what to do to control your surge for punt

[hiddencharm]

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[AHLUNGOR]

So recently I try to put my punting in control. Pretty hard indeed. I have tried playing games, listening to my country folk songs... What are your approaches?

Watch porn at home and jerk off !

Do that daily for two weeks !

You'll save some real cash !

Cheers

[Max Impact]

if you jerk off three times a day you can save $1,000!

[birch]

waste hours on omegle...

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[AHLUNGOR]

To be frank, jerking is something I have been doing for the last 16 17 years and it does affect my health and performance so I don't want to go down that path anymore. The thing is after that, the emptiness it brings to me, making me wanted to punt even more. Even though my income has dropped 40% in the last 2 3months, it is still within the very high end so money is not really the motivation here.

If you have the money, what's your problem ??

[wilisno]

So recently I try to put my punting in control. Pretty hard indeed. I have tried playing games, listening to my country folk songs... What are your approaches?

Go for a binge punting spree until you get sick of doing it ....... it didn't work for me ..... :miao:

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[Mr. Who]

Go to a shop that has the worst reputation and book the girl that has the worst AR rating

[ChanMan]

Agree with the rest, have a mad bat and go to sleep.. wake up have a bat.
Or if you're like me, punt on the TAB. You lose, no punt, you win the punt is feels even more rewarding
:miao:

[AHLUNGOR]

Go for a binge punting spree until you get sick of doing it ....... it didn't work for me ..... :miao:

That's the Clockwork Orange approach brother Wil, if you are old enough to have seen that movie!

Stanley also directed 2001 a space odyssey and eyes wide shut (with Tom and Nicole !)

They took a violent criminal and made him watch non stop violent scenes on screen until he can take no more!

May work too if that's porn .......lol !

Cheers

[AHLUNGOR]

It's a plethora of reasons but I think the main one is that I'm the 'asianfever' type of person but I want to be the 'rooter' type. Inside me it is screaming for affection not sex and it is getting very dangerous.

Ok then, so you are looking for love, passion, friendship and companionship, a soulmate rather than a fuck buddy!

More emotional than sexual!

Now I understand !

But I don't know the answer, good luck brother, hope you feel better,

Cheers

[World citizen]

punting is the symptom of your problem not the root cause.

why are you lonely? what role are you playing in contributing to your own loneliness? what steps can you take to make yourself more receptive to the establishment of meaningful relationships?

[jellyshots]

Depends on what you mean by income in the high end range. When I returned to punting last year in August, my very first punt in Kings was with Monika, a really lean, trim Finnish 20ish year old with short blonde hair. Just about everything about her was smoking hot. She gave great head, awesome kisser and loved sex. What was wrong with her? Well, she had a few guys on the side. When I first got back into punting, that seemed really strange to me. I'd been in this one-guy, one-girl funk for a little while.

In reality, what I wanted and still enjoy is the freedom to show a woman affection, and have it genuinely returned. I only crave this about once a week. So, what I've somewhat changed how I view and do a few things.

Over the past few months, I've slowly and steadily gotten around to a number of girls in my favourite shop. I've spent plenty of time chatting to them in and out of sessions, had them e-mail me back and forth etc. They've let me know a hell of a lot of home-truths. i.e. if you're not a creep and you pretty much treat them with respect, they'll make sure between them, you'll have a great time.

So, what does that mean exactly? Every ML has a guy that is her f*ck buddy generally once a month - in-session only, regardless of whether she is attached. Now lads, this includes the so-called lesbian ones. The trick is to wait them out and let them offer to have you be one of them... I don't tip - that's really fool's gold. I bring stuff with me to a session like wine or chocolate. Something to share. Sometimes it takes one session, sometimes 3 or 4 and they will explore kissing.

Many of them if they do extras, give you a price for a CBJ or sex. Never pay for it. I remember though because that tells me that they think you are attractive enough to f*ck. If they offer it on the first session though, I ditch them and quietly let the other girls know. They really don't care who gives it out for free but they hate competing with each other on the basis of someone's sluttiness.

Now, back to how to leverage that little tidbit of info... Next time you see them, kiss them - that will become normal for them. If things heat up, don't cave in and pay for extras. Tell them how much you enjoy pleasuring and being pleasured. Then, here's the main thing - let them know that you have no problem dating and f*cking women outside. They will then ask why you go there and my response has been, "I like that our sessions are no pressure and I like how you do part 2." If they don't cave into their lust that session, it's usually soon after. After all, they could have banged their FB earlier.

So, the lesson for me was, f*ck as many of them as you like but know that they're f*cking other guys. Get ok with that. Have at least 4 ML's you feel a connection with on rotation and let them know that you're banging all of them - not because you "love" them but because you love the feeling you get with them around. They won't hate you for it. And occasionally, you'll get a newbie like Nikki who has had the chance to talk to the other girls and you can accelerate the process in your session, like I did. You see, you have nothing to lose if she says no - you finish off the session and be very polite then re-book one of your regulars and all is good with the world again.

And don't be shy about dragging them out to the occasional coffee. If you do, have someone take a picture of you two. Then next time you're picking up, show them photos of the women you're banging. Women want to believe that they're "punching above their weight class" too. And manage the girls' bitchiness. I've always used this line, "Hey, don't get catty. I don't care what they do with other guys etc... When they are with me, they treat me very well and I treat them well. Everyone has something that is attractive about them..."

And so how did this all relate to Monkica? Had I not worried about her other guys (in reality it was one guy and two girls), I would have been able to regularly f*ck a smoking hot Finnish girl every week with the occasional "lover" as she called them thrown in. What the f*ck was I thinking when I turned her down?!

So now, do I still love Kova? Yes. As I told her she is for now, #1 in my heart. Will I stop dating other girls, having sex with girls in shop? No. And she knows this. If she's happy with once a week, so am I but there are literally a few hundred ML's and WL's in Sydney so there's plenty out there to give you GFE without feeling empty - in your heart, I mean. Your ball sack should be empty :)

[HengDai]

Well written jellyshots. I like your game and agree with what you've said. The girls have to accept that you're banging multiple girls just like we accept that they are too. Keep it at that, nice and simple and no blurred lines.

Guess there is no "red button" at Kings as well :)

[Punter Poontang]

Well written jellyshots. I like your game and agree with what you've said.

Agreed, I can see that it'd work, it's just no doubt a strategy for those guys with the time and money to be able to reap the benefits .... way too much effort and resources required for your average bloke.

But luckily for us, there is Ginza. :-) All the affection you can handle with your sex, and if it's still not enough for you, then you need to get yourself a real-life girlfriend .... which shouldn't be too hard with good money in this most materialistic of towns.

[DrFeelGood]

Words of wisdom right there jellyshots

Funny how I seem to be falling into the same path with my reg WLs.
My agenda though is to have them both at the same time. Problem is I know they're not gonna get along.


Hiddencharm- my advise, find someone you can "work" on. Give yourself someone or something to look forward to.

[pepefirstlove]

So recently I try to put my punting in control. Pretty hard indeed. I have tried playing games, listening to my country folk songs... What are your approaches?

Ever heard of Fleshlight? Could be a substitution for punting.

[jellyshots]

Whatever I'm doing is working. I got seranaded in Russian today plus invite to the house tomorrow. And I admitted going to Masstig this morning.

[herecticx]

just remind yourself of the reasons why you are trying to stop

[IExperiment]

To be frank, jerking is something I have been doing for the last 16 17 years and it does affect my health and performance so I don't want to go down that path anymore. The thing is after that, the emptiness it brings to me, making me wanted to punt even more. Even though my income has dropped 40% in the last 2 3months, it is still within the very high end so money is not really the motivation here.

Everything should be done in moderation like anything else to much anything become boring or you get stale thats the reason we need to keep busy.

Punting is all the same after a while as there is less feeling just pump empty go home. People who wanted more GFE, real GFE create more trouble we all have our limits of GFE as bareback is more GFE but lead to so many complication, but thats the best GFE or PSE and still get boring after a while, I guess we all have our limits.

Best to find something to do to fill in the void get busy. To much work also not good as at the end the work you do tend to be half hearted and you need a break.

[Yangtze]

It's a plethora of reasons but I think the main one is that I'm the 'asianfever' type of person but I want to be the 'rooter' type. Inside me it is screaming for affection not sex and it is getting very dangerous.

Try for meeting with WL away from shop bro u need relationship!

[jellyshots]

Find them
French them
Fondle them
Finger them
F*ck them

It's taken me a year to figure out that these girls do relationships about as well as we do. That is, poorly. Most of the guys they meet are cheating on their wives and girlfriends. So it's no surprise that they're doing the same. You can try to change the game, which is almost impossible, you can learn to play the game better, like I'm learning to or you can change games, I.e. stop punting for a little while like I did.

[herecticx]

you cannot expect ML/WL to fill your emotional needs

we are people, some people go there because they are lonely, but these wl/ml are just at work.

you see the difference there?


there are lots of activities out there for you to meet people, not just at massage shops,

try this website alot of people just meeting up and doing fun things like, alot of activities and groups catered to your interests

http://www.meetup.com/

Good luck,

[ulie8]

you cannot expect ML/WL to fill your emotional needs

we are people, some people go there because they are lonely, but these wl/ml are just at work.

you see the difference there?


there are lots of activities out there for you to meet people, not just at massage shops,

try this website alot of people just meeting up and doing fun things like, alot of activities and groups catered to your interests

http://www.meetup.com/

Good luck,

Good site, thanks for sharing.

I think exercising would get your mind off punting and plus you will be too tired to punt and good for your health =)

[jellyshots]

Good site, thanks for sharing.

I think exercising would get your mind off punting and plus you will be too tired to punt and good for your health =)

Works for some. Personally out makes me horny. All the endorphins and whatnot...

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[jellyshots]

Yeah, I stop going to gym as well as after the session, the desire is much more. Now I limit myself to 1/2 times a week but bad thing is the session often 4-5h :(.
LOL, nothing bad about long sessions :exciting:

[CunningLinguist]

So recently I try to put my punting in control. Pretty hard indeed. I have tried playing games, listening to my country folk songs... What are your approaches?

Haven't tried it myself but I hear that eunuchs have pretty much got it under control ...
Other than that there is no known remedy ...

[jellyshots]

Meh, who wants a remedy? I'm contemplating buying a return ticket to the Czech Republic to do a 2 week debauchery session ala Rocco Siffredi style.

[Divine]

I have been punt-free since June!!!

Things I did to help me:
-go on syd99 less (A lot of the times, when I read ARs or rosters it definitely gives me the urge to punt)
-occasionally masturbate to porn when you cannot control yourself
-exercise/workout!

Good luck!

[CunningLinguist]

I have been punt-free since June!!!

Things I did to help me:
-go on syd99 less (A lot of the times, when I read ARs or rosters it definitely gives me the urge to punt)
-occasionally masturbate to porn when you cannot control yourself
-exercise/workout!

Good luck!

Maybe there is a punters anonymous forum out there somewhere, for punters that want to give up.
This forum is not really the right place to get help for giving up, so probably best to stop reading it if you want to give up.

[IExperiment]

you cannot expect ML/WL to fill your emotional needs

we are people, some people go there because they are lonely, but these wl/ml are just at work.

you see the difference there?


there are lots of activities out there for you to meet people, not just at massage shops,

try this website alot of people just meeting up and doing fun things like, alot of activities and groups catered to your interests

http://www.meetup.com/

Good luck,

This is just another place to find a fresh meat :) my freind used to be the organiser for this type of arrangement and he always call me to come and pick up. Yes it was fun for anyone under 30.

[jellyshots]

Actually the meetups are a barrel of laughs. It's almost too easy to pick up at these events. I usually pre-book a hotel for the evening for these types of events. And the over 30's scene has some great pickings too.

[herecticx]

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[CunningLinguist]

Actually the meetups are a barrel of laughs. It's almost too easy to pick up at these events. I usually pre-book a hotel for the evening for these types of events. And the over 30's scene has some great pickings too.

I just noticed an interesting one: The Sydney Pick Up Artist Club (http://www.meetup.com/The-Sydney-Gentlemans-Singles-Pick-Up-Artists-Club/)


We decided to start a group for men who want to improve their self confidence with women. What happens is we all go out on a Day or Night out or Seminar with a Pick Up Guru from schoolofattraction.com.au and he gives you quick ways to improve your approach with women now. We decided to do this to give back to the community and to provide a support network for men, whether they're looking for a relationship, casual sex or female friends to hang out with.
For: Single Men
Where: Sydney CBD
When: On Thursday, Friday or Saturday nights
Cost: Free
We will be running events at least once a month so don't be shy, come along and join us! :D

[jellyshots]

I just noticed an interesting one: The Sydney Pick Up Artist Club (http://www.meetup.com/The-Sydney-Gentlemans-Singles-Pick-Up-Artists-Club/)
Urgh, I've run into some of those guys. I actually think the more blokes involved in it, the easier it makes it for other guys to pick up. Literally, they're turning great, well-meaning blokes into arseholes. They pretty much target insecure women. But I'm not complaining too loud - more for the rest of us...

Last weekend I was at a hotel and the guys next door must have had the same thought. It was 7am and they were banging away in the next room, making all sorts of racket. It got even funnier when we got started. There's a very distinct sound to a g-spot orgasm :big_smile:

Faark, I'm horny now.. and I'm going to have to apply some anti-punting techniques to control my surge to punt...

[cmk76]

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[World citizen]

bros on this forum are always in search of a 'girlfriend experience' - dudes be looking for affection, tenderness, and an emotional connection... fucking the girl is incidental, the real story is when a wl kisses you, gives you her number or meets you for a coffee.

[Punter Poontang]

reminds me of a song from late 80's... "my heart belongs to you but my body belongs to the community..."

It's "My heart belongs to you, but my cock is community property".

Community Property by Steel Panther, although they take the piss out of the whole 80's cock rock genre, the song is only a few years old. ;-)

[cmk76]

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[HengDai]

the real story is when a wl kisses you, gives you her number or meets you for a coffee.

this would control my surge for a punt :P haha

[rooter]

It's a plethora of reasons but I think the main one is that I'm the 'asianfever' type of person but I want to be the 'rooter' type. Inside me it is screaming for affection not sex and it is getting very dangerous.
Punting is very very simple.
Pay your money
Fuck
Go home
When the money runs out just stop punting and do something else.

[CunningLinguist]

Punting is very very simple.
Pay your money
Fuck
Go home
When the money runs out just stop punting and do something else.

Yeah like earn more money ...

[jellyshots]

Yeah like earn more money ...

Hahaha. CL, you're a legend :money:

[rooter]

Yeah like earn more money ...

You are definitely onto something there.
Work is a good option. It keeps you busy, productive, engaged/distracted etc.
And at the same time you are earning funds for your next punting spree.
Its a win/win.
Good thinkin' CL.

[Oneonone]

Ain't it a bitch being retired all day to think about and chasse young pussy! What a life!