What is love?

[rage_face]

Time for an emotional check point bros.

First question is, do you believe in love?

If you do, what does it mean to you? And what do you think it means to a girl?

Full and comprehensive answers welcome. If you are going to make a joke about 5* or Moon, please add a serious response as well :cool2:

[tomford]

Baby don't hurt me, don't hurt me, no more..

[cisco]

Julia says , Love is Hurts .

[CunningLinguist]

When she swallows :)

Love in its various forms acts as a major facilitator of interpersonal relationships ...

[harmony]

Well said CL, well said

[harmony]

Love is committing your life to another person, despite their imperfections, because of their acceptance of your imperfections

[illidanstormrage]

ROMILLY
Should we vote?
COOPER
If we’re going to vote, there’s
something you need to know. Brand?
~~She says nothing~~
He has a right to know.
BRAND
That has nothing to do with it.
ROMILLY
What does?
COOPER
She’s in love with Wolf Edmunds.
ROMILLY
(to Brand)
Is that true?
BRAND
Yes. And that makes me want to
follow my heart. But maybe we’ve
spent too long trying to figure all
this with theory -
COOPER
You’re a scientist, Brand -
BRAND
I am. So listen to me when I tell
you that love isn’t something we
invented - it’s observable,
powerful. Why shouldn’t it mean
something?
COOPER
It means social utility - child
rearing, social bonding -
BRAND
We love people who’ve died ...
where’s the social utility in that?
Maybe it means more - something we
can’t understand, yet. Maybe it’s
some evidence, some artifact of
higher dimensions that we can’t
consciously perceive. I’m drawn
across the universe to someone I
haven’t seen for a decade, who I
know is probably dead. Love is the
one thing we’re capable of
perceiving that transcends
dimensions of time and space. Maybe
we should trust that, even if we
can’t yet understand it.

Great scene from the movie Interstellar. There are two kinds of love to me one is chemical (Oxytocin?).
The reaction in your brain that makes you feel a certain way for members of the opposite sex the whole "fell in love" scenario.
Which eventually fades out and if you don't have any kind of friendship to back it up you are looking at a breakup or divorce.

Then you have the intellectual or romantic kind of love which is idealistic.
Men are the much more romantic sex and most of the time try to project or impose their ideal of love onto women and that is why many fail in that area.

They call it the mating game for a reason. You can't trick girls into genuinely liking you either they do or they don't and A LOT of that is based on genetics or more specifically your looks. Women do seem to favour certain behaviour highly but don't come at me with the whole "looks don't matter at all".

I think a lot of people take it too personally when a girl doesn't like them. I used to be that way until I realized a thing called "NEXT". I see so many girls I'm attracted to every single day.. and the first thing I think of is what would they look like naked and how good it would be to fuck them. A mans mind is always attuned to this, well mine is at least.. always scanning sometimes you aren't even actively thinking about it half the time, you are just checking hot girls out as a matter of fact, your eyes are just there it's like a automatic response.

I enjoy my time with women (some refer to them as WL's) tremendously. I don't wish to possess or have any of them exclusively. You could say I love them even when I'm here at my keyboard, though there isn't that feeling of being deeply in love. I remember writing in one of my earlier AR's that Kiki is a gift to be shared and I still stand by that and nearly every other girl I've seen at Ginza and other shops. I'm not sure most punters would feel that way about their favourite girls which is why many don't post after reports. I don't harbour any illusions about WL's liking me but while you are both together in that moment be it over 30, 45, 60 minutes. Not much else really matters.


If you love a flower, don’t pick it up.
Because if you pick it up it dies and it ceases to be what you love.
So if you love a flower, let it be.
Love is not about possession.
Love is about appreciation.”
-Osho

I have a video also:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uTqRY67VVys&t=140

Watch that starting from until 4:54

[harmony]

"If you love a flower, don’t pick it up.
Because if you pick it up it dies and it ceases to be what you love.
So if you love a flower, let it be.
Love is not about possession.
Love is about appreciation"

Nice

[kezza]

Expensive....

[Sextus]

I think it is right about time for a musical interlude then rage face.

(How about the great synth bass in this? :D)

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=smmtzejfpZ8

[CunningLinguist]

I think it is right about time for a musical interlude then rage face.

(How about the great synth bass in this? :D)

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=smmtzejfpZ8

I'll see your Jones and raise it with a Sade:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=A3OOYMsuhdU

[harmony]

Since we are talking music, and without meaning to bring things downmarket, here is the song to play in your car as your drive to see your lady
And yes, it has the word "love" in the title ;)

Shabba Ranks "Mr Loverman"
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kG6lGH4VryA

"SINGER'S LYRIC:
Dem call me Mr.Loverman, dem call me Mr.lover
Mr.Loverman, dem call me Mr.lover
Dem call me Mr.Loverman, dem call me Mr.lover
Mr.Loverman, dem call me Mr.lover"

LADY'S LYRIC:
(Champion lover)
I'm not gonna take it easy, you won't get away tonight
The vibe that's flowin' through me makes me feel so right
You keep say, you full up of action
Now is the chance to show me your motion
I've waited so long, you'd better come on strong, strong

Mr Loverman, hit me with it... Mr Loverman, hit me with it... Mr Loverman, I cant wait..."

[Sextus]

I'll see your Jones and raise it with a Sade:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=A3OOYMsuhdU

Wow, I can't listen to the whole album now but that opening track is great. Real seduction music that. I'd love to hear it on my mate's 5:1 system.

[Licker]

I think it is right about time for a musical interlude then rage face.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=smmtzejfpZ8


I'll see your Jones and raise it with a Sade:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=A3OOYMsuhdU

I'll see your Jones and Sade and raise it with Tina.

I think it's quite fitting to a punting forum :love:

"What's Love Got To Do With It" (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oGpFcHTxjZs)


You must understand
That the touch of your hand
Makes my pulse react
That it's only the thrill
Of boy meeting girl
Opposites attract

It's physical
Only logical
You must try to ignore
That it means more than that

[Chorus:]
Oh what's love got to do, got to do with it
What's love but a second hand emotion
What's love got to do, got to do with it
Who needs a heart
When a heart can be broken

It may seem to you
That I'm acting confused
When you're close to me
If I tend to look dazed
I've read it someplace
I've got cause to be

There's a name for it
There's a phrase that fits
But whatever the reason
You do it for me

[Chorus]

I've been taking on a new direction
But I have to say
I've been thinking about my own protection
It scares me to feel this way

[Chorus]

What's love got to do, got to do with it
What's love but a sweet old fashioned notion
What's love got to do, got to do with it
Who needs a heart when a heart can be broken

[CunningLinguist]

Wow, I can't listen to the whole album now but that opening track is great. Real seduction music that. I'd love to hear it on my mate's 5:1 system.

Can you imagine a private session with her while she strips and sings!

[Oneonone]

Love is not about finding the right person, but creating a right relationship. It's not about how much love you have in the beginning but how much love you build till the end.

As food is needed for the body, then the same way love is needed for the soul. Food strengthens the body while love strengths the soul. A person is incomplete without love.

Love is a noble act of self-giving, offering trust, faith, and loyalty. The more you love, the more you lose a part of yourself, yet you don't become less of who you are; you end up being complete with your loved ones.

Long distance relationships require a special willingness and understanding that can test love like no other type of relationship can. It requires constant communication and a desire to continually create your relationship, using the only real tool you have... your words.

I give you all my love because I truly love you, It takes a second to say I love you, but a lifetime to show it. A relationship is a two way street. It's never all your fault or mine, we go into the relationship together and work through it all together.

For me, you are the king of my heart, the rest is just the rest."

I would give up anything just to be with you. Once in awhile right in the middle of an ordinary life love gives us a fairy tale.

A unicorn represents a pure heart overflowing with love, innocence, kindness, charity, justice, sensitivity, truth, loyalty, beauty, and all things good.

I'm sending you this unicorn greeting, because I see all of these special qualities in you.

You're a magical spark in a world that sometimes seems dark.
Your light never fails to touch my heart and soul leaving behind a feeling of peace and an assurance that goodness truly exists in the world.

I can't live without you.

I would breathe the air, and my heart would beat, but I would not feel the joy of life.

My dreams would be lost like a leaf carted away by a storm.

I would gaze at the stars without appreciating the way they light up the sky.
I would pass the roses in bloom without noticing their beauty.
I would no longer look forward to each sunset and each dawn.
I would be broken, never to be mended again.
Winter would own my heart its icy breath would steal the warmth in my soul,
because I could not smile without your love.
I could not know laughter or happiness.
If you were lost to me, I'd have no reason to try, no reason to be.
You are my prayer, my shelter from hopelessness and despair, my sunshine, my light, my lazy days, my peaceful nights, and only you can keep the spark in my soul burning bright.

I miss your warm eyes, the way you listen and care.
I miss your kisses and all that we share.

I miss you.

I miss the touch of your hand, so reassuring and sincere, and the moments we spend together, that I hold dear.

I miss all of the caring things you do, and spending the evening alone with you.

I look forward to tomorrow knowing that then, I'll be one day closer
to seeing you again.

You must have guessed it by now...

[Sergaent Brody]

Great scene from the movie Interstellar. There are two kinds of love to me one is chemical (Oxytocin?).
The reaction in your brain that makes you feel a certain way for members of the opposite sex the whole "fell in love" scenario.
Which eventually fades out and if you don't have any kind of friendship to back it up you are looking at a breakup or divorce.

Then you have the intellectual or romantic kind of love which is idealistic.
Men are the much more romantic sex and most of the time try to project or impose their ideal of love onto women and that is why many fail in that area.

They call it the mating game for a reason. You can't trick girls into genuinely liking you either they do or they don't and A LOT of that is based on genetics or more specifically your looks. Women do seem to favour certain behaviour highly but don't come at me with the whole "looks don't matter at all".

I think a lot of people take it too personally when a girl doesn't like them. I used to be that way until I realized a thing called "NEXT". I see so many girls I'm attracted to every single day.. and the first thing I think of is what would they look like naked and how good it would be to fuck them. A mans mind is always attuned to this, well mine is at least.. always scanning sometimes you aren't even actively thinking about it half the time, you are just checking hot girls out as a matter of fact, your eyes are just there it's like a automatic response.

I enjoy my time with women (some refer to them as WL's) tremendously. I don't wish to possess or have any of them exclusively. You could say I love them even when I'm here at my keyboard, though there isn't that feeling of being deeply in love. I remember writing in one of my earlier AR's that Kiki is a gift to be shared and I still stand by that and nearly every other girl I've seen at Ginza and other shops. I'm not sure most punters would feel that way about their favourite girls which is why many don't post after reports. I don't harbour any illusions about WL's liking me but while you are both together in that moment be it over 30, 45, 60 minutes. Not much else really matters.



I have a video also:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uTqRY67VVys&t=140

Watch that starting from until 4:54

Being lectured by Illidan about love is like being lectured by a fire mage about tanking ..

[Christmas]

http://i.imgur.com/PzDhxfx.jpg

Love is share a food without any conditions or obligation.

[harmony]

This is my favourite Sade tune:

Sade, "Your Love Is King"
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=k1ljpLQ1V6Y

The bands first ever single, from their debut album "Diamond Life"
Its a nice gentle seduction song

[harmony]

Another two nominations for good songs with "Love" in the title:

"Addicted To Love", by Robert Palmer
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XcATvu5f9vE
Great song, great video
I wonder how many AUS99 members are 'addicted to love' ?

"Too Much Ain't Enough Love" by Jimmy Barnes [Hong Kong version]
"We start that fire, but we just can't control the flame"
"I just can't wait, to feel that heat again"

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=su0cLSeScOk

[harmony]

"Love is not about finding the right person, but creating a right relationship
It's not about how much love you have in the beginning but how much love you build till the end"

"As food is needed for the body, then the same way love is needed for the soul.
Food strengthens the body while love strengths the soul. A person is incomplete without love."

"Love is a noble act of self-giving, offering trust, faith, and loyalty.
The more you love, the more you lose a part of yourself, yet you don't become less of who you are; you end up being complete with your loved ones."

Nice.

[illidanstormrage]

Being lectured by Illidan about love is like being lectured by a fire mage about tanking ..
*Slow clap*
Illidan had oneitis for Tyrande Whisperwind. See: http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=oneitis
That was one of his downfalls because she was never going to return his affection despite his failed attempts to convince her.
You can't logically make a girl like you. End of story.
In that universe you can maybe understand because the amount of girls is limited but we have no excuse.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dTjvG4WJD_A

"There ain't nothing like the kisses from a jaded Chinese princess. I'm gonna hit some Hong Kong mattress all night long"

Good thing Sydney has it covered. :love:

[beta101]

i have a one way relationship with her

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Grv6Wkl09_s

all my love but don't tell my wife *wink*

[Licker]

http://i.imgur.com/PzDhxfx.jpg

Love is share a food without any conditions or obligation.

I've got five people coming to my place next weekend.
I'll cook for them.
I must love them.

Well, yes, they are my friends.

[mike99]

Love hurts. Its even worst when you know you cannot make her happy and have to let her go. Pretend that you are happier and better without her.....

I have given up punting when i met my ex. Wished i have not given up punting....maybe could have ended up in different ending. Guilt could have forced me to treat her better (maybe)

[CunningLinguist]

Love is your missus giving you money to visit a brothel!

[Sergaent Brody]

Love is your missus giving you money to visit a brothel!

That my friend, is out of this world!

[jellyshots]

Love is unconditional, unforced. When someone loves you they want the very best things for you.

I guess it's "the pursuit of mutual happiness".

Oh, and this is a free expression of love...

http://m.youtube.com/watch?v=l-MJnHsK3cI

[lenghtycock]

Love is when you have a gf or wife and you dont go to brothels.lol

[Choc-O-Block]

Love is what you want it to be....


http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ekLHvB6XOQg&sns=em