Am I a Sex addiction

[Burwood Road]

I would like to share my recent experience. Since last 11 months I have increased desire of having sex everyday and I cannot stop thinking about it. I am getting temporary satisfaction after visting some of the shops, I have been to most of shops in Blacktown, Lidcombe, Gandville, both shops in burwood and plenty more but I keep wanting more .. more.

I had been to Blacktown 8 new girl forgot her name, service was ok as you would expect from new girl attitude was good. It has been only couple of hours and I am now thinking I should go to The Site or City .. does anyone feel like this? Do I need to seek some help?

Question keep poping up am I a sex addict?

[jazzlau90]

Hi Burwood Road,

Can I ask you something? How many times do you punt, how long do you go for and how much money do you spend?

Be honest as these questions will determine if you are a sex addict. Trust me anybody who goes 1-3 times a week, I don't consider an addict but if you are going more than that and can't think of anything else but sex, then you might be a sex addict

Now the next phase is how badly do you want to solve this or are you contempt on solving this? If I was you, I would find more ways to make money and just punt as often as possible. Who cares if you're a sex addict? Just feed ur addiction and submit to it. Life is too short to have doubt bro :)

Hope this helps

[Burwood Road]

Hi Burwood Road,

Can I ask you something? How many times do you punt, how long do you go for and how much money do you spend?

Be honest as these questions will determine if you are a sex addict. Trust me anybody who goes 1-3 times a week, I don't consider an addict but if you are going more than that and can't think of anything else but sex, then you might be a sex addict

Now the next phase is how badly do you want to solve this or are you contempt on solving this? If I was you, I would find more ways to make money and just punt as often as possible. Who cares if you're a sex addict? Just feed ur addiction and submit to it. Life is too short to have doubt bro :)

Hope this helps

Hi Jazzlau,

Thanks for inputs, I have recently started spending money say in last month I spend close to 3500. On Weekend I tend to visit multiple shops. This long weekend I spend about approx $150 x 5 in two days. and today 130. it is 3 pm and I am thinking of going to The Site or City - kent street.

So in summary, Monday to Friday say 2-3 times depending how much busy I get at work. And 3-4 times weekends.

I do want to solve this as this is effecting my work and concentration, I am always thinking of Eva, Tiffany, Nancy ..

[Jj999]

Try to stop for 1 week.
Sure, it would feel like hell.

But, the next week, your head would be clear.

Usually I do this when I get a warning from my dick.
I can't cum in 1 hour session.

[jazzlau90]

Thanks for information Burwood Road.

It's hard to stop, isn't it? This is the life of a punter, once you're in its really hard to get out or impossible :)

You do spend quite a bit and often as well. If you really want to solve this, as what Jj999 says try to stop awhile. Its gonna really tough especially when you start thinking about it. But it will sort of clear ur mind.

Just try to do the other things you love and concentrate on them like your hobbies as it will keep your mind off of sex.

Hope it helps. Just try it bro and after a few weeks, reflect back and see if it helped it anyway

Good Luck :)

[Littlewonder]

I can see your problem and your not alone in your desire to see lots of beautiful women they are lovely.

I try to see 2 or 3 ladies once a week each I have two favourites I see and the third one I look for someone new or someone I have seen before and liked and want to see again.

I find if I have a set routine then I look forward to who ever it is I am due to see next I focus on that and it stops or reduces the urge to go and see someone cause I am bored or horny.

Doesnt always work but its not a bad approach, and reduces the risk of a bad punt, didnt work to day but hey thats life.

[Burwood Road]

Jazzalu90, jj999 and Littlewonder .. Thanks everyone for tips.. I did manage to resist myself today with lot of efforts. I was in car parked outside "The site" for 10 mins. before came back home. Went for a run for almost 1.5 hour, but still strong urge to see someone. Will update if I am able to resist today. Appreciate all bros. for your tips.

[the wizard]

Good points raised
I find keeping yourself busy, stopping for a while, pacing yourself between punts, even limiting the time spent on the forum would help.
Though the forum is also important because you can discuss these issues openly as we are doing so.
I try to space the punts out and plan them around Days off, holidays and weekends where i don't need to explain a absence.
The time between punts is getting shorter and that's a concern, bills and mortgage payments need to take priority.
Try to create a balance and try to space the punts every other week , maybe even after 3-4 weeks.
This gives you something to look forward to- like a reward.

[Midnight_Prowl]

Hi burwood, i had similar experience with u, used to go to punting whenever i had time, would at 3am, after work....
But back then i was single, tons of money, now due to mortgage and lots of bills, i hv no choice but stop, if u r like friend who pays everything using their c/c..... I would suggest cut it up, as he has over $100k in debt......
It is all upto u.... Ur own will and determination, get part time job on da weekend, or volunteer, just occupy urself

[jazzlau90]

No problems Burwood Road, we are all happy to help. Wizard is absolutely right, this is a forum to post ur experiences and issues. Its always open to everyone so as long as we are able to help ya out, its all good.

Everyone has raised very valid points and tips. Hopefully it'll work out for ya. :)

[Max Impact]

Im addicted too but this should not be in the After Report section.

[mannykay]

Do what I do when I get the urge.

Masturbate.

[cisco]

5 0 1 = Masturbate

[Booster]

Try going to the gym, and as suggested, porn.

[AHLUNGOR]

Hi Jazzlau,

Thanks for inputs, I have recently started spending money say in last month I spend close to 3500. On Weekend I tend to visit multiple shops. This long weekend I spend about approx $150 x 5 in two days. and today 130. it is 3 pm and I am thinking of going to The Site or City - kent street.

So in summary, Monday to Friday say 2-3 times depending how much busy I get at work. And 3-4 times weekends.

I do want to solve this as this is effecting my work and concentration, I am always thinking of Eva, Tiffany, Nancy ..

Hi, sounds like you are a young dude only recently started punting??

If that is the case, then i dont see any issue there, its a novelty and it will wear thin and you will be back to normal say in 3 to 6 months or when your punting money runs low whichever comes first!!

Not sure if you have any emotional issue as well like recently broke up with a girl friend.......punting is a good way to release your stress and help you to move on, at least there are plenty of pussies and sex to have as you please.

Sex drives is a good thing, as long as you have the financial and physical means to satisfy yourself why feel guilty or try to surpress it !!

If i am still 30's yr old and single and have the money, i probably will go punting everyday and have multiple shots each session!!

Cheers

ps. And i am thinking of Lisa, Coco, Milo, Momo, Penny, Cici, Kelly, Nancy, Yumi, Shelley and Yuki......... all the times too !!

[the wizard]

Well put bro Ahlungor, a good punting session can restore your confidence and restore your self esteem if you have gone thru a rough patch.
Gives u a high just like when you come back from a great holiday.
If I could punt every single day I would, but common sence and discipline should prevail.

[Burwood Road]

First of all, I would like to thank everyone for sharing their ideas/suggestion.

Hi Booster,
Yes that is what I did on Monday went for a run but was still not enough.


Hi AHLUNGOR
Yes you are correct, I have recently started say in last three months. And again spot on may be emotional related (rather not discuss other than there is no such thing as love).

It was only after a bad experience at one of the shops in (Blacktown 18) I became aware what I have been doing is not giving me any satisfaction.

So in summary, only thing I was to see someone new, and does not matter what experience I have at the time but in the end I have empty feeling. I don't know how to describe.

Once again thanks to all bros. for you input. BTW I did restrain myself, as suggested by few bros. went to swim for 1 hour, that did nothing, so went running around Saint Lukes and Queen Elizebeth Park. Came home had a go at punching bag.

Anyhow I don't think I will be working hard tomorrow, I have decided I going to kent street, to get sucked dry :)

[Booster]

So in summary, only thing I was to see someone new, and does not matter what experience I have at the time but in the end I have empty feeling. I don't know how to describe.

Here's an article about prostitution, it's research is based in the UK, so some of the things are of course very different.

The research was done in 2009, and whilst I haven't read it yet, I intend to do so.
I guess I'm someone who's interested in the psychology of humans.

I only found this article, as in your previous post, you said that punting had left you feeling empty.
I perhaps hope that this may give you some insight to the way you feel.

This is the article which links to the report.
Why Men Are Hooked on Hookers
Paid sex 'unfulfilling, empty, terrible,' and irresistible, they say
(http://www.newser.com/story/78488/why-men-are-hooked-on-hookers.html)

The actual Guardian report can be found here.
Why men use prostitutes: The reasons why many men pay for sex are revealed in the interviews that make up a major new piece of research (http://www.guardian.co.uk/society/2010/jan/15/why-men-use-prostitutes)

[cisco]

I got the same feeling each time i finished my session expecially on the way home....so lonely
Maybe i really need girlfriend

[Max Impact]

I got the same feeling each time i finished my session expecially on the way home....so lonely
Maybe i really need girlfriend

I don't get that feeling on the way home- just elation. Careful what you wish for or it might come true.

[IExperiment]

lol you guys. Dont worry just have fun and make the best on what you have and what you can do. Problem with guys are we get bored to easy no matter what you have, we always need something different now and than.

[cisco]

I don't get that feeling on the way home- just elation. Careful what you wish for or it might come true.

Yep you are right bro max impact , i just shared what i had felt last time as other bro got the same feeling ...

[cisco]

lol you guys. Dont worry just have fun and make the best on what you have and what you can do. Problem with guys are we get bored to easy no matter what you have, we always need something different now and than.

Yep bro , lets move on ...bang and bang... Whos next? Ha ha ha...

[Booster]

The only time I feel empty and unfulfilled is when I've had a bad punt, just a waste of time and money.

But when I've had a good punt, I float down the street, and sometimes get random flashbacks, days and months later, and I think "FUCK YEAH, THAT WAS GOOD".

[Alexlim]

I used to addict :) before and used to feel like Cisco bro after session. wHEn I met Spicy Kid everything was changed by her cute, I was happy to punt and wanna see her more and more until I realize I should have my own GF but it doesn't work I don't like to hug and fuck the log! ANd now I will start to complete my long list again... Too different feeling between WL services and sex life with GF...

And the big case that it shouldn't happen is my erection problem when I have sex with my gf but my little bro could be very strong during the punting time

[slarty]

lol you guys. Dont worry just have fun and make the best on what you have and what you can do. Problem with guys are we get bored to easy no matter what you have, we always need something different now and than.

That is so true. There was a thread on another forum somewhere that asked 'what are the reasons we punt'? In that thread someone suggested boredom as one of the reasons. I got to thinking about it and realised I was often punting when I had time on my hands but no particular plan on what to do. So armed with this info (that should have been obvious lol) I now force myself to make myself busy with something I had been putting off rather than mindlessly punting every time I get bored.

Nothing wrong with going for a punt but it can get expensive if you get bored often :)

[TheTiger]

Burwood Road,

You need to get a hobby to keep you busy in your free time. Join a gym, hang out with mates, buy a car and fix it up ... something ... anything!!!

[jazzlau90]

Funny thing I've noticed is that some of us have been posting the importance of a hobby to Burwood Road without realising that it doesn't really help in stopping a punter from getting the urges, it's not that easy to overcome this. I guess it's about just finding a balance and trying to resist the need to punt

[Booster]

Hey Burwood Road,

Like me, you might be addicted to punting if:

You think every second girl on the street is a WL
Whenever you see a group of girls, you think "If this was the lineup, which one would I choose?"

Well, if you're addicted, I guess that's why they're called hookers:shout:.

[chandra_man1]

Booster
Those 2 lines are exactly what i think whenever i see girls. And also wondering which one does CIM, DD, shaved, small pussy etc

[IExperiment]

Booster
Those 2 lines are exactly what i think whenever i see girls. And also wondering which one does CIM, DD, shaved, small pussy etc

I am sure most punters look around wether if they are WL or not and most of the times if I see a hottie walking around I always think hmmm wish I could tap that :) we dont get call horny wolfs for nothing. Sex is in our brain just look at the star's they like to swap around after a few years :) some dont even last a year.

[IExperiment]

I am sure most punters look around wether if they are WL or not and most of the times if I see a hottie walking around I always think hmmm wish I could tap that :) we dont get call horny wolfs for nothing. Sex is in our brain just look at the star's they like to swap around after a few years :) some dont even last a year.

Actually half of me wish I was single so I can actually make the effort to court them, than I have the chance to tap that :)

[DeepImpact]

I would like to share my recent experience. Since last 11 months I have increased desire of having sex everyday and I cannot stop thinking about it. I am getting temporary satisfaction after visting some of the shops, I have been to most of shops in Blacktown, Lidcombe, Gandville, both shops in burwood and plenty more but I keep wanting more .. more.

I had been to Blacktown 8 new girl forgot her name, service was ok as you would expect from new girl attitude was good. It has been only couple of hours and I am now thinking I should go to The Site or City .. does anyone feel like this? Do I need to seek some help?

Question keep poping up am I a sex addict?

Hello Bro Burwood Road,

I don't think having the desire to have sex everyday means that you are an addict as after all I am sure that most guys since they hit puberty think about sex many times a day so thinking about it just once a day would be unusual I think.

Your question is most likely about are you addicted to brothels and why do you keep going. If you are finishing each time and walking out mostly dissatisfied and immediately thinking about the next punt then I think that there is a problem. Being addicted is being in the waiting room of one brothel waiting for the girl to become available and then phoning another shop to organise the next session a few hours later, even before the first session has happened. The problem may relate to what your expectations are and what your then experience is. If you desire a 18 to 21 year old young lady that is going to give you a girl friend type experience such as kissing, BBBJ and be really enthusiastic and you are not getting that then it might be an idea to not use these same shops anymore and come up with a new approach.

Firstly know your budget and know what you actually want. I would recommend a step up in quality for you and start to visit some of the outcall agencies that are active and well reviewed here. You can still end up spending the same money but the frequency is reduced. If you go to these other places 8 times a month then you might end up getting 2 to 3 outcall agency girls instead. If you have a good time with them you will feel satisfied and remember it well for a couple of weeks while you look forward to the next one a few weeks later and you could allocate a time each month for example you punt on the first and third Thursday of every month so that way whenever you feel like going you can just tell yourself that there is only X number of days to go before your next punt and then go and do something else. Spending $300-$400 for an hour with a girl sounds like a lot but if you are already spending that much on 3 to 4 other girls and not being satisfied then why not cut back on quantity and increase the quality. You are never going to know if it is simply a quality problem that you are experiencing and you are being motivated to see the next girl as soon as possible because you are hoping to have a good experience rather than it being the case that your sex drive is making you do it unless you go and try one of these girls.

Good luck with everything