Sex worker expressions and or issues

[Spanky69]

This thread is to help punters overcome any difficulties or misunderstandings they may experience with a sex worker. Feel free to post any issues you may have and quite possibly a fellow punter may have some words of wisdom to alleviate your problem.

I’ll start with my first issue. I have been told several times lately “you think too much”.

Obviously it’s an expression used in a certain culture. That may well be the case but I don’t go through life without thinking. If everything was left to fate nothing would be achieved. A car needs a driver, a plane a captain and so forth. Without thinking you’d never reach your desired destination.

Obviously “you think too much” means something, but what?

[Spanky69]

You’re right, the one who said that is Thai. I thought it meant I talk too much? I’m the guy who will stand in front of a crowd at a pub and talk, I find it very easy to preach. Their nature is soft not outspoken I know.

You cannot take things as they come. It doesn’t work well in western culture. You’ll never get anywhere. You have to set targets and plan to meet or exceed. Then move onto the next. These women were six month targets. I scored them but what now? Take every day as it comes? Where’s my prayer book…

I’ve just been googling the answers to my first question. There are many, from failures to failures just about covers it. Thinking too much causes failure. Not thinking enough guarantees failure.

This is frustrating. Almost as frustrating as waiting for a response back from txts or messages. Which leads me to another issue.

Response time.

If they have read your message why do they reply so late? It can be 12 hours or longer even. Most people spend 12 hours on their phones a day so surely they see your message pop up on the screen. Considering I should be using pencil and paper or an old Burroughs typewriter I respond quickly, why don’t they?

Yesterday one missed out on lunch due to a late reply. A nice lunch. The other today got the benefit.

[andrewv]

Just don’t believe it when they tell you “you’re so big.”

[Sendmetheacti]

Just don’t believe it when they tell you “you’re so big.”

What?!

They said that to you TOO :(!

[Spanky69]

I only hear them say, “you’re getting bigger”, “getting” being the descriptor.

I’m still trying to fathom out the message delay. Perhaps they go via the cell tower on Alpha Centauri?

[tpol]

You’re right, the one who said that is Thai. I thought it meant I talk too much? I’m the guy who will stand in front of a crowd at a pub and talk, I find it very easy to preach. Their nature is soft not outspoken I know.

You cannot take things as they come. It doesn’t work well in western culture. You’ll never get anywhere. You have to set targets and plan to meet or exceed. Then move onto the next. These women were six month targets. I scored them but what now? Take every day as it comes? Where’s my prayer book…

I’ve just been googling the answers to my first question. There are many, from failures to failures just about covers it. Thinking too much causes failure. Not thinking enough guarantees failure.

This is frustrating. Almost as frustrating as waiting for a response back from txts or messages. Which leads me to another issue.

Response time.

If they have read your message why do they reply so late? It can be 12 hours or longer even. Most people spend 12 hours on their phones a day so surely they see your message pop up on the screen. Considering I should be using pencil and paper or an old Burroughs typewriter I respond quickly, why don’t they?

Yesterday one missed out on lunch due to a late reply. A nice lunch. The other today got the benefit.
It means you are low priority. It's quite obvious

[ReginaldBubbles]

I only hear them say, “you’re getting bigger”, “getting” being the descriptor.

I’m still trying to fathom out the message delay. Perhaps they go via the cell tower on Alpha Centauri?

"Bigger" is the descriptor, "getting" is a verb.

[ReginaldBubbles]

If they have read your message why do they reply so late? It can be 12 hours or longer even. Most people spend 12 hours on their phones a day so surely they see your message pop up on the screen. Considering I should be using pencil and paper or an old Burroughs typewriter I respond quickly, why don’t they?


Dude you have boasted multiple times about making them wait for a reply to a text. Why do you do it?

[Spanky69]

"Bigger" is the descriptor, "getting" is a verb.

Reggie, “you think too much” is a phrase.

[Spanky69]

Dude you have boasted multiple times about making them wait for a reply to a text. Why do you do it?

It’s a power play, nothing more. It’s like trying to work logic from a pile of sand as it slips through your fingers and just as frustrating. Surely there must be a formula? Surely other guys who date SW’s have as much trouble communicating with them?

[Spanky69]

Another question:

If a person doesn’t match your energy in communication, physical activity and most importantly sex will they likely ever?

[11Bravo]

It means you are low priority. It's quite obvious
I was going to COMPLETELY agree with you, until I saw who was quoted (Ignore List at work on the original post), so will have to revise my agreement to: It's quite obvious to MOST of us, the ADULTS in the room. Now the needy CHILD... not so much. For those that think they are the center of the universe, just beyond their comprehension that they are NOT the center of HER universe. The horror, the horror...

To the adults here, it's not rocket science. She might be a ML, WG, FL, but still, she's a person with her own life outside of work (just like you, I hope anyway). So there are other priorities in her life, things she has to do, things (and people) she wants to do, that take precedence over you. Myself, when I'm "on call", I respond as quickly as I can. When I'm not, I'm NOT a slave to my phone (that Nigerian prince who needs help in clearing those millions will just have to wait).

Having a relationship with a provider is NO different than having a relationship with a civilian, though I will say providers tend to be more astute than a number of civilians. The challenge is not due to her profession, but due to cultural differences. If you're expecting her to be in awe of your power, money, position, than that's a financial relationship. If it's emotional, then treat her as an equal. And have the wisdom to understand the difference, because, for sure, she does. Don't be a burden, be a support.



Dude you have boasted multiple times about making them wait for a reply to a text. Why do you do it?
The irony of reciprocity just lost on some. No doubt spankme thinks it punishment while the recipient thinks nothing of it, just that petulant child acting out again.

To spankme: feel free to reply but unless some adult quotes it, it's tombstone time. Well, I say adult, but perhaps a task for one of your alter-egos (at least for awhile, that Ignore list is always hungry).

To ALL: the ignore list has PHYSICAL benefits. My eyes are much less tired these days, remarkable how much eye-rolling is reduced by its use. YMMV

[TonyZen]

What's happened to just paying, fucking and leaving? This sounds very much like regular real life drama.

[Johny77]

Goodness me. This is just a continuation of Spanky’s previous Dating a WL thread. Enough already!

[11Bravo]

Goodness me. This is just a continuation of Spanky’s previous Dating a WL thread. Enough already!

Pretty harsh, man, pretty harsh. When someone doesn't have that much successful relationship experience ("I don't understand their behavior"), not much cultural differences experience ("they're talking in code I don't understand"), not many real friends who care or pay attention, is shunned due to boorish behavior, it's nice that Aus99 can provide an outlet for those seeking attention and approbation, and even an answer to an actual question ... Have some empathy, and, when appropriate, provide some real help as LuvJapPusssy and tpol did.

And feel free to help yourself:
http://www.aus99forum.com/showthread.php?79-Easy-get-useful-information-Thread-Display-Option-Prefix-Search&p=3040327&viewfull=1#post3040327

Now you see them, now you don't.

[Spanky69]

I was going to COMPLETELY agree with you, until I saw who was quoted (Ignore List at work on the original post), so will have to revise my agreement to: It's quite obvious to MOST of us, the ADULTS in the room. Now the needy CHILD... not so much. For those that think they are the center of the universe, just beyond their comprehension that they are NOT the center of HER universe. The horror, the horror...

To the adults here, it's not rocket science. She might be a ML, WG, FL, but still, she's a person with her own life outside of work (just like you, I hope anyway). So there are other priorities in her life, things she has to do, things (and people) she wants to do, that take precedence over you. Myself, when I'm "on call", I respond as quickly as I can. When I'm not, I'm NOT a slave to my phone (that Nigerian prince who needs help in clearing those millions will just have to wait).

Having a relationship with a provider is NO different than having a relationship with a civilian, though I will say providers tend to be more astute than a number of civilians. The challenge is not due to her profession, but due to cultural differences. If you're expecting her to be in awe of your power, money, position, than that's a financial relationship. If it's emotional, then treat her as an equal. And have the wisdom to understand the difference, because, for sure, she does. Don't be a burden, be a support.



The irony of reciprocity just lost on some. No doubt spankme thinks it punishment while the recipient thinks nothing of it, just that petulant child acting out again.

To spankme: feel free to reply but unless some adult quotes it, it's tombstone time. Well, I say adult, but perhaps a task for one of your alter-egos (at least for awhile, that Ignore list is always hungry).

To ALL: the ignore list has PHYSICAL benefits. My eyes are much less tired these days, remarkable how much eye-rolling is reduced by its use. YMMV

I’ll heed your advice 11Bravo, especially the part about cultural differences and you are right about me thinking she should drop everything and be at my beck and call. She has her own life and just because I’ve arrived on the scene I cannot expect her to pine away waiting for me.

[Spanky69]

What's happened to just paying, fucking and leaving? This sounds very much like regular real life drama.

Some people you have a connection with. Why I don’t know, it’s like something that was meant to happen. That we were meant to be together for a period of time. Whether it has an end date is anyone’s guess at present.


Goodness me. This is just a continuation of Spanky’s previous Dating a WL thread. Enough already!

No it’s not. It’s for anyone to put forward issues they may have and hopefully obtain a solution.

[ColesBag]

What a window licker.

[Spanky69]

Pretty harsh, man, pretty harsh. When someone doesn't have that much successful relationship experience ("I don't understand their behavior"), not much cultural differences experience ("they're talking in code I don't understand"), not many real friends who care or pay attention, is shunned due to boorish behavior, it's nice that Aus99 can provide an outlet for those seeking attention and approbation, and even an answer to an actual question ... Have some empathy, and, when appropriate, provide some real help as LuvJapPusssy and tpol did.

And feel free to help yourself:
http://www.aus99forum.com/showthread.php?79-Easy-get-useful-information-Thread-Display-Option-Prefix-Search&p=3040327&viewfull=1#post3040327

Now you see them, now you don't.

Boorish is correct. The ML uses words which mean the same. Some worse. She calls my messages rude, poisonous, toxic and others but you get the vibe.

Yet she still returns. Dinner tonight even if I accept. I wonder why?

Anyway this thread is for those lost souls who don’t want to live in a love lost purgatory. I’ve asked her to forgive and forget. Perhaps she has?

[Spanky69]

What a window licker.

My other job was working at the post office licking stamps till I got sick from all the glue. I think I’ve tasted every nag that was sent to the meat works.

[ColesBag]

Did you say something or did the dummies lips move?

113657

[11Bravo]

You know, one would think that if you (2nd person singular) were put on an ignore list, the ignore list designation would indicate that you're of no interest. Guess not. spankme seems to be so enamored of me, so eager for my approbation, that he's sending me PM's. That boy seems to be as thick as a brick.

spankme, it seems you didn't take the hint in my reply to your initial PM:
"Ask me if I care............ Fuck no, why'd you ask?" (and that IS a rhetorical question).

So go ahead and PM me as you like (another 11Bravo public service, providing a bit bucket destination/distraction, sparing others). Ignore list works on messages too. But since you seem to have a penchant for unrequited relationships, if it pleases you to beat your head against that window, knock yourself out (though maybe you should wear a helmet, seems enough brain damage has already occurred.) Certainly getting a better feeling of what she must be experiencing...

To quote Mr. T, "I pity the fool..."

[Johny77]

Some people you have a connection with. Why I don’t know, it’s like something that was meant to happen. That we were meant to be together for a period of time. Whether it has an end date is anyone’s guess at present.



No it’s not. It’s for anyone to put forward issues they may have and hopefully obtain a solution.

For punters who have issues in relation to SEX workers not responding to their text messages? Get help ffs.

[ReginaldBubbles]

Reggie, “you think too much” is a phrase.

Very good, you're learning.

[Spanky69]

Did you say something or did the dummies lips move?

113657


I was rudely awoken by a work call hence posting at this ungodly hour. ColesBag condolences for your loss of the “forum experience”, whilst you may have me on block for effect I really know it’s just for show. Secretly you’ve unblocked me just for your own personal pleasure and have your hand on yourself satisfying your forum eagerness as only you know how… well that’s what the ladies tell me. You can let them pleasure you, you know. Just remind me if we ever meet up to never to shake your hand.


You know, one would think that if you (2nd person singular) were put on an ignore list, the ignore list designation would indicate that you're of no interest. Guess not. spankme seems to be so enamored of me, so eager for my approbation, that he's sending me PM's. That boy seems to be as thick as a brick.

spankme, it seems you didn't take the hint in my reply to your initial PM:
"Ask me if I care............ Fuck no, why'd you ask?" (and that IS a rhetorical question).

So go ahead and PM me as you like (another 11Bravo public service, providing a bit bucket destination/distraction, sparing others). Ignore list works on messages too. But since you seem to have a penchant for unrequited relationships, if it pleases you to beat your head against that window, knock yourself out (though maybe you should wear a helmet, seems enough brain damage has already occurred.) Certainly getting a better feeling of what she must be experiencing...

To quote Mr. T, "I pity the fool..."


I’m stuck in a reiteration of alliteration to the B Team it seems. The mere fact I display tact and audacity with a propensity to publicly postulate my adversity with sex workers serves me up to ridicule and scorn and it’s a meal you guys force me to eat every day. Luckily I have great bowel movements, that’s all I can say. Calling me a fool, how is your stool 11Bravo, feel loose enough to take me off block?

Here I am worrying I’m the guy who caused 11Bravo’s blockage! All I can suggest is eat more fibre and don’t strain yourself with excessive ingestion of CAPS lock. I know I worried you that much you dedicated a thread just to keeping me out of your life. Pity you cannot help yourself. You’re not a chronic flagellator by any chance? Perhaps more a chronic masturbator? If it’s the latter you’ll be another guy I won’t be shaking hands with…

I too provide a service 11Bravo. It’s called stimulating the mentally adept. You thrive on my input and why should I leave you bereft? Thus I send you PMs of my daily conquests. Where else could you find such entertainment? Not out in public or in the course of your daily life, correct! .

The mere fact that I can and do occupy my time by dating multiple sex workers only emphasises my differentiality, my ability to think not just outside the box but in most instances back into theirs. Freely, yes freely back into theirs. It’s unheard of and unholy speak on this forum I know but I don’t follow, I lead, like Moses and the Red Sea, I’m now parting their legs without any need for filthy lucre! Great isn’t it! With the exception of this one ML of course but she’s become an anamoly and everyday with your help 11Bravo I get closer to her heart. As such I refuse now to take advantage of her good nature and will accept her as a person with a kind heart and not rush at her like a randy bull at a gate. See, I’ve learnt from you 11Bravo! She deserves better and I will give it her, one way or another.


For punters who have issues in relation to SEX workers not responding to their text messages? Get help ffs.


I am Johny77 right on this very thread. Oh it’s taken time, reluctance and acknowledgement to admit that I have been wrong by exhibiting certain behavioural traits. I’m learning and with your help I shall overcome any textual adversity and my first request is that you change your name to Johnny77, could you do that for me? You did go to school I presume and it reads better don’t you think?

[Spanky69]

Very good, you're learning.


Reggie, one day will you give me a merit badge for being such a high achiever? I don’t need your acceptance just the badge. They’re worth a dollar or two down at Vinnies. Oh that name… it rears its ugly head once more like a turd that swims n floats and cannot be flushed down on a oneway trip to Bondi.

Do you think just maybe your fascination with me is inversely proportional to your fascination with your home away from home?

You're torn between two lovers, Vinnie and Vinnies.

Am I correct?

[schloong]

What a window licker.

I love that line mate & use it too when the occasion warrants :shout:

[ReginaldBubbles]

Reggie, one day will you give me a merit badge for being such a high achiever? I don’t need your acceptance just the badge. They’re worth a dollar or two down at Vinnies. Oh that name… it rears its ugly head once more like a turd that swims n floats and cannot be flushed down on a oneway trip to Bondi.

Do you think just maybe your fascination with me is inversely proportional to your fascination with your home away from home?

You're torn between two lovers, Vinnie and Vinnies.

Am I correct?

You really go off in weird irrelevant tangents and have a weird perspective but you have definitely captured your personas by comparing them to an unflushable turd.

And in terms of my so called "fascination" with you, you're the one that keeps messaging me Vinnie.

[Spanky69]

You really go off in weird irrelevant tangents and have a weird perspective but you have definitely captured your personas by comparing them to an unflushable turd.

And in terms of my so called "fascination" with you, you're the one that keeps messaging me Vinnie.

Reggie what do you expect after I was rudely woken up from a deep slumber by a phone call in the wee hours of the morning. With nothing better to do and one eye half closed I decided to retort.

I message you because you need awakening. You need to know how the other half lives. It’ll give you something to strive for. To know that you too can be a man about town like myself and and get himself into all sorts of trouble with SWs.

Forget television, forget listening to the trots on your local AM radio station, forget your slippers and your two dollar servo specs, actually go out there into the wild wide world and get involved with, well… you know what, as I tell you via PM everyday. WOMEN.

Can you do that for me?

Then start a thread and let me post conjecture about your life, ok!

[Spanky69]

I love that line mate & use it too when the occasion warrants :shout:

I can get you a job in the lost mail room at Strawberry Hills. It’ll depend on your lickability.

Have you had much practice?

[GoldfishMan]

I love that line mate & use it too when the occasion warrants :shout:

It’s quite effective when you’re short on Windex!

[dotcumdotinyou]

You want a thread to die and then you continue posting on it, that's some retarded shit there vinnie.

[ryanpumper]

This thread screams mental illness.

[Spanky69]

You want a thread to die and then you continue posting on it, that's some retarded shit there vinnie.

Who wants the thread to wind up? You? I can’t remember if you’re the guy who complained about working too much previously on that now deleted Indian thread ? 62 and owns a company works 60 hour weeks pays taxes etc doesn’t like bludgers etc

That being the case go do some more work. You need to catch up to me and my work load then come back and date more women, live more do more spend more punt more and then post about it and I’ll show you some more respect. Till then you’re a whiny premature posting postulator.



This thread screams mental illness.

You’re welcome to start your own thread about how you’ve asked punters and shops to pay for your punts. Does that scream of begging?

I’ll accept a free punt mate you can even watch.


If you front the cash for it I'll be happy to pump one with you


Let me do a few of your sluts for free and I’ll write a review that’s not in Chinglish


Give me a free bang on the house with cof and I’ll post a review

Offering to write reviews in exchange for sex, what word exemplifies that? It starts with the letter B but it isn’t begging….

Go on ryanpumper, amuse me, guess the word.

[11Bravo]

You want a thread to die and then you continue posting on it, that's some retarded shit there vinnie.

The thread can serve a legit purpose in helping newbs decipher cultural differences (not WG speak). Actually, I did do some WG translation work over on ISG a LONG time ago, but not really applicable in SYD.


This thread screams mental illness.
Posters scream mental illness; some of the answers have been spot on (LuvJapPusssy and tpol).

There are tools that provide noise cancelling funtionality.

[Spanky69]

The thread can serve a legit purpose in helping newbs decipher cultural differences (not WG speak). Actually, I did do some WG translation work over on ISG a LONG time ago, but not really applicable in SYD.

Posters scream mental illness; some of the answers have been spot on (LuvJapPusssy and tpol).

There are tools that provide noise cancelling funtionality.

I think, yes I do. I think too much. I think 11Bravo you are one of the few genuine people on here. Doing battles every day and knowing when to walk away. We all have things on the go, pots on the boil, irons in the fire and in actual fact I’ve neglected those women I’ve written about today. Skipped a seafood dinner tonight with the ML in lieu of more filthy lucre. Yeah she can wait. Didn’t message the WL. She can wait too. It’s my life you see. No time to enjoy the finer things.

Parting is such sweet sorrow that I shall say goodnight till it be morrow.

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[Johny77]

This thread screams mental illness.

100%. Starts a new thread as the other one had died. Just a continuation of the same old crap. No one cares about the made up fantasy about dating a WL, her supposed response times etc.

It’s actually quite sad and the OP needs help.

[Spanky69]

100%. Starts a new thread as the other one had died. Just a continuation of the same old crap. No one cares about the made up fantasy about dating a WL, her supposed response times etc.

It’s actually quite sad and the OP needs help.


Johny77 pleasure me… no I don’t mean it that way, read below.

The only thing I could suggest to you is if you wanted to bring your own hottie and join us for dinner. Of course you’d have to pay your own way as you’ll be there entertaining your woman and I mine.

Then if you’re up for it, another meeting and you bring a different woman so she doesn’t spill the beans and I’ll bring my other girlfriend. Drinks, lunch whatever.

You can personally meet both, the ML and the WL.

This will shut yourself up and any other non players who contribute on the forum but don’t back themselves up.

I cannot be fairer than that.

Oh yeah and the stipulation is you bring attractive women not old bags. Mine are eye catchers and I won’t be dragged down by a punter I don’t know just to prove a point.

[heatherwillis]

Johny77 pleasure me… no I don’t mean it that way, read below.

The only thing I could suggest to you is if you wanted to bring your own hottie and join us for dinner. Of course you’d have to pay your own way as you’ll be there entertaining your woman and I mine.

Then if you’re up for it, another meeting and you bring a different woman so she doesn’t spill the beans and I’ll bring my other girlfriend. Drinks, lunch whatever.

You can personally meet both, the ML and the WL.

This will shut yourself up and any other non players who contribute on the forum but don’t back themselves up.

I cannot be fairer than that.

Oh yeah and the stipulation is you bring attractive women not old bags. Mine are eye catchers and I won’t be dragged down by a punter I don’t know just to prove a point.

As a sex worker, I can say that understanding and respect from the client is important. There is very little of that in this field. Clients are sometimes rude or too harsh in their words and actions, asking us for something inappropriate or uncomfortable. The only hard thing I like in my work is dildo sex (https://trydildo.net/). I love it! I started liking dildo sex by watching porn videos which is one of my favourite categories! Anyway, I love my job and enjoy it every day!

[Coxswain]

It is pretty simple , she sees you you see her... no concern

[Spanky69]

So even though this ML is back with me I’ve re read her messages and most run to only three words. The most is six words.

I want dinner
How are you
When you come
Where are you
Yes I free
I are hungry
We can dinner


You get the picture?

The WL is even worse
😊
😍
😀

This is what I have to put up with!!!

No wonder I want to burn them…

How can I communicate, get my view across. Its impossible! Plus the ML leaves me to hang!

I’m ready to put a broom through them both.

I’m beginning to think they have a much much quieter less paced lifestyle. For starters the ML thinks I can just drop what I’m doing and come running. We agree to 2:00pm date and I get a txt at 1:50pm saying “where are you?” No wonder I’m stressed.

[Spanky69]

Thankfully the latest WL is big on messaging, though she does stop that very abruptly sometimes when she arrives back at her place. Who knows…

[Double_Adapter]

So even though this ML is back with me I’ve re read her messages and most run to only three words. The most is six words.

I want dinner
How are you
When you come
Where are you
Yes I free
I are hungry
We can dinner


You get the picture?

The WL is even worse
😊
😍
😀

This is what I have to put up with!!!

No wonder I want to burn them…

How can I communicate, get my view across. Its impossible! Plus the ML leaves me to hang!

I’m ready to put a broom through them both.

I’m beginning to think they have a much much quieter less paced lifestyle. For starters the ML thinks I can just drop what I’m doing and come running. We agree to 2:00pm date and I get a txt at 1:50pm saying “where are you?” No wonder I’m stressed.

3 words + emojis is good going bro.
All Jane ever got from Tarzan was fucken grunts and chest slaps.

[Spanky69]

3 words + emojis is good going bro.
All Jane ever got from Tarzan was fucken grunts and chest slaps.

We can cross the three word ML off the list, she’s gone. Ancient history.

That leaves the emoji WL and the new WL who is articulate. Trust is my issue. I know I cannot be trusted so why should they be trustworthy? I see no difference between them and myself. Do I have any right to expect honesty from them?

[kayofa]

So even though this ML is back with me I’ve re read her messages and most run to only three words. The most is six words.

I want dinner
How are you
When you come
Where are you
Yes I free
I are hungry
We can dinner


You get the picture?

The WL is even worse
😊
😍
😀

This is what I have to put up with!!!

No wonder I want to burn them…

How can I communicate, get my view across. Its impossible! Plus the ML leaves me to hang!

I’m ready to put a broom through them both.

I’m beginning to think they have a much much quieter less paced lifestyle. For starters the ML thinks I can just drop what I’m doing and come running. We agree to 2:00pm date and I get a txt at 1:50pm saying “where are you?” No wonder I’m stressed.

Any girl, sex worker or not, will treat you right if she thinks you're Mr Right.

If she senses you're Mr Wrong from the first impression, or she's Mrs Wrong herself, she'll treat you like shit.

Unfortunately both Mr & Mrs Wrong don't mix with anyone. A sad ending for both of them...

[Spanky69]

From from another WL yesterday, I was told “chat shortly” as she had a friend over, five hours later my reply “ok” was read but no response. She left me hanging.