Caught !

[nice-pundi]

How many of you have been caught out by your spouse's and how did you get out of it

[BrisbaneMassageLover]

How have you been caught? She physically saw you,.saw messages? You brought back an infection?
Need more details
If she knows what you have been doing, and you got caught physically then not much you can do.

[CumShot]

If you have been caught then the only path is complete capitulation.

Be prepared for How did it happen? Do you love her? When did you meet? What did you do? Did you use Condoms etc etc

Assuming you are a decent chap and worth staying married to, then just take the pain and in a few months you'll be back.

I've been married 20 years since I was last caught and that wasn't the first time in marraige, I've just gotten smarter,

[Bed Wrecker]

If you have been caught then the only path is complete capitulation.

Be prepared for How did it happen? Do you love her? When did you meet? What did you do? Did you use Condoms etc etc

Assuming you are a decent chap and worth staying married to, then just take the pain and in a few months you'll be back.

I've been married 20 years since I was last caught and that wasn't the first time in marraige, I've just gotten smarter,
Au contraire mon frère
Create doubt if there can be any. Deny everything.
Even if she catches you in the act.

How dare you accuse me of xxxx? i’ve been the perfect partner to you.
Storm out and buy yourself some thinking time.

[RLC]

What would be more interesting was if a guy did a sneaky dash to the local parlour behind his Mrs’ back only to find his Mrs was working there as a side job unbeknownst to him.

[maxa]

"What would be more interesting was if a guy did a sneaky dash to the local parlour behind his Mrs’ back only to find his Mrs was working there as a side job unbeknownst to him."

I hope it doesn't happen to anyone here, but love to see this in AV.

Totally agree with BumShot, be smarter next time.

[Massage hunter]

"What would be more interesting was if a guy did a sneaky dash to the local parlour behind his Mrs’ back only to find his Mrs was working there as a side job unbeknownst to him."

I hope it doesn't happen to anyone here, but love to see this in AV.

Totally agree with BumShot, be smarter next time.

It's happened in AV a lot assuming we are both talking about the same AV

[Brissy Boy]

How many of you have been caught out by your spouse's and how did you get out of it

As many punters mentioned, it depends on situation. If you have a wife / partner / GF /BF, and if you are seeing MLs / WLs / FWBs, yes there is a chance to get caught.

But denying everything is not a wise way to do it especially if you are caught red handed. That will lead you to losing half of everything you own. Denying everything will prove that you are a cheater, liar and beyond help. Being proactive is a better way. Even after that, if you got caught, face the music.

[CumShot]

Au contraire mon frère
Create doubt if there can be any. Deny everything.
Even if she catches you in the act.
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I'm interested if that has worked for you? In my example I've used it in real life and still living the globe trotting punter's dream.

[Puntersclub]

I regularly go for a massage, never been questioned by any partner. It’s just a massage. Although one asked about happy endings and wanted to watch and if there were happy endings for girls.

[thunderdome]

I regularly go for a massage, never been questioned by any partner. It’s just a massage. Although one asked about happy endings and wanted to watch and if there were happy endings for girls.

What did U tell her? I hope U told her there's sad endings too haha. If U are going to legit shops in a shopping centre that's fine. But other shops it's pretty obvious to most people I think.

[CarpetJam]

Shopping shopping and more shopping

[Puntersclub]

What did U tell her? I hope U told her there's sad endings too haha. If U are going to legit shops in a shopping centre that's fine. But other shops it's pretty obvious to most people I think.

i told her I’d ask around. It’s horses for courses, if they feel secure in the relationship and are open minded in the bedroom they do not mind you getting a hj. Everyone of my handful of threesomes has been organised by a girlfriend, so a massage is tame in comparison.

[massage addict]

Its just a massage with a handy you have to do something after she stopped putting out regularly

[4FoW2]

Never been caught but I'm sure she knows. I am in a very enviable position. She is Asian and loves me to death. She lets me travel and even encourages me and yes I go to Thailand, Philippines, etc . She's not dumb and seems to have an Asian mindset of " as long as he comes home to me every night then its ok" In her home country many older men have mistresses and this is quite common. BTW she isn't a kept woman and has a job in middle management in a multinational company. She contributes.
One thing I do not do is shove it in her face, I'm very discrete. I've often said if one day she came to me and said give up the mongering I would. She's a keeper for life.
Do I feel guilty - sometimes a little - but I love her, the "others" are just a recreational pursuit. Flame me if you wish.

My advice is read the situation very carefully with your spouse/gf. Most Aussie/ Western girls will not have a bar of it. Women are so good at detecting the presence or previous presence of another women. Unless you are actually caught in the act, and only a dumb ass would put himself in that situation then deny deny deny. As we all know - massage shops are just that - massage shops, nudge nudge wink wink say no more , say no more ( for all the MP fans)
4FoW2

[Nick007]

Asian girls are well superior than western girls in my personal view.
Enjoy your freedom but when you are hook, stay hook

[4FoW2]

WTF is hook? A prostitute ?
4FoW2

[Fitch]

Never been caught but I'm sure she knows. I am in a very enviable position. She is Asian and loves me to death. She lets me travel and even encourages me and yes I go to Thailand, Philippines, etc . She's not dumb and seems to have an Asian mindset of " as long as he comes home to me every night then its ok" In her home country many older men have mistresses and this is quite common. BTW she isn't a kept woman and has a job in middle management in a multinational company. She contributes.
One thing I do not do is shove it in her face, I'm very discrete. I've often said if one day she came to me and said give up the mongering I would. She's a keeper for life.
Do I feel guilty - sometimes a little - but I love her, the "others" are just a recreational pursuit. Flame me if you wish.

My advice is read the situation very carefully with your spouse/gf. Most Aussie/ Western girls will not have a bar of it. Women are so good at detecting the presence or previous presence of another women. Unless you are actually caught in the act, and only a dumb ass would put himself in that situation then deny deny deny. As we all know - massage shops are just that - massage shops, nudge nudge wink wink say no more , say no more ( for all the MP fans)
4FoW2

No flames. Very similar situation for myself.

[Raven Mad]

"What would be more interesting was if a guy did a sneaky dash to the local parlour behind his Mrs’ back only to find his Mrs was working there as a side job unbeknownst to him."

I hope it doesn't happen to anyone here, but love to see this in AV.

Totally agree with BumShot, be smarter next time.

Do know of someone who got busted at a brothel, his wife's best friend was working there and he booked her! Bet that would have been something to see.

Raven

[funinqld]

Just out of curiosity for the guys that are seeking a bit of fun outside and get caught or don't get court.
Have you ever chatted to your partner about swinging or open relationships? just wondering if thats something that guys have tried and it hasnt worked etc

[RLC]

Do know of someone who got busted at a brothel, his wife's best friend was working there and he booked her! Bet that would have been something to see.

Raven

Not that exact situation but a mate of mine one of his mates found his ex working in a brothel. They had only broken up about 2 weeks prior. Poor guy took it hard and went on a bender that ended with him being done for dd.

[funinqld]

That sux to find out that.

[Johnny Apples]

Not that exact situation but a mate of mine one of his mates found his ex working in a brothel. They had only broken up about 2 weeks prior. Poor guy took it hard and went on a bender that ended with him being done for dd.

I’d be angry for 20 seconds then I’d make her tell me all the stories while I jerked myself unconscious lol

[4FoW2]

Speaking about meeting people in brothels - Did some work in a mining town, over the fence was a 15 year old schoolgirl lass who had a body and hair like Samantha Fox. She used to wear those short sport skirts and white blouse. Spoke to her a couple of times but obviously optics were all that was available. Was walking to a room with another lady upstairs at Players about 2/3 years later and recognized a voice. Did the session and then waited downstairs. OMG it was her - now as I said 2/3 years later - had to be under 20 and hadn't she bloomed. Sufficient to say she was booked solidly most nights but I did get some sessions with her. She wasn't phased at all and did recognize me . She didn't last long - pretty sure she got snapped up. Talk about sex on a stick. Ahhhh the memories.
4FoW2

[funinqld]

I’d be angry for 20 seconds then I’d make her tell me all the stories while I jerked myself unconscious lol

lmao.....yep thats try and then ask why you will do this for a stranger and not for me....and how much lol