Married and caught out?

[BigDickAsian]

This one is for all those who are:
1. Married
2. Fucking WLs only

Have you guys got a game plan if one day you get found out by the missus?

Do you think divorce is inevitable?
What’s the best plan of action? Own up straight away when confronted?
Or keep making up stories hoping to get away with it?

[aussiegaigin]

Depends on how smart/dumb the missus is.

[BigDickAsian]

Depends on how smart/dumb the missus is.
Say you’ve been caught red handed by her friend who saw you coming out of a brothel.

[RoyalFlush]

Been caught twice with an affair. I dont think she will divorce me as I am too high value to her. if she does, I'm ok to be separated and continue to support her and my kid.
There are at least a couple of girls waiting for me already.

[bdjc]

Say you’ve been caught red handed by her friend who saw you coming out of a brothel.

not sure how likely this is, unless you know the wife has friends working in surry hills and you still visit ginza every week.

for me a more serious threat is when i get off the train at a station that i can't explain why, and being seen by one of our mutual friends.

had a close call years ago when i spotted a person who knew me and gf before she noticed, and quickly walked to the mens room. don't think she saw me, but even if she did, i'd have a good excuse. still, i could haved walked past the ticket gate before noticing her, then i'd have some serious explanation to do...

[toysrus]

You are over thinking it, being at a random train station does not make someone automatically suspect you were at a brothel lol. That's just your guilty conscience speaking. I would have walked up and given them a high five.

[krnboy]

You are over thinking it, being at a random train station does not make someone automatically suspect you were at a brothel lol. That's just your guilty conscience speaking. I would have walked up and given them a high five.

Slept in the train and woke up in a random station 😀

[wilisno]

Slept in the train and woke up in a random station ��

Wife : Why would you fall asleep on the train ?

Bloke : Still tired from too much punting last night !

;) ;) ;)

[rooter]

Just tell the wife you know that deep down she is bisexual and wants to have a wild threesome with you and a hot Asian chick and you were out there trying to find the hottest girl you can to join you.
She will immediately drop to her knees and suck your rock hard cock while you call the sexy Asian WL who will appear within seconds and join you both for a wild threesome and you will fuck them both in every hole and then come all over both their faces and they will fight over who gets to swallow the most of your cum.
It worked in a porno I saw once. It's worth a try ...

[doubles]

I love my wife but she is not affectionate at all. The last time we fucked was probably 2013 and then it was "hurry up". If she has a problem with it that is too bad.

[cuteguy]

I love my wife but she is not affectionate at all. The last time we fucked was probably 2013 and then it was "hurry up". If she has a problem with it that is too bad.

Sorry to hear that you have a lackluster sex life. Do you know the reason(s) why your wife doesn't want to engage in some fun times with you? Could it be the case that she is not feeling a strong sense of emotional security and closeness from you in order to want to have sex? Have a read of this:-

https://strongermarriages.com/lackluster-sex-life-flirt/

[Tavs]

You are over thinking it, being at a random train station does not make someone automatically suspect you were at a brothel lol. That's just your guilty conscience speaking. I would have walked up and given them a high five.
You were checking out a hobby shop 👍

[BlackToad]

Sorry to hear that you have a lackluster sex life. Do you know the reason(s) why your wife doesn't want to engage in some fun times with you? Could it be the case that she is not feeling a strong sense of emotional security and closeness from you in order to want to have sex? Have a read of this:-

https://strongermarriages.com/lackluster-sex-life-flirt/

Tbh I feel sorry for these wives that lose their libido. Sex is such an important and enjoyable part of life must be depressing not being able to enjoy it like losing your sense of taste so you can’t appreciate good food.

Maybe they want a bit of variety and excitement just like us blokes need sometimes, however unlike us it’s not so easy for them to just go on a punt, they need the emotional journey as well. Better to be a man at the end of the day.

[bdjc]

You are over thinking it, being at a random train station does not make someone automatically suspect you were at a brothel lol. That's just your guilty conscience speaking. I would have walked up and given them a high five.

well, when it's a stop on my way home, it's not such a big deal, but still quite dangerous if i bumped into gf's pal by accident, as i'm not good at improvisation so could have behaved/spoken suspiciously.

recently i find myself in a thornier situation:
say i live in newtown & work in city, leave office at 5:30 and get home by 6pm almost everyday. now, occassionally i leave work early at 4:00pm, take a train to artarmon to punt, but gf has a former colleague working in artarmon. i'm not sure it's easy for me to just walk up and say hi to this person, who will no doubt ask me why i'm there, and it's very difficult to give a plausible reason.

[Massaddict]

I am a sales rep and am regularly on the road so got good excuses to be in any area ie seeing customers. But as I have been doing this job for over 26 years, I always bump into someone I know.

Prefer shops with discrete entries.

M.A.

[nxrsr20]

well, when it's a stop on my way home, it's not such a big deal, but still quite dangerous if i bumped into gf's pal by accident, as i'm not good at improvisation so could have behaved/spoken suspiciously.

recently i find myself in a thornier situation:
say i live in newtown & work in city, leave office at 5:30 and get home by 6pm almost everyday. now, occassionally i leave work early at 4:00pm, take a train to artarmon to punt, but gf has a former colleague working in artarmon. i'm not sure it's easy for me to just walk up and say hi to this person, who will no doubt ask me why i'm there, and it's very difficult to give a plausible reason.

Find another place to punt? We've got plenty of options around.

[sweetpariswong]

I don't think many women cares as long as u don't make it too obvious or take disease home. I hear it all the time from my elderlies. They know it, but don't say anything or make any troubles.

[aussiegaigin]

well, when it's a stop on my way home, it's not such a big deal, but still quite dangerous if i bumped into gf's pal by accident, as i'm not good at improvisation so could have behaved/spoken suspiciously.

recently i find myself in a thornier situation:
say i live in newtown & work in city, leave office at 5:30 and get home by 6pm almost everyday. now, occassionally i leave work early at 4:00pm, take a train to artarmon to punt, but gf has a former colleague working in artarmon. i'm not sure it's easy for me to just walk up and say hi to this person, who will no doubt ask me why i'm there, and it's very difficult to give a plausible reason.

Unless this friend actually sees you going into/out of the shop, you can just tell her your boss sent you to Artarmon to drop off something for him on the way home and you are having a look around the area until your train is due. I don't know why you would be worried about that.

[doubles]

I don't think many women cares as long as u don't make it too obvious or take disease home. I hear it all the time from my elderlies. They know it, but don't say anything or make any troubles.I discussed it with my wife, told her I needed a sex life and would seek out partners online. She said "fine" and we agreed that if i was heading out on a random night for a hook-up would use the code, "i am going to look at a car". First time I did this she says "really" and looks pissed, go figure.

[AHLUNGOR]

I don't think many women cares as long as u don't make it too obvious or take disease home. I hear it all the time from my elderlies. They know it, but don't say anything or make any troubles.

Yeap, many families in Hong Kong are in this situation especially the wealthy ones in which the wives are enjoying the good life and all the materials the rich husband can provide. And the couples may be well into their 50/60 where the husbands are still active and want to fuck regularly but the wives are getting on in years and no longer can satisfy the men ! Divorce is not an option as the women don’t want to lose face or change their life style and current social status !

So yes, exactly as Paris said, they all know but turn the other way . As long as the husband do come home and clean ......... lol

Ps. Of course, many of these wives would have their own toy boy

[Pussyhands]

There are some legit paranoia here as the cost of being caught is high for some lols

[Riff888]

Yeap, many families in Hong Kong are in this situation especially the wealthy ones in which the wives are enjoying the good life and all the materials the rich husband can provide. And the couples may be well into their 50/60 where the husbands are still active and want to fuck regularly but the wives are getting on in years and no longer can satisfy the men ! Divorce is not an option as the women don’t want to lose face or change their life style and current social status !

So yes, exactly as Paris said, they all know but turn the other way . As long as the husband do come home and clean ......... lol

Ps. Of course, many of these wives would have their own toy boyI have heard this from a few Chinese friends at work.

Divorce is not an option so both lead separate lives e.g. travel separately or sleep in different rooms.

One girl said she doesn't mind her husband doing that as long as he practices safe sex and does not see the same girl on a regular basis.

I've heard Japanese girls say the same thing. They too are open to this arrangement.

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[BlackToad]

I discussed it with my wife, told her I needed a sex life and would seek out partners online. She said "fine" and we agreed that if i was heading out on a random night for a hook-up would use the code, "i am going to look at a car". First time I did this she says "really" and looks pissed, go figure.

When a woman says “fine.” it usually means “Not fine” [emoji23][emoji23][emoji23] I always know I’ve done something wrong when I hear the word “fine” from a woman.

[studsg]

I have heard this from a few Chinese friends at work.

Divorce is not an option so both lead separate lives e.g. travel separately or sleep in different rooms.

One girl said she doesn't mind her husband doing that as long as he practices safe sex and does not see the same girl on a regular basis.

I've heard Japanese girls say the same thing. They too are open to this arrangement.

Sent from my ONEPLUS A5010 using TapatalkIt's a cultural thing. In Asia, the traditional view is to turn a blind eye to maintain the well being of the family unit. Basically, think of the impact of a divorce on others like the children, elderly parents, etc.

Western culture focus on the happiness of the individual. So many won't think twice to divorce, even if it means the children are affected.

Having said that, many new generation Asian women have adopted western thinking too. So they won't tolerate infidelity either...

[doubles]

cuteguy and Blacktoad she is a funny one. I am the one who initiates discussion on how our relationship is tracking. I remember a few years ago texting her along the lines of, "how are we going? Is there anything we need to talk about?". Her response was "I will be fine when you stop asking stupid questions". LOL .Such a shame as I am so hot for her, she got bolt-ons in 2014 and I still have not cum on them LOL.

[hornedone]

cuteguy and Blacktoad she is a funny one. I am the one who initiates discussion on how our relationship is tracking. I remember a few years ago texting her along the lines of, "how are we going? Is there anything we need to talk about?". Her response was "I will be fine when you stop asking stupid questions". LOL .Such a shame as I am so hot for her, she got bolt-ons in 2014 and I still have not cum on them LOL.

Happy to oblige if she needs a good cum soaking

[sweetpariswong]

My elderly friends always call duck service
Some very handsome, like Korean boy band, they show me before :love:

[fairy]

Thats why ginza has a back door.
Always have a reason why you are in the area. Trying new restaurant or bar?

[CunningLinguist]

When a woman says “fine.” it usually means “Not fine” [emoji23][emoji23][emoji23] I always know I’ve done something wrong when I hear the word “fine” from a woman.

I thought "fine" means "go fuck yourself you cunt rat bastard" :)

[sweetpariswong]

Thats why ginza has a back door.
Always have a reason why you are in the area. Trying new restaurant or bar?

Haha, isn't this worse?? Walking out from backdoor means 100% u go there. :miao:

[AHLUNGOR]

Haha, isn't this worse?? Walking out from backdoor means 100% u go there. :miao:

There is no signage from the back door and not much traffic from the laneway, punters should be safe from there.

[kaos]

There is no signage from the back door and not much traffic from the laneway, punters should be safe from there.

Could always say you were dropping off an item you sold on ebay/gumtree, or returning a lost item to the designated address, or needed to use the bathroom, catching up with friend (kinda true lol) etc.

Depends on which excuse is most convenient

[kaos]

But if you literally walked out of a shop with a massive red BROTHEL sign out front and bump into your wife/gf and 10 of her best friends, none of those are likely to work lol

[cuteguy]

Just say you wanted to see what the girls were wearing in a brothel so you could buy her the same sexy outfits and then make love to her all night long.

[dotcumdotinyou]

Always know which brothel you're visiting the day before you punt therefore you have 24 hours to plan your excuse in case your caught...contingency planning

[penisuheddo]

Arigato
I think it would take stupid
Or greedy
Or vengeful wife
Or open mind woman having her own boy affair
To forgive husband with other girl
Jealous is in girl chromosome
Yes

[goodtime]

"i was meeting a gumtree buyer/seller"

[sukeong]

It's a cultural thing. In Asia, the traditional view is to turn a blind eye to maintain the well being of the family unit. Basically, think of the impact of a divorce on others like the children, elderly parents, etc.

Western culture focus on the happiness of the individual. So many won't think twice to divorce, even if it means the children are affected.

Having said that, many new generation Asian women have adopted western thinking too. So they won't tolerate infidelity either...

Nah its not so much western/asian thing but how independent the woman is financially, her character and such. Children is also a big factor. Heard of the famous man utd footballer Ryan giggs case? The fecker been having an affair with his own brothers wife for years. It was exposed very publicly but giggs wife still tolerated it and won't divorce. After that sordid affair, he still cheated on her again this time with a reality TV star and the wife still won't leave him. That is two very public humiliation and she won't divorce him. It was only recently the fecker cheated on her the third time she finally said enough is enough and wanted a divorce.

Some woman just dun have a backbone or are used to a certain lifestyle provided by her cheating husband. You find them across all cultures and nationalities.

[the_boss_king]

two rules

deny

deny.

[CunningLinguist]

two rules

deny

deny.

There is always three rules: deny, deny, deny!

[cuteguy]

There is always three rules: deny, deny, deny!

How about mistaken identity?

[Nejums]

Never admit guilt. Have a GPS spoofer installed on your phone to show you never left work. Pay cash.

[flukeman1]

Man any of you guys could be the next James bond haha