Great Punting Dilemmas No. 2 : to talk or not to talk to the ML?

[rooter]

Punting Dilemma No. 2

Tonight's dilemma is a lightweight one and not as complicated as last night's one. I have a much heavier one for tomorrow night.

Again, its one we face all the time. Here it is ...

You go to a R&T place and its your first time with this ML. You have a 1 hour booking and lie down on your tummy.

Now, you have got at around 30-40 minutes on your tummy before she says the sweetest 3 words in the English language: "please turn over".

So what do you do? Do you engage the ML in conversation? Or just remain silent, enjoy the massage and just moan, and say ahhhhh! every now and then?

Engaging the girl in conversation may seem like a good idea and the polite thing to do, but its also very risky. I mean there is a good chance she is just going to go on about the most boring, unsexy, cock softening things; like her financial situation, her kids, her family back in China. After 30 minutes of that it's hard to switch to "sexy time" when she asks you to "please turn over". Also, if she doesn't speak English well and you speak no Chinese, the conversation is even more strained and awkward with pauses that seem to last forever.

The closest analogy I can think of is when you step into a taxi. Do you remain awkwardly silent for the whole trip or strike up a conversation and risk listening to him go on or 30 minutes about the economy, immigration, law and order, corrupt politicians etc.

Remaining silent with the ML is also risky. If you don't establish some sort of rapport with the ML, when it comes to "please turn over" time it's not going to be easy to suddenly get sexy, and she is going to be very routine and mechanical with you, as opposed to if you have had a chat and a laugh and it's all much more friendly and organic.

So which way do you go?

Over to the collective wisdom of the forum ...

[Punted-till-Munted]

I don't like talking in massage.

I let myself fall asleep

[Punted-till-Munted]

regarding being mechanical.

if she is good, won't be mechanical.

will be rewarded.

general rule for me is try be fun and friendly with wl.

don't talk much with ml.
if she innitiates conversation then I try entertain but I like to relax more than anything.

[chandra_man1]

of course you talk. you can use the moment to practise you pickup skill before the big nite out on friday nite. try out all your funny lines/stories, of practise some make bellieve stuff like u are a pilot or high stake financier or corporate lawyer workingin a big ass deal.

[dk1800]

Personally i like talking to the ML's, especially the first time. I find that if you can engage the girl in a conversation about everyday stuff, she tends to relax more and it makes the session flow. And IMO it makes subsequent sessions a lot more enjoyable ;)
Obviously this does not work with every girl but in my experience most girls like light hearted banter and to have a laugh during the session.
As a great man once said "just my2 cents worth" :)

[project_manager006]

Interesting topic.

I used to stay silent throughout an entire taxi trip, but as I got older, I realised that it was a good opportunity to fish for information. Great thing is you can fish for anything! You mentioned it was boring to talk about the economy and corrupt politicians, but to me, it's interesting because I am getting ground level feedback on what society thinks.

I often wonder how the economy is doing despite what the newspapers tell me, so I like to hear it from the people who make up the economy themselves. It is useful information!

[DeepImpact]

It is better if you can engage in small talk and a few laughs with the ML first but it's not always possible as some are boring to talk to so they require even more effort. Choose some easy topics that everyone likes to talk about such as food and travel. If you pick very specific topics such as your ant farm or the best thickness of paper for a photocopying machine then the either the conversation will go nowehere, you will need to do all of the talking or just by pure luck you will find a girl that is also interested in these topics and unlikely as it is you have hit the jackpot.

[myron]

Interesting topic.

I used to stay silent throughout an entire taxi trip, but as I got older, I realised that it was a good opportunity to fish for information. Great thing is you can fish for anything! You mentioned it was boring to talk about the economy and corrupt politicians, but to me, it's interesting because I am getting ground level feedback on what society thinks.

I often wonder how the economy is doing despite what the newspapers tell me, so I like to hear it from the people who make up the economy themselves. It is useful information!

truly PM =)

[splash]

I talk if they talk to me... then I keep talking.

I have discovered something about myself lately with punting (or really, seeing the few girls that I only see), I enjoy the companionship more than the sex. I can talk for a while, and not notice the time go by, and it's 20 minutes into the session and she be like "Damn, it's 20 minutes, we should go to the shower" and I'll be like "I don't mind talking... but yeah let's go."


Time to find a girlfriend.

[the wizard]

I have discovered something about myself lately with punting (or really, seeing the few girls that I only see), I enjoy the companionship more than the sex. I can talk for a while, and not notice the time go by, and it's 20 minutes into the session and she be like "Damn, it's 20 minutes, we should go to the shower" and I'll be like "I don't mind talking... but yeah let's go."


Time to find a girlfriend.


I know how you feel and think that I really need to get out more
and find my soul mate.
Easier said than done though......

[cisco]

Inside this heart , really need a real girlfriend but thats right , easier said then done

[wilisno]

If there's no conversation during an intimate encounter like this, there's no difference than using a blow-up doll ! Or wank at home watching porn, saving money !

[AHLUNGOR]

Yes, this is a good topic and I like to contribute:

For FS, as I usually only goes for 30 min, it's best not to engage in too much conversation, especially in places like 5 Star where the WL usually go through a set routine such as shower you and BBBJ in the shower, if you talk too much and engaged the ML, you may miss out! Better if you are in a hour session.

My massage session is always at least 1 hour, so plenty of time to talk before you turn over. But sometimes some of my favourite ML would talk too much and that would affect their massage, it happens to the best of them, so there are plenty of times I wish they would shut the fuck up and just do the job on me, so many times I just want to stick my cock in their mouths and shut them up...,,,,,lol

My two cents

Cheers

[Booster]

I talk if they talk to me... then I keep talking.

I have discovered something about myself lately with punting (or really, seeing the few girls that I only see), I enjoy the companionship more than the sex. I can talk for a while, and not notice the time go by, and it's 20 minutes into the session and she be like "Damn, it's 20 minutes, we should go to the shower" and I'll be like "I don't mind talking... but yeah let's go."

Time to find a girlfriend.

I would have to agree with Splash, I enjoy having the girls company, and sometimes just chatting whilst holding her close.
This gets back to the GFE, I wonder why so many WL's don't try so hard with this.
In my point of view, they're getting paid to just hug and chat.
Although according to some other posts, some of the WL's are really good at chatting, and not getting down to business.

But if I don't enjoy the conversation, I can just stick my dick in her.

[cmk76]

I know how you feel and think that I really need to get out more
and find my soul mate.
Easier said than done though......

No need to search.. 'your' soul mate is out there looking for you, you just get on with everyday life and enjoy it.

[kickass]

Talking is for the pub ... or when you go fishing with your mates.

[CunningLinguist]

It depends how I feel on the day, I usually wait for the ML to initiate conversation.
Sometimes I will and if it distracts her from the massage I stop, some girls will totally stop what they are doing just to chat.

[CunningLinguist]

Punting Dilemma No. 2

Tonight's dilemma is a lightweight one and not as complicated as last night's one. I have a much heavier one for tomorrow night.

What happened to Punting dilemma number 3 ?

[rooter]

I think you have taken up the mantle bro with punting dilemmas 3 to 17 this month ;)

[CunningLinguist]

I think you have taken up the mantle bro with punting dilemmas 3 to 17 this month ;)

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