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project_manager006
04-09-2012, 07:51 AM
I may be going out with a WL who doesn't speak much English - anyone got ideas as to what to do apart from dinner/clubbing?

Also, do you hold hands with ML/WLs you go out with? Do you call them by their work names?

chandra_man1
04-09-2012, 08:17 AM
U must be a boring dude. Go picnic, art gallery, museum, take ferry trip around harbour, aquarium, go watch footy, hire bike go riding, go blue mojntains, do some wine tasting visits, gamble at casino, play tennis or badmington, go swimming, ice skating, go timezone play games, go bowling, go karoake, take her home do some cooking or bake a cake, play mini golf, visit zoo, watch a pub band, go to watch a musical play or concert.

AHLUNGOR
04-09-2012, 09:54 AM
I may be going out with a WL who doesn't speak much English - anyone got ideas as to what to do apart from dinner/clubbing?

Also, do you hold hands with ML/WLs you go out with? Do you call them by their work names?

This is exciting time Bro,

Your first time obviously and you are asking so want to make an impression no doubt, what a gentleman!

If English is an issue, my guess is she is either Chinese or Korean, i think the key is to make her comfortable and show her a good time, do something she likes to do, things like dinner in. Chinese or Korean restaurant and let her do the order (oh just a word of advice, dont go to those Chinese restaurant with big live fish and lobster tanks, you may not want to spend that much in dinner), then follow by dessert and karaoke . You dont have to be a good singer but most Asian girl can sing, and after a few of her favourite songs and a bit of alcohol, things will be lightening up and most ice will be broken.

Usually if you show her a good time, she will show you one too, if you dont score on the first date, probably in the next, make sure she has fun and there will be a next time. And you will probably be very well rewarded next time you see her in the shop.

Just my two cents

Have fun

Cheers

Lancelot
04-09-2012, 10:47 AM
With weather picking up I'd definitely go picnic. Get rug, cushions and a blanket. Stop off at fish markets for choice seafoods and some cruzers. Then find a nice park. If language is issue, get an app for your smartphone and have some fun teaching each other some words which you can use in SMS later.

Littlewonder
04-09-2012, 05:11 PM
Depends on what she likes talk to her best you can keep it fun! One girl I take out likes to work on learning English and photography and seeing sights of Sydney, even took her to Canberra to see sights be careful as she may not want to spend hours in a museum if she struggles with English so be prepared to leave if she gets bored. Go for her you will get to know what she likes and have fun.

Mahilig
04-09-2012, 05:16 PM
If you are a project manager and more than likely earning big $$$, im sure your ride is prolly european? Possibly an Audi or BMW lol. Sorry for the stereotype bro.
Take her for a nice drive down to gong or the entrance on a nice sunny day and for a picnic like other bros have suggested. If you cant be bothered preparing food then Im sure there are nice restaurants by the coastline you can take her too!

handbanana
04-09-2012, 05:20 PM
if she's Korean take her to an internet cafe and challenge her to a game of star craft 2.

Lancelot
04-09-2012, 05:22 PM
Lol, if she is Korean you'll probably lose

handbanana
04-09-2012, 05:28 PM
a gentleman would let her win of course

Travelmate
04-09-2012, 06:25 PM
Hi mate,

you have asked similar questions last time.
How was that ?
Please share more!

wilisno
04-09-2012, 06:47 PM
Hi mate,

you have asked similar questions last time.
How was that ?
Please share more!
Haha, not last time, many times, even in the old forum !

Never mind, he can always generates a lot of responses even from the same brothers ! ;) ;) ;). Not everybody can remember what threads he has started like you can ! It's good for the forum traffic ! ;) ;) ;)

harmsup_jai
04-09-2012, 07:02 PM
How about you ask her if its possible to communicate where she wants to go.

Jj999
04-09-2012, 08:15 PM
Haha, not last time, many times, even in the old forum !

Never mind, he can always generates a lot of responses even from the same brothers ! ;) ;) ;). Not everybody can remember what threads he has started like you can ! It's good for the forum traffic ! ;) ;) ;)

Maybe he's a lady killer whose car is worth 7 figures.
Hahaha.


...

Or maybe he just need someone to talk to.
:smile:

cisco
04-09-2012, 10:42 PM
Just take her to opera house and buy some ice cream and have a chat there

and Bla Bla............... about next stop and Prepare more $$$$$$$$

so much easy ,...why so serious ?

project_manager006
04-09-2012, 11:03 PM
U must be a boring dude. Go picnic, art gallery, museum, take ferry trip around harbour, aquarium, go watch footy, hire bike go riding, go blue mojntains, do some wine tasting visits, gamble at casino, play tennis or badmington, go swimming, ice skating, go timezone play games, go bowling, go karoake, take her home do some cooking or bake a cake, play mini golf, visit zoo, watch a pub band, go to watch a musical play or concert.

Thanks bro, all excellent ideas except casino. I could not live with myself if I ever started someone on an addiction.

rubit moore
04-09-2012, 11:12 PM
Thanks bro, all excellent ideas except casino. I could not live with myself if I ever started someone on an addiction.

Especially when it'd be your money she'd be spending! Lol!!

BBBJ
05-09-2012, 12:17 AM
aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa!

Travelmate
05-09-2012, 03:59 AM
You guys sound so expert ........ teach me more!

Eureka
05-09-2012, 09:43 AM
Hi mate,

you have asked similar questions last time.
How was that ?
Please share more!

Like the post from Whatsup ,, early Aug a month ago wanting to know where he could take a girl from work to get a feel up or blow job in Sydney.
Lots of good advice from Bros .. big tease .. then nothing - no post weekend update.

- are these posts just a tease?
- did Whatsup fall in love and therefore want to keep it private ?
- did Whatsup fuck up all the great advice and embarrassed to admit it?

Mmmm

TheTiger
06-09-2012, 12:39 PM
A few good things to do, not mentioned yet:

1. A day trip to the zoo, via ferry and gondola;
2. Coast walk from Coogee to Bondi and then have lunch or a fresh fruit juice;
3. Afternoon at Featherdale Wildlife Park.

The important thing about all three is to bring the camera and take plenty of pics for her to send to her family.

cisco
06-09-2012, 02:07 PM
Dont forget once you take this step you will be a busy and busy man

project_manager006
06-09-2012, 11:31 PM
Wait a minute...you clunges never answered my question - do you hold hands and do you call them by their work names?

IExperiment
06-09-2012, 11:34 PM
Wait a minute...you clunges never answered my question - do you hold hands and do you call them by their work names?

I am good with normal girls and ML not WL :)

IExperiment
06-09-2012, 11:35 PM
You should ask her real name.

cisco
07-09-2012, 02:08 AM
I think ,they will never give their real name,.....

Travelmate
07-09-2012, 02:10 AM
I think ,they will never give their real name,.....

wrong, wrong, wrong...

Every ML I know well, they will tell me their real name ... there is no point to hide...

AHLUNGOR
07-09-2012, 09:53 AM
wrong, wrong, wrong...

Every ML I know well, they will tell me their real name ... there is no point to hide...

Haha, brother Mate,

You are much much more advance than me, i have only ever got to know the real name of five MLs, four were ancient history and only one current!!

Mona and Tamara both ex At Michelles, no 18 at Zanadu and no 10 at Chequers. And the current one, well she is very well know so shall remain nameless here.......lol

Cheers

Travelmate
07-09-2012, 12:03 PM
But this mean nothing

project_manager006
08-09-2012, 12:03 AM
Haha, brother Mate,

You are much much more advance than me, i have only ever got to know the real name of five MLs, four were ancient history and only one current!!

Mona and Tamara both ex At Michelles, no 18 at Zanadu and no 10 at Chequers. And the current one, well she is very well know so shall remain nameless here.......lol

Cheers

Bro, Tamara at At Michelles sounds very familiar. I think I may have seen her once.

Anyway clunges, looks like this was a false (but educational) false alarm. I asked her out and she said next month.

Jj999
08-09-2012, 01:01 AM
I think ,they will never give their real name,.....

If they can trust you, they will tell you without you asking them bro.

:smile:

cisco
08-09-2012, 01:08 AM
If they can trust you, they will tell you without you asking them bro.

:smile:

you are so right bro,..

project_manager006
08-09-2012, 09:03 AM
Does it sound like she was fobbing me off?

chandra_man1
08-09-2012, 04:09 PM
To quote a lot of bros here. "only you know the answer to that as we do not know the full extend of your relationship."

cisco
09-09-2012, 01:13 AM
There is a word

How long your visa will be last = How long the love will be last as well

Travelmate
09-09-2012, 01:30 PM
you are so right bro,..

support and happening all the time

Travelmate
09-09-2012, 01:32 PM
There is a word

How long your visa will be last = How long the love will be last as well

DISAGREE!!!
some of them already have VISA and CITIZENSHIP
some of them already DECIDE to go back home country after finishing study!!!! It has been proven!

but of course some are just after VISA and money.
It all depends who you meet.
You can filter them easily.

project_manager006
01-10-2012, 12:24 AM
Alright niggas, it's back on like Donkey Kong!

Question is, should I hold her hand when we meet?

Also, she is Korean. Anyone know of Korean places we can go drinking late at night?

Jj999
01-10-2012, 12:42 AM
It seems your follow up question is long due..

Are you asking because you don't know or just having nothing to do so you type those questions?

Of course, this is none of my business, so long there is someone interested in typing a reply, then it doesn't matter.

I was typing here because I've got nothing to do.

jazzlau90
01-10-2012, 12:48 AM
Come on dude seriously, there's more to it than clubbing and dinner lol.

Go play some sports with her, movies, take her to eat pancakes and get really fat. Aquarium, play some pool and just improvise along the way.

There's always stuff to do man and when you're out of ideas, just ask her what she wants to do and where she wants to go. Follow her lead and if she says why don't you choose, just tell her that its time for her to decide.

Enjoy your time lah.

project_manager006
01-10-2012, 10:05 AM
Good ideas jazz, thanks...but what about the hand holding???

jazzlau90
01-10-2012, 02:06 PM
Sure project, why not hold her hand? Just treat her like a girlfriend. Makes it intimate lol. Think of it as a beautiful girl you met that you really like and would like to take her out. Hope this helps you bro

Sergaent Brody
01-10-2012, 02:21 PM
Play World of Warcraft together and make sure you roll a healer ...

Charlie456
01-10-2012, 02:42 PM
If i like an ML i usually ask for her real name straight away. An easy way to do this is introduce yourself fully (ie. First name/last name) and then ask for their chinese/korean name.

I think handholding and kissing are a must. I ask the girl if i can hold their hand or if i can have a kiss, might sound corny but it works and avoids the awkwardness of an unanticipated approach.

Also - avoid talking about their work, unless they bring it up first, ask questions about themselves that allow them to discuss other aspects of their life and character.

AHLUNGOR
01-10-2012, 03:05 PM
If i like an ML i usually ask for her real name straight away. An easy way to do this is introduce yourself fully (ie. First name/last name) and then ask for their chinese/korean name.

I think handholding and kissing are a must. I ask the girl if i can hold their hand or if i can have a kiss, might sound corny but it works and avoids the awkwardness of an unanticipated approach.

Also - avoid talking about their work, unless they bring it up first, ask questions about themselves that allow them to discuss other aspects of their life and character.

Hi brother Charlie,


Is that you?

Welcome back from Thailand, PM me please

Cheers

manman888
02-10-2012, 10:42 AM
Project manager

If you go out the first time with the WL, I will not hold her hand. Just treat her as a normal girl or friend catch up, be a gentleman, you will get a better relationship with her later

rsalcedo
02-10-2012, 06:13 PM
Proj_Mgr,

When you post these questions, are you being real?
You sound like a teenager going on a first date and asking silly questions like should i bring cd,
instead of a regular beast punter
Your id alone, gives the impression that you should already have this in control, and you
giving us the tips, but it's the other way around.

Well enough said, i hope that your adventure with your korean ML goes well.
To answer your question, YES it is ok to hold hands.
When you are with the girl, act natural.
Don't be concerned about what other people see or think.
Just worry about what makes you Happy!
Your happiness (and the girl's) is the most important thing.

Littlewonder
02-10-2012, 06:37 PM
Alright niggas, it's back on like Donkey Kong!

Question is, should I hold her hand when we meet?

Also, she is Korean. Anyone know of Korean places we can go drinking late at night?

To hold hands depends on the both of you the girl I go out with is a lot younger than me so we tend not to hold hand if anyone else is about we just act like good friends but thats ok we still have the passion and affecton when we are in private.