PuntingCanuck
17-07-2017, 11:34 PM
Hey all, this is an odd first post but I have an odd situation that I'm not sure how to handle
I had a great session with a lady at a particular shop in Sydney. Was having trouble finishing in FS so she took off the dome and finished me off with a BBBJ. I hadn't requested CIM so I thought that she would pull away before I finished to avoid taking my load in her mouth as other ladies had done previously, but she wound up just going until I blew in her mouth just in time for the buzzer! After that she walked to the sink to spit it out and didn't mention the tip. I was aware that this is an extra as I had been to this shop a few times in the past but she didn't ask and I was enjoying the moment. We then went straight to the shower to clean up, and between getting dressed, chatting and goodbyes before I left, I forgot to get out my wallet for the tip before I left :(. Didn't even realise until I was quite a walk away from the shop and I couldn't return to get the tip to her as I had somewhere to be immediately after.
Now I'm not sure how to handle this situation, as first, I'm under no impression that I'm so special that she would give me extras for free, and it's probably more likely that she wanted the tip but was maybe too shy to ask and I feel bad about just walking out when she was expecting it. Second, this shop is known to have no issues with banning dudes for this kind of thing, and it is certainly not a shop I want to be banned from! The question is what to do now. If she mentioned it to management I'm probably already on their bad side and may not be able to just book her again and give it to her then. I thought I could message the reception and tell them what happened, and offer to leave it with them so they can get it to her. But if I tell them an extra wasn't charged and she hasn't approached them then does it reflect badly on her?
Wondering if anyone else here has been a dumb arse like me in this situation and if you have advice on what to do here.
I had a great session with a lady at a particular shop in Sydney. Was having trouble finishing in FS so she took off the dome and finished me off with a BBBJ. I hadn't requested CIM so I thought that she would pull away before I finished to avoid taking my load in her mouth as other ladies had done previously, but she wound up just going until I blew in her mouth just in time for the buzzer! After that she walked to the sink to spit it out and didn't mention the tip. I was aware that this is an extra as I had been to this shop a few times in the past but she didn't ask and I was enjoying the moment. We then went straight to the shower to clean up, and between getting dressed, chatting and goodbyes before I left, I forgot to get out my wallet for the tip before I left :(. Didn't even realise until I was quite a walk away from the shop and I couldn't return to get the tip to her as I had somewhere to be immediately after.
Now I'm not sure how to handle this situation, as first, I'm under no impression that I'm so special that she would give me extras for free, and it's probably more likely that she wanted the tip but was maybe too shy to ask and I feel bad about just walking out when she was expecting it. Second, this shop is known to have no issues with banning dudes for this kind of thing, and it is certainly not a shop I want to be banned from! The question is what to do now. If she mentioned it to management I'm probably already on their bad side and may not be able to just book her again and give it to her then. I thought I could message the reception and tell them what happened, and offer to leave it with them so they can get it to her. But if I tell them an extra wasn't charged and she hasn't approached them then does it reflect badly on her?
Wondering if anyone else here has been a dumb arse like me in this situation and if you have advice on what to do here.