feeling pathetic

[Chinaman]

hello. normally when i come out of punt i feeling good. but last night was different. not because the wl was bad. she was very good and friendly. but for some reason i feeling pathetic.

i share a lot of my life with my flat mate. and one of my problem is premature ejaculation (i think i am getting better now). he suggested to try no masturbating no cum no sex for some time. so i start this last week.

then last night it was too hard to hold in. i dont know if you guy have feel this before. but i was just lying in bed trying to sleep. testicles tighten up a bit. dick going very hard. and this warm and tickle feeling spreading from my balls to stomach and then to rest of body. i wasnt even thinking about sex before i was just thinking about doing my tax and what i can use as deduction. anyway suddenly it was very hard to hold in. i started breathing more. eventually i start touch myself. i couldn't take it anymore. i just wanted sex. so i drive to the brothel and had sex.

i felt weak and pathetic because i could not control myself. my brain made me want sex and i could not resist. i was thinking if i am on an island with nobody there. and i see a very hot girl taking her clothes off and i not have sex for one weeks will i try to rape her? i dont support rape and dont think i will ever do it but last night it really made me think if i could really control myself.

i want to ask how to control your self when your testicles are doing funny things to brain? i want to learn this better. thank you for listening to me.

[scooper]

Google the word porn.

[BlackToad]

As George Michael said "sex is natural, sex is good". It's normal to have sexual desire and want to fuck a hot looking girl on a desert island. I think about that everyday.

Don't know about getting a hard on when thinking about tax deductions. Maybe you should think of becoming a tax accountant.

[mankind]

Mate, if you feel horny then Just try to Jerk off or go to see WL, but do it once a week is OK but do not suppress sex! It will make you feel crazy and also your premature ejaculation will get worse! That is how you control yourself!

[harrycd]

Bro theres nothing wrong with wanting to have sex and then having it.

If you are feeling depressed about cumming too quick then thats something you can work on, what your flatmate suggested might help but I believe it works better for those who are having difficulty cumming.

I believe the only way to cure it is to either see a doc incase its something pyhsical/medical or to practice controlling your ejaculation via edging.

Try and wank off an hour or 2 before you see a girl and it might help you last longer.

[Pussyhands]

Man ur fking lucky

If I can be this horny all the time I would be so happy just cuming nonstop!!

I hear you though, sometimes u want to have more control over when u cum.

When I first started having sex, I cum in 10 seconds after some foreplay. Sometimes I still do if I dun jerk off for long time or girl is very hot. U can slow down sex, pull out and finger her or what eva, just don't stimulate ur cock then go inside pussy again.

I think the trick is to slow down if u feel like cumming. Now days I go for round 2 so cumming fast first round is quite normal hahahah

[CunningLinguist]

If you want to stop cumming too soon have a beer before you fuck, if that doesn't work have two, ...
When I was very young I found this worked wonders, so I could enjoy hot moist pussy for as long as I wanted.
Also the more you wank and fuck the more normal it is and the less you will cum early.

[hypebeast131415]

after breaking up with my last gf (shes a christian, and never had sex with her other than hj bbbj), i began punting, and i experienced premature ejaculation.

Although i think im still young enough and can always go for 2nd round in a 45 minute sesh, my first round has always been short no matter how hard i tried to control it.

My mates also recommend me his 90 day challenge, but i failed at mid way. However, what i got out of it was the need to only fap for once a week, and the recent sex experiences have been good, i can manage to cum later (around 5 to 10 minutes later than before)

I thought it was pretty hard for this 90 day challenge and i dnt trust my mates who said they've succeeded it (they're fucked up horny cunts)

I personally think doing activities other than punting helps a lot with my horny thoughts, i hang out with my friends more during the weekend, and work/study during the week. I still feel horny, but i realise i can control my mind and dnt necessary have the urge to fuck or cum.

[down2fish]

Not sure if this would be correct but since I was somewhere in my teens to about a year ago (I am 24 years old now) I would literally either fap or see a WL or have sex with my SO, pretty much every single day. I would ejaculate multiple times a day (Now that I think about it I was rediculously horny). Now back then I found I could control my timing and sometimes could have sex for an hour or so without cumming until I wanted to. Nowadays I don't really fap all that often, just sex with the SO maybe every second or third day and see a WL/ML maybe once a week. These days I find I can only last somewhere between 5-20 minutes depending on god knows what.

Moral of the story fap as much as you can and I think you'll be right.

[inmydream]

Nothing wrong if you have the urge to have sex right? if you come too quickly, hmm maybe that's a problem. Yeah try beers like some bros said. I bet you you can't come out at all like me. Actually my dick doesnt even erect 100 pct after some beers so dont try lol!!

[Pussyhands]

Man reading what u wrote reminded of what I been going through in other aspects of my life - which is around women in general...

However having sort of gone through it - I feel we are absolutely not alone in this battle with our mind, hearts, and soul.

Huge musicians also had gone through these really human and common stuff. They sing of these issues which plague all of us in one aspect pen another.

And I guess why they are so popular is also that these topics are what a lot of people can relate to...

In respect to the musicians the two that recently passed away sang:

Linkin park crawling: https://youtu.be/F_v1SLIt01Q
AUdioslave be yourself: https://youtu.be/WC5FdFlUcl0

[plunderpunter]

anything ive tried to cum later results in me losing the boner too ;;

[vitamin]

google "male kegels" chinaman.
It'll help with your problem.

[Chinaman]

google "male kegels" chinaman.
It'll help with your problem.
thank you. i will try

[lynd84]

Never had this problem before, difficult to recommend

[xcite]

so whats the issue, the prem ejaculation or no self control?

because if its the former, surely youd last longer with the wl/gf by jacking off just beforehand?
90 day challenge won't help that.

[lynd84]

Hmm very true. Tough to be in his boat