agreed with BlueBirdDuke, would like to hear mor about your old bucket list LOL

[AHLUNGOR]

Get a prepaid credit card from big w. I buyed one a long time ago, no id to buy.

Very good point, I used one long time ago (ANZ prepaid VISA) to register and paid on line for a Japanese porn site, no complication there.

Cheers

[sei]

Very good point..some things that I've learned..

1. A spare phone hidden at the office so your significant other does not find it and you don't get random texts or calls at home
2. A prepaid credit card for bookings, memberships, advertising, shopping for tools of the trade and gifts
3. A hidden income stream or a way to explain the money you are spending or earning
4. Constantly logging into check emails at random times to be discrete, private browsing and making sure you don't accidently copy a bit if text if your phone that he/she might "paste" to reveal your online activity.
5. Making sure you can explain missing chunks of time
6. Worrying about being seen in public (best to act appropriate and businesslike no matter the urge to be affectionate)

I think affairs are best avoided, you never know what a woman or man scorned is capable of doing.

It appears all the stress and worry of an affair or punting life is worth it to so many!

[IExperiment]

Very good point..some things that I've learned..

1. A spare phone hidden at the office so your significant other does not find it and you don't get random texts or calls at home
2. A prepaid credit card for bookings, memberships, advertising, shopping for tools of the trade and gifts
3. A hidden income stream or a way to explain the money you are spending or earning
4. Constantly logging into check emails at random times to be discrete, private browsing and making sure you don't accidently copy a bit if text if your phone that he/she might "paste" to reveal your online activity.
5. Making sure you can explain missing chunks of time
6. Worrying about being seen in public (best to act appropriate and businesslike no matter the urge to be affectionate)

I think affairs are best avoided, you never know what a woman or man scorned is capable of doing.

It appears all the stress and worry of an affair or punting life is worth it to so many!

Very goog though I have all this. What I did was just go to the bank and open an account and used my sister address :) she know about it and I told her to keep to her self and she does, not her business how I wanted to spoilt my self.

We all know the consequences.
Yes broken heart or scorn are best avoided and I realize always to see who ever you see no longer than 3 to 6 months :) after this could be trouble :)
From a young Sajiao the scorn are vicious :)
I still see WL time to time.

[guyepping]

Amazed your sister will do the trick for you.

[Littlewonder]

I have tried a few different dating or match making services a few years back now. In all cases the women they used turned out to be prostitutes and some of them were nice and a good punt but some were just complete rip offs.

I ended up deciding to give them a miss they turned out to be really agressive and nasty when I decided I didnt want to meet any of the girls.

Cost me a fortune had a couple of rasonable roots with some pretty Caucasians but overall much prefer to go to an asian shop and get value for money and be guarranteed a decent root.

[jj12345]

Haha, cant help with the Credit card and the missus....but the old bucket list, well let me just say that i dont go to the grey areas....lol....i like to sample all, any colour or creed, any size, from the petite to the ridiculous....every age, from the young(much harder, but do-able) to the very old....even disabilities....my take on it is 'they all need loving'....complications???, not really any problems there, as long as you are up front with what you are after, you may be surprised, a lot of them are after the same thing. Good luck....

Really? You just msg 'Hi I would like sex, how about you?'

Any more tricks?

[Travelmate]

It is not that complicated if the girl you are dating is very very understanding.

[Littlewonder]

Its buyer be ware if you are dealing with wl most of them are only interested in one thing money.

Look in the mirror what have you got to offer a 22 year old other than money?

I rest my case, just wish I could take my own advice.

[lala69]

Very good point..some things that I've learned..

1. A spare phone hidden at the office so your significant other does not find it and you don't get random texts or calls at home
2. A prepaid credit card for bookings, memberships, advertising, shopping for tools of the trade and gifts
3. A hidden income stream or a way to explain the money you are spending or earning
4. Constantly logging into check emails at random times to be discrete, private browsing and making sure you don't accidently copy a bit if text if your phone that he/she might "paste" to reveal your online activity.
5. Making sure you can explain missing chunks of time
6. Worrying about being seen in public (best to act appropriate and businesslike no matter the urge to be affectionate)

I think affairs are best avoided, you never know what a woman or man scorned is capable of doing.

It appears all the stress and worry of an affair or punting life is worth it to so many!

for no#1, I used VOIP service with the real DID number, however that number goes straight to voice mail if someone tries to call in.

[Travelmate]

Its buyer be ware if you are dealing with wl most of them are only interested in one thing money.

Look in the mirror what have you got to offer a 22 year old other than money?

I rest my case, just wish I could take my own advice.

Tell them up front.... I have not much money .... and see whether the relationship still happen ...