How do you deal with Bad Punts

[justforfun2023]

Was looking forward to a great session tonight but it turned out to be a bad punt and i am still thinking about it which makes me upset, my mood is terrible & perhaps i wont even sleep good tonight...

We go punting for many reasons whether it is so relieve stress , forget about worldy affairs , feel loved etc but ultimately it is to have a good time and to relieve that fantastic experience over but
is also true for bad sessions, thinking about it just makes me mad.

Yeah it happens, I understand not every WL is a unicorn and will deliver outstanding service but it is why i read up on ARs beforehand to avoid shit like this happening.

A bad punt can make your already bad mood 10x worse, relieving that experience over is shitty.

cant stop thinking about it on my drive back home...

Feedback already passed on to the shop

Thoughts?

[SmithChips]

Go for another punt if your body allows?

Don't get so emotional. At least it's just a bad punt, it's not a bad wife who is going to take half of your assets.

[justforfun2023]

At least it's just a bad punt, it's not a bad wife who is going to take half of your assets.

true...haha made me chuckle thanks

[Markus24777]

Happened to me today the session was actually great but the thing that ticked me off is i didn't cum!!! Was so annoyed i punted again and that experience was worse than the first :(

At the end of the day as you mentioned we do it for various reasons, at least now you know what is not good so can always look elsewhere for something better :)

[Ziggurat]

..We go punting for many reasons whether it is so relieve stress , forget about worldy affairs , feel loved etc but ultimately it is to have a good time and to relieve that fantastic experience over but
is also true for bad sessions, thinking about it just makes me mad.

Tell us specifically what went wrong in the session please.

[imaragingbull]

I reckon just have a deep breath, be thankful that you are the position that you are in, and do your best to be empathetic that your personal situation is more than likely far better than the provider that you saw. It is a super tough job, and they must be at breaking point every now and again (or gritting their teeth to get through it)

Don’t let this hobby consume you is my other advice

[Kiki kong]

I get annoyed and don't punt for about -3 weeks then I get tempted AGAIN to go make a visit to a different shop after seeing a new girl in the roster. I get more annoyed about loosing hard earned mulla rather than time wasted. Punting is punting similarly just like life, don't waste so much time on the past and just move on to other shops that hopefully cab fullfil your expectations.

[kpopcity]

Was looking forward to a great session tonight but it turned out to be a bad punt and i am still thinking about it which makes me upset, my mood is terrible & perhaps i wont even sleep good tonight...

We go punting for many reasons whether it is so relieve stress , forget about worldy affairs , feel loved etc but ultimately it is to have a good time and to relieve that fantastic experience over but
is also true for bad sessions, thinking about it just makes me mad.

Yeah it happens, I understand not every WL is a unicorn and will deliver outstanding service but it is why i read up on ARs beforehand to avoid shit like this happening.

A bad punt can make your already bad mood 10x worse, relieving that experience over is shitty.

cant stop thinking about it on my drive back home...

Feedback already passed on to the shop

Thoughts?

Look at the bright side - we are currently in a cost of living crisis and many families are barely able to put a roof over their heads and food on the table. And you are one of the lucky ones who able to fork out a lot of cash on a consistent basis to have sex with beautiful women.

A punt is exactly that, a punt - sometimes you win, sometimes you lose.

[GoldfishMan]

How I deal with it... I go home, take a hot shower, then curl up in the foetal position and have a good cry.

Lol, joking... I'm like Kiki Kong, it usually puts me off punting for some time, how long depends on how it came about.

If it was a true punt on a girl I picked out of the blue without any research, it's just water off a duck's back. I'm back on the saddle within days.

If it happened based on rave reviews, it can put me off punting again a lot longer. The prevailing thought would be something along the lines of "if this is the best girl out there, what's the point of trying others?".

[schloong]

I feel for you Bro, but just think that your next punt may be memorable for all the right reasons and all would be good in the world again. This one bad punt would then be consigned to the "experience - never to repeat" bin. Hang in there mate...

[justforfun2023]

Tell us specifically what went wrong in the session please.

Literally like fucking a doll, no expression...plain face Jane. she did not enjoy it.

First thing in the room, checks her phone for a few mins.

BBBJ literally spat saliva on my cock. Worst BBBJ if you can even call it that of my life.

When I entered her pussy, picks up phone and starts checking it...wtf

I always treat girls with respect, good hygiene, no foul mood and open to banter.

[andrewv]

Literally like fucking a doll, no expression...plain face Jane. she did not enjoy it.

First thing in the room, checks her phone for a few mins.

BBBJ literally spat saliva on my cock. Worst BBBJ if you can even call it that of my life.

When I entered her pussy, picks up phone and starts checking it...wtf

I always treat girls with respect, good hygiene, no foul mood and open to banter.

Unfortunately, you described the reality of the game.

There is not one prostitute (you fellas politely call them WL!) who wakes up every morning and says, “today, I am looking forward to helping 10 to 15 men become excited and sexually satisfied in exchange for money. In the same way I did it to 200 different men in the last 2 to 3 weeks.”

Women never ever work in this field for any reason other than to make big $$$ else they’d stack shelves at Coles.

Some are good at acting/pretending while others can’t hide their body language that says we’re a bunch of losers needing to pay $$$ for sex.

All else is bullshit. Sorry to bring this unfortunate reality of punting into focus.

It’s why I roll my eyes when I read about punters here gloating about making WL reach orgasm and/or squirt.

Now, I will see the objections to my reality-check comments flood in reply…..

[BigPedro666]

Bad punts are part of the game, but if you can get some regulars you tend to find they treat you better, whether it's a shop or a private. Regular cash.

[limbi8888]

Certainly can attest to that - you may loose 85% like me.....
Take it as a learning experience and move on, there are always better ones to be had



Go for another punt if your body allows?

Don't get so emotional. At least it's just a bad punt, it's not a bad wife who is going to take half of your assets.

[gamer2]

Bad punt? Jump on the PC/XBOX/PS5, smash out a few games, have a beer, have a wank then maybe another punt if youre not tired. Better yet, all at once if you can.

[T1ooo]

like the old saying goes, you just have to "get back on the whorse again"

[nosytt]

The same way I treat a bad pizza, I get another one.

[Grissle Piston]

The same way I treat a bad pizza, I get another one.

Ha..
Sex is like pizza.
Even if it's bad it's still pretty good.

[Farkersfolly]

A Bad punt...
We don't Click
My expectation not met
The Shop...
These days I just move on

[Kiryu0]

I try to forget about the bad punt, then in a few days I find my regular for a better punt.

[CFH]

i don't go back...not for a while anyway. i try some other place next time.

[dotcumdotinyou]

Happened to me at 7 cowper, I wrote an AR about it. I'm balls deep fucking and she had pods in and was talking to someone. Haven't gone back since.

[gco0307]

To me a lot depends on why I feel it was a dud punt.
Yes, I will often review in my head aspects as there are times when it may be a dud because of me and not the lady involved. Was I really wanting to go and have the fun or was it just something to kill time type of thought?
For me, if the dud aspect was no connection that is a 2 way street as while yes, the lady has a level of responsibility to try to connect and make the time pleasant, I also have the responsibility to be receptive and try to return teh connection attempts. Sometimes it works and build, sometimes ti does not and when that occurs I have to accept level of blame and so I may pass on that lady but not the place.

However, where the atmoshpere or the place itself is the issue, I will often pass totally for any other visist but remembering that it is a single shop, sometimes sister shops are not the same level of issue so I may try a sister shop.

[GoldfishMan]

Unfortunately, you described the reality of the game.

There is not one prostitute (you fellas politely call them WL!) who wakes up every morning and says, “today, I am looking forward to helping 10 to 15 men become excited and sexually satisfied in exchange for money. In the same way I did it to 200 different men in the last 2 to 3 weeks.”

Women never ever work in this field for any reason other than to make big $$$ else they’d stack shelves at Coles.

Some are good at acting/pretending while others can’t hide their body language that says we’re a bunch of losers needing to pay $$$ for sex.

All else is bullshit. Sorry to bring this unfortunate reality of punting into focus.

It’s why I roll my eyes when I read about punters here gloating about making WL reach orgasm and/or squirt.

Now, I will see the objections to my reality-check comments flood in reply…..

Being polite? No bro, I just prefer to type 2 characters vs typing out 10 characters that my spell check would probably autocorrect to something else for PC reasons. You thinking too much, bro.

[andrewv]

Being polite? No bro, I just prefer to type 2 characters vs typing out 10 characters that my spell check would probably autocorrect to something else for PC reasons. You thinking too much, bro.

At the risk of revealing too much, I suggest you talk to some prostitute without them knowing that you're a punter. Only then do they reveal the awful truth. Going out on a date with them does not count. Maybe pretend that you are the owner of a shop and looking to recruit them. I rest my case. If you find one hooker who tells you that she wakes up in the morning looking forward to pleasuring men for money, let me know and introduce her, and I'll pay you $1,000.

[Double_Adapter]

Ha..
Sex is like pizza.
Even if it's bad it's still pretty good.

I was about to say a bad punt is one were you get an STD/STI
So the equivalent would be like eating a dodgy pizza and vomiting and shitting diarrhoea for the next 3 days.

Having said that, it still won't stop people from eating pizza. So yeah, pizza is like sex.

[Umitabi]

Move on and don’t think much about it

[GoldfishMan]

At the risk of revealing too much, I suggest you talk to some prostitute without them knowing that you're a punter. Only then do they reveal the awful truth. Going out on a date with them does not count. Maybe pretend that you are the owner of a shop and looking to recruit them. I rest my case. If you find one hooker who tells you that she wakes up in the morning looking forward to pleasuring men for money, let me know and introduce her, and I'll pay you $1,000.

Nah, I don’t need them to like sucking every dick that comes her way, I just need her to like sucking my dick. Why would I care what she thinks about other dicks?


And I’ll add, I know why most peeps here love to generalise girls. Just because one WG was money grubbing means every WG will be money grubbing. Oh, just because she’ll love one punter means she’ll love all of us. That kind of thinking only shows that you’ve never actually been in a real relationship with a girl. Every one of them are different… ok?

One ex-GF of mine loved branded clothes, the next one loves gold doesn’t give a shit about branded clothes. One loves sit down talks, the other just wants to fuck no talking. What’s the point of generalising?

[11Bravo]

Was looking forward to a great session tonight but it turned out to be a bad punt and i am still thinking about it which makes me upset, my mood is terrible & perhaps i wont even sleep good tonight...

We go punting for many reasons whether it is so relieve stress , forget about worldy affairs , feel loved etc but ultimately it is to have a good time and to relieve that fantastic experience over but
is also true for bad sessions, thinking about it just makes me mad.

Yeah it happens, I understand not every WL is a unicorn and will deliver outstanding service but it is why i read up on ARs beforehand to avoid shit like this happening.

A bad punt can make your already bad mood 10x worse, relieving that experience over is shitty.

cant stop thinking about it on my drive back home...

Feedback already passed on to the shop

Thoughts?
Disappointment: the difference between your fantasy and reality

How old are you anyway?

If your life is so short that 60 minutes not living up to YOUR expectations and you can't sleep? You have bigger problems than a bad punt.

If your mood is so altered by 60 minutes not living up to YOUR expectations? Get another hobby. IME, better chance of success at a punt than at the slot machines (or any casino gambling).

If your outlook is so altered by 60 minutes not living up to YOUR expectations? Who the hell are you? You think the world owes you something? Definition of entitled.

Rather than looking inward at your misery, try, FOR ONCE, looking outward and see how good you have it if you can afford to punt.

You probably think you've met HER expectations on every punt, but I definitely agree with andrewv on this one.

You read the AR's and she didn't deliver? You really should understand YMMV.

She spat on your cock? Try watching a bit more Japanese porn. She was on her phone? Really? Maybe she didn't realize you'd penetrated her... obviously bored... You obviously have trouble reading a room. Myself, I don't lose the power of speech when I'm connected so a simple caution about any phone use on that rare occasion sufficient. Maybe you just didn't have that genuine punter aura...

Where I come from, you're known as a cry baby. Get a life. Geesh.

[justforfun2023]

Disappointment: the difference between your fantasy and reality

How old are you anyway?

If your life is so short that 60 minutes not living up to YOUR expectations and you can't sleep? You have bigger problems than a bad punt.

If your mood is so altered by 60 minutes not living up to YOUR expectations? Get another hobby. IME, better chance of success at a punt than at the slot machines (or any casino gambling).

If your outlook is so altered by 60 minutes not living up to YOUR expectations? Who the hell are you? You think the world owes you something? Definition of entitled.

Rather than looking inward at your misery, try, FOR ONCE, looking outward and see how good you have it if you can afford to punt.

You probably think you've met HER expectations on every punt, but I definitely agree with andrewv on this one.

You read the AR's and she didn't deliver? You really should understand YMMV.

She spat on your cock? Try watching a bit more Japanese porn. She was on her phone? Really? Maybe she didn't realize you'd penetrated her... obviously bored... You obviously have trouble reading a room. Myself, I don't lose the power of speech when I'm connected so a simple caution about any phone use on that rare occasion sufficient. Maybe you just didn't have that genuine punter aura...

Where I come from, you're known as a cry baby. Get a life. Geesh.

Thanks for the reality check, I appreciate your harsh comment

[wilisno]

Thanks for the reality check, I appreciate your harsh comment

In short, punting is just for fun, no need to get too wound up about a bad punt, you’ll get more good punts in 2024.

[Timeis629]

Look until you find the good ones - called experience

[Axeman123]

Learn how to turn it your way. Create something from nothing. Therein lies the challenge.

[scorpio85]

This. Live and learn. I had 2 bad experiences with 2 different girls at the same shop. Despite others having good times with these girls at this shop, I didn't and left feeling ripped off and a little disappointed. Was it the end of the world? No. Was I pissed off? No.
I've moved on and forgotted about that place and found a place where I have had nothing but good experiences and I just stick to going there from now on.

[11Bravo]

This. Live and learn. I had 2 bad experiences with 2 different girls at the same shop. Despite others having good times with these girls at this shop, I didn't and left feeling ripped off and a little disappointed. Was it the end of the world? No. Was I pissed off? No.
I've moved on and forgotted about that place and found a place where I have had nothing but good experiences and I just stick to going there from now on.

Proving the validity of YMMV. And the value of personal experiences. Accept no substitutes... well done.

[ColesBag]

The same way I treat a bad pizza, I get another one.

Pretty much. These dopey W/L's & M/L's who give bad service should remember that the object of sales ( i.e your body ) is to much sure the customer comes back again.

I've had the check phone thing whilst fucking also so I just never go there again. She loses income & I never look back.

[GoldfishMan]

FMD checking the phone while you're fucking her. Rotten luck to meet a girl like that. I wouldn't wish that on my worst enemy!

[rooter]

FMD checking the phone while you're fucking her. Rotten luck to meet a girl like that. I wouldn't wish that on my worst enemy!

Well it's possible she was going straight onto all her socials to tell the world what an amazing fuck this guy is.
It's the Insta, Tik Tok generation.

[ColesBag]

Well it's possible she was going straight onto all her socials to tell the world what an amazing fuck this guy is.

I laughed at this I have to say. Who knows, maybe she was expecting a very important call.

[JJBlows]

Dealing with it is easy, either don't go back to shop or if shop good and girl bad, just tell the manager straight up that the girl is a shit root.

[personaa]

Bad punts are part of the game and they are needed every now and then because they make good punts stand out. If you were happy everyday then being happy would have no meaning. Sadness is what makes being happy (and not happiness) meaningful.

[Pionier]

I think of it like a loss on the stock market. Just write it off in my mind.

[ColesBag]

I had a bad punt here recently. I can deal with it by warning other people.

https://sydney.locanto.com.au/ID_6749678366/Incall-Outcall-Deep-relaxing-full-body-good-body-rub-massage.html

I didn't expect her to be 25 but 45 year Japanese named Suki with flabby tits, flabby arse, flabby gut & zero massage was a bit much. Wanted 50 for BBBJ & 100 for FS. Yeah, nah.

Oh well live & learn.

[Johny77]

I haven’t had many punts. That being said, it’s been a mixed bag for me. A couple not so good and mainly due to my experience not living up to the review/s. How did I deal with it? I walked away with the knowledge of who not to see again. No point sitting there, complaining, trying to extract an experience similar to the reviews on the said girl. Sometimes you gel, sometimes you don’t.

You quickly learn what is meant by the abbreviation ‘YMMV’.

If it is a really bad punt and the girl has not provided the services you paid for, I would probably have a chat with the boss. Not much else you can do.

[Veets]

Live and learn my friend ask all the questions to avoid any disappointment

[faruk]

Leave a review here so other brothers can avoid the same fate.

[Sammael]

I’d treat the money I paid as a gift.

Just write it off. Easy.

Hopefully it’d bring them some happiness and no doubt they need it more than I do. They’re the ones sucking cock for a living and we are the ones ramming it down their throats. They deserve some slack, but not where it counts between their legs of course… that always must be tight.


I don’t waste my time on negative thoughts so why would I ever worry about a bad punt?

[Elbandit0]

I think almost same with everyone, avoid the place for awhile maybe cool down a bit and look at the brighter side then enjoy the next one or two maybe three :)

[T1ooo]

only a great punt can cure a bad punt!

i also torch them with a bad review - more so the punter dont have to get burnt.

[woodland]

bad reviews are worth at least two good ones

[Asiandaddy]

Punting in a newly visited shop or new girl is like Gambling. Once you put a pineapple or 2 into the slots. Consider it goneeeee. You win some and you loose some. Luckily certain slot/slut machines pay out well, and your guaranteed a win.

[T1ooo]

Punting in a newly visited shop or new girl is like Gambling. Once you put a pineapple or 2 into the slots. Consider it goneeeee. You win some and you loose some. Luckily certain slot/slut machines pay out well, and your guaranteed a win.

And hopefully you listen to punters who wite here which slots are paying off jackpots constantly.

[Double_Adapter]

Some thought provoking dialogue....so blokes who jerk off to paid porn would be the equivalent of online pokies/slots

[Asiandaddy]

Some thought provoking dialogue....so blokes who jerk off to paid porn would be the equivalent of online pokies/slots

Same direction different lane. Some prefer being able to touch, taste and smell their winnings/experience. Whilst others are totally fine receiving it from behind the a computer screen and blowing their load into their stomach.

[T1ooo]

Same direction different lane. Some prefer being able to touch, taste and smell their winnings/experience. Whilst others are totally fine receiving it from behind the a computer screen and blowing their load into their stomach.

Aweee.. do i have to chose? I like both tbh....

[HardCore]

I just back up again at a different shop, I like to end the day on a positive so double down. It can't get worse case you've had a dud and two duds is still a dud, so the only way is up. Go well.

[11Bravo]

For me, there's always tomorrow. And if not, well, a bad punt will be the least of your worries.

[bookshelf69]

Life's rough and they're human. Too many variables to present your best self all the time. Hopefully it doesn't happen too often.

[GoldfishMan]

One way NOT to deal with it is to go on a stabbing rampage in a Westfield...

[Vader]

One way NOT to deal with it is to go on a stabbing rampage in a Westfield...

What a moronic statement.......

[11Bravo]

One way NOT to deal with it is to go on a stabbing rampage in a Westfield...Too soon, too soon

[GoldfishMan]

Too soon, too soon

If you're trying to imply that I was making light of the tragic events that occurred on Saturday, you are mistaken.

The perpetrator, as far as we can tell at this stage, was driven by nothing but mental illness. No ideology or terrorism, just plain crazy.

Now look at how many crazies we have in this here forum. Without needing to expend any effort at all, I can name 3 distinct individuals CLEARLY having serious mental issues that frequent here. Hayabi at the top of the list, of course. Sibon, 100% sure he's a different person, equally as cuckoo as number 1. #3, look no further than the guy who posted on this thread just before you, Vader. Troll supreme who ONLY posts negative barbs at forummers whenever he sees a good opportunity to do so (not to mention, has a fantasy about running an ultra-high end escort agency and renting his pad to the girls.... Lol!).

I'm serious about this. I see mental health or illness as a major issue, the tragic events on Saturday as really preventable if people see mental illness as what it really is, and being so close to it on this forum sends a shiver down my spine!

[Vader]

If you're trying to imply that I was making light of the tragic events that occurred on Saturday, you are mistaken.

The perpetrator, as far as we can tell at this stage, was driven by nothing but mental illness. No ideology or terrorism, just plain crazy.

Now look at how many crazies we have in this here forum. Without needing to expend any effort at all, I can name 3 distinct individuals CLEARLY having serious mental issues that frequent here. Hayabi at the top of the list, of course. Sibon, 100% sure he's a different person, equally as cuckoo as number 1. #3, look no further than the guy who posted on this thread just before you, Vader. Troll supreme who ONLY posts negative barbs at forummers whenever he sees a good opportunity to do so (not to mention, has a fantasy about running an ultra-high end escort agency and renting his pad to the girls.... Lol!).

I'm serious about this. I see mental health or illness as a major issue, the tragic events on Saturday as really preventable if people see mental illness as what it really is, and being so close to it on this forum sends a shiver down my spine!

You really need help..... Don't bring others on this forum into this. You said what you said. Please reach out for the help that is available

[Spanky69]

So many biblical references to throw out… I could pontificate and say it’s due to my Christian indoctrination or maybe a past life?

Anyway, “let he who is without sin cast the first stone”.

This forum is just that, a forum. If things are not said in jest then go forth, punt and spread your seed.

I’ve got big balls and they need daily sanctification. I worship at the altar from whence I come. After I’ve been blessed I’m holy again. Religion isn’t a bad thing, is it?

[TJH2]

Just saw an interview of the perpetrator's dad, apparently he targeted women because he was having trouble getting a girlfriend.

[kayofa]

Just saw an interview of the perpetrator's dad, apparently he targeted women because he was having trouble getting a girlfriend.

No problems getting a gf here (his ex spoke out):
https://www.news.com.au/national/knifemans-exgirlfriend-speaks-out-after-bondi-junction-massacre/news-story/be176eba2753384c64ce2679b47107f5?amp

Turns out he's schizophrenic since 17 and have been slowing down on his meds.
https://www.afr.com/politics/who-was-the-bondi-killer-joel-cauchi-20240414-p5fjnn

IMO schizo fits the situation - a bunch of voices telling him to stick his sharp metal dildo into women and anyone who got in his way.

Probably best not to date anyone officially diagnosed as schizophrenic.

[1inchguy]

When I had a bad punt, I put it behind me, putting it as an experience that i won't see them again.
If I didn't get any satisfaction (didn't cum) maybe I'll punt later in the week or perhaps the same day.

[stallionmachine123]

Got duped by a new girl at 6 poplar her photo said 27 made a booking and kid you not looked over 40 and body was out of whack compared to the photo.

100 bucks down the drain I got pissed off so walked out right away.

I think they got rid of her apparently the shop got catfished they say.

[jaquedm1307]

Got duped by a new girl at 6 poplar her photo said 27 made a booking and kid you not looked over 40 and body was out of whack compared to the photo.

100 bucks down the drain I got pissed off so walked out right away.

I think they got rid of her apparently the shop got catfished they say.

Sorry to hear
Know the photos at 14 Burwood can be a little 'earlier years' but I've only ever paid the ML for the shop massage fee & extras in the room after meeting her and discussing menu - have walked a couple of times at no financial loss
Of course then had the search wechat for a replacement but usually with 227NSM - 107 chill - 331 Concord West - 2 Pope so close by no issues

[6Poplar_SurryHills]

Got duped by a new girl at 6 poplar her photo said 27 made a booking and kid you not looked over 40 and body was out of whack compared to the photo.

100 bucks down the drain I got pissed off so walked out right away.

I think they got rid of her apparently the shop got catfished they say.

I apologize for your experience with Luna that day. She is one and done boss. I've made my hiring protocol more stringent and won't be relying on "please trust me it's a similar photo".

I'm still new to game, but still take full responsibility for being careless on this matter. Next week is a new week with new talents landing *that have been screened properly* before getting rostered on.

Regards
Jacob

[woodland]

Bravo Jacob! You should give them a spin beforehand lol.