A boring life , advice wanted ...

[Mi Goreng]

Been a member in this forum for quite some time ..
Don't usually connect or post something ,
But lately life has been too bored ,
Have to admit , was waiting for another month before I leave aus for a two month holiday ,
Quit my job 2 weeks ago and my routine life is pretty shit ,
Every morning woke up , went to the star to start my day ,
Average income generate , $1k a day within the 3 hours ,
Had a walk from star to the cbd , get a lunch then not much left to do ..
I'm not a punting guy , but I go places just to kill my time ...
In here I will not review who I saw cause it will be too obvious as my routine is dead same ...
Snow lotus massage : not a bad place to kill time , $55 an hour + tips
M8 : $165 per hour , it's a lovely place , ESP the environment and the lovely receptionist Jenny , and always I only see the same girl every time , lovely girl with very good attitude
Outcall agencies ( not going to name ) : $300-350 per hour , I kinda feel attached to one of the girls but I knew I shouldn't , omg a pure gfe type girl sometime I would just spend the money to just see and talk to her without having any intercourse. Sometimes going there is just like a first love in life , would be silly enough to just stare and talk to each other .....
I'm quite specific on the girls i see , I don't treat them as Ml or Wl but more as someone special .. If they won't work on that day , I would just leave the place and go Internet cafe to play some stupid LOL to kill my time .
I do have urged to punt , but ... Not sure why it doesn't happen lately .... Can someone tell me is there other better things to do in life besides all the crap I mention.

[icecool]

Are you single . If you are sound like you need find a Girl friend to spend time with .Going to See Ml or Wl is only for fuck it dosén't solve your loneliness problem. Base on on what you said about the kind of WL or ML your looking for . Like ''I'm quite specific on the girls i see , I don't treat them as Ml or Wl but more as someone special"' . Why would you treat them as special . it is only a business deal like when you hire a car . you pay for the time you want it and return it when the time is up .that is it .

[pro_seeker]

Average income of $1k in 3 hours?!

Question 1: I'm assuming you're playing poker or baccarat?

Question 2: can I come watch you play so I can learn?? lol

[icecool]

Average income of $1k in 3 hours?!

Question 1: I'm assuming you're playing poker or baccarat?

Question 2: can I come watch you play so I can learn?? lol

I wouldn't get you hope up . no one win in gambling. it just a matter of time when the house edge catch up with you . eventually you will lose more than you'll win

[SweetandSour]

There are many great things to do when you are bored. You really just need to be open and you could find a new exciting hobby/activity.

We all love adventures. Punting is great, massage is awesome. There is so much out there it would be impossible for me to find any free time boring!

Get together with friends then relax. That is the best way to enjoy your free time.

[Mi Goreng]

Icecool , pro-seeker , for your answer , yes , there is no 100% winning in gambling ,
So I mention I get an average of 1k a day , for your information ,
I'm not a greedy type person nor a day dreamer , I treat it like a job and I gamble seriously ,
I don't go casino for a good time for entertain myself , it's just like doing business ,
Example , u buy goods and u sell , I see gambling just same as it.
I only play 1 game and it's baccarat ...
Also , every time I bring an average of 15k to generate this average 1k income ,
I have my low times almost lost 5k a day to win so I just walk away ,
Always telling myself there is tomorrow ..
To be honest , i think my life suck .. I go see a ML or WL mostly just to have a chat or something ..
I don't usually have intercourse with them .. Cause till now sometimes I still miss my x even it's for 2yrs since we broke up.

[suka02]

Mi goreng, are you indo? Lol
Bro, I think you need to get married bro. I am almost like situation as you are. Don't feel in the mood of punting anymore besides that I do feel very lonely. Punting Don't solve the problems. I do go out with friends as well but it isn't solving the permanent solutions. Just temporary happiness.

My thoughts is.. I need a wife to begin a family and have children. Who always will be there for me. Then my life would be so complete and happily ever after.. :)

[Mi Goreng]

Suka bro , I guess u are indo ? :P
Maybe , but I think I'm still young and not ready for marriage , maybe time to find a girl friend ,
Or go back to the work force ....

[suka02]

I guess indo people likes to eat Mi goreng lol

If you're still young, why not? live your life through a lot of experiences or just choose your dead end life by marraging LOL though if you choose to go back to workforce at your other times you feel tired (need a rest) then boredom.

[AHLUNGOR]

Hi brother Mi,

Its early time yet, and i think you are extra boring because you are waiting to take off to your holiday.

The big question will be what are you gonna to do when you return home, there wont even be a holiday to look forward to......lol

You never mention about your family but assuming you are not spending much time with them like a family dinner at home and no friends or buddy were mentioned either so you are indeed a lonely person, i think as many brother has pointed out, a girl friend is probably a must, perhaps not even intimately, but just someone you can meet and see and talk to, have a dinner, go to a movie, karaoke, shopping etc and not within a confined space inside a brothel, massage shop with an hourly rate charged.

You mentioned that you are too young to get married, so i guess you will be too young to retire from working too.

I used to be a problem gambler and my ultimate dream was to win lotto, set for life, quit my job and just travelling and gambing everyday, and while you cant win big or much in the long run, but i sort of agree with you, if you are not greedy and have a big bank, it shouldnt be too hard to win $1,000 a day for yum cha massage and dinner with a $10K bank......but i would be doing all that with my Mrs though, it will be not much fun or satisfaction if you have no one to share with.

I dont have an answer for you only you know what you want, get another job, do something you like to do even it doesnt pay much, some volunteer works may be, working from home? Part time job? Friend and family and a few girl friends to fill up your day perhaps, learn a skill, take a short IT course .......

Only you know what you want, but you are already way ahead of many people because you dont have a financial problem.....haha

Cheers


BTW, are you the regular client who goes to Snow Lotus once a week to see Vicky and most of the time just want to talk, if you are not, then at least you know you are not alone

Hope you feel better soon

[maxx power]

Maybe going back to school and studying for fun would help. The least that would happen is that you would meet a whole bunch of new people and hopefully make some new friends to break you outoof your current lifestyle.

[AHLUNGOR]

Maybe going back to school and studying for fun would help. The least that would happen is that you would meet a whole bunch of new people and hopefully make some new friends to break you outoof your current lifestyle.

Excellent idea Maxx,

So many hotties in Uni and TAFE these days, and other potential buddies too,

I second that.............haha

Cheers

[Mi Goreng]

Thanks lungor and maxpower , btw I go snow lotus for a few times , meet a few girls , overall they are nice girls and pretty good deal to kill time there rather than going to outcall agencies as the price is much higher .. Yea , I guess I should get a plan back to study when I finish my holidays .. Well , I just finished my job in the casino and there's go another day of boring life..

[EpicFun]

Just take it easy bro Mi Goreng. You feel bored just because you haven't got used to not working. Give it sometime. Hang out with friends and you know what, if you are still young and single, why don't you go on the weekend?
Hang out, killing time and hunting in the same time.
I thought I'm the only one in this forum who play LOL. haha

[chandra_man1]

just pack your bags & backpack in asia or south america for a year. Don't have a specific plan & just go with whichever way the wind blows your fart. Everyday will be challenging & different for u. Just make sure u come back alive tho.

[Mi Goreng]

Thanks bro 's for all the replies , sorry I don't write much after reports cause most of them are more of a gfe rather than intercourse thing... I will go for a holiday but there is not a solid plan yet , but at the moment , if there is something good or new , I am willing to go check it out for the bro's here .

[EpicFun]

dont check out places for us. Do it if you feel like it, or you wont enjoy it.

[stevodog]

it doesn,t matter whether ur indo aussie or whatever punting or massage is only for a short time and better to find youself a girlfriend . still have plenty of sex and if she is like mine gives good massage haha. Mi Goreng bro girls cost you money whether girlfriend or shop girl but good to have GF to hang out with, go to dinner with, go to movies or whatever.If you go to the shop and just talk to the ML/WL you are definitely lonely and plenty of girls out there you can find.

[IExperiment]

Thanks bro 's for all the replies , sorry I don't write much after reports cause most of them are more of a gfe rather than intercourse thing... I will go for a holiday but there is not a solid plan yet , but at the moment , if there is something good or new , I am willing to go check it out for the bro's here .

Last time we spoke you were a chef and a bit overweight??? if you are it is best to start improving your looks and your health you have to love yourself if you wanted others to like you. Your lonely WL/ML is only a feel in as it is harder to find anything more than that but than again your single even if your single is still a hard task to date a ML/WL. Ask your self would a girl wanted to date you for what you are ??? If you have a good sense of humour thats a + if your good looking even better, find yourself and others will see you :) Your Ex still with her BF ??

[GinzaBoy]

Iexperiment, you are harsh. Are you brothers?

[cisco]

The easy one just rent some serial movies and watch it all the episodes,....thats it

[GWEILO]

I don't drink and I don't smoke but spend a Friday night out with me and I'll show you what a fun life is like. It involves fast girls and fast cars. Chin up brother because tomorrow could be your last day.

[noidea]

I would suggest going to work, but doing what you are passionate about. This will make the day go faster, or even just part time work. Then when you have time on the weekend, you can go see your favourite ml or wl and also hang out with your friends. Have a few drinks, go to the movies..etc. Holidays are great, if you're having a great time, you might not want to come back! Going out and meeting new people will one day enable you to stumble upon your next girl friend!

[IExperiment]

Iexperiment, you are harsh. Are you brothers?

Did not mean to come to strong just quick and fast advise about life in general mostly everyone wanted to be popular lots of friends and wealth and so on. We as punters look for stunner with good service in general. No one wanted to pay for the other side of the scale, so most in lifes this is similar anything else extra is a bonus.

[Mi Goreng]

bro iexperiment , yea , my x is now with another guy , well to be honest , sometimes I still miss the moments but I know we should move on in life .. Yea , did try to lost some weight , most of times I go for a jog but now the weather is a bit too cold ...

Bro Gweilo , fast girls and fast cars ? Hmm what does that mean , I have no clue .. Lol

Bro stevedog , you are so true , rather spending my money Wl , I think it's time I go find myself a real gf , but sometimes I prefer not to let people know , I gamble as a side income , most people are a bit scared to hear that ...

Bro noidea , true , cooking is my passion and I love it a lot , but in this industry it's very hard , especially after finishing service , u still need to spend 1-2 hour to clean down , that's why sometime I hate the job and to be honest , working for 50-60 hours at least a week and bringing home $800 p/w is not really idealistic in life , plus if I work I can't gamble as its too tiring and gambling requires a lot of mental stress ...

Bro Ginzaboy , it's ok to be harsh with me as I do accept people's comment and advice and I'm ready or it as I started the thread.

Yesterday I meet up with a Wl ( will not mention as it might draw unwanted attention ) , sigh it's true she indeed is a very sweet and nice girl , but sometimes I am too emotional attached to her and offered to help her get through her life , but in the end got rejected as she says she does not want to owe anyone and she knows I treat her well and she too treats me as a friend ... Hmmm I have no clue what's happening in life myself , paid an hour just to talk to her .... Am I crazy or what !?!

[Mi Goreng]

Sorry to all the bro's here , I wish to contribute more into the forum , but there's really not much afte I visit a ml / Wl as most of the time I'm just spending to get some accompany and to kill my time of the day ....

[splash]

Going to See Ml or Wl is only for fuck it dosén't solve your loneliness problem.

Perfectly said!

[Mi Goreng]

The worst is ..... I don't even bother to fuck ... :( now u gus should know how terrible I am ....

[mike99]

If money aint an issue but you have a passion for cooking, then you might consider running your own foodies stall (small one to start with)
You hire ppl whose willing to work 50-60 hours a week for $800 which is less than what you "expect' to earn in a single session in Star anyway

Questions you need to answer and decide is:
1) Location: May I suggest Chinatown since you are "Mi Goreng" lol
2) Cuisine: Indo if that is your passion
3) How much are you willing to put into the business? Ultimately, you are hoping that its at least self sustainable right? Ignore the fact that you are ok with paying yourself $1 a year for running the restaurant. Its not the money you are concerned ultimately

Achievement in this exercise?
1) You got someone to talk to for 50-60 hours for the price of only $800 a week
2) You cook and "prepare" rather without having to clean up
3) You get to know more ppl as well due to expected moderate high-staff turnover
4) Bragging rights that you own and manage your own eatery....Priceless

FYI: I m kinda in the same boat as you. I for another lack options as I have commitments and lack direction.
Punted twice this year which is an achievement for me as I was nuts last year (lost count of times and money spend maybe cos money wasnt an issue last year)

[Mr bmw]

bro sound to me like you are suffering from depression, maybe im wrong, but im sure you will feel better sooner or later

[bestofmyworld]

I tried to do the baccarat for a living idea, It was one of the loneliest and most depressing moments of my life. The mental stress destroyed my personality and my relationships. You said the most you've ever lost was almost 5k(5x your daily target), You're quite lucky if this was your worst day, can you share some of your dragon luck with me please?

I think gambling (no human interaction) is what's making you depressed and hence why you talk to the W/Ls. The thing that kept me going during this time was friends. I also did alot of research about investments and other opportunities as to give myself "hope" that i don't have to hang around a bunch of degenerates all day.

I don't think people can make a living out of baccarat because if your "method" gives you an edge, then wouldn't you be playing longer than 3 hrs so you can make more money? Hence that's why professional poker players have 8 hr + sessions? I only played 2 hrs a day, win or lose.
I'm a former poker player so that's my thinking. I'm still up life-time on baccarat but i stopped forever when i realise that i couldn't answer this question. I don't believe in luck or superstitious stuff like that.

I think i just got a lucky 3 month run when i started but i don't think anyone can make long-term money in baccarat, do you agree?
Also i think spending that money to talk to a therapist is better than a W/L.

PS, I've talked to a W/L for an hr before when i was new to punting and we went on a date lol.
So i know that feel bro.

[Mi Goreng]

Bro bestofmyworld ,
I agree with you , gambling is one of the loneliness thing to do , ESP playing baccarat . I am always trying to share my winnings in my surroundings , I always buy expensive chocolates from Simon and Johnson down the road for the commom bank officer in pyrmont. My routine is dead simple , everyday around 9.30 , i will reach the bank , everyday the officer there will notice me , saying same as usual ? Yea took 10k , every time they will just say , see u later ... Then walk into the casino , changed my money , and start to gamble , to be accurate , I will not spend more than 3 hours but sometimes the fastest will be 30 minutes before I leave . Reason is dead simple , when you go there first thing in the morning , u intend to know what you want and purpose to go to the casino for. I don't gamble for long period as I know once you played for long period , you become tired , winning and losing back , chasing back for the money is such depression and meaningless moments , and also there is no such thing as winning every hand , so I try to avoid those moments as much as I can. There is no such thing as dragon luck , my own gambling method is , a lesser hand you play , the higher chance of winning you are. If I hit a long streak on losing , I knew I had bad luck moments , most of the time I walk to have a chai latte or there is a really bad way of gambling , that's betting against myself , eg : when I put $200 of player , then on other hand I will chip up $400 on banker ... I know it sounds crazy but sometime this is how I get through the losing period ... It's really depressing times to times , but I told myself , if I choose this way to live , why don't I master it as much as i can. Always reminding myself , " know my limits " and stop dreaming ... This is how I get through all these times. U guys should watch American gangster by Denzol Washington .... I really inspired me. ... I know it sounds crazy but to me , it works.

After I have won around my target , around $1k , I will cash out everything and deposit my money to the bank. Damn , I even got a letter from the bank for my details as I was suspected for money laundrying ....

After that , another boring day has come , walk home , have a nap , eat some instant noodles then sometimes go for massage or finding for ml / Wl to talk .... This is my routine ...

[belial]

Every morning woke up , went to the star to start my day ,
Average income generate , $1k a day within the 3 hours ,
Had a walk from star to the cbd , get a lunch then not much left to do ..


You don't go to gym?

[Mi Goreng]

Belial Bro , I wanted to go but I don't have a motivator to go with :(

[EpicFun]

Belial Bro , I wanted to go but I don't have a motivator to go with :(

What about your flat mate or someone from your place?

[belial]

Belial Bro , I wanted to go but I don't have a motivator to go with :(

Get a Personal trainer they will motivate you.

You should be lifting 2-3 days a week and be doing 150 minutes of cardio a week. If nothing else it will make punting much better, especially if you supplement with BCAA's like l-Arginine

[cisco]

Personal trainer will cost you almost 50 perhour,so its not worthy though unless you wanna make your body muscle in a really good shape than its ok then.
If you don`t mind ,..how old are you bro mi goreng? i think you got to be over 35 years old..?am i rigth?

[IExperiment]

Bro bestofmyworld ,
I agree with you , gambling is one of the loneliness thing to do , ESP playing baccarat . I am always trying to share my winnings in my surroundings , I always buy expensive chocolates from Simon and Johnson down the road for the commom bank officer in pyrmont. My routine is dead simple , everyday around 9.30 , i will reach the bank , everyday the officer there will notice me , saying same as usual ? Yea took 10k , every time they will just say , see u later ... Then walk into the casino , changed my money , and start to gamble , to be accurate , I will not spend more than 3 hours but sometimes the fastest will be 30 minutes before I leave . Reason is dead simple , when you go there first thing in the morning , u intend to know what you want and purpose to go to the casino for. I don't gamble for long period as I know once you played for long period , you become tired , winning and losing back , chasing back for the money is such depression and meaningless moments , and also there is no such thing as winning every hand , so I try to avoid those moments as much as I can. There is no such thing as dragon luck , my own gambling method is , a lesser hand you play , the higher chance of winning you are. If I hit a long streak on losing , I knew I had bad luck moments , most of the time I walk to have a chai latte or there is a really bad way of gambling , that's betting against myself , eg : when I put $200 of player , then on other hand I will chip up $400 on banker ... I know it sounds crazy but sometime this is how I get through the losing period ... It's really depressing times to times , but I told myself , if I choose this way to live , why don't I master it as much as i can. Always reminding myself , " know my limits " and stop dreaming ... This is how I get through all these times. U guys should watch American gangster by Denzol Washington .... I really inspired me. ... I know it sounds crazy but to me , it works.

After I have won around my target , around $1k , I will cash out everything and deposit my money to the bank. Damn , I even got a letter from the bank for my details as I was suspected for money laundrying ....

After that , another boring day has come , walk home , have a nap , eat some instant noodles then sometimes go for massage or finding for ml / Wl to talk .... This is my routine ...

This is the reason I told you have a look at your self in the mirror and make small improvement slowly slowly is about loving your self and grooming your self the rest will follow, also Free money is good if you can keep it up but one day you might loose that self control. Yes they will write your name down now if you change your winning to cash in Casino if you change more than 10K. The casino is smart they always have a system they will get to you one day by other means. Change your routine slowly slowly to improve your out look in life small step. Good Luck in Casino :)

[cisco]

Just wear a tidy and good looking clothes as long as you think good,....just wear it. Its not about over weight, skinny , or outward appearance.
But , The most important of all is CONFIDENCE
Just try to find a really good girl friend and feel the love from your girl friend ,my friend... cause Love Keeps Us Alive

[Mi Goreng]

Omg , yes I'm always tidy and clean , just over weight , and actually I'm only mid 20's ! So sad to be called around 35 , lol. Anywhere thanks for all the advice from every brother here.

[GWEILO]

Baccarat is my favourite game, good thing I slow down now otherwise I think I would be living on the street.

Every Sunday I would come in with five grand and play to win big. Most Sundays I would walk away with fifty grand, other nights I would walk away with twenty grand loss. To walk into the casino with five grand but to leave losing twenty grand, I'm sure you all know what happened here.

[AHLUNGOR]

Baccarat is my favourite game, good thing I slow down now otherwise I think I would be living on the street.

Every Sunday I would come in with five grand and play to win big. Most Sundays I would walk away with fifty grand, other nights I would walk away with twenty grand loss. To walk into the casino with five grand but to leave losing twenty grand, I'm sure you all know what happened here.

Sorry Bro,

Dont understand the logic, please explain!!

You either have a betting account with the casino or you took some advances from the loan sharks, i didnt know they exist in Sydney, they are very common in Macau though, they are called the "deep ma jai" = kids who gives you chips!!

Gee, i am so glad i dont go to the Star anymore, i had a gambling problem and i was a roulette addict.....FFF!!!

[Mi Goreng]

I too had no clue what u mean bro !
Morning lungor and gweilo bro! A brand new day , a new start :)

[stevodog]

Sorry Bro,

Dont understand the logic, please explain!!

You either have a betting account with the casino or you took some advances from the loan sharks, i didnt know they exist in Sydney, they are very common in Macau though, they are called the "deep ma jai" = kids who gives you chips!!

Gee, i am so glad i dont go to the Star anymore, i had a gambling problem and i was a roulette addict.....FFF!!!

I know of a guy that operates at Star city who will lend you money when you are losing and desperate but you better pay him back or he will send his thugs around to see you-dont borrow money from these guys is best

[stevodog]

Mi Goreng you should do some regular exercise because this releases endorphins which make you feel good and any phsychologist will recommend exercise if you are suffering depression.Also just join a gym and you will meet other guys there you can exercise with.Also there are some bros who are happy just to go to brothel or massage once or twice a week for female company but for me this is not enough and need regular girlfriend to hang with and of course sex.Why do you think the WL who spend 30 hours a week with men still wants regular boyfriend.Its different. There are plenty of single girls in Sydney for you.Sometimes best to meet a girl through friends or study.I know your situation cause ive been there.

[Mi Goreng]

My day is over again .. Same routine , finished my gambling at casino , headed home , another day has come. Thanks Stevedog , I really think I should start seriously to reconsider to study again. And yes i should go to the gym to do some exercise , I used to take a cab which is 15-20 minutes walk away to the casino but nowadays I walk there and home . Maybe I should stop punting as its really meaningless and emptiness in the heart . Thanks guys for the concern , much appreciated !

[CommanderM]

Mi goreng, start by doing small things. not too much pressure but lets say do 1 thing new a day. theres no need to go to a gym - even a 30 minute brisk walk around a large park like Centennial Park is good for example or around your area.

Remember a change of scenery or a change of hair cut is just as good as a holiday. keep it simple. maybe you have a hobby or an interest that might be good for you bro. I am not sure but making a list of a few things to do each day might help. i think its called goal setting. My hobby is eating. every time a girl asks me where the best place to go for Japanese, Spanish, Brazilian, Vietnamese, Italian even Nepalese food - they know they can count on me as I have tried everything. my confidence is up - even though I am overweight - I hate masterchef for making me hungry all the time ...anyway

best of luck mi goreng bro

[AHLUNGOR]

My day is over again .. Same routine , finished my gambling at casino , headed home , another day has come. Thanks Stevedog , I really think I should start seriously to reconsider to study again. And yes i should go to the gym to do some exercise , I used to take a cab which is 15-20 minutes walk away to the casino but nowadays I walk there and home . Maybe I should stop punting as its really meaningless and emptiness in the heart . Thanks guys for the concern , much appreciated !

After reading more of your story, I think your body image and self esteem may affect which direction of life you are taking. May be at this moment, you should concentrate on losing some weight and slim down to a toned body, just look at those biggest loser TV, they usually have a happy ending and I'm sure your are no where near those contestants in terms of size and overweight, but I guess if you would drop 10-15 Kilo, it will do your self confidence, body image and overall health a world of good. Jenny Craig is usually quite effective and you follow their dietary advices together with some coached and programmed exercises, you shall see some immediate results in 2 to 3 weeks,

Then I think you will be a new man, fitter, leaner looking, and you will be surprise how girls will suddenly more easy to pick up and so on.

Just my 2 cents

Good luck

Cheers

:cool2:

[Mi Goreng]

Thanks ! I'm heading for an hour walk now :) maybe I will see some bro coming out from snow lotus ... Lol ! :)

[EpicFun]

Good luck man. Just be more confidence about yourself. That also can change your mood and depression.

[PhoBot]

You live in a city with amazing natural environment yet you prefer to be in an artificial manufactured environment. Go buy a sufrboard, kayak, stand up paddle board, bike or fishing rod :)

[CommanderM]

agreed - bike riding around Centennial Park on Weekends will allow you to pick up lots of chicks.. especially if you have rented a bicycle or better to burn calories - roller blades..!

heck you might just bump into the girl of your dreams. I fell over a girl at Manly beach a few years ago (clash of the roller blades and very clumsy both of us haha) and she was one of the most amazing girlfriends I ever had. however her parents did not like an Asian guy dating a blonde Caucasian girl. She liked that I was like a nice cuddly fat teddy bear with great sex drive haha...

[GWEILO]

Sorry Bro,

Dont understand the logic, please explain!!

You either have a betting account with the casino or you took some advances from the loan sharks, i didnt know they exist in Sydney, they are very common in Macau though, they are called the "deep ma jai" = kids who gives you chips!!

Gee, i am so glad i dont go to the Star anymore, i had a gambling problem and i was a roulette addict.....FFF!!!

You guessed right, I borrowed money from some people with a rate of 10% a month.

[Charlie123]

Gambling addiction is soul destroying, ive also felt the same despair bro

Lots of good tips offered already, my advice:

Try to build meaningful relationships (although perhaps not necessarily with WLs, as so often they are lost souls too!)

Enjoy more meaningless sex - if you have the income fulfil every sexual desire, indulge yourself while you are young, later in life you will not regret it.

Engage in occassional recreational drug use - enjoy yourself and broaden your horizons at the same time, but remember to follow the rule of moderation

Invest in you own spirituality - write poetry, learn philosophy, paint a landscape, whatever you find most fulfiling

[cisco]

U r right charlie123........

To mi goreng
Life just once just try to achieved and your dream..... Impossible is Nothing my friend

[IExperiment]

Mi goreng, start by doing small things. not too much pressure but lets say do 1 thing new a day. theres no need to go to a gym - even a 30 minute brisk walk around a large park like Centennial Park is good for example or around your area.

Remember a change of scenery or a change of hair cut is just as good as a holiday. keep it simple. maybe you have a hobby or an interest that might be good for you bro. I am not sure but making a list of a few things to do each day might help. i think its called goal setting. My hobby is eating. every time a girl asks me where the best place to go for Japanese, Spanish, Brazilian, Vietnamese, Italian even Nepalese food - they know they can count on me as I have tried everything. my confidence is up - even though I am overweight - I hate masterchef for making me hungry all the time ...anyway

best of luck mi goreng bro

This is what I mean also to keep you motivated put your headphone on walk around lunch time so you will see other people having a relaxing time while their having lunch in the park and dont forget the girls :) your mind wont be so lonely walk from corner liverpool and elizabeth to Royal Botanic Garden I am sure you will see many good things to keep you occupy . It is in our human nature if were bored we get lazy but if were excited times fly so look around and get a bit fitter is a start.

[smd]

i don't get it why most brothers here get the conclusion that his appearance is the problem
poor u mi goreng lol
maybe he is better looking than most of us here, and how many of us here have ideal weight ???
being working in kitchen for 60 hours per week .... despite of his weight, i believe mi goreng is fit enough lol

he just can't move on from his ex
that's the price of love brother

[Mi Goreng]

OMG , even 5* bro is here to comment about NiCo , well I guess I should give her a book someday. Its s long time i go 5* , maybe its t im i go there and pay some of the lovely girls a visit .. Thanks so much for all bros' lovely advice , I just came back from SEPIA , well paid 1k for my friends ( should consider as family as they treat me as the same way ) and tipped the waitstaff $200. Gosh , should say their service is very professional , even I'm going with some early 20's Asian people who know nothing about fine dining , but still they treated us and gave the best service I had ever experienced . Worth to go for a meal there . A thumbs up for the restaurant !

[Mi Goreng]

Bro SMD , I guess now u understand my true feelings ... Haha ...
I'm overweight , but not as horrible as the hulk ...
I'm just an average looking guy with a crazy attitude ..
That's who I am ..
Sometimes I think I've walk out from the past , but sometimes I still care for her .
That's why I'm kinda emotionally attached and won't have sex easily with wl / ml ...

[smd]

Bro SMD , I guess now u understand my true feelings ... Haha ...
I'm overweight , but not as horrible as the hulk ...
I'm just an average looking guy with a crazy attitude ..
That's who I am ..
Sometimes I think I've walk out from the past , but sometimes I still care for her .
That's why I'm kinda emotionally attached and won't have sex easily with wl / ml ...

out of curiosity .... does the reason u broke up with your ex have something to do with your gambling habit?

[Mi Goreng]

No , when I date , I never gamble .
She is a nice girl and she deserves someone better ,
And she found out she loves her x more than I so ...
I guess maybe its gonna be a sleepless night again for me when I think bout her.
Now I'm financial free and can afford to spend to punt , but sometimes just the feelings isn't there ..
She fcking left a big hole at my heart ...

[IExperiment]

No , when I date , I never gamble .
She is a nice girl and she deserves someone better ,
And she found out she loves her x more than I so ...
I guess maybe its gonna be a sleepless night again for me when I think bout her.
Now I'm financial free and can afford to spend to punt , but sometimes just the feelings isn't there ..
She fcking left a big hole at my heart ...

By the way you post a while back and now you seem like a nice soft guy but its time for you to wake up. You have to do something if you wanted her back even after her BF pound her ass frankly speaking you have to show her what you got meaning improvement as you guys broke up and she found someone if he was worst than you can have a look in this is just the way it is if she is content than there is only one way win her back or move on and find someone better. If some one mention you look 35 but your mid 20s fix it dude ??? I am early 40s but can get away with late 20s so fix it this is the reason I keep on saying love your self.

[Mi Goreng]

Bro iexperient ,

Nah, I don't want her back anymore even if I love and care for her. Sometimes i think it's just memories that will last , I now didn't even contact her anymore. Lately I heard one of my friends said she got financial problems which needed for her visa but she never approached me for help. I will still help her even she got pounded by the ass from her bf or what. She left me a big hole in my heart but still she gave me one of the best memories in life. So I think a bit of distance from her and hope the very best in her life.

[IExperiment]

Bro iexperient ,

Nah, I don't want her back anymore even if I love and care for her. Sometimes i think it's just memories that will last , I now didn't even contact her anymore. Lately I heard one of my friends said she got financial problems which needed for her visa but she never approached me for help. I will still help her even she got pounded by the ass from her bf or what. She left me a big hole in my heart but still she gave me one of the best memories in life. So I think a bit of distance from her and hope the very best in her life.

Good on you it is time for you to forget than as it is not normal to think of someone for to long. If you loose a twin brother who actually FS a girl together and a memory of 30years + thats is close :) you will feel pain for at least 2 to 3 years so hopefully you will find something to do to keep you busy.

[Mi Goreng]

Morning bros' , as usual , finished my routine at the casino and it's a another day to go. Lovely sunny day in the city and hope everyone is good.

[OldPing]

Bro Mi Goreng, I did have your issue back a few years. Try some volunteer work. One does meet some really hot chics, and with just a little luck some gfe. And they are not after your wallet.

[Mi Goreng]

Sounds like a good idea Bro, is there any website to look for ? Would be good to help someone who is in need..

[AHLUNGOR]

Morning bros' , as usual , finished my routine at the casino and it's a another day to go. Lovely sunny day in the city and hope everyone is good.

Assuming you have won your usual $1K or more, biggest decision of the day, where to eat? Or where to punt?

[sharpshooter]

its very disappointing that you didn't take much advice from bros here when your gf left you last time

i think you are so bored to the point your communication with others rely on gambling, this forum and WL / ML
agree with IE's advice here
you need to loss at least 10 to 15kg body fat and gain strength and improve your cadio
get a male PT for strength training 1 hour a day 5 days a week
get a female PT for cardio for half hour a day 5 days a week
join a run group on the morning and do early morning swimming in the outdoor swimming pool
improve your diet, start to eat good food instead of junk
stop gambling, do fitness training everyday, go shopping for good food, read books in outdoor cafes
your personal well being is far more important, at the moment, you are fucked, so wake the fk up, and do something about it
you will thank me in 3 months time if you are going to make the change, and it will benefit you for the rest of your life

[IExperiment]

Morning bros' , as usual , finished my routine at the casino and it's a another day to go. Lovely sunny day in the city and hope everyone is good.

Good to see your pretty happy :) and hope you have a good day walking and see all the beautiful people at the park :) keep on moving :) I know there's nothing beats free money :) but remember the value as in our head free money means less value for money it self cause its free and it is easy come easy go :) at least your still early like your post is 10:47AM and you already did your day work. Good luck on your well being.

[bussylover]

Bro Mi Goreng, you need friends, Specially in Australia living, no matter you gamble or punting, or dinner, you need friends to share with you!
X is X anyway, the life in AUS is so fantastic and you can do a lot else to enrich your life even you are single. Learn some guitar or find a sales job which provide mroe opportunities to communicate with the ppl.
Anyway have a good holiday! You control you own life dont let gamble and Punting control your life!

[Mi Goreng]

Thanks guys much appreciated !! I will try to start a new life myself , doing something more useful in life rather than this miserable life . Today is Friday , guess a lot of bro must be outing and punting ..

[IExperiment]

Thanks guys much appreciated !! I will try to start a new life myself , doing something more useful in life rather than this miserable life . Today is Friday , guess a lot of bro must be outing and punting ..

I am resting been a big week have to do inspection at 8am in the morning apart from 5* teasing I was tempted. Go to sleep or go watch a movie and sleep early good for your health. You dont wanted to die at 42 like the Indian CEO he was fit as a fiddle but he lack of sleep and die from a hearth attack at 42. I try to sleep more than 7 hours a day.

[roobert]

maybe someone from here can meet with him for freindship and so he can learn from the wise people in ths place.

Also maybe need help poor people realise your life is not so bad, like many people starving in china and not even have money for the gambling addiction

[harmsup_jai]

Sorry Mi Goreng, I dont feel sorry for you as there are plenty of people inthe world that have it way harder than you do.


At least you can find work and afford to go gambling and visit ML/WLs.


Stop feeling depressed and feeling sorry for yourself and go do something with your life, only person to blame for your downfalls is yourself.

You are only giving yourself excuses not to do things.

[Max Impact]

I dont think Mi is so concerned any more with his boring life as he hasnt posted on this subject for two weeks. He has other things on his mind now ;-)

[Mi Goreng]

Hi Guys , i haven been gambling or punting for sometime already ... say 1 week ? Fuck something is bothering me in life and i just dont feel to do anything ...
Anywhere there is no 100% win in gambling , just say i'm using a big capital to win a small amount.
Sigh , to be honest , i spend more than 70% of my time sitting in the internet cafe now playing some stupid LOL game , thats about it ,
A couple of friends came here to for Amei's concert and is busy entertaining them ..
Then .. buying and packing stuff to prepare to go back home ..
I just also want to say , i miss someone so much that .... I might be in love with someone who i should not be ...

[Travelmate]

Hi Guys , i haven been gambling or punting for sometime already ... say 1 week ? Fuck something is bothering me in life and i just dont feel to do anything ...
Anywhere there is no 100% win in gambling , just say i'm using a big capital to win a small amount.
Sigh , to be honest , i spend more than 70% of my time sitting in the internet cafe now playing some stupid LOL game , thats about it ,
A couple of friends came here to for Amei's concert and is busy entertaining them ..
Then .. buying and packing stuff to prepare to go back home ..
I just also want to say , i miss someone so much that .... I might be in love with someone who i should not be ...

if you miss someone, go and tell her before you get too regret.
There is no point sitting by yourself and do nothing...
trust me...
trust Travelmate .... He has traveled a lot of mileage ... to tell you this...

[AHLUNGOR]

Hi brother Mi,

Dont worry about that person, she'll be here when you come back from holiday, dont forget to buy her a nice gift, a good reason to meet up when you return and take it from there.

If all things failed, there is always the casino, 5 Star and Snow Lotus to comfort you......haha

Have a nice holiday

Cheers

[Mr bmw]

Sound to me like bro mi has falling in love with some wl..

[Mi Goreng]

That's true ...... I so wanting to write an AR .. But if I wrote , sigh ... It will be a sad one :( thanks lungor and all the buddies who understand me ......

[Mi Goreng]

我最親愛的，你過得怎麼樣？

[chandra_man1]

[QUOTE=Niceman 123;16475
The odds with WLs are close to zero.[/QUOTE]

If u have $10M in the bank earning interest i think you have at least 90% chance of winning the heart of a WL. i just need another 9.8M

[chandra_man1]

I think for the fulltime hardcore WL that will work for over 2 years it be hard to get a relationship with them. But for those on short term assignment like the premium escorts u might have a better chance as they only do the work for like a month or 2 & then get back to their normal life as if nothing had happened.

[Max Impact]

I think for the fulltime hardcore WL that will work for over 2 years it be hard to get a relationship with them. But for those on short term assignment like the premium escorts u might have a better chance as they only do the work for like a month or 2 & then get back to their normal life as if nothing had happened.

I am hoping that is the case too chandra_man1 for this brothers' situation.

[cisco]

If I have $10M in my bank interest, I think I would still choose somebody other than a WL as gf. There is no point to win a woman's heart by showing her your wealth, you will end up losing money and get depressed. You can buy a woman a certain period of time of her companion with money but she will eventually go. Wealth and money only create opportunities to start a real relationship with woman but in the end, other things do come into play before a long term relationship will last.

WLs are not good choice for a long term relationship because their training and experience won't make them feel for men, I guess.

10000% agreed and the rigth answer ,.....

[cisco]

Sound to me like bro mi has falling in love with some wl..

me too,.....is that rigth mi goreng?

[project_manager006]

Mi Goreng - you sound like me about 5 years ago. I drifted through life aimlessly, frequenting brothels and casinos. I didn't go to brothels for sex, I just wanted some girl to talk to. And I didn't always go to the casino for money. I found it a soothing way to pass time.

It then occurred to me that I probably suffered depression. Have you ever thought about that?

I'm not saying punting/gambling causes depression, but it certainly helps facilitate it. In other words, it almost creates the perfect environment for it to be developed.

I found that setting myself goals (career goals, fitness goals) really helped me get my life back on the straight road. I know people here have already given you the same advice, but I strongly urge you to not only consider it, but to try it out. Hell, if you really need a gym buddy, pm me and we'll go. Once you get into it, it can become a healthy addiction, a healthy life.

The other thing is, I realised I needed my friends. They are my support group. I can vent to them about anything, and they can be there to help if I ever need it. During my punting/gambling years, I strayed away from my friends, isolating myself, and in hindsight I see that this was a bad idea. Not only that, but in the process I also abandoned another friend, who now hangs around with some shady people. I can only wonder how I would've prevented that had I been around instead of wasting money and my life away.

Your initial question was, is there more to life? That's what I've been asking myself all those years. I think once you start travelling around, you will find the answer is yes. If you are looking for something after that, check out some TAFE courses, you'll be surprised at what you can learn. Alternatively, go to Bunnings and try to do some home renovations yourself. It's always good, as a man, to know how to fix things like your home and car.

Take care bro, and keep us updated.

[IExperiment]

Mi Goreng - you sound like me about 5 years ago. I drifted through life aimlessly, frequenting brothels and casinos. I didn't go to brothels for sex, I just wanted some girl to talk to. And I didn't always go to the casino for money. I found it a soothing way to pass time.

It then occurred to me that I probably suffered depression. Have you ever thought about that?

I'm not saying punting/gambling causes depression, but it certainly helps facilitate it. In other words, it almost creates the perfect environment for it to be developed.

I found that setting myself goals (career goals, fitness goals) really helped me get my life back on the straight road. I know people here have already given you the same advice, but I strongly urge you to not only consider it, but to try it out. Hell, if you really need a gym buddy, pm me and we'll go. Once you get into it, it can become a healthy addiction, a healthy life.

The other thing is, I realised I needed my friends. They are my support group. I can vent to them about anything, and they can be there to help if I ever need it. During my punting/gambling years, I strayed away from my friends, isolating myself, and in hindsight I see that this was a bad idea. Not only that, but in the process I also abandoned another friend, who now hangs around with some shady people. I can only wonder how I would've prevented that had I been around instead of wasting money and my life away.

Your initial question was, is there more to life? That's what I've been asking myself all those years. I think once you start travelling around, you will find the answer is yes. If you are looking for something after that, check out some TAFE courses, you'll be surprised at what you can learn. Alternatively, go to Bunnings and try to do some home renovations yourself. It's always good, as a man, to know how to fix things like your home and car.

Take care bro, and keep us updated.

Good answer and its been said before a few times if you wanted pro help go get proper counseling there so many people here already mention to you about going out with you if this is not what you wanted seek otherway before you go deeper into trouble.

[KingMark]

Mate....try start praying to God??? it might take some time but eventually He will show u directions...He has made plans for every single one of us...

I will pray for u tonite....stay strong...n have faith in Him....

[Mi Goreng]

Thank you guys !
Mr BMW , mr Cisco , yes you guys are right , I think I fall in love with a Wl , we only communicate through mail and everyday I will be constantly checking my mail from my phone , but sigh , there was always no reply. Brother here are mostly correct , there is so less of a percentage to find a real love and relationship with a Wl.

Mr project manager , thanks so much for your encouragement ! What you all mentioned and did was exactly what I am doing! I went to casino to only kill time , I went to brothel to just talk with girls , I go to outfall agencies just to see the girl I like and treat her coffee and cakes.. I tried to a avoid friends who really care and helped me , and alwyas kept myself away from others when i had this kind of lifestyle. When I get back from my holiday , I Might PM you and might go to gym together .. That is something i really want to do but I never got the friends or support to go with ..

King mark , yea today by all of a sudden my friend from Brisbane ask me to accompany her to go church with another friend , and yes I go church but I don't have the courage to say I'm a Christian , today sermon's was spot on all about me and my fcked up life ... Asking me to have a change in life ...

I think it's time I move on , next week I will be heading home for 2 months , by that me ... I hope god has plans or me and reshape me for what he plan... I'm not sure should I say this or not , but seriously punting and gambling is just hollowing my heart .... I don't feel the urge , the thrill or anything anymore...

Time will tell and also will ease the pain .....

[Mr bmw]

Hopefully u will meet a nice girl in Indo and forget about the WL here. I've been jkt many times, sooo many pretty Chinese Indo and also punting there's awesome

[samantha]

Boredom is a human state when we look for rest in a struggle against some impediment. "Come to me all of you who are carrying heavy loads and I will gave you rest" says the Lord. Trust in Him.

[wilisno]

Boredom is a human state when we look for rest in a struggle against some impediment. "Come to me all of you who are carrying heavy loads and I will gave you rest" says the Lord. Trust in Him.
" Come to me " I'd rather it was said by you than the Lord, Samantha ! Assuming you're a girl ! ;) ;) ;)

[Charlie123]

Im carrying a heavy load too, not sure i can wait til the sabbath for release though

[Mi Goreng]

Morning ... Lately I'm encountering a lot of new things happening in life which I don't even know how what to do ....to be honest I can walk from away from those people as they might harm me by accident or I can try to help them .. But a few more days I will leave this place for a good 2 months so I might not see them in this period of times..

Hi Samantha , welcome to the forum and I'm glad you are in Christ too , it's good to see people like this ,encouraging each other during the good and the bad times ... Hope to hear more from you ..

Bro Charlie and willisno are had bad intention but a good heart ppl , so hopefully the lord will forgive them for what they say ..... Ha

Today is Friday , assuming people will be busy punting so have a good weekend ahead and thanks for all the bro's here giving me encouragement through all these times...

[DarkZero01]

care to share some tips in baccarat j/k
hopefully u will be all good soon and tell us how u went/ punt in your trip.

[Max Impact]

Mi, enjoy your time away. From what you tell me your life is anything but boring. Make a difference to the world. You know how you can.

[cisco]

" Come to me " I'd rather it was said by you than the Lord, Samantha ! Assuming you're a girl ! ;) ;) ;)


ha ha hahaha,..........:shout:

[Mi Goreng]

Three more days to go , nothing much to do than buying stuff for family and relatives , is there anyone here who knows where to buy and choose dry abalone ? If someone knows please pm or let me know , need to grab some for my grandma.
There's a bit of new challenge in life lately and I hope I will grow strong and help the people who is in need for help. I won't write a lot as if I said something , u clever bros will fix the puzzle up easily as my routine is very standard.

Darkzero , there is no 100% win but for me , I'm just beating the casino edge without getting greedy. That's all .

Good night everyone , SG will be a good place to punt but I might not be ale to do that as I'm living to a very very close friend ....

Ha, I don't think Samantha would like to see me as I'm not a handsome guy or anything. , I'm just an average looking guy with a overweight body.....

[iSex]

is there anyone here who knows where to buy and choose dry abalone ?

go to chinatown, i saw plenty when i walked pass those chinese herbal shops

[IExperiment]

Three more days to go , nothing much to do than buying stuff for family and relatives , is there anyone here who knows where to buy and choose dry abalone ? If someone knows please pm or let me know , need to grab some for my grandma.
There's a bit of new challenge in life lately and I hope I will grow strong and help the people who is in need for help. I won't write a lot as if I said something , u clever bros will fix the puzzle up easily as my routine is very standard.

Darkzero , there is no 100% win but for me , I'm just beating the casino edge without getting greedy. That's all .

Good night everyone , SG will be a good place to punt but I might not be ale to do that as I'm living to a very very close friend ....

Ha, I don't think Samantha would like to see me as I'm not a handsome guy or anything. , I'm just an average looking guy with a overweight body.....

Good have a good trip you need it. I dont wanted to see people like michael Douglas in Falling Down :)

[GWEILO]

Good have a good trip you need it. I dont wanted to see people like michael Douglas in Falling Down :)

Fucking hilarious, "I'm the bad guy?"

Falling Down Trailer (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fiY-q6Wafgg)

[Mi Goreng]

Will gonna spend my last night at Sydney in m8 for that girl and after will leaving for a good 2 months ...

Take care all bros here and I will keep on reading the forum whenever I got the time ...

Enjoy and safe punting !

[Max Impact]

GodSpeed Mi Goreng!

[aussiegaigin]

, is there anyone here who knows where to buy and choose dry abalone ? If someone knows please pm or let me know , need to grab some for my grandma.
greedy. That's all .


TRy the supermarket in the Burlington Centre basement, or Thai kee in Sussex St.

[formula44]

Try TMC for some Japanese abalone :slobber::slobber:

[AHLUNGOR]

Try TMC for some Japanese abalone :slobber::slobber:

Sorry mate, your advice is about two months late, brother Mi is still overseas i think, his life is most likely Not boring any more.......lol

Cheers

[Travelmate]

我最親愛的，你過得怎麼樣？

??
Who are you talking about?

[Travelmate]

Another advice is to make friend with Ahlungor. He can be a real gentleman and share a lot of good experience and information

[Mi Goreng]

Hi brothers ! How is everyone here and any good stuff happening in Sydney ? Well I hope I didn't miss all the fun ....
Been away for sometime and wanna share with u what had happened in last two months ..

Been to SG and stopped there for 3 nights , well if the punters there like Thai girls , I think geylang will be suitable for bros out there , as Thai girls at 18th street , mostly aquarium based type ( they sit inside the room with transparent glass for you to choose ) , I've seen seeing the same girl for 2 times when I was in sg , well she's nice and she's really good , they speak Chinese too surprisingly ! In sg , it's like $80 for 40 minutes ( 1 shot ) ... Well quite cheap I guess compare to prices in syd ! Services are the same , more on GFE type ... So nothing much to write .

Stopped at my hometown , Malaysia ( Sarawak ) , long time I didn't went back , my hometown was invaded by Chinese and massage shops , but these massage shops are way too different , the ones who only offers massages and strictly no other services are really good , like nice decor and facilities , lets just say like in m8 , in these holiday period , I almost spend 4-5 times a week going to massage shops getting massage , 1.5 hour leg massage only for $11 and 2 hour body massage for $20 ! Good bargain right ? Always go there with my buddies and sometime their wife come along with us ...
Other type of massage is just like the ones in here , not comfortable at all , small rooms with not much privacy type , can hear others talking type l. It cost the same price , but u need to pay another more $15-20 for HJ and touching here , but they don't allow to nude themselves as its illiegal and if the council comes , they will be in trouble .
Prostitution is not allowed in my country , so we ( Chinese ) have others way to make it happen , the girls , 95% from china are called cars , Chinese cars , and you ring a what we call them car dealer , then he will let u know which hotel and room number to go , just go in , knock and negotiate with the girls what service they provide and everything ... $60 for a shot ( 45 minutes ) mostly do not offer DFK or DATY to them , but the rest of their service are all up to standards ... In home I just went once with some friends as I'm afraid to see someone I know as I live in a really small area ... But it's just normal as I'm more an GFE guy type ...

Now this is the fun part ...went to GENTING , kuala lumpur , the casino and resort in a mountain for 3 nights with my aunts , grandma and mom .... Was actually in luck ! Went to the casino and won big time , didn't plan to gamble but my family members encourage to join the fun .. I used $200 to win around $5000 !!! Just double up , like going hardcore or go home to sleep .... Save a bit for myself , like $1000 and the rest for all my families , it was boring there , but on 2nd night while I was wondering around myself , a middle man （ 馬夫 ）approached me ... Asked me if I want a punt or not , I was like why not ...bring me into a room .. I was like , my lucky day , petite girl ,skinny , small firm tits just what I like .. price at $80 back home , paid for it then the girl later told me not to let runner earns the commission ... For that first hour we spend time talking about stuff , saying there are like 500-800 china girls working in tht resort , then suddenly , she told to to stay for the night and she doesn't wants to work anymore for the day ... Wow , I was like okay ... It's more like a thing , like u bring ur gf to holiday and she only wants u to be with her the whole night , the routine is all the same , but more intense as its like a relationship type , after having intercourse , she still cooks some instant noodles and watch some movies on her iPad for the night . It's a long time since I've sleep with someone for the night , so it's a bit not comfortable for me and I told her to hug and sleep together but she says it's ok , she just wants to even if I woke her up during the night ... Well happy night then next morning I had to wake up early and leave for breakfast with family , then not long after she texted me , if I am free today and she don't feel like working so we took a cab down to city ( kuala lumpur ) and dated ... Just like what couples do .. I was like .. I'm not fcking rich , not handsome and fat , why would someone approach me like this , guess I'm just blessed ? Lol ...well I paid for all the expenses which cost me nothing compares to strong Aussie dollar and the contribution from the casino ..then we went back to the resort and she asked me to stay with her the night ... Well I should say , she really did give me a good memory which is not bought by money and in the end , before I left , I left $800 in the envelope and wrote , I will miss you for her ....

It's sad that now I have to sleep by myself ... Lol I'll be trying to punt less and start to get into a real relationship from now , but need to keep fit as I gain big time weight when I was back home . Thanks for reading and hope its not too boring .

*ps , all the currencies are in aud dollar , exchange rate to Malaysian RM is 1 aud = 3.2 rm .... Damn it's good.

[Lancelot]

Mi goreng, sounds like u had a great time. Makes me want to hop plane back home to Malaysia too. Haven't been back n years. A friend told me he got return to KL for under $400 during airasia sale. Hmm....let me check if there's any sales coming up....

[lazy predator]

you sound like you don't know how to approach a woman without paying. just go and talk to random girls and work on your interpersonal skills. appearance does matter too. if you look like your average slanky asian then change your appearance. this is an animal kingdom after all. have a think about what kind of animal do you want to be - a lion or a sheep. it's all up to yourself.

[Travelmate]

you sound like you don't know how to approach a woman without paying. just go and talk to random girls and work on your interpersonal skills. appearance does matter too. if you look like your average slanky asian then change your appearance. this is an animal kingdom after all. have a think about what kind of animal do you want to be - a lion or a sheep. it's all up to yourself.

hahha.. stud ... share more your own experience, everyone is listening .... come on

[lazy predator]

simple. do some physical training. strength related sports. put your body through a lot of hard work will change you mentally as well.

not exactly a stud. just go and talk to the girls you think that you want to fk. you might not go anywhere with it but at least you tried. it happens all the time. i won't mention bars cos everyone goes to bars and clubs to pick up. i've picked up in a supermarket, a gym, on the train and best of all just walking down the road. that was only because i tried to dodge someone walking towards me and she laughed at me. so, i spoke to her. i think girls will respect to you as long as you talk to them normally, not sound like a horny creep (i guess i hid the horniness well).

sydney is great because of the influx of asians. and i''m talking about different kinds of asians. there are so many girls out there. if you just keep on trying, you are bound to smash one. in the ass that is.

[Alexlim]

Wow, Hot thread of the day!

[Aimyy22]

If you are audio like you need discover a Partner to see .Going to See Ml or Wl is only for screw it dosén't fix your solitude issue. Platform on on what you said about the type of WL or ML your looking for .

[enigma775]

Damn I felt bad reading your post bro :( Cheer up and glad you enjoyed your holiday.

Would take you for a beer at Star lol

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[ynotm8]

haha perfect for the punt

[madness123]

Take up flying lessons.
There are heaps of things like that to do.

[woodland]

wow someone revived a thread from 2012.
funny enough, that was exactly how i felt in 2012.... how things have changed.
i miss those careful days

[frisson]

Punting was much more affordable back then?

[Ghost2hauntU]

wow someone revived a thread from 2012.
funny enough, that was exactly how i felt in 2012.... how things have changed.
i miss those careful days

Lol yeah like WTF. OP’s probably fucked himself to death by now.

[F0x]

It's that dumbass kuzmennka acc spamming.

OP might be a some gym junkie now haha

[acfbkup1]

You are making some$ to be in the punting world for regular but not enough$ to live in punting world as a permanent. I'd advise you up your career and make loads more you swim in pussies. As for the love relationship romance etc.. don't worry about it. It happens when it happens

[jj12345]

Outcall agencies ( not going to name ) : $300-350 per hour

Is there really outcall agency at this price? Can anyone tell me name of these agencys?

[GoldfishMan]

Is there really outcall agency at this price? Can anyone tell me name of these agencys?
Bruh... That post was made in 2012. That was indeed the price back then.
Now it's $450 minimum, all the way up to $900 /hr for the "best of the best".

[jj12345]

Bruh... That post was made in 2012. That was indeed the price back then.
Now it's $450 minimum, all the way up to $900 /hr for the "best of the best".

Hahaha Sorry my stupid! Where is $450 place?

[GoldfishMan]

Actually minimum is now $500. It used to be $450 for about 2 years, but went up just like everything else.
Lots of good ones around:
https://9smodel.com/
http://www.myoutcall.com/home/index/la/en
https://www.sydbabie.com/
https://cocolulusweety.com/

There's also something like an E&B for Asian WLs where you get a mix of agency girls and proper private girls all listed together:
https://www.airbcaob.com/sydney/

[woodland]

does https://www.airbcaob.com/sydney/ work? they don't update their listings most of the girls on there don't even work anymore

MOC site also down. any intel there?

[GoldfishMan]

does https://www.airbcaob.com/sydney/ work? they don't update their listings most of the girls on there don't even work anymore

MOC site also down. any intel there?

I didn't realise airbcaob wasn't getting updated. You may be right, they might be out of business.

MOC website is up when I tried it just then, but who knows maybe they're also struggling. Wouldn't be surprised with the current economic climate.

[jj12345]

Actually minimum is now $500. It used to be $450 for about 2 years, but went up just like everything else.
Lots of good ones around:
https://9smodel.com/
http://www.myoutcall.com/home/index/la/en
https://www.sydbabie.com/
https://cocolulusweety.com/

There's also something like an E&B for Asian WLs where you get a mix of agency girls and proper private girls all listed together:
https://www.airbcaob.com/sydney/

Thank you Mr Goldman!

[Sibon]

A boring life , advice wanted ....

Seek spiritual fulfillment.
Emptiness is an ultimate state of being.

[Kiryu0]

Who the hell would necro a thread all the back from 2012.kudos to even finding it.

[personaa]

Actually minimum is now $500. It used to be $450 for about 2 years, but went up just like everything else.
Lots of good ones around:
https://9smodel.com/
http://www.myoutcall.com/home/index/la/en
https://www.sydbabie.com/
https://cocolulusweety.com/

There's also something like an E&B for Asian WLs where you get a mix of agency girls and proper private girls all listed together:
https://www.airbcaob.com/sydney/

I know some of these girls from Shops. Wendy used to work at Chatswood60, but man it's a huge listing, I think majority of Asian students are into this industry!

[ditchtheboss]

I know some of these girls from Shops. Wendy used to work at Chatswood60, but man it's a huge listing, I think majority of Asian students are into this industry!

Most of these sites are in what I think is mandarin. That’s very upsetting for those of us who cannot understand it. I may have to start to take done mandarin lessons as some of these girls are hot

[GoldfishMan]

Most of these sites are in what I think is mandarin. That’s very upsetting for those of us who cannot understand it. I may have to start to take done mandarin lessons as some of these girls are hot

Bro, I can't read Chinese either. I just use google translate in my chrome browser, easy peasy.

[ditchtheboss]

Bro, I can't read Chinese either. I just use google translate in my chrome browser, easy peasy.

I will need my laptop for that. Have you ever booked through these sites?

[personaa]

No need to translate anything, just check the photos, that's what I did.

[GoldfishMan]

I will need my laptop for that. Have you ever booked through these sites?

Yes, I've used MOC, 9S and Sydbabie before. All of them can take bookings in English.

You don't need a PC to translate with Chrome. Just hit the three dotted button on the top right hand corner of the screen to open the options menu. Somewhere in there is Translate. Works on android phones / tablets and iPhones.

[Ghost2hauntU]

Seek spiritual fulfillment.
Emptiness is an ultimate state of being.


I think OP just needs to fuck well and party hard at least they be night a month.

[l337dude]

I'm happy with my "boring" life...I find joy in the simple things, and I'm content.

[jj12345]

Yes, I've used MOC, 9S and Sydbabie before. All of them can take bookings in English.

You don't need a PC to translate with Chrome. Just hit the three dotted button on the top right hand corner of the screen to open the options menu. Somewhere in there is Translate. Works on android phones / tablets and iPhones.

How accurete you find photos?

[Hitching]

Learn to play music.

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