How fickle is a relationship with a WL?

[project_manager006]

Had a 'thing' going on with a WL, everything seemed to be going well, but all of a sudden she falls off the radar - doesn't reply to texts and doesn't answer my calls.

Seems like relationships with a WL can disappear at anytime, no?

[cassius]

Definitely Standard Operating Procedure.

But its the same for any Asian girls isn't it?

[cisco]

When they want to call you then they will call you, when they want to reply you then they will reply you, so all up to her , just dont put to much Love or you will hurt at the end ...

[project_manager006]

Yeah kinda hard bro...guess I put all my eggs in one basket in this one...

But I'm the type who needs to know the answer to everything, so going crazy wondering why...

[guān liáo]

It shouldnt be 'all up to her'. If you feel you're being disrespected cut her off, doesn't matter if she's a WL or not. She's being rude to you bro, you deserve better.

[project_manager006]

Also sage advice. Thanks bro.

[cisco]

Try to understand the WL World its so hard to understand even sometimes got the feeling want own her all but still its complicated even sometimes the question will be end up with a blurred answer and want to forget but its already leave a scar , its hard and so hard....

[gunit]

Had a 'thing' going on with a WL, everything seemed to be going well, but all of a sudden she falls off the radar - doesn't reply to texts and doesn't answer my calls.

Seems like relationships with a WL can disappear at anytime, no?

I thought I was the only one, I had the exact same thing recently (hope it's not the same lady)...I was really nice to her (maybe too nice) and all of sudden everything stopped :( can't even get in contact with her. anyway I got over it pretty quick.

[cisco]

Just make it easy like i do now, go to shop bang bang and never ask phone number to avoid this thing happened so won't be crazy at the end..cause all this thing happened from a simple action " ask phone number " ...and there will be story like this, i've been there and hurt my feeling so much so no more again.

[guān liáo]

I think going to her shop to confront her is a bad idea, it will make you look clingy, desperate and even (from her perspective) dangerous.

Believe me, if she is a good looking WL shes got dozens of customers infatuated with her, probably including a 'select few' she's given her number to and fucks for 'free'. This is doubly likely to be the case if she offers GFE. Cutting guys off is her way of dealing with relationships that are becoming too complicated.

[cisco]

Agreed bro

[cassius]

it is men's nature to want to talk, to understand, and to find resolution. But I think the girls do not think like this. Actually they do not want to communicate. So if it gets hard for them, or just a little complicated, they disappear.

[Travelmate]

I think going to her shop to confront her is a bad idea, it will make you look clingy, desperate and even (from her perspective) dangerous.

Believe me, if she is a good looking WL shes got dozens of customers infatuated with her, probably including a 'select few' she's given her number to and fucks for 'free'. This is doubly likely to be the case if she offers GFE. Cutting guys off is her way of dealing with relationships that are becoming too complicated.

cannot be more accurate

[altgourami]

Really hard to be a WLs guy.

She wants you exclusively even though she should still be able to work.

She will be jealous if she hears you've been to another shop.

She will be out of touch when she needs to be, but she will keep tabs on you every day.

She might be earning more than you but she still wants you to pay for everything.

You are the reminder of her life now, you are not a long term thing for her, she will be a good girl for the right guy, at least until she gets a visa, and will pretend to not know anything about her working life.

A WL is a chameleon. A practised liar. A girl who stubbornly locks her real self deep inside her soul.

Beware of dating WLs. They have experienced too much and are no longer a typical ordinary girl; they are free of that need for the love of a man.

[Travelmate]

Really hard to be a WLs guy.

She wants you exclusively even though she should still be able to work.

She will be jealous if she hears you've been to another shop.

She will be out of touch when she needs to be, but she will keep tabs on you every day.

She might be earning more than you but she still wants you to pay for everything.

You are the reminder of her life now, you are not a long term thing for her, she will be a good girl for the right guy, at least until she gets a visa, and will pretend to not know anything about her working life.

A WL is a chameleon. A practised liar. A girl who stubbornly locks her real self deep inside her soul.

Beware of dating WLs. They have experienced too much and are no longer a typical ordinary girl; they are free of that need for the love of a man.

it is some what true ... but not for all.

Thanks for the tips .....

but if you meet a nice one, will you choose not to go out with here because of all the above reasons as what you said???

[oinkonk]

Rabbitohs to win in 2014!!!

[numberonebigsize]

Aahh,aint love grand.Its spring and love is in the air. A smitten young punter falls head over heels in love with a young lady whom he first encountered whilst fucking her senseless in return for handing over his hard earned cash. No matter our boy is a fast worker and asks her out to a romantic candle lit dinner,they gaze into each others eyes,sipping champagne,making smalltalk:
WL: how was your day my darling?
PUNTER:I had a good day my sweetheart,i processed 4 loans at the bank and had them all settled by 4pm. My boss is very impressed.
WL: You must be very good. It is good when the boss is happy.
PUNTER: And you,my honey bunny did you have a good day?
WL:I had a wonderful day baby. I had 10 clients and was out the door by 6pm. There was lots of variety too.
PUNTER: What do you mean my sweetheart?
WL: Well my darling, i was FUCKED by seven guys, one had a 9'' COCK and it made me so wet that i came twice.Then i had 2 guys cum in my mouth BBBJ, and then there was this wierd old prick who blew cum all over my face and hair.I walked out with $1000 cash so i am very happy sweetie. By the way i hope this restaurant is not too expensive for you baby.

This romantic smalltalk over dinner certainly brings a lump to the throat of all true lovers. Did they live happily ever after??????? Only a cynic would disagree that this was a union made in heaven. REMEMBER: girlfriends are like buses, if you miss this one,dont worry,there will be another one along shortly.

[Littlewonder]

Really hard to be a WLs guy.

She wants you exclusively even though she should still be able to work.

She will be jealous if she hears you've been to another shop.

She will be out of touch when she needs to be, but she will keep tabs on you every day.

She might be earning more than you but she still wants you to pay for everything.

You are the reminder of her life now, you are not a long term thing for her, she will be a good girl for the right guy, at least until she gets a visa, and will pretend to not know anything about her working life.

A WL is a chameleon. A practised liar. A girl who stubbornly locks her real self deep inside her soul.

Beware of dating WLs. They have experienced too much and are no longer a typical ordinary girl; they are free of that need for the love of a man.

OH so true

[Eff2fifty]

Aahh,aint love grand.Its spring and love is in the air. A smitten young punter falls head over heels in love with a young lady whom he first encountered whilst fucking her senseless in return for handing over his hard earned cash. No matter our boy is a fast worker and asks her out to a romantic candle lit dinner,they gaze into each others eyes,sipping champagne,making smalltalk:
WL: how was your day my darling?
PUNTER:I had a good day my sweetheart,i processed 4 loans at the bank and had them all settled by 4pm. My boss is very impressed.
WL: You must be very good. It is good when the boss is happy.
PUNTER: And you,my honey bunny did you have a good day?
WL:I had a wonderful day baby. I had 10 clients and was out the door by 6pm. There was lots of variety too.
PUNTER: What do you mean my sweetheart?
WL: Well my darling, i was FUCKED by seven guys, one had a 9'' COCK and it made me so wet that i came twice.Then i had 2 guys cum in my mouth BBBJ, and then there was this wierd old prick who blew cum all over my face and hair.I walked out with $1000 cash so i am very happy sweetie. By the way i hope this restaurant is not too expensive for you baby.

This romantic smalltalk over dinner certainly brings a lump to the throat of all true lovers. Did they live happily ever after??????? Only a cynic would disagree that this was a union made in heaven. REMEMBER: girlfriends are like buses, if you miss this one,dont worry,there will be another one along shortly.

Love your work......

[jazzlau90]

You gotta take the initiative too, just call her or text her back. Don't wait for her, it might take forever.

[zhaileng]

My 2 cents worth. As much as there is usually a general theme/pattern/outcome across most stories of punters dating WLs, am sure there are a few exceptions. But go into it with your eyes wide open and ask yourself what you are prepared to accept or put up with especially when they are still working and not prepared to give it up yet.

[altgourami]

Post of the year !!! Well done !!!


aahh,aint love grand.its spring and love is in the air. A smitten young punter falls head over heels in love with a young lady whom he first encountered whilst fucking her senseless in return for handing over his hard earned cash. No matter our boy is a fast worker and asks her out to a romantic candle lit dinner,they gaze into each others eyes,sipping champagne,making smalltalk:
Wl: How was your day my darling?
Punter:i had a good day my sweetheart,i processed 4 loans at the bank and had them all settled by 4pm. My boss is very impressed.
Wl: You must be very good. It is good when the boss is happy.
Punter: And you,my honey bunny did you have a good day?
Wl:i had a wonderful day baby. I had 10 clients and was out the door by 6pm. There was lots of variety too.
Punter: What do you mean my sweetheart?
Wl: Well my darling, i was fucked by seven guys, one had a 9'' cock and it made me so wet that i came twice.then i had 2 guys cum in my mouth bbbj, and then there was this wierd old prick who blew cum all over my face and hair.i walked out with $1000 cash so i am very happy sweetie. By the way i hope this restaurant is not too expensive for you baby.

This romantic smalltalk over dinner certainly brings a lump to the throat of all true lovers. Did they live happily ever after??????? Only a cynic would disagree that this was a union made in heaven. Remember: Girlfriends are like buses, if you miss this one,dont worry,there will be another one along shortly.

post of the year !!! Well done !!!

[altgourami]

I might be a cynic (actually, I'm not, I fall in love regularly and believe anything a girl says to me with my love goggles on) but remember this: it is a very hard job to pretend to like to be fucked by all and sundry. A WL is either dumb, extremely calculating, new to the job, a good business woman or enjoys sex with many partners just like, ahem, we do.

A girl - anyone - cannot be expected to hold up regular loving relationships after getting used to fucking 10 guys per shift and taking all comers: big cocks; smelly guys; hard pumpers; soft and sensual guys; fat guys; thin guys; old guys; young guys. The list is endless and someone working in a public shop generally sees most through the day.

And guess what? Some customers will actually make her laugh, feel happy and cum. And she will enjoy seeing those guys. And they will bring her presents.

It's a fucked business and not for th faint hearted. I will fall in love with the next girl I feel tingles with but I know it will all end in tears for her and me.

Never fall in love with a working girl; a girl who stops work for you will be jealous and expensive but that is the only way it will work. If she stops. If she does not stop then there is no hope. Don't be jealous. Just go to her shop and see her friend. :-)

[altgourami]

And I am speaking from lots of experience in this realm. Even fell for a Yamada girl. Never see the same girl more than twice in a row. Never go to the same shop more than twice in a row. Punt in different suburbs. Variety and inconsistency is the way to stop falling for a particular girl.

Believe these words; I have been hurt more than once and I am sensible now. :-)

[AHLUNGOR]

Excellent readings!!

I think i should contribute something, not from my own experience though, this is TV drama, Scandals!! just this Monday, sorry if you already seen it but one for those who missed:

Olivia Poole's firm is representing a high class Washington DC madam and the DA wants her clients list, one guy on the list is just about to be norminated for a seat on the US Supreme Court.

Olivia confront his honour and asked him to pull out from the nomination and the judge swear that he never used an escort in his life!! Was he lying??

It turned out that it was his wife who was the high class hooker, she met the then law student in a bar on her first ever job (but she got stood up) they hooked up and became friends.

The wife worked as escort to pay for her law school and along the way also helped the judge financially, she put him down as a client on the book and paid his fees out of her own pocket so she can have time to see him.

It was a nice story, they both graduated and he worked his way to become a judge and she married him and had a family.

It all became unstrucked when the President called on him to serve and all hell break loose, she has to tell him who she was and what she did!!!

It was very good TV

Cheers

So what do we learn here??

Sex workers will have scars for life and once in a while for the unlucky one, came back to ruin your life, only on TV, may be, may be not!

[guān liáo]

No wl plans on working in the industry forever - they all plan on leaving it behind someday with a big wad of cash, and marrying some decent regular guy who has no idea what she did before they met. Many wls would never enter a serious long term relationship with a customer, because then they can never bury the secret or leave their shame behind

[zhaileng]

I think altgourami and guān liáo both make sense. But guān liáo, on the upside, if her relationship with the customer works out, at least the WL will not be afraid of her past being exposed in future.

[Max Impact]

[QUOTE=altgourami;53344]And I am speaking from lots of experience in this realm. Even fell for a Yamada girl. QUOTE]

I think I know the Yamada girl you are talking about!

[the wizard]

So many good views

I try to remind myself the WL's world is not my world, getting involved will lead nowwhere.
Its just a live fantasy for a hour or so and after that I'm back to my reality. (hopefully)
It's a world I couldn't even begin to understand especially when the younger one's should be behind a Macca's or Big W counter

There are ordinary girls out there that would probably give you heartaches too,
but they would be nothing compared what you would go through with a WL

[splash]

Its all about game like I said

you take responsibility for everything you do in life, relationship with girls working in this industry is like getting into a relationship with any other girl of any industry. The only difference is the nature of her job, if you really care for the girl, you would understand her reason for doing it, and work something out between the two of you (very important to have conversations), and this is all up to you, don't wait for shit to happen, make things happen, but be smart about it.

[altgourami]

Oh, yes? Make it public, we can talk about it. It'll be therapeutic to talk about it.


[QUOTE=altgourami;53344]And I am speaking from lots of experience in this realm. Even fell for a Yamada girl. QUOTE]

I think I know the Yamada girl you are talking about!

[guailo]

Getting into a serious relationship with a WL (i.e. by definition - she is still working) - you either gotta have balls of steel or prepare for the worst. The most I got out of such relationship outside the shop = free fucks and some services I cannot get at the shop.
Had a nice thing going with an Asian WL once. It wasn't terribly serious as we both know she is still in the industry. I get to fuck for free and extras etc. With hindsight, the perks did not come free. Paid for quite a bit during my time with her. May have been cheaper to pay at the shop.
The she suddenly disappeared. Thought she was deported or something. Disconnected her phone etc. About a year later, saw her in another shop. Apparently some client had taken a fancy to her and took her out of the industry. She thought she had found her ticket out of the industry and happily "dumped" me. She came back to the industry after the bloke dumped her. Karma.
She gave me her new number and asked me to call her etc. I threw away the number when I left the shop.

[altgourami]

Good on you. A WL who lies to her BF does not deserve a second chance.

[guān liáo]

Doesnt sound like they were in any serious sort of relationship.

Personally, i think the most you can ever aspire to be with MLs/WLs is friends. If you enjoy her company and respect her character then just chill together, a little fooling around on the side maybe, but no strong emotional attachment because thats just going to end badly. Having said that, if she doesnt return your calls or treat you respectfully shes not acting like a friend at all so cut her off you definately did the right thing I reckon.

[IExperiment]

Good on you. A WL who lies to her BF does not deserve a second chance.

Good reading :) what about a BF who lied to a GF there is more plenty of this one :) I have done it all :) and loving it just got to know when to let go or keep :)

[wilisno]

Good reading :) what about a BF who lied to a GF there is more plenty of this one :) I have done it all :) and loving it just got to know when to let go or keep :)

Yep, it works both ways, just be alert and avoid becoming a victim !

[IExperiment]

Oh, yes? Make it public, we can talk about it. It'll be therapeutic to talk about it.

[QUOTE=Max Impact;53450]

Is it Lungor :) cool damn I must be an idiot :) cause when I saw her yep she was great service :) but after 30 minutes I send her away as I was meeting with some friends and we were in Casino Star suite that night, instead going second round and she wanted to go second round as well but I told her I have to meet my friends so paid her and send her away what a fool I am :) I was thingking hmmm my second round might be to long and to much work :) anyway she was good. I bump to her a few times but nothing happens just chit chat so only had a session with her.

[IExperiment]

Yep, it works both ways, just be alert and avoid to become a victim !

Haha were more of a basterd trust me :) why they they call us :) Dirty Devil,wolfs, biggest cheaters, woman do it to make money or love we do it cause were fucking horny :) anyway life great :) make it happens.

[bill_100]

Had a 'thing' going on with a WL, everything seemed to be going well, but all of a sudden she falls off the radar - doesn't reply to texts and doesn't answer my calls.

Seems like relationships with a WL can disappear at anytime, no?

Project Mgr, not sure what you mean by being in a relationship means, were you taking her out as a girlfriend or only using her for as a regular punt?

If she is Asian maybe her visa has run out or she had to back either temporarily due to family issues or has earned enough. Thus she may not have got your messages, or if she did was too timid to tell you she is going.

Nothing wrong with becoming friends with a nice "fuck buddy" and seeing her regularly but need to beware not to think or allow it to become anything more than that.

Difficult, I know and that is a major reason that most WL will not do DFK as that makes it much more personal to them.

[andyfromoz]

Hello guys. This is a very interesting post and I wanna contribute with my own experience which kinda falls in the opposite spectrum.

I'm an older bloke, 42 now. Ten years ago I started seeing this drop dead gorgeous eastern-european WL about seven years my junior, until the point where I started to see her exclusively at her shop. Never really felt jealous about her work because I still frequented other places as well.

We became really close and during the course of our relationship, it became known to me that the her primary motivation to work is to support her father's medical treatments. Suffice it to say, given the amount of money it costs per month, I could never give her enough to replace her income even if I had wanted to.

Anyway, long story short, I didn't think the relationship was going anywhere until one time she told me she was going overseas for a break to visit her family and asked if I wanted to come along. I was intrigued so I replied yes then off we go.

All in all, I spent a very relaxing and fun three weeks in Russia. On the night before I was due to return to Sydney, she revealed to me that she didn't need to go back to work anymore because apparently all this time her family had been applying for a grant from their local government to pay for her father's medical bills and it had been approved. She asked me right then and there if I really did want to be with her and I said yes.

Fast forward to now, we are happily married with two kids; almost immediately after we had returned to Sydney ten years ago after her revelation to me, she enrolled in a TAFE education course and now teaches in kindergarden.

As for sex, having worked in the industry previously, her philosophy is to never let a man go horny because he'll just find some slut to fuck, so her solution is to hump me dry every night and suck me off every morning before I leave to work. Honestly, it's not like I have the energy anymore to fuck around, but it'll be a cold day in hell before I share that with her.

Cheers! :)

[Max Impact]

Thats a fantastic story, andyfromoz!:smile:

[wilisno]

Love your story, bro Andyfromoz, you're a lucky man !

[andyfromoz]

Love your story, bro Andyfromoz, you're a lucky man !

Thank you wilisno and Max Impact. I do consider myself lucky. Truth be told, I still get the urge once in a while, but I only go to massage places nowadays.

Just thought I'd share my story with you guys out there. My opinion about dating a WL generally depends on how long said WL has been working.

My wife still keeps in contact with some of her old friends from back in the day and I hear about john - WL relationships all the time from these girls. Some last and become real life-long relationships but sadly most don't.

When girls live in this world for too long, they become used to many different things that normal people just wouldn't be able to keep up with. For most it's the easy money and for some, the freedom and independence. Sometimes they also fall in love but when that honeymoon period is over, that's when they will look for that "thing" that attracted them to their life before.