Help me restore my faith in women?

[Good_guy_Greg]

I find I have taken on a cynical view of women, basically one where their primary love is for money, not "romantic" love, and they will just go with the richest guy they can find.

I had seen a girl a couple of times where I paid for overnight. I wouldn't call her a WL, as she only advertised on wechat a few times, and works out of her home. I think she doesn't advertise on wechat anymore as she had found a few regulars, and only keeps that up to make a bit of rent money and living expenses.

One time I messaged her to book a night session, and we agreed to a time. As I approached her home, she texted me to say she'd be 15 mins late, which I was cool with. So I just sat across the road from her home, and later on I see some guy driving her home in his Audi. I also saw on her wechat page that some guy had sent her flowers. I just thought it was a bit sad that some guy was in love with her, but here she was rushing home to spend a night with another guy just for money. Poor guy probably thinks of her as a princess.

And recently, I "dated" a WL for a short period of time. She perked up in surprise when she found out about my job, and keeps texting with regulars of hers to keep in contact with them so they will visit her again and again. Although she went out with me for a bit, she has now gone to another state for 3 days, and I suspect some other guy has offered to take her away on a trip. I know I'm just part of a game, but it's clear she just keeps a bunch of (wealthy) regulars and milks them for their money and gifts.

I also know of another famous girl who has been mentioned here many times in the past, had several boyfriends at the same time.

So help me out brothers, is this the game we have to accept, that we will ultimately lose our women to other guys with more money, or are there women out there who are actually "faithful"?

Sometimes I feel stupid for buying these girls gifts, but seems like it's just the way the world works - men provide money and gifts, and women provide sex. Agree?

[astro boy]

Do yourself a favour and walk away from these women, w/l's or not they will burn you.
Find a "normal" girl spend money on them, other than see your gifts etc and your heart thrown in a rubbish bin of a w/l.
There are decent girls out there that would restore your faith in women... real "normal" women and not hookers

[mongolian]

They are called "working ladies" for a reason - $$. If you are after a normal relationship, I suggest you start with the basics (friends, work, hobbies etc). Just don't be expecting bbbj, cim, cof, anal etc (at least not on the first date). 😉

[Oneonone]

They are wl that's what they do for a living, if you want more than that then find a real girlfriend, a non working lady.

These girls are there for your enjoyment when your with them have fun when you leave forget them until next time.

Have fun!

[Rpd]

Trying to find love in a brothel/massage parlor is a big NO!

Its just a way to make ends meet for these ladies, and it should just be a way to get a root/jerked off for us. Making a guy feel like a king is what they do for a living, and they get REALLY good at it. At the end of the day, they don't give a shit how our week was, or what our plans for the weekend are. Its just silly office banter to make the time go a little faster...

[Jg52]

Do yourself a favour and walk away from these women, w/l's or not they will burn you.
Find a "normal" girl spend money on them, other than see your gifts etc and your heart thrown in a rubbish bin of a w/l.
There are decent girls out there that would restore your faith in women... real "normal" women and not hookers

This.

You aren't going to have your faith restored if the only you are trying to see are WLs

[John_Matrix]

^ this is the truth, there are genuine women out there.

[end user]

If your relationship with any woman starts off with you paying her money for sex, it's always going to end badly.
You sound like a good_guy_Greg. Maybe try more conventional methods of meeting someone, like clubs, speed dating, RSVP etc if you are looking for love.
You can't buy true love an hour at a time.

[scrawley]

Hello Greg, I see it like this -

When selecting a mate men place most value on the quality of a woman's genes, overall health and ability to raise offspring. To assess each of these characteristics they looks to visual clues, such as size/shape of mammary glands, size/firmness of buttocks, lustre of hair and symmetry of facial features.

Women are also interesting in health and good genes. In addition, they want a mate who is able to protect and provide for their offspring. So, they look for tall, strong and handsome men. However, they also are want men with material wealth. This is a biological rather than a culturally determined imperative.

If your question is, could a beautiful and desireable woman ever truely love a man with no money, I think the answer is yes but he would need to excel in the other attributes I just mentioned (eg. by fit, handsome, etc)

Would a young, gorgeous girl fall in love with a fat, short, balding man with no money, no job and no prospects? No. This sort of thing does not happen

[black knight]

You sound like a good_guy_Greg.
You can't buy true love an hour at a time.

that's for sure..
W/l's are street smart, determined, assertive and know what they want and how to get it.
and they are so good at playing the emotion game-so be wary-
You could say the same of a lot of women as well-
Stay positive - once you have a genuine woman you might never want to look for W/l's again

[wilisno]

Good_Guy_Greg is on another project again ! ;) ;) ;)

[the doctor.]

Would a young, gorgeous girl fall in love with a fat, short, balding man with no money, no job and no prospects? No. This sort of thing does not happen

well looks like i am gonna be one lonely guy ..
where's the tallest building.....

[scrawley]

For every 'low-value' man theres a woman of equivelent status. You should be focussing your efforts on unattractive, overweight, elderly or disabled women. Alternatively target single mothers.


well looks like i am gonna be one lonely guy ..
where's the tallest building.....

[IExperiment]

For every 'low-value' man theres a woman of equivelent status. You should be focussing your efforts on unattractive, overweight, elderly or disabled women. Alternatively target single mothers.

This is so funny...lol...

[IExperiment]

Sometimes I feel stupid for buying these girls gifts, but seems like it's just the way the world works - men provide money and gifts, and women provide sex. Agree?[/QUOTE]

There is a little chance you will find love with players.
After all I cant blame them as there is different situation with every individual.
Dont get me wrong there is some in the playing field but it is rare and she must love you more than you love her, but since most have been worship by other guys you really must stand out for her to pursue you this is just common sense.

[Rpd]

For every 'low-value' man theres a woman of equivelent status. You should be focussing your efforts on unattractive, overweight, elderly or disabled women. Alternatively target single mothers.

Haha talk about scrapping the bottom of the barrel. You could also find a pretty young thing in Asia that is looking to relocate in Australia. :P

But in all seriousness, I am in two minds about this. I would not consider myself a very good looking man (I am perhaps a 6 on a good day?), but I am always nice and respectful. In my 30-odd years on this earth, I would say I haven't done too badly with the ladies. Even while punting, I would say I get pretty great services without the need to pay for extras.

[CunningLinguist]

I find I have taken on a cynical view of women, basically one where their primary love is for money, not "romantic" love, and they will just go with the richest guy they can find.

I had seen a girl a couple of times where I paid for overnight. I wouldn't call her a WL, as she only advertised on wechat a few times, and works out of her home. I think she doesn't advertise on wechat anymore as she had found a few regulars, and only keeps that up to make a bit of rent money and living expenses.

This is wrong, she is a WL. If you pay a girl with money for sex she is a working girl. Forget her and move on if you are looking for a real relationship.
Also have a read of this thread. (http://forum.aus99.com/showthread.php?37593-The-difference-between-love-and-lust-in-sex)
Also if you are looking for a real relationship you should leave the forum, or get banned, and ty to be more normal. Rejoin after the 7 year itch...



So help me out brothers, is this the game we have to accept, that we will ultimately lose our women to other guys with more money, or are there women out there who are actually "faithful"?

Sometimes I feel stupid for buying these girls gifts, but seems like it's just the way the world works - men provide money and gifts, and women provide sex. Agree?

Try not to confuse your real life with your fantasy life ...

[Oneonone]

You got to just love wl they provide a great service but most of them are seeing between 20 and 100 guys a week are you so special that you are number one.

Forget what they tell you they tell everyone they are number one it comes with the job.

Just enjoy your time be it 30 minutes one hour or maybe more then go home and forget it till next time.

When you get bored move on to another lady there are plenty of great ones out there your just got to find them and this forum is a great place to start.

[harmony]

"Im falling in love with a working lady" - I read these threads and laugh

As Oneonone says, some working ladies can see 16-20 guys a shift, some women working at least 2 - 3 days a week
Thats up to 60 guys a week
The day that you visit a working lady, you may well be the 60th guy that they have met in the last week, fortnight
Wow, how special she must think you are !

After a while, a dick is going to be a dick to a woman, particularly with working ladies as they are focussed on collecting the CASH, and also not getting hurt
I respect working ladies, and good luck to them

Unless you are showering them with gifts (a waste of money), they will not have a need to remember you

Its a hit to the self esteem, but unless you are paying and seeing the working lady every week, you will be forgotten

As many brothers have said above, enjoy your 30-60-90-120 minutes, and enjoy the memories

Another thing - that lady is unlikely to be working there for a long time - before she returns overseas or gets sick of the job - so dont get fixated on any one woman

Find a few ladies who ring your bell, and enjoy the memories while they last

And dont ever delude yourself that a working lady is even 10% as good as a real life relationship, where sex is on tap, provided you pay the occasional meal and birthday +/- Valentines Day +/- Christmas present

The other day, I imagined inheriting $100 000, and actually the full service scene can burn through the money very quickly. You could easily spend $100 000 over a year or so, depending on your preferences. Great for the parlours, and good luck to them

[astro boy]

Delete the bookmark of this forum, take a break from punting, M/l's and W/l's and refrain from watching porn.
Things will start to come back into focus, and this will force you to get out there.

Seeing W/l's just dries you out financially and doesn't encourage you to seek a meaningful relationship, because you are falsely satisfied .
Then depression sets in when you can't satisfy your addiction daily /weekly etc,or if you start to have feelings for W\l's,
become jealous and angry as they prefer to spend more time with others.
You will doubt yourself and your self esteem will be shattered .

Remember the girls and the shops only look at us as a open wallet.
no money- they don't want to know about us

[AHLUNGOR]

Good_Guy _Greg is on another project again ! ;) ;) ;)


He sure did, looking back on the threads started by brother Greg, is there any patterns ?? Or perhaps a few of them are related !



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[Oneonone]

Women are beautiful just enjoy and make the most of the moment, wl should be seen and then forgotten until next time you see them that's how it works!

[dohdoe]

You shouldn't be looking for anything special from a wl. They are there for one thing only, work.

[MagicToad]

Women are beautiful just enjoy and make the most of the moment, wl should be seen and then forgotten until next time you see them that's how it works!

Don't you remember the old saying, "a fool and his money are soon parted."

We have all played the fool at times, so don't think you're alone. But don't make a career of it.

Remember, women are not so beautiful when they're taking a shit, or have menstrual tension,
both pre and post I might add, or when they're fighting, or whining, or a little sick, or when
they wake up fist thing in the morning.

Don't ever lose your perspective, otherwise you're in big trouble.