Why doesn't my wife like having sex?

[Dick_Stark]

Hi all first poster long time lurker. After being married for 10 yrs my wife doesn't like having sex. I don't know if this a phase or she completely doesn't have the urge anymore. After numerous attempts at trying she always knocks me back. This is so frustrating because I want to have sex. I haven't punted in a while but I'm afraid I have to get back into the game to satisfy my sexual urges. Since winter is coming my dick always faces to the north. Thoughts? Comments? 2 cents?

[max_power]

Women....they don't wanna fuck and then when u go elsewhere to satisfy ur needs it's wrong. Maybe u need to spice things up get a lil kinky and try new stuff

[blazin]

I think alot of husbands are in the same boat...

Maybe try discuss it woth her first? Worse case punting option is always there.

I would suggest you sort out the issues at home first however.

Just my 2 cents ;)

[Dick_Stark]

Home wise it's all good. She doesn't like having sex at the moment.

[Oneonone]

Welcome to the club bro I had the same problem when my wife was about 40.

I told her I was not happy and wanted more sex.

She said she didn't, go and get it somewhere else, like a friend of hers whose husband did but he got caught (a brothel).

She told me just don't leave her or let her friends or the kids find out.

Must admit its still not as easy as it sounds particularly in the beginning well in my case I still wanted to be with my wife, didn't really want someone else.

If we wanted to be monks we would have joined a monastery wouldn't we.

Best to discuss it first though and try and get some agreement.

[TMC (free cage girl)]

Welcome to the club bro I had the same problem when my wife was about 40.

I told her I was not happy and wanted more sex.

She said she didn't, go and get it somewhere else, like a friend of hers whose husband did but he got caught (a brothel).

She told me just don't leave her or let her friends or the kids find out.

Must admit its still not as easy as it sounds particularly in the beginning well in my case I still wanted to be with my wife, didn't really want someone else.

If we wanted to be monks we would have joined a monastery wouldn't we.

Best to discuss it first though and try and get some agreement.



why dont you take your wife to dinner? maybe near the ocean and having good seafood crayfish and oyster and vintage french wine?

when you go to dinner, just get cab to get the place and book 5 star hotel.

it might be cost $1000 but if you made good condition of wife, you can have a sex with your wife. i recommend you to use credit card at payment, if your wife saw the cash, she will not feel comfortable. just smart way to finish payment.:cool2:

[Oneonone]

why dont you take your wife to dinner? maybe near the ocean and having good seafood crayfish and oyster and vintage french wine?

when you go to dinner, just get cab to get the place and book 5 star hotel.

it might be cost $1000 but if you made good condition of wife, you can have a sex with your wife. i recommend you to use credit card at payment, if your wife saw the cash, she will not feel comfortable. just smart way to finish payment.:cool2:

Thanks for the advice bro but been there tried all you suggest had a great feed but not much more.

[Eureka]

Hi all first poster long time lurker. After being married for 10 yrs my wife doesn't like having sex. I don't know if this a phase or she completely doesn't have the urge anymore. After numerous attempts at trying she always knocks me back. This is so frustrating because I want to have sex. I haven't punted in a while but I'm afraid I have to get back into the game to satisfy my sexual urges. Since winter is coming my dick always faces to the north. Thoughts? Comments? 2 cents?

How do you know she doesn't ???

It would seem from the info you provided all you can conclude at this stage is that she is not motivated to have sex with you .....

[TMC (free cage girl)]

oh!:cry:

I never see your situation in my life. i only know care about woman by food and romantic situation. i can learn from you,:cry:

[wongbobo]

Hi all first poster long time lurker. After being married for 10 yrs my wife doesn't like having sex. I don't know if this a phase or she completely doesn't have the urge anymore. After numerous attempts at trying she always knocks me back. This is so frustrating because I want to have sex. I haven't punted in a while but I'm afraid I have to get back into the game to satisfy my sexual urges. Since winter is coming my dick always faces to the north. Thoughts? Comments? 2 cents?

Having this issue over past couple of years , unable to get a solution after even chatting with a consellor. any good suggestions? almost
30 years of marriage already. seem that is the only option for temperoary relief, sigh !!!

[TMC (free cage girl)]

How do you know she doesn't ???

It would seem from the info you provided all you can conclude at this stage is that she is not motivated to have sex with you .....

Have you feel when you asked your girlfriend for sex on the bed and she was not kind of mood and try to sleep or get little bit angry and went to another room for sleep?

It's very sad. i have couple times experience. i was little bit angry as well also i try to wank my self at bath room and she was very angry for i wank my self.

we better find out, what is good things for woman. more than sex:cool2:


I like BBBJ and CIM is more than sex:cool2:

[TMC (free cage girl)]

Having this issue over past couple of years , unable to get a solution after even chatting with a consellor. any good suggestions? almost
30 years of marriage already. seem that is the only option for temperoary relief, sigh !!!

over 30 years marriage!? i suggest you, Best option is Punt Fresh girl. i got fresh out side and pretending good husband at home:cool2:

[TMC (free cage girl)]

Time for new Sushi:grimace:

I can make sushi for you sir:cool2: i got fresh seaweed from japanese girl^^

[La Mooh]

Humans are naturally non-monogamous, physical attraction to the same person dies out after a year or so.

We are unfortunately educated to believe that marriage to one person for a lifetime is the ideal relationship, but the divorce rates, cheating rates, and unsatisfied marriage rates tell the real story.

[Oneonone]

Humans are naturally non-monogamous, physical attraction to the same person dies out after a year or so.

We are unfortunately educated to believe that marriage to one person for a lifetime is the ideal relationship, but the divorce rates, cheating rates, and unsatisfied marriage rates tell the real story.

That is such a sad outlook on life, for years I thought that one woman would be the only person I needed or wanted to find out otherwise was such a disappointment and her choice not mine.

I tried dating other women but women are crazy they used to just blame me cause I had a need and my wife didn't want to be part of it they accused me of cheating on her which was not the way it is or was.

So brothels are the way to go have fun see beautiful women love em for an hour or so and move on.

I hate to think you are right may be I was just unlucky.

[devilangel]

I am on the same boat. Her explanation is that it's hard for her to get into the mood now days.

To get sex I'd have to make sure there's nice dinner, nice wine, candles and so on.

I finally got tired of setting up the mood and tried a korean. Never looked back.

Now days I don't try to push for sex which leads to better relationship as we argue less and she feels she's being respected.

Win win

[TMC (free cage girl)]

I am on the same boat. Her explanation is that it's hard for her to get into the mood now days.

To get sex I'd have to make sure there's nice dinner, nice wine, candles and so on.

I finally got tired of setting up the mood and tried a korean. Never looked back.

Now days I don't try to push for sex which leads to better relationship as we argue less and she feels she's being respected.

Win win


you very good. if you did your best to your wife for something fix up. if the wife does not change the mind.

you can do whatever you like. we are not slave of wife. if the wife does not want to have sex with husband.

we have 2 option to sort it out.

1.Punt,
2.start make dick brie in your pants.

[Eureka]

Sorry to rain on your parade guys (of course just my opinion)

But there is a wealth of validated scholastic data supporting the proposition that satisfying sexual relationship remains an important component of sustaining an emotional bond of substance between partners.

Those that think all will be well by following a strategy that eliminates such intimacy by going outside or not bothering - to the exclusion of sexual intimacy in a marriage/ LT relationship ....... are trading a short term solution for a long term relationship ticking bomb.

I know it's not what most of you guys want to hear as we self justify our dalliances ... but it is backed by a huge amount of supporting evidence.

Of course such things can be dismissed to satisfy your own bias - after all ... look at the climate change skeptics !!

[RoyalFlush]

How about taking some sort of medication to increase her libido?

[TMC (free cage girl)]

I prefer my Sushi with wasabi only .... Sir:cool2:

Oh! hehehe:cool2:

we sounds like a Sushi chef Sir^^ I never eat my product. because Mr Max will get angry to me, I only feed them:cool2:

I pick up fresh girl on the street, outside of my house is ocean, i drive my ship for catch fresh product.

i will have a your sushi very sooooooooon!!!!! can i ?:grimace:

[SirLaughsAlot]

Hi all first poster long time lurker. After being married for 10 yrs my wife doesn't like having sex. I don't know if this a phase or she completely doesn't have the urge anymore. After numerous attempts at trying she always knocks me back. This is so frustrating because I want to have sex. I haven't punted in a while but I'm afraid I have to get back into the game to satisfy my sexual urges. Since winter is coming my dick always faces to the north. Thoughts? Comments? 2 cents?

Some possible reasons why she doesn't want sex........

She doesn’t feel attractive and sexy.
She doesn’t find you attractive and sexy.
She is unhappy with something completely unrelated to sex.
She is depressed.
She has a boyfriend, or she wants one.
She has a girlfriend, or she wants one.
She is selfish and doesn’t care about your needs.
She thinks you use her like a machine, doesn’t feel loved.
She has an untreated medical condition of some kind.
She thinks you don’t love really love her.
She doesn’t like or love you enough to have sex.
She wants some sexy clothes and you won’t buy them for her.
She wants you to buy many other things for her & unit/house.
She wants to feel like a slut and charge you money for sex.
She has a low libido or sex-drive, just not interested in sex.
She gets tired easily and doesn’t feel like sex when tired.
She doesn’t like her job.
She needs a change of some kind to freshen up her life.
She finds her life boring and without excitement.
She likes you but wants to have sex with you and another man at same time.
She likes you but wants to have sex with you and another girl at same time.

Cheers....

[whoareyoumate]

It sounds like she doesn't want to have sex with you at this moment. You probably did something that makes her feel disgusted about you. All you have to do is try to win her back. Do good things to her for days after days for a month or so. I think you will get some progresses from that way :miao:

[harmony]

I personally think humans are monogamous, but only if they are lucky enough to meet a perfect partner, or if there is enough mutual respect they can compromise

[Max Impact]

Oh! hehehe:cool2:

we sounds like a Sushi chef Sir^^ I never eat my product. because Mr Max will get angry to me, I only feed them:cool2:

I pick up fresh girl on the street, outside of my house is ocean, i drive my ship for catch fresh product.



i will have a your sushi very sooooooooon!!!!! can i ?:grimace:

Yamady, pls leave Therapist and her training to me!!!

[suka02]

That's women in this world. You need to earn her respect and trust, as well keep her happy.
Sound simple but it's hard work lol

[TMC (free cage girl)]

That's women in this world. You need to earn her respect and trust, as well keep her happy.
Sound simple but it's hard work lol

Hello sir^^

i never lick woman pussy. if i have wife and she want to me to lick her pussy, i might slap:cool2:

[TMC (free cage girl)]

Yamady, pls leave Therapist and her training to me!!!

she is too innocent:cool2: if she does not change by your training. i might use my special tools for training sir:cool2:

[TMC (free cage girl)]

I personally think humans are monogamous, but only if they are lucky enough to meet a perfect partner, or if there is enough mutual respect they can compromise

Book Amazon Matthew Fitzgerald
"I'll tell you how bad it is out there.
Every time I meet a woman, within five minutes she's dragging out a questionnaire, like I'm applying for a job just talking to her
Do you own a house, what kind of car do you have, things like that
All it is is, they're trying to find out how much money you have
So finally I got fed up with it and I said to one of them
"Let me see those boobs of yours to see if they're big enough for me'
She was shocked-she didn't get it. It's unbelievable
They're so used to hooking, and to thinking only of their own welfare, that they don't even realize how mercenary they are"

Unfair ?

we dont need house and car. if who has penis, very lucky:cool2:

[TMC (free cage girl)]

It sounds like she doesn't want to have sex with you at this moment. You probably did something that makes her feel disgusted about you. All you have to do is try to win her back. Do good things to her for days after days for a month or so. I think you will get some progresses from that way :miao:

I think, his wife give him sign, but he did not see it. :grimace:

[TMC (free cage girl)]

Some possible reasons why she doesn't want sex........

She doesn’t feel attractive and sexy.
She doesn’t find you attractive and sexy.
She is unhappy with something completely unrelated to sex.
She is depressed.
She has a boyfriend, or she wants one.
She has a girlfriend, or she wants one.
She is selfish and doesn’t care about your needs.
She thinks you use her like a machine, doesn’t feel loved.
She has an untreated medical condition of some kind.
She thinks you don’t love really love her.
She doesn’t like or love you enough to have sex.
She wants some sexy clothes and you won’t buy them for her.
She wants you to buy many other things for her & unit/house.
She wants to feel like a slut and charge you money for sex.
She has a low libido or sex-drive, just not interested in sex.
She gets tired easily and doesn’t feel like sex when tired.
She doesn’t like her job.
She needs a change of some kind to freshen up her life.
She finds her life boring and without excitement.
She likes you but wants to have sex with you and another man at same time.
She likes you but wants to have sex with you and another girl at same time.

Cheers....

i know the woman she is 60yo, but she fix boobs and face and most of parts of body. she became Sex machine now:cool2:

I dont know which woman is best option for partner,

1,sex machine
2.does not like sex

[OntheBeach]

Gday mate,
just go have a few punts and try to enjoy them without the guilt, after you have a few roots you may or may not have sex with your wife, if you dont have sex with your wife at least you have had sex. You wont be so needy for it from her, you will be more relaxed with the issue, you wont be trying so hard to initiate a romantic interlude with her which may now be more of a problem for her than actually having sex with you. You may even find that she will initiate the encounter with you now that you are not so focused on it.

Maybe something will change on the home front? Maybe nothing will change?

But the one thing that will change is at least your getting laid.

Nb: I am not a psychologist nor have I been in a meaningful relationship with a woman for many a year.

But good luck and I hope whichever way it turns out you are being serviced by someone, for a man needs to be serviced.

Regards
OTB

[GoldfishMan]

This is a +1 to the argument that monogamy is not natural because women and men are so different biologically, particularly when it comes to sexuality.
Judging from the number of years some of the posters on this thread have been married, I would guess their wives would be around or well pass the 40 year-old mark. At that age, and with the sudden disinterest in sex, it is likely that they are going through menopause.
Menopause literally shuts down a woman's ability and the urge to reproduce. Look at the list of effects: painful intercourse, decreased libido, problems reaching orgasm. Why would a woman want to even lift a finger for sex with all those problems that come with menopause?

On the other hand, men don't have this problem. We don't get less horny when we reach forty... in fact i think we get even hornier. The old-man-fucking-a-young-girl fetish comes to mind. Plus, with the help of modern technology (looking at you, Viagra), we can literally keep fucking till the day we die.

I'll say, to those with problems in this thread, keep punting and try to be more supportive to your wife's problem, because it is not easy to go though menopause!

[TMC (free cage girl)]

If you ask sex for wife, its very hard sometime, how about just ask wife for BBBJ? or maybe CBJ? or maybe HJ?

Oh! maybe tell your wife, you pretend became ED,and ask wife with serious face.

[Max Impact]

Don't need to ask:cool2:

Best come TMC and 5*:grimace:

That's my Method of Operation!!!

[Mr Crash and Burn]

Hi all first poster long time lurker. After being married for 10 yrs my wife doesn't like having sex. I don't know if this a phase or she completely doesn't have the urge anymore. After numerous attempts at trying she always knocks me back. This is so frustrating because I want to have sex. I haven't punted in a while but I'm afraid I have to get back into the game to satisfy my sexual urges. Since winter is coming my dick always faces to the north. Thoughts? Comments? 2 cents?

That's funny because she seems to enjoy my company most Wednesday afternoons :haha:

[kingwally]

That is why I am very reluctant to get married again.When they lose interest in sex...what are we supposed to do...wank all our life thereafter! If we go to sex workers and the wives find out,we are in the shit and they make up pay(both $$ and emotionally) for the rest of our lives.
Without knowing the circumstances of the OP...I feel a lot of sympathy for you...and I do not wish to upset you...but maybe she is getting sex elsewhere or she is just sick of the routine with you.I have worked with plenty of middle -aged women who have told me that they are so bored of the sexual routine of their partners...they actually know what the men will do,when the men come and then without exception the men will go straight to sleep afterwards..Some actually predict the number of thrust by their man until he comes,and tell their equally not-interested-in-sex fellow middle aged female colleagues.

[SirLaughsAlot]

It's not your job to "please" your wife 24/7. If she doesn't want sex for a sustained period of time, then she's giving you a message.
If she is ill in some way, or unhappy about some other particular aspect of her life, which is impacting on her sex-drive, then you can
listen and respond. If that is not the case, then you now have the choice either to work around the situation (discretely) or grin and bear
the life of a five-finger shuffler.

I'd recommend 50:50 split between discrete punting and increased shuffling to address your needs. This is a sensible response to a situation
that could escalate and eventually impact on your well-being, if you do nothing. Your wife is not your keeper or boss, and should not be someone
who determines your behaviour in a rigid cause-effect manner. Think for yourself. But like I said, if she's unhappy about something or
unhealthy in some way, then you should try to help her out.

[TMC (free cage girl)]

It's not your job to "please" your wife 24/7. If she doesn't want sex for a sustained period of time, then she's giving you a message.
If she is ill in some way, or unhappy about some other particular aspect of her life, which is impacting on her sex-drive, then you can
listen and respond. If that is not the case, then you now have the choice either to work around the situation (discretely) or grin and bear
the life of a five-finger shuffler.

I'd recommend 50:50 split between discrete punting and increased shuffling to address your needs. This is a sensible response to a situation
that could escalate and eventually impact on your well-being, if you do nothing. Your wife is not your keeper or boss, and should not be someone
who determines your behaviour in a rigid cause-effect manner. Think for yourself. But like I said, if she's unhappy about something or
unhealthy in some way, then you should try to help her out.

you are good man. :cool2:

[TMC (free cage girl)]

Don't need to ask:cool2:

Best come TMC and 5*:grimace:

I got russian girl last night. she came from gold coast. I asked many things to her. i cum in her mouth and i put my finger in her ass.:cool2:

i was drunk, i did not know what i wanted to her. final position was put finger in her ass+ BBBJ+CIM+choke her neck by one hand. hahaha :cool2:


I should try another chicks :slobber:

[Zoot]

I'm sorry to hear your story. Your marriage sounds like there is no love or passion left at all. My advice is to divorce this woman and move on. For both of your sakes. You should also stop seeing prostitutes and try to form a normal healthy relationship with a regular girl. You can do this bro. You deserve to be happy!


Welcome to the club bro I had the same problem when my wife was about 40.

I told her I was not happy and wanted more sex.

She said she didn't, go and get it somewhere else, like a friend of hers whose husband did but he got caught (a brothel).

She told me just don't leave her or let her friends or the kids find out.

Must admit its still not as easy as it sounds particularly in the beginning well in my case I still wanted to be with my wife, didn't really want someone else.

If we wanted to be monks we would have joined a monastery wouldn't we.

Best to discuss it first though and try and get some agreement.

[TMC (free cage girl)]

I'm sorry to hear your story. Your marriage sounds like there is no love or passion left at all. My advice is to divorce this woman and move on. For both of your sakes. You should also stop seeing prostitutes and try to form a normal healthy relationship with a regular girl. You can do this bro. You deserve to be happy!

oh! divorce!!

its very long process and it will be very stress for life style.

i recommend, make girl friend, and still look after family is better option. it's depend on age of him.

normal girl is very fresh and innocent very positive effect to your life. my product therapist was normal girl . she never work this industry before.

she still fresh and just work as casual time, 75% normal girl. 25% working girl. very positive for punter.

I never been to brothel in my life but, i will know how good with working girl for fun. but i know many story private relation ship with WG.

i try to avoid, one story from my friend. i sold house and get quick cash for stay with WG. he used to marriage with woman but divorced with wife and he got nice apartment with WG. after 1 years relation ship with WG. he got mental problem. because of the WG is very different with normal girl.

Private and Punt should be separate be good. its good to talk about your sex experience on forum but, sex is not every thing for life, look after family and punt some time or every day is good life.

my friend was 40yo, he pretty fucked up now.

[frosty03]

my friend was 40yo, he pretty fucked up now.

This my friend is pure gold. Wise words.

[TMC (free cage girl)]

he was success guy until met the girl. i teach him how to spend money for fun. at the time i really wanted spark and i really like flash night.

he use to drink only beer at pub, spend time for family, he some time invited me to come for dinner with his family.

when the his wife and kids start sleeping, me and another mate and him start drink conac, we used to call mens club.

i didnt like drinking at his house. because of kids will might see what we drinking at living room.

I asked him to go to my friend's bar. i got my driver and went bar. there was many american uni student. they having birthday party at up stair.

we sit at counter and start drink french conac. i just remember i didnt have a shit at my friend's house. because of it might be big business in the toilet and smell will be strong and i was worried about kids. i went to toilet for shit. i met one american girl. she was very drunk and ask me to buy drink. i said to her, if you wash my hand together i will buy bottle of drink, what ever you like. we wash hand together and i take her to bar counter and i introduce my friend to her.

my friend was fall in love her because his wife is not sexy like her. he talk a lot and he start keep her by his self. she understand i get boring and she might saw my sign, she call another 2 girls for us and we start drink. we drink a lot i think, i was pretty drunk and i ask the bartender for 6 sambuca for shot and big glass and tongue. i put fire sambuca and put big glass on top and start take air from inside of glass by tongue and i drink shot of sambuca.

after 5 sec i couldnt move and no one follow to drink. another guy send me back home and the family guy was still drink with american girl.

next day when he wake up. he was in hotel with that girls. 1 men and 3 girls. he looks like a legend :cool2: but only that night.........


its better spend money for one night with young one. but only one night .... no ask contact be more safe.... no facebook.... no picture.....

some girl pretend young but real age might be 40 age, some girl pretend like your GF but she just want to ask you money anytime.
some girl might pretend sick and ask you for help but it's sometime bull shit. she just dont wanna fuck but still want to ask you money.


That's Life:cool2: