Is getting rnt cheating??

[marc]

I've been seeing a girl off and on for a few months now . But it looks like where going to start dating full time .i really like getting rnt off Asian massage places As i find it easy to bang/pick white gals for free but not Asians chicks and I also really like the message.... the rub is just a bonus and see it as the same as having a wank and watching porn lol. no kissing and or sex . Is this cheating ??

[CunningLinguist]

It depends on what your girl thinks, why don't you ask her ? :smile:
One way to look at it is from an evolutionary point of view:
A male is only cheating if he falls in love, nothing else matters as he will always come home and support the family.
A female is only cheating if she gets pregnant, as no male wants to raise someone else's baby without knowing about it.
Hence the usual first questions when someone is found out:
- She said: Do you love her ?
- He said: Did he fuck you ? how many times ? where ? when ? was he as big as me ? ...:smile:

[BrainSex]

Decided to remove a lot of this stuff, really it's not relevant.

[memememe]

chicks are usually more pissed of about the lies than the actual cheating.....

[bill62]

yes dude. its cheating in a womans perspective. does not matter what you say. Sex for men is just sex, for women its different. women will consider it sharing an intimate moment with another and not just sex

[memememe]

best answer..... dont tell.....dont get cuaght

[mufflover]

I guess you should think how you'd feel if the roles were reversed? If she was having a guy play with her and getting her off would you get pissed off and think its cheating?

[popeye96]

By even asking that question, it sounds like you don't know women at all. Simple answer is a big YES, it would be considered cheating by 99% of women. A lot of women will get pissed off at you by even perving at other women, let alone them having their hand wrapped around your dick. If you have found one of the rare ones that doesn't think it cheating, then lucky you.

[beast1u]

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[spiral]

If you have to ask this question then the answer is YES. :) lol

[FangBanger]

By asking this question in the first place the answer you are probably hoping to hear is as follows. Cheating is commonly referred to as deceiving or tricking somebody. As long as she never asks and you never lie about it you're not technically not cheating.

[bill62]

By asking this question in the first place the answer you are probably hoping to hear is as follows. Cheating is commonly referred to as deceiving or tricking somebody. As long as she never asks and you never lie about it you're not technically not cheating.

nice, true and funny. I think a little rnt does not hurt anyone just don't get guilty like my brother, (dick) and tell your missus and not expect to duck pot plants and pots being thrown at you

[bigbob]

i just tell my missus im going for a massage i dont tell her its a rub &tug

[FangBanger]

nice, true and funny. I think a little rnt does not hurt anyone just don't get guilty like my brother, (dick) and tell your missus and not expect to duck pot plants and pots being thrown at you

Sure your brother was a dick for owning up to his own deceit but that was kind of the point of my post. Don't fuck with a good relationship if you don't want it to fuck with you. He got what he deserved and so will a majority of other guys who don't consider a woman jerking you off as not cheating.

[MrSeven]

lol... what a knob question, course its cheating... just mackin on with another girl is cheating
i dont understand why there are dudes who keep punting when they have girlfriends??? Avoid getting into a committed relationship if you can't stop yourself going to rnt or brothels. Or at least tell the girl thats what you wanna do before you commit and then see what she has to say about it. You all run the risk of getting your dicks or balls cut off in your sleep. I'd rather sleep easy.

[MrSeven]

sorry.. was in a bad place last night when i wrote that.
no harm intended

[AHLUNGOR]

In absolute moral way, it is cheating!

So is watching porn and jerking off yourself, or is it ?

What about having a wet dream of another woman or any hot chick on TV, Movie or magazine! No physical contact or connection, just watching and dreaming ?

Where do you draw the line ?

As this is a punting forum, I assume every members here are punting in FS or RnT one way or another, and if we are not single (as in marriage, defacto or committed gf/bf situations) then we are all bloody cheaters. That's just common sense or in the female's point of view.

What about in Bill Clinton's cigar way of thinking: "I did not have sexual relations with that woman Miss Lewinsky", So a BBBJ and CIM in the US President's mind is Not a Sensual Relationship - may be he only consider only an actual vaginal penetration is considered Sexual Relations. You can agree or disagree, but hey, he's the leader of the free world, if he said so, we got to give him some credit, right ??

Now, what about in my view, is there in any twisted way that we can justify having sex in brothels and getting RnT in MS + extras = No Cheating on our MRS ?? Can we ??


Yes, we can, and this is only according to Ahlungor's way of thinking:

I love my Mrs, and I have never cheated on her - in the sense that I have never had any sexual activities which is not a commercial transactions. So I paid for sex, I paid for BJ and I paid for RnT. I have never had a girl friend since I married, I have never had a one night stand, and I have never had any affairs outside the sex shops. So, am I a good husband ?? and of course, my Mrs can never find out that I went to SL, SF, Stanmore, 501, 5 Star, 288 and whatever else on a regular basis. No wonder I can never save too much money on my own, My only excuses were, bloody hell, the Brisbane Broncos were beaten again, and I lost.................lol

Just my two cents.

Cheating or no cheating, no one is gonna to stop punting, right??

Cheers

:cool2:

[Travelmate]

In absolute moral way, it is cheating!

So is watching porn and jerking off yourself, or is it ?

What about having a wet dream of another woman or any hot chick on TV, Movie or magazine! No physical contact or connection, just watching and dreaming ?

Where do you draw the line ?

As this is a punting forum, I assume every members here are punting in FS or RnT one way or another, and if we are not single (as in marriage, defacto or committed gf/bf situations) then we are all bloody cheaters. That's just common sense or in the female's point of view.

What about in Bill Clinton's cigar way of thinking: "I did not have sexual relations with that woman Miss Lewinsky", So a BBBJ and CIM in the US President's mind is Not a Sensual Relationship - may be he only consider only an actual vaginal penetration is considered Sexual Relations. You can agree or disagree, but hey, he's the leader of the free world, if he said so, we got to give him some credit, right ??

Now, what about in my view, is there in any twisted way that we can justify having sex in brothels and getting RnT in MS + extras = No Cheating on our MRS ?? Can we ??


Yes, we can, and this is only according to Ahlungor's way of thinking:

I love my Mrs, and I have never cheated on her - in the sense that I have never had any sexual activities which is not a commercial transactions. So I paid for sex, I paid for BJ and I paid for RnT. I have never had a girl friend since I married, I have never had a one night stand, and I have never had any affairs outside the sex shops. So, am I a good husband ?? and of course, my Mrs can never find out that I went to SL, SF, Stanmore, 501, 5 Star, 288 and whatever else on a regular basis. No wonder I can never save too much money on my own, My only excuses were, bloody hell, the Brisbane Broncos were beaten again, and I lost.................lol

Just my two cents.

Cheating or no cheating, no one is gonna to stop punting, right??

Cheers

:cool2:

For me, I will look at this in a different angle.

It is about management of all these activities:
a> Going to Full Service Shop
b> Going to Massage Shop (or RnT)
c> Dating girls outside your normal relationship

Before you explain to yourself whether you are doing one or more activities on above, it is more important to identify your wife/girl friend/partner classify this is cheating.

[Travelmate]

Most girlfriends or wives will view this as cheating.
If you have to make up excuses to justify your actions on a public forum just to make yourself feel better bad karma will still find you.

Of course, they will see this as cheating. No doubt!

[brisrod]

For me, the rule of thumb is how would I feel if I caught my wife behaving the same way? And the answer is: I'd be pretty devastated.

In saying that, I'm not in any rush to give up R'n'T. Infact, I feel like my relationship has improved in the two years or so since I started this hobby. For instance, I feel as though I'm less preoccupied with sex, less demanding of the missus and more appreciative of 'quality time'. I guess I also enjoy the fact that R'n'T is a 'secret' pastime - something just for me that no-one will ever know about.

I hope to give up R'n'T by the end of this year (for financial reasons more than anything) but until that time I plan to make the most of the opportunities available whilst making sure I cover my tracks and avoid hurting the ones I love. For example, I have a separate R'n'T phone, take my own soap and shower towel to the shop with me (so I come out smelling like me and not the shop) and tend to avoid white girls (weird I know, but I just feel like there's less chance of ever being identified in the street).

[marc]

I'm thinking of giving up the game for a while anyway . I got to start saving money .