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wjw007
06-05-2019, 10:13 PM
Can feel horny and stay hard and rock for even one and half hr, not a problem. But no feeling to cum! Embarrassing

dodo
06-05-2019, 10:21 PM
It might be medicine related ( eg some anti depressants cause impaired cumming) ask a doc

Climax598
06-05-2019, 10:35 PM
We man have a lots of problems ED, PEJ, Not able to cum, small dick, too large dick, no erection, anymore.

wjw007
06-05-2019, 10:36 PM
i don’t take any medicine, but a little stressful I admit. Just don’t wanna cum even thought I can keep fucking for at least 2 hrs.

harrycd
06-05-2019, 10:40 PM
i don’t take any medicine, but a little stressful I admit. Just don’t wanna cum even thought I can keep fucking for at least 2 hrs.

It's either mental or you jack off too much/too hard.
Either or, you need to relax lol

wjw007
06-05-2019, 10:40 PM
What’s PEJ?

And I’m worried that maybe I’ve got no able to cum. However i cum every time with my ex. 2 times a day, maybe I’m old?

wjw007
06-05-2019, 10:42 PM
Oh just found out your correct since broke up with ex I jerk off a lot, the problem is I pressure a lot on my little bro, that’s prob why I m not able to cum when I fuck the loose Vagina

wjw007
06-05-2019, 10:43 PM
Yes, jerk off too hard, cause the problem

xboyx
06-05-2019, 10:51 PM
I'm the opposite dude, find it very hard to cum with jerking off now. Hand job? No way I'd cum easily. Blow job? No way either, pretty hard for me to cum on a BBBJ these days. I tried CIM 3 times 2-3 months ago, no success so I've given up on ticking off CIM from my bucket list. Of course there are exceptions with HJ and BJ. I can only cum in the warmth of a pussy, given that the girl is attractive to me.

Climax598
07-05-2019, 12:31 AM
PEJ = pre ejection

wjw007
07-05-2019, 12:41 AM
never pre ejection only pro

wjw007
07-05-2019, 12:42 AM
I'm the opposite dude, find it very hard to cum with jerking off now. Hand job? No way I'd cum easily. Blow job? No way either, pretty hard for me to cum on a BBBJ these days. I tried CIM 3 times 2-3 months ago, no success so I've given up on ticking off CIM from my bucket list. Of course there are exceptions with HJ and BJ. I can only cum in the warmth of a pussy, given that the girl is attractive to me.

I’m the same. Hard to cum from bbbj

sukeong
07-05-2019, 12:44 AM
Yeah mine is pretty desensitized too. Many wl and ml complain I last too long lol. ML with no technique on hj will be frustrating as they dun know how to hit the sweet spot. Condom sex with WL using too much lube is almost a no go so Sometimes I just take a break and say forget it.

wjw007
07-05-2019, 12:47 AM
I’ve been thinking if anyone wanna punt with me together lately. Sometimes I went to the shop lonely makes me feel awkward

wjw007
07-05-2019, 12:49 AM
I had a couple of time I can’t feel anything when using condom, so uncomfortable. Plus the pussy is not tight, I then had to jerk off and cum into wl’s mouse

wjw007
07-05-2019, 12:50 AM
I had a couple of time I can’t feel anything when using condom, so uncomfortable. Plus the pussy is not tight, I then had to jerk off and cum into wl’s mouth

Lostinblonde
13-08-2019, 09:45 PM
same problem here, can fuck for ages but cannot cum

Dba
16-08-2019, 12:44 PM
Had this problem years ago. For me the answer was to relax and be in the moment. I would be mid-session thinking and thinking and thinking... what I cum too soon? What if I can’t cum? Is she enjoying it? Do I find her attractive? Did I waste my money? Is this sheet clean? Will she mind if I change position? Etc etc. I’ve long since learned that what suits me best is a high quality girl/environment where I can relax, do what I want, and be a bit selfish. I focus entirely on my own pleasure (selfish, but I’m paying!), and block other thoughts out. If I find my mind going to worried thoughts then I focus on touching the wls body and getting back into it. Worked - and still works - for me.

clausedd
16-08-2019, 03:53 PM
Could be that you are thinking way too much. It happens sometime.

zhfac42
16-08-2019, 04:54 PM
could just simply because stress. Relax and enjoy the moment.

trampslikeus55
16-08-2019, 06:48 PM
The answer not given is how often are you in the saddle. Sometimes I would wander all week and by Sunday you are just blowing dust anyway. Now I am struggling at 4 visits a week. But this is nothing more than my age. If you cannot finish at 1 visit a week then you should check your health but if you try more than that then you just might be ok and what is happening is going to be normal for you. Then the only problem you will really have is finding the WL who can take 2 hours straight😁 I find that I am better when the weather warms up also.

Forward Must Hang
16-08-2019, 08:09 PM
I had a couple of time I can’t feel anything when using condom, so uncomfortable. Plus the pussy is not tight, I then had to jerk off and cum into wl’s mouse


I had a couple of time I can’t feel anything when using condom, so uncomfortable. Plus the pussy is not tight, I then had to jerk off and cum into wl’s mouth

I'm glad you left the first post and didn't just edit the typo.

Lol, if the pussy isn't tight, go for the mouse!

FMH

yeahnah
17-08-2019, 12:58 AM
Try not jerking off for a few days hahah

cheetah2
01-09-2019, 02:05 PM
jerking too much and also too much lube used by WL

I agree that too much lube used is the problem, less sensation.

azzzn
01-09-2019, 02:25 PM
Try not to jerk for a week or 2 before session.. then increase frequency [emoji23]

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niva321
01-09-2019, 04:14 PM
This is happening to me too.

I've seen about 6 ladies in the past 2 weeks, unable to fuck them to my satisfaction for half those encounters.

Basically, it's a combination of too much masturbation, combined with porn.
In my case, arousal was re-wired and linked to porn (1st issue) and getting too used to orgasming from hand not vagina (2nd issue).

I think solution is to take a break from jacking off, and porn. I'll see a lady in about a week, see if condition improves. I am only 26 after all, I have so many fun years ahead of me :D

Macbeth_oz
01-09-2019, 05:09 PM
I am old and it is something that comes with age. Jerk off less stop thinking too much and drink plenty of water. Dehydration can effect a good orgasm.