Does your wife/gf know you are a punter?

[Cayman]

Just wondering if your missus'es know about your punting activities and, if not, how you keep them from finding out? Or how they have caught you out?
I've had a few near misses recently and want to hear your experiences...

[BigDickAsian]

I think she suspects it. One of her gfs caught out the husband and now they getting a divorce.

[Yogurt]

Man are all punter since we all were born , woman knew it but they dont say it out

[sonan]

Leave some bullets to ur wife or gf and they won’t suspect

[rooter]

There is a difference in Western and Asian cultures.
In Asian cultures punting is much more common.
The wives suspect that their husbands are probably punting. They are not stupid or blind.
They are not happy about it of course, but they don't ask too many questions and as long as the hubby comes home and provides for her and the kids then everything is OK. What you don't know won't hurt you.
If she gets advice from her mother or sisters they will say things like"men are men" "he is a hard worker" "he is a good father" "he provides for you and your kids" "you won't find a better man, they are all the same" etc.
Western men punt less and punting is less socially acceptable and punting is not tolerated by wives.
If a Western wife finds out the hubby is punting she takes it personally and there is big trouble and often separation and divorce. If she seeks advice from her mum or sister or girl friends they will say "leave the fucken cunt! kick him out of the house!"
These are generalizations of course and there are always exceptions but it is generally true in most cases.

[hornedone]

Hence us white ass honkies punt with asian babes; what a way to go out!

[CunningLinguist]

There is a difference in Western and Asian cultures.
In Asian cultures punting is much more common.
The wives suspect that their husbands are probably punting. They are not stupid or blind.
They are not happy about it of course, but they don't ask too many questions and as long as the hubby comes home and provides for her and the kids then everything is OK. What you don't know won't hurt you.
If she gets advice from her mother or sisters they will say things like"men are men" "he is a hard worker" "he is a good father" "he provides for you and your kids" "you won't find a better man, they are all the same" etc.
Western men punt less and punting is less socially acceptable and punting is not tolerated by wives.
If a Western wife finds out the hubby is punting she takes it personally and there is big trouble and often separation and divorce. If she seeks advice from her mum or sister or girl friends they will say "leave the fucken cunt! kick him out of the house!"
These are generalizations of course and there are always exceptions but it is generally true in most cases.

What about ABC wives ?

[Labia Vortex]

If wife found out.... she would no longer be my wife

[Forward Must Hang]

I don't know what would piss my wife off more:

a. Yes, I punt, but only RnT not FS; or

b. We have sex 4 times a year - what did you tricking expect me to do?

- FMH

[Cayman]

What about ABC wives ?

I think ABC wives would be more like the western wives, zero tolerance policy!

[Cayman]

I don't know what would piss my wife off more:

a. Yes, I punt, but only RnT not FS; or

b. We have sex 4 times a year - what did you tricking expect me to do?

- FMH

I would go with A, but I would have to heavily qualify it! Only RnT not FS, unless the ML is hot and I can convince her to go all the way with me, usually via my daty skills.

Don't think that will go well, I'm out on the street for sure!!

[dodo]

Does anyone remember the Bobbit case.. I know my urges would cost me....rock... paper...

[mytengafun71]

I am sort of lucky, I am now married to a mainland Chinese woman. I just asked her what her thoughts are - “men have stress, that a wife can’t always help with.”

Even bigger bonus she gives me $200 a week out of her pay to let me go have fun, but I also ignore her gambling. [emoji23][emoji12]

In saying that I use to be married to an Aussie woman, she would had beat me if she knew it went on.


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[kenlewis]

Leave some bullets to ur wife or gf and they won’t suspect
Yes Fulfill our responsibilities to avoid suspicious :shout:

[Cayman]

I am sort of lucky, I am now married to a mainland Chinese woman. I just asked her what her thoughts are - “men have stress, that a wife can’t always help with.”

Even bigger bonus she gives me $200 a week out of her pay to let me go have fun, but I also ignore her gambling. [emoji23][emoji12]

In saying that I use to be married to an Aussie woman, she would had beat me if she knew it went on.


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That sounds very reasonable, I wonder does it extend to cheating generally or just punting?

[mytengafun71]

That sounds very reasonable, I wonder does it extend to cheating generally or just punting?

She told me no feelings involved, the heart must stay with her and to make sure I use protection. She said she was to old to have a baby in the house.

I though you don’t mention std, just a baby.[emoji23][emoji23][emoji23]


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[BigDickAsian]

There is a difference in Western and Asian cultures.
In Asian cultures punting is much more common.
The wives suspect that their husbands are probably punting. They are not stupid or blind.
They are not happy about it of course, but they don't ask too many questions and as long as the hubby comes home and provides for her and the kids then everything is OK. What you don't know won't hurt you.
If she gets advice from her mother or sisters they will say things like"men are men" "he is a hard worker" "he is a good father" "he provides for you and your kids" "you won't find a better man, they are all the same" etc.
Western men punt less and punting is less socially acceptable and punting is not tolerated by wives.
If a Western wife finds out the hubby is punting she takes it personally and there is big trouble and often separation and divorce. If she seeks advice from her mum or sister or girl friends they will say "leave the fucken cunt! kick him out of the house!"
These are generalizations of course and there are always exceptions but it is generally true in most cases.

I don't think it's got anything to do with culture. It's got more to do with the female's level of independence. If your partner is an independent woman, regardless of culture, she'll kick you to the kerb for your infidelities. If she needs you to keep giving her the lifestyle she wants then she'll probably keep quiet about it.

[wilisno]

I don't think it's got anything to do with culture. It's got more to do with the female's level of independence. If your partner is an independent woman, regardless of culture, she'll kick you to the kerb for your infidelities. If she needs you to keep giving her the lifestyle she wants then she'll probably keep quiet about it.
Exactly ! Depends on who needs whom more.

[Sydreader2017]

I am sort of lucky, I am now married to a mainland Chinese woman. I just asked her what her thoughts are - “men have stress, that a wife can’t always help with.”

Even bigger bonus she gives me $200 a week out of her pay to let me go have fun, but I also ignore her gambling. [emoji23][emoji12]

In saying that I use to be married to an Aussie woman, she would had beat me if she knew it went on.



its a deal, exchange for her enjoyment of gamble

[mytengafun71]

its a deal, exchange for her enjoyment of gamble

Yeah, we all have our vices. She has another one which I am more keen, she wants to watch me with another girl. I am very tempted but I am afraid it either be to exciting and doesn’t last long or I’d not be able to perform at all with the pressure of being watched by my wife. [emoji23][emoji23][emoji23]


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[DoMoSan]

It is in our nature to be punters. Some do it better than others. There is no cat that don’t eat fish.
If you do get caught just be prepared to lose half your shit.
Question should be how to not get caught.

[sr71]

The outcome would be instant divorce in most cases.😂

[thaifetish]

1. check your iPhone settings for location history, turn them OFF, turn off any logins to google too because MAPS will remember your locations.
2. never call a business with your phone, even if you delete the call you can still see the number on your bill
3. allow for enough time to shower afterwards, join a gym if you have to and start going there, if you go regularly for a 1 hour workout and shower there afterwards you will be able to carry your towel and favorite very smelly shower gel (the smellier ones will cover up any massage oil or perfume)
4. park near something else that you can say you were at if someone you know sees your car
5. wear something that people won't think you'd wear (if you work in a suit, wear a hi-viz to your punt and a hat and sunnies) if your mother in law sees you there will be more doubt in her mind that it wasn't your lookalike
6. carry handwash in your glovebox, wash you cock and balls afterwards! any bacteria that hasn't taken a hold will be killed
7. stash cash away for your punt, dont go to the ATM on the way
8. punt on your own time, never family time. skive off work rather than abandoning the family on a sunday afternoon

[Cayman]

1. check your iPhone settings for location history, turn them OFF, turn off any logins to google too because MAPS will remember your locations.
2. never call a business with your phone, even if you delete the call you can still see the number on your bill
3. allow for enough time to shower afterwards, join a gym if you have to and start going there, if you go regularly for a 1 hour workout and shower there afterwards you will be able to carry your towel and favorite very smelly shower gel (the smellier ones will cover up any massage oil or perfume)
4. park near something else that you can say you were at if someone you know sees your car
5. wear something that people won't think you'd wear (if you work in a suit, wear a hi-viz to your punt and a hat and sunnies) if your mother in law sees you there will be more doubt in her mind that it wasn't your lookalike
6. carry handwash in your glovebox, wash you cock and balls afterwards! any bacteria that hasn't taken a hold will be killed
7. stash cash away for your punt, dont go to the ATM on the way
8. punt on your own time, never family time. skive off work rather than abandoning the family on a sunday afternoon

All good advice. Any suggestions for keeping a separate mobile number for texting? I've tried keeping a separate prepaid phone at work that I can SMS remotely from, but it's not very reliable.

[CunningLinguist]

6. carry handwash in your glovebox, wash you cock and balls afterwards! any bacteria that hasn't taken a hold will be killed


Not sure about this one, so you lather up your junk after a punt in the car ?
Why not just have a shower at the establishment ...

[Massaddict]

Am quite lucky. My Thai wife moved back home 12 months ago to be close to her ill mum.

When I'm in Thailand my wife frequently says "go have a massage" . I don't know if extras are the norm for your spouse.

Must ask her one day when she tells me to go have a massage if that includes extras.

M.A.

[blanet]

All good advice. Any suggestions for keeping a separate mobile number for texting? I've tried keeping a separate prepaid phone at work that I can SMS remotely from, but it's not very reliable.

Haven't tried it myself but hushed app looks good.. Easier to hide than a burner phone. Just reinstall the app when needed. Might even be able to pay using visa gift cards if Bitcoin is too troublesome.

[Cayman]

Haven't tried it myself but hushed app looks good.. Easier to hide than a burner phone. Just reinstall the app when needed. Might even be able to pay using visa gift cards if Bitcoin is too troublesome.

A secret second mobile number would be great but I think it's too hard to keep reinstalling the app everytime. Right now I'm using pushbullet to access sms on a burner phone at work, and it's easy enough to logon so I can text while the wife is in the bathroom etc. but like I said this is not reliable. I stood up a mistress once because this setup dropped out for a few hours!

[GoldfishMan]

The outcome would be instant divorce in most cases.😂
You'd be surprised how much women are willing to tolerate if they love their man. Women are so much more mature in their views of how relationships work. I'm not saying you don't keep your punting on the down-low, but do it with the understanding that it will keep your relationship with your partner easier and less awkward, not because it will "end" your relationship.
GFs and mistresses might do it, certainly not punting!

[goodtime]

question for punters with wife, what is the safest way to use wechat?

[krnboy]

question for punters with wife, what is the safest way to use wechat?

Delete the app...

Nah, once you install it, hide the app in a folder and go into the app setting and disable notifications.

If you use android phone, download a launcher that can replace the app icon to a different one, e.g. a calculator or an app you don't normally use

[AHLUNGOR]

question for punters with wife, what is the safest way to use wechat?

Mate, if you are married and Not wanting a divorce any time soon, Don’t do it !

Never give out your mobile to any girl, any shop, never add any WeChat or other social media. If you do, you will make a mistake or have a slip up sooner or later, good luck !

[RoyalFlush]

You'd be surprised how much women are willing to tolerate if they love their man. Women are so much more mature in their views of how relationships work. I'm not saying you don't keep your punting on the down-low, but do it with the understanding that it will keep your relationship with your partner easier and less awkward, not because it will "end" your relationship.
GFs and mistresses might do it, certainly not punting!

Ive 2 thoughts on this. When a girl asks me "do you have a gf?" My answer to most of them except chinese girls is "yeah, I have some.." most would laugh and probe a bit more. However, more than 50% of Chinese girls I encounterered are less tolerant with polygamy, so I wont use this as an answer on them.

I'm somewhat skeptical when a girl agrees to bring another girl into the mix. Ever played The Witcher Wild Hunt on ps4? if you choose to have 3some, both girls will leave. But again, always good to take risks and learn from mistakes.

[cacheordure]

Mate, if you are married and Not wanting a divorce any time soon, Don’t do it !

Never give out your mobile to any girl, any shop, never add any WeChat or other social media. If you do, you will make a mistake or have a slip up sooner or later, good luck !

On Samsung, use Secure Folders... Have have a totally different environment in there with different profile and apps...

With different PIN to get in. Just make sure only your finger print is registered in the phone. As finger print works to get in.

[the big Z]

I've got a xiaomi phone and you can set up a second account by typing in a different pin account.

[Kogey]

Has anyones relationship or marriage been broken up by punting. Would be curious to hear the story!

[krnboy]

Has anyones relationship or marriage been broken up by punting. Would be curious to hear the story!

Create a new thread and see

[storry_teller]

Create a new thread and see
What name of topic should I use, hm?

[PervySage]

What name of topic should I use, hm?

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