Getting phone numbers

[Punterman2]

Have recently started to ask for phone numbers of the girls that I like. One of them has lead to me seeing the girl outside the shop at her home once a week where I pay $150hr for FS but in the comfort of her lovely girly bedroom with no buzzers, receptionist etc. She works three days a week in shops and then on one day sees some regulars at home. Very nice and she does not watch the clock. Paid for one hour this week and stayed two so very relaxing environment. Got fed and a nice cuppa as well as the excitement of fucking her in bed underneath the duvet, on the bedroom floor and then on the lounge room floor.

Also makes it easier to book them when they are at the shop.

What extras are forum members getting outside of the shops by getting their phone numbers.

[Shoryureppa]

Asking for numbers is the fastest way to get banned from the owner, is it not?

[harrycd]

I had one WL borrow my phone and try to add me on facebook on her first day, turns out there were too many koreans with her name and she couldn't find her profile, I think it was the language settings or something.
She was really cute but obviously a little naive.

I've never asked for numbers as I don't want to get banned tbh.

[cuteguy]

Asking for numbers is the fastest way to get banned from the owner, is it not?

Thinks about it! Would a shop or escort agency want you making a private deal with a girl and leaving them out of the business arrangement or would they prefer that you go through them? The answer is through them and if they find out that you are working behind them then they may ban you from seeing their girls.

[harrycd]

Thinks about it! Would a shop or escort agency want you making a private deal with a girl and leaving them out of the business arrangement or would they prefer that you go through them? The answer is through them and if they find out that you are working behind them then they may ban you from seeing their girls.

This is true, happened to me when I used to punt in the states, a girl from an agency gave me her email and snapchat to bypass her agent. She has since quit the agency but has told me to look her up next time I'm in LA.

[Palooka]

Yes you can get their numbers but remember speaking to a Thai madam that she
wasn't happy with one of her Thai girls that once she had helped get her Aust
citizenship and since then she had been reluctant to work.
If dating a girl they won't mind from my experience however stealing clients
is a different matter . Would you like it if you owned a restaurant and one of your
waitress was sending all your best customers to her own restaurant ?

[towelsniffer]

Worked the other way around for me. A girl I saw privately for a few weeks ended up asking me for my number. Have since seen her every week outside work hours as she now works at a shop and doesn't want me visiting her while she's working. What you would have to pay for in extras with a WL as PSE or whatnot, I get for free. Not to mention I get fed and have my own designated towel at her place :shout:.

[woods23]

Very intersted to know if you see the wl at their place do you pay her the same rate as the shop?
Cheers

[Punterman2]

Very intersted to know if you see the wl at their place do you pay her the same rate as the shop?
Cheers

I pay the same. $150 hr in the shops she works at and $150hr at her house. It is not taking business from the shops as she still works there three days a week and does the privates on her days off when she would not be working anyway.

[puntercouple]

I try not to get phone numbers, but one WL gave me hers and...

[handcockJ]

Waiting for someone to say
... And that's how I met your mother

[towelsniffer]

Very intersted to know if you see the wl at their place do you pay her the same rate as the shop?
Cheers

I don't pay to visit her at home :surprise:

[cuteguy]

The girls who work for escort agencies are more inclined to give out numbers than the girls in the shops.

[wilisno]

Phone numbers mean very little, it's so cheap nowadays to get a prepaid one. They are just as good as the girl still wantsyou to come back, as soon as she's done with you, she can just block you or discard that number easily ! ;) ;) ;)

[woods23]

I don't pay to visit her at home :surprise:

So you get... Entree main nd dessert for free even a free shower :question:
Is she a good cook ?

[Alan86]

It depends on how she's giving you her number. Is it business or actual friendship/ dating.

If business, then you can get good bookings with her, and arrange things better.

If friendship/ dating, then you may be in for freebies, and all sorts of extras she usually doesn't give in the shop.

Sounds like you had a better service at her home.

[Ted Hunter]

It's a weird life a working girl leads....It can also be lonely....In my younger days I had a few girls give me their number so I could be their handbag for the occasional event.One girl in particular just wanted someone to go to the movies with

[Punterman2]

It's a weird life a working girl leads....It can also be lonely....In my younger days I had a few girls give me their number so I could be their handbag for the occasional event.One girl in particular just wanted someone to go to the movies with

It's funny you say about the lonely bit. I have a newish regular, Jasmine. Started exchanging texts. Saw her twice this weekend and she texts me last night saying thanks for seeing her as I cheered her up as she often feels moody and lonely as a WL. The lonely bit broke my heart as she is mid 40's, Korean, gorgeous personality but rents a small room in a shared house off a Korean couple. She is a lovely girl to me, so friendly, funny, charming, vivacious and fucking cheeky. She tells me all the things that she gets up to with her customers and cracks me up laughing so I was sad that she might be lonely. I am married so I can't date her or anything or spend more time with her. Feel a bit sad but there are lots of lonely people in the world I guess.

[Ted Hunter]

Many of these are in a foreign country with no friends network and working unsociable hours.Shiftwork screws up their sleep patterns.They are human.We need a fuck and sometimes they need a hug.

[AHLUNGOR]

It's funny you say about the lonely bit. I have a newish regular, Jasmine. Started exchanging texts. Saw her twice this weekend and she texts me last night saying thanks for seeing her as I cheered her up as she often feels moody and lonely as a WL. The lonely bit broke my heart as she is mid 40's, Korean, gorgeous personality but rents a small room in a shared house off a Korean couple. She is a lovely girl to me, so friendly, funny, charming, vivacious and fucking cheeky. She tells me all the things that she gets up to with her customers and cracks me up laughing so I was sad that she might be lonely. I am married so I can't date her or anything or spend more time with her. Feel a bit sad but there are lots of lonely people in the world I guess.

You don't have a problem receiving texts from a WL at night, at home , with your family around ?

[Alan86]

You don't have a problem receiving texts from a WL at night, at home , with your family around ?

Punterman has to be one step ahead if he doesn't want to get caught. It's something he really must work on due to the sheer amount of punting he does.

Not unlike for other types of addicts. It's hard to go a long time without being caught.

Be careful, Punterman. We don't want to lose you!

[Shoryureppa]

This thread is taunting me to ask my regular ML for her # and see what happens. Damn you guys

[Palooka]

Why be shy ? They get asked this question everyday . If she genuinely is in to
you she will say she yes.

[Punterman2]

Punterman has to be one step ahead if he doesn't want to get caught. It's something he really must work on due to the sheer amount of punting he does.

Not unlike for other types of addicts. It's hard to go a long time without being caught.

Be careful, Punterman. We don't want to lose you!

Keep phone on silent is the trick

I also have a separate 'punting' phone, a secret punting bank account. My life is like one big covert operation on a daily basis.

[Babycat]

This thread is taunting me to ask my regular ML for her # and see what happens. Damn you guys
Most of the time I feel worried that my clients ask for my number. Really don't want to give.

Asking for numbers is the fastest way to get banned from the owner, is it not?
Yeah, at KIng Court they have rule of banning and asking for number is one of reasons to get banned.

It depends on how she's giving you her number. Is it business or actual friendship/ dating.

If business, then you can get good bookings with her, and arrange things better.

If friendship/ dating, then you may be in for freebies, and all sorts of extras she usually doesn't give in the shop.

Sounds like you had a better service at her home.
In some situations it's hard for me to refuse, but then I rarely text or reply if I just consider them clients/business. If they want to book me, just call my shop.

[Shoryureppa]

Why be shy ? They get asked this question everyday . If she genuinely is in to
you she will say she yes.

I'd like to but I don't want to get banned from the shop.

I'll see how it goes & the vibe, I'd like to tick off date a WL off the list at some point. No matter the outcome.

[Christmas]

Why be shy ? They get asked this question everyday . If she genuinely is in to
you she will say she yes.

It's wrongggggg
I gave it to all

[Christmas]

yeah former Juliet manager (I don't know she works still, but) also strongly restrict girls not to give their number to customers.
but I did it anyway. there's a will! there's a way!

[vitamin]

You don't have a problem receiving texts from a WL at night, at home , with your family around ?

There are apps that can hide texts or messages from a specific person. Also apps which effectively create 2 phone on the single phone. Often used for work and home profiles. But probably can be used for Punt and Normal life profiles.

[kevin007]

I use WeChat for punting and usually logged out when family around!!

[Alan86]

yeah former Juliet manager (I don't know she works still, but) also strongly restrict girls not to give their number to customers.
but I did it anyway. there's a will! there's a way!

Before I knew this rule, this topic caused me a little sadness once.

I was regular with this girl, and I thought we had a great connection, and she liked me as much as I liked her. She one day excitedly asked me ' can we someday hang out outside the shop?'

So one day I asked her for her number, and already had my finger on the button to enter it in. She then said 'No'!

I was really shocked and hurt, and thought she mustn't have liked me in the first place, and had just been 'acting ' all along! After that, I didn't book her again.

A few months later, I missed her and ended up getting her as she was available. She said she really missed me and wondered where I was? I told her how hurt I'd been she hadn't given me her number. She then told me that she would have loved to give it, but her boss had strictly forbidden them to give it out, and they would be immediately fired! She said she once had given it to a customer, but her boss somehow knew and told her she'd be fired immediately if she ever did it again! She was too scared, and told me to wait a few months until she quit, and then she would.

I confirmed this later, and yes, it was true.

[5 Star City]

We had a SELFISH punter taking a phone video of our Stunner

Be WARN

It will be dealt by the LAW next time

You know who you are:burn:

[AHLUNGOR]

We had a SELFISH punter taking a phone video of our Stunner

Be WARN

It will be dealt by the LAW next time

You know who you are:burn:

Was that the same Stunner I heard the story from? That was a few years back !

[5 Star City]

Was that the same Stunner I heard the story from? That was a few years back !

Different Bro

This one is the Most Beautiful:miao:

[AHLUNGOR]

Different Bro

This one is the Most Beautiful:miao:

She's obviously out of my price range ........ haha

[otokosg]

Before I knew this rule, this topic caused me a little sadness once.

I was regular with this girl, and I thought we had a great connection, and she liked me as much as I liked her. She one day excitedly asked me ' can we someday hang out outside the shop?'

So one day I asked her for her number, and already had my finger on the button to enter it in. She then said 'No'!

I was really shocked and hurt, and thought she mustn't have liked me in the first place, and had just been 'acting ' all along! After that, I didn't book her again.

A few months later, I missed her and ended up getting her as she was available. She said she really missed me and wondered where I was? I told her how hurt I'd been she hadn't given me her number. She then told me that she would have loved to give it, but her boss had strictly forbidden them to give it out, and they would be immediately fired! She said she once had given it to a customer, but her boss somehow knew and told her she'd be fired immediately if she ever did it again! She was too scared, and told me to wait a few months until she quit, and then she would.

I confirmed this later, and yes, it was true.


Very interesting story, I wonder if she's a WL or ML?

The few MLs that got me hooked never seemed to have a huge concern about the shop's rules. However, I always tried to ask them for chat ids, which they seemed very reluctant to give out, but then said to me "how about just a phone# ?". Seems like to them phone# is less trouble than chat id.

I can sorta understand why, as they might be posting something on their chat app's home page for friends to see, or they might think that one day after they leave austraila, the phone# will be gone but they want to keep their chat id to keep in touch with friends.

So we are still just customers to them, and they want to ditch us once leaving the industry or country. sad but true.

[Longan]

So we are still just customers to them, and they want to ditch us once leaving the industry or country. sad but true.
Ain't sad at all, let's be realistic here - it makes sense that we are just customers to them. Think about how much value they are giving us and compare that to how much value we are giving them. Yes, some of us like to believe we are giving them a great time too and that may be true, but the reality is we are going there for a purpose and that's to fuck. Anything else is secondary. They are working for a purpose and that's to make money. Anything else is secondary. This whole framework makes anything more an unlikely scenario, at best. Getting phone numbers means nothing.

[Alan86]

Very interesting story, I wonder if she's a WL or ML?

The few MLs that got me hooked never seemed to have a huge concern about the shop's rules. However, I always tried to ask them for chat ids, which they seemed very reluctant to give out, but then said to me "how about just a phone# ?". Seems like to them phone# is less trouble than chat id.

I can sorta understand why, as they might be posting something on their chat app's home page for friends to see, or they might think that one day after they leave austraila, the phone# will be gone but they want to keep their chat id to keep in touch with friends.



So we are still just customers to them, and they want to ditch us once leaving the industry or country. sad but true.

She was an ML.

It depends on how strict their boss is and the shop rules.

In this case, the boss was $$ Hungry and hence strictly forbade the girls from seeing customers outside the shop. If he can see her outside for free, why would he come to the shop and pay for her?

I've also got phone numbers at other shops so I didn't think it'd be a problem.

PS - (you reading this Maxy? :D)

[Punterman2]

Ain't sad at all, let's be realistic here - it makes sense that we are just customers to them. Think about how much value they are giving us and compare that to how much value we are giving them. Yes, some of us like to believe we are giving them a great time too and that may be true, but the reality is we are going there for a purpose and that's to fuck. Anything else is secondary. They are working for a purpose and that's to make money. Anything else is secondary. This whole framework makes anything more an unlikely scenario, at best. Getting phone numbers means nothing.

I think this is a good comment. I have 5 WL's numbers now and see them all regularly.....but let's be very clear, this does not mean that they want anything more than just making it easier for you to keep in contact to book them, know which shops they are at etc

One of them tells me she prefers having sex with lots of regulars than new clients all the time so she is happy to give her number out so that her regulars book her up during a shift.

They all tell me that they don't like or appreciate punters constantly texting them so I keep it business like and not personal.

[otokosg]

I think this is a good comment. I have 5 WL's numbers now and see them all regularly.....but let's be very clear, this does not mean that they want anything more than just making it easier for you to keep in contact to book them, know which shops they are at etc

One of them tells me she prefers having sex with lots of regulars than new clients all the time so she is happy to give her number out so that her regulars book her up during a shift.

They all tell me that they don't like or appreciate punters constantly texting them so I keep it business like and not personal.

I too think Longan's comment is spot on!
Always good to read these honest posts that keep me firmly grounded to reality.

[Babycat]

She was an ML.

It depends on how strict their boss is and the shop rules.

In this case, the boss was $$ Hungry and hence strictly forbade the girls from seeing customers outside the shop. If he can see her outside for free, why would he come to the shop and pay for her?

I've also got phone numbers at other shops so I didn't think it'd be a problem.

PS - (you reading this Maxy? :D)

Naaaaa, Alan. "Isn't it a problem?" Yeah, I gave so many stalkers now. T.T
Yeah but of course I have some good mixture who is friend and client that I always appreciate their kindness and compliments

[1igh7ning1]

Dam punterman, are you ever worried about being discovered? You could probably teach the intelligence agencies a thing or two.

[Waylander]

I got a WL gave me her number as well. I didn't ask for it. Was feeling a bit sketch as didn't know if she wanted to be friends or making arrangements outside of shop so I never hit her up. Although I am feeling it leans towards the latter.

[illidanstormrage]

If any of you guys do cold approach and talk to Asian girls that you like on your travels in the city or wherever.

You do raise an eyebrow when they say they live in Surry Hills... I honestly don't care as I have went out with WL's before but I have a feeling one I met recently works in a certain shop.

[Shoryureppa]

If any of you guys do cold approach and talk to Asian girls that you like on your travels in the city or wherever.

You do raise an eyebrow when they say they live in Surry Hills... I honestly don't care as I have went out with WL's before but I have a feeling one I met recently works in a certain shop.

Welcome back to the forums, been a while huh?

Cold approach is the best :D

[Punterman2]

I got a new phone number this afternoon from a very hot, busty early 30's Chinese girl that I have seen a couple of times recently. The first time I saw her she was very aloof and gave Vanilla sex. Saw her two more times as she is so pretty and has a gorgeous body that I wasn't that concerned about her below par service and she has gone from Vanilla to a fucking pornstar. A real dark horse. First session was no kissing, cbj and mish fucking a Starfish. Today was DFK, BBBJ, two orgasms for her and fucking like we were on heat.

She told me today that she feels much more relaxed when she knows customers better.

Pushed my luck and it turns out that she lives alone in Parramatta and is happy to give me some private sessions on her days off. Have booked in at her unit for Wednesday morning. Lovely jubbly. I love seeing girls at their homes.

[dammiyt]

I think the only thing i would say about getting phone numbers from a WL is the emotional attachment that you would get. Whilst we are always seeking a little fun, you know the game stops when you leave the shop. Having a phone number and access to their homes makes it to a whole new level

THough, having said that.. would you like to share the phone number of the girl? =)

[Punterman2]

I think the only thing i would say about getting phone numbers from a WL is the emotional attachment that you would get. Whilst we are always seeking a little fun, you know the game stops when you leave the shop. Having a phone number and access to their homes makes it to a whole new level

THough, having said that.. would you like to share the phone number of the girl? =)

That is a good point and I was thinking about it today. One of the girls sent me her photo which I now keep on my phone and like looking at, another texts me most days to say hello and I am hoping that she doesn't turn into a bunny boiler as she told me she is a bit lonely.

One of my friends on the forum has just had a massive blow up with a girl that he sees outside of the shops. He arranged to see her then felt tired and changed his mind so she went crazy at him calling him lazy and that she would tell his wife about them. He has stopped seeing her.

One thing I have done is to change my voicemail message as it used to say my full name and the company that I work for, now it just says my Christian name.

It could turn out to be a dangerous path but on the other hand, I will be fucking one of them in her unit in Parramatta at 11am tomorrow morning, the first time I will see her outside the shop, so it has its benefits. Fucking them at their home brings forward all sorts of benefits. Nice quiet surroundings, girl is relaxed, comfy bed with nice duvet and pillows, no buzzers, no reception, pay one hour and stay for two, cup of tea.....few extras that you might not get at the shop.

After we fuck tomorrow I will be doing my first pimp session as this girl wants to work at more shops so I am taking her to some of my regular shops to introduce her to the bosses to see if she can work at their shops.

[happygoer]

Has anyone experience great sessions, and for some reason or another you exchanged phone numbers. given access to all day messages that chemistry you had disappears. your session become less exciting ? and you loose a great relationship ?

[Punterman2]

I got a new phone number this afternoon from a very hot, busty early 30's Chinese girl that I have seen a couple of times recently. The first time I saw her she was very aloof and gave Vanilla sex. Saw her two more times as she is so pretty and has a gorgeous body that I wasn't that concerned about her below par service and she has gone from Vanilla to a fucking pornstar. A real dark horse. First session was no kissing, cbj and mish fucking a Starfish. Today was DFK, BBBJ, two orgasms for her and fucking like we were on heat.

She told me today that she feels much more relaxed when she knows customers better.

Pushed my luck and it turns out that she lives alone in Parramatta and is happy to give me some private sessions on her days off. Have booked in at her unit for Wednesday morning. Lovely jubbly. I love seeing girls at their homes.

Got a text from this girl at midnight whilst she was still working saying her period had started and she cancelled our session at her unit. Was a bit gutted. She said we can meet up soon but only time will tell. Perhaps she just got cold feet.

[mrbluesky1]

Has anyone experience great sessions, and for some reason or another you exchanged phone numbers. given access to all day messages that chemistry you had disappears. your session become less exciting ? and you loose a great relationship ?

Happens to WL and non-WL alike. Either you psyched yourself out or maybe you imagined something in your head that wasn't there. OR you need to up your text game.

[Punterman2]

Got a text from this girl at midnight whilst she was still working saying her period had started and she cancelled our session at her unit. Was a bit gutted. She said we can meet up soon but only time will tell. Perhaps she just got cold feet.

Sunday morning update. This girl texts me out of the blue to say she is not working today and so I have arranged a 3pm rendezvous at her unit this arvo in Parramatta. Not sure what the decorum is. Do I bring my own condoms, how long should I stay. have agreed to pay her $150 so will try and get about 1 1/2 hours FS out of her. Will report back this evening.

[MistyGuy]

It depends on how she's giving you her number. Is it business or actual friendship/ dating.

If business, then you can get good bookings with her, and arrange things better.

If friendship/ dating, then you may be in for freebies, and all sorts of extras she usually doesn't give in the shop.

Sounds like you had a better service at her home.

I usually ask for numbers if I like them - where I want to have the flexibility to find out which shop she is working at on a particular day and then book them in. This has led to extra services during sessions that are offered even though I tip the same. Plus getting to date outside where all sorts of extras are available on the table (without a fee) :cool2:

[cuteguy]

I recall getting a number off a WL some time ago. At first, I thought it was convenient to see this girl and we would have our 'dessert' before going out for dinner. Then she got too clingy and was texting me on a regular basis to hook up. It is then when I felt the arrangement was slipping out of my control. I couldn't see her when she wanted to meet up because I was too busy or not in the mood to see her at times. In the end, she got the message when I couldn't see her and she moved on. Luckily, she was no crazy chick.

[Alex T Bear]

I had a WL's number on my phone. One of only a very few I have kept. Had a missed call from the WL when I was with the SO. She was a very jealous type and insisted on calling the number to find out who had called.
The WL was sharp and when asked who she was said she was a sales assistant from a rather expensive handbag store. I had to break it off with the gf before I had to fork out for an over priced handbag! Lol

[mrbluesky1]

I had a WL's number on my phone. One of only a very few I have kept. Had a missed call from the WL when I was with the SO. She was a very jealous type and insisted on calling the number to find out who had called.
The WL was sharp and when asked who she was said she was a sales assistant from a rather expensive handbag store. I had to break it off with the gf before I had to fork out for an over priced handbag! Lol

Hah! Fair play to the WL. Hope she got an extra tip next time you saw her.

[Punterman2]

I am starting to wonder if getting phone numbers is a good thing. I have 7 now of girls I see quite regularly but the problem is that it does bring punting more into your normal life than if you don't have them and you also think of the girls more as you have their contact details. The jury is out on this for me.

[Raybo]

I have had my regular WL number for about 15 months. I deleted message history back in March this year as i was getting worried about being caught and again on the weekend. Nearly 1000 messages between us in that 3-4 month period! Probably seen her 7 or 8 times only, and one time we went out for a couple of drinks.

At first i thought it was good, but now wish i hadn't. All started when a friend was showing me some messages from his regular WL at the same shop. Thought it would be cool. Wrong.

I have been thinking about giving up the punt for a while now. Havent had one for over 5 weeks. Having each others number makes it difficult because they will text you when they are working, asking you to come visit. When she text me on Saturday evening telling me she is free (the 3rd time that day) i responded by saying i am not going ro go to brothels anymore, but of you ever wanted to go for coffee or a drink sometime then let me know. She just laughed at me. I thought i would text her on the Sunday just to ask what she was doing. No reponse. Haha.

Giving them your number is really only ensuring them of repeat business from you. Sure they may like you a little, but you have to remember that is about them earning income, nothing more.

[CunningLinguist]

Plenty of WL/MLs have my number but they never ask me to visit them.

[Sher1888]

Nope didn't work for me. The chat after we had exchanged numbers was plain and boring!

[simplelife]

My regular WL and friend who have my number advise not too meet inside shop and just meet outside as they don't want me to use money. The ones I don't know too well just message once in a while too catch up. If one of them ask me to come visit the shop I just delete. Not the reason I exchange numbers, just stick to your intentions on why you exchanged numbers in the first place.

[Budgyboy]

I have a couple of numbers, one regular who gives a real good GFE has my number but never ever gets in touch. If I do she gets straight back to me with the I miss you can you come to see me ect, another ML was getting in touch but got a little weird and basically was just to get me to the shop. Stopped giving my number now or taking theirs, not that any are offering their number lately.

[dokidokisuru]

thought about asking a few times. but never actually asked

[ebach77]

I always give it a shot. No harm in trying to get the digits.

[inmydream]

As much as I wanted to ask for phone numbers, the WLs dont normally speak English well. How the heck you're going to talk. I met one korean chick in a shop before and she asked phone number. But then I got confused with what she's trying to say😂.

[pyrmont_dude]

If u tip often, WL will as for number often

[cuteguy]

As much as I wanted to ask for phone numbers, the WLs dont normally speak English well. How the heck you're going to talk. I met one korean chick in a shop before and she asked phone number. But then I got confused with what she's trying to say��.

That's a valid point. If she can't converse with you in English, how will having a mobile number assist? The way around this is to SMS or send stickers on apps like Wechat and Line. In the end, you lose interest in such girls because you can't understand what they are trying to convey to you. :question:

[GJB]

Well shared, good information around.Appreciated

[Brothelcreeper]

I have been through a stage recently of getting phone numbers and then seeing the girls outside of the shops. Initially it is fun but it is dangerous territory as if they start liking you and you develop feelings for them it just becomes messy.

One of the girls I started to see a couple of times a week in a hotel in Sydney on her days off. I booked a hotel for $100 and we would meet there, fuck for about three hours then go home. It was fun the first few times but I started to get a bit bored doing the same old thing. We started to get strong feelings for each other and what I found really difficult were the days that she was at work. I kept thinking that she is banging all of these random dudes and I got really jealous. I never told her but that is what I felt and eventually I stopped seeing her as I couldn't take the emotions anymore which upset her.

Best to just go to the shops, fuck and leave it there.