Massage Girl Jealousy?

[gitl]

So having punted for quite a long time now, I've always wondered if girls at the same shop really get jealous of each other when you see another at the shop. I know this will sound silly but I sometimes don't specify who I want to book just so by implication it'll go back to being turn-based. Am I in the minority with that view? Should I simply care less...?

[popeye96]

Care less. It's your dollar after all. If they have an issue with it, just remind them that the better service they give, the more likely it is that you will keep returning to see them. Make them work against each other, not you.

[RottenLittlePunt]

MLs do get jealous. It's the typical fucked up female thinking. They don't want you but they want you to only see them.

Of course there are those who don't give a shit what you do or who you see.

[DirtySanchez]

It's a good question and some punters won't give a rats and some will. It depends on you as a person as to whether you let it bother you or not.

As RLP says, yes they do and some get very much so but it is your money and your choice. I think the main problem lies with when you turn up and all the girls come to look at who has arrived. This does two things, let's you as a punter see a range of girls so you might return to try another girl that takes your fancy and it also lets the girls see their punters trying out other MLs causing the jealousy.

Personally I would prefer to only be met by the girl I've booked/been assigned. That's just my preference, I like my privacy and i predominantly do walk-ins so I don't have to worry about jealousy as well as I like the punt of taking pot luck and trying out new girls.

At the end of the day it's a service and if a ML has a jealous nature then she's going get jealous. There is nothing you can do about it. The problem depends on how much of a connection you make with the ML. The ones that just want money, I couldn't care less if they got jealous.

[Biglad]

I have been to the place in Stanley St. many times. For a while every time I entered the place the same girl would whisk me off. She was very nice and provided a good service but after several times of this happening I asked if she would mind if I saw one of the other ladies. She was fine with it at the time but now she can't look me in the face when she sees me, so I guess they do get put out. Bit of a shame.

[gitl]

I have been to the place in Stanley St. many times. ... She was fine with it at the time but now she can't look me in the face when she sees me, so I guess they do get put out.

Well Stanley St (cloud 9) rotates girls quite a lot depending on day (I think most work 3 out of 7?) so you could just rock up to a different day for the most part... depends on the shop. I know one in a different shop that is pretty much there 7 days lol.

Interesting responses so far. I guess everyone has different levels of care factor on this lol! Thanks for all your answers :D

[danenth]

I have a couple of regulars at the same shop. They both know i see the other. I alternate between them. Every third visit is a duo.

[tommy thumb]

There was a girl I wanted to try at a shop as I had heard some interesting things. Called and found out what days she was on and went in a day I new my regular was off. All good. In the car afterwards looked at the phone saw a few missed calls. Then she called again. My regular was told by another girl in the shop. And wanted to no why I was there. What did she do what did I do. How could I see that girl. Yeah a little awkward,

[popeye96]

There was a girl I wanted to try at a shop as I had heard some interesting things. Called and found out what days she was on and went in a day I new my regular was off. All good. In the car afterwards looked at the phone saw a few missed calls. Then she called again. My regular was told by another girl in the shop. And wanted to no why I was there. What did she do what did I do. How could I see that girl. Yeah a little awkward,

Just tell her that you won't see anyone else if she doesn't.

[tommy thumb]

Haha yeah I should of. All I did was bust out some lame shit. Made me feel like I was in a high school relationship and had been caught cheating.

Brings me to another point. The exchanging of numbers. Or wechat, line, kakao ID's. Any brothers have stories or views.

[Donkeydong]

Well Stanley St (cloud 9) rotates girls quite a lot depending on day (I think most work 3 out of 7?) so you could just rock up to a different day for the most part... depends on the shop. I know one in a different shop that is pretty much there 7 days lol.

Interesting responses so far. I guess everyone has different levels of care factor on this lol! Thanks for all your answers :D


I use to Think the same dude - use to go on certain days to avoid other ML - but the Owner Pam herself has a bigmouth and tells her girls ( that ur regular comes and see other one on ur day off ) Until this I thought she was a clever operator -
Result - I stopped going to Stanley

[flamejob]

There was one place i was visiting every month and seeing the same girl. One day I forgot to ask for her when i made the booking and got someone else. After that, I would book the other chick and hope my previous regular didn't notice me. I shouldn't have cared, but i did always feel a little guilty and awkward.

[HBerg]

There was one place i was visiting every month and seeing the same girl. One day I forgot to ask for her when i made the booking and got someone else. After that, I would book the other chick and hope my previous regular didn't notice me. I shouldn't have cared, but i did always feel a little guilty and awkward.

I used to get this feeling as well, not much you can do but plow through.

Familiarity breeds contempt, you've all seen it. You keep seeing the girl so she gets lazy and either wants to go straight to extra to make her tip or expects same tip regardless of how shit she is that day.

[tikogoh]

Haha yeah I should of. All I did was bust out some lame shit. Made me feel like I was in a high school relationship and had been caught cheating.

Brings me to another point. The exchanging of numbers. Or wechat, line, kakao ID's. Any brothers have stories or views.

Yeah, I've got some. Usually I get their contact so that I can pre-book in advance. Problem is most of them don't get personal. They treat us as business.

[flamejob]

Yeah, I've got some. Usually I get their contact so that I can pre-book in advance. Problem is most of them don't get personal. They treat us as business.

I've scored personal #s before, however, you're right about being business. Often the #s were so they could do work without paying a cut to the shop.

[icanfly]

Glad I saw this post as I have a similar question. I usually go to a shop and see girl x. Tomorrow I want to go and try girl y. Girl x doesnt work that day so no worries there but what I want to know is should I let on to girl y that I usually see girl x?

The reason I ask is because the whole have you been here before question can let them know you know the game when you answer yes. But if you answer yes they will know you could be lying because they havent massaged you before so they might ask who did you see... again if you say you dont know what her name was etc they could think you are lying..

I guess if you say I usually come here and see girl x but today I want to see you then they know you know the game and they would think hmmm I have a chance to steal this guy as a regular if I do a good job with him??

Anyways just after advice how I should handle the situation ta

[BrainSex]

Glad I saw this post as I have a similar question. I usually go to a shop and see girl x. Tomorrow I want to go and try girl y. Girl x doesnt work that day so no worries there but what I want to know is should I let on to girl y that I usually see girl x?

I would. We are all in the same boat. These day's might as well tell the truth. You are already paying $ for sex services. why have a bad conscience about lying?

These days I tell them the truth, they shrug and tug
One girl I was seeing, she showed me picture of her and her best friend..oops, I just paid to shagged her the day before. I shared and everyone laughed. Still can shag both.

[AHLUNGOR]

To me, the only lady in any shop I will always get familiar and friendly with - it's the mamasan !!

This does a number of good things to me:

1. If she has a new girl which is my type (busty type that is.............haha), I will be the first to know.

2. Whoever I see in her shop - she will be happy just the same, and while MLs come and go, the shop owner/Mamasan seldom change, so stay loyal to them only.

3. From time to time, it's the Mamasan who asked me to try a different girl, and again, usually the mamasan is the one who greets me, so even if one of my regular is there at the shop but I am seeing someone else, I will be escorted straight to my room and the new girl send in, without having to face my regular girl so avoids the embarrassing moment if any.

4. If your regular ML knows you are seeing someone else in the shop, it keeps them on alert and next time you see them, they usually will try harder to win you back if that make sense ?

Just my 4 cents

Cheers

:smile:

[icanfly]

Cheers not worried about lying I just want to say the right things to ensure if she knows I usually see girl x it wont be an issue for her to give me the best service.

Like what if I tell her I usually see girl x and girl x is her best friend there? She might feel guilty and not give me the service I deserve in case I start making her my regular and it causes her to fight with her bestie?

Anyways going to pop along tomorrow I just want good service since this is the first time ill see girl y and want to say the right words haha

[daveweelan82]

I wouldn't worry they will get over it as soon as there next customer walks in. To 95%of the girls its just business they only miss the cash not us lol so dont stress about it to much. Enjoy any new girl you see

[popeye96]

Cheers not worried about lying I just want to say the right things to ensure if she knows I usually see girl x it wont be an issue for her to give me the best service.

Like what if I tell her I usually see girl x and girl x is her best friend there? She might feel guilty and not give me the service I deserve in case I start making her my regular and it causes her to fight with her bestie?

Anyways going to pop along tomorrow I just want good service since this is the first time ill see girl y and want to say the right words haha
I think you are reading too much into it. You'll do your head in and not end up enjoying the service. Just go see the new girl, and go with the flow.

[RottenLittlePunt]

Easy solution. If a ML starts getting jealous try the following;

1) Stop paying her for extra. If she says anything or seems to change her attitude then ask her what she wants from you, a bf or your money.
2) Ask for her phone number. If she won't give it to you, tell her that all your REAL friends give you theirs.
3) Ask to start seeing you outside the shop.

Item 1 is the best way to separate the girls you should avoid making jealous from those you shouldn't give a fuck about.

[flamejob]

So a funny thing happened today. Waltzed into one of the joints I go to regularly. i had a regular ML there but over the last 3 months have asked for a different girl - just to mix things up. The first girl does a good job, as does the 2nd one. But i'm not looking for fucking commitment when i get a massage. Today got my former regular because the other chick was away and I couldn't be fucked waiting until tomorrow for her to turn up. She asked when was the last time I had been in. She thought it had been like 3 months. Noooo ... a month ago I replied. She asked me 5 times throughout the massage why I hadn't seen her and why I kept seeing the other chick on te other times. I have to say I felt a bit bad. oh well, at the end of the massage she told me to ask for her next time. Then when she led me out she again told me to ask for her next time. So i guess i'll ask for her next time, lol. Clingy? Jealous? Can't get enough of the old Flamejob? She's only human I guess.

[RottenLittlePunt]

It is possible that she does like you, but the alternative is that she is trying to make you feel special so she has a regular customer.

Either way it could work out that you get extra special treatment in future so worth a try.

[flamejob]

It is possible that she does like you, but the alternative is that she is trying to make you feel special so she has a regular customer.

Either way it could work out that you get extra special treatment in future so worth a try.

i think the only thing she likes about me is my money. not that I mind, because she is cute and i think you're right about the special treatment.

[local]

$$'s talk.
$$'s for tipping talk.

I remember years ago visiting my regular haunt and the mamasan always chose my girl according to what I said I wanted.
it was nearly always the correct girl for me.

I suggested one days that she should let the girls decide who should service me and she laughed... yep she was right, the next week was lousy.
Went back to the usual routine and was happy for the the next few years.

My current very regular haunt the Mamasan nearly always services me herself, unless she wants me to test a newbie... I am definately not complaining (except for the last few months I haven't been anywhere near home....)

[swish411]

My current very regular haunt the Mamasan nearly always services me herself, unless she wants me to test a newbie

Nice one bro.

[JustMetoday]

Where's your regular haunt local ? Care to PM ?

[local]

Where's your regular haunt local ? Care to PM ?

Nowhere near brisbane..... sorry.

I dont have a regular here.... wish I did, especially actually in the CBD would be handy.

[domo]

Nowhere near brisbane..... sorry.

I dont have a regular here.... wish I did, especially actually in the CBD would be handy.

CBD is very hard to come by, many just arms reach from it, which does mean a taxi ride and if your doing that then ....
I've heard rumors there is one right in the CBD which is not a ladyboy finish. If anyone does know of one please PM me ;). I'll continue trying and i guess 95% failing :'(