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BearOrigin
27-02-2024, 07:45 PM
https://nypost.com/2022/02/11/the-scientific-reason-why-so-many-men-fall-asleep-after-sex/

Prolactin seems to be the culprit that makes us men fall asleep right after ejaculating.

In other research on women's orgasm, it seems that the same hormone is also responsible for women's ability to have an orgasm.

https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/abs/pii/S1743609515303544#:~:text=Prolactin%20levels%20pos t%20orgasm%20increased,in%20FSH%20or%20free%20test osterone.


All couples had sexual intercourse within the given time frame. Of the nine investigated women, five reported having one orgasm, and two reported having two orgasms during intercourse. The length of total sexual activity was 38.2 minutes (±14.9) on average.

I guess if the couples are long term not ML/WL/SB you can try lasting 40 minutes to satisfy your female partner, and hopefully they release enough prolactin to fall asleep in your arms.

In past relationships I have never dated anyone where sex lasts more than 15-20 minutes or where they experienced orgasm before. To be fair most of them had never masturbated in their whole life so they probably didn't even know what an orgasm is supposed to feel like. I suspected my regular from last year came a few times since we started doing FS (her pussy and leg contractions were giveaway) but she always tells me that she never came - couldn't tell if she was saying the truth or just joking but she did say she felt good after sex.

I also wonder if she feels tired right after FS. In that case I don't feel bad for being her final customer every session.

Have any of you guys witnessed an actual female orgasm before? Not the one where they're trying to inflate your ego so that you come back for more.

dr3w
27-02-2024, 08:32 PM
the one where it feels like she's almost having a seizure? not as dramatic but I can't think of the word. Not sure if she's faking it

BearOrigin
27-02-2024, 10:08 PM
the one where it feels like she's almost having a seizure? not as dramatic but I can't think of the word. Not sure if she's faking it

Spasms is probably the word you're looking for. If they experience actual orgasms often you can see it in their expressions. They won't tell you but towards the spasms they'll make you stimulate the same spot or ask you to keep the pace of your penetration. Often they would try to hide certain facial expressions or moans.

ReginaldBubbles
27-02-2024, 11:06 PM
I've had my cock actually pushed out of a pussy at times by intense contractions. Not common but can happen.

ReginaldBubbles
27-02-2024, 11:24 PM
I also don't feel sleepy after sex, more like my mind is clear and can get some other stuff done while gf is asleep.

schloong
28-02-2024, 06:55 AM
My regular often has multiple 'O's and really feels sleepy after one of our extended sessions...

BearOrigin
28-02-2024, 04:55 PM
My regular often has multiple 'O's and really feels sleepy after one of our extended sessions...

How many O's can she achieve within an hour?

According to some other research, the amount of prolactin released during orgasm depends on whether it's through sex or masturbation. Masturbation doesn't release much but sex releases a significant amount enough to de-stress a person.

In women expecting to get pregnant, prolactin signals the body to create lactate in their milking glands. Apparently sucking on a woman's nipple during foreplay stimulates prolactin as well. In this case, making your wife sexually satisfied before making her pregnant may have lots of benefits for her health and post pregnancy. This is also why they say sex during pregnancy is good for the expecting mother.

ColesBag
28-02-2024, 07:18 PM
I've had my cock actually pushed out of a pussy at times by intense contractions. Not common but can happen.

An ex of mine that happened all the time. Even if I was balls deep it was so intense it flung me out easily whilst she was shaking all over. Man she was a good fuck but a fucking fruitloop. Shame.

BearOrigin
28-02-2024, 07:28 PM
I've had my cock actually pushed out of a pussy at times by intense contractions. Not common but can happen.

Other than my last year's regular I never had any other girls cum while I'm inside them. But I had one girl who had really strong Kegels (she also offers anal to guys with smaller dicks) and while attempting to get me to cum by squeezing my dick hard, she squeezed a little too hard my dick got pushed out. Had to pound her deeper just so that it doesn't get pushed out.

Never found anyone like that ever since. J Anna from 42G does pussy squeeze but not as hard and her orgasms are mostly faked but for most of her customers that is probably a selling point for her expensive rate of $350/hr in a shop not private. That and she does excellent BBBJ with CIM finish.

rooter
28-02-2024, 07:29 PM
Damn! That's so scientific, Takes the romance out of it all

BearOrigin
28-02-2024, 11:52 PM
Damn! That's so scientific, Takes the romance out of it all

The science only explains the physical aspects of it. The emotional part is something we have to experience for ourselves. Having a wank from watching porn isn't enough to secrete enough prolactin to feel good and that's why we need more sex.

If a woman experiences really good sex from her partner there's a good chance she'll keep giving even during her period. Otherwise you'll end up with a wife or gf who thinks that sex is a tool to turn their partners into pussywhipped simps because she's never experienced orgasm before. Making her cum is like showing her a whole new world she's never explored before in her entire life.

ReginaldBubbles
29-02-2024, 12:06 AM
If a woman experiences really good sex from her partner there's a good chance she'll keep giving even during her period. Otherwise you'll end up with a wife or gf who thinks that sex is a tool to turn their partners into pussywhipped simps because she's never experienced orgasm before. Making her cum is like showing her a whole new world she's never explored before in her entire life.

Lol, that’s a really weird perspective. Give her pleasure for your own benefit, not her’s!

BearOrigin
29-02-2024, 12:32 AM
Lol, that’s a really weird perspective. Give her pleasure for your own benefit, not her’s!

Unless they don't like being stimulated, some girls really enjoy a man giving them pleasure.

ingridguerci94
05-03-2024, 08:49 PM
According to health experts, as soon as a man reaches orgasm, his body chemistry changes. This happens when the biochemical prolactin is released, it makes him tired and he tends to sleep after an intimate session.
The same thing also happens when men watch porn and masturbate (https://phima1a.com/).

Timeis629
06-03-2024, 07:19 PM
Simplest explanation is that you are fucked and sometimes totally fucked - of course you’re tired.

themort
06-03-2024, 11:54 PM
Man you guys don't get it but it's so simple, when you lay back your balls cover your asshole and you vapour lock.

Jackk
10-03-2024, 12:18 PM
Your body has to recover

schloong
11-03-2024, 07:20 AM
An ex of mine that happened all the time. Even if I was balls deep it was so intense it flung me out easily whilst she was shaking all over. Man she was a good fuck but a fucking fruitloop. Shame.

Spot on mate! One of my exe's years ago was a mad root but on another planet at times!