Advice on dating a ML

[youngchippie]

I’ll never forget the sight of that night

[Tavs]

What do you classify as bad with customers? Reality is if the customer has the cash they will do whatever to get it.

[Brissypunter]

Behind your back she probably bending over backwards doing what ever customer pays for .. they love tips and if u mean she works at the very popular shop SS then walk lol

[youngchippie]

Come along it is the break of the day.

[Tavs]

Sex or bj. She never offer sex to me when I was just a customer ( we have had it in the shop since) but she did offer a blowy. She said she won’t do either of them.

She will definitely still be blowing guys. Sex will also likely be there for the right cash.

Reality is she is a sex worker and her job is playing with guys dicks all day with her hands, mouth and likely pussy for the right cash.What you have to decide is if you are ok with this.

[Massaddict]

I had a Thai ML I had seen several times. Gave great b2b massage and FS.
She told me one day that she was married and had a baby 8 months ago.
She disappeared off the radar not long after but was undoubtedly one of the best.
Knowing this actually put me off.

P.S. this was not in Brisbane.

[charm]

Is she the last month of the year

[Brissypunter]

Also if she is a popular girl at a popular shop then my guess is she likes the money and won’t stop doing the things she says she will stop doing ..

[brownwallaby]

Ask someone from this group to go and see her on a covert mission, don’t forget to support him financially. I did this once before, for someone in a same position as you

[Tavs]

Ask someone from this group to go and see her on a covert mission, don’t forget to support him financially. I did this once before, for someone in a same position as you
Done that before a few times to test the waters. Each time they didn't even ask for anything but were offered up front by the ml the whole buffet.

You could also be one of a few bf's on the go.

If it is a popular shop like Tian Xin then 100% the same offers that have always been there are still in play.

[brownwallaby]

The rule when you date a shop girl is don’t think too much about what she does at work. Just enjoy it while it lasts. More often than not she’ll disappear after a while (been thru this cycle many times). On a few occasions I was the one who pulled the pin, but far more often it’s her

[gpeck80]

Women never really belong to a Man. Its just your turn ....

[Slops]

BW's advice is good.
Watch your money, watch your heart. Don't lose either of them but enjoy the moment and be ready to move on when it happens.

[Ace01]

Many many years ago I went out with a ML for a period of over 1 year and i am acquainted with at least 2 ML/WL who went out with clients and i am acquainted with the BFs. Here are my opinion:

1) some girls do go out with you purely for social contacts/ fun and there are ones that do for other gains/reasons - so keep your eyes open;

2) Asian girls, especially from south eastern countries, eg thai/malaysian) will use words like boyfriends and act like you are the love of their lives - this is a culture thing, it doesnt (necessarily) mean the same thing as in western culture - dont freak out and dont fall in love because of that;

3)Knowing what happened in the past and maybe happening right now - are they really marriage materials to you- if not, why fall in love, its just going to end badly for you;

4)use protection - dont go BBFS, your risk would be very high to get something

5)If you are there to just have fun and provide some company and emotional support for the girl, then great, and

6) they can smell BS from a mile away, so treat people with some respect

[tommy thumb]

Is she the last month of the year

For his sake I hope it’s not. Cause that month is far from well behaved.

[merlin200]

Don't do it buddy. You might build up the courage to accept everything will be ok and that you should trust her....but in reality your mind will never stop thinking it and will always think of worst case scenario. The fact is she will most likely.(definitely) be holding a guys dick in her hand and playing with it while his touching her ass up or exploring her intimately. So it's not going to be worth it emotionally or for your sanity. You will end up fighting a lot because of the issue and just make yourself miserable. Just accept her as a working girl who you can see for more services than other guys will get offered and try to be strong and content with that. I am speaking from personal experiences

[ecchi.gaijin]

Hi guys. Haven’t seen this in the Brisbane section so though I would ask.

Iv been seeing a regular for but now, and in the last month have been seeing her outside of work. Dinner movie and shit. So the problem is iv fallen for her. And we have decided to start dating. She says she dosnt want to stop working. She works at a popular shop. I’m not stupid and I no what happens at work. But she said trust her as she won’t do anything to bad with customers.

So should I.

You talk about trust, but the opening post you made is total bullshit. Some of us here know who you are, who the girl is and how long you have been dating her. We also know the things you have posted on here about her when you wanted to be a total asshole towards her. So should you trust her? I think the more important question is why should anyone trust you?

[tommy thumb]

Wow things just got interesting. Nothing like a bit of a love triangle I’m thinking. Any chance she’s Asian. Haha

[xzaq]

Hi guys. Haven’t seen this in the Brisbane section so though I would ask.

And we have decided to start dating. I’m not stupid

So should I.


Lol ...asking for advice on a punter’s forum about dating a hooker ????? that’s hilarious & saying ur not stupid that’s even more hilarious

[spaceman]

I have dated 3 ml's over the years
2 thia & 1 indo
thia no1
split up with huby , staying with friends , got to friendly with friends huby (got in the shit)
shares a apartment with work mates (works part time in afternoon/evening)(so everyone thinks it is doing it hard, local thia community ) works as a full time pro during the day ,while the workmates doing day shift .
even been at the apartment early in the morning fucking in the next room with the work mates boy friend there (was not worried about being caught) lease ran out
help out fronted lease money and rent for 6 months(was to stop working as a pro)
week ends way all the good stuff over there every second night for stay over )
was not shy walking through shopping centres ,saying hi to her girl friends with me there
then the down hill slope, tells me doesn't have enough money to pay a bill (so I pay up $200)
next week xmass looking forward to a fucking good xmass .3 days later can you take me to the airport I going home to visit mum (1 month) takes mum and family to Singapore for a holiday (had no money 3 days before)
comes back everything back to normal for 2 weeks. tells me I will be working back tonight at another store at my part time legit job I will be getting home late so come around next night.
after xmas thing I smell a rat check up her work shut at 6pm so go around the apartment , stop out side (back working as a pro) so just cut all ties don't phone again.
was happy too use me as cover for the friends (if only they knew they huby's have had a great time with this girl)
I worked out for my investment I was paying about $100 per/hour "pse"
( now married with kid local)
thia n0 2
stay in mary st cbd
wanted to see the( inside) what their life was like (ended up being bf with extras) she wanted something normal
go out to casino ,trips way. had a thing of watermelon ,even took the photos for her add and some very special ones for me.
she would cook my dinner and eat together (very thing free for me) ring me up please come over and stay over
would stay in the next room watch tv while she was working before going out (some very kinky guys out there)
it can be a very lonely life for them
then the little sneaky catch can you sign a lease for me in Sydney
as long as you come out in front and have fun ( don't get to close) its easy to get attached when your having the best sex your ever had for free from a ml , but it s always has a tag




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[reddoor]

How true! Its a wild ride sometimes.

[merlin200]

You talk about trust, but the opening post you made is total bullshit. Some of us here know who you are, who the girl is and how long you have been dating her. We also know the things you have posted on here about her when you wanted to be a total asshole towards her. So should you trust her? I think the more important question is why should anyone trust you?

oh the pitfalls of being a newbie on here, missing out on all the gossip and back stories ...bugger:cry:

[Tavs]

Really just have fun. Realise that you have some use to her to have your fun while it lasts. Do not get upset by the fact she will move on to the next guy sooner or later.

One trick I have found some play is trying to claim they are pregnant and need money for medical checks. They then either want more money for an abortion or,mysteriously miscarry. Either way they are onto the next guy and you are history. First time played on me I shat myself and handed over the money. The last time I called the bluff and pointed out it could not happen as I have had the snip (and get tested yearly to make sure I am at zero count) her timings were off, we used a dom and there were probably like 50 other guys minimum in play so good luck. Funnily enough a mate saw her and she was on her rags a week later.

[brownwallaby]

I’m a bit fortunate all of the girls I dated never saw me as a cash cow. Might be because most of them were newbies with <6 month experience (not any of those veterans) and while meeting them at the shop they weren’t greedy either. And the majority I met while working at a particular shop not known for charging a lot for extras

[gpeck80]

Luck has nothing to do with it if you only target very young gullible girls.

[brownwallaby]

newbies don't always mean they're very young. Some girls enter the industry when they're 25 or older. One of the girls I dated started doing massage when she was 29

[gpeck80]

"ONE of the girls I dated started doing massage when she was 29."

One.

[Tavs]

"ONE of the girls I dated started doing massage when she was 29."

One.

Probs better than 62yo

[The Professor]

Lets get a poll going ...Chances this will work out positively / negatively. I go for 4% chance positive but miracles do happen ( remember love conquers everything...vomit!)
The Prof puff puff

[4FoW2]

Oh professor too pessimistic ...I go for 6%.

Bit like the statistic that 1 in 3 marriages in Australia will end in divorce. If they had a sign saying "This plane will crash 33% of the time" airports would be deserted.

[gpeck80]

Its just under 1 in 2. And the divorce rate for those younger than 50 is double vs those older.

[Tavs]

Zero percent chance of it working

[tommy thumb]

My opinion based on the following

Early in my punting life I made the rookie mistake of being pussy wiped, twice!!!
I learnt a fuck load out of this.

Next experience. I dated a ml for awhile who was always going to return home. Started out as fun but became complicated as fuck. Stressful for both, lots of fights. It ended and a couple of months later she returned home after her visa ran out. With a pocket full of coin.

In recent times I have been friends with and have had casual flings with a few massage girls. This is the best and only way to be in my opinion

Now not knowing who either of them are makes it a little harder to predict, but with what I no of years of punting and the above history I will call it as follows

A new girl in a busy shop 10%
A seasoned ml in a busy shop 0%

[tommy thumb]

Lol ...asking for advice on a punter’s forum about dating a hooker ????? that’s hilarious & saying ur not stupid that’s even more hilarious

Spot on. Dude she is a sex worker. That’s what she does and things won’t change. The amount of girls iv seen that say they have a bf then next thing theyre sucking my cock and letting me CIM is crazy. If u think she is just out there getting $50 tips for giving handjobs your an idiot and will get what u get.

[Tavs]

Spot on. Dude she is a sex worker. That’s what she does and things won’t change. The amount of girls iv seen that say they have a bf then next thing theyre sucking my cock and letting me CIM is crazy. If u think she is just out there getting $50 tips for giving handjobs your an idiot and will get what u get.
Ditto. Had ones who say they are married sitting on my dick soon after- some I have to remind about stopping to put the dom on.

When you think that the extras can amount to $100+ then the massage cut thrown in, they can pull serious coin each week which is very hard to leave.

[tommy thumb]

I can remember seeing Naomi the second time she worked at SS ( not her second shift but, after she quit and started working again)

We were fucking around as u do. She starts giving me a bj and half way thru she’s like “just dont blow in my mouth”. I’m like why and she said “cause she feels guilty kissing her bf when she gets home after having guys cum in her mouth”.

[gpeck80]

Lol ...asking for advice on a punter’s forum about dating a hooker ????? that’s hilarious & saying ur not stupid that’s even more hilarious

Actually its the best place to ask. A place where Men are mostly experienced in the issue. Where else is he supposed to ask?

[xzaq]

Actually its the best place to ask. A place where Men are mostly experienced in the issue. Where else is he supposed to ask?

His mother ????? Do u actually take this stuff seriously ??? LOL

[tommy thumb]

The guy asking a question about dating isn’t the issue. I’m sure most of us on this site, have either dated or fallen for a regular. Fuck me that’s why they become our regular because we connect we build something with them. So asking isn’t the issue. It needing to ask. Iv meet a lot of girls over the years enjoyed spending time and getting to no a few outside of work. And the 1 think I no is I wouldn’t trust any of them once the door to the room closes. No matter what they say goes on.

[Homebrew]

hahaha, am i this lucky or does everyone get this service, simple rule to remember, what she is doing to you she has probably done to many before.
as tommy rightly says, she is a sex worker, they may think differently, end of the day they fuck for money.
rule of thumb, (not you tommy) ask for everything, expect nothing, and take what you can get.
but beware the power of the puss, don't fall in love, lust is OK.

[The Professor]

don't fall in love, lust is OK.
"what is love? baby don't hurt me ...no more!"

or as a friend of mine often says about women...

"if they didn't have a pussy they would be piled up 10 m high at the dump!"

[tommy thumb]

That’s a little harsh prof as I imagine there are a lot of dickless scumbag punters out there. This site included.

[jaccky]

I can remember seeing Naomi the second time she worked at SS ( not her second shift but, after she quit and started working again)

We were fucking around as u do. She starts giving me a bj and half way thru she’s like “just dont blow in my mouth”. I’m like why and she said “cause she feels guilty kissing her bf when she gets home after having guys cum in her mouth”.

Endangering her bf's sexual health and all; she sounds like a real catch! no pun intended.

[brownwallaby]

my last visit to her was a real wake up call for me. It was damn good, among the best, yet so expensive that I have to rethink all my punting strategy

[gpeck80]

His mother ????? Do u actually take this stuff seriously ??? LOL


No, but you obviously do. You seem to be really cut up over the issue. Maybe you should go lie down before your head explodes.

[gpeck80]

Endangering her bf's sexual health and all; she sounds like a real catch! no pun intended.

That was both totally intended and clever.

[gpeck80]

Hi guys. Haven’t seen this in the Brisbane section so though I would ask.

Iv been seeing a regular for but now, and in the last month have been seeing her outside of work. Dinner movie and shit. So the problem is iv fallen for her. And we have decided to start dating. She says she dosnt want to stop working. She works at a popular shop. I’m not stupid and I no what happens at work. But she said trust her as she won’t do anything to bad with customers.

So should I.

Anyway Youngchippie, hope some people have been helpful here. My advice: Don't fall for her. Stop seeing her as a professional . Only see other girls at her workplace. That will remove the love angle for her. Once you start treating her just like a regular ML, and knowing how competitive women are, the objection of your affection will redouble her efforts and give you even better sex than before.

[tommy thumb]

Youngchippie hope things workout. But I’m sure they wont.
If any of the following is a concern than I would end it or treat the situation nothing more than a bit of casual fun.

Being cheated on
Being lied to
Feeling like shit when it’s 8:45 and u though they were about to finish but instead u get a message saying they have a late booking. And call in an hour.
Kissing her after work and knowing there is a very high chance she has been kissing some random guys during the day
Kissing her after work and knowing there is a high chance she has had a cock in her mouth during the day
Kissing her after work and knowing there is a chance she has had some random guys cum in her mouth
Guys giving her cash/presents
She excepting cash/presents and getting angry about u not understanding
Her coming home after work and while u give her a cuddle feel the slick of massage oil all over her body, tits, thighs, ass and snatch
Her earning a couple of grand a week cash and not understanding that u have worked hard all week for less than what she makes in a couple of days
Giving her number out to her good customers
Her having conversations outside of work with her good customers
Most of her friends are shop girls and live the same lifestyle as her. See nothing wrong with it and will always take her side and say your being unreasonable
Getting angry when u complain about her job
Getting angry when u ask about her job
Getting angry when u ask about what happened at her job
The fact she will talk about u with some of her customers
The fact she will about and share her life with some
Of her customers
The chance she is fucking one of those customers behind your back
And the 100 percent certainty that she has no idea about STI’s and would next to never use protection

[brownwallaby]

Of course a lot of MLs don’t provide fs / bj as their standard menu, a lot of MLs don’t even get nude. But from his story we can assume that the girl in question is among those do a lot, and Tommythumb’s list of concerns seems to be relevant

[Dubs]

I agree with the majority of people here. IMO dating already has a lot of crap (good and bad) that goes with it. Why would you want to add anymore baggage?

[reddoor]

Great post tommy. Some hard truths and any guy that has been there will know all about what your saying.

[gpeck80]

"Her having conversations outside of work with her good customers
Most of her friends are shop girls and live the same lifestyle as her. See nothing wrong with it and will always take her side and say youre being unreasonable
Getting angry when u complain about her job"

These three always happen.