Do ML/WL get desensitized?

[Nekman]

Some ML/WL see guys all day long and some 5 or more days a week as part of their job. Do they get desensitized from all the action and service and just pretend to be enjoying as part of going through the motions or do they feel aroused every single time with a different customer? It would surely be like the law of diminishing returns?

[Happyman2018]

I think both.
It's really depend on chemistry, if the ml or wl like u they do get arousy and commit to do service for you but ofcoz some just treat it as a job n pretend to like some even lazy to pretend n that's when we punter complain about shit service

[Climax598]

If the chemistry is good the girl do enjoy the sex. I have ask a WL she say for 1 month working at the place she only really like me and another guys fuck her. I ask her why, is the way you makelove to me. You know how to please a women like lick her pussy and gentle with her.
But she did say 90% of the guys are nice to her like gentle and not fuck her very hard.

[Funandfun]

I was told by one WL that just like you guys use desensitising sprays, we use numbing gel as well on long shifts.

[exstar]

If I saw pussy and tits all day I’d get pretty desensitised myself...

[poida]

Definitely. Its just a job for them.

[bronte]

Nana is one of the busiest WL’s around but she cums multiple times in my last session with her which led me to believe that some girls are naturally sensitive just like guys who cum prematurely.

[suede]

i saw an ugly guy walking in before me a few times, they must get turned off. But when WL sees a good looking guy, their sex drive returns

[Nekman]

One ML told me she had nightmares about dicks and the whole environment affected her in a bad way. She was a girl who really didn’t belong in the industry. She stopped working shortly after that which I was happy for her. Her part 1 was really good though so maybe she just ended up in the wrong type of shop.

[Nekman]

i saw an ugly guy walking in before me a few times, they must get turned off. But when WL sees a good looking guy, their sex drive returns

I’ve seen very average guys in the shops too and wonder how the girls can do what they do sometimes....

[Happyman2018]

I’ve seen very average guys in the shops too and wonder how the girls can do what they do sometimes....

Some think of d money
Some probably imagine they doing someone they like
Or just do it but d service probably is shit

[trampslikeus55]

I’ve seen very average guys in the shops too and wonder how the girls can do what they do sometimes....

Generally they will close their eyes and imagine they are somewhere else. And the good ones will make you feel like you are the best thing in the world at the same time. Look around brother, the world is not full of Brad Pitt's or whoever the chinese or korean superstar is ok. I have always felt humbled and privileged to have been with some of these beautiful woman. Do they become de-sensitized at times, of course. That they come back for any reason at all is a credit to them:surprise:

[lemonaus]

99% sure,

ther rest 1% is for the wl/ml new to this industry

[xboyx]

2 weeks ago I was punting 1-2 times everyday for 1+ week, non-stop action made me feel not aroused during sex anymore. Eventually I had 4-5 consecutive punts where I couldn't even cum, just felt numb down there and had no "good" feeling pounding girls and could not cum, even when I had a nice session with one of the best good looking girls - Sayaka at Ginza, couldn't cum with Sayaka (but I couldn't go deep with her so it didn't help). Went to different shops and if the girl is not good looking like Diamond class at ginza then I found it hard to erect and had no feeling while fucking. Finally I came after trying hard. Had a break and I now feel much better with sex, sexual desire has gone up again and easier to cum. can't image how these girls could do it non-stop everyday, their vagina must feel desensitised.

[Brothelcreeper]

2 weeks ago I was punting 1-2 times everyday for 1+ week, non-stop action made me feel not aroused during sex anymore. Eventually I had 4-5 consecutive punts where I couldn't even cum, just felt numb down there and had so "good" feeling pounding girls and could not cum, even when I had a nice session with one of the best good looking girls - Sayaka at Ginza, couldn't cum with Sayaka (but I couldn't go deep with her so it didn't help). Went to different shops and if the girl is not good looking like Diamond class at ginza then I found it hard to erect and had no feeling while fucking. Finally I came after trying hard. Had a break and I now feel much better with sex, sexual desire has gone up again and easier to cum. can't image how these girls could do it non-stop everyday, their vagina must feel desensitised.

That is what I call losing your Mojo. Happens to me a few times a year when I have been punting too much. Assandlegs is going through it now which is why he is on a break.

Have a few days off, let the sperm build up and the excitement and you will be back again. Mojo back.

I remember a couple of months ago when I was punting far too much. Twice a day for up to 2 hours a time. I had a run of 4 girls in a row where I couldn't even get an erection as I was low on Mojo. The depth of despair was when I was with this beautiful young girl and I had DATY'd her to an orgasm. She was hot to trot and was demanding that I fuck her and poor old Punterman's cock was a floppy mess.

I decided then to take a few days break and came back with a vengeance. Mojo back.

Sometimes you can have too much of a good thing and it loses its thrill and excitement and almost becomes routine. That is when you need a break.

[cuteguy]

Have a few days off, let the sperm build up and the excitement and you will be back again. Mojo back.

You're right here. We are not like women who can come many times. Just like a car needs refuelling so do we need to let our little swimmers build up their numbers in our sacks.

Let's enjoy the sessions and give ourselves breaks in between. That's my view.

[Eclipsefun]

Obviously they love it or they would not be doing it........right?

[Brothelcreeper]

Obviously they love it or they would not be doing it........right?

They do it for the money

[Hu6e]

That is what I call losing your Mojo. Happens to me a few times a year when I have been punting too much. Assandlegs is going through it now which is why he is on a break.

Have a few days off, let the sperm build up and the excitement and you will be back again. Mojo back.

I remember a couple of months ago when I was punting far too much. Twice a day for up to 2 hours a time. I had a run of 4 girls in a row where I couldn't even get an erection as I was low on Mojo. The depth of despair was when I was with this beautiful young girl and I had DATY'd her to an orgasm. She was hot to trot and was demanding that I fuck her and poor old Punterman's cock was a floppy mess.

I decided then to take a few days break and came back with a vengeance. Mojo back.

Sometimes you can have too much of a good thing and it loses its thrill and excitement and almost becomes routine. That is when you need a break.

Holy shit... I am having this now.
I thought I was going mental.
The last 3 punts have been floppier, and floppier.
I should have read the warning signs, but it came to ahead last night with my first ginza punt. A good time was not had by anyone. Hot as fuck lady, absolute stunner. And the service was impeccable, but the old fella only popped up once. First time ever in my life. Shame shame shame!
It must be the daily punting... time for a break I think.
I would like to ask a question though. I haven't been getting much sleep either, 3-4 hours a night. Could this be a cause too?? I dont drink, smoke, or do drugs anymore. I work a physical job, and am pretty healthy.
Any thoughts?

[Assandlegs]

Holy shit... I am having this now.
I thought I was going mental.
The last 3 punts have been floppier, and floppier.
I should have read the warning signs, but it came to ahead last night with my first ginza punt. A good time was not had by anyone. Hot as fuck lady, absolute stunner. And the service was impeccable, but the old fella only popped up once. First time ever in my life. Shame shame shame!
It must be the daily punting... time for a break I think.
I would like to ask a question though. I haven't been getting much sleep either, 3-4 hours a night. Could this be a cause too?? I dont drink, smoke, or do drugs anymore. I work a physical job, and am pretty healthy.
Any thoughts?

When this happens, only need a few days break and you will find that the engine is ready to go again. Doesn't take long to recharge the battery, let me tell you! Oh, make sure you go and see your favourite after a few days break.
The worse part is the loss of confidence that can plague you, but that only lasts a few days as well until the body's natural reactions start kicking in!!

[Bird232]

@Hu6e don't burn yourself out bro lol, everything in moderation. For example you wouldn't want to eat dessert for every meal. If everything is sweet all the time, then you'll no longer enjoy them as your tastebuds become accustomed to it. Got to keep balance to excite the senses.

Buuut if you are running on 3-4 hours of sleep a night, it couldn't hurt to try bump a few more hours on. Are you suffering from insomnia or just not enough time in your schedule?

[Eclipsefun]

They do it for the money

No way! What a world we live in.

[cuteguy]

Obviously they love it or they would not be doing it........right?

Are you joking? Most girls in this industry do it for the money since they need to pay their bills or school fees as well as buying nice goods for themselves. The ones that come to mind are students from overseas and single mums. If she was in it for the sex she'd have to be a nympho and certainly there wouldn't be many of them around.

[Hu6e]

@Hu6e don't burn yourself out bro lol, everything in moderation. For example you wouldn't want to eat dessert for every meal. If everything is sweet all the time, then you'll no longer enjoy them as your tastebuds become accustomed to it. Got to keep balance to excite the senses.

Buuut if you are running on 3-4 hours of sleep a night, it couldn't hurt to try bump a few more hours on. Are you suffering from insomnia or just not enough time in your schedule?

It's my work schedule.
4+ hours travel, 11 hours work , does not leave much time to cook, clean and sleep.
Abit of insomnia too I suppose.

The loss of confidence, as said by Assandlegs, is proving to be the biggest hurdle. I am already self conscious, and there is alot of overthinking going on. The little hamster in my head is running non stop on his treadmill.

I am putting my dick in isolation!!

[Bird232]

The loss of confidence, as said by Assandlegs, is proving to be the biggest hurdle. I am already self conscious, and there is alot of overthinking going on. The little hamster in my head is running non stop on his treadmill.


Yeah hardest part of overcoming a mental block is to not think about it! But thinking about not thinking about it makes you think about it! Ahhh

[Brothelcreeper]

It's my work schedule.
4+ hours travel, 11 hours work , does not leave much time to cook, clean and sleep.
Abit of insomnia too I suppose.

The loss of confidence, as said by Assandlegs, is proving to be the biggest hurdle. I am already self conscious, and there is alot of overthinking going on. The little hamster in my head is running non stop on his treadmill.

I am putting my dick in isolation!!

Have a break. Take some Viagra. Then nail some sexy young hot chick, get her orgasming strongly and your mojo and confidence will come back quickly.

[Highnoon]

Coming back to the first question, the desensibilization might be controllrd by the girl's brain. Business: power off!

[Dorian]

Nana is one of the busiest WL’s around but she cums multiple times in my last session with her

Sounds fantastic. Who/where is Nana? what shop?

[Niceguy11]

Holy shit... I am having this now.
I thought I was going mental.
The last 3 punts have been floppier, and floppier.
I should have read the warning signs, but it came to ahead last night with my first ginza punt. A good time was not had by anyone. Hot as fuck lady, absolute stunner. And the service was impeccable, but the old fella only popped up once. First time ever in my life. Shame shame shame!
It must be the daily punting... time for a break I think.
I would like to ask a question though. I haven't been getting much sleep either, 3-4 hours a night. Could this be a cause too?? I dont drink, smoke, or do drugs anymore. I work a physical job, and am pretty healthy.
Any thoughts?

This has happened to me a few times punting. Hot as fuck WL but same as you Hu6e, when the main event started, I couldn't get it up. I would probably say its because of sleep and possibly work. Due to my job, I'm exhausted in the evening, so punting at night most times isn't a good idea.

I was seeing Linda at 244 a few weeks back and this happened to me. Mentally, I was horny as fuck but after working a long day + limited sleep, it was a bad idea. No issue with the WL's service, it was great but yeah, I just couldn't finish.

[Riff888]

This has happened to me a few times punting. Hot as fuck WL but same as you Hu6e, when the main event started, I couldn't get it up. I would probably say its because of sleep and possibly work. Due to my job, I'm exhausted in the evening, so punting at night most times isn't a good idea.

I was seeing Linda at 244 a few weeks back and this happened to me. Mentally, I was horny as fuck but after working a long day + limited sleep, it was a bad idea. No issue with the WL's service, it was great but yeah, I just couldn't finish.Take a Kamagra pack about 20 minutes before the action.

Never have this problem again.

But if you do punt everyday, have a rest after a week for about 2/3 days or else you'll be dependant on the stuff.

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[Hu6e]

I haven't dabbled in erectile dysfunction meds.
I am still young and active.
But yes Niceguy11, this has and still sometimes does happen to me. Sometimes I am the dud punt, fucking lol.

One of my main triggers is tiredness. This is probably the major one.
Working a physically demanding job requires alot of sleep. And about 1 chicken a day.
Over punting is another contributing factor.

[Niceguy11]

I haven't dabbled in erectile dysfunction meds.
I am still young and active.
But yes Niceguy11, this has and still sometimes does happen to me. Sometimes I am the dud punt, fucking lol.

One of my main triggers is tiredness. This is probably the major one.
Working a physically demanding job requires alot of sleep. And about 1 chicken a day.
Over punting is another contributing factor.

Yeah being over punting is a thought that ran through my head about 8 months ago.

[Turnitup]

And I thought it was just me. I'll have to try the Kamagra, any recommendations for supplier?

[Niceguy11]

Take a Kamagra pack about 20 minutes before the action.

Never have this problem again.

But if you do punt everyday, have a rest after a week for about 2/3 days or else you'll be dependant on the stuff.

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Thanks for that Riff888, I'll look into it. I think my problem is due to too much sex and masterbation. Due to work, sometimes my only option is to wank because there are no shops nearby (remote location). Nonetheless, it's a bit much for my little bro.

[Riff888]

Thanks for that Riff888, I'll look into it. I think my problem is due to too much sex and masterbation. Due to work, sometimes my only option is to wank because there are no shops nearby (remote location). Nonetheless, it's a bit much for my little bro.I wank all the time bro, sometimes a few times a day. No sleep, working long hours, after work drinks.

Try it once, if it works for you, you'll never leave home without it.

It works for most guys on this forum.

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[BlackToad]

this topic reminded me what my friend Emily told me. she said she feels like working in a meat factory.

I imagine it’s like working in some sort of weird sausage factory... [emoji23]

[wilisno]

I imagine it’s like working in some sort of weird sausage factory... [emoji23]

The difference is the worker fill the sausage with stuff in a sausage factory, but here the worker fills her stuff with sausage ! ;) ;) ;)

[Bly]

The difference is the worker fill the sausage with stuff in a sausage factory, but here the worker fills her stuff with sausage ! ;) ;) ;)

It's funny but it's sad haha.

Sucks to dwell on the fact most of the women probably don't want to be there/are doing it because it is the best option they have to make that kind of money

[Nekman]

this topic reminded me what my friend Emily told me. she said she feels like working in a meat factory.

I can see why your friend would feel that way. I hope it doesn't affect her too much....

[Climax598]

One WL told me she feel sexless after doing the job for a few months. She told me if she can trust men again. She feel very tired physically and emotionally. So I told her to go back home to rest and recover. She did when back home for a few weeks. Because of long hours and in the shop everyday only have a break during her period time can be draining.
She say is the only way to earn big money quickly to paid debts and money for her future. So guys while we enjoy playing their body be nice.

[AHLUNGOR]

this topic reminded me what my friend Emily told me. she said she feels like working in a meat factory.

The Emily at QVB ?

[luckyluke]

Yea they do definitely but if your regular and both get on real well she can still enjoy herself.

[Shreddedolphin]

depends on the ML but alot of them don't show it

[Waklu]

Just show some respect

[massageangel]

The Emily at QVB ?

different Emily

[Fred Flintstone]

Of course they get desensitized just to survive. Who can service 50 cocks a week and not be mentally, physically and emotionally affected? It’s a shit job and many WL’s are ruined by the experience forever. For that 1 hour booking, we only see the happy side. Who knows how much she’s suffering afterwards?

Once a girl crosses the line and sells her pussy, her life will never be the same again. What man would trust her if finds out about her past? Can she ever think of men in the same way knowing that they are all punters and lust after her?

[Climax598]

Once a girl crosses the line and sells her pussy, her life will never be the same again. What man would trust her if finds out about her past? Can she ever think of men in the same way knowing that they are all punters and lust after her?[/QUOTE]
That is what one of the WL say that to me. In the end is all about trust on both side.

[Azninvasion85]

Of course they get desensitized just to survive. Who can service 50 cocks a week and not be mentally, physically and emotionally affected? It’s a shit job and many WL’s are ruined by the experience forever. For that 1 hour booking, we only see the happy side. Who knows how much she’s suffering afterwards?

Once a girl crosses the line and sells her pussy, her life will never be the same again. What man would trust her if finds out about her past? Can she ever think of men in the same way knowing that they are all punters and lust after her?


Thats a mega double standard there buddy. How can girls trust u if u have been punting? She gonna think that ur out paying for sex when she's waiting for u at home. Personally I dont care what my partners done before she is with me. However the caveat is if she is with me then both sides must be faithful.

[JJBlows]

Yes they do get over the sex because it's a job, I was a horny fucker when I was single, always looking to get one off every minute of the day then I got a GF and we where at it like rabbits, then eventually because it was always there I wasn't as horny as I was before when I was single because it was always available.

WL/ML are still women and that's means they are emotional creatures and the only way they get pleasure and not be over it is if they feel they have a connection with someone either serious or just a lusting for their partner or a regular customer

[JJBlows]

Thats a mega double standard there buddy. How can girls trust u if u have been punting? She gonna think that ur out paying for sex when she's waiting for u at home. Personally I dont care what my partners done before she is with me. However the caveat is if she is with me then both sides must be faithful.

If it came down to it I can understand a woman who does it as a job only because she does it for the serious cash flow compared to a partner who fucked alot of guys for free before me. I know of female friends who have been put on the spit multiple times and been through a whole group of guys just because they are sluts. Each to your own though.

[Carissawhore]

A WL once told me that she had lost the sensitivity as she fucks multiple guys in a day, most of the time they smell sperms, on their off days the last thing on their mind is sex.

[woods23]

A WL once told me that she had lost the sensitivity as she fucks multiple guys in a day, most of the time they smell sperms, on their off days the last thing on their mind is sex.

Hahaha that's like when I fingered a ML at romeo 10+ yrs ago. Man i swear I can still smell it few days later nd it stucked in my head as well. I can imagined how they feel - 6 / 7 days a week of sperms

[cuteguy]

Hahaha that's like when I fingered a ML at romeo 10+ yrs ago. Man i swear I can still smell it few days later nd it stucked in my head as well. I can imagined how they feel - 6 / 7 days a week of sperms

I had the same situation with one ML. Washed my hands and fingers many times and the smell kept lingering for at a few days too.

[storry_teller]

A girl told me that she doesn’t want to enjoy during job or she would feel guilt. And yes, they do get desensitized but still have to pretend to enjoy it.

[Vader]

Once a girl crosses the line and sells her pussy, her life will never be the same again. What man would trust her if finds out about her past? Can she ever think of men in the same way knowing that they are all punters and lust after her?
That is what one of the WL say that to me. In the end is all about trust on both side.[/QUOTE]

Most women say most of what you said about men who need to buy pussy

[Johnisfun1969]

2 weeks ago I was punting 1-2 times everyday for 1+ week, non-stop action made me feel not aroused during sex anymore. Eventually I had 4-5 consecutive punts where I couldn't even cum, just felt numb down there and had no "good" feeling pounding girls and could not cum, even when I had a nice session with one of the best good looking girls - Sayaka at Ginza, couldn't cum with Sayaka (but I couldn't go deep with her so it didn't help). Went to different shops and if the girl is not good looking like Diamond class at ginza then I found it hard to erect and had no feeling while fucking. Finally I came after trying hard. Had a break and I now feel much better with sex, sexual desire has gone up again and easier to cum. can't image how these girls could do it non-stop everyday, their vagina must feel desensitised.

It happens to all men. Just like gym and workout you got to allow muscles to recover. Then good sleep and a healthy diet is important for any athlete to win gold at Olympics. For me I come very easily the first time. The second time is always better as I last decent amount of time. With the third one always need help from the girl. Then I need recovery time as the fourth time is only going through the motion and the feelings are much less.

[asgard]

This is hilarous. They do it only for the money full stop. If any guy thinks differently are completely deluding themsevles.

I have a good mate whos partner owns a shop, that is how I know alot of MLs and other shop owners. His partner has bought them a house, bought her daughter a flat, just bought herself a new car and bought her partner a 70k car. They often sit there and laugh at times about how guys spend so much money on massages and extras.

Most of girls who work for her get their customers believing and feeling they are single and available and that their customer is the best they ever had, most of which are married or in committed relationships.

It is purely dollars.

As the saying goes no money no honey.

[Rackster]

Was talking with one recently really frankly about the business, and the topic of how they deal with sitting in a room and waiting for the knock on the door not knowing what was on the other side. (old, young, drunk, washed etc) . She said that all thats in her mind is how long? 30 mins, 60 mins etc and thats it, everything else is the same. When times up, reset and ready for the next one until the shifts finished, reset the day and forget about it.

[storry_teller]

This is hilarous. They do it only for the money full stop. If any guy thinks differently are completely deluding themsevles.

I have a good mate whos partner owns a shop, that is how I know alot of MLs and other shop owners. His partner has bought them a house, bought her daughter a flat, just bought herself a new car and bought her partner a 70k car. They often sit there and laugh at times about how guys spend so much money on massages and extras.

Most of girls who work for her get their customers believing and feeling they are single and available and that their customer is the best they ever had, most of which are married or in committed relationships.

It is purely dollars.

As the saying goes no money no honey.

True true. I got that too. When they first come to room, what they look into you is money. “Hello my potential income”, or when you revisit them and see them happily welcome you, they probably think like this “oh hello Mr good tip”. That’s it. They have to pretend to enjoy the touches to please your ego as their job requires that. “I miss you” means “I miss your tips”. And during sessions, they think about what they will have for dinner, or how much money they get until that time, how much money they want more for the day, or “I’m so sick of you, you gotta know that”

[dotcumdotinyou]

Oddly, that's happened to me on a few occasions. I've been balls deep in a girl and suddenly I start thinking "What should I have for dinner tonight?"

I've been with MLs getting a good massage while mentally doing my shopping list or planning work for the next day.

[asiafever]

Oddly, that's happened to me on a few occasions. I've been balls deep in a girl and suddenly I start thinking "What should I have for dinner tonight?"

I've been with MLs getting a good massage while mentally doing my shopping list or planning work for the next day.

As a chronic overthinker a girl is excellent at her job if for the time I am with her I am not thinking about anything but her. It is rare.