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cisco
21-04-2012, 12:06 AM
hi bros...i need your guys advise please

story is like this,...bros
Last month i went to angel town and one of the girl korean which is at the first week of the month i ask for 1hr and the third week later i call her again which was for 1,5 hours ( i dont want to mention her name here just to respect her cause as i know WL , they are not allowed or easy to give phone number to customer)
and at the 2 time i met her she gave me her phone number, and since than i call her and we have a good chat even just 2-3 min and couple times phone called in two weeks cause she was busy .... i need you guys advise what to do and dont if a korean wl ask you to go out with her?
will they really treat you as a friend or just want to spend your money?

of course i will meet her but i m bit worry what to dos and donts ,...cause i am not really much play around with girls thats why bit worry,.. if have a chance i willl meet her and definitely bring home a pound her as hard as i can....
but i was worrying that the more i meet her the more i will fall in love with her ..

i knew that NEVER FALLING IN LOVE WITH THE THE GIRL WHO GAVE YOU A GOOD SERVICE,....OR THEIR BEAUTY

for me its not about the service this girl just gave me a normal service nothing special like cim or anything,...
(face 6.5/10) not like others wl at that place,cause there were more beauty WL than her there,... just felt click with her when the first time i met her,..just thats simple..

any advise or story about going out with wl willl be much appreciated cause i will learn from others bro who already got the experienced

many thank you bros

mrcookiemann
21-04-2012, 12:15 AM
Hi Bro Cisco, be careful coz sometimes they just want a visa or someone to give them money or accommodation. Better to just keep it business and enjoy what you pay for.

cisco
21-04-2012, 12:25 AM
thanx mrcookiemann thats why i didn`t answer her text message yet cause i dont want to step more deeper in this case

ddkf85
21-04-2012, 12:32 AM
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cisco
21-04-2012, 12:48 AM
yeah you are right ddkf85 i got the same mind as you right now,....thanx bro

enigma775
21-04-2012, 01:04 AM
yeah you are right ddkf85 i got the same mind as you right now,....thanx bro

keep us update on what happens bro

goodluck!

GWEILO
21-04-2012, 01:07 AM
Oh it is on like Donkey Kong!!!

mancolover
21-04-2012, 05:22 AM
Some of the things that you said are a bit of a cause for concern. But against my better judgement and if you can keep your emotions aside. I say go for it and maybe have some fun. It would be wrong of me say not to when I have done the same. I've had some that just fizzled out to nothing and one that whilst it was a little frustrating at times, it was also pretty fuckin incredible. But even that ended up very badly. So maybe I'm jaded, but here is a few things I learnt. As you are possibly genuinely asking and I suspect most bros will just tell you to fuck her.
These girls play guys for a living. The more GFE she is the more likely she is to having a long list of dudes who think they are special. Not saying your not, but be aware of it.
Agreed with Mr Cookie - Some girls, maybe quite a few are after visas. Find out how long she's been here? the longer it is, the more likely it is. As options for her are running out.
It's never been free sex, you may fuck and it will probably be better than before. But it's always ended up costing me around the same or if not more. I've never been fleeced, bought any real gifts, given cash or paid bills. In fact they would have used some of these bro's money on entertaining me before. But in the long it run still ended up as costly.
Just because she fucks dudes for a living, doesn't mean she will be cool with you fucking anyone else or still punting. In fact if she gets serious about you she'll probably wana stop working and if you get serious about her, you shouldn't want her working either.
Equally don't expect her to stop working for you. Some of these girls make ALOT of money (being one of things that can keep them working), can you match it?
Most, if not all places are gang/criminally connected and they do not want girls to stop working, have boyfriends or see clients outside the shop. Be discrete.
keep a lid on who she is. Bragging/mentioning is not worth the trouble it could cause.
If hitting the town have a story of how you know each other worked out, It is awkward running into her friends (haven't run into mine before). Esp bad if you don't speak same language, She will be asked in one, you the other and you'll have no idea if stories match. Most of her friends, classmates etc wont know what she does and even if they did it's not the best of how you meet stories you could have.

Not trying to be negative, but some things I found useful to know. All in all. It's a very complicated world their in. Don't get attached, but go out and have some fun and look for girlfriends in the real world.

Littlewonder
21-04-2012, 10:24 AM
Well its hard to give someone advice when we don't know either of you so in general all women are only interested in what they can get usually money, or security or both.
If you have a girl friend or wife they are no different.
The difference with a working lady is they are used to having money to spend and so are expensive to take out.
Secondly they get plenty of sex so they arnt always keen to hop in the cot. However they also know how to use their assets and what men want so if you spend enough you can usually end up in bed.

Having said that they are human beings and desire care and affection and if you find the right girl they can be fun and nice to go out with.
Just dont expect too much and treat her like any other girl you might ask out don't be in too much of a hurry to get a free (not so free) root. She will let you know when sex is on the menu.

Have fun and enjoy.

AHLUNGOR
21-04-2012, 10:27 AM
I think Brother Mancolover has some useful advices there.

Just to put my 2 cents into the ring.

You sound like a single dude punting for your physical needs, aren't we all. First question you ask yourself, what have you got to lose?

If you are single? are you Australian citizen? do you have a residensy here ?(if you are on student visa yourself, then you have absolutely nothing to worry about, just go out and have as much fun as you can without emptying your wallet!!).

Do you have much dating experiences before (if not much, then I will suggest a WL is probably not the right type of girl you should go out with, because you will probably get too excited or too emotionally attached to her too soon and you won't be able to handle it or get out).

But I do agree that it is probably no harm if you and her just meet up for a casual coffee or lunch or a movie or something, but can you press the stop button if things are going too far too quickly, what if she let you fuck her on your first date or after a few meet. What if she tells you, you are the only man that makes her cum?? what if she says she has real feelings for you.

If you think you can't handle some of the situations mentioned above, you better stay away. just see her in the shop. Or if you are really keen to have a go and see what happen or just to satisfy your curiorsity of what it is like to see a WL privately, then just do it, she may be just a lonely girl and a very decent person............good luck to you mate,:question:

Cheers

cisco
22-04-2012, 12:35 AM
i do really appreciated and thank you ahlungor,littlewonder,mancolover, and all bros for the advise and information.....

now i know what to do now....again many thank you guys

GWEILO
22-04-2012, 12:41 AM
So what have you decided? Is it going to be on like Donkey Kong?

Travelmate
22-04-2012, 01:01 AM
I think Brother Mancolover has some useful advices there.

Just to put my 2 cents into the ring.

You sound like a single dude punting for your physical needs, aren't we all. First question you ask yourself, what have you got to lose?

If you are single? are you Australian citizen? do you have a residensy here ?(if you are on student visa yourself, then you have absolutely nothing to worry about, just go out and have as much fun as you can without emptying your wallet!!).

Do you have much dating experiences before (if not much, then I will suggest a WL is probably not the right type of girl you should go out with, because you will probably get too excited or too emotionally attached to her too soon and you won't be able to handle it or get out).

But I do agree that it is probably no harm if you and her just meet up for a casual coffee or lunch or a movie or something, but can you press the stop button if things are going too far too quickly, what if she let you fuck her on your first date or after a few meet. What if she tells you, you are the only man that makes her cum?? what if she says she has real feelings for you.

If you think you can't handle some of the situations mentioned above, you better stay away. just see her in the shop. Or if you are really keen to have a go and see what happen or just to satisfy your curiorsity of what it is like to see a WL privately, then just do it, she may be just a lonely girl and a very decent person............good luck to you mate,:question:

Cheers

haha!!! You sound like a very experience dude...
You got to teach me some skill ... , as I seems like as innocent as those girls ...!!@#&*!@*!!*(

Travelmate
22-04-2012, 12:30 PM
!!@&*!@*!!*( means what ? Special code of communication between you and AHLungor ?

I know a lot of young Korean girls use symbols ##**^^))DD to text their gf and bf to show intimacy. Any special relationship between you two. Haha

By the way, taking a WL to coffee or cheap lunch is okay but not shopping. Otherwise you go broke !!!

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You are right !!!
Especially Korean girls!

project_manager006
22-04-2012, 01:05 PM
Funny, a girl at AT did the same to me recently. I hope it's not the same girl.

Travelmate
22-04-2012, 07:50 PM
!!@&*!@*!!*( means what ? Special code of communication between you and AHLungor ?

I know a lot of young Korean girls use symbols ##**^^))DD to text their gf and bf to show intimacy. Any special relationship between you two. Haha

By the way, taking a WL to coffee or cheap lunch is okay but not shopping. Otherwise you go broke !!!

I never have that "go broke" experience ..... maybe they treat me too nice
or maybe I am so poor and they cannot squeeze anything out from my wallet ...

babelx
23-04-2012, 12:44 AM
Cisco, I would stay away. You sound like a dating noob and she may (or may not) hang you out to dry! As said before, think carfully about what you could lose from this.

Good luck.

cisco
23-04-2012, 06:09 AM
thanx babelx ....

echy
23-04-2012, 01:59 PM
In all honestly i would avoid dating a WL/ML i've been in a relationship with one and its not easy. You'l always have trust issues and jealousy issue. Unless you have the dough to support them so they can get out of the bussiness its not worth it. Eventually you will go broke they wont acknowledge the hard work and money you fork out for them. Because they have become so used to other guys who have spoilt them before. My recommendation is avoid them and keep it strictly business or else you will get milked for what its worth.

It may seem nice that someone is showing you attention but nothing is more frustrating that having a lovely dinner with her and then having her phone ring or receiving a message from a customer wondering when she will be working next. Not to mention the fact that when you introduce her to your family and mates and they ask what she does for work and she says shes currently studying but yet shes walking around with an expensive hand bag and living in an expensive apartment somewhere in the city. You can rest assured that they will be very sus.

mre83
23-04-2012, 02:34 PM
I went out with one once as a side thing. I wasn't really into her emotionally, just fun in the sack kind of arrangement. Problem was she got emotional and all of a sudden after seeing other girls at the same shop even though she was cool with it before, it somehow changed and she started getting shitty that I would do that. It just made the whole experience of going to that shop more unpleaseant... the ONLY way I can comfortably go to that shop now is call up and see who's on making sure SHE is not working that night.

AHLUNGOR
26-04-2012, 12:59 PM
I went out with one once as a side thing. I wasn't really into her emotionally, just fun in the sack kind of arrangement. Problem was she got emotional and all of a sudden after seeing other girls at the same shop even though she was cool with it before, it somehow changed and she started getting shitty that I would do that. It just made the whole experience of going to that shop more unpleaseant... the ONLY way I can comfortably go to that shop now is call up and see who's on making sure SHE is not working that night.

WLs are human too, and if she feels that you are nice to her, not hard to imagine she will have real feeling for you and get jealous.

Better not even get started will be the safest bet.

Just keep seeing her in the shop only and get as much out of her as possible, never take it outside!!

Cheers

Littlewonder
26-04-2012, 02:13 PM
If a working lady asks me to go out with her if I like her I would just go hell why not you only live once life is short enjoy it while you can.

Travelmate
26-04-2012, 05:21 PM
I can see both Ahlungor and Littlewonder pointg of view.

My view is:
1. It is unnecessary lie to the lady whether you are single or married. It can potential cause many more troubles later.
2. Set up expectation at the beginning. It is better to declare you are happy to be with her, but that will be it.
3. DO NOT DINE IN (never bring back home), TAKE AWAY is fine.
4. Make sure both party had their own space.

Of course, everyone has their own likes and dislikes, rules can always change slightly.

You can enjoy a lot of good time if you bare with common sense and respect.

ddkf85
26-04-2012, 06:05 PM
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HookedonHookerz
26-04-2012, 06:10 PM
its sad but some of these WLs are just seeking companionship. Its hard for them to make real friends. There is the language barrier and making friends outside of work without them knowing what she does for a living, is difficult. They come here to work for the money, usually by themselves only. The job is hard so finding someone to talk to can be a real treasure for them. There was one that i hung out with who was genuinely looking for a friend only. She actually paid for meals, asked nothing of me, when i visited her in the beginning she refused tips after a few visits. Even invited me over to her apartment at times when she wanted a sleeping buddy. She was the most genuine WL i have ever met.

Test the waters if you decide to go out with her OP. Dont try to impress her with anything, just hang out as you would with your mates.

newbie111
26-04-2012, 06:29 PM
Go out with her but just keep in mind that you are just another spare tyre she keeps for backup. Have fun and thats it... dont get too attached!

Travelmate
26-04-2012, 06:33 PM
Go out with her but just keep in mind that you are just another spare tyre she keeps for backup. Have fun and thats it... dont get too attached!

same from both parties .... no issue!

project_manager006
28-04-2012, 12:20 PM
If a working lady asks me to go out with her if I like her I would just go hell why not you only live once life is short enjoy it while you can.

It's that type of thinking that will send a person broke in a casino.

Littlewonder
28-04-2012, 05:17 PM
It's that type of thinking that will send a person broke in a casino.

It will also send you broke punting but hey what a way to go.

echy
28-04-2012, 06:58 PM
From my experience you would save more money just seeing the WL/ML at the shop. When you are in a relationship with one it feels like your punting everyday, it will send u broke.

Travelmate
28-04-2012, 07:10 PM
From my experience you would save more money just seeing the WL/ML at the shop. When you are in a relationship with one it feels like your punting everyday, it will send u broke.

Totally disagree!
It all depends on who you meet!

GWEILO
29-04-2012, 01:16 AM
Totally disagree!
It all depends on who you meet!

I take ML/WL out to dinner sometimes, I always get benefits in return no strings attached. Never had a problem to be honest, they know what I'm after and I know what they're after so no harm no foul.

cisco
29-04-2012, 01:40 AM
The more you meet the girl the more you will be falling in love,..thats why there was a word said `LOVE IS BLIND`...
if the ending you got the true love from the girl thats good then,...but when it comes to being fool by the girl that too bad then....

That s why i always try to avoid this thing happen to me,...i am kind of man thats not easy to forget the girl that i loved before ,we have been 4 years together and it has finished at the end

Even i`d do everthing for her,we separated cause she gonna back to her country and i am still here with a sad feeling that become a shadow where ever i go..

even me and my girl friend already broke up almost 2 years now i never want to find girl friend anymore, even sometimes i do really want to have a girlfriend again.
i can say i am trauma of what had happened to my relationship before...

i think its all how do you want to drive this path....do you want to be in love or not ,...or do you want to avoid this path...its all in your hand ...
even sometimes i still confused of my own path.....

prime
04-05-2012, 04:28 AM
I went out with a WL about two years ago, it seemed we had a real connection during our meets and eventually started calling then meeting outside. It didn't end up working out. How I did it was to not keep so attached, as I knew this kind of relationship wouldn't last at all. When it did end I just moved on. Have fun while you can but don't go overboard. Its a pretty unique experience that you might not have again!