When do you know its time to call it quits....

[Mozilla]

just wonder brothers out there...

when is the right time or when you know or think its time to quit this habit?

i am by no means a frequent punter like some brothers on here... but i do enjoy some nice relaxed therapy so it would be hard.

but i guess theres going to come a time when one must walk away and say, that was fun. now i need to concentrate on my partner..

any thoughts?

[wilisno]

just wonder brothers out there...

when is the right time or when you know or think its time to quit this habit?

i am by no means a frequent punter like some brothers on here... but i do enjoy some nice relaxed therapy so it would be hard.

but i guess theres going to come a time when one must walk away and say, that was fun. now i need to concentrate on my partner..

any thoughts?
If you think it's a nice relaxed therapy, and you're having fun doing it, why do you want to quit ?

The best time to quit is when you don't feel it's fun anymore, or when you're in financial difficulties .. or when you're having health issues ...

[splash]

Depends on what you are after really.

If for example you are in this for emotional connection then:When after every session, you walk home and feel something was missing, it is time to call it quits or find a girlfriend.

[Mr bmw]

The time to quit is when my little bro fall off or when I'm in my death bed.

[Mozilla]

The stages one goes through:

1. Feel of excitement and anticipation of wanting and needing it.
2. The excitement becomes cravings and wants become need.
3. The act of doing anything to obtain what you are craving
4. the sheer joy and high when you get once you obtain the pleasure you have been longing..
5. the regret after the high and the constant self annoyance that i should have been stronger and more in control and not give in to .......

addiction.

[Mozilla]

.............. then life repeats itself again .... and again.....

'when can i escape this vicious cycle'

[suka02]

Start from b2b or relax massage and gradually you feel yourself it's the cheaper option and you still feeling happy about it. Trust me every time you punt at the end of session you always feel lonely and you always want to comeback for more just to fill you lonely emotion.

Best solution is go out with your friends/girlfriend a lot or get married to get infinite sex lol

[handbanana]

I think you need to speak to a addiction counsellor.

[Max Impact]

Its time to quit when you need to stop at the half hour mark to take another cialis

[TheTiger]

just wonder brothers out there...

when is the right time or when you know or think its time to quit this habit?
but i guess theres going to come a time when one must walk away and say, that was fun. now i need to concentrate on my partner..


When your name is Olando Bloom ...

[cisco]

Depends on what you are after really.

If for example you are in this for emotional connection then:When after every session, you walk home and feel something was missing, it is time to call it quits or find a girlfriend.
I feel like that this past 1 week , no more excited when do the sex anymore, need to take a break for a while....

[cisco]

Start from b2b or relax massage and gradually you feel yourself it's the cheaper option and you still feeling happy about it. Trust me every time you punt at the end of session you always feel lonely and you always want to comeback for more just to fill you lonely emotion.

Best solution is go out with your friends/girlfriend a lot or get married to get infinite sex lol

I feel like that even i go 4 times in a week just to fulfill my lonely and try to forget something,...and at the end still feel so lonely,...so sad

[the wizard]

Depends on what you are after really.

If for example you are in this for emotional connection then:When after every session, you walk home and feel something was missing, it is time to call it quits or find a girlfriend.

I think I might be nearing this level.
Needing to punt more frequently- to fill a void
Even though I'm on cloud 9 after the punts, when the euphoria wears down after a couple of days I am seeking another fix.
I really need to make better use of my resources and seek out a "normal" relationship and go back to add hoc or no punts at all.
God- I certainly would miss the girls, though my wallet could be slightly fatter....

[cuimd2]

1) having a gf - its okay as long as she doenst find out
2) getting married with gf - u need to have some fun before you get married
3) married - same pussy for long time gets boring, do it as long as she doesnt find out
4) having kids - you'll have less time but you can still do it once in a while
5) when kids grow up - ye you should stop before you see your son at the same brothel your in.

[DarkZero01]

I feel like that this past 1 week , no more excited when do the sex anymore, need to take a break for a while....

i know how you feel brother, i am almost at your level now, i will need to try the JAV star from TMC to see if i am still excited for sex or not. Otherwise i will be taking a long break.

[chandra_man1]

Quittings r 4 losers. Go hard or go home

[herecticx]

i will be cutting down to 1 punt a week from now.

bank balance not looking good :(

[mre83]

quit when you have nothing left in you bank balance and maxed out credit card. Until then, enjoy life!

[ddkf85]

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[AHLUNGOR]

quit when you have nothing left in you bank balance and maxed out credit card. Until then, enjoy life!

Been there before, it was a horrible and lonely planet !!

[DeepImpact]

just wonder brothers out there...

when is the right time or when you know or think its time to quit this habit?



The word 'habit' is really the key to all of this isn't it. After all someone that uses drugs might develop a drug habit, meaning the enjoyment isn't quiet there but it's become a habit.

If seeing WL's is just something you do because it's a Tuesday and that's what you do on Tuesday's then it has become a habit. If there is no real thrill from it or you feel some type of guilt or bad negative emotions after most sessions or say to yourself after each punt that it was a waste of time or money and it's time to quit then I think that's the time to have a break and to do something else with spare time or at least cut down and spend the $$ on something else.

There was a song from a band I think called K choice or similar that had a song about addiction called 'Not an Addict' and from memory there was one line that said 'I'm not and addict, maybe that's a lie'. I think this is very true and can apply to more than just this subject.

[TheTiger]

Good analysis DeepImpact, but for me it's about the conquest. I like the control, or the perception of the control. I like to think the girl has to do what I say because I'm paying for it, even though in reality she could deny me. I have a couple of regulars, like Mona from 359, but I also like to see new girls too. Yes, I'm addicted, but it isn't a habit thing for me. I can have weeks without a punt and then have three in as many days.

[Bigfoot]

Two things make me do it. Work and excess money.

I don't have the energy anymore to do things that spent my money and took my time. Now my time is work and down side is work takes away time to be normal go out - night club etc. So in turn you go back ot bad habbits. I'm not talking once a week some times 3 in one night and then in two nights in a row. other times depends on financial situation.

I personally think, if it makes you have to do things you don't want to do. Like work harder to make money to use it then it's time to quit. Don't worr if you need to talk to a therapist about it your not the only one.
My only problem is - Mine is HOT and Asian - with glass's and so I don't talk about that.

[Mozilla]

i feel sometime i go weeks and month with out a hit... and its fine.. then i get a day or two where im bored and i come and catchup on some reading and it gets me fired up and im like .. fuck, i need a hit again... its like quiting smoke and then taking a small puff and next minute you know, im punting twice or three times a week and then realize that i just wasted $500 to $1000 on this entertainment and regretting i should have spent it on something useful like a new PS3 or upgraded my motorcycle which i can have something to show for it.

its probably gonna be weeks of down time again and someone here is gonna report something nasty and im gonna be back again.... fuck! (literally)

[Littlewonder]

Its time to quit when they start to nail the lid on.

[oinkonk]

Rabbitohs to win in 2014!!!

[Mozilla]

yer i went to see a shrink at stanmore last week. still not change in how i feel... maybe i need to visit again this afternoon.

[Sillyboy]

If u reading this site, then the likelihood is you aren't quitting punting! Then why start such a topic? If you're gone quit, then just do it

[slowmotion]

Spot on..Bro sillyboy.

[OhSinnerMan]

If u reading this site, then the likelihood is you aren't quitting punting! Then why start such a topic? If you're gone quit, then just do it

We are talking about it because some of us are wondering whether it is time to stop and feel the fears of continuing as well as the fears of giving up. As we grow older, we face choices that aren't easy. Some members want to understand better. If you think this topic is irrelevant then skip the thread but don't criticise discussion just because it's not important to you.

[Mozilla]

Silly yo is indeed silly...... The topic was ... How do you know it's time... If you quit drinking... Are you not able to go into a bar with mates for soft drinks? If you quit smoking, do you have no friends that are smokers? If you're a retard do you not read anymore?

[Mozilla]

I hope a smoker nerver say.... Should I quit smoking? Cause a certain silly boy and a 'not so quick' slow man... Will say why ask if you haven't quit already? ....

[Sillyboy]

Sounds like you are trying to make punting into a serious vice or a life changing habit with the fears of continuing or giving up. If you are truely wanting to give up punting then you would just do it and really wouldn't be browsing or contributing to a punters forum. I think its a little different to a smoking or drinking which are much more public and common as shared habits rather than punting as a choice.

[AHLUNGOR]

Very simple, when your cock got no hard on no more!!

[cisco]

Silly yo is indeed silly...... The topic was ... How do you know it's time... If you quit drinking... Are you not able to go into a bar with mates for soft drinks? If you quit smoking, do you have no friends that are smokers? If you're a retard do you not read anymore?

So much Agreed ...

[Creeper]

The stages one goes through:

1. Feel of excitement and anticipation of wanting and needing it.
2. The excitement becomes cravings and wants become need.
3. The act of doing anything to obtain what you are craving
4. the sheer joy and high when you get once you obtain the pleasure you have been longing..
5. the regret after the high and the constant self annoyance that i should have been stronger and more in control and not give in to .......

addiction.

Yep that used to be me, usually go through a monthly cycle that would include all 5 of the above stages. Have managed to reign it in a bit lately, but still find myself browsing through cracker on occassion to see whats out there.

Just the pics alone can give you that little bit of a rush

Always looking for that ultimate punt. Had a look in the strangest of places and pretty much had a go at everything.

That grail is out there somewhere,

[kickass]

I won't call it quits until my dick drops off.