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dubberjas
26-12-2012, 10:29 PM
Hey guys has anyone tried that site and if so whats the experience been like?

Manackx
27-12-2012, 11:07 AM
I use it when my wife is away for an extended period, but it's not a cheap option unless you happy scrape the bottom of the psycho barrel.

It's a lot of effort but to weed out the crap but you can find what you're looking for. A lot of them chicken out at the last minute, so expect to be stood up quite a bit. Also it's a lot more like dating, except you almost always get laid on the first date. You don't just walk into a room and fuck, wining and dining is expected first, as well as you renting a nice hotel room. All of these costs can add up.

The upside is that for the price of a cup of coffee you can check the girl out before you put any money down.

There are basically 3 kinds of ladies you can find there.

The most numerous are the wannabe premium escorts and when you get through all the BS they are expecting usually between $300-$500 an hour.

The second most numerous are single mums which are a bit of a minefield as I've had some stalker like experiences from them but they are cheap and eager to please. Their bodies usually have some baby damage but if you can get past that I've found for around $150-$200 you can get a MILF for an entire day while her spawn is in school.

The third category and in my opinion the best are the university students. Some real gems out there. The girl I'm seeing currently from www.seekingarrangment.com I pay $300 if she stays with me all night and $500 to go away for the weekend. Plus hotel, dinner, drinks and breakfast. And don't expect she'll want the buffet. Expensive but it you're after an extended GFE with a 21 year old hottie it's probably the best you can do.

BrainSex
28-12-2012, 01:19 PM
My trusty bullshit meeter is going off on this thread. Anyone with more than a few posts ever heard of this website?

dubberjas
28-12-2012, 07:01 PM
BS, I understand I only have a few posts but we all have to start somewhere don't we? At least I am not asking questions that have already been asked rather than using the search button.

As for the website it seems pretty legitimate to me as a stripper I knew (wish I knew alot better) told me she saw my profile on there.

dubberjas
28-12-2012, 07:05 PM
Btw Manack thanks for putting in your time on that review, I was kind of thinking along the same lines but nice to hear from someone who has used it.

BrainSex
29-12-2012, 11:04 AM
I'm sure our forum will be rewarded with plenty of positive stories then.

Puntersclub
02-01-2013, 10:51 AM
Had a look at the site, you can't do much for free. Most of the girls put a much higher value on their pussy than I do. ( I only want to rent it not buy it)

If you find a good WL and a good massage lady then why would you want to spend more than this on someone for dinner and a movie?

BrainSex
02-01-2013, 11:02 AM
Decided to remove a lot of this stuff, really it's not relevant.

Puntersclub
02-01-2013, 11:06 AM
Lol, after my last massage I got lunch as well. If you are a regular you can soon find yourself spending more time than you should. I know when I am making good contact when they let slip their real name.

The point that I was trying to make is that I don't want to work for it and pay for it and I am time poor as a busy professional.

BrainSex
02-01-2013, 11:10 AM
Decided to remove a lot of this stuff, really it's not relevant.

FunkyProfessor
02-01-2013, 04:00 PM
Howdy folks. I've had quite a bit of experience with Seeking Arrangement (SA) over the past 6 months, so thought I might be able to contribute something useful to this thread. Plus, it's either work on my thesis or write about sex. Its a no-contest really! :)

For the sake of credibility - yes, this is my first post on this forum however I am an active punter and contributor to other sites, with about 25 reviews to my name. Some may recognize my handle which is the same elsewhere. I have no affiliation with any site or service provider.

Since late 2011, I'd been seeing 'professional' escorts at least once a week and had developed a great rapport with a number of them to the point where I was enjoying correspondence/communication in between bookings. However, at the end of the day - none of them were able to, or wanted to maintain that level of interaction. So as much as I had been enjoying my time as a punter, I wanted something more. Not a relationship either (I'm in one), just something in between. A 'mistress' of sorts.

I can't recall how I first came across the site, just a random ad banner I suspect (see, they do work!). I'd never used a site like this and I was curious, so I joined up (in August), knocked up a profile outlining what I was seeking and paid what I considered to be a reasonable fee for a three-month membership, just to see how it all worked.

Since I joined back in August and now, I estimate that I would have met up with (just a drink/coffee) with about 30 women, aged between 18-35. Of those, about 20 progressed to the 'arrangement stage' i.e. the payment of an allowance (between $300-650 per week/meeting +hotel costs & other expenses) in exchange for companionship and 'intimate' time.

It was never my intention to see so many as I am serious about entering a long-ish term arrangement with one special person, and while I've met some great women - no one has yet to fully meet my criteria/expectations. The biggest issue that seems to get in the way, is finding mutually suitable times to meet. I am a professional that works quite long hours and studies, and given the majority of sugarbabes (SBs) I meet are students ( I was and STILL am one), I find it perplexing to find that they have such limited availability, or indeed - are quite inflexible. As the 'donor' it is my expectation that they will try and within my schedule as much as possible but to my frustration, that doesn't seem to be the case. Alas, I think it may be a bit of a Gen Y thing...

In terms of the time and effort involved in setting up an arrangement, my experience is that it really doesn't require too much. For starters I ensure that most of questions potential SBs are likely to ask are covered off somewhere in my profile. I'm quite clear, succinct and don't bullshit. I have generally found that I can progress to exchange of mobile numbers and arranging a face-to-face meeting within two emails.

I also ensure I have a selection of photos. Pics are a must. Most SB will not reply to, let alone initiate contact if you don't have at least one photo. And to me, this is perhaps where some of the salient differences between escorts and SBs emerge - that is, most will generally not establish an arrangement unless there is some degree of attraction and compatability. Or you are super wealthy! (I'm not). Despite this fact, it is still easy to argue that SBs are really only one step removed from professional escorts.

I say 'professional' to differentiate between those that actively promote and operate a sex services business (escorts), and those who generally provide sex with a one person or a select few, in exchange for an allowance to supplement/support their other income/interests. But it is a very fine line, I will admit. In fact, I have met one SB who referred to her Sugar Daddies as 'clients' as she had so many going at once. As far as I was concerned, she was a prostitute by any other name.

Anyway, I don't really want to get into a debate as to whether SBs are just another form of escort (most likely) or not, that's for another topic. I just wanted to provide an outline of my experience for those that are interested. As far as my situation goes, after kissing (and fucking :P ) a lot of (some very attractive) frogs, I may have found my perfect SB. At least, after tonight that should become much clearer ;)

Best of luck to those of you are presently, or intending on trying SA. I've had a blast! I'd be happy to answer any questions readers may have.

FP. :cool2:

BrainSex
02-01-2013, 04:09 PM
Decided to remove a lot of this stuff, really it's not relevant.

FunkyProfessor
02-01-2013, 04:14 PM
Sure. Here's my profile on another site. Not sure if you can view it if you aren't a member. http://forums.punterplanet.com/user/18215-funky-professor/

BrainSex
02-01-2013, 04:21 PM
Decided to remove a lot of this stuff, really it's not relevant.

Snork80
02-01-2013, 04:24 PM
Can you please post a link before my BS meter implodes.

I've seen the Professors user name in another forum I look in on from time to time.

FunkyProfessor
02-01-2013, 04:39 PM
How's this BS. Satisfied now? :)

1493

flamingmoose
02-01-2013, 08:56 PM
I'm familiar with FP's posts from other sites and this sounds like his "style" if that helps....

BrainSex
03-01-2013, 09:32 AM
Decided to remove a lot of this stuff, really it's not relevant.

brownwallaby
03-01-2013, 04:49 PM
I know when I am making good contact when they let slip their real name.

. true, the moment of truth is when they reveal their real name .... always love this

wally2
04-01-2013, 11:51 AM
I also am aware of Funky P profile on the other forums and for what it's worth he is legit and is a great contributor.

The BS meter? Brain Sex or Bull Shite or both?

And before you make claims about newbies and lack of credibility I was on rthe format "old" forum under a different name before the new board.

Good Punting.

gpeck80
04-01-2013, 01:42 PM
funkyprofessor sound legit in my book.

myron
04-01-2013, 03:06 PM
I also am aware of Funky P profile on the other forums and for what it's worth he is legit and is a great contributor.

The BS meter? Brain Sex or Bull Shite or both?

And before you make claims about newbies and lack of credibility I was on rthe format "old" forum under a different name before the new board.

Good Punting.

that's the way the anonymity of internet forum works. people will punish your low post count and scrutinise your posting history =).

i too was active in the old forum under different name but have not posted any review these days as i only frequent massage shops now. I have been trying to contact some members here who love to brag their RnT encounter if they would like to exchange infos, but i got no response.

brownwallaby
04-01-2013, 04:24 PM
Myron, we play the same game. happy to exchange wisdom

Puntersclub
07-01-2013, 03:18 PM
LOL, wish i had logged on earlier, I can vouch for the professor, met him in the flesh.

He also introduced me to my current favourite WL. It's hard to shop around when you have good one.

So Prof, the SB's are all aware that the SD's want sex and not some cuddlebuddy coffee mate to listen to them bitch about their mad wives who hold the children ransome so you don't divorce them?

Yes, I have issues...lol.

FunkyProfessor
20-01-2013, 11:02 AM
LOL, wish i had logged on earlier, I can vouch for the professor, met him in the flesh.

He also introduced me to my current favourite WL. It's hard to shop around when you have good one.

So Prof, the SB's are all aware that the SD's want sex and not some cuddlebuddy coffee mate to listen to them bitch about their mad wives who hold the children ransome so you don't divorce them?

Yes, I have issues...lol.

Howdy Puntersclub, apologies for the late reply. As noted above, I'm not really a major contributor to this forum.

In answer to your question, the answer can be one, or other or both, depending on the SB. But honestly, most SBs know the 'game' and what we seek. And if they are new, they soon learn that most SDs are seeking a bit of a hybrid situation between a WL and a 'mistress' so to speak. I've had some SBs that, once we've gotten through some 'get to know you' emails/calls etc...we meet, and 9 times out of 10 sex is available on the first 'meeting'. I always attempt to have a drink/coffee first to get to know one another, but sometimes that is not possible because either they or I need to travel (e.g. Coast) so in those situations it's usually a given, and made explicit before we meet, that a bit of rumpy is in order.

I have several SBs on 'file'. Honestly, most are happy to meet me a hotel, we do the biz, then that's it for another week or so. I have a couple that I really like, who I take out for drinks, bands, strip clubs etc...before we head back somewhere to close the deal. ANd yes, some of them I have the type of relationship with that I can bitch about my 'poor miserable life' LOL and they are very good listeners. Likewise, I also provide advice and mentoring to them.

So in conclusion, I have found the SB/SD relationships can exist pretty much anywhere along the continuum from Girlfriend to WL. It all depends on what we both seek and how much time, opportunity and desire there is to do more that just have sex at the time.

Happy to answer any other questions people may have.

FP

BrainSex
25-01-2013, 12:29 PM
Decided to remove a lot of this stuff, really it's not relevant.

danenth
01-02-2013, 08:07 AM
Article in todays news

http://m.brisbanetimes.com.au/queensland/sugar-daddies-a-learning-experience-for-students-20130130-2dk7z.html

grunt1234
01-02-2013, 06:15 PM
Reading all the comments was more interesting than the article. I for one see no problem with it and one day hope to be able to afford to be a sugar daddy :)

Puntersclub
05-02-2013, 04:15 PM
I still think these girls put a much higher value on themselves than I do and are fooling themselves if they think they are not selling sex. Serious $700 for lunch $1,000 for dinner i want to rent it not buy it.

medragon
14-02-2013, 10:35 AM
Reading all the comments was more interesting than the article. I for one see no problem with it and one day hope to be able to afford to be a sugar daddy :)

Am jealous, but also have no problem with it, although it is in the gray-zone of prostitution..

Puntersclub
15-02-2013, 04:26 PM
i don't know if any tax accountants read this but i would be interested to know if the SD money was assessable income or a gift. It has some qualities of a gift, no personal work performed for money, but is a regular payment where as gifts tend to be one off.

Alcoanno
21-02-2013, 08:37 PM
I have met with a couple of girls from this site. The first girl really had no idea what she wanted or was comfortable with so our inital meet for coffee was as far as it went, no cash spent. The next girl I meet was pretty much the same as visiting a WL. I paid her $600 to meet for drinks and then to go back to a hotel, that I booked, for sex. While she was a nice girl, and seemed genuine, she wasn't someone I was going to pay $600 per week just to fuck. I have had SBs before that I enjoyed spending time with and expected much less cash, and I didn't find them on a this site.

Just a caution too, if you are using this site, I have recently been contacted by http://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/writeto.php?profileid=857847 or alex - Member ID: 857847. She would appear to be a scammer, as she is requesting Cash deposited into her account prior to meeting her. Sounds a bit sus to me.

breech
03-03-2013, 03:28 PM
bloke signs up has a go gives an opinion then gets called a bull shitter.

gpeck80
04-03-2013, 02:57 AM
Brainsex is the resident cynic :)

Rockhard69
05-12-2019, 11:41 AM
Hey guys has anyone tried that site and if so whats the experience been like?

I've had great experiences this year in my first year of using seekingarrangement.

First I needed a lady just to take on a two week business trip. I had coffee with two women who could match my required travel time. Then I invited Girl A for a quick sunshine coast "compatibility" tour. I paid for her overseas ticket and had a great time.

Then I wanted to meet Girl B while I was on holiday in Europe between work trips. After chatting a few girls and a few drop out, met an amazing 32 year Romanian woman who loved sex as much as me. $1,000 for 4 days.

When I was searching for the European girl I also got approached by a Brisbane girl without a pic on her profile. She was a stunner. We'll call her collateral sex as I only met her once before meeting girl B. She deleted her profile due to too many crazies on seeking arrangements website.

Made another search on the website for another trip. Didn't find anyone better than Girl A so invited her to NZ with me for a week.

In summary for me, it was great having a know girl travel with me on a full time basis and not needing to head out into the back alley of my visited cities. As 2019 comes to a close I'm still regularly meeting Girl A & C. Life is good.

funboybrisbane
07-12-2019, 07:09 PM
It works.
Its hard.
Its expensive.
Its worth it.
If your a get in get out type of guy you will hate it.
If you want a nice piece of ass on the side you actually want to spend time with without hassles....
or like me i just like being a "daddy" and helping girls experience things they never would be able to. Then go for it.

Did I mention its expensive. A night meet for me is around $500-$700 remember hotel, dinner, drinks, gifts, ect.
A full day or overnight or weekend will usually be around the $1000-$2000 mark for me.

I have had 4 over the last 6 years. It took me about 5 dates to weed out the BS girls each time i needed to find a new one.

But like i said it has been worth it for me. Some of the nights out and in have been unbelievably fantastic.

Pro tip: try and find the bisexual girls who like girls more than guys. They pick up randoms and bring them back.


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gpeck80
10-12-2019, 10:39 AM
I set up an account a while back. I'm using it to meet foreign women for overseas hookups. So far the pickings are good. Im widdling down a list of 100 prospects.

Rockhard69
10-12-2019, 10:50 AM
I set up an account a while back. I'm using it to meet foreign women for overseas hookups. So far the pickings are good. Im widdling down a list of 100 prospects.

Have you actually gone through on any of these overseas hookups?

My overseas experience was that a week out I had 4 good leads which by the time I arrived was down to 1 mainly due to the girls pulling out. The one girl I did have was excellent and she made sure I didn't have any need to stray

gpeck80
10-12-2019, 11:09 AM
Through the seekingarrangements way? No I havent gone overseas yet. Too busy with XMAS period and work, but in mid january I will. Advantage with phillipines is that the girls speak at least passable english (with a think american accent). No guarantee of that outside of PI. I'm still sifting through the potential holiday pals.

Rockhard69
11-12-2019, 09:38 AM
Through the seekingarrangements way? No I havent gone overseas yet. Too busy with XMAS period and work, but in mid january I will. Advantage with phillipines is that the girls speak at least passable english (with a think american accent). No guarantee of that outside of PI. I'm still sifting through the potential holiday pals.

you have been posting on these forums long enough to know you wont need seekingarrangements in Ph. you are just wasting your time. same Ph girls just higher price. For a Ph trip no need to start until a week before.

Let me know if you need any leads over there.

gpeck80
11-12-2019, 10:10 AM
I'm not interested in bar girls and Ive gotten into a pattern of finding higher quality women on dating sites before I go overseas. I wont be over there long enough to do my intel there, so its easier (and fun) to do it at my leisure here first.

Rockhard69
11-12-2019, 05:28 PM
I'm not interested in bar girls and Ive gotten into a pattern of finding higher quality women on dating sites before I go overseas. I wont be over there long enough to do my intel there, so its easier (and fun) to do it at my leisure here first.

ok, at least you say you are doing it for entertainment. In my experience, it takes about a hour to fire up the non-bar girls

gpeck80
13-12-2019, 05:11 AM
At least half the girls you meet online in such a situation end up flaking on you. They chicken out, or whatever, so there it is. I find its better to have options, no point wasting money. Day game mixed with online reconnaissance works well.

surf2extreme
16-01-2020, 10:44 AM
I have been in the SD/SB game for over a decade. The best and worst thing about it is nothing is given like with an escort. But the thrill of turning a uni age civie girl into the perfect girlfriend/mistress.... there is few things in life more satisfying. Sure it takes time and money but in my experience, the absolute best VFM once established. Channeling my best Henry Higgins, Adam

brownwallaby
16-01-2020, 11:42 AM
certainly not a game for me. I don’t mind the chase, but the cost involved scares me off

rockbreaker
16-01-2020, 12:44 PM
I gave this a try before whilst I still got the result I was after, the energy and costs required did put me off quite a bit. This is on top of the screening of all those replying messages.

Apart from the relevant website, where else did you use to find the potential candidates?

Rockhard69
16-01-2020, 04:22 PM
I like this site, expensive though

Lunchbox Lover
17-01-2020, 10:26 AM
Anyone got an admin assistant i can borrow to plow through the dreamers, unrealistics and likely to pull out of a meeting at the last minute types?

Rockhard69
19-01-2020, 02:08 PM
Anyone got an admin assistant i can borrow to plow through the dreamers, unrealistics and likely to pull out of a meeting at the last minute types?
If they ask about cash before asking abut the sex, that's a deal breaker

newbiejones
25-01-2020, 06:37 PM
Yea if someone has usernames of girls that are worth a shot at under 350 a meet let me know