STIs - sexual health tests and BBBJ, CIM, DATY - Facts not Opinions

[harmony]

Hi brothers.

If you have had unprotected BBBJ in the last few months, or unprotected sex with a sex worker or in your private life, you need to read this...

My friend is a male nurse

In the past, my friend mainly did parlours, but also visited escorts (I dont do escorts yet, still learning the basics)

He has punted for much longer than I have, and unlike me, he is slowing down his spending. He checks himself every year, which probably isnt enough

He is now in a monogamous relationship, and wanted to get another check with his local NSW Sexual Health Clinic

He told me about this, and he motivated me to do the same

To be honest, I havent had a sexual health check for at least 18 months

[harmony]

Like a lot of you, since I started punting, I have visited sex workers on sometimes a twice weekly basis, and am often receiving BBBJ

I can safely say my lifestyle in the last few months therefore involves high risk behavour

I rang the NSW Sexual Health Clinic in my area. I have visited this place at least three other times in the last few years

I will clarify that I am not a sex worker, and not a homosexual

So for the people who say you have to be sex worker or gay, they are giving out misinformation (don’t you love forums ?)

[harmony]

The NSW Sexual Health Clinics probably do only want to see you if you have symptoms, but with a lot of sex, most of us have problems with painful pissing

I said I have had unprotected sex with at least four people in the last month, and wanted to make sure I was ok

I also said, truthfully, that I am thinking of starting a new relationship, and may have had some pain with pissing

My friend also said he had unprotected sex with at least three different people in the last month, which is true, as he tells me each time he has a one night stand. He is more handsome than me

He also told the local Sexual Health Clinic was worried about some pain when taking a piss

These clinics are pretty busy, but both of us had appointments booked (in four, five days time respectively, not the same or next day)

[harmony]

FACT:
When I book an appointment, I always say the same things
I always say the truth, that I have had unprotected sex with a number of women since my last clinic appointment, and generally I say I have painful pissing
There may be a problem with me that has nothing to do with infection, but I have never really had normal pissing. I have never been knocked back with an appointment
I would be happy to say – "Give me an appointment in two weeks – I am happy to wait that long"
I just don’t want to see my GP

FACT:
They ask you not to do a piss for the 1-2 hours before your appointment time. They may need to take a urine specimen from you to check for STIs

FACT:
They took my name and my date of birth and my mobile number
They then sms you the date of the appointment, as a reminder, two days before your appointment
This sms gives you the option to CANCEL, or to rebook

FACT:
The actual sms I received said:
You have an appointment booked at …. On (date)(time). Reference “38CXE”
If you cannot attend pls sms reply ‘cancel’ or call XXXX XXXX to rebook”

Fact:
When I rang, a nurse took my details and booked the appointment
When I went, I saw a DOCTOR, not a nurse
There were a number of DOCTORS present at the clinic when I went

FACT:
I don’t care if I see a DOCTOR or a NURSE, they are all very well trained
Maybe the nurse who books the appointments decides how sick you are, and if you see a DOCTOR or a NURSE

[harmony]

You all need to get checked if you have been practising unprotected BBBJ or unprotected sex with a sex worker

There are some parts to this story that I am going to keep disclosed

This is because each one of you may get different information from the nurse/doctor depending on their individual medical situation

My specific details may not be relevant to your specific details, and I will NOT give anyone misleading information

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I will continue this thread to describe what happened in my clinic, and some information about sexually transmitted infections / STIs

Because I want all of you to get tested and tell us how you found the experience, in an anonymous way of course

[harmony]

I want to tell you all the specifics, but I will probably reserve this for my trusted friends on here

I do PM a lot of my brothers on here, and they know who they are

I respect those that have contributed like I have during their in the forum

I love to help members here that post constructively and often, and avoid criticising others

So for these people, I will be happy to provide more info, probably off the forum if thats ok

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MY ONLY MOTIVE WITH POSTING THIS THREAD, IS THAT WELL ALL GET CHECKED, ESPECIALLY IF YOU ARE GETTING UNPROTECTED BBBJ
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[harmony]

Finally, a few more facts:
FACT: The clinics I have been to are run very professionally, and the staff know their stuff
They will ask how many sexual partners you have had in the last 3-6 months
They will ask you have you had unprotected sex with these people

I think they imply you discuss both oral sex and vaginal sex (and of course anal sex if you do that)

They will ask you if you have slept with sex workers, if you have genital ulcers, urinary symptoms
They will ask you if you take any regular medications

The person who saw me also asked me the nationalities of the ladies I had slept with

Dont know why
I said I slept with a Chinese and a Japanese lady, which is the truth

I will update these posts over the next few days, just to make sure they are all accurate, my brothers
Please continue to contribute to our forum constructively, and we hopefully will all live a very long and healthy life

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Most importantly, we wont pass sexually transmitted infections to our loved ones or our loved working ladies, or massage ladies

[harmony]

Feel free to post your thoughts

[harmony]

And feel free to say in which week you are getting tested ! (no need to say where or with whom, or even the result if you dont want to !)
Just tell us what experience you had, and if it was as hard as you thought

[harmony]

I will reply to my brothers in this thread.
Peace and good health to you and your intimate partners and your 'ladies'

[harmony]

This thread will be updated. I will be getting my results next week

[harmony]

I am nervous, but also I am excited

As long as I dont have HIV, then I will be happy

Of course, Im mainly hoping that I am clear of STI

But also, Im hoping if I have something that it can be treated

[harmony]

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MY ONLY MOTIVE WITH POSTING THIS THREAD, IS THAT WELL ALL GET CHECKED, ESPECIALLY IF YOU ARE GETTING UNPROTECTED BBBJ
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Peace to everyone

[rushmore]

your posts contain many opinions and few useful facts

anyway, I hope your painful pissing is not a symptom of an std, good luck

[harmony]

rushmore
You are welcome to your opinion about 'few useful facts' in my thread

I get criticised more than most for just putting my thoughts out there. Im used to it.

But if you read the related post, and read the whole thread, you will read a lot of conflicting information:

http://forum.aus99.com/showthread.php?38993-BBBJ-CIM-DATY-aren-t-you-guys-worried-about-STIs

My thread is clearly written, and corrects of lot of the misinformation from the preceding thread

Its only half finished, I will provide info about sexually transmitted diseases that the doctor told me about

[Max Impact]

Harmony, have you blown a fuse, man? You are not listening to the facts as I and others have written before.

Punt, write an AR (not in a clinic but a WL) or just read. Your contributions don't add any substance. Sorry dude, that's how I feel.

[harmony]

Ok brother MI
I respect your opinion
No more non AR posts

[Hornyonetwo]

He wont listen max dont bother wasting your time.
He calls for others to contribute but you cant when harmony posts twelve odd replies too his one post.
Strange that he calls for other brothers too contribute and punts twice a week but no ars too help others and claims he does not write well enough for a ar but 500 plus posts proves otherwise.

[harmony]

For the record
I have posted the numerous posts in my thread, to give me space to update this thread
My amended posts will therefore always appear at the top of the thread
It may appear like spamming, and wont happen again, but as stated, I was going to update this thread
One of the posts above was going to be expanded to describe the doctors information, and another on the clinic test results

But I am listening to my brother Max Impact, who I have PMed in the recent past, in a collaborative manner, about our thoughts on life and punting

However, I wont be posting in AUS99 again now, unless for an AR, as per Max Impacts advice

[Max Impact]

Harmony, I really want you to get out there and then report back man! I think your first AR will be great! The suspense is killing us!!!!

[harmony]

Was always my intention to write an AR.
Am going to a new place this week

In my humble opinion, there are are lot of good parlours in Sydney that advertise on here, not just the four or five that get all the limelight, that deserve my attention

Oh, Im a budget traveller in my early travels too, as a lot of you know

I feel safer PMing to someone who has been a fair person to me, and they will be posting it

Im tired of the criticisms of me and my so called empty posts

Have never understood why someone like me, who does his bit to contribute to discussions, should be criticised over the hundreds of lurkers who read this forum every day, and usually dont even bother registering
They use the information, and add nothing, not even a "thank you for your after report"

I have already been happy to share via PM the limited punting successes I have had with very senior members who dont criticise me
And feedback from these senior members is that my judgements are spot on

[Max Impact]

I think your first AR will be very popular and read by many!

[Sextus]

Im tired of the criticisms of me and my so called empty posts. Have never understood why someone like me, who does his bit to contribute to discussions, should be criticised over the hundreds of lurkers who read this forum every day, and usually dont even bother registering


It's called putting your head above the trenches - the others are invisible!

[Licker]

I believe your thread has a lot of opinions, not just facts.
The "facts" aren't really that surprising, or eyeopening.
Your thread is way more than 2 parts (That is a fact, and it's not surprising).
There is a lot of conflicting information in your thread.



On 29-12-2013, 04:32 PM you posted the following



I have last been to the Sexual Health Clinic that I recommended in Sydney Hospital, about 6 months ago

I think generally they want to hear that you have symptoms, but Im just going to say I am high risk, and my GP is not available

So three weeks ago you said that you've been to the Sydney Hospital Sexual Health Clinic (on Macquarie St) about 6 months ago.
At the time you just said you are high risk (I agree), and your GP is not available.




Gosh so much conflicting information on this thread

I have been to the Sexual health clinic in my area, in the last 7 days, and I'm definitely not a sex worker, and definitely not gay

Have been to the same clinic for all my sexual health checks over a long period

The official Harmony thread will be up later today in two parts

So from me you will get no opinions. Just facts


And now you say you have been to the Sexual health clinic in your area (which, since you live north of St Leonards, I presume is the Royal North Shore Sexual health clinic) and that you have had all you health check in the same place "over a long period".




To be honest, I havent had a sexual health check for at least 18 months

Now you're saying it's been 18 months, while 3 weeks ago it was only 6????
Were you lying then or now?


FACT:
When I book an appointment, I always say the same things
I always say the truth, that I have had unprotected sex with a number of women since my last clinic appointment, and generally I say I have painful pissing


"I always say the same things". I think you've just contradicted yourself.

"unprotected sex with a number of women and painful pissing"
So you're telling them you have symptoms of an STI.

These are just a few of contradicting facts in your posts, so now I don't think whether I can believe anything you say.
These are facts about your posts, not my opinion.

My opinion is:
Mate, if you're gonna invent stories, stick to them.
You do know what happened to the boy who called wolf, don't you?

[Licker]

And I'm waiting to see the outcome of this


However, I wont be posting in AUS99 again now, unless for an AR, as per Max Impacts advice

Oh, sorry. I did see the outcome already.

[harmony]

Lying ? Man, why so critical of a brother

I have quite a busy job, and work 7 days a week quite often. If you work as hard as that too, then you will understand just how quickly time goes

When I posted this thread today, I had to trace back my relationships over the last few years to realise that I actually havent been checked for about 18 months

I apologise for any change to my dates, but honestly my medical appointments and my sexual health appointments do blur together
I often forget to do my tax, time goes so quick in some years

Thanks for implying I am making this all up mate. To what end ? I was going to continue with the information my doctor gave me, and the results of my test

But frankly why bother, with people who have nothing but criticism

Lying ? Thats a very strong accusation to be making about someone who at least has never criticised a soul while he posts
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Licker:
"unprotected sex with a number of women and painful pissing"
"So you're telling them you have symptoms of an STI"
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Misinformation there ...
Painful pissing can be due to either a urinary infection (nonsexually transmitted) or an STI

Facts not opinion dude

I was merely trying to tell my experience this month, and also as this post shows, there is a lot of ignorance regarding UTIs vs STIs

As I told Max Impact, who I respect deeply, Im not posting again

Im only posting now to reach out to those who experience disappointment or distress in their punting

[wilisno]

As I told Max Impact, who I respect deeply, Im not posting again
Im only posting now because its only natural to defend myself from those who get off on putting people down in forums

If that's the case, then you'll be posting forever !

Because facts or no facts, there's no new information in all your posts in this thread, everything has been said before many many times !

Even if those facts were indeed your facts, it doesn't mean what the others experienced were not facts, such as you said the clinic saw non-worker like you as oppose to what other said that they don't see non-workers. That doesn't mean what the others said were not facts, such as Max Impact said he was turned away being a non-worker ! So the whole purpose of this thread is pretty meaningless !

So a lesson to all, what one experienced is not the only experience one can get, there's no point to speak like the authority of the matter !

[Hung Lo]

Feel free to post your thoughts

Your friend is a male nurse?

FACT: I have never met a straight male nurse. You're about as likely to find a straight male nurse as you are to find a straight male flight attendant.

Your friend is as queer as a $3 bill.

[markrmau2]

Your friend is a male nurse?

FACT: I have never met a straight male nurse. You're about as likely to find a straight male nurse as you are to find a straight male flight attendant.

Your friend is as queer as a $3 bill.

Perhaps this statement should be rephrased (from the poster's POV)

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FACT: I have never met a straight male nurse.
OPINION: You're about as likely to find a straight male nurse as you are to find a straight male flight attendant. Your friend is as queer as a $3 bill.
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In my opinion, the poster's opinion is incorrect.

Not just because the only nurse I happen to know is male, has 3 kids and only roots female humans.

[Hung Lo]

Not just because the only nurse I happen to know is male, has 3 kids and only roots female humans.

I bet he's getting a bit of cock on the side. You just don't know about it.