do wls enjoy working

[Chinaman]

most wl look like they enjoy sex. but not sure if really enjoy. sometimes i feel guilty punting. because girl have to do best to please and have sex with horny men like me. do wl actually like to please horny customer and make happy or just good money? why do wl pick sex job. some very smart and easy find other job if want? im just curious

[corvus]

Maybe Christmas can assist?

[Chinaman]

Maybe Christmas can assist?
sorry i dont understand what you mean??

[JimBeam]

Similar to any other hospitality jobs, i would say, some days it would be great due to nice, decent punters like us, but on an off day it would be hell because some rude fuckheads..

[jzchan]

Christmas is a forum member that is a retired WL. She is still currently working as a receptionist for one of the nicer shops here.

[jzchan]

Some of us lucky people have seen her when she was a WL so her opinion is definitely that of a real retired WL and not some fake poster.

[Chinaman]

Similar to any other hospitality jobs, i would say, some days it would be great due to nice, decent punters like us, but on an off day it would be hell because some rude fuckheads..
but hospitality job different. say if you chef cook nice meal. maybe they feel create value in world by making something good. but wl i dunno definitely customer feel value but maybe feel wrong. maybe i think too convention. maybe some girl feel positive impact. not sure

[Johndeau]

I think to an extent some do but not all

[Christmas]

many kisses with guys who have bad breath ok ok
get fingered unhygienic nail so need to say "Can you not" every single time were orite
long, rough, boring vanilla sex were all bearable
insulting me as a cheap was no prob because the money I get paid, was offset.
Giving a blowie to my close friends and get paid... and it's like $200/hour :T.... Where else pay me like this

but then most of my customers were better than that.. So it was good "career" for me.
I'd say I enjoyed my "job" but sex?
how can you enjoy sex without ��love��? shiba I am such an innocent Asian girl.
JOKES, maybe I enjoyed.. some times.. maybe more than some times.. hehe..

[Chinaman]

wow i didnt know wl can be so tough sometime :(

[dandydanny]

wow i didnt know wl can be so tough sometime :(

Well, I guess that's just the hard truth. Sometimes I can clearly see that the WL doesn't like to have sex with me at all, but I don't really care. I have extremely low self-esteem, I can never find a gf, but I still need to satisfy my sexual needs, that's the reason I punt

[Chinaman]

Well, I guess that's just the hard truth. Sometimes I can clearly see that the WL doesn't like to have sex with me at all, but I don't really care. I have extremely low self-esteem, I can never find a gf, but I still need to satisfy my sexual needs, that's the reason I punt
why you say you can never find gf? you cant make someone like you but you can always do your best improve yourself. i have low self-esteem too. come from strict and abuse family so always shy and fear. i come to australia few months ago to start new life. slowly learning new things and try be more open. i start punting to try new thing and be more comfortable with different people. but i cant just punt all the time. i also try to meet other people when no punt to improve social skill. i think everyone can improve if put effort. and if something important to you then you will try to put effort. some people more slow learn like me but doesnt matter. just do your best :)

a lot of people think im wierd. like my flat mate he come from good background good school good job good family very good boy. sometime he see me on aus99 and he look at my strange. i think people we all very different in own way. and sometimes people will judge you but important be comfortable with yourself and try to be happy. even if feels like world against you. because there people out there appreciate you and i think that more important. and if treat other well and no expect anything in return then you will feel good :)

[dandydanny]

why you say you can never find gf? you cant make someone like you but you can always do your best improve yourself. i have low self-esteem too. come from strict and abuse family so always shy and fear. i come to australia few months ago to start new life. slowly learning new things and try be more open. i start punting to try new thing and be more comfortable with different people. but i cant just punt all the time. i also try to meet other people when no punt to improve social skill. i think everyone can improve if put effort. and if something important to you then you will try to put effort. some people more slow learn like me but doesnt matter. just do your best :)

Thanks for your advice. I guess you're from China (base on your ID)? I'm from China too. I've been in Australia for 5 years, you've only been here for a few month, but you're already doing better than me. I'm very bad at socialising, I don't even have someone that I can really call as a real friend, no need to mention gf at all. Sometimes I try to make conversations with wls during the session, as they're the only females I can talk to to build up my confidence, but I'm always sound very tense, and some wls would tell me to relax a bit, or they would even ask me if I'm feeling alright

[Chinaman]

Thanks for your advice. I guess you're from China (base on your ID)? I'm from China too. I've been in Australia for 5 years, you've only been here for a few month, but you're already doing better than me. I'm very bad at socialising, I don't even have someone that I can really call as a real friend, no need to mention gf at all. Sometimes I try to make conversations with wls during the session, as they're the only females I can talk to to build up my confidence, but I'm always sound very tense, and some wls would tell me to relax a bit, or they would even ask me if I'm feeling alright
yes when come from totally different country it is very hard. i still feel too. but good thing is you can leave all bad thing behind and focus on start new. when i was in china i did not have many people i can call real friend. when i come to australia i dont know many people. only flat mate. but something change. even though i dont know many people i treat everyone friend! even though i dont know them well i still try talk like long friends. this help me alot because it changed my perspective. and make me more positive. sometime i say stupid thing but the more stupid thing you do the more confident you become. because you no longer care as much. look "rejection therapy' on google. this help me a bit. and may help you too maybe. i am still not even confident at all but better now. because i just try to improve bit by bit everyday.

[wilisno]

yes when come from totally different country it is very hard. i still feel too. but good thing is you can leave all bad thing behind and focus on start new. when i was in china i did not have many people i can call real friend. when i come to australia i dont know many people. only flat mate. but something change. even though i dont know many people i treat everyone friend! even though i dont know them well i still try talk like long friends. this help me alot because it changed my perspective. and make me more positive. sometime i say stupid thing but the more stupid thing you do the more confident you become. because you no longer care as much. look "rejection therapy' on google. this help me a bit. and may help you too maybe.
Good life philosophy buddy ! ;) ;) ;)

[dandydanny]

yes when come from totally different country it is very hard. i still feel too. but good thing is you can leave all bad thing behind and focus on start new. when i was in china i did not have many people i can call real friend. when i come to australia i dont know many people. only flat mate. but something change. even though i dont know many people i treat everyone friend! even though i dont know them well i still try talk like long friends. this help me alot because it changed my perspective. and make me more positive. sometime i say stupid thing but the more stupid thing you do the more confident you become. because you no longer care as much. look "rejection therapy' on google. this help me a bit. and may help you too maybe. i am still not even confident at all but better now. because i just try to improve bit by bit everyday.

Thank you so much bro, you're so positive, I really need to learn from you

[solowang]

I imagine most start working due to financial reasons. Most would do it for quick money and not a career. The ones that turn it into a career most likely enjoy what the do and see more from the positive perspective.

We punters will probably never understand the true reasons...

[CunningLinguist]

Some girls just wanna have fun!

[AHLUNGOR]

I imagine most start working due to financial reasons. Most would do it for quick money and not a career. The ones that turn it into a career most likely enjoy what the do and see more from the positive perspective.

We punters will probably never understand the true reasons...

That probably covers 90% of the true situations .

[Palooka]

Its like trying to harden the shins by kicking a palm tree. At first the
shin is sensitive but after much practice the shin nerves become dead
and you feel nothing. I'm sure the same philosophy applies to working
girls.

[cuteguy]

If the girls could earn the same money somewhere else I'm sure they would not do this line of work. For the majority of girls, it's the money that lures them to this industry. I don't recall any girls saying that they loved this job for the sex factor.

[woods23]

Some girl do like to have sex with some particular customer so it's not all lost.

[eyo1032]

Even if they enjoy sex, if they could earn money at the same rate at another job - most would do it.

Most of the ML/WLs would have no issue finding a boytoy or a fuckbuddy if they aren't in the industry :p

[Littlewonder]

wow i didnt know wl can be so tough sometime :(


How do you think they survive?

They have to be tough its just the good girls can still be nice to you if you treat them right.

That starts with how you present yourself, being clean, polite and gentle and go from there.

[AHLUNGOR]

I have known a very seasoned massage lady called Melissa when she was working at Impressions at Elizabeth St, very friendly and smart cookie probably in the early 30's , curvy body, great tits and some of the best TT and HJ skills I had experienced by then .

We always have a good chat during part I and she was telling me all these older Chinamen tried to get BJ and FS with her and pretty much she could name her prices but she never did (as if ? Well, I was a good listener .......haha) anyway, cut the long story short, I stopped going to Impressions and lost sight of her for a few years - I switched to At Michelle's in Bondi Junction!

Then one day out of the blue at Michelle I was introduced to a new busty girl Cindy who turned out to by Melissa!

By that time she had put on some weight, almost getting fat and tits getting a bit smaller and sagging, and that was quite sad actually and I ask her how has she been ?

But in fact she was doing very well, over the years she had bought a few properties and financially well set for a comfortable retirement. She went to Indonesia regularly to look for toy boys!

And she was telling me how those young men are fuck machines and can go all day all night and they are hard all the times ! and she taught them how to please a woman and so on. And I have to ask, do they have big dicks, she said of course she would pick those with good size but really size is not that important once you are 7 or bigger! their tongues and hands can give her more pleasure .

Then I ask, so why are you still working here ?

No reason, she was bored and really not interested or good at doing other jobs, and her current toy boy is trying to start a small business back home in Bali so she wants to help him out a bit. He doesn't know how much money she has and was very grateful that she was doing massage to earn money to help him !!!!

I think I only saw Cindy/Melissa a couple more times and she disappeared again ! May be she found another new Indy boy !

There you go, some ml actually happy doing massage - but I guess that's after she set herself up ! A true story as far as what she told me, for her own sake I hope she was telling the truth and she was not financially poor and is now working in some cheap brothel getting fucked for chicken shit money !!

[rooter]

Just have a good time!
Don't ask too many questions.
The life unexamined is the life enjoyed!

[Longan]

Just have a good time!
Don't ask too many questions.
As soon as you start to question happiness you cease to be happy.
During the session, yes, just enjoy and be in the moment.

But on this forum, ask whatever you want. Not everyone has been here for ages and knows the ropes. Let the newbies have their question time, silly question or not.

[6sixty9nine]

Ha I was told once by a Chinese working girl that she hated 1 in 10 punters, enjoyed 1 in 10 punters, while the rest were easy to take money from without doing very much. She though they were dickheads wastin the cash to her benefit.

Do the girls luv fucking every punter that walks in? Answer yourself: would you enjoy fucking the next 20 women you randomly bump into at the bus stop? Fat, thin, young, old, happy and bad tempered? Nah, didn't think so. Ha ha ha haha ha.

The money, the girl, the room is all fantasy. Don't take it too seriously. Fuxken grow up boyz.

[woods23]

once you walked out the door she probably call you a dick head or a wanker or worst lol.

[CunningLinguist]

I used to have a regular Thai ML and she would treat me special, I got to sit in the room where the ladies waited and listen to their comments about punters.
Just like normal girls they liked some and they didn't like others and most were just so so.

[jeter]

This was a long time ago but I also had regular Thai WL before, i do CIM with her all the time. I wonder if she is still with her BF?

She said her boyfriend tried to control her and was jealous type. She kept saying her BF no money....

[Palooka]

I used to have a regular Thai ML and she would treat me special, I got to sit in the room where the ladies waited and listen to their comments about punters.
Just like normal girls they liked some and they didn't like others and most were just so so.
I once dated a shop girl and sometimes i would wait for her to finish where the ladies
sit. And some of the things the ladies said would make locker room banter sound
like child chatter . Funny they would smile , hug and kiss the client goodbye and
after they left the shop they would say the most vile ,vulgar things about the client
while laughing their head's off with tears rolling down their eyes.

[Longan]

some of the things the ladies said would make locker room banter sound
like child chatter . Funny they would smile , hug and kiss the client goodbye and
after they left the shop they would say the most vile ,vulgar things about the client
while laughing their head's off with tears rolling down their eyes.
Haha give us some examples of the things they say. How vile and vulgar can it get from a 1 hour session? They are probably just joking?

[Palooka]

Haha give us some examples of the things they say. How vile and vulgar can it get from a 1 hour session? They are probably just joking?
Sure most was in jest but you would be surprised at the main reason for laughing.
It wasn't about weight or hygiene but usually about how some customers have
massive ego's and how easy it is to fake it or some strange fetish. Most of the
girls when you meet them behind the scenes were surprisingly quite natural.

[eyo1032]

Well they are just normal people.. with a job in the service industry.

Just their jobs are catered for specific people alone - just the society's stigma prevents them from being more open about it

[Longan]

It wasn't about weight or hygiene but usually about how some customers have
massive ego's and how easy it is to fake it or some strange fetish.
How is talk about customers having massive ego's vile and vulgar?

[Palooka]

How is talk about customers having massive ego's vile and vulgar?
Woman can talk just as dirty as men . I'll just leave at that :miao:

[Littlewonder]

Do you like working?

Answer in most cases is yes sometimes other times No!

Can't see how it would be any different for a working lady!

[Punterman2]

I am seeing a Thai WL privately once a week at her house and we have good chats about this issue. For her she likes to see regular customers rather than new ones all the time. She feels more comfortable with that. Working for her is just the same as the rest of us, it is all about the money. She will work three days at shops plus sees 3 or 4 punters at her home. She can earn upwards of $2,000 week tax free for her three day week and that allows her the freedom to run her life the way she wants it.

I asked her what she would rather do and she would be happy to just work one day a week but again, like the rest of us, that won't pay the bills so she has to work more as she runs her own cafe as well which the punting helps support.

[AHLUNGOR]

indeed. the number of ARs that get written by guys who think they're great lovers giving every girl they fuck insane orgasms is pretty amusing.

And then you wonder why it never works for you ??

[woods23]

A wl said to me she cum 4 times in one hr . Is it even possible??

[Mr Bastard]

I reckon they would have some funny things to say about blokes who sit in the waiting rooms with them pretending to be massage ladies...........

[6sixty9nine]

Theres no doubt i reckon a girl has her favourites but its hit and miss meeting one that you get on with because they see so many guys and get jaded like i see so many girls and get jaded to ha ha fuckn get into it


I used to have a regular Thai ML and she would treat me special, I got to sit in the room where the ladies waited and listen to their comments about punters.
Just like normal girls they liked some and they didn't like others and most were just so so.

[Punterman2]

A wl said to me she cum 4 times in one hr . Is it even possible??

Yes but rare. I see three regular WL's who will happily come as much as you can make them in one hour. One of them even whacks herself off in front of me towards the end of the session as I shoot my load over her. Like blokes, all girls are different. Some just like to cum.

Most girls though will only cum once or twice and then too tired.

[cuteguy]

A wl said to me she cum 4 times in one hr . Is it even possible??

Well, doctors from the Center for Marital and Sexual Studies in California recorded one woman who enjoyed (or endured) 134 orgasms over the course of an hour. And the same record for men? 16.

Honorable Mention: the official longest orgasm was recorded in 1966, when a woman had a 45 second orgasm that involved 25 individual contractions.

[Punterman2]

Well, doctors from the Center for Marital and Sexual Studies in California recorded one woman who enjoyed (or endured) 134 orgasms over the course of an hour. And the same record for men? 16.

Honorable Mention: the official longest orgasm was recorded in 1966, when a woman had a 45 second orgasm that involved 25 individual contractions.

I want to meet these women. Having said that, the one in 1966 would be in her 70's now.......but that has not put me off before. Had a granny WL in Townsville a few years ago. False teeth toothy bbbj, was not too pleasant. Surprisingly nice tits though in her 70's.

[BlackToad]

I think most of the time it's just a job but as one ML said to me "I love this job. I earn lots of money and get to see lots of cocks. Would you like to have sex? $50 extra."

[Pussyhands]

I think there are girls who like and want to be a WL cause they get paid to do what they like doing. I think that's pretty good.

There are ones that do it as a job. The benefits out weigh the cons. But I do wonder what psychological harm it can be in the long term.

A WL - ver nice and normal girl, a year back, said she thinks all guys use a girls body like a toy. So has lost faith in relationships as she sees more and more punters with gf and wife.

It's a complex topic as guys have penis and need to get it out. Maybe the wife is okay with it even though the guy thinks she don't know - at least his not insulting her intelligence by doing too obviously ;)

[Longan]

So has lost faith in relationships as she sees more and more punters with gf and wife.
It's a complex topic as guys have penis and need to get it out. Maybe the wife is okay with it even though the guy thinks she don't know - at least his not insulting her intelligence by doing too obviously ;)
Anyone here openly disclosure their punting hobby with their gf/wife and they are ok with it?

[Punterman2]

Anyone here openly disclosure their punting hobby with their gf/wife and they are ok with it?

Ha ha....this will be interesting

I can imagine my conversation. Hi wife, in the last 15 years I have fucked 1200 Asian girls and spent $180,000 of our hard earned money pursuing my covert hobby. Are you OK with that ?

[Why???]

A long time ML(CBJ only xtra) told me recently that after most shifts she is horny..
Goes home and brings herself to a big O.

[Punterman2]

A long time ML(CBJ only xtra) told me recently that after most shifts she is horny..
Goes home and brings herself to a big O.

I have a regular WL that is like that. She is always really horny. She works Monday to Friday but still whacks herself off in bed several times on Saturday morning.

[handcockJ]

You can definitely tell when an ML/WL into it or just going through the motion or her routine. Especially when ML's initiate crazy shit like licking your face or tonguing your ears, things that you don't tip for lol

[Pussyhands]

That is true we can be quite real in our punts.

I do like my girls with a happy healthy fulfilled life as I have now ;)

The happier they are makes me happy too ;)

[Shoryureppa]

I'm guessing they enjoy it or at least, enjoy it enough & the money helps with motivation too.

[vitamin]

WL once said.
Hips don't lie..

don't go by their moans or shivers or words.

If they're backing in to you or trying to control the rhythm with their hips. They're trying to make themselves feel good with your cock.

[Ted Hunter]

Vitamin....
You nailed it.A girlfriend once told me a similar thing