murphy
29-09-2019, 12:13 AM
Its taken me a while to know learn how to compartmentalise this punting pasttime, so it doesnt affect my mental status or finances
Do you also have strategies to keep this pasttime healthy and not create imbalance in your life?
A few good people on here are feeling the need to step back from punting and thats understandable
Often we start punting after hitting a tough period in our life. It can be full on as well, meeting different women who will make love no real questions asked, for money
But then afterwards you are supposed to switch off and go back to your everyday life
I had a difficult start in punting, in finding out how it could fit in my life. It wasnt cheap for me, I had a fair number of bills, and my private life and relationships were challenging
Ive come out the other side now, and one of the reasons I still enjoy punting is the strong sense that the quality of punting is improving. I talk about quality of service a lot, because its improving all the time now, and we are much more aware of what service we want to pay for
Punting lets me survive the quiet times when Im single, or the lonely times when I am stuck in a loveless relationship. It no doubt has stopped me from wasting many meaningless evenings on meaningless dates on dating sites, when really all I needed was good sex
It has also preserved significant relationships, which could have collapsed due to financial and other strains
Do you also have strategies to keep this pasttime healthy and not create imbalance in your life?
A few good people on here are feeling the need to step back from punting and thats understandable
Often we start punting after hitting a tough period in our life. It can be full on as well, meeting different women who will make love no real questions asked, for money
But then afterwards you are supposed to switch off and go back to your everyday life
I had a difficult start in punting, in finding out how it could fit in my life. It wasnt cheap for me, I had a fair number of bills, and my private life and relationships were challenging
Ive come out the other side now, and one of the reasons I still enjoy punting is the strong sense that the quality of punting is improving. I talk about quality of service a lot, because its improving all the time now, and we are much more aware of what service we want to pay for
Punting lets me survive the quiet times when Im single, or the lonely times when I am stuck in a loveless relationship. It no doubt has stopped me from wasting many meaningless evenings on meaningless dates on dating sites, when really all I needed was good sex
It has also preserved significant relationships, which could have collapsed due to financial and other strains