Would you marry an Asian Girl..?

[Labia Vortex]

Everyone has tried the delights of Asian women
We all have our favourite race
If I had my time over again I’d like to have married a tall Korean Girl
Preferably one that hasn’t had work done
Oh well perhaps in the next life

[Brothelcreeper]

I did and highly recommended.

They are servile, she does the washing, cleaning, cooking, ironing and looks after the kids so highly recommended. Has a high work ethic and good family values,

Marry an Asian. Winner Winner Chicken Dinner.

[aussiegaigin]

There is old saying along the lines of "You can take a girl out of Asia, But you can't take Asia out of the girl".

From my own experiences, and those of many friends, any attempt at a long term relationship with a foreign born woman is fraught with danger, as they usually just cannot adapt to our cultures and eventually want to pack up and go back home.

They might be good for the first couple of years. after that it can be downhill.

[hyperultra]

There is old saying along the lines of "You can take a girl out of Asia, But you can't take Asia out of the girl".

From my own experiences, and those of many friends, any attempt at a long term relationship with a foreign born woman is fraught with danger, as they usually just cannot adapt to our cultures and eventually want to pack up and go back home.

They might be good for the first couple of years. after that it can be downhill.

I dont agree. Most of the Asians I have dated love Australia, and their families emigrated from much poorer countries. Unless the lady has children overseas in her home town, there is a strong tendency to stay in Australia

[wilisno]

There is old saying along the lines of "You can take a girl out of Asia, But you can't take Asia out of the girl".

From my own experiences, and those of many friends, any attempt at a long term relationship with a foreign born woman is fraught with danger, as they usually just cannot adapt to our cultures and eventually want to pack up and go back home.

They might be good for the first couple of years. after that it can be downhill.

You mean having a long term relationship with a girl of your same race has no danger ? And last longer ? ;) ;) ;)

[mrzhang]

I did and highly recommended.

They are servile, she does the washing, cleaning, cooking, ironing and looks after the kids so highly recommended. Has a high work ethic and good family values,

Marry an Asian. Winner Winner Chicken Dinner.

Yea but he who still punts and can’t be loyal. Good choice. Hypocrite.

[Labia Vortex]

Asian woman servility is a generalisation
A mate has a Japanese wife.
She is a bloody Samurai

[Guymartin420]

Doesn’t matter if Asian or not. If I want to marry Someone, I will marry her...

[wilisno]

Doesn’t matter if Asian or not. If I want to marry Someone, I will marry her...

Good answer ! ;) ;) ;)

[liminal]

Asian woman servility is a generalisation
A mate has a Japanese wife.
She is a bloody Samurai


Agree..............

[cuteguy]

In some cultures, you marry into their family and therefore you must support her family back home. The Filipinos are really good at this.

[dotcumdotinyou]

I married a Korean eleven years ago and I'm Australian with an Italian heritage...
Six of the best years of my life, then after our third child was born her depression set in and the last four years were nothing more than co-existence. I moved out a little over year ago as the conflict was escalating causing too much stress for the children, and we've been in the court system ever since. Luckily I played hard at the beginning and now after some compromising we're almost finished.
I'd do it again, just looking at the pictures of my three beautiful children is testament to that, although I don't get on with my ex and we argue whenever we see each other (although it's not as bad now and she's finally beginning to focus on the children's mental well being), it wasn't the different cultures that drove us apart.
I still have a lot of Korean friends both here and in Korea that I communicate with on kakao talk, and a Korean close friend I see every week or two is trying to set me up with her divorced friend (who was also married to an Australian but of Greek heritage), I tell her I'm trying to settle into the custody routine right now and am focusing on my children and am not ready for a relationship right now...but she still hints at it every time I see her.

[hyperultra]

Yea but he who still punts and can’t be loyal. Good choice. Hypocrite.

If there isnt a forum rule against personal attacks, there should be one. We are on shaky ground if we start judging each others morals

[Labia Vortex]

Hyper ultra....we are all immoral...lol

[mrzhang]

If there isnt a forum rule against personal attacks, there should be one. We are on shaky ground if we start judging each others morals

Much to learn and absorb from thee wee forum you inhabit.

[aussiegaigin]

You mean having a long term relationship with a girl of your same race has no danger ? And last longer ? ;) ;) ;)

I don't mean that at all. It was not part of the OP's question.

Certainly same-race marriages can fail but "Asian culture withdrawal" is not one of causes.

[sleepy57]

The race does not matter , all women are the same .Once that GOLD RING goes on the left hand the downhill slide begins !!!!!!
After a couple of years the novelty wears off & the same old root gets boring .
Just MHO

[warwick1]

I would marry an Asian but whether she would want to marry me is another question:grimace:

[Ata]

Be careful of the illusions that many cultures portray outwardly. Your not marrying an Asian your marrying a person with a destinct personality.
That being said there are plenty of second generation Asians who fit the Australian way of life.

[DownUnda]

Fuck no, lol ! Like seriously no.

[YI88]

I did and highly recommended.

Same here. My main advice is to wait until you find for someone who already has PR. That seems to be the only way know that she is not marrying you just to get it.

[AHLUNGOR]

Everyone has tried the delights of Asian women
We all have our favourite race
If I had my time over again I’d like to have married a tall Korean Girl
Preferably one that hasn’t had work done
Oh well perhaps in the next life

A general question like this is pointless ?

Sorry mate, too many variables and no one set rules for all?

For example :

1. Are you talking about working ladies ?

2. Are you talking about Asian ladies came from overseas and just here for the study - like Uni student Not English Visa schools - and Not working!

3. Are you talking about ABC who’s born here and basically a banana

4. Now let’s go overseas, you met this lady in an Asian country - she is not a working girl just average Asian girl - how do you even get to meet her?

And then yourself :

You are in your 20’s, never married ?

You are in your 30’s divorces no children ?

You are in your 40’s divorced with children and paying child support ?

You are in your 50’s, divorced or widowed, no children to support, financially well off and just want to have a second spring with a young lady for the rest of your life ??

So, which situation would you like people to comment on ??


Ps. Lots of more matured Aussie gentlemen are marrying a bit younger Asian ladies from overseas (plenty of agents are running this business arrangement) and its usually their second or third marriage , but they all seems living very happily ever after (some have children between them) some are caring the children from their respective previous marriages) - if the weekend scenes from Parramatta Westfield is anything to go by, these guys had never been happier until they met the Asian ladies they are holding hands with ! And I’m Not talking about a Sixty something grey hair with a 20 year old babe, more like a 50 yr old with a 30/40 milf !

Just what I saw every weekend!

[Niceguy11]

I would love to marry a Chinese girl. Sichuan and Chongqing girls are a very beautiful. Pale white skin beauties !

[liminal]

A general question like this is pointless ?

Sorry mate, too many variables and no one set rules for all?

For example :

1. Are you talking about working ladies ?

2. Are you talking about Asian ladies came from overseas and just here for the study - like Uni student Not English Visa schools - and Not working!

3. Are you talking about ABC who’s born here and basically a banana

4. Now let’s go overseas, you met this lady in an Asian country - she is not a working girl just average Asian girl - how do you even get to meet her?

And then yourself :

You are in your 20’s, never married ?

You are in your 30’s divorces no children ?

You are in your 40’s divorced with children and paying child support ?

You are in your 50’s, divorced or widowed, no children to support, financially well off and just want to have a second spring with a young lady for the rest of your life ??

So, which situation would you like people to comment on ??



Ps. Lots of more matured Aussie gentlemen are marrying a bit younger Asian ladies from overseas (plenty of agents are running this business arrangement) and its usually their second or third marriage , but they all seems living very happily ever after (some have children between them) some are caring the children from their respective previous marriages) - if the weekend scenes from Parramatta Westfield is anything to go by, these guys had never been happier until they met the Asian ladies they are holding hands with ! And I’m Not talking about a Sixty something grey hair with a 20 year old babe, more like a 50 yr old with a 30/40 milf !

Just what I saw every weekend!

Articulate............

[liminal]

I suggest this thread be merged with would you marry a massage lady working lady

[storry_teller]

Thought you like Korean Dahyun

I would love to marry a Chinese girl. Sichuan and Chongqing girls are a very beautiful. Pale white skin beauties !

[Niceguy11]

Thought you like Korean Dahyun

Hehe ohhhh yes, I like her too. I like all Asians but Chinese are my favourite.

[trick]

Yep, there are a few Asian girls i would marry and they aren't in the industry

[PervySage]

yeh.... If everything clicked why not??

I think Alhungor has said it best.....

[BlackToad]

I would love to marry a Chinese girl. Sichuan and Chongqing girls are a very beautiful. Pale white skin beauties !

Don’t the Chinese say Sichuan girls are the most beautiful but also the most hot tempered (emotional)?

[Niceguy11]

Don’t the Chinese say Sichuan girls are the most beautiful but also the most hot tempered (emotional)?

I would say from experience this is definitely correct Blacktoad.

[CunningLinguist]

I'm pretty sure LV means a non WL/ML, since anybody that marries a WL/ML is insane :)
So just like any other race it depends.
But if she has strong family ties and does not really want to be an aussie then when things get rough her elder family who probably hate you will whisper all kinds of shit to her and then it will just go to shit ...
Some generalisations:
Sichuan chicks are hot tempered like Sichuan cuisine, full of chilli!
Shanghai chicks are overly emotional, fun to be around when happy but fucking bad news when not happy with you!
Thai chicks are loyal, but if you cross them they will use the entire Thai population to make sure you suffer for the rest of your life...
Japanese chicks with snaggle teeth are cute, but according to AG they will leave without warning ...

[xboyx]

I married a Korean eleven years ago and I'm Australian with an Italian heritage...
Six of the best years of my life, then after our third child was born her depression set in and the last four years were nothing more than co-existence. I moved out a little over year ago as the conflict was escalating causing too much stress for the children, and we've been in the court system ever since. Luckily I played hard at the beginning and now after some compromising we're almost finished.
I'd do it again, just looking at the pictures of my three beautiful children is testament to that, although I don't get on with my ex and we argue whenever we see each other (although it's not as bad now and she's finally beginning to focus on the children's mental well being), it wasn't the different cultures that drove us apart.
I still have a lot of Korean friends both here and in Korea that I communicate with on kakao talk, and a Korean close friend I see every week or two is trying to set me up with her divorced friend (who was also married to an Australian but of Greek heritage), I tell her I'm trying to settle into the custody routine right now and am focusing on my children and am not ready for a relationship right now...but she still hints at it every time I see her.

interesting! is she a normal girl or WL/ML? is she as hot as KPop girl style or an average/above average K girl? when we talk about K girl and marrying one, we all think about a glamorous K pop girl like you'd see in K pop vids.
so you have no issue with cultural difference? personal conflict over time drive you apart?

[dotcumdotinyou]

She was a normal girl xb
She was just an average K girl, the manufactured K pop girls (a lot of them have their jaws broken and reset to get that look, and I've heard that those that aren't tall enough have their legs broken and then stretched) are an extreme. All my friends are average K girls but that's the look I like.
Cultural differences was never an issue, it was her depression that drove us apart.

[BuryYourDead]

I did and highly recommended.

They are servile, she does the washing, cleaning, cooking, ironing and looks after the kids so highly recommended. Has a high work ethic and good family values,

Marry an Asian. Winner Winner Chicken Dinner.

I agree sir.

From my experience, the negatives can be....
Japanese women will scorch the earth and leave you on a whim. Generally for some no backbone, jellyfish of a man that they can manipulate.
Chinese are very money orientated. Money is more important than happiness. Money is God.
South East Asians (Indonesian, Cambodian, Thai, etc..) are super loyal. Marriage and saving face are vital concepts to grasp if you wish to delve in.
Koreans are.... somewhat shallow. Appearance is placed on a pedestal, at the risk of losing a relationship.

Positives are as the user Brothelcreeper said.

Just my opinion bear in mind.

[hyperultra]

I agree sir.

From my experience, the negatives can be....
Japanese women will scorch the earth and leave you on a whim. Generally for some no backbone, jellyfish of a man that they can manipulate.
Chinese are very money orientated. Money is more important than happiness. Money is God.
South East Asians (Indonesian, Cambodian, Thai, etc..) are super loyal. Marriage and saving face are vital concepts to grasp if you wish to delve in.
Koreans are.... somewhat shallow. Appearance is placed on a pedestal, at the risk of losing a relationship.

Positives are as the user Brothelcreeper said.

Just my opinion bear in mind.

Nice insights.


I agree sir.

From my experience, the negatives can be....
Japanese women will scorch the earth

I havent dated many Japanese women. What does this mean?

[Riff888]

First marriage, a Vietnamese girl who grew up in Maitland since she was 2 years old. A real tight ass ball breaker. I was faithful for a good 8 years.

About to marry a Thai girl, close to my age divorced with grown up kids in Bangkok. So far, so good.

I must be a sucker for punishment 🤣

[hyperultra]

First marriage, a Vietnamese girl who grew up in Maitland since she was 2 years old. A real tight ass ball breaker. I was faithful for a good 8 years.

About to marry a Thai girl, close to my age divorced with grown up kids in Bangkok. So far, so good.

I must be a sucker for punishment 🤣

Hope she has an innate love of affection and she worships the ground you walk on. Hope you repay the love and give her security.
Thats the deal isn't it?

[Riff888]

Hope she has an innate love of affection and she worships the ground you walk on. Hope you repay the love and give her security.
Thats the deal isn't it?

I just hope she puts up with me 🤣

She works hard here doing 3 jobs and she paid the full amount for the partner visa subclass 820.

She was going to pay another $5k to an immigration agent but I read up about it and did it myself.

So we're stuck with each other for another 2 years at least.

I've stopped punting now, although I think about it on a daily basis. Especially my regulars.

There's a definite difference in Thai women. The girls from poor backgrounds versus well educated girls.

These girls wouldn't dream about being a WL, it's not even an option.

These girls are probably more reliable for the longer term.

[sydpunt]

First marriage, a Vietnamese girl who grew up in Maitland since she was 2 years old. A real tight ass ball breaker. I was faithful for a good 8 years.

About to marry a Thai girl, close to my age divorced with grown up kids in Bangkok. So far, so good.

I must be a sucker for punishment 🤣

Sorry for being crude, was the viet girl stingy or she has a tight asshole?

Cant really tell especially in this forum

[dotcumdotinyou]

Sorry to say this riff and it probably comes as my conflict is so fresh right now and the realisation sets in that I've lost so much...but...ARE YOU FUCKING STUPID.

Animals (even insects) learn from their mistakes and don't make the same mistake twice. And after losing so much from one failed marriage you going for another???
Have you forgotten the hurt and anguish you were put through, are you a glutton for punishment???
After hearing all the stories from the dads group I've been going to I'm beginning to understand why men harm and self harm..something I never understood before.

Having gotten that off my chest if a certain friend of my ex came back to the country to spend time with me I'd be happy to marry her!!!

[rooter]

I have never married an Asian girl or any other girl for that matter and I never will.
Marriage isn’t for me.
But I have worked with a lot of Asian women
No not young hotties, mainly middle aged ladies
Anyway my point is I have always found them to be very nurturing generous and caring.
They always bring me lots of yummy home made food to eat.
The Aussie women never do this. They won’t even give you a chip. Lol!
The wog women are pretty generous too but the Asian women are the best.
Maybe I have just been lucky and been with the nice ones or maybe they are generally all like that.
I don’t know.

[dotcumdotinyou]

Because of my kids background rooter I'm surrounded at school pick up (when its my turn) by Asian MILFs and they share food, drinks, lollies and home made cupcakes or cake (when its their child's birthday). And they're all trying to out do each other so each year the feast gets better and better.

[Riff888]

Sorry to say this riff and it probably comes as my conflict is so fresh right now and the realisation sets in that I've lost so much...but...ARE YOU FUCKING STUPID.

Animals (even insects) learn from their mistakes and don't make the same mistake twice. And after losing so much from one failed marriage you going for another???
Have you forgotten the hurt and anguish you were put through, are you a glutton for punishment???
After hearing all the stories from the dads group I've been going to I'm beginning to understand why men harm and self harm..something I never understood before.

Having gotten that off my chest if a certain friend of my ex came back to the country to spend time with me I'd be happy to marry her!!!

Yes you are right and that divorce ripped my heart out, the reason I started punting.

But the punting life is not for me either, I basically only saw 2 private girls for the last year.

My dad's on his third marriage, my mum on her second and they seem happy. So I'll give this a go.

I always thought I only get on with WLs until I met this girl. I even asked my Thai WL friend if this girl was a WL. But she's not, the Thai community in Sydney is small and everyone seems to know each other, what they do and their visa status.

[dotcumdotinyou]

Good luck to you I hope it works out this time.

[Riff888]

Good luck to you I hope it works out this time.

Thank you.
It did take me 5 years to heal.
Seeing my kids every fortnight does help a lot.

I can't understand why mum's would not let their kids see their dad's. This is the biggest issue for separated dad's. The only thing I can think of is more child support.

Hope you have a good outcome.

[Labia Vortex]

The CHILD SUPPORT AGENCY are directly responsible for many male suicides in this country
They are the most vile repugnant aresholes on the planet
They are answerable to no one and ride roughshod over peoples lives

[paddington244]

riff i hope it works well for you
shane

[hyperultra]

I have never married an Asian girl or any other girl for that matter and I never will.
Marriage isn’t for me.
But I have worked with a lot of Asian women
No not young hotties, mainly middle aged ladies
Anyway my point is I have always found them to be very nurturing generous and caring.
They always bring me lots of yummy home made food to eat.
The Aussie women never do this. They won’t even give you a chip. Lol!
The wog women are pretty generous too but the Asian women are the best.
Maybe I have just been lucky and been with the nice ones or they are generally all like that.
I don’t know.

Nice words. Rooter you can also tell by the way women brong up children. Aussie women as the stereotype shputing at their kids as the mother chats to her friends on the phone, and watches TV
Asian mum living her life through her children, loving them without limit, and pushing them to be good and to study

[hyperultra]

Thank you.
It did take me 5 years to heal.
Seeing my kids every fortnight does help a lot.

I can't understand why mum's would not let their kids see their dad's. This is the biggest issue for separated dad's. The only thing I can think of is more child support.

Hope you have a good outcome.

They are abusing their children through forced parental separation and neglect

[CunningLinguist]

I can't understand why mum's would not let their kids see their dad's. This is the biggest issue for separated dad's. The only thing I can think of is more child support.


More child support and punishing the father.

[CunningLinguist]

The CHILD SUPPORT AGENCY are directly responsible for many male suicides in this country
They are the most vile repugnant aresholes on the planet
They are answerable to no one and ride roughshod over peoples lives

Sometimes they do good, but they can be manipulated by unscrupulous women usually. I'm not condoning it but I understand why some people (usually fathers) quit their job and work for cash or go overseas to avoid paying this ...

[liminal]

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[bigfatkilo]

There is old saying along the lines of "You can take a girl out of Asia, But you can't take Asia out of the girl".

From my own experiences, and those of many friends, any attempt at a long term relationship with a foreign born woman is fraught with danger, as they usually just cannot adapt to our cultures and eventually want to pack up and go back home.

They might be good for the first couple of years. after that it can be downhill.

From personal experience, this is true. Best bet is find an Australian Asian. Happy to live her, has some Asian values but mostly Western. But main thing is, has a cracker of a body that we all like. Although, all women get fat eventually, espeically on western diet.

[B2Brules]

Asian women are the best there is. In fact the only type of women worth spending time and money on.
Disappointing that most white girls are not even worth talking to - they are all stuffed up and politically correct.

[Macbeth_oz]

I will never marry again. There is a smorgasbord if attractive Asian women around. I prefer to borrow than to buy

[BuryYourDead]

Asian women are the best there is. In fact the only type of women worth spending time and money on.
Disappointing that most white girls are not even worth talking to - they are all stuffed up and politically correct.

You're preaching to the choir there mate.

[Raybo]

I will never marry again. There is a smorgasbord if attractive Asian women around. I prefer to borrow than to buy

"If it flies, floats or fucks, rent it, don't buy it"
Don't know where it originated, but I think it has been around for a long, long time and for good reason.

I wouldn't mind a nice boat though....

[cmk76]

From personal experience, this is true. Best bet is find an Australian Asian. Happy to live her, has some Asian values but mostly Western. But main thing is, has a cracker of a body that we all like. Although, all women get fat eventually, espeically on western diet.

Aus born Asians are too westernised... I'm pretty westernised for an Asian and don't find the local born that much attractive... Especially Queensland born Asian girls who speak the 'bogan' dialect... So hot... NOT...

I like the foreign Asian ladies with their accents, and broken English... It's what I find cute... Now excuse me while go play internet...

[CunningLinguist]

Aus born Asians are too westernised... I'm pretty westernised for an Asian and don't find the local born that much attractive... Especially Queensland born Asian girls who speak the 'bogan' dialect... So hot... NOT...

I like the foreign Asian ladies with their accents, and broken English... It's what I find cute... Now excuse me while go play internet...

Yeah some young aus born asians are just as stuck up a aussie/western girls.

[PervySage]

Yeah some young aus born asians are just as stuck up a aussie/western girls.

Aussie Born Asians too western... Asian born Asians culture too much to manage??...some guys seem confused.

I would take an Asian born Asian girl any day..

An ML or WL..that's a different story...answer could be a maybe.

[Climax598]

Asian born study here at high school and uni. You have both World.

[hyperultra]

No one has mentioned the most important rule:

Meet her mother. If she ages well and looks hot, thats a great start

[ninjatuna]

Aussie Born Asians too western... Asian born Asians culture too much to manage??...some guys seem confused.

I would take an Asian born Asian girl any day..

An ML or WL..that's a different story...answer could be a maybe.

Tbh, most Australian born Asians I know are more white than Caucasian lol. Some of them even reject n make fun of their culture/parents, don't like the food n refuse to speak the language. Idk why but Asian parents in oz seem to be scared of their children and I can tell you it's very different when you r born n bred in Asia. My dad rarely bought me what I asked for, he once hit me so hard my arm was bruised for weeks coz i didn't study n got bad score for an exam, he was like an animal 😂 but they get more relax as u get older.

[sydpunt]

Tbh, most Australian born Asians I know are more white than Caucasian lol. Some of them even reject n make fun of their culture/parents, don't like the food n refuse to speak the language. Idk why but Asian parents in oz seem to be scared of their children and I can tell you it's very different when you r born n bred in Asia. My dad rarely bought me what I asked for, he once hit me so hard my arm was bruised for weeks coz i didn't study n got bad score for an exam, he was like an animal 😂 but they get more relax as u get older.

Lol those ungrateful little shits, their parents could have left them in some village in asia scraping the ground. At the very least they should be grateful their parents came here

[PervySage]

Lol those ungrateful little shits, their parents could have left them in some village in asia scraping the ground. At the very least they should be grateful their parents came here

I find that Asian girls From Asia both are more feminine and also dress nicer.

Not sure maybe it's just MLs that I see but Asian girl really take care of their looks.

[CunningLinguist]

There could be a constant onslaught from her family to be more Thai/Chinese/whatever, and it will probably eventually turn her, especially if she lets herself go and you lose interest iin her :)