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Weapon
30-01-2019, 08:24 AM
Recently had a comment by a regular WL i see..."you dont tip anymore".

My reasons are simple but i didn't say anything to her but it left a bad impression that i have decided not to see the gold digger again. I was going to reach for a $50 but decided against it because quite simply i don't owe a her anything!

She became a clock watcher so why should i tip? if you are going to watch the clock to the second then i would rather spend "tip money" to pay for a longer stay... makes sense right?

She doesn't appreciate i make the effort to see her regularly which provides her with steady income instead of sitting around waiting for business.

Her culture is not supposed to take tips from what i know and could be seen as offensive.

And finally she earns way more than me so I'm sure she is living a comfortable lifestyle.

Anyway heaps of other girls to see, without this drama.

What do you guys think? To tip or cut ties?

skynetaaa
30-01-2019, 08:33 AM
I guess she is Japenese? Depends, if you dont like her that much anymore, just move on

Raybo
30-01-2019, 08:38 AM
i hate hearing the stories about guys haggling or wanting special service for the same price, fucking tight arses. Pay the lady! Just how i hate girls hustling for extra as well. it is a bit more clear cut with a WL.....if the service is similar or not as good as previous visits then why does she have the right to ask for tips??

i think you have answered your own question. if i tip a girl over and above shop price FS or standard tips at RnT i tell the girl why i am tipping them.

Climax598
30-01-2019, 08:43 AM
Recently had a comment by a regular WL i see..."you dont tip anymore".

My reasons are simple but i didn't say anything to her but it left a bad impression that i have decided not to see the gold digger again. I was going to reach for a $50 but decided against it because quite simply i don't owe a her anything!

She became a clock watcher so why should i tip? if you are going to watch the clock to the second then i would rather spend "tip money" to pay for a longer stay... makes sense right?

She doesn't appreciate i make the effort to see her regularly which provides her with steady income instead of sitting around waiting for business.

Her culture is not supposed to take tips from what i know and could be seen as offensive.

And finally she earns way more than me so I'm sure she is living a comfortable lifestyle.

Anyway heaps of other girls to see, without this drama.

What do you guys think? To tip or cut ties?
No I don't give tip to WL even my regular and she never ask. Recently a WL ask tip I just say goodbye. I just don't want to create a habit that become an industry standard.

aussiegaigin
30-01-2019, 08:57 AM
Recently had a comment by a regular WL i see..."you dont tip anymore".



Maybe that is the problem. Avoid tipping in the first place unless you are paying for extra services requested or received.

Buck Henry
30-01-2019, 09:45 AM
I've experienced something similar with a WL that i was seeing often. We liked each other and had a pleasant time whenever we saw each other in the shop. I would normally pay for an hour and spend the last 20 minutes allowing her to relax and just chat. She started to cut back on the time, asking me to shower at 45 mins which i found annoying, but never mentioned. Before she went back home to China i wanted to spend a day with her so i offered her the same amount she would have earned in the shop, and we had a nice relaxing day together just sightseeing and having lunch and dinner together. She was happy she didn't have to go to work and we enjoyed the day. As we were saying our goodbyes over a drink at a bar, she decided to give me some feedback, and mentioned that i never tipped and she showed me a small portable ashtray which was on the table and said a customer bought her one of these and it made her happy. I realised that there was obviously a difference in perceptions. I thought i was being generous and considerate, whereas she thought i was stingy and inconsiderate. She's long gone now, but I've learned that its the small gestures that make a difference.
Now, if i give a tip i always make sure i mention the reason why im tipping (like extra good service or being so happy, etc) and maybe what she can do with the money. Yesterday the girl hadn't had lunch yet, so i said here's some money I'll pay for your lunch because you worked so hard to make me happy. If I'm making a return visits i might bring some chocolate, a bottle of wine, or something else small. I once gave a WL a cute little stuffed toy which reminded her of her dog and she was over the moon. I was certainly rewarded for such a small gesture.
I rarely make more than one return visit to a WL nowadays, but would suggest that if you are with a regular WL don't necessarily condition her to think she's going to get 20 or 50 dollars tip every time, mix it up, otherwise she will start taking it for granted and service will decline.

sweetpariswong
30-01-2019, 10:47 AM
I think just visit again is the best tips.

sukeong
30-01-2019, 10:59 AM
She become a clock watcher and doesn't appreciate you as a regular. Say thank you and goodbye.

Climax598
30-01-2019, 11:43 AM
I think just visit again is the best tips.
Yes very smart WL. Visit again is the best tip which very true. Without regular punters coming to visit them is hard to earn good regular income.
I don't give tip but bring lunch/friuts or small gift of I being to overseas. She is happy that I care about her. She bought me gift when she back in China. She say as long I visit her she is happy smart girl. We do sometimes go out for lunch and chat during her off day.

nxrsr20
30-01-2019, 02:44 PM
Time to move on, it's a financial transaction and the value for money is no longer there unless you feel it is worth the additional cost.

Brothelcreeper
30-01-2019, 09:42 PM
Girls work for the money. Some of them appear greedy because they earn a lot of money.

I hardly ever tip. Also you will find most of them are ungrateful as if you do something nice for them there is always some other punter giving them more or if you buy them something they expect it to be expensive as they can earn $2000 a day.

I dated a young WL last year. One day I took her shopping, spent $300 on new clothes for her, bought her lunch then paid to fuck her in a nice hotel costing me $200. All up spent $600 on her in one day and she had the cheek to tell me that I was stingy......fucked her off after that.

Another girl asked for a $500 handbag off me. I said no and she deleted me on wechat....

But........

For the last 4 months I have been seeing a Korean WL in hotels and for days out. She fucks me for free at least twice a week, often pays for lunch, buys me little gifts, sends me nice messages everyday and she is a grateful and kind person.

It is a business remember.

chrislee1981
30-01-2019, 10:00 PM
I will tip them if they go beyond another girls

CunningLinguist
30-01-2019, 11:12 PM
I never tip. I am happy for to pay for extras though. Occasionally I have bought a small gift. If a girl asks for a tip I won't return. If I like a girl I will see her again and maybe become a regular. If service gets bad I look elsewhere. I have heard that rich young asians will tip with daddy's money and this creates greedy WLs.

Climax598
31-01-2019, 12:08 AM
I never tip. I am happy for to pay for extras though. Occasionally I have bought a small gift. If a girl asks for a tip I won't return. If I like a girl I will see her again and maybe become a regular. If service gets bad I look elsewhere. I have heard that rich young asians will tip with daddy's money and this creates greedy WLs.
Yes you right some tip girls a few hundred dollars if guy see them a few hrs and the guy do D. Not only Asian give big tip others do give big tip. I just don't give tip a small gift yes. If they ask no next visit that's what happens to one girl she ask $50 I haven't visited her for 5 weeks she ask why with no reply from me if she ask again I will tell her why.

eltran
31-01-2019, 02:29 AM
She become a clock watcher and doesn't appreciate you as a regular. Say thank you and goodbye.
Yup.

I don't see the same girl more than a couple times, and because I rarely book it only happens if I show up to a regular place and they happen to both be available immediately, and feel like they'll be the best of the lineup. I've only been with a handful of girls whose service was A+ level that'd make me want to return. Two of them were in shops far enough away that I'd likely never return simply because of location, and the others weren't going to be in Australia for very long.

It's a transaction. Don't tip for nothing. Pay the arranged price. If they try a guilt trip then bail.

99% of girls provide the same level of service for either FS or massage.

No-one is a WL or ML for anything but money.

If you think they 'like you' don't be fooled, you're just a mark being played.

CunningLinguist
31-01-2019, 08:56 PM
totally agree.

i tipped a few times years ago but quickly learned the lesson: 99.9% of the time it's just a transaction, what's the point of paying more? handing over extra cash won't buy you her heart, it'll only cause her to take it for granted.

if a girl truly likes you as a person, not a customer, she'd do a lot of things for you for free. I've met two such MLs and their actions made me realize the stupidity of dropping extra cash or expensive gifts to leave a good impression.

Exactly, if you think you can buy their love with money you will be dissapointed eventually ...
Yes if a WL/ML really likes you she will make it obvious, eg. ask you out buy things for you etc.

cuteguy
31-01-2019, 09:50 PM
Exactly, if you think you can buy their love with money you will be dissapointed eventually ...
Yes if a WL/ML really likes you she will make it obvious, eg. ask you ou buy things for you etc.

Definitely right. They're working in the shop to make money. You shouldn't have to pay the girl more just because she asks you for a tip. Just imagine how many other guys the girl will ask and of course, how many guys will feel sorry for the girl and give in. The best is not to be a sucker and give her the extra tip. If she really likes you or wants to be with you, she will show it in a genuine way. She will go out with you and provide a free service or get you something in return if she is seriously attracted to you. On the other hand, if you really want to get close with a girl and she says she is too busy working or can't see you outside, move on. There are many fish in the sea. Enjoy.

Peterpecker
01-02-2019, 02:34 AM
I never tip. Have not fallen into a trap of seeing the same girl. If it is a value shop, I only pay a little extra for services but never tip, ever. Had an interesting chat after, with the Japanese spinner the other day. Nearly all her clients are young, rich, Chinese men who cum in 1-3 minutes of receiving a CBJ. She said she goes days without actually having sex. Now I know why she went off after a steady start!

Brothelcreeper
01-02-2019, 10:36 PM
I never tip. Have not fallen into a trap of seeing the same girl. If it is a value shop, I only pay a little extra for services but never tip, ever. Had an interesting chat after, with the Japanese spinner the other day. Nearly all her clients are young, rich, Chinese men who cum in 1-3 minutes of receiving a CBJ. She said she goes days without actually having sex. Now I know why she went off after a steady start!

This is very true. Most WL's I know well tell me the same. Lots of 2 minute wonders out there.

Effindahead
01-02-2019, 10:52 PM
What spinner means? Ones who spin you around?
Anyway, i did tip few times, cos i am generous. My weakness that i am way too kind. Got that alot from people...
I tip not because of the service is good.
1. I tip a wl cos it was quite day for her.
2. I tip cos the girl can guess right where i am from
3. I tip cos i felt loaded

Climax598
01-02-2019, 10:57 PM
This is very true. Most WL's I know well tell me the same. Lots of 2 minute wonders out there.
A lot of guys can't get the thing hard. So the WL only do HJ or Bbbj only.

Littlewonder
06-02-2019, 08:41 PM
Most of these girl earn more money in a week than most of us can dream off!

One in MHO should not tip unless the girl give some special service or you have a real connection with her.

There are lots and lots of girl out there all after your dollar pay the asking price I never ask or try and negotiate lower and then pay and leave.

If you really feel special or a connection then may be give her a tip I usually tip my favourites on their birthday or if i have a really great time I do not make it a regular thing.

Remember you are only another job!

jk_268
07-02-2019, 11:00 PM
What spinner means? Ones who spin you around?
Anyway, i did tip few times, cos i am generous. My weakness that i am way too kind. Got that alot from people...
I tip not because of the service is good.
1. I tip a wl cos it was quite day for her.
2. I tip cos the girl can guess right where i am from
3. I tip cos i felt loaded

Spinner = Smaller size and slightly agile

guerillacon
08-02-2019, 12:34 AM
It's expensive enough without tips and they get it tax free at these dodgy Asian shops!

bdjc
08-02-2019, 06:49 AM
can't comprehend the logic behind tipping on top of the already expensive $50 extra.
isnt it gonna raise those girls expectation and eventually inflate the cost of extras?

Carby
08-02-2019, 10:43 AM
Yea, I'm slowly beginning to come around to the idea of not tipping. It really wats into my budget. Rather save the tip and roll it into extras.

AHLUNGOR
08-02-2019, 11:15 AM
This is very true. Most WL's I know well tell me the same. Lots of 2 minute wonders out there.

Mate, not everyone can fuck for a long time, especially those who not using any medical assistance like yours truly here.

Yeah, wish I were 15 years younger and went for 10-15 min+ at a time! These days, happy to enjoy my happy ending with hands and tits without doing too many FS hard works !

Love those ladies who can prolong and give me like a 25 min HJ play before I oil up more for a Spanish completion in the final 5 !

Why fuck and be over and done with in 10 where I could lay back and enjoy for 30 ? And cheaper too without going to part 2.5 or 3.0 !

Just my two cents

Cheers

Weapon
17-02-2019, 08:29 AM
Been going on a punting rampage in the last 2 weeks to find a replacement WL. Must have seen a dozen WLs with a ML thrown in the mix.

Did i tip? well the irony of it was i didn't tip WLs but i tipped the ML, more than the norm! I went to massage because i needed a break from FS.... Ive seen this ML before and she mentioned this was her last day as she wanted to get out of the industry. Somehow still turned into sex...it was CNY, and her last day so hence the tip.

I did eventually find a replacement WL who is younger. Her visa is longer too so that's bonus, but most importantly she is very eager to please.

Out of the dozen, another 3 I would return for, 7 were OK one offs, and 1 dud. Most importantly no tips.

Weapon
17-02-2019, 08:35 AM
Love those ladies who can prolong and give me like a 25 min HJ play before I oil up more for a Spanish completion in the final 5 !
Cheers

Did you ever get to see Melody at BR? Not big enough for Spanish but the HJ build up was incredible, and it starts in the first minute.

hornedone
17-02-2019, 09:59 AM
Move on. Unappreciative bitch.

bdjc
18-02-2019, 01:29 AM
Mate, not everyone can fuck for a long time.

Why fuck and be over and done with in 10 where I could lay back and enjoy for 30 ? And cheaper too without going to part 2.5 or 3.0 !
Just my two cents
Cheers
couldn't have said better myself!
i too find rnt more enjoyable, with the suspense building up while the girl rubs my body.

wilisno
18-02-2019, 06:30 AM
Why fuck and be over and done with in 10 where I could lay back and enjoy for 30 ? And cheaper too without going to part 2.5 or 3.0 !

Just my two cents

Cheers
That’s how you do it in an FS session ? Go straight to fuck, cum and finish ?

You poor thing ! There are lots of ways to relax or keep yourself excited the whole time !

wilisno
18-02-2019, 09:02 AM
What the hell is wrong with you ? Stop attacking other posters!

Attack ? You haven’t seen it yet kid !

woods23
18-02-2019, 09:23 AM
What the hell is wrong with you ? Stop attacking other posters!

Sounds like lungor never been to a brothel before lol...I rarely have enough times for foreplay these days.

What lungor said is what most rnt guys like to hear in thier own sad small world !! Chasing the gems all thier life to taste the unwashed forbidden fruits .

sukeong
18-02-2019, 11:27 AM
What the hell is wrong with you ? Stop attacking other posters!

Huh? That was far from an attack from Wilisno. I fact for just harmless ribbing, that's considered pretty mild. Both of them been in forum for ages. I'm sure they dealt with far worse lol

the_boss_king
18-02-2019, 03:36 PM
only tip for extras, unless the service was worth it lol

RoyalFlush
19-02-2019, 01:44 PM
With WL or normal girls, showering gifts, cash/tip etc is putting girls on pedestal. Do not reward them unless they earned it. When girls feel they are being worshipped, then you officially become their orbiter. In normal world, any chance of getting laid from the position of an orbiter is close to zilch.

Read this for the awakened orbiters. It's very uplifting :)
http://www.goingyourownway.com/mgtow-lounge/avoid-beta-oribter-7791/index2.html

ManilaMan
19-02-2019, 01:46 PM
Here in Brisbane you don;t get much without tipping unfortunately. Looking forward to heading down your way sometime soon

F 16
21-02-2019, 10:45 PM
Never tip wl only if she's give you extras.

dt333
23-02-2019, 07:45 PM
I like to get extras for free, that's half the fun

F 16
23-02-2019, 08:17 PM
I like to get extras for free, that's half the fun

Fucking tight ass :