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aozhouaussie
04-02-2024, 08:19 PM
Hey,

Recently, just realised I can't 'do' same girl over twice. If I booked the same girl third time, my little buddy would not stand up!

now I am getting get bored easily to any girl, even she looks gorgeous and we had wonderful at first time. Second time, emmm... might be OK, but definitely fail at third time.

how many times you had sex with same girl in brothel? not you mistress :grimace:

Meng
05-02-2024, 11:30 AM
If you mix up who you see and not see them consecutively it'll help.

Sometimes I'll see a few other WLs and then come back to the same girl and it feels like new.

aozhouaussie
05-02-2024, 11:48 AM
If you mix up who you see and not see them consecutively it'll help.

Sometimes I'll see a few other WLs and then come back to the same girl and it feels like new.

Thanks for the advice. I am really a sucker when taste some yummy 'food'. Can't control myself until my body itself steps up to tell me 'STOP!!! Don't use your brain!'

What I am saying is, Just can't believe, body could have its own idea !! It does happen few times, failed to get hard to the same girl, but moved to next door 10minutes later and then could DO the other girl..

Kiryu0
05-02-2024, 11:50 AM
I've been seeing the same girl on and off for years. With seeing other girls in between helps as mentioned.

Let's you compare your fave against the new ones on the market.

Timeis629
05-02-2024, 11:50 AM
Hey,

Recently, just realised I can't 'do' same girl over twice. If I booked the same girl third time, my little buddy would not stand up!

now I am getting get bored easily to any girl, even she looks gorgeous and we had wonderful at first time. Second time, emmm... might be OK, but definitely fail at third time.

how many times you had sex with same girl in brothel? not you mistress :grimace:

Psychological problem maybe - i visited one 12 times couple of others 5 times.
I can still visualise services from different WLs in my head and spontaneously erect - years after the event. Guess we are all different. Memories are great.

keebab
05-02-2024, 11:56 AM
I do like the novelty of new girls but I also feel that the sex gets better once you've seen a girl a couple of times and she knows you and is more comfortable.

When a girl is relaxed, she can be more open and exploratory with you.

aussiegaigin
05-02-2024, 12:49 PM
Wait until you get married, and see how it goes. LOL

Dukeduker222
05-02-2024, 12:53 PM
Def try to switch it up every few visits. ThereÂ’s no limit to the amount of times, but IÂ’ll generally have 1-2 punts a week, and visit a regular every second or third punt to keep things fresh.

holi_day
05-02-2024, 01:27 PM
The max times for me seeing the same girl was around 20 times. It was a J girl from Ginza before COVID. Then there was a couple other girls I have seen 5-10 times over the course of last couple of years.

I now only see a girl 1-2 times these days as there so many quality girls out there. I know Asumi is back at GE so definitely repeat this week. I generally prefer seeing a regular as I feel more relaxed and know what's coming. But the problem with some girls, not all, the service drops when you become their regular. That's the time that you should move on.

aozhouaussie
05-02-2024, 01:48 PM
Oh bro, 20 times!!
My problem is getting bored quickly to the same girl. Kind of no surprise to me , same drill every time, and then lost my interesting...
Yeh, looking for different 'surprise' to myself... Hahahah

Sibon
05-02-2024, 01:52 PM
how many times you had sex with same girl in brothel?

About two years with the same ML for one or twice a week until she kicked me out. :)

I was lost after that for a while.

My refuge was a public library where a beautiful hot librarian with glasses worked.

Stubbies4Lyf
05-02-2024, 02:57 PM
Similar with me, sex with the same girl gets boring very quickly. That biological hard-wiring for variety (The Coolidge effect) is very deeply engrained.

Abracadabra
05-02-2024, 03:05 PM
Similar with me, sex with the same girl gets boring very quickly. That biological hard-wiring for variety (The Coolidge effect) is very deeply engrained.

I used to quote the Coolidge study to my ex wife.....

Single Malt
05-02-2024, 03:08 PM
If fs is on the table I haven’t found my limit yet. I’ve been seeing 1 ml for awhile now and the sex is still great.

I will say if sex is not on offer from the ml I struggle to return after the second visit, no matter how attractive she is or how good the service is. I guess there’s only so many ways to give a hj/bj.

GoldfishMan
05-02-2024, 03:13 PM
I'm going to give the same answer I keep giving, it depends on the girl. I'm starting to sound like a broken record, loll...

The thing with punting is our senses are altered a little bit by the novelty of meeting a new girl. That fact alone sets our pulses racing and could be the only factor that determines whether you had good sex or not during that sesh. Once you get past the novelty and that factor is taken away, you start to see the girl with more "clarity".

For me, forget about third visits, I can go from hero in the first sesh down to zero in the second, hahah. But with some other girls that really ticked all the boxes for what I like in a girl (80% body, 10% face, 10% personality), I can keep on going back to the same girl for years and not be bored. Of course I'd still see other girls in between.

aozhouaussie
05-02-2024, 03:25 PM
Dude, you r the champain so far! 12 years...
we are discussing in different unit. We are talking 'times', but you are saying 'time'.

Stubbies4Lyf
05-02-2024, 06:17 PM
I used to quote the Coolidge study to my ex wife.....

How did that go down mate? Never positive in my experience. Sad that we want to fuck them less as time goes on, and a bitter pill to swallow for them.

BearOrigin
05-02-2024, 06:20 PM
Received HJ from the same girl on and off for two years, third year was receiving consistent DTCBJ & CFS on a weekly basis. Don't think I'd get tired of her.

aozhouaussie
05-02-2024, 09:30 PM
OMG ! The scientists even have a theory for this type of issue!? Must be popular problem in men's group.

11Bravo
05-02-2024, 10:46 PM
now I am getting get bored easily to any girl, even she looks gorgeous and we had wonderful at first time. Second time, emmm... might be OK, but definitely fail at third time.
My problem is getting bored quickly to the same girl. Kind of no surprise to me , same drill every time, and then lost my interesting...
Yeh, looking for different 'surprise' to myself... Hahahah
Ever consider "2 sides of the same coin". Might she be bored with YOU? That's the trouble with the methodology here, MP or brothel, 30, 45, 60, 90 minutes sessions are not all that conducive to anything more than sex. Still, you treat her like an orifice, and that's what she'll be. Treat her as a person, and that's what she'll be. Personally, I like people. Orifices all basically look the same.

CarpetJam
06-02-2024, 01:10 AM
Ever consider "2 sides of the same coin". Might she be bored with YOU? That's the trouble with the methodology here, MP or brothel, 30, 45, 60, 90 minutes sessions are not all that conducive to anything more than sex. Still, you treat her like an orifice, and that's what she'll be. Treat her as a person, and that's what she'll be. Personally, I like people. Orifices all basically look the same.

would ya put a finger in any orfice????

Veets
06-02-2024, 06:19 AM
Two girls really captured my repetitive interest too see them 6 or 7 times spread out over a couple of years is the most!
One girl sadly left the industry and the other got repetitive as soon as the hot mutual chemistry wasn’t being pushed more with each visit and personal barriers were erected

schloong
06-02-2024, 06:46 AM
Ever consider "2 sides of the same coin". Might she be bored with YOU? That's the trouble with the methodology here, MP or brothel, 30, 45, 60, 90 minutes sessions are not all that conducive to anything more than sex. Still, you treat her like an orifice, and that's what she'll be. Treat her as a person, and that's what she'll be. Personally, I like people. Orifices all basically look the same.

Very well stated Bro...

Onehunglo
06-02-2024, 10:34 AM
It's interesting to see how others cope with the same girl on a consecutive or semi-regular basis. The ML I was seeing until she went on a holiday started out only offering a NHJ, but after the second visit she started to ramp up Pt.2 with variety, but at the same $ rate. Since the initial visit she has introduced, unlimited hands on, prostate massage, CBJ, BBBJ and more recently DATY. Pt. 3 has been discussed but for her it is off limits. I'm keen to see what else she has thought of during her holiday, or if she regresses to more standard fare. Her temporary replacement has offered Pt.3 at a standard fee, but she just does not have a body shape I'm interested in [chubby +], so I passed on that one.
There won't be an AR on this one as it's not in Sydney and I have promised her non-disclosure of who/where.

Abracadabra
06-02-2024, 03:30 PM
How did that go down mate? Never positive in my experience. Sad that we want to fuck them less as time goes on, and a bitter pill to swallow for them.

Yeah, nah ....not the best relationship strategy. I didn't quite it but acted and played it out!

Very true what you say as time passes and our desire wanes and our eyes wander... it is sad.

Abracadabra
06-02-2024, 03:44 PM
23 times over a relatively short period !
Ginza J girl who pushed every button I had and those I didn't know I had.
Cross between pure addiction and plain stupidity.
Experience waxed and waned a little after a while occasionally , but I kept returning with no regrets overall.

ThunderPunter
06-02-2024, 07:31 PM
I try and have a new girl everytime, ive never found the need to go back to the same girl.

ColesBag
06-02-2024, 10:00 PM
How did that go down mate? Never positive in my experience. Sad that we want to fuck them less as time goes on, and a bitter pill to swallow for them.

That's why sexual variety with different women is essential for a man, without her knowing of course if you're in a strictly monogamous relationship & I also don't even mention w/l's or m/l's if they ask about other ones that I see. I find a good answer is " I don't do this very often " which sort of answers the question without answering it.

woodland
06-02-2024, 10:23 PM
There's been a few girls I have seen 5+ times

Mr Fugly
07-02-2024, 02:16 AM
I love seeing the same girls again... my list:
K Rebecca - 4 years - over 100+ sessions
K Ari - 2 years - 30+ sessions
K Jessie - 2 years - 10+ sessions
K Misha - 2 years - 10+ sessions
J Kawaii/Karen - 3 years - 30+ sessions

.... and the list goes on..

Migala
07-02-2024, 03:17 AM
I lost the count. It was from May 2023 to January 2024 on a weekly basis and sometimes twice or three times a week for more than one hour to two hours

nin3
07-02-2024, 01:08 PM
I try to keep it to 1-3 visits. The novel factor quickly fades away after that but a few exceptional and vfm ladies I’ve ended up seeing up to 5 times though.

bummer
07-02-2024, 02:27 PM
Ah, variety is the spice of life...

I used to weekly visit a non-rnt for treatment of a recurring issue.
Initial visit, suggest remove undies to avoid oil, and towel then used.
After the 4th visit, TT started whilst face down..
after 6th visit, TT whilst face up started.
8th visit, no towel and free ball rub.
10th visit, free HJ.
12th visit, free CBJ
Now remember, this was a normal non-rnt. so how did it get this far ? simply because operator was bored and want to press limits.

Now for the next 6 month instead of going into the shop I went to her private residence, still claiming benefits, but we had BBBJ, CFS, then BBFS, then basically she wanted to progress thru https://sexpositions.club/ and more...

We I still see her occasionally, but nowhere as regular, because it got a bit boring.... and she now has a husband to work thru his book with...